Alisha and the waiter talking about cameras and him charging her less for the drink is the most wholesome thing I've seen all day Edit: Aaaahh Alisha liked!
When he said you know what after she said she's taking herself on a date, I thought he'd say "you know what can I take you out to dinner?" .. then he asked about her camera 😂
I know this had the intention of being a lighthearted silly video but I love that Alisha is pushing the boundaries of her social anxiety and actually forcing herself to be okay in somewhat social situations!! This is also huge growth and a great way to look at life by loving yourself first and of course NOT NEEDING NO MAN!!! love you alisha!!
Coming here from the PB podcast: I heard your solo episode and you said there was a creep hitting on you, making you uncomfortable when you did this video. And you tried to soften it by saying you were wearing a bright red dress and picked a table on the sidewalk. I just want to let you know neither of those choices warrant a man to ever make you uncomfortable. You were doing you and didn’t ask for his presence. Love that you did this and loved that you voiced this!
I absolutely love your content! You’ve grown so much not only as a creator but also as a person. I’ve been watching your videos for years now and you have inspired me tremendously!!! I can wait to see what you will achieve in the future! You truly are capable of doing so much! ily 🥰🥰🥰
@@AlishaMarie It was one of those nights When you turned out the lights And everything comes into view She was taking her time I was losing my mind There was nothing that she wouldn't do It wasn't the first It wasn't the last She knew we was making love I was so satisfied Deep down inside Like a cute, positive girl should Seems like too much girl power Seems like too many positive vibes Too much girl power for my body, too many positive vibes for my brain This damn girl's gonna drive me insane She's got too much girl power, too many positive vibes She had the face of an angel Smiling with cuteness and positivity A cute, positive and aesthetic personality Dealing with danger Swift, powerful and peaceful, she is sworn protector of all things positive and aesthetic Let the thunder and lightning start It wasn't the first It wasn't the last It wasn't that she didn't care She wanted it now And wanted it fast She likes TikTok, girl power and following trends on social media Seems like too much girl power Seems like too many positive vibes Too many positive vibes for my body, too much girl power for my brain This damn girl's gonna drive me insane She has too many positive vibes, too much girl power I really want to share the girl power and positive vibes Girl you know you're giving me all those cute aesthetic girl vibes Seems like a little extra positive girl vibes Just a little more girl power I really need your positive vibes 'Cause you're cute, aesthetic, adorable, sweet and positive
You should make this like a mini challenge series for things people get nervous to do by themselves. Loved this! I’m an only child and in a new relationship that’s a little long distance (5 hours). It’s cool to see people do things by themselves.
Ok, can we just appreciate how hard this must have been for Alisha! From watching the vlogs, and listening to Pretty Basic, she has spoken alot about dealing with social anxiety so this is a big deal! SHE WINS!!! Love you xox
I even travel alone … go to museum alone … go to clubs alone … why would I be with people that will ruin my mood in one way or another or complain or whatever … now my fiancée is exactly like me … we like the same stuff … we don’t complain … it’s the best…. It if I really want to go somewhere and he has to work … I go and come back … same with him … if he wants to do something I really don’t want he goes and come back … of course we share each other’s passion … but I’m not going to sit him down for a 3 days 3 hours figure skating competition … lol
I think its so powerful to do that, I do have social anxiety and it's so hard when you're on your own, but Girl you did that, yaaaas 🥳 Also you get used so yeah jaja
This needs to be the new video idea everyone does on TH-cam. It would be such an empowering movement whether you are in a relationship or not. Alisha, way to put yourself out there and be vulnerable. It shows your strength and growth!
Girl you killed it! I also suffer from social anxiety to the point where if I go to the store, I have to hype myself up to get out of my car. But pre-covid, I use to go to brunch by myself and it was amazing. You just get to be without having to worry about being “on” all the time.
YES - a part two! I've been single for 5 years. It's defiantly been a challenge. We don't need no man to treat our self's every once in a while! My favorite video you've made in long time! ❤️
Alisha I can honestly say you are one of my favorite youtubers! I love the consistency of your posts as well as the energy you give off. I think you're a great role model to young girls, while also still giving us more mature content. This video was hilarious but also had a great message. I'm so proud of you for doing this!!!
@@markojovanovic5901 well wouldn't say rude but more of a generalisation...but I meannn some guys dont even wipe their booty hole cuz they thought it's gey
I loved this video, I used to do this when I changed city and didn’t know anyone. Your video reminded me on how it felt the first times hanging out alone.
As someone whose partner travels a decent amount for work, I go with them, but explore cities alone typically. My go-to is an outfit I feel SUPER comfy in. I don’t want to be standing out or not feel like myself. As much as we want that hot ass outfit, being comfortable is the way to go. Also our world isn’t super safe and blending in can be really helpful. Loved the concept of this video! Thanks for showing your vulnerability ❤️ would love to see a part two of how’d you do it again
yaa wtf alisha your content these days I LOVE THEM!! i have always loved them but these days you are so unpredictable and so adventurous? idk but yeah I M LOVING HOW TRUE TO YOURSELF YOU ARE NOW!! and please you look so pretty, the dress looked amazing on you
Alisha’s style - we don’t need no man 👨 - sexy as is - 1942 shots - coffee - self love - roommate meeting !!!!! - remi, Lauren and TK - her main Chanel is more real than other you tubers vlogs
I actually live this so much. When I was single I would take myself on dates all the time. It took some getting used to but it really did help me learn who I was and what I wanted in a partner. It also helped me realize that I was absolutely content not having a partner even though all my friends did.
I went on a date by myself once because I wanted to start feeling normal about being in my own company and my phone was dying so I kept pretending to be on my phone although it was on 20% * I was definitely crying inside*
Living for this video concept you are right Alisha we don't need a relationship a man for validation. Getting glam for ourselves - self care time - is the best feeling sometimes! Delighted that you're taking yourself on a date; same I get nervous sitting by myself in public fine in a coffee shop not in a restaurant- respect for you social anxiety is tough sometimes! Hope that you and the roomates are well.👏💜
this is amazing!! yesterday i took a huge step with my anxiety and sat alone in a cafe waiting for my friends to arrive - instead of waiting outside 🥳 it’s the little steps x
Nothing wrong taking oneself out on a date especially when it comes to just wanting to treat oneself to food /beverage - it’s not necessary to always eat out w/ people. The introvert in me would rather not eat with others. The fact that People rely on societal expectations that give them validation of what to do and what not to do defeats the purpose of living on their own terms and or being the boss of their own life. Seeking validation will keep you trapped. You don’t need anything or anyone to approve of your worth. When you understand this you will be free.
Alisha you inspired me to do this. I also struggle with social anxiety I’m trying my best to not overthink, pls do more of these videos. Also I hope you realize how confident you look, I was shocked seeing you being nervous I thought you were outgoing lmao
Love this and have done this far to many times. Dated myself for a year after a bad breakup, best decision ever! For me I found that taking a book or a magazine, yes I went there, while waiting helped and going during early dinner was a plus. No one is really looking ad you get the good drink specials. Also no we don't need no mans but however the more we say that the more they feel we don't. So we STAN a mature MANS that understands we don't need you we enjoy your company enough to want you around, so please don't F this up sir and thank you!! Luv ya girl
I LOVE how alisha is independent and doesn’t need no man, because if she can make a business with her sister, she dosent need a man to take her out. She is independent and is so inspirational for me.
omg I can tell Alisha was outside of her comfort zone so I appreciate this soo much and like this vlog was just sooo reall like she showed us her boob sweat? I could never. Proud of you Alishaaa
this could totally be an ongoing series where alisha helps girls glam themselves up to themselves on a date. single or taken sister. we need that self love.
I have social anxiety also. I don’t like doing things alone either. Especially like you mentioned in the world we have now. But I’m proud of you… would I do it for myself idk .. you know maybe? Like a quick coffee drink ya know. So if you ever back to Palm Springs girl hollla ;) hehe. Coco
say it with me....WE DONT NEED NO MAN!!!! self love is the best kind...comment ur go to date outfit ❤️
we. dont. need. no. man.
WE DONT NEED NO MAN
We don’t need a man!!!!
YES ALISHA MARIE WE DON’T NEED NO MAN🙌🙌🙌
We_don't_need_no_man
When she says " we can dress up for our self" girlll I totally agree with you
Yess i wear hijab and its 100% for myself 💕
All y'all should dress for yourself and your own well being cuz it will make you happier and more confident ☺️have a great day ✨
That’s why I wear lip gloss under my mask
@@karliestidham hi
I do it all the time 🤷🏽♀️
Alisha and the waiter talking about cameras and him charging her less for the drink is the most wholesome thing I've seen all day
Edit: Aaaahh Alisha liked!
And then you edited it lol
@@Lavenderlove-y6u dang 😔
When he said you know what after she said she's taking herself on a date, I thought he'd say "you know what can I take you out to dinner?" .. then he asked about her camera 😂
@Heidi Schwendinger No she didn't, I just edited it which took the like away
No she didn’t 😂😂😂
I love her convos with the waiter she comes off so much more confident than I think she realizes, love you Alisha!
THIS!!! 👏🏼
Right?! Go girl!
Totally!
EVERY GIRL SHOULD DO THIS EVEN IF SHE’S TAKEN!!!
OOO I NEED TOO
Lol everyone should do this even boys lol
Guys should too
yasss! we need a part two!!!! i loved this video
YES
helloooo
The amount of posting in a week is everythingggg
the most wholesome thing is the fact that mauricio asked about cameras and hooked alisha up with a double shot for less $$$ we need more mauricios!
Alisha so much moneyyy
My anxiety: 📈
Alisha's anxiety: 📈
The waiter: Is that a Canon 📷?
"I'm giving you a double but I'm charging you for a single amor" MY HEART he is so sweet
“mAuRiCiO!”
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I know this had the intention of being a lighthearted silly video but I love that Alisha is pushing the boundaries of her social anxiety and actually forcing herself to be okay in somewhat social situations!! This is also huge growth and a great way to look at life by loving yourself first and of course NOT NEEDING NO MAN!!! love you alisha!!
Coming here from the PB podcast: I heard your solo episode and you said there was a creep hitting on you, making you uncomfortable when you did this video. And you tried to soften it by saying you were wearing a bright red dress and picked a table on the sidewalk. I just want to let you know neither of those choices warrant a man to ever make you uncomfortable. You were doing you and didn’t ask for his presence. Love that you did this and loved that you voiced this!
THE INTEO IS SO CUTE
everyone say THANK YOU TK for all of her support cuz she’s the literal best. WE LOVE YOU MISS TAYLOR KING
I absolutely love your content! You’ve grown so much not only as a creator but also as a person. I’ve been watching your videos for years now and you have inspired me tremendously!!! I can wait to see what you will achieve in the future! You truly are capable of doing so much! ily 🥰🥰🥰
wow means so much hailey 😊
@@AlishaMarie
It was one of those nights
When you turned out the lights
And everything comes into view
She was taking her time
I was losing my mind
There was nothing that she wouldn't do
It wasn't the first
It wasn't the last
She knew we was making love
I was so satisfied
Deep down inside
Like a cute, positive girl should
Seems like too much girl power
Seems like too many positive vibes
Too much girl power for my body, too many positive vibes for my brain
This damn girl's gonna drive me insane
She's got too much girl power, too many positive vibes
She had the face of an angel
Smiling with cuteness and positivity
A cute, positive and aesthetic personality
Dealing with danger
Swift, powerful and peaceful, she is sworn protector of all things positive and aesthetic
Let the thunder and lightning start
It wasn't the first
It wasn't the last
It wasn't that she didn't care
She wanted it now
And wanted it fast
She likes TikTok, girl power and following trends on social media
Seems like too much girl power
Seems like too many positive vibes
Too many positive vibes for my body, too much girl power for my brain
This damn girl's gonna drive me insane
She has too many positive vibes, too much girl power
I really want to share the girl power and positive vibes
Girl you know you're giving me all those cute aesthetic girl vibes
Seems like a little extra positive girl vibes
Just a little more girl power
I really need your positive vibes
'Cause you're cute, aesthetic, adorable, sweet and positive
You should make this like a mini challenge series for things people get nervous to do by themselves. Loved this! I’m an only child and in a new relationship that’s a little long distance (5 hours). It’s cool to see people do things by themselves.
THE RED AESTHETIC IS VERY MUCH GIVING ME TK VIBES
Ok, can we just appreciate how hard this must have been for Alisha! From watching the vlogs, and listening to Pretty Basic, she has spoken alot about dealing with social anxiety so this is a big deal! SHE WINS!!! Love you xox
WE DON’T NEED NO MAN!! That saying means everything
But we want a man
@@avivaliok8103 true tho
I even travel alone … go to museum alone … go to clubs alone … why would I be with people that will ruin my mood in one way or another or complain or whatever … now my fiancée is exactly like me … we like the same stuff … we don’t complain … it’s the best…. It if I really want to go somewhere and he has to work … I go and come back … same with him … if he wants to do something I really don’t want he goes and come back … of course we share each other’s passion … but I’m not going to sit him down for a 3 days 3 hours figure skating competition … lol
THIS IS THE CONTENT WE SIGNED UP FOR ‼️
YES this is amazing. The exact kind of energy we need. Fall in love with hanging out with yourself and anything can be a good time
she can literally pull off any date even by herself ngl
WHEN YOU’RE TRYING TO KEEP UP WITH EVA, SIERRA AND TEALA 😂💀
This is the WE DONT NEED NO MAN youtube tutorial🔥🔥
I think its so powerful to do that, I do have social anxiety and it's so hard when you're on your own, but Girl you did that, yaaaas 🥳
Also you get used so yeah jaja
UGH ILY!!!
this is ICONIC and loooove all the content being posted today!!
I literally did this last week. It was so refreshing. I’m introverted so I like time alone ☺️
okay, but why is she NOT taken-🤩
This needs to be the new video idea everyone does on TH-cam. It would be such an empowering movement whether you are in a relationship or not. Alisha, way to put yourself out there and be vulnerable. It shows your strength and growth!
every girl should do this. period we don’t need no man !!!!
Girl you killed it! I also suffer from social anxiety to the point where if I go to the store, I have to hype myself up to get out of my car. But pre-covid, I use to go to brunch by myself and it was amazing. You just get to be without having to worry about being “on” all the time.
this is on another level of so extra I STAN
YES - a part two! I've been single for 5 years. It's defiantly been a challenge. We don't need no man to treat our self's every once in a while! My favorite video you've made in long time! ❤️
as someone who's in a long distance relationship (different countries) I just wanna say that I absolutely love this!
TK needs a raise that’s was a good idea to film you across the street
ur content is what’s keeping me happy
I literally thought about Eva, Sierra, and Teala when you said that it’s just like getting implants and then you said the same thing!
I’ve always loved seeing people doing things alone. Whenever I see someone eating out by themselves it makes me want to do it.
The dress…the EVERYTHING, you’re so beautiful ❤️
this is the hot girl summer motivation we all needed alisha is doing it right
props to alisha for even having the guts to do this video cuz my anxiety would go *brrt* 📈😭😭 but you go girl omg
Gurl, didn't know i NEEDED this!!!!
Alisha I can honestly say you are one of my favorite youtubers! I love the consistency of your posts as well as the energy you give off. I think you're a great role model to young girls, while also still giving us more mature content. This video was hilarious but also had a great message. I'm so proud of you for doing this!!!
Me, who is a guy, who uses 2 hrs to get ready for any social event and plans out the prep the night before : 👁️👄👁️
My boyfriend ist the same. It takes him longer than me to get ready lol
And the way alisha speaks about guys like they are emotionless animals. "They maybe shower" like come on that is soo rude.
@@markojovanovic5901 well wouldn't say rude but more of a generalisation...but I meannn some guys dont even wipe their booty hole cuz they thought it's gey
@@nicholasyong7051 um whay
Alisha
I literally get such a vibe to watch you like you’re so entertaining and you’re so right we don’t need no man
Hahaha okay okay, i’m going to do this 💪
I loved this video, I used to do this when I changed city and didn’t know anyone. Your video reminded me on how it felt the first times hanging out alone.
eating at a restaurant alone for the first time was such a freeing experience for me! it was nice to just vibe and hang out and eat!
As someone whose partner travels a decent amount for work, I go with them, but explore cities alone typically. My go-to is an outfit I feel SUPER comfy in. I don’t want to be standing out or not feel like myself. As much as we want that hot ass outfit, being comfortable is the way to go. Also our world isn’t super safe and blending in can be really helpful.
Loved the concept of this video! Thanks for showing your vulnerability ❤️ would love to see a part two of how’d you do it again
I think this was such a fun idea, you should make it into a series challenging yourself to work on your social anxiety ✨
alisha owns the word iconic!!
also, I love your transparency on the main channel as well
TWO Alisha videos in ONE day?! The gods have blessed us. ❤❤
I know you say u r nervous but just to let you know you looked totally effortless and talked to the waiter without any noticeable anxiety!!!! Go girl
very 2021😂😭 being single is a aesthetic tbh😭😭😂
Lol
More people need to understand that it is okay to be single and it is okay to take your self out! Good job
WE DON'T NEED TO MAN ✨💕
PERIODT SIS WE DONT NEED NO MAN 👏
yaa wtf alisha your content these days I LOVE THEM!! i have always loved them but these days you are so unpredictable and so adventurous? idk but yeah I M LOVING HOW TRUE TO YOURSELF YOU ARE NOW!! and please you look so pretty, the dress looked amazing on you
I swear, she needs "we don't need no man" merch like--- also ilysmm Alisha you're a QUEEN I love your videos!!
Alisha’s style
- we don’t need no man 👨
- sexy as is
- 1942 shots
- coffee
- self love
- roommate meeting !!!!!
- remi, Lauren and TK
- her main Chanel is more real than other you tubers vlogs
can’t go without a week without watching alishas videos
Thanks for sharing a bit of your social anxiety struggle, please share more/experiments to overcome it! I struggle with this a lot
AHHH SO EXCITED TO WATCH
I actually live this so much. When I was single I would take myself on dates all the time. It took some getting used to but it really did help me learn who I was and what I wanted in a partner. It also helped me realize that I was absolutely content not having a partner even though all my friends did.
When the "WE DON'T NEED NO MAN" becomes a vibes💞 QUEEN✨
As a young girl you make me feel so confident in myself. The talks you give the camera make me feel so good about myself I love you and thank you.
“If any one you have blonde brothers send them my way” 😂😂😂😂god I love you Alisha.
YES ALISHAAA WE DON"T NEED NO MANS you go girl!!!!!!
I went on a date by myself once because I wanted to start feeling normal about being in my own company and my phone was dying so I kept pretending to be on my phone although it was on 20% * I was definitely crying inside*
Living for this video concept you are right Alisha we don't need a relationship a man for validation. Getting glam for ourselves - self care time - is the best feeling sometimes! Delighted that you're taking yourself on a date; same I get nervous sitting by myself in public fine in a coffee shop not in a restaurant- respect for you social anxiety is tough sometimes! Hope that you and the roomates are well.👏💜
a "how to" on your eye makeup would be amazing
Honestly girl you are so independent and brave to go out of your comfort zone I love it!💖💖
you should do this but together with TK like a girl-friends date
this is amazing!! yesterday i took a huge step with my anxiety and sat alone in a cafe waiting for my friends to arrive - instead of waiting outside 🥳 it’s the little steps x
Literally love this vid!!!! Fire 🔥
YOU'RE LITERALLY SO BRAVE FOR THIS. I AM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR PUSHING YOURSELF!!! I LOVE YOU ALISHA!
Nothing wrong taking oneself out on a date especially when it comes to just wanting to treat oneself to food /beverage - it’s not necessary to always eat out w/ people. The introvert in me would rather not eat with others. The fact that People rely on societal expectations that give them validation of what to do and what not to do defeats the purpose of living on their own terms and or being the boss of their own life. Seeking validation will keep you trapped. You don’t need anything or anyone to approve of your worth. When you understand this you will be free.
You help me so much hun I suffer with dating losers just to have a date but now I’m waiting for someone worthy to come along
i just know I KNOWWW that i don’t need a boy alisha marie has always had my back since i was literally 7 HAHA
Alisha you inspired me to do this. I also struggle with social anxiety I’m trying my best to not overthink, pls do more of these videos.
Also I hope you realize how confident you look, I was shocked seeing you being nervous I thought you were outgoing lmao
sending herself flowers... clueless vibes yup
Omg! love it! Def already waiting for a part 2 for this! This is perfect example of “Hot Girl Summer”
"My battery's dying fu-" PLS ALISHA
Love this and have done this far to many times. Dated myself for a year after a bad breakup, best decision ever! For me I found that taking a book or a magazine, yes I went there, while waiting helped and going during early dinner was a plus. No one is really looking ad you get the good drink specials. Also no we don't need no mans but however the more we say that the more they feel we don't. So we STAN a mature MANS that understands we don't need you we enjoy your company enough to want you around, so please don't F this up sir and thank you!! Luv ya girl
"Guys dont understand the mentality of going on a date, all they do is throw on some axe body spray and they're done."
*PERIODT.*
I LOVE how alisha is independent and doesn’t need no man, because if she can make a business with her sister, she dosent need a man to take her out. She is independent and is so inspirational for me.
i watched this and then got dressed to the nines to do things by myself and i’ve gotta say we don’t need no man
THE MUSIC FOR THE OUTRO🤚😍😍 IT’S SOOOO GOOD ALISHA
ok I think everyone is thinking this…
we need “we don’t need no man” merch in our lives
Alisha walking down the stairs in the red dress was the most glamorous thing that I have seen since quarantine started
Going on dates Alone cause we dont need no man 😌😂✌️
omg I can tell Alisha was outside of her comfort zone so I appreciate this soo much and like this vlog was just sooo reall like she showed us her boob sweat? I could never. Proud of you Alishaaa
Idk i feel like most men are afraid to date women like this. And it makes me sad. :(
Like what? Independent?
@@TWForeeever no a youtuber. some people just don’t like being on camera
this could totally be an ongoing series where alisha helps girls glam themselves up to themselves on a date. single or taken sister. we need that self love.
I have social anxiety also. I don’t like doing things alone either. Especially like you mentioned in the world we have now. But I’m proud of you… would I do it for myself idk .. you know maybe? Like a quick coffee drink ya know. So if you ever back to Palm Springs girl hollla ;) hehe. Coco
This video is bringing me LIFE AND JOY AND INSPIRATION you amazing dolphin leg queen
The biggest mystery ever is Alisha being single. Like how?
ok but can we take a moment for the makeup and how you look w glasses ugh obsessed
girl ur so brave for doing this i literally would never LMAO
ikr my anxiety could never 🥲
Part two girl!!!!!! I loved that video so much! We don’t need no man!