My Filipina works at a call center. All she ever has asked is what I have always been happy to do. I’m renting my space very close to her office so she can walk 5 minutes to work. It saves her 2 hours each direction of the train, jeepny, moto, routine every evening to get to work, and return every morning. That and keeping the fridge full, paying for our dates and when we travel. It lets her use her wages any way she needs to, wants to without 4 hours of commuting and she always has her routine of supporting her parents, and paying her mortgage. I also help with the small projects, maintenance of her home.. She was independent but struggling with her time and eating healthy meals. Now, she gets off work, walks 5 minutes and can rest, and always have a fridge of any food we want.. it works for us..
@@mariop.3054 yes, she is awesome. I’m a lucky man, and she gets me,,, very loyal n honest too. She knows how my income comes, and what i have saved. She want it to last my lifetime, not burn it up. Thanks Mariop
Im a 60 y.o. man. I guess my plan is going to be rather hard. 1 try to find a lady that is between 35 and 45 y.o, that is educated and is employed. 2. Once we are married, i would absolutely provide a wonderful life for her and her kids ( if any). That eould free up her invome to help her parents and family if she chooses. However, i would also try to explain to her that her family should be responsible for taking care of themselves. I would not fund a person to lay around and contribute nothing for his or her own well being. I would have no problem helping a family start a business to help them get going but after that, they are on thier own
I like what David Bond is recommending. To date girls that can support themself. One thing is to pay on date and give gifts. But date girls that can support themself with their life style.
Filipina with foreigner culture: Filipina is retired and stays home. The man basically adopted a grown person and it taking care of all her needs. What a life for a Filipina.
So, they are gonna be with you based on your looks and culture? Hehehehehe...I support my sugar baby, US$500 a month, cause she visits me three days a week and stays for four hours each visit and even cooks for me...this is the perfect arrangement for me...there is no attachment, no drama, no jealousy, no back stabbing and we agreed on it from the start...after one year of loyal and quality service I will build her parents a house...and if i show you a picture of her and her best girlfriend nude on my living room sofa you would be inspired to pay her an allowance also...the biggest risks come from not paying and fooling yourself into a lie...Don't be cheap...
One point and question.. You guys have two sets of rules for foreigners and Pinoys The TRUTH is.. If you are Pinoy they do not have all these rules.. They expect nothing..and a lot they give nothing..sometimes they cant..no work but its still a fact.. The passive avressive attitude that if youre foreign..you will pay because you are not first choice
Listen careful guys..Daisy is very sincere and doing a good deed to we foreigners or else why she give her precious time teaching us ...she is just giving tips and guidance to us from her experience but at the end we judge ourselves and decide our responsibilities..God bless her always Maraming Salamat Smart Girl just keep going and God reward you always
I guess I got lucky with my providence fiancé . I bought her and her family a refrigerator a few months back (she never asked for or said she needed one) once it was delivered her father called and said he wanted to return it , he said he didn’t raise his daughter to ask for things …after explaining that she never asked for it and it took me time to convince her to let me buy it for her he reluctantly agreed. Another thing her entire family has been at our property working to get the land ready to build our house and never once asked me or my fiancé for money
Another thing I was trying to send her a allowance to live on and she refuses it saying she doesn’t need anything and save it for our house we’re about to build
Early on I set boundries on money matters, the "I need x pesos for whatever" I complain, "they are grown up and need to budget their money, I'm not rich and etc.". I wait for awhile before I give an answer, then ask when I will be paid the money back? My limit is 2 months. Then more time, 1 to 2 weeks for approval. BTW my limit is 10k peso. I am not their ATM. It is easy to want to help because the folks here have very little but it is unwise to risk your own financial future, one goes broke he can't help anyone.
Daisy you are a gem among the stones, intelligent, brilliant, kind, understanding, hardworking, a wealth of knowledge about a lot of things there, and it doesn't hurt that you are such a lovely lady too. May God bless and keep you. Any decent and gentlemanly man would be lucky to have you for a gf or wife if he was so blessed as to have that opportunity. I truly hope you find the one who lights the passion and enduring flame of love in your heart and fills your heart to over flowing with a love that lasts a life time from him too. There are those who are rich in materialistic things, then there are those who are simply a treasure to behold and of unending wealth of rewards to know. You are one of them, cheers and have a wonderful day Daisy.
Summary: Step 1. Be an ATM. Step 2. Give her money so she can look good and "save face" in front of her family and cover their "emergency" expenses. Step 3. Give money slowly on big items (like building a house), but continue to give. Any questions..? See Step 1. For myself.. I would frankly ask "what am I getting in return..?" And the answer had better be "anything you want, whenever you want it".
It all boils down to communication and clear expectations. Never send money to a penpal/chatmate. You have to meet someone and spent time with them to establish a relationship. You will find there are many good ones out there too, you will just have to look for them.
You make some good, valid points, but one thing you never hear Filipino vloggers discuss are the cultural expectations & obligations for a Filipino partner. In my personal experience, they don't match up to the expectations placed on foreigners. Often, that expectation has been $0. I don't think it's wrong for me to say that most foreigners are seen as a cash cow (walking ATM). Foreigner = rich, is how many Filipinos see us and If you tell them you're on a limited budget, it's met with disbelief and sometimes even called out as a lie, or they just think you're being 'cheap'.
I'm dating a filipina who lives here in the UK. She sends lots of money home to her family every month, but also seems to pay for things that are not absolutely necessary for them to have. All of their bills, a big family car (fairly expensive) and related costs, a few gifts, and also a big and expensive box of gifts, on the occasions that she visits them. I wouldn't mind this, but for three reasons; 1 It's started impacting our relationship. She's recently cancelled a weekend break and one or two dates, so she can pay for their car insurance (even though I offered to pay half of it). 2 I'm worried she's sending too much home, and will end up extremely poorly off in a few years. She's not saving anything. 3 surely her relatives now have enough to try and set themselves up with a decent job, or even start a decent business? Why do they pay for absolutely nothing? BTW I'm not giving any of my earnings to my filipina yet. She has never asked for that and seems like a truly lovely and pure hearted woman, who doesn't look at my money. But I'm also getting tired of the situation and worried it's not for me.
😂 My is only begging for my BWC.. if I don't give her anything, she would never complain, guess it's because I'm young too and she loves me, not my money, I bet the age gab is your guys problem most of the time, choose an 28+ an your fine
Read all the comments. I love the whyte board, but agree with leaving covered points uncovered. Where looks count, you are a 10+. And I love the shorter hair. That is because I'm old and my filipina has longer hair. She keeps telling me to get my hair cut, so I say same to her. Gets very stubborn about it. I love your looks, I guess from Bohol? Anyway, keep up with channel as you will get better., AND I love watching you. Guess that makes me DOM? HaHaHa.
Hi Daisy. I only discovered your channel a few days ago and subscribed within 24 hours. I like Reine's enthusiasm but to be honest, I prefer your approach because you will go deeper into a subject to give the best explanations of "why" for that topic. I appreciate that. Don't worry about people commenting that you say "like" too often. As an expat who has fought a losing battle to learn Tagalog, I know how second languages that are very different from your mother tongue can be challenging and that you are probably trying to come up with the right word when you say "like." Not an issue for me because I think your English is quite good and easy to understand (although I do believe you meant to say "ten thousand pesos").😏 Anyway, keep up the good work and I look forward to more videos from you in the future.👍
you are the best. I spent 3 weeks in BGC - hotel living and lifting weights every day at Fitness First. best vacation. will be there in Sept, Dec, and Jan. Next June, 6 months there and 6 months in Hawaii. you folks are in Cebu, right? visiting Cebu may be an option....
Giving her money, that depends. If she already owns a business I would never discourage her from working if that's what she wants. If she wants to own a business of her own I would encourage her and help her succeed. If she wants to be a house wife, then we talk about how much.
Thanks for your input. Filipinas with good education here in the Philippines has better jobs, better salaries and better life. They are able to support their families and her own needs. In other words, they are responsible, smart and not dependent on anyone. Sorry to break it to you too. 😊
I met my ex wife in a KTV in Shanghai. At the divorce, i had to pay several 100's of thousands of dollars cash because i took her away from a promising career as a KTV hostess. I love USA courts. I deserved it as i am a sucker for youth and beauty...
That's what I'm thinking now. Everytime I start to talk to one about a relationship they lie about not having kids when they do or lie about something else.
As we see, the metropolitan areas of the Philippines are becoming more and more Westernized. Not sure why it's hard for men to meet women here. Carry yourself with confidence and you'll get many smiles and glances when you go out. Even as an older man, I see a lot of interest, but more and more we're becoming invisible like back in the states. I've always been more attracted to Filipinas then other women, maybe they feel that on some level.
Better and better. You're doing a great job and providing relevant info👍👍 Ignore the detractors for the most part. 🦀 Some may have valid points but most are just 🦀🦀 trying to pull you down.
Guys looking at Philippines: I need a "traditional woman" with "traditional family values!" Also guys looking at Philippines: "Money?? What?? Support the traditional woman in the "traditional" way??? OMG, Oh Hell no!!! Gold digger!! I'm going to (insert another Asian country) to find a TRADITIONAL woman!" You take care of her... she takes care of you. GOOD Filipina's know how to take care of their men. She'll do her part.
Are there any foreighners that are expected to take her whole family to US ? I would tell her....good bye. We go there to find a wife, not a wife + all the family.
I didn't realize being with a Filipina is so complicated.... I think you just scared the hell out of 75% of all foreign men .. To stay the hell away from the Philippines.. 😂😂😂😂 Whatever happened to the good old days... When a guy would give her dad a goat.. done deal 🥰🥰🥰
No dude, the dad would give YOU the goat because everyone knew that women are a liability rather than an appreciating asset. It was called the dowry. With any Filipina, I always make sure to mention the seven goats, two horses, cow, and fifty chickens I expect to receive from her father/family as the customary dowry for the honor and privilege of my hand in marriage. 😂🤣😅
Great video you had a lot of points on dealing with now Beyonce was working at Saudi Arabia's a nurse I told her to sign another contract so essentially I destroyed her income of course I will support she even though she doesn't ask for anything we will be married at the end of August in Tacloban
I never tell anyone how much I make bcuz I don't want to influence a woman either way. If she doesn't know how much you make, and she still loves you, it's more than likely she really loves you. If you tell her you're making a lot of money, chances are you're going to attract a gold digger.
I think this is where this channel contradicts itself. In one of the videos they posted they said to date a young Filipina because they don't have any baggage BUT their family becomes someone else's burden and if you don't help their family then there's gonna be issues. Yes, in the toxic filipino culture, 101 children are here to ease the burden on their parents by being a cash cow. Now let me be clear here there is NOTHING wrong with helping your own family, BUT you can't for f*ck sake obligate someone to help your family out when there's no legal binding. If your partner is able to help GREAT, if not, you aren't the position to throw an epic tantrum. Even in the Filipino culture, it's a red flag to demand that your boyfriend helps out your family financially. If you do this, the parents of your partner will never have a good impression of you. For those who lack skill when it comes to reading comprehension, my comment only applies to those "partners" who aren't married.
Daisy, what would I have to do to get a date with you? I'm not rich but I'm decent. I am vision. I will never ask you to pay for A. Will never force you to do something you don't want to do. I will be a gentleman to you. Please reply
On number 9....wrong. The way to do it is to let her know from the beginning that you will NOT give money to anyone but her and maybe her mother. Another option is to tell your Filipina: I am going to cover our expenses plus I will give you 10,000 or 15,000 extra every month (or whatever every you can give your woman), and it is YOUR responsibility to decide if you want to give anyone in your family out of what I give you. But I will not give anyone else any money.
I tell Filipinas I date I can send money on Chrismas and Birthdays for Immediate Family and for Extreme Circumstances but only if I can and they are respectful. I also demand she put me first and ultimately the family we are building first and if she can't do that there's no more talking. Give me the check goodbye.
I see a problem with parents expecting their kids to support them. That practice makes it difficult for the daughter usually to get herself out of poverty quite often. If the parents work long enough for their daughter to get established it would be much better. Otherwise you're perpetuating poverty.
You say the "Culture" is different in the Philippines than in America but women in the Philippines are starting to cut their hair short like women in America. And women in the Philippines are starting to use words like "creepy" and "delusional" just like the women in America. So, you are wrong with #1 Culture differences since Filipinas are starting to lose their desired culture of long hair and feminine style.
I’m so sorry that your definition of “culture” doesn’t match with mine. You are entitled with you own opinion so as I. My great grand mother cuts her hair short too and I don’t see and look at her as loosing her femininity. Culture to me is way of life, values, habits and traditions. Many other Asian countries have women cut their hair short as their “preference” not because they are influenced by Western countries. I see and look at it on a bigger perspective at least.
Love your content, very thoughtful. I would like to ask that you not to cover up the boxes after you’ve revealed them. Covering them back up doesn’t add to your presentation only makes it more difficult to see the whole picture.
DEAR LADY, WHY DO YOU REFER TO THE USA, AUSTRALIA, BRITISH OR CANADA? WE EUROPEANS HAVE BEEN OMITTED. PARTICULARLY SOUTH EUROPEANS. WE HAVE SIMILAR IDEAS TO THE FILIPINOS. THANKS FOR YOUR VIDEO. BY THE WAY, YOU DESERVE A VERY EDUCATED FOREIGNER MAYBE SOMEONE LIKE ME. PROFESSOR MICHAELS
All the podcasts who say give an allowance for local women there is a big turnoff. The Filipinos I've dated are independent, have a job make their own money, these lazy ones who are looking for handouts can keep dreaming.
Well if your a tight wad, Scrooge, penny pincher best to stay out of 3rd world countries and leave those beautiful young girls alone!! 😮😮 If your financially secure, understanding, generous, patient with the ability to teach (and you will be teaching lol) Then get over there meet a good girl you wont regret it! Currently have 4 Filipina in my family with no complaints here ! Imigration is not cheap or quick (for us that do it LEGALLY) 😢
a 33 minute video that could have been 1 minute. Dating Filipina *not* worth it unless you find diamond in the rough where she and her family are not constantly asking for financial help. Period. End of story.
Nice video 1 suggestion would be Stop all the UMMM AHHH's when your mind is stalled and you need time to think, it is not fluid and smooth sounding. Also over use of the word LIKE again a stall tactic and not fluid smooth speech. I realize English is not your first language but with a Masters Degree you said you have you must know those are speech flaws. As to the content one observation is most ladies I know only have unrealistic goals such as they are going to get a good job "someday" but with no education other limited school and the street many continue to freelance
@@SmartGirlPhilippines not about perfection but professing to be professional comes with expectations. The Filipina people is not perfect but dos not say 200 times the word Like such as in an old Valley Girl movie in California. LIke this you know Like wow right Like so Cool Like ya know LOL
It was very interesting. Like, I think it’s useful like, like I think somebody could do something with this like you never know, like it’s very interesting like. Stop saying like so much
@@JamesHickman-g5c cute compared to what? she is a proper professional looking person but not a hottie in my opinion. Reine I would score as a 7 once her teeth are done and the braces off. I see lots of 7's but prefer the 8's and 9's even if they do cost me more.
@@joesedlacek8132 Cute, means attractive, not necessarily a 10, though. When a woman has a lot of 'beta orbiters,' which she keeps in the friend zone, she tends to overvalue herself. There are no shortage of $1mP foreigners in the Philippines.
My Filipina works at a call center. All she ever has asked is what I have always been happy to do. I’m renting my space very close to her office so she can walk 5 minutes to work. It saves her 2 hours each direction of the train, jeepny, moto, routine every evening to get to work, and return every morning. That and keeping the fridge full, paying for our dates and when we travel. It lets her use her wages any way she needs to, wants to without 4 hours of commuting and she always has her routine of supporting her parents, and paying her mortgage. I also help with the small projects, maintenance of her home.. She was independent but struggling with her time and eating healthy meals. Now, she gets off work, walks 5 minutes and can rest, and always have a fridge of any food we want.. it works for us..
You found a good one
@@mariop.3054 yes, she is awesome. I’m a lucky man, and she gets me,,, very loyal n honest too. She knows how my income comes, and what i have saved. She want it to last my lifetime, not burn it up. Thanks Mariop
Im a 60 y.o. man. I guess my plan is going to be rather hard. 1 try to find a lady that is between 35 and 45 y.o, that is educated and is employed. 2. Once we are married, i would absolutely provide a wonderful life for her and her kids ( if any). That eould free up her invome to help her parents and family if she chooses. However, i would also try to explain to her that her family should be responsible for taking care of themselves. I would not fund a person to lay around and contribute nothing for his or her own well being. I would have no problem helping a family start a business to help them get going but after that, they are on thier own
thanks very good info
I like what David Bond is recommending. To date girls that can support themself. One thing is to pay on date and give gifts. But date girls that can support themself with their life style.
Filipina with foreigner culture: Filipina is retired and stays home. The man basically adopted a grown person and it taking care of all her needs. What a life for a Filipina.
I know one that is banking 200k a year from these clowns
Financial support for a Filipina explained in three seconds:
No cohabitation, no marriage, no support!
you got it man no F way i will give money
So, they are gonna be with you based on your looks and culture? Hehehehehe...I support my sugar baby, US$500 a month, cause she visits me three days a week and stays for four hours each visit and even cooks for me...this is the perfect arrangement for me...there is no attachment, no drama, no jealousy, no back stabbing and we agreed on it from the start...after one year of loyal and quality service I will build her parents a house...and if i show you a picture of her and her best girlfriend nude on my living room sofa you would be inspired to pay her an allowance also...the biggest risks come from not paying and fooling yourself into a lie...Don't be cheap...
One point and question..
You guys have two sets of rules for foreigners and Pinoys
The TRUTH is.. If you are Pinoy they do not have all these rules..
They expect nothing..and a lot they give nothing..sometimes they cant..no work but its still a fact..
The passive avressive attitude that if youre foreign..you will pay because you are not first choice
No money, no honey - they used to tell us that when I was deployed there many times. Hahahaha!
The most important video for any foreigner to understand BEFORE committing to a relationship.
Listen careful guys..Daisy is very sincere and doing a good deed to we foreigners or else why she give her precious time teaching us ...she is just giving tips and guidance to us from her experience but at the end we judge ourselves and decide our responsibilities..God bless her always Maraming Salamat Smart Girl just keep going and God reward you always
Paying for their service is a lot cheaper than getting involved in a relationship 😋
If not live as far away from her family as possible
It’s also preventing you from the hassle of a relationship
Show these videos to your filipino guy friends and watch them Crack up.
I guess I got lucky with my providence fiancé . I bought her and her family a refrigerator a few months back (she never asked for or said she needed one) once it was delivered her father called and said he wanted to return it , he said he didn’t raise his daughter to ask for things …after explaining that she never asked for it and it took me time to convince her to let me buy it for her he reluctantly agreed. Another thing her entire family has been at our property working to get the land ready to build our house and never once asked me or my fiancé for money
Another thing I was trying to send her a allowance to live on and she refuses it saying she doesn’t need anything and save it for our house we’re about to build
Any sisters 😊
@@silvercollector434 God bless you, you got lucky, congratulations to you both for meeting each other's right one.
Yes, no money, no funny, it's a crucial. That's the way of filipina loving. Love is just a lie without money. Good luck.
Early on I set boundries on money matters, the "I need x pesos for whatever" I complain, "they are grown up and need to budget their money, I'm not rich and etc.". I wait for awhile before I give an answer, then ask when I will be paid the money back? My limit is 2 months. Then more time, 1 to 2 weeks for approval. BTW my limit is 10k peso. I am not their ATM. It is easy to want to help because the folks here have very little but it is unwise to risk your own financial future, one goes broke he can't help anyone.
Daisy, you are doing a GREAT job. Keep up the good work and thank you!
She is Also beautiful and smart woman
Daisy you are a gem among the stones, intelligent, brilliant, kind, understanding, hardworking, a wealth of knowledge about a lot of things there, and it doesn't hurt that you are such a lovely lady too. May God bless and keep you. Any decent and gentlemanly man would be lucky to have you for a gf or wife if he was so blessed as to have that opportunity. I truly hope you find the one who lights the passion and enduring flame of love in your heart and fills your heart to over flowing with a love that lasts a life time from him too. There are those who are rich in materialistic things, then there are those who are simply a treasure to behold and of unending wealth of rewards to know. You are one of them, cheers and have a wonderful day Daisy.
Thanks for another awesome and informative video, Daisy😍
Summary:
Step 1. Be an ATM.
Step 2. Give her money so she can look good and "save face" in front of her family and cover their "emergency" expenses.
Step 3. Give money slowly on big items (like building a house), but continue to give. Any questions..? See Step 1.
For myself.. I would frankly ask "what am I getting in return..?" And the answer had better be "anything you want, whenever you want it".
It all boils down to communication and clear expectations. Never send money to a penpal/chatmate. You have to meet someone and spent time with them to establish a relationship. You will find there are many good ones out there too, you will just have to look for them.
I hope you are right.... there's gotta be good ones
You make some good, valid points, but one thing you never hear Filipino vloggers discuss are the cultural expectations & obligations for a Filipino partner. In my personal experience, they don't match up to the expectations placed on foreigners. Often, that expectation has been $0. I don't think it's wrong for me to say that most foreigners are seen as a cash cow (walking ATM). Foreigner = rich, is how many Filipinos see us and If you tell them you're on a limited budget, it's met with disbelief and sometimes even called out as a lie, or they just think you're being 'cheap'.
I'm dating a filipina who lives here in the UK. She sends lots of money home to her family every month, but also seems to pay for things that are not absolutely necessary for them to have. All of their bills, a big family car (fairly expensive) and related costs, a few gifts, and also a big and expensive box of gifts, on the occasions that she visits them.
I wouldn't mind this, but for three reasons;
1 It's started impacting our relationship. She's recently cancelled a weekend break and one or two dates, so she can pay for their car insurance (even though I offered to pay half of it).
2 I'm worried she's sending too much home, and will end up extremely poorly off in a few years. She's not saving anything.
3 surely her relatives now have enough to try and set themselves up with a decent job, or even start a decent business? Why do they pay for absolutely nothing?
BTW I'm not giving any of my earnings to my filipina yet. She has never asked for that and seems like a truly lovely and pure hearted woman, who doesn't look at my money. But I'm also getting tired of the situation and worried it's not for me.
My gf said she's going back to the KTV because I did not send money this month. Okay.
It is all YOUR fault ,, next will be message saying she thinks she might have ACCIDENTALLY got pregnant
😂
My is only begging for my BWC.. if I don't give her anything, she would never complain, guess it's because I'm young too and she loves me, not my money, I bet the age gab is your guys problem most of the time, choose an 28+ an your fine
Forgive my ignorance but what's KTV?
Read all the comments. I love the whyte board, but agree with leaving covered points uncovered. Where looks count, you are a 10+. And I love the shorter hair. That is because I'm old and my filipina has longer hair. She keeps telling me to get my hair cut, so I say same to her. Gets very stubborn about it. I love your looks, I guess from Bohol? Anyway, keep up with channel as you will get better., AND I love watching you. Guess that makes me DOM? HaHaHa.
Hi Daisy. I only discovered your channel a few days ago and subscribed within 24 hours. I like Reine's enthusiasm but to be honest, I prefer your approach because you will go deeper into a subject to give the best explanations of "why" for that topic. I appreciate that.
Don't worry about people commenting that you say "like" too often. As an expat who has fought a losing battle to learn Tagalog, I know how second languages that are very different from your mother tongue can be challenging and that you are probably trying to come up with the right word when you say "like." Not an issue for me because I think your English is quite good and easy to understand (although I do believe you meant to say "ten thousand pesos").😏
Anyway, keep up the good work and I look forward to more videos from you in the future.👍
Daisy is awsome
you are the best. I spent 3 weeks in BGC - hotel living and lifting weights every day at Fitness First. best vacation. will be there in Sept, Dec, and Jan. Next June, 6 months there and 6 months in Hawaii. you folks are in Cebu, right? visiting Cebu may be an option....
I love Fitness First! But it’s too far from my place. Anytime Fitness in Uptown is closer. Good to know you have the best vacation here in Ph! 😊
I really like Daisy a lot! I wouldn't get so lucky. She's very cute and has a lot of common sense. On top of that, she speaks English really well.
Daisy you look very maganda.
Giving her money, that depends. If she already owns a business I would never discourage her from working if that's what she wants. If she wants to own a business of her own I would encourage her and help her succeed. If she wants to be a house wife, then we talk about how much.
Run Forest! Run! 😅
Surely their good looks and charm is all the pinays need to support themselves and family.
😂 the family problems aren’t your problems unless they want your money. Got it
Daisy you are a very nice and smart Filipina, how I wish I can find a girl like you for long life relationship
Yes I would too. She is so beautiful and sweet ❤
I'm watching 👀you ❤️
A Filipina with a Masters is pretty much the same as an average American Female mindset. Sorry to break it to you. Have a nice day dear
Thanks for your input. Filipinas with good education here in the Philippines has better jobs, better salaries and better life. They are able to support their families and her own needs. In other words, they are responsible, smart and not dependent on anyone. Sorry to break it to you too. 😊
High ground in the Philippines for me. It's a bit cooler at higher elevations
I met my ex wife in a KTV in Shanghai. At the divorce, i had to pay several 100's of thousands of dollars cash because i took her away from a promising career as a KTV hostess. I love USA courts. I deserved it as i am a sucker for youth and beauty...
Stay single and never marry in the Philippines 🇵🇭
Yes! Have fun, if your paying might as well change girls when you get bored
That's what I'm thinking now. Everytime I start to talk to one about a relationship they lie about not having kids when they do or lie about something else.
As we see, the metropolitan areas of the Philippines are becoming more and more Westernized. Not sure why it's hard for men to meet women here. Carry yourself with confidence and you'll get many smiles and glances when you go out. Even as an older man, I see a lot of interest, but more and more we're becoming invisible like back in the states. I've always been more attracted to Filipinas then other women, maybe they feel that on some level.
No money = No Honey!
Ypure great ! ♥️
Its an age old story men. you have to buy your company one way or another .
$10K USD is what, $580K php. That's a lot of support.
I live in the Philippines..Huge mistake to marry here..Just date..its my final conclusion..its not how i started
U obviously have strong view on marriage in Philippines. Can u share your reasons for not marrying
In conclusion.....love is the side effect of financial transactions since everything always revolve around money in different ways
Daisy definitely puts the Smart in Smart Girl Philippines.
Better and better.
You're doing a great job and providing relevant info👍👍
Ignore the detractors for the most part. 🦀
Some may have valid points but most are just 🦀🦀 trying to pull you down.
Guys looking at Philippines: I need a "traditional woman" with "traditional family values!"
Also guys looking at Philippines: "Money?? What?? Support the traditional woman in the "traditional" way??? OMG, Oh Hell no!!! Gold digger!! I'm going to (insert another Asian country) to find a TRADITIONAL woman!"
You take care of her... she takes care of you. GOOD Filipina's know how to take care of their men. She'll do her part.
Are there any foreighners that are expected to take her whole family to US ? I would tell her....good bye. We go there to
find a wife, not a wife + all the family.
I didn't realize being with a Filipina is so complicated.... I think you just scared the hell out of 75% of all foreign men ..
To stay the hell away from the Philippines.. 😂😂😂😂
Whatever happened to the good old days... When a guy would give her dad a goat.. done deal 🥰🥰🥰
grow up and stop being delusional
@tomdaily-What century are you living in? 😂
No dude, the dad would give YOU the goat because everyone knew that women are a liability rather than an appreciating asset. It was called the dowry. With any Filipina, I always make sure to mention the seven goats, two horses, cow, and fifty chickens I expect to receive from her father/family as the customary dowry for the honor and privilege of my hand in marriage. 😂🤣😅
For a foreigner, is 60 too old to find a quality Filipina?
60 year old Filipina sounds great
29:46 show me the Filipino who gives 200 usd every month to his Girlfriend lol
No romance without finance
Great video you had a lot of points on dealing with now Beyonce was working at Saudi Arabia's a nurse I told her to sign another contract so essentially I destroyed her income of course I will support she even though she doesn't ask for anything we will be married at the end of August in Tacloban
I never tell anyone how much I make bcuz I don't want to influence a woman either way. If she doesn't know how much you make, and she still loves you, it's more than likely she really loves you. If you tell her you're making a lot of money, chances are you're going to attract a gold digger.
You would be a community ATM. Also they would want to borrow the money but never pay it back.
I think this is where this channel contradicts itself. In one of the videos they posted they said to date a young Filipina because they don't have any baggage BUT their family becomes someone else's burden and if you don't help their family then there's gonna be issues. Yes, in the toxic filipino culture, 101 children are here to ease the burden on their parents by being a cash cow. Now let me be clear here there is NOTHING wrong with helping your own family, BUT you can't for f*ck sake obligate someone to help your family out when there's no legal binding. If your partner is able to help GREAT, if not, you aren't the position to throw an epic tantrum. Even in the Filipino culture, it's a red flag to demand that your boyfriend helps out your family financially. If you do this, the parents of your partner will never have a good impression of you. For those who lack skill when it comes to reading comprehension, my comment only applies to those "partners" who aren't married.
Hi Daisy
Please leave off the fronts, for general summary understanding as we go?
The dream? Is to be a man from the Philippines 😂
Daisy, what would I have to do to get a date with you?
I'm not rich but I'm decent. I am vision. I will never ask you to pay for A. Will never force you to do something you don't want to do. I will be a gentleman to you. Please reply
On number 9....wrong. The way to do it is to let her know from the beginning that you will NOT give money to anyone but her and maybe her mother. Another option is to tell your Filipina: I am going to cover our expenses plus I will give you 10,000 or 15,000 extra every month (or whatever every you can give your woman), and it is YOUR responsibility to decide if you want to give anyone in your family out of what I give you. But I will not give anyone else any money.
Good advice. Try to not say the word “like” so much. Professionally presented.
I tell Filipinas I date I can send money on Chrismas and Birthdays for Immediate Family and for Extreme Circumstances but only if I can and they are respectful. I also demand she put me first and ultimately the family we are building first and if she can't do that there's no more talking. Give me the check goodbye.
Its only repeating the topics to make it 33mins ..😂
Speech typing meant to say fiance not Beyonce
I see a problem with parents expecting their kids to support them. That practice makes it difficult for the daughter usually to get herself out of poverty quite often. If the parents work long enough for their daughter to get established it would be much better. Otherwise you're perpetuating poverty.
You say the "Culture" is different in the Philippines than in America but women in the Philippines are starting to cut their hair short like women in America. And women in the Philippines are starting to use words like "creepy" and "delusional" just like the women in America. So, you are wrong with #1 Culture differences since Filipinas are starting to lose their desired culture of long hair and feminine style.
Don't forget weird 😛
I’m so sorry that your definition of “culture” doesn’t match with mine. You are entitled with you own opinion so as I. My great grand mother cuts her hair short too and I don’t see and look at her as loosing her femininity. Culture to me is way of life, values, habits and traditions. Many other Asian countries have women cut their hair short as their “preference” not because they are influenced by Western countries. I see and look at it on a bigger perspective at least.
and "helloooooooooooooooooooooooo." I hate that one.
I love this video, what she speaks is truth. Wish I find a single Pinay that thinks & feels the same as you. Great video, You Rock…🤘❤️🤘
Daisy ROCKS ♥️ Her, thank you for the information Miss Daisy I will take this all into consideration….
LBFM, it's all about the Benjamin's
SO MANNY RULES SO MUCH WORK ????
What if II dont have nobody??????? Nobody means nobody to care you are exist??????😂😂😂😂
Love your content, very thoughtful. I would like to ask that you not to cover up the boxes after you’ve revealed them. Covering them back up doesn’t add to your presentation only makes it more difficult to see the whole picture.
DEAR LADY, WHY DO YOU REFER TO THE USA, AUSTRALIA, BRITISH OR CANADA? WE EUROPEANS HAVE BEEN OMITTED. PARTICULARLY SOUTH EUROPEANS. WE HAVE SIMILAR IDEAS TO THE FILIPINOS. THANKS FOR YOUR VIDEO. BY THE WAY, YOU DESERVE A VERY EDUCATED FOREIGNER MAYBE SOMEONE LIKE ME. PROFESSOR MICHAELS
I love Daisy!
Your videos are very professionally done. I hope that you get to 100,000 subscribers soon
Date only...change up when they exceed 400 a month in needs......next
Single ko ba?
For #8 did you mean $10,000 or 10,000 PHP?
Sure does sound like $10us, she's dreaming
All the podcasts who say give an allowance for local women there is a big turnoff. The Filipinos I've dated are independent, have a job make their own money, these lazy ones who are looking for handouts can keep dreaming.
Too late I’m already paying lol
Get rid of the white board. we are not in school
Bring back Reine.
Well if your a tight wad, Scrooge, penny pincher best to stay out of 3rd world countries and leave those beautiful young girls alone!! 😮😮
If your financially secure, understanding, generous, patient with the ability to teach (and you will be teaching lol)
Then get over there meet a good girl you wont regret it!
Currently have 4 Filipina in my family with no complaints here !
Imigration is not cheap or quick (for us that do it LEGALLY) 😢
a 33 minute video that could have been 1 minute. Dating Filipina *not* worth it unless you find diamond in the rough where she and her family are not constantly asking for financial help. Period. End of story.
Hi Daisy, you need to start a tourist company to take men around and show them your country, if so sign me up for August
$$$$$$
Is Reine gone?
Constructive criticism . Girl not perfectionist
@@EvJason1366 No entiendo
You're kidding 10 K a month I hope
Got it 10 k pesos
why did you say 10,000 dolars!!!,,,,why not 1 or 2 thousand???!!!,,dont put big money into stupid AFAM/KANO heads!
🤓 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒❤
I can tell you like the word”Like”
10,000 pesos= 200$ USD. Easy to do.. happy to help.😊
$200 today, $400 tomorrow...be careful!
No prob. @@JamesHickman-g5c
I give my girlfriend whatever she needs. 4 years. Easy to do. She's great. 😊.
I rebuilt her house. Gave her Air con. Province girl. She is worth it. I can send it.
Some girls are worth it. Some are scammers. Some are just really desperate.. learn to tell the difference. Judge kindly..
Nice video 1 suggestion would be Stop all the UMMM AHHH's when your mind is stalled and you need time to think, it is not fluid and smooth sounding. Also over use of the word LIKE again a stall tactic and not fluid smooth speech. I realize English is not your first language but with a Masters Degree you said you have you must know those are speech flaws. As to the content one observation is most ladies I know only have unrealistic goals such as they are going to get a good job "someday" but with no education other limited school and the street many continue to freelance
Thank you Mr. Perfectionist! I’ll keep that in mind.
@@SmartGirlPhilippines not about perfection but professing to be professional comes with expectations. The Filipina people is not perfect but dos not say 200 times the word Like such as in an old Valley Girl movie in California. LIke this you know Like wow right Like so Cool Like ya know LOL
It was very interesting. Like, I think it’s useful like, like I think somebody could do something with this like you never know, like it’s very interesting like.
Stop saying like so much
I don't like you, Daisy.
Daisy is cute, once you get used to her Tweety Bird voice 🙂
because she's real and you can't handle the truth?
@@GoldBunnyEntertainment Well, her truth for sure, and there's nothing wrong with that.
@@JamesHickman-g5c cute compared to what? she is a proper professional looking person but not a hottie in my opinion. Reine I would score as a 7 once her teeth are done and the braces off. I see lots of 7's but prefer the 8's and 9's even if they do cost me more.
@@joesedlacek8132 Cute, means attractive, not necessarily a 10, though. When a woman has a lot of 'beta orbiters,' which she keeps in the friend zone, she tends to overvalue herself. There are no shortage of $1mP foreigners in the Philippines.
And you talking only too american people 😂😂😂😂😂in UK i ern 2times more that american 😂😂😂😂but I like your chanel always take ❤❤❤
im even more confused xd