@@the.browngirl not evertime its about money.. its easy to comment on someone whom you don't know.. he is also a human being, he didn't born as a celebrity.. he knows what's going on in reality.. atleast he is telling the truth showing the reality , ab chahe words kisi or ke hon ya iske..
Amitabh Bachan in 1985: Mard ko dard nahi hota Ayushmann Khurrana in 2019: jisko dard hota hai, asal mein wohi mard hota hai. . 34 years and alot of things has changed
You again differentiated them. Pan masala ad mein ho ya Ghar mein thodi chai banane wala ho ... Hein toh sab gentle hi apne apne kaam karne ki tarike mein. So don't mention what they do on your poor prospective coz remember the vimal ad , even you can't do 🤣🤣
"par marengi kyu".....wow i had goose bumps at that line....soooo beautiful.....thanks for such a gorgeous and insightful poem....love you somuchhhhh....uuummhaaa
@ankit joshi Well makeup is another stereotypical stuff that Indian boys think if some other guy do skincare, groomed well and lil makeup then he becomes gay lol, who r u ppl to judge someone's sexuality only coz that boy like makeup and hygenic skincare coz in foreign countries boy do spent as much as much girls spend on their makeup and skincare bt for Indian boys it's all girlish.
The reason they chose... Ayushman to host was because... he is the most disciplined actor and gentle man... in the film industry... Thank you so much for the love (like) yve given to my comment really appreciate it 😊💖
When he said ''par marengi kyun?" I literally fell for him and tears started flowing without any realisation doesn't matter how many times watched this masterpiece such men should be honoured
This is exactly why I love him so much! An complete artist that accepts his flaws no matter what, and an amazing poet too! This particular poem might not be written by him, but the way he recited it, the anguish, sadness and the pain, everything can be felt just by the depth of voice. That is how a man should be, someone who can feel pain. Lots of love from a fellow poet💗❤️✨
I like to cook and help my mom in the kitchen. I like to sing, listen to old songs and respect everyone. I'm very emotional and cry at times. I don't smoke and drink. I don't like going to the club. Yes men like us exist 😇
*Written by* *Gaurav Solanki* *Salute* ☺️🙏 They should have given more highlighting appreciation to the writer. As the name of the writer is just for a second and that too in last when the poem ends, everyone thinks it's written by Ayushmann. But no Ayushmann just presented it, though it was absolutely beautiful, writer at his own position needed more focus and appreciation 🙏 *Gaurav Solanki* ✌️
This literally made me cry, so beautiful and the need of the hour..in this day and time when we are speaking about women empowerment we have forgotten that men are the victims of our society and patriarchy as much as women, it's not easy to be a man either...
I wish I could like this thousands and thousands of times!!! I wish every person, irrespective of gender and other differences, respects and empowers others.
It is and will continue to. It's the story of 99% of the Men. Media only shows the super successful or anti-social.... But this empowered the average Men we see around us, 99% of the Men around us.
I am a girl!!! This video made me emotional too. Not just girls, even men are affected by such stereotypes. Since time immemorial we always acknowledged women's contribution in raising children and among other things, but no one acknowledges men's contribution. Just take a look at your father, brother, friend or even your boyfriend for that matter, They keep working and still manage to find time taking care for you and trying to bring a smile on your faces. (Not discounting women's role). According to me, both male and female are best in their own way and both genders should admire respective qualities which they possess.(sorry for the long post). P.S. I respect both male and females.
And the hypocrisy is...that boys who made fun of other boys when they cried...and the girls who rejected a gentleman for a macho man are now reposting Aayushmann khurrana's video,"what makes a true gentleman".
PLEASE READ FULL Feminism is good but i would respectfully argue that. Generally many feminist say that men have no problems. so let me tell you the PRIVILEGES OF MEN first of all i want to say that- I believe in full equality I know really well what are the real issues of women and we should fight with them also. But problems is many feminist ignore the problems of men, ONLY some realize that. SEE THIS, A VERY GOOD tedxtalk video OF A FEMALE FEMINIST reaction TO MALE PROBLEMS Name- MEETING THE ENEMY, LINK- th-cam.com/video/3WMuzhQXJoY/w-d-xo.html (Please watch the above video you will love it) A Lot of men faces a lot of problems like misandry(men bashing), fake accusations for rape and dowry and violence(more than 50% cases are fake), and their whole life get ruined. but no one believes them and everyone considers that women are always right. mostly men are the human beings who faces police brutality, get killed at war.etc DO YOU KNOW THAT A LOT OF MEN ALSO FACES VERY BRUTAL SEXUAL ABUSE BY WOMEN ON THEIR PRIVATE PARTS. PROOF of violence stats in form of a video -th-cam.com/video/m4hrHUo70nY/w-d-xo.html But the worst thing is that punishment for these crimes is very slow and less. because OUR LAW DOES NOT CARE about abuse with men and everyone LAUGHES at them. SUICIDES RATES OF MEN ARE NEARLY DOUBLE THAN WOMEN. 93% of workplace death, 60% of homicide , 62% homeless victims are MEN(but very less homeshelters are for men, most are for women.) HARD LIFE THREATNING works like cleaning sewers,coal mining,construction etc. are MOSTLY done by men. Men are taught to be STRONG and NOT CRY or NOT EXPRESS their emotions and feelings. No one ever cares about mental health of men. According to many surveys 25% of domestic violence and 30% acid attack victims are men. but have you ever heard any news of this?? i know women faces MUCH MORE violence but that doesn't mean that you should ignore men's problems. MOST OF TIMES OUR LAW DOESN'T EVEN PUNISH WOMEN FOR VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN. Generally people LAUGH when a men faces abuse by women and women are praised for that act and said to be strong. but the opposite is considered to be evil by men. why these double standards? violence and abuse with all the genders are equally wrong. On public a men slapping women is wrong. BUT if women slaps men, then either men are blamed, or everyone laughs and ignore. And men CAN'T even FIGHT BACK as then they will be considered EVIL. Hitting all genders is equally wrong. SEE PROOFS in social experiments, THE REACTION of PUBLIC when MEN ARE HARASSED AND BEATEN. th-cam.com/video/GccCWo_eZdw/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/cRyruagRub0/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/dtVHnZX8E50/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/9uccExOPMrI/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/XNrWuZV3jjw/w-d-xo.html (Pls watch these to know THE shocking truth) in movies and serials and songs also ABUSE AND HARASSEMENT against men by women is considered FUNNY. MOST OF THE COURT LAWS are women BIASED, whether they are RAPE laws or DOMESTIC VIOLENCE laws or MARRIAGE laws. Do you know if a men takes divorce then he have to give up alimony and child custody to women DUE to this if men faces violence then he CAN'T even take divorce in fear of these laws. THERE are many cases where women uses these laws as an opportunity to earn money. Women have atleast laws for crimes against them but men haven't any of these Laws. Women receive respect in general but men only get respect if they are rich. Women are taught to be proud of themselves but men are taught to respect women and improve to to match women's status. Everyone should be proud of themselves. IF you will ever try to respectfully criticize a women then many times you are said to be misogynistic and everyone will say you "respect women" and if a women even abuses you, everyone will still support her and say her independent. Everytime society says that you can't hit a girl but they are ok if you hit a boy. "A man is always guilty until proven, and a women is innocent until proven guilty". In schools also we are always taught that women are superior and smarter than men. Punishments in many schools are very harder for boys BUT girls are rarely given any punishments FOR SAME MISTAKE. IN USA PRISONS ALSO, "FOR SAME CRIME", men recieve 63% LONGER sentences than women on average, and women are TWICE as likely to AVOID jail if convicted. A video containing proof of this- th-cam.com/video/usq-IHT5ARc/w-d-xo.html In my opinion, intelligence depends on person to person and from field to field. Generalization of any gender is bad. Respect should be given to all genders equally. At last i want to say that i know that women suffers due to patriarchal mentality but ignoring men problem due to this doesn't make any sense. WE CAN HELP ALL GENDERS. sorry if i have offended you because i am not a toxic person. I am true feminist.
@Puja Adhikari do you know all women??? there are different types of humans who want different types of parteners. There are many people who just laughs when is men is getting beaten by women becuse he is a man and should be stronger than women. This is mentality of many people. This is clear patriarchy. And you can easily notice these things in movies and tv shows etc that people laughing at men violence.
@Puja Adhikari yes. But if you will see that men and women both believes in Patriarchy. I know many women who literally believes that women should not do outside work. Even Many womem says that Women should not work in field, coal mines, consteuctions, army, farming, business, engineering etc. So patriarchy is mentality which can be in any human irrespective of the gender.
One of my fav videos. I come back here every once in a while to feel like yeah we need more gentlemans and that WE NEED TO ACCEPT, APPRECIATE, SUPPORT MEN TO BE GENTLE.
Such a humble person...Everytime he touches my heart!!! "Mard wahi hota Hain , jisko dard hota hain"- very well spoken!! And with each line rhyming - just shows his luv for poetry ...I am proud to be his Hard- core fan...
I wish.....I wish..I could hit infinite number of likes to this video...pata nahi....being a 17 year old girl....why am I watching this again and again and again and again....I just don't know....This is something every parent should show to their child... ❤️❤️I admire you Sir.....Ayushmann ji you are......what should I say.....idk.....go for greatness 🙏👍
I am a closeted gay guy in India. I am emotional. I love cooking & I m not into cars & cricket. I want to live freely & be true to myself & others. But the toxic Indian society has stopped me from doing so. This video is therefore important for men like me.
It will reach in one way or the other.... It speaks about the 99% of the men in the society.. who have always been neglected. The Media only speaks about super successful men or Men who are anti-social. More Power to the average Man who spends all his life trying to give a decent life to his family.
Beautiful! Every person in India must watch this ..... A girl or a boy.. cause differences alag hoti hai , aur difference karna alag hota hai .. as he said it.
He almost cried ♥️. Such beautiful lines from such a beautiful heart is priceless ♥️. This video not only made my day but also gave me a clear path to how to become a true gentleman ♥️♥️♥️.
“ज़ीन्दगी बदलने के लिए लड़ना पडता हे, ओर आसान करने के लिए समझना पड़ता है।” Each And Every Word Of This Video Is Meaningful ....Hatts Off Hai Aisi Soch Ko..🙌
I come back here again whenever I feel there are a lot men around me, who says being gentlemen is weak, and every human who thinks that this kind of men is impossible to exist in reality.. Ek sukoon milta hai jab yaha aati hu ye jaan kar ki, haa standards nahi giraane hai
Thoughts, words that portray the untold stories of many men that live under the mask of societal standards and deal with underlying issues. Hats off to the words and lines.
He opened his feelings to her and she judged him. He trusted her enough to cry in front of her and she took it for his weakness. Yes men do cry but not all can understand it
@@aishikapal3267To be honest, men deserve more respect for their more contributions. Men built this civilization and filled it with Knowledge, Technology and spirituality. But women never understood men. They didn't respect them enough either.
The most beautiful thought process.... Every word so true.... If only every man could think this way..... the world would be just just so very beautiful Ayushmaan is yes one of my favorite actors
This speech will reach from your heart to every heart listening. Definition of a gentleman, well explained. People need to hear it, a person being macho and having six packs is not a Gentleman. A true gentleman respects everyone's beliefs and stands against something wrong happening in front of him.
Do you respect men for what they do for you. To be honest, men deserve more respect for their more contributions. Men built this civilization and filled it with Knowledge, Technology and spirituality. But women never understood men. They didn't respect them enough either.
The line of Ayushmann khurana was amazing and quite inspiring. Everyone should listen and think about it. Sir you had a gave a chance or a way to become a Gentlemen in the real life.. Thank you so much for this.....
Thats right ..the end credit says ..written by Gaurav Solanki ..I dont know who he is ... but must say that he has written one of the most "powerful" pieces ... and also must say that has been incredibly recited by Ayushman .... kudos to all
U can say about good actor..but it's his family who can say he is a good individual and only a wife that he is a good husband...what made u say he is a good husband...did u feel being his wife. Kabhi Uske Ghar me jaake rahi aap...mujhe Janana hai ki wo kya quality hai ki ho Aapne feel bhi nhi ki..aur Aapne tag de dia ki he is a good husband..pls...agar time ho to btana...I want to know how girls judge without knowing much about his so private life
I am a girl and literally while fighting with everyday struggles that I have to face just because I'm a girl is heart breaking.......I wish every men understand the difference between men and women and still appreciate it and not make her feel lower than him .
You know Ayushmann sir ! You inspire me every moment ! You live in my heart ! Thank you for this wonderful and heart touching recitation. No one could do this, the way you did !
This has really touched my heart. Even ayushman played it so well.. hats off to the lyricist... amazing reality of life which can be not be seen so easily...
Don't tell us to "man up" hide our tears For its hard, and we have our fears And in the dark days, we hide we cry life isnt easy, we dont have it easy we pretend,we try Pain, heart break we strive through we are tough Crying in the rain with a smile cause its not enough Not enough to think of the little world donning a tan The sacrifices forgotten, the pain endured. So what does it mean to be a man...? I wonder #randommusings
As a man, I also feel scared. I also cry. And that's completely normal. That's just me. There should no shame, guilt, shyness or social stigma attached to these things. After all, they are our basic human emotions. They are what keeps us alive. They are what makes us human. It's 100 times better to be an emotional man than to be a lifeless, emotionless piece of junk. Atleast then, you can be yourself, your authentic and genuine self and not some fake, made up self, trying so hard to please others, who don't even matter to you. It is foolish to pretend to be something that you are not. Atleast then, people can talk to you, understand your pain, relate to you, share their own sad stories with you and assure you that they will always be there for you. It is only then that you can make real friends for life. That you can feel true happiness and true peace. God gave us emotions as a gift, not as a burden. It is these emotions of happiness, sadness, etc which make our lives worthwhile, memorable and meaningful. They are what keeps us alive. They are what makes us human.
@@neingtyyyy ... Amazing.. 👌 "Whenever feel suffocated , Take a pen & a file; ❣️Pour all your treasure And compile in a style. Forget the past, For a while; One day you'll realize, How you Gracefully travelled the Miles. "🌉🎢🌅 🤟
The every word he said touched my heart I respect men not because my idol said it but because men literally do everything for us Ayushmann I am literally proud to be your fan
Extremely well written lines and very beautifully delivered by Aayushmaan😘😘This poetry really shows what kind of 'gentle man' we need today....loved each and every line
A grand salute to Gourav Solanki for such lines 🙏🙏🙏🙏 And Ayushman is the actual Gentleman in film industry no doubt... People can't stop loving such a talented artist 😊😊😇😇😇😇
"aur ye fark khoobsurat hain"
this line has a part of my heart ❤
Okk
Just loved your playlist , yai un Dino ki baat hai 🥰
@@shroomymiss9929 yeh un dinon ki baat hai is love ❤
@@sadhanasinha9109 , yes that show was 😍
Yes khoobsurat line
But few will understand this
Only if more celebrities in our country used their power and status to spread such beautiful and strong messages! Cheers to Ayushmann! 🥂
Usne ye paise leke kia h. It's an ad for men's products.
@@the.browngirl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 good one sis
@@the.browngirl You don't say!
@@the.browngirl not evertime its about money.. its easy to comment on someone whom you don't know.. he is also a human being, he didn't born as a celebrity.. he knows what's going on in reality.. atleast he is telling the truth showing the reality , ab chahe words kisi or ke hon ya iske..
@@the.browngirl But that video touch the heart though?
"Dil uska bhi 300 gram ka hota hai"
These lines touched my 300 gram heart😭😭😭😭😭
LOVED IT👍👍👍
Haan bhai
" Ladka aur ladki mein fark hai aur khubsurat hai mein jaanta hoon par fark karne ko sabse bada gunah manta hoon " .. True man - Ayush-Man ❤️
"Jisko dard hota hai asal mein, wo hi mard hota hai" 😯 hats off!!!
Bhut achche
Sahi hai
Yes💛
Wooow!
Jisko dard hota hai asal mein
wo hi mard hota hai..........
Amitabh Bachan in 1985: Mard ko dard nahi hota
Ayushmann Khurrana in 2019: jisko dard hota hai, asal mein wohi mard hota hai.
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34 years and alot of things has changed
Hahaaa so true
Why we are waiting for this "hero's" .. Why we need motivational speech! Why we need help from others ! When canwe arise within US..
#we all grew up
Amitabh ka dialogue ne waat laga k rakha h itne salo se
Amitabh Bachchan is overrated Buddha Am I the only who think🤙
"Zikr tera har lafz mein karoonga..
Fikr na kar, Tera naam na loonga.”
- Ayushman ❤️
Awesome
No written by gourav solanki
@@bijaygaire7922 naai ayushman
Indirectly har waqt tere bare main bolta rahunga
Ye kab bola usne?
"Wo jaldi bada hone ke bojh me bada hota hai... Dil uska bhi 300gm ka hi hota hai" This line made me emotional 🥺❣️❤️🙌
This is wat a celebrity should do rather than vimal pan masala.
U shud also stop wasting ur life on youtube
@@Nopanop : u can go ahead n implement. I will do wat I wish for.
Yup......ry8
Or fair and handsome ya fair and lovely.
You again differentiated them. Pan masala ad mein ho ya Ghar mein thodi chai banane wala ho ... Hein toh sab gentle hi apne apne kaam karne ki tarike mein. So don't mention what they do on your poor prospective coz remember the vimal ad , even you can't do 🤣🤣
The best compliment i ever received in my life was
My girlfriend saying me that i am exactly what Ayushmann says and that really touched me.
❤️❤️ wow congrats
She's a keeper and so are you :)
Kaddu kata hai, bhai intzaar kar sab mein batega.....
Tu bhi aya hai relationship mein tera bhi katega😂😂😂😂
@@shubhamraut625 Kati hui kaddu to maine kha li.........
Lekin ye kya Shubham , iss valentines bhi tune apne hi haton ki lakeere mitali 🤣🤣
@@samyakgoswami8051 😂😂😂😂
All those commenting "the person who wrote this.." ,only if you would've watched this video 8 secs longer y'all would've known.
"Andhera jyada ho to wo bhi dar skta h" this line has seperate space in my heart ❣️🥺
Yeah
"par marengi kyu".....wow i had goose bumps at that line....soooo beautiful.....thanks for such a gorgeous and insightful poem....love you somuchhhhh....uuummhaaa
🙂
True😊
@ankit joshi well some people just like doing make-up you know? It can be a fun past time too and make-up just another form of art
Wee loo.... Tum to mr gai ayushman pr...
@ankit joshi Well makeup is another stereotypical stuff that Indian boys think if some other guy do skincare, groomed well and lil makeup then he becomes gay lol, who r u ppl to judge someone's sexuality only coz that boy like makeup and hygenic skincare coz in foreign countries boy do spent as much as much girls spend on their makeup and skincare bt for Indian boys it's all girlish.
The reason they chose... Ayushman to host was because... he is the most disciplined actor and gentle man... in the film industry...
Thank you so much for the love (like) yve given to my comment really appreciate it 😊💖
Yes he's an amazing person
It's his own company bruh!
Hillol Kalita No. it’s not his company
@@hillolkalita9780
He is the brand ambassador of the start up The man company 😎😎😎
Iss gandgi se bhari bollywood mai sirf kuch acche log hai ❤️ Ayushmann sir is best ❤️
When he said ''par marengi kyun?"
I literally fell for him and tears started flowing without any realisation doesn't matter how many times watched this masterpiece such men should be honoured
Swetha Tadepalli, hi! watch once also if u like this poetic video findable as Is the Freedom for me - A English Poetry - Travel & Poetry Awaj
This is exactly why I love him so much! An complete artist that accepts his flaws no matter what, and an amazing poet too! This particular poem might not be written by him, but the way he recited it, the anguish, sadness and the pain, everything can be felt just by the depth of voice. That is how a man should be, someone who can feel pain. Lots of love from a fellow poet💗❤️✨
Hit a like for writer too-
Written by Gaurav solanki and recited by Ayushman khurana.
i am gaurav
This makes me wanna be a gentleman and I'm a girl.
Maleeha Haider we are in the same zone behen!😆🤗
Naah..you don't need to be cozz you'll find many!
You can rather be a gentlewomen😂
You are a gentleman. A woman who can give birth is much more stronger than a man any day. You already are a gentleman.
Aspire to be a gentlewoman.
I like to cook and help my mom in the kitchen. I like to sing, listen to old songs and respect everyone. I'm very emotional and cry at times.
I don't smoke and drink. I don't like going to the club.
Yes men like us exist 😇
Bro took my words
Same here bro...😌
@Nishita panwar and we don't waste money on shit things...😌
then beleive me you are hero bro....hero fr urself, hero for your mom......god bless u with all you ever want
@@samritisharma8094 thanks... same goes for you😌
As a "Man" every word of Ayushmann gives me goosebumps😇
"tu chahe carpet pe soye ya red carpet pe chale... you are the most powerful" got goosebumps to those lines.... epic
The best thing about is that he mean every line.... look at his eyes you will get it
Isse Acting kehte hai (Vishesh suchna :- Tiktok se door rahe)
Woh actor hai bey uska kaam hi yhi h
That's why he won the best actor national award.
@@pushkarkumar3530 Actors also have an emotion man.
See which movies he does, bold and the ones that normal heroes avoid. He feels..he is amazing.
I don't think no one literally no one could ever convey this like the way he did....
Truly said
@@sunnsands918 7 nahi b 8
He's such a good natural actor. He's not "hero" type. Just a regular guy
@Aayansh singh chaudhry hehe good one
@Aayansh singh chaudhry yup just like you ❤️
He is the real hero.
Finally someone speaking for a common general man...nd what's it like to be one..loved it😍
2:16 zaroori nahi ki driver acha ho!
Salman khan- That's my boy
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😄😂😂
Are bhai bhai bhai 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
*Written by*
*Gaurav Solanki*
*Salute* ☺️🙏
They should have given more highlighting appreciation to the writer. As the name of the writer is just for a second and that too in last when the poem ends, everyone thinks it's written by Ayushmann. But no Ayushmann just presented it, though it was absolutely beautiful, writer at his own position needed more focus and appreciation 🙏
*Gaurav Solanki* ✌️
That's it i came here to say by comment ☺️
Truly didn't notice that
You right
U r right.
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This literally made me cry, so beautiful and the need of the hour..in this day and time when we are speaking about women empowerment we have forgotten that men are the victims of our society and patriarchy as much as women, it's not easy to be a man either...
Yes, everyone Deserves To be respected
I wish I could like this thousands and thousands of times!!! I wish every person, irrespective of gender and other differences, respects and empowers others.
It doesnt happen this way in the real world. Dont spread this fake shit
@@Nopanop but one day definitely it will be
Anindita Roy will you marry me❤️
@@Anshul_rawat77 pehle mard ban , acha kama strong ban
I never seen his watery eyes this close🙏🙏
Can this Man be any more perfect? I keep loving him everyday more and more. I hope this video reaches as many people as possible
It is and will continue to. It's the story of 99% of the Men. Media only shows the super successful or anti-social.... But this empowered the average Men we see around us, 99% of the Men around us.
"Par furk karne ko, sabse bada ghuna manta hu" touching nd deep lines.
I'm a Girl but this made me tear up. Being a Woman is difficult but being a Man isn't easy either and we need to understand that.
Isnt easy? Thats a way small word..
rone wali to koi baat nai thi
@@permanentcreativitydiy5915 rone wali thi as a girl I can understand it more he said actually what a girl wants
I am a girl!!! This video made me emotional too. Not just girls, even men are affected by such stereotypes. Since time immemorial we always acknowledged women's contribution in raising children and among other things, but no one acknowledges men's contribution. Just take a look at your father, brother, friend or even your boyfriend for that matter, They keep working and still manage to find time taking care for you and trying to bring a smile on your faces. (Not discounting women's role). According to me, both male and female are best in their own way and both genders should admire respective qualities which they possess.(sorry for the long post).
P.S. I respect both male and females.
Being a male is a HELLLLLL OF A LOTT EASIER than being a woman
This left me with a smile and moist eyes. Haven't ever heard about our emotions out loud.
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Alina Rizvi wtf bro
@@alinarizvi3875 wtf .... ???
@@keshavojha3654 what ??
And the hypocrisy is...that boys who made fun of other boys when they cried...and the girls who rejected a gentleman for a macho man are now reposting Aayushmann khurrana's video,"what makes a true gentleman".
True. Show off toh krna padega na ki we also believe in this ideology even when we don't actually.
PLEASE READ FULL
Feminism is good but i would respectfully argue that.
Generally many feminist say that men have no problems.
so let me tell you the PRIVILEGES OF MEN
first of all i want to say that-
I believe in full equality
I know really well what are the real issues of women and we should fight with them also.
But problems is many feminist ignore the problems of men, ONLY some realize that.
SEE THIS, A VERY GOOD tedxtalk video OF A FEMALE FEMINIST reaction TO MALE PROBLEMS
Name- MEETING THE ENEMY,
LINK- th-cam.com/video/3WMuzhQXJoY/w-d-xo.html
(Please watch the above video you will love it)
A Lot of men faces a lot of problems like misandry(men bashing), fake accusations for rape and dowry and violence(more than 50% cases are fake), and their whole life get ruined.
but no one believes them and everyone considers that women are always right.
mostly men are the human beings who faces police brutality, get killed at war.etc
DO YOU KNOW THAT A LOT OF MEN ALSO FACES VERY BRUTAL SEXUAL ABUSE BY WOMEN ON THEIR PRIVATE PARTS.
PROOF of violence stats in form of a video -th-cam.com/video/m4hrHUo70nY/w-d-xo.html
But the worst thing is that punishment for these crimes is very slow and less.
because OUR LAW DOES NOT CARE about abuse with men and everyone LAUGHES at them.
SUICIDES RATES OF MEN ARE NEARLY DOUBLE THAN WOMEN.
93% of workplace death, 60% of homicide , 62% homeless victims are MEN(but very less homeshelters are for men, most are for women.)
HARD LIFE THREATNING works like cleaning sewers,coal mining,construction etc. are MOSTLY done by men.
Men are taught to be STRONG and NOT CRY or NOT EXPRESS their emotions and feelings.
No one ever cares about mental health of men.
According to many surveys 25% of domestic violence and 30% acid attack victims are men.
but have you ever heard any news of this??
i know women faces MUCH MORE violence but that doesn't mean that you should ignore men's problems.
MOST OF TIMES OUR LAW DOESN'T EVEN PUNISH WOMEN FOR VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN.
Generally people LAUGH when a men faces abuse by women and women are praised for that act and said to be strong.
but the opposite is considered to be evil by men.
why these double standards?
violence and abuse with all the genders are equally wrong.
On public a men slapping women is wrong.
BUT if women slaps men, then either men are blamed, or everyone laughs and ignore.
And men CAN'T even FIGHT BACK as then they will be considered EVIL.
Hitting all genders is equally wrong.
SEE PROOFS in social experiments, THE REACTION of PUBLIC when MEN ARE HARASSED AND BEATEN.
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(Pls watch these to know THE shocking truth)
in movies and serials and songs also ABUSE AND HARASSEMENT against men by women is considered FUNNY.
MOST OF THE COURT LAWS are women BIASED, whether they are RAPE laws or DOMESTIC VIOLENCE laws or MARRIAGE laws.
Do you know if a men takes divorce then he have to give up alimony and child custody to women DUE to this if men faces violence then he CAN'T even take divorce in fear of these laws.
THERE are many cases where women uses these laws as an opportunity to earn money.
Women have atleast laws for crimes against them but men haven't any of these Laws.
Women receive respect in general but men only get respect if they are rich.
Women are taught to be proud of themselves but men are taught to respect women and improve to to match women's status.
Everyone should be proud of themselves.
IF you will ever try to respectfully criticize a women then many times you are said to be misogynistic and everyone will say you "respect women" and if a women even abuses you, everyone will still support her and say her independent.
Everytime society says that you can't hit a girl but they are ok if you hit a boy.
"A man is always guilty until proven, and a women is innocent until proven guilty".
In schools also we are always taught that women are superior and smarter than men.
Punishments in many schools are very harder for boys BUT girls are rarely given any punishments FOR SAME MISTAKE.
IN USA PRISONS ALSO, "FOR SAME CRIME", men recieve 63% LONGER sentences than women on average, and women are TWICE as likely to AVOID jail if convicted.
A video containing proof of this- th-cam.com/video/usq-IHT5ARc/w-d-xo.html
In my opinion, intelligence depends on person to person and from field to field.
Generalization of any gender is bad.
Respect should be given to all genders equally.
At last i want to say that i know that women suffers due to patriarchal mentality but ignoring men problem due to this doesn't make any
sense.
WE CAN HELP ALL GENDERS.
sorry if i have offended you because i am not a toxic person.
I am true feminist.
@@swaroop2518 you have my respect!
@Puja Adhikari do you know all women???
there are different types of humans who want different types of parteners.
There are many people who just laughs when is men is getting beaten by women becuse he is a man and should be stronger than women.
This is mentality of many people.
This is clear patriarchy.
And you can easily notice these things in movies and tv shows etc that people laughing at men violence.
@Puja Adhikari yes.
But if you will see that men and women both believes in Patriarchy.
I know many women who literally believes that women should not do outside work.
Even Many womem says that
Women should not work in field, coal mines, consteuctions, army, farming, business, engineering etc.
So patriarchy is mentality which can be in any human irrespective of the gender.
One of my fav videos. I come back here every once in a while to feel like yeah we need more gentlemans and that WE NEED TO ACCEPT, APPRECIATE, SUPPORT MEN TO BE GENTLE.
Such a humble person...Everytime he touches my heart!!! "Mard wahi hota Hain , jisko dard hota hain"- very well spoken!! And with each line rhyming - just shows his luv for poetry ...I am proud to be his Hard- core fan...
M so glad that there's someone who's speaking for MEN.. good script and amazingly said by Ayushman
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It's Not Actually Written By Ayushmaan
GAURAV SOLANKI
GAURAV SOLANKI
White Ninja She said amazingly said by ayushman and she agree that script is good written by whoever
His words touched my heart...I can see that pain and emotion in his eyes and made me listen him so carefully...and yes MARD ko DARD Hona chahiye:-)
His eyes..true🙃
@@sunnsands918 👍
I wish.....I wish..I could hit infinite number of likes to this video...pata nahi....being a 17 year old girl....why am I watching this again and again and again and again....I just don't know....This is something every parent should show to their child... ❤️❤️I admire you Sir.....Ayushmann ji you are......what should I say.....idk.....go for greatness 🙏👍
Me too!
I am a closeted gay guy in India. I am emotional. I love cooking & I m not into cars & cricket. I want to live freely & be true to myself & others. But the toxic Indian society has stopped me from doing so. This video is therefore important for men like me.
Someday, I hope, we as a society can be fair to those who are not like the rest. Until then, I hope you find happiness nonetheless.
More power to you.
Hey,, lots of love and support to you my friend!!
I hope u get all the happiness and soon live your life the way you want!!
you are brave and I hope one day you can live your truth
Don't get scared by society... You are not different. You are one of us. Stay brave stay hopeful
This was played in my school assembly
@ankit joshi cosmopolitan high school, mira road
Really?
Wow
Ohh woww
Bro your principle is damn good
Hats off to the guy who wrote this too.🙇🏻♂️
Ahahaha noice 👌
@Mr Smile Written By Gaurav Solanki.
Only if you bothered to watch the whole video.
Whoever wrote this is a fake shit. In real world these people are called NAmard , every woman likes a strong man , its genetic
@@nirmalgoyal3849 K bye
Oof
"क्योंकि हमें तो honour बचाना है" I liked the line very much.
"Jisko dard hota h asal mai wahi mard hota h" - just fabulous 👏👏👏
If this doesn't Reach all over India...I'm.gonna be Disappointed!...let's share people
😊
Disappointed, you'll be.
Yss of course this video should reach all over India..!!!👏👏👏
For that subtitles in English are required
It will reach in one way or the other.... It speaks about the 99% of the men in the society.. who have always been neglected. The Media only speaks about super successful men or Men who are anti-social. More Power to the average Man who spends all his life trying to give a decent life to his family.
The conviction in his expressions prove that he meant each and every word of what he said.
At 3:19, the most beautiful line I've ever heard..
"mai jahan hoon jahan khada hoon..unhe darna nhi chahiye" ..i wish I could click the like button million times and every click counted!!!
Million times -1= 999999
That you can
Yeah😊😊
It would have been unlike ultimately
As a matter of fact you can but it will be better if you click it odd number of times
@@anuragchoudhary2718 and i want each n every like to be counted... well that is not possible!
Beautiful! Every person in India must watch this .....
A girl or a boy.. cause differences alag hoti hai , aur difference karna alag hota hai .. as he said it.
Hats of to writer "GAURAV SOLANKI" and Ofcourse "AYUSHMAN" for incredible performance.
"Asal me mard wohi hota hai, jisko dard hota hai" heart touching line🔥🔥
"Woh jaldi bada hone k bojh k niche bada hota hai
Dil❤️ uska v 300 gram ka hi hota hai..."
Soooo deep😍
He almost cried ♥️. Such beautiful lines from such a beautiful heart is priceless ♥️. This video not only made my day but also gave me a clear path to how to become a true gentleman ♥️♥️♥️.
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“ज़ीन्दगी बदलने के लिए लड़ना पडता हे, ओर आसान करने के लिए समझना पड़ता है।”
Each And Every Word Of This Video Is Meaningful ....Hatts Off Hai Aisi Soch Ko..🙌
I come back here again whenever I feel there are a lot men around me, who says being gentlemen is weak, and every human who thinks that this kind of men is impossible to exist in reality.. Ek sukoon milta hai jab yaha aati hu ye jaan kar ki, haa standards nahi giraane hai
Thoughts, words that portray the untold stories of many men that live under the mask of societal standards and deal with underlying issues. Hats off to the words and lines.
He opened his feelings to her and she judged him. He trusted her enough to cry in front of her and she took it for his weakness. Yes men do cry but not all can understand it
😔😔😔😔
Hope everyone will get someone who will understand them😔
A moment of appreciation for the guy named Gaurav Solanki who have written this.
Kyaaa!!
Mujhe laga 😅
Ayushman Sir, aap ki vision hum sab ka ek nazarana hai. Simply the best words of wisdom for any gentle man.
"You are most powerful as long as there lives a Gentleman in you".
This left me with a smile and made me emotional haven't ever heard about this truth really this should be reach all over india 😊😎
What a line " jisko dard hota hai..Asal me wahi mard hota hai".👏👏👏👏
'Jisko dard hota hai asal me wahi mard hota hai'..... Why world can't understand a man also have heart...they also have emotions...they also can feel.
Nice thought dear..❤
Just kidding don't take it otherwise...😂😂
Aur sale ladka hai to naam change kar atleast
Written by ~ Gaurav Solanki 👌💐.
In love with the writings of this man.
Article 15 movie & book ~gyarvi A ke ladke.
Undoubtedly 🙌
ayushmann you'r one of the gentle person. I have seen..
@@sunnsands918
Ayushmann khurrana you are a fantastic man.❤👏
मर्द को दर्द नहीं होता....अमिताभ बच्चन😏
मर्द को दर्द होता है... *आयुष्मान* 🙌😍
"Par mard hone ki lauti shart yahi hain ke saccha ho" 👏👏👏👏
Requirements ki list hai mere paas. Kitna jhooth bolte ho tum log.
@@sumeettiwari7616 Waah kitne velle ho tum, list banane ka itna fursat milta kahan hai !!! Gentleman toh aa ho nhi, baat krne aate chale aate ho !!!
@@aishikapal3267To be honest, men deserve more respect for their more contributions. Men built this civilization and filled it with Knowledge, Technology and spirituality. But women never understood men. They didn't respect them enough either.
Something that was REALLY, REALLY REQUIRED TO BE SAID.
A thousand likes to this.
As a man(still a boy at heart) crying watching this video. I hope my parents wont come inside to see me crying.
😂..it's okay to be emotional cause you're also a human being.
@@Nabamyopu I think he got beaten up by his parents..BTW u are 10 months late
@@Nabamyopu so u laugh, then you'll die laughing seeing emotional women😆😆😆
@@Nabamyopu But men are stronger. This is facts. Women should not be put on a pedestal.
Do we really need to say anything?
Thats a pure gold!! Much respect to you..
This would be the First time anyone has spoken up about their thoughts on this topic! Kudos to Ayushman Khurana!.
Not his thoughts. It's an advert.
😍😍😍😍.."mein Hindi mai Senti hotahu aur punjabi mai gata hu"......heart touching lines
Utna v senti Ni...
@@shashankpandey1966 haan sbse normal line inhe senti lgi hai lol
@@shashankpandey1966 edit krli madam ne 🤣🙃🤣
@@Mr_pentool_ hahaha...lol..dimag ghutna me h Inka...
@@Mr_pentool_ ap ke liye normal line ....mere liye toh wo crush hain😍
He is truly a gem. He made it alive those splendidly written lines.
The most beautiful thought process....
Every word so true....
If only every man could think this way..... the world would be just just so very beautiful
Ayushmaan is yes one of my favorite actors
This punjabi man had faced a lot of prblms n had struggled a lot... He is really very down to the earth...
This speech will reach from your heart to every heart listening. Definition of a gentleman, well explained. People need to hear it, a person being macho and having six packs is not a Gentleman. A true gentleman respects everyone's beliefs and stands against something wrong happening in front of him.
Do you respect men for what they do for you. To be honest, men deserve more respect for their more contributions. Men built this civilization and filled it with Knowledge, Technology and spirituality. But women never understood men. They didn't respect them enough either.
This is the best poetry on men I have heard❤️❤️
Pta h baccho ko mei bhi sambhalta hu, bo thak ke ghr ati h to jinger bali chaye bhi uubalta hu
😍😍Very heart touching.
The line of Ayushmann khurana was amazing and quite inspiring. Everyone should listen and think about it. Sir you had a gave a chance or a way to become a Gentlemen in the real life..
Thank you so much for this.....
I had goosebumps..
And tears
Kudos to the writer of this masterpiece
And Ayushmann, your thoughts, you, you're beautiful ❤️
@@anamika7967 the end credits said some other name tho
Thats right ..the end credit says ..written by Gaurav Solanki ..I dont know who he is ... but must say that he has written one of the most "powerful" pieces ... and also must say that has been incredibly recited by Ayushman .... kudos to all
@@anamika7967 Abeyy zahil Gourav Solanki ne likha hai 🖕
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Writer of this masterpiece
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Writer of this masterpiece
He's really a very good actor , individual and a great husband 🙌
U can say about good actor..but it's his family who can say he is a good individual and only a wife that he is a good husband...what made u say he is a good husband...did u feel being his wife. Kabhi Uske Ghar me jaake rahi aap...mujhe Janana hai ki wo kya quality hai ki ho Aapne feel bhi nhi ki..aur Aapne tag de dia ki he is a good husband..pls...agar time ho to btana...I want to know how girls judge without knowing much about his so private life
I am a girl and literally while fighting with everyday struggles that I have to face just because I'm a girl is heart breaking.......I wish every men understand the difference between men and women and still appreciate it and not make her feel lower than him .
But you will definitely make him feel lower than you. That he is less capable than you
You know Ayushmann sir ! You inspire me every moment ! You live in my heart ! Thank you for this wonderful and heart touching recitation. No one could do this, the way you did !
You're such an inspiration for this generation Sir...
Written by someone else told by Ayushman 😜 to bolo inspiration kon huwa
Turning whole generations into NAmard , this video is bullshit
One of the best thing ever said for 'gentleman' ....... Hats off to u
This has really touched my heart. Even ayushman played it so well.. hats off to the lyricist...
amazing reality of life which can be not be seen so easily...
I am so feeling so greatful now..after watching this in quarantine time..I can't explain in my words..so soothing to listen and feeling it..😘😘😘
Don't tell us to "man up" hide our tears
For its hard, and we have our fears
And in the dark days, we hide we cry
life isnt easy, we dont have it easy we pretend,we try
Pain, heart break we strive through we are tough
Crying in the rain with a smile cause its not enough
Not enough to think of the little world donning a tan
The sacrifices forgotten, the pain endured. So what does it mean to be a man...?
I wonder
#randommusings
That's so pretty!
As a man, I also feel scared. I also cry. And that's completely normal. That's just me. There should no shame, guilt, shyness or social stigma attached to these things.
After all, they are our basic human emotions. They are what keeps us alive. They are what makes us human.
It's 100 times better to be an emotional man than to be a lifeless, emotionless piece of junk. Atleast then, you can be yourself, your authentic and genuine self and not some fake, made up self, trying so hard to please others, who don't even matter to you. It is foolish to pretend to be something that you are not.
Atleast then, people can talk to you, understand your pain, relate to you, share their own sad stories with you and assure you that they will always be there for you. It is only then that you can make real friends for life. That you can feel true happiness and true peace.
God gave us emotions as a gift, not as a burden. It is these emotions of happiness, sadness, etc which make our lives worthwhile, memorable and meaningful. They are what keeps us alive. They are what makes us human.
Narendra nath Chatterjee wow
Means a lot. I write random stuff all the time.. You know when reality gets too suffocating😂😂
@@neingtyyyy ... Amazing.. 👌
"Whenever feel suffocated ,
Take a pen & a file;
❣️Pour all your treasure
And compile in a style.
Forget the past,
For a while;
One day you'll realize,
How you Gracefully
travelled the Miles. "🌉🎢🌅
🤟
1:00 and after 2 years... You've got another great movie. 👍🏻👍🏻
The every word he said touched my heart
I respect men not because my idol said it but because men literally do everything for us
Ayushmann I am literally proud to be your fan
Thanks for being a sane woman
Even in this vedio, some people are just degrading men to praise women. Women should not be put on pedestal. Everyone is human
Me : I don't like to listen speeches.
This is ayushman giving a speech!
Me: Arreh mere liye ayuu kaafi Hain❤️(rushing to listen the speech)
Very nicely said made my day. Lines talking about darkness and Heart of 300 gms Brought tears inmy eyes. Thanks for expressing the unexpressed.
it's my 25th time hearing this and still, I love it.
I don't how many times i have seen this video.. i am just fascinated about every single words of him.. touching my Heart every time i hear this
Extremely well written lines and very beautifully delivered by Aayushmaan😘😘This poetry really shows what kind of 'gentle man' we need today....loved each and every line
But in real life I have to hide my feminity in me
A grand salute to Gourav Solanki for such lines 🙏🙏🙏🙏
And Ayushman is the actual Gentleman in film industry no doubt...
People can't stop loving such a talented artist 😊😊😇😇😇😇
The most beautiful ad till date in my life. Let's appreciate Gourav Solanki and Ayushmaan Khurrana for their amazing work. Lots of Love ❤️❤️❤️
Wow... can't describe in words how proud I feel when someone believes that man is beyond being macho... excellent words!!!