@@keeshamarie2889 😅😅😅 it’s such a rollercoaster listening to her she’ll be clocked in for like 30 seconds of direct questioning then clock right back out and go on snooze mode 🛌
he absolutely does. Sounds like the last one told her the truth on his way out but she listened at nesto tell her it was all lies. Now this new lawyer wants his 💰💰 up front. He ain't fkn round with no payment plan. So he talking to the person writing the check. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He's full of 💩!! All he talks about is the bond that he will never get! When he laughs with his son and friends, saing, "Player, what's up player? He has played and used women most of his life! Using Shirley is actually senior abuse!! 😢
Shirley why are you paying his bills? This is why you are broke, you knew he was a criminal before you married him and you still went ahead with this, why???? BIG RED FLAG 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
It’s sick how Shirley didn’t even question the fact that he had new charges involving inappropriate depictions of minors. All she wanted to do was encourage him and speak of Job!! I get so annoyed with her.
THE REASON BEING, IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT, THE CASE OF FRAUD HAS REALLY NOTHING TO DO WITH PICTURE ON A LAPTOP, SO LOOKING IN , IT SEEMS THAT ITS JUST CHARGES TO THROW IN TO KEEP HIS BOND HIGHER, NO WAY THESE WILL STAY RELEVANT . MIGHT BE THROWN OUT LATER. LIKE ONIONS BEING THROWN IN WITH THE APPLES.
Nesto keeps trying to GIVE HER AN OUT!! She refused to acknowledge it!! If Shirley leaves him it will ONLY be because of the embarrassment related to Sonya and the other women. That's it, that's all! 🥴
He just told her that they said he had pictures of under age children and she didn’t even question it. She should have been all over it like who, what, where, when and how. It’s sad listening to her.
If someone says that being married to you is their ONLY reason for doing right, you need to run for the hills. You're hearing from the horse's mouth that they have no SELF-motivation to be a decent human being, & he's telling you all this at the same time that he's been charged with possession of child prn. Shirley is no victim. At this point, she's just a willfully ignorant enabler. And using Biblelese and spacy religious talk to justify her BS makes her look like a crazy, zombie-ish zealot... like the mom from the "Carrie" movie.
YES , BUT YOU ARE FORGETTING THAT GOD FACTOR, GOD IS A FORGIVING GOD AND SHIRLEY THINKS HES A CHANGED MAN. THIS IS THE BROKEN ONCE , BUT FIXED BY GOD ERNESTO. SHIRLEY IS ALL IN. GOD IS GOOD AND WHAT EVER YOU PUT ME THROUGH AT THE END WE WILL PROSPER.
Exactly what I'm thinking as I listen to Shirley keep saying 'I don't know why God is doing this...I just don't know what God has in mind with all of this, etcetra", The way she's talking like God's the one who's been running cons and caused all this mess when this mess was 100% created by the bigamist conman she thought she was married to. Good heavens!
NOOO THAT A COMPLIMENT TO A WOMAN OF GOD, SHE ALREADY KNOWS YOUR PAST, BUT SINCE SHE THINKS SHE IS A GOOD WOMAN, SHE THINKS HERSELF HAS MADE HIM BE A BETTER/GOOD MAN. SO HE SAID THAT KNOWING HOW IT SOUNDS TO HER. GODLY WOMAN MAKES CHANGE OF A BADLY BROKEN MAN. NOW GODLY MAN, THANKS TO HER. DONT TRY TO MAKE IT MAKE SENSE. LOL
A long list of different charges, different victims, but everyone is hating, lying, and setting him up.... and Shirley's words "character assassination "😏🙄. Lord I can't with a woman of this age being so dang gullible.
Shirley should not compare her salary to Steve Harvey’s . He is the STAR. it is HIS show. She WORKS FOR HIM. She should compare herself to Nephew Tommy and other employees.
Very immature. I was thinking that he sounds like a child when he kept saying people just don't like him and it's been that way all his life. Hunh?! Man, you're 58 years old. These charges have nothing to do with anyone's personal emotions towards you. The reasoning is illogical and sounds like a mentally underdeveloped teenager. Shirley didn't do her vetting properly on this guy.
This call is a perfect example of why the conversations between Sonya & Shirley are so different. Shirley is worried about money, a place to live & a car to drive. Sonya can be the bobblehead & stroke his ego all day because she doesn't have anything at stake. Sonya says her heart is involved, but I don't believe that. It's her ego too. She has Shirley Strawberry's husband's attention. Essentially, Nesto is playing with both of them.
At this point I’m really disappointed in Shirley’s acceptance of what ever he says and no investigation on her part. I believe he could shoot someone in front of her and she would say it was not his fault! Unbelievable that she is the face of strawberry letter 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Shirley is a Bible thumper and she be,in the whole people can change,as everything can through Christ and only saw light in him .prayed to see this to the point of trusted him blindly,what he tells her. She knew he had charges before and after after getting with him ,went to jail but only saw the man she loved who with prayer he could change. During one call she admitted she hardly saw him therefore knew nothing about what he was doing on in them street’s. She has said he was the only man who treated her right as many noted she was in abusive relationship with her daughters father for years. Nesto types reads his victims well ,knows how to mirror them ,take everything he can from the women he latched on to,then on to the next. Shirley is the type who many can tell her about Nesto,did and she ignored it and felt as a wife you have to trust your man before anyone else. But PCFP noted by April she stopped taking his calls and up to that month they became rare. She is at this moment months later hearing what we are,hearing he never loved her ,only saw his next target with larger pockets ,profile and contacts. She hear him stringing her along to make sure she continues to pay his lawyer’s and heard his plans with Sonya,him telling her to talk to his lawyer she was paying for. In this call she yes still was not questioning him,believing what he said about his charges but you hers the frustration her telling him all she had before getting with him ,her not being able to keep paying these lawyer’s that everytime they change it was costing her more .My prayers is that Shirley is in deep therapy after finally facing who she was with,what he did to her and others and learning even her marriage ti him was him again committing a fraud,scam .
She's so busy seeing how much it's a test for him and not herself.. This lesson might have been for her to see the light and move on. It's not going to end well.
He's BEEN telling her in no uncertain terms to leave and move on with her life. He said it again on this call to go on with her life and it appears she STILL don't get it. SMH
@@leneejohnson SORRY TO BURST YOUR BUBBLE, BUT HE HAS NOT EVER EVEN HINTED THAT AT ALL. HE LIKE TO WALK THE FENCE TO SEE HER REACTIONS, BUT SHE NEVER GIVE ANYTHING NEGATIVE TO IT. SO HE KNOWS WHAT HES DOING. THE CON IS TO BE HARD ON YOURSELF AND ACT AS IF YOU ARE GIVING UP ON YOURSELF, AND SHE COMES TO SAVE YOU AND BRING YOU BACK UP. NOW HE IS ASSURED THAT SHES STILL ON BOARD. CON 101
Ernesto: “They said I shot a bus driver, kissed a squirrel and flashed minors” Shirley- “ You can’t forget to pray, don’t lose faith” Me-🤦🏾♀️😩😤 Shirley gone keep her man uplifted no matter of the charges.
He is literally angry with the attorney for speaking with Shirley and sharing things about the case. He wants to control the narrative and get in Shirley’s ear before she can hear the details of the charges. He wants to control and manipulate her and the situation to keep her in the dark. Before, the attorney would only speak to her with his permission. Shirley is paying and his alleged wife, so he SHOULD be speaking with her and updating her!
HE NEEDS TO HAVE CONTROL OVER THE NARRATIVE AT ALL TIMES, HE HAS TO TALK TO PEOPLE PERSONALLY AND KEEP THEM IN THE LOOP. ONE WRONG CONVERSATION WITHOUT HIM KNOWING COULD LEAVE HIM WITHOUT RESOURCES. SHIRLEY IS HIS RESOURCE, HE DON'T WANT PEOPLE TALKING TO HER AND HE NOT KNOWING THE CONVO.
he's mad bcuz he couldn't control it and she found out exactly why he was up there and how much that bawn was. I always suspected that she never in the beginning knew what that bawn really was. I just cannot imagine a conversation not being had about a $1 million bond and here is the conversation with her absolutely out of her brain cells for discovering what he is really up there for and the bawn amount.😂😂😂😂
He wants to make sure Shirley stays dumb. Let all the facts come from him so he can sway what she thinks about it. If she soberly told the facts from his lawyer, she might wake up
I worked at the prison for years they don’t mess with them guys because most inmates don’t want more charges that’s one of the biggest prison myths out there that R and Pedo’s get hurt in jail
@@Teetoy4 nobody on the inside or outside wants to associate with someone with those kinds of charges. It could easily damage relationships and it’s not easy to do time isolated. Nobody said anything about violence….I’ve supported a loved on in prison and they definitely don’t fuck with certain people. You could be ostracized
That lawyer probably don’t want to deal with him because he has Shirley who is his wife paying and then he had his girlfriend calling him.. that lawyer see his games and lies!!
This clown want the lawyer to work on his four new charges for free Nesto getting ready to get hit with 20-25 years at his age he know it's a death sentence
i said the exact same thing. It's like she finally, to some degree , voices the reality of what this BS is doing to her financially m, mentally, socially and publicly. I suspect it is because of finding out about those child P charges and the dollar amount.
Right. God has already removed Nesto from her life but I think she knows. That's why she's not bothered. She always say it is what it is. She knows God is moving things around for her.
I’m shooketh😮 this is the closest he has gotten to honesty on any of these calls. I mean he knows how the pictures got there but I’m honestly shocked he actually told her. I’m also shocked she immediately went into the keep the faith nonsense instead of asking some important follow up questions.
NO, HE WORKING HIS CON ON HER, SOMEONE TOLD HER ABOUT THE PICS BEFORE HE COULD, SO HE HAS TO SOUND DISGUSTED AND SAY YOU KNOW I'M NOT ABOUT THAT, THEY TRYING HARD TO KEEP ME LOCKED UP. THAT WAS HIS ONLY PLAY, AND HE USED IT WELL.
He needs to REPENT. Shirley you have to know there is some truth to some of this with all these charges and the length of time he has been in jail. WAKE UP GIRL
THAT'S THE ONLY WAY HE CAN GO, HE NEEDS THE RESOURCES, SHE HAS IT, IF SHE START THINKING ONLY ON HERSELF, THEN HE HAS NOTHING. BELIEVE ME, HE KNOWS WHAT HES DOING. HE HAS LOT OF EXPERIENCE DOING THESE THINGS. HE WONT SAY ANYTHING THAT'S NOT BENEFICIAL TO HIMSELF.
Right! The nerve, he says to her: Your life is smooth and easy... nobody likes me. It's been that way my whole life. What a manipulative narcissist! Meanwhile her whole world has been turned upside down. But I'm feeling less and less sorry for her.
She said she had it all before he came into her life and still is too blinded to see that he's still the criminal he's always been and bringing her down with him.
Okay so she admitted to that but why are you still going thru what is wrong with you I have a friend just like her and she's nearing 70 go to the casino for crying out loud that's where the single older woman hang out
She’s said that saying on the radio show during plenty of strawberry letters. Ernesto had been arrested 3 times while they’ve been married and she stuck by him.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU ARE A CON MAN AND YOU PRETEND YOU FOUND JESUS AND YOU PRETEND TO BE SOMETHING YOUR NOT, BUT SHE THINKS YOUR THE MAN THAT YOU'RE PRETENDING TO BE??
He never wants to talk about the real issues when Shirley brings them up, especially the money part and not having a car or place of her own, he makes everything about him!!
Shirley explaining how she had an apartment, a house , & a car before she met him now she doesn’t have any of those things is sad.. shows how she blindly let this man ruin her life
Shirley ran straight game on this dude. She said he's getting a public defender, asked if he had anyone else to help him financially, said they are still married for now, said the attorney was all he had, told him to lean on the Lord & showed no emotion about the child abuse charge... All signs that she's getting the heck on & he didn't even realize it.
Shirley was just happy to be married.. on one of those calls she said he was arrested 3 times during their marriage, so no his past was not in his past.
This entire conversation was EXHAUSTING!! Nasto's level of understanding is juvenile!! How could Shirley have lived with this man-child for 8 years??!!
It was a way to see if Shirley was still all in and she is. He asking her about lawyer fees knowing damn well he not getting no bound. Wasting her money
She seems to be playing along,trying to up lift him,and he's realizing he's not going anywhere,no time soon,and he's bout to be a part of Shirley's past, he's shook...
I believe Nesto is one of those people afraid to stay away from his hometown for a long period of time. He ain’t gonna do nothing but go hide over at Lamont house cause he’s afraid to live anywhere else
Everyone is giving Shirley all of these accolades and praises for waking up.. but I don’t see it that way after listening to these phone calls.. she had a change of heart for self preservation, not because she became awoke.
Shirley, have you ever thought that of ALL the notable ppl in and around ATL, the powers that be would have better people to target & conspire against than YOUR husband? I mean....he's not a man of wealth, power, and influence, and he's not a threat to the establishment. It's not "they" who are trying to put stuff on your your insignificant, average Joe husband. It's your husband's continuously bad conduct that's been garnering him felonies for the last 40 years.
SS Clearly saw Several Major Red Flags 🚩 Even before marrying Triple OG the life-long criminal.. But she chose to ignore every single one of them!! Smdh
I’m proud of Shirley for asking questions and speaking her mind when he try to undermine her the gaslighting sparks is fading she ain’t playing slow no more
exactly. She admitted that it was true that she had plenty before she married him. He does not want to hear that being said. He thought she was going to chime in and say that's not true. She said "ITS TRUE!!😂😂😂
I THINK YOU WOULD BE JUST LIKE SHIRLEY, IF YOU NEVER SEEN HIM DOING OR SEEING HIM, YOU WOULD JUST THINK HES GETTING SET UP TOO. WHY WOULDN'T YOU TAKE A STANCE FOR YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU DIDN'T KNOW HIM TO BE THAT TYPE OF GUY??? YOU WOULD JUST THINK ITS TRUE AND HE DID HAVE THE PICS????
What will I do with my life when the SS and Nes calls end 😅
Same as me, just replay the old calls for things I missed.😂😂
TBPH HERE, I NEVER HEARD OF S. 🍓! AS THE SAYN GOES ON ONE OF MY MOTHER'S STORIES AS SHE CALLED'M...."AS THE WORLD TURNS!" 😂😅
No for real 😩😩😩
😂😂😂😂
😂I was just thinking the same thing
Shirley is the oddest combination of passive and aloof while still being randomly blunt and straightforward that I’ve ever seen 😮
This is THE comment! 🎯
It's baffling. Kind of like when a person falls asleep during a conversation but wakes up and continues with the convo like they didn't just doze off.
@@keeshamarie2889😂
Basically crazy
@@keeshamarie2889 😅😅😅 it’s such a rollercoaster listening to her she’ll be clocked in for like 30 seconds of direct questioning then clock right back out and go on snooze mode 🛌
What is wrong with Shirley S. This man said 3 more charges were added for having pictures of a minor....she tells him not to lose his faith 😳
She too focused on him losing his faith 🙄🤦🏽♀️ & thinks it’s the devil putting false charges on him
She didn’t even ask one question.
*That Part!*
Shirley is slow or whatever it is I hope it's not contagious
@@wonder5447 *Nooooooo, not contagious. SS is in trouble along with her husband. Look she lost EVERYTHING already, but this ain't over.*
When is it going to change from “hi hun” to “look mofo”!? 😂😂😂
or sob, wtf is yo malfunction! you got me all the way f up!⏳️ 🤔🤦🏿♀️ smh
Are not answering at all.
Yes! I'm waiting for those calls!
You See that corner street right down there?! You see it MOFO?!! Thats where you got me fked up at!!!
@@themoderndoll82I’m ☠️ 😂😂😂
Nesto wants these lawyers to lie to Shirley. He's so manipulative!
Exactly…. He’s a cold piece of work
he absolutely does. Sounds like the last one told her the truth on his way out but she listened at nesto tell her it was all lies. Now this new lawyer wants his 💰💰 up front. He ain't fkn round with no payment plan. So he talking to the person writing the check. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@CyberWorld999 ikr 😂
Ernesto can write a book on How to Con a desperate woman. He’s a smooth talker for a needy woman.
He ain't even smooth...
But the gag is he is not even smooth
He’s an old school playa😂
He's full of 💩!! All he talks about is the bond that he will never get! When he laughs with his son and friends, saing, "Player, what's up player? He has played and used women most of his life! Using Shirley is actually senior abuse!! 😢
@@karlabolden2 for a desperate woman with low self esteem he is. He’s been with a lot of women who bought his bulls$&t
Come on Shirley!! Job wasn't a career criminal! Job loved God! Job was a man of honor and integrity! So Shirley stop comparing nesto to Job!!!
IKR!! She must stop!
Amen , amen amen , an upright man
Lol real!!!
😂😂😂😂
@@aunt-tsandy5884 a and a man of great faith! He didn't love money either! That's why God restored everything back to Job ten fold
Nesto has some nerve not wanting the attorney to talk to Shirley when Shirley is the ONE PAYING THE BILL!! 🥴
THATS BECAUSE SONYA IS TALKING TO HIS LAWYERS FOR HIM!!
Also... He doesn't want her to find out the WHOLE TRUTH about his charges!
@DaughteroftheNile
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Yea why tf he asking How much??!... his blk azz ain't paying the attorney. Omg 🤦🏽♀️ Shirley is all kinds of dumb. Man he's conning tf out of her 😫😱🤬
Shirley why are you paying his bills? This is why you are broke, you knew he was a criminal before you married him and you still went ahead with this, why???? BIG RED FLAG 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Oh man... Did he just tell Shirley he wouldn't commit crime again because of who he married to? He so full of it.
Very telling
But was still committing serious crimes while married to the miss strawberry 🍓 🤔
It’s sick how Shirley didn’t even question the fact that he had new charges involving inappropriate depictions of minors. All she wanted to do was encourage him and speak of Job!! I get so annoyed with her.
THE REASON BEING, IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT, THE CASE OF FRAUD HAS REALLY NOTHING TO DO WITH PICTURE ON A LAPTOP, SO LOOKING IN , IT SEEMS THAT ITS JUST CHARGES TO THROW IN TO KEEP HIS BOND HIGHER, NO WAY THESE WILL STAY RELEVANT . MIGHT BE THROWN OUT LATER. LIKE ONIONS BEING THROWN IN WITH THE APPLES.
She's another brainwashrd dummy. They don't question much.
@chrisssmith3206 She as a woman should still question it. She already knows he has a criminal history
@@siriusjones956 I agree
She's not surprised because she knows and she is a victim too. Common sense is not so common.
Nesto keeps trying to GIVE HER AN OUT!! She refused to acknowledge it!! If Shirley leaves him it will ONLY be because of the embarrassment related to Sonya and the other women. That's it, that's all! 🥴
*Sonya might be the next wife. He told Sonya that he loves her.*
@@syfy898those are just empty words to him
Literally keeps saying it. What’s wrong with her? Smh
Yes he has been given her an out because that is easier than telling her the truth.
Where is Sonya?
@@syfy898well technically he was married to his first wife when he married Shirley so Sonya will still be a side.
So Sonya the side piece can speak to your attorney that your wife is paying for. But your wife can’t ???
Is she actually talking to the lawyer...or is she researching public records..on line?
SHES DOING IT ALL. CRIMINALS KNOW OTHER CRIMINALS AND THEY COLLABORATE ALL THE TIME AND GET THINGS DONE. JUST SAYING.
@@chrisssmith3206 You sound like you’re either Shirley or Sonya.🤔
@@Dontbadummysonya is researching public records at the library
@@CyberWorld999 exactly...cause how is Sonya talking to the lawyer but Shirley not! And people believe that 🙄
He just told her that they said he had pictures of under age children and she didn’t even question it. She should have been all over it like who, what, where, when and how. It’s sad listening to her.
14:30 agree, don't know how ppl still listening 2 her
I was just coming to comment about that; like how do you hear that & say “mmm hmmm”
She's like "yea aight". 😂
A lot of women go deaf, dumb and blind to keep a man and will forsake their children family members and friends. It’s disgusting.
I DO NOT understand Shirley AT ALL!
If someone says that being married to you is their ONLY reason for doing right, you need to run for the hills. You're hearing from the horse's mouth that they have no SELF-motivation to be a decent human being, & he's telling you all this at the same time that he's been charged with possession of child prn. Shirley is no victim. At this point, she's just a willfully ignorant enabler. And using Biblelese and spacy religious talk to justify her BS makes her look like a crazy, zombie-ish zealot... like the mom from the "Carrie" movie.
Say it louder for Shirley. Fuq the b-----s in the back.
That part
YES , BUT YOU ARE FORGETTING THAT GOD FACTOR, GOD IS A FORGIVING GOD AND SHIRLEY THINKS HES A CHANGED MAN. THIS IS THE BROKEN ONCE , BUT FIXED BY GOD ERNESTO. SHIRLEY IS ALL IN. GOD IS GOOD AND WHAT EVER YOU PUT ME THROUGH AT THE END WE WILL PROSPER.
Exactly! It’s EMBARRASSING! Church brain can be detrimental… keeps one from reality and from thinking critically. 💯👀💅🏾
That’s what I was thinking, it shouldn’t matter who he’s married to. Right is right and wrong is wrong.
We keep saying poor Shirley, but... Shirley needs to WAKE UP!! He would have been cursed out 50 times over by now. Using God for this foolishness
Exactly what I'm thinking as I listen to Shirley keep saying
'I don't know why God is doing this...I just don't know what God has in mind with all of this, etcetra", The way she's talking like God's the one who's been running cons and caused all this mess when this mess was 100% created by the bigamist conman she thought she was married to.
Good heavens!
He basically said, “I didn’t go back to my criminal ways because of YOU” not because he is no longer a criminal. 😩
And THAT should have told her everything!
🙈 😕 🙈
That right there!! 🖕🎯
NOOO THAT A COMPLIMENT TO A WOMAN OF GOD, SHE ALREADY KNOWS YOUR PAST, BUT SINCE SHE THINKS SHE IS A GOOD WOMAN, SHE THINKS HERSELF HAS MADE HIM BE A BETTER/GOOD MAN. SO HE SAID THAT KNOWING HOW IT SOUNDS TO HER. GODLY WOMAN MAKES CHANGE OF A BADLY BROKEN MAN. NOW GODLY MAN, THANKS TO HER. DONT TRY TO MAKE IT MAKE SENSE. LOL
🤦🏾♀️🥴
It don’t make no sense how empty my evening was without these calls 😂😂😂 let’s gooo
Lol
I must not have a life I have totally ignored my husband thank God for sports
the way I just choked on my chicken laugheing at this. 🤪
@@cherylfeaster7784😂
@@wonder5447Girl yes😂
A long list of different charges, different victims, but everyone is hating, lying, and setting him up.... and Shirley's words "character assassination "😏🙄. Lord I can't with a woman of this age being so dang gullible.
Stew~ped is the word
Water seeks its own level! Birds of the same feather...flock together! Why do people think Shirley is naive...don't know...not an accomplice?
YES ,HES A RIGHTEOUS MAN SENT TO SHIRLEY BY GOD HIMSELF. THIS WILL PASS, GOD IS JUST TESTING THEM, SO THEY BELIEVE, LOL
@@chrisssmith3206 STOP! The delusions are enough! 🤡🗑️🤦🏾♀️👀💅🏾🚩
Shirley should not compare her salary to Steve Harvey’s . He is the STAR. it is HIS show. She WORKS FOR HIM. She should compare herself to Nephew Tommy and other employees.
Exactly, Steve has several jobs…
Where is her husband’s money? Supposedly he had several businesses. 🙀
Steve is the brand. Of course he makes more. She is as delusional as Nesto.
I guess I didn’t realize how immature he is! She sounds like she’s his mother. Totally different conversation with Sonya
Yeo!! Ands by the way, "Where is Sonya!!" 🤥
Very immature. I was thinking that he sounds like a child when he kept saying people just don't like him and it's been that way all his life. Hunh?! Man, you're 58 years old. These charges have nothing to do with anyone's personal emotions towards you. The reasoning is illogical and sounds like a mentally underdeveloped teenager. Shirley didn't do her vetting properly on this guy.
And Shirley loves playing the role of his mother
He is always asking her " you understand what i mean" No , she doesn't, because you are speaking gibberish.
Right!!! That his way of controlling what she thinks.
He doesn’t want the lawyer to tell her what his charges are.
Exactly he was getting scared
I’m convinced Conesto speaks his own language…. Does anyone speak “Nestolingo?” Cause baby a Sistah over here struggling big time!! 😂😂
This call is a perfect example of why the conversations between Sonya & Shirley are so different. Shirley is worried about money, a place to live & a car to drive. Sonya can be the bobblehead & stroke his ego all day because she doesn't have anything at stake. Sonya says her heart is involved, but I don't believe that. It's her ego too. She has Shirley Strawberry's husband's attention. Essentially, Nesto is playing with both of them.
In this case, the side jawn is winning. 😂
I agree he is playing with both of them. They are useful tools.
At this point I’m really disappointed in Shirley’s acceptance of what ever he says and no investigation on her part. I believe he could shoot someone in front of her and she would say it was not his fault! Unbelievable that she is the face of strawberry letter 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Exactly!! I totally agree
The penis is a powerful thing,she is a nasty person very materialistic, and God is putting her in her place
Shirley is a Bible thumper and she be,in the whole people can change,as everything can through Christ and only saw light in him .prayed to see this to the point of trusted him blindly,what he tells her. She knew he had charges before and after after getting with him ,went to jail but only saw the man she loved who with prayer he could change. During one call she admitted she hardly saw him therefore knew nothing about what he was doing on in them street’s. She has said he was the only man who treated her right as many noted she was in abusive relationship with her daughters father for years. Nesto types reads his victims well ,knows how to mirror them ,take everything he can from the women he latched on to,then on to the next.
Shirley is the type who many can tell her about Nesto,did and she ignored it and felt as a wife you have to trust your man before anyone else. But PCFP noted by April she stopped taking his calls and up to that month they became rare. She is at this moment months later hearing what we are,hearing he never loved her ,only saw his next target with larger pockets ,profile and contacts. She hear him stringing her along to make sure she continues to pay his lawyer’s and heard his plans with Sonya,him telling her to talk to his lawyer she was paying for. In this call she yes still was not questioning him,believing what he said about his charges but you hers the frustration her telling him all she had before getting with him ,her not being able to keep paying these lawyer’s that everytime they change it was costing her more .My prayers is that Shirley is in deep therapy after finally facing who she was with,what he did to her and others and learning even her marriage ti him was him again committing a fraud,scam .
💯👏🏼🍸🍸She makes me so angry!🤬
@@StaceyNelsonTVNetwork ditto ☹️
Every time I listen to these calls....I LOVE MY HUSBAND MORE.
As you should!!!
I do too
More and more!!! Like wow smh
I be in the kitchen cooking, packing lunch and everythang. 20 years in.
@@keeshamarie2889🙏🏽🙏🏽👍🏽
Nesto: After saying a bunch of nothing....."You understand now?"
Every time he says that, I die a slow death. 😩😆
😢😢😢
He’s in jail and you’re still broke, because you chose to continue to take care of him! Move on with your life!
She's so busy seeing how much it's a test for him and not herself.. This lesson might have been for her to see the light and move on. It's not going to end well.
RIght you should have some money....but it is all of these lawyer fees and her getting everything taken from her.
And she has wasted her money paying for attorneys!! The S.O.B. is going to leave her for Sonya anyway! Let him rot!!🤔smh
He's BEEN telling her in no uncertain terms to leave and move on with her life. He said it again on this call to go on with her life and it appears she STILL don't get it. SMH
@@leneejohnson SORRY TO BURST YOUR BUBBLE, BUT HE HAS NOT EVER EVEN HINTED THAT AT ALL. HE LIKE TO WALK THE FENCE TO SEE HER REACTIONS, BUT SHE NEVER GIVE ANYTHING NEGATIVE TO IT. SO HE KNOWS WHAT HES DOING.
THE CON IS TO BE HARD ON YOURSELF AND ACT AS IF YOU ARE GIVING UP ON YOURSELF, AND SHE COMES TO SAVE YOU AND BRING YOU BACK UP. NOW HE IS ASSURED THAT SHES STILL ON BOARD. CON 101
Ernesto: “They said I shot a bus driver, kissed a squirrel and flashed minors”
Shirley- “ You can’t forget to pray, don’t lose faith”
Me-🤦🏾♀️😩😤 Shirley gone keep her man uplifted no matter of the charges.
😅😅😅😅
@traceysaglife983
Shirley - "This too shall pass"
🙈 😂 😂 😂 🙈
😂😅😂😂😅😅
She's crazy!! She's talking to the devil on the phone like he is Jesus! Wake the fluck up Shirley!! 🙄smh
😂😂
I feel nothing for her! She didn’t skip a beat when he told her what type of pics they found!! She ain’t 💩 either!!!
If someone said something like that about my uncle I would have lost it, let alone my Husband!
Exactly!!! Where is the outrage!!
I noticed that as well! She brushed it off immediately
"This too shall pass"........ Shirley 😡
she didn't even say whose kids. What kind of pictures? Because as a mother and grandmother I need to know
He is literally angry with the attorney for speaking with Shirley and sharing things about the case. He wants to control the narrative and get in Shirley’s ear before she can hear the details of the charges. He wants to control and manipulate her and the situation to keep her in the dark. Before, the attorney would only speak to her with his permission. Shirley is paying and his alleged wife, so he SHOULD be speaking with her and updating her!
HE NEEDS TO HAVE CONTROL OVER THE NARRATIVE AT ALL TIMES, HE HAS TO TALK TO PEOPLE PERSONALLY AND KEEP THEM IN THE LOOP. ONE WRONG CONVERSATION WITHOUT HIM KNOWING COULD LEAVE HIM WITHOUT RESOURCES. SHIRLEY IS HIS RESOURCE, HE DON'T WANT PEOPLE TALKING TO HER AND HE NOT KNOWING THE CONVO.
Nothing but facts!!!
he's mad bcuz he couldn't control it and she found out exactly why he was up there and how much that bawn was. I always suspected that she never in the beginning knew what that bawn really was. I just cannot imagine a conversation not being had about a $1 million bond and here is the conversation with her absolutely out of her brain cells for discovering what he is really up there for and the bawn amount.😂😂😂😂
@@chrisssmith3206 🎯🎯🎯🎯
@@CyberWorld999 exactly!!!!!!
I wish I could find me someone with as much faith in me as Shirley has in Ernesto 😂😂🤣
Exactly!!! 🤣🤣
Shirley talks to him like he's a caller at the station that she's giving words of encouragement.
😂😂😂😂😂
This is definitely a Strawberry letter topic. I would love to hear her advice for this one.
This man thinks Shirley shouldn’t talk to the attorney she retained? He’s crazier than I thought.
Actually Shirley is crazier....how is she paying a lawyer and don't know why?
Yup, red flag 🚩
Right?! 😂
He don’t want Shirley to know how sick he is but she knows and doesn’t care.
He wants to make sure Shirley stays dumb. Let all the facts come from him so he can sway what she thinks about it. If she soberly told the facts from his lawyer, she might wake up
Shirley is 100% SLOOOOOOW.
I just need a car.
He tripping like that because they don’t like child predators in jail. They will make life difficult for people with those kinds of charges
That part‼️
I worked at the prison for years they don’t mess with them guys because most inmates don’t want more charges that’s one of the biggest prison myths out there that R and Pedo’s get hurt in jail
Exactly!
@@Teetoy4 nobody on the inside or outside wants to associate with someone with those kinds of charges. It could easily damage relationships and it’s not easy to do time isolated. Nobody said anything about violence….I’ve supported a loved on in prison and they definitely don’t fuck with certain people. You could be ostracized
@@veronicawhitfield6008 I get that but they be in there sharing food trading stuff turning a blind eye to each other’s charges I swear
I want to hear the calls from when she found out about these calls 😂😂😂
3rd Attorney smh Shirley you could've paid less for a divorce.
He’s taking no accountability!
That lawyer probably don’t want to deal with him because he has Shirley who is his wife paying and then he had his girlfriend calling him.. that lawyer see his games and lies!!
Yep, it's a waste of his time.
This clown want the lawyer to work on his four new charges for free Nesto getting ready to get hit with 20-25 years at his age he know it's a death sentence
Every time you’re about to get out, here they come with more charges 🥴🥴😂😂😂😂😂
He’s testing Shirley to see where she is mentally about their marriage
HES DOING MORE THAN TESTING, LOL HES MAKING SURE THE CHAINS ARE STILL ATTACHED. LOL
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Also, he's trying to persuade her not to talk to the new lawyer so she won't find out about the real "Nasty Nesto."
Aug 30th 2024 it will be a done deal.
I think this is the first conversation where Shirley has really shown her frustration by emphasizing that she has nothing. She has no money.
i said the exact same thing. It's like she finally, to some degree , voices the reality of what this BS is doing to her financially m, mentally, socially and publicly. I suspect it is because of finding out about those child P charges and the dollar amount.
The very 1st! I said the same thing.
God is hollering at you Shirley and you are ignoring Him.
100%
Facts💯💯💯
Right. God has already removed Nesto from her life but I think she knows. That's why she's not bothered. She always say it is what it is. She knows God is moving things around for her.
This the comment!!!!
Whew! 🎯
We love listening to these calls like some of our moms & grandmothers loved watching soap operas
💅🏾And do, but he’s no Victor Newman
@@travelingtootie6945 You got that right hahaha
Truly
@@travelingtootie6945😂😂😂
But this is real life real people.
Him saying “it seems like my life is over” really exposes his guilt. Now that they have the pictures, the walls are closing in on him.
I suspect he really does not believe that. He's just trying to get Shirley to keep focusing on him and him only.
He also said who in they right mind is going to talk to me after this lol ninja you not getting out 😂😂
@@neka8607 nobody should've ever been talking to his munkee azz in the first place
He knows he not getting out he living in delusion
I've been waiting on these calls. Hope we get to hear the calls through the end of the summer. Nesto is on to us now...
Yep!! And we're on to him now too😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Shirley started to realize all that she had before she met him - homes and cars, and he immediately started playing the violin. She gets in align.
She has to admit it cause she feel and everyone keep telling her Silly a$$
I’m shooketh😮 this is the closest he has gotten to honesty on any of these calls. I mean he knows how the pictures got there but I’m honestly shocked he actually told her. I’m also shocked she immediately went into the keep the faith nonsense instead of asking some important follow up questions.
Well said. "Shooketh" ☠☠☠
He has to tell her so she won't be shocked when the lawyer mentions it. So he's smoothing it over first so she won't run. Just a con being a con
I think the lawyer told her and she messaged him what he told her. Nesto had to tell her and cover his bases.
@Mllascelles1 yes Nesto told Shirley that there's many others with
Same name as his..it's all a typo that requires a separate lawyer
NO, HE WORKING HIS CON ON HER, SOMEONE TOLD HER ABOUT THE PICS BEFORE HE COULD, SO HE HAS TO SOUND DISGUSTED AND SAY YOU KNOW I'M NOT ABOUT THAT, THEY TRYING HARD TO KEEP ME LOCKED UP.
THAT WAS HIS ONLY PLAY, AND HE USED IT WELL.
He needs to REPENT. Shirley you have to know there is some truth to some of this with all these charges and the length of time he has been in jail. WAKE UP GIRL
NO TRUTHS YET, ITS STILL JUST CHARGES, THIS IS THE PROBLEM.
@@chrisssmith3206
Deon is that you?? 😆
It’s truth to these charges boy!
Exactly 💯 Everybody ain't lying on him!!!
He said he's about to go sit in his cell and cry 😢
Crying for his self and not the people hurt.
Forest Gump had more questions for Jenny!!! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can’t wait to hear the recording where she cuss him out.
These calls not good for my relationship. They drop during my drive home, by the time I walk in the door I’m ready to swing on everybody 🤣
😂😂😂
He’s talking to Shirley because she is his ATM. She pays the bills so he has to keep her in place. Smh
This is the realest conversation I’ve heard the 2 of them have
Yep!! This one was a lot
Makes me mad every time he downplays what she is going through and turns the sympathy on himself😡she is going through A LOT😡
He has that really bad
He always the victim, being setup by others!
😡 😡 😡
THAT'S THE ONLY WAY HE CAN GO, HE NEEDS THE RESOURCES, SHE HAS IT, IF SHE START THINKING ONLY ON HERSELF, THEN HE HAS NOTHING.
BELIEVE ME, HE KNOWS WHAT HES DOING. HE HAS LOT OF EXPERIENCE DOING THESE THINGS. HE WONT SAY ANYTHING THAT'S NOT BENEFICIAL TO HIMSELF.
Right! The nerve, he says to her: Your life is smooth and easy... nobody likes me. It's been that way my whole life. What a manipulative narcissist!
Meanwhile her whole world has been turned upside down. But I'm feeling less and less sorry for her.
He keeps saying he hates that she's involved but he's the one putting and keeping her in this mess.
He's just playing on her sympathy.
@loiscobb687 all she has to do is leave but alas her she is
He went from this to “it’s civil!” 😂😂😂
His intelligence is basement level.
😆😆😆
At best!
I’m done!!😂😂🤣🤣
Wait till Nesto find out Steve just renewed her for 5 million 😮💨
THAT PART!!!
She didn't renew for 5 million. It was a false report
She just said she don’t make no where near in the millions Steve does
And…….after all the people he scammed he says no one likes him. He’s a piece of work.
I have no remorse for Shirley or Nastyo!
Me either. He takes no accountability and neither does she for allowing him into her space.
I don't either until SHE WAKES THE F UP❣️
She said she had it all before he came into her life and still is too blinded to see that he's still the criminal he's always been and bringing her down with him.
Okay so she admitted to that but why are you still going thru what is wrong with you I have a friend just like her and she's nearing 70 go to the casino for crying out loud that's where the single older woman hang out
She just didn't or don't see it. It's everybody else's fault.
He's being so manipulative. "Nobody likes me. Its been that way all of my life."
Did she ever hear of the old saying “If someone shows you who they are believe them!” She has on blinders. So sad
She’s said that saying on the radio show during plenty of strawberry letters. Ernesto had been arrested 3 times while they’ve been married and she stuck by him.
@@blaquebeauti2u exactly
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU ARE A CON MAN AND YOU PRETEND YOU FOUND JESUS AND YOU PRETEND TO BE SOMETHING YOUR NOT, BUT SHE THINKS YOUR THE MAN THAT YOU'RE PRETENDING TO BE??
He never wants to talk about the real issues when Shirley brings them up, especially the money part and not having a car or place of her own, he makes everything about him!!
Yep, that's what Narcissist do!
THE CON IS THE MONEY AND HE WILL WORK THAT CON TILL ITS NO MONEY LEFT. MONEY BAGS SHIRLEY
Shirley explaining how she had an apartment, a house , & a car before she met him now she doesn’t have any of those things is sad.. shows how she blindly let this man ruin her life
Shirley ran straight game on this dude. She said he's getting a public defender, asked if he had anyone else to help him financially, said they are still married for now, said the attorney was all he had, told him to lean on the Lord & showed no emotion about the child abuse charge... All signs that she's getting the heck on & he didn't even realize it.
I’m invested but this is so sad. At her age her biggest fear was running out of money and he gave zero fucks.
A whole different GAME BALL 😅😮😂😂😂
😂😂😂
This woman has given way more than $100,000 on Attorney fees I’m sure🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
Not to mention her home, cars, savings, family, friends, dignity.....
I wish I would SMH
@@tonyt8805That part
NOT HER MONEY ITS THEIR MONEY TO BE USED FOR RESTITUTION AND OTHER THINGS.
@tonyt8805 😢 the family and dignity is the worst💯
I can’t stand the way that he tries to act so innocent! He knows full well that he is not worth 2 cents. Just stop LIE-NESTO!
Job would be offended by the comparison to this demon.👿
Shirley was just happy to be married.. on one of those calls she said he was arrested 3 times during their marriage, so no his past was not in his past.
Can’t believe SS doesn’t have a car yet 😂😂 Girl!!
This entire conversation was EXHAUSTING!! Nasto's level of understanding is juvenile!! How could Shirley have lived with this man-child for 8 years??!!
I’m so surprised he even told Shirley about the pictures of minors. She totally blew it off.
It was a way to see if Shirley was still all in and she is. He asking her about lawyer fees knowing damn well he not getting no bound. Wasting her money
She seems to be playing along,trying to up lift him,and he's realizing he's not going anywhere,no time soon,and he's bout to be a part of Shirley's past, he's shook...
The lawyers told her first I think
Same. I was expecting her to have found out in the news and him not being honest about it
Shirley! This is Job, please keep my name up out of this sh*t!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
Bruh!!! I'm hollering
@kimharris30039 me too😂😂😂
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He is so desperate to get out because I think he already knew what charges were coming and he wanted to get out and disappear.
Exactly. He knew
I believe Nesto is one of those people afraid to stay away from his hometown for a long period of time. He ain’t gonna do nothing but go hide over at Lamont house cause he’s afraid to live anywhere else
Omg he can’t even comfort Shirley with her frustration on all what’s going on in her life.
He’s not even apologetic. He cannot sympathize with her. He’s so full of himself.
Shirley is taking her coins back! Told Nasty he will be using a public defender! Loll!
Everyone is giving Shirley all of these accolades and praises for waking up.. but I don’t see it that way after listening to these phone calls.. she had a change of heart for self preservation, not because she became awoke.
👏👏👏👏
Facts!! She was about to lose her job!!
Not once has he even attempted to console Shirley!! He ONLY speaks on how hard this is on him and she’s the one who lost everything 🤦🏾♀️
This is the best call
Agree
It’s really what Shirley is NOT saying for me. Where are the questions about those pictures at least? C’mon Ms. Shirley🤦🏽♀️
Shirley, have you ever thought that of ALL the notable ppl in and around ATL, the powers that be would have better people to target & conspire against than YOUR husband? I mean....he's not a man of wealth, power, and influence, and he's not a threat to the establishment. It's not "they" who are trying to put stuff on your your insignificant, average Joe husband. It's your husband's continuously bad conduct that's been garnering him felonies for the last 40 years.
DITTO!
Amen!
Exactly! I didn’t even know he existed until these phone calls came out 😂
@@nea415 Right. I didn't know he existed until he was arrested and jailed last year.
he's below average intelligence for sure
Lord please help Shirley, save her from this situation
If I went through this like Shirley, I would never trust my judgement in another relationship. This is wild😢
People tried to warn Shirley before she married him. Relationships are ok we just can’t ignore red flags abs Expect a fairytale.
@gurlwhowants2dj
How am I ever gonna remember that Psalms starts with a P 😢
Exactly. I would lock myself away like a werewolf. You clearly can't trust your own judgment.
SS Clearly saw Several Major Red Flags 🚩 Even before marrying Triple OG the life-long criminal.. But she chose to ignore every single one of them!! Smdh
I’m proud of Shirley for asking questions and speaking her mind when he try to undermine her the gaslighting sparks is fading she ain’t playing slow no more
Finally! She said that’s all true. I lost everything…this is true.
I’m like, About time! Stop minimizing what you are going through.
exactly. She admitted that it was true that she had plenty before she married him. He does not want to hear that being said. He thought she was going to chime in and say that's not true. She said "ITS TRUE!!😂😂😂
Yes……. Thru these 2023 calls, Shirley seems a little smarter and a tad more vocal off her feelings!
Proud of her for that???? She blew off the minor pics charges & you’re proud?
I don’t think I’ve heard him just simply say…
”I’m sorry”
Never
He doesn’t say he’s sorry until June 2023, which is when she drops his azz!
I pray she is healing. This man turned her World upside down 🫶🏽
When she said “when I met you I had a house, Apt. and a car” Ding ding ding now you are homeless, no car and broke! WTH
Hearing her say that did something to me im not gonna lie
@@janayjay68me too 😢
He mad Shirley got the tea before him and he cant maintain control over her. He likes keeping her in the dark.
If my man called me from prison and told me that pictures of minors were found on his computer, we would be talking about everything but the Bible.
RIGHT❣️
I'll be calling him everything but the child of God. You got me bleeped up bruh!!!!!
I THINK YOU WOULD BE JUST LIKE SHIRLEY, IF YOU NEVER SEEN HIM DOING OR SEEING HIM, YOU WOULD JUST THINK HES GETTING SET UP TOO.
WHY WOULDN'T YOU TAKE A STANCE FOR YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU DIDN'T KNOW HIM TO BE THAT TYPE OF GUY???
YOU WOULD JUST THINK ITS TRUE AND HE DID HAVE THE PICS????
@@chrisssmith3206look at the big picture it's overkill he's doing to much
Yes!!!!
29:37 she’s comforting him, but he never comforts her… sad!!!
Mannnn he tried that whole PITY PARTY GAME with "SIMPLE SHIRLEY" and she ate it up AS USUAL!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏾
Moses! I literally screamed y'all!
RUN SHIRLEY RUN GIRL BE GONE IS SHE SERIOUS GIRL WALK AWAY ASAP