And this is why I love women who have value and morals. They understand and know their body correctly. As a man myself who struggles with releasing my energy/semen retention, it is so darn important to protect your aura. You cannot give your body to anyone and everyone. You have to trust your alignment and the universe will attract what you sow, which takes time. Temptation and distractions easily control our lust and temporary desires. I have been celibate for since January 5th, and I can say it proudly that I love myself enough to not give my energy to someone I dont know deeply or trust.
It’s actually sad how many people truly just don’t care, think it’s a game, and won’t realize till it’s too late. But we all need our own experiences to learn that ofc. Celibacy is a gift to yourself. 🙇🏽 It makes you realize how many people only want to have a piece of you instead of really learning who you are as a person and just being a friend fr. When people value themselves and their energy is when they will understand this whole notion. #HigherSelf (Gotta do the work!!!)
much more people need to think this way! your body is a temple and not just anyone should have access to it. i am not having sex until marriage, not even for religious reasons, it just makes sense to wait for someone that you wholeheartedly love and trust
I was always aware of the sacred energy and never had a one night stand, to young women reading this you are divine. Do not Just give access. But I have to give this girl credit for the courage she had to open this topic. There are men out here that are aware and not running up body counts. So don't loose hope. The problem is people don't believe in the higher power.
This is such a beautiful, authentic reminder. I’m celibate right now, but sometimes I crave intimacy (not just sexual, just the feeling) so much that my stomach hurts and I get teary eyed. I’m not sure what I need to heal to stop this.
funny enough i was feeling like this last night, i decided to go outside and tune into my breathe, listen to some good music. be embraced by nature. i no longer felt the heaviness. But allow yourself to feel the emotions of craving that intimacy! its part of the process
love to see your beautiful face on my feed. glad you touched on this topic because i always tell people this and they literally be laughing when i tell them sex is energy exchange, to be cautious who you give your body to. its just nice to hear someone else spread light to this situation because now having sex with many people is populaized and its disgusting.
These last two videos that you've uploaded exude spiritual and mental maturity that I think is really dope. Every single word that you said resonated a lot with me. As someone who has been celibate myself for some time, I REFUSE to be intimate with a woman who has not been doin the inner work. That shit throws off your whole essence. Being intentional with who you choose to become one with physically, is very important and a lost art this current generation doesnt understand! Keep sharing your light, Carla!!
Im so glad you resonated. I feel the same way. Being celibate is a gift to yourself, showing yourself how much you value your temple!!! Much love to you. ♾️🦋♾️ Stay elevated.
I am 27 been celibate for roughly 3 years and feel great because yes you do need to make sure you are doing the inner work! and yes you will attract in like minded people! I clearly found your channel for a reason! your mindset is similar to mine! Thank you for this video! Due to me bettering my self concept, I find myself not liking rap music as much and can not vibe with tons of reality tv since they are obsessed with mindless sex. Also, even content online tons and tons of people having sex without any precautions and just having kids with any and everyone like NO. I am glad i healed and evolved into a new healthy version of myself. and yes unconditional love is out there and is a wonderful kind of love to experience
So proud of you. In divine timing we will attract beings to share scared intimacy with, for now, protect your energy! And listen to your intuition, it will never lead you the wrong way. Blessings to u☘️☘️☘️
You dropped a gem at 13:30 edit: just reached the end, you popped up in my recommended yesterday, I kept the tab saved/open and I'm grateful to hear these like-minded words. Keep up the vulnerability, because others can resonate and heal themselves in their own ways through all the nuances you share
Definitely agree with your perspective. It’s almost like the longer you’re on this path , the more powerful you become lol. But I experienced similar things with heightened creativity and the interest issue with women who aren’t aligned in the same space I am. Also not entirely related to the video but once you become one with self , things change for the better on different levels.
just reading the title of the video brought me a sense of peace and understanding. my mind was jumbled thinking of relationships and whatnot but a reminder of how deep sexual connection is helped my remember that these interactions are a lot deeper than they seem. im okay with it all taking time plus trail and error.
girl im 18 and our virginity story is the same🤣im baffled at how similar it is but im sorry it was terrible. i feel you about wanted to get it over with but its taught me that i dont want to have sex with someone i dont have a connection with because its took away from my energy way too much as well as lowering my worth.
Girl. I'm 18 as well. I've been through so much shit tho. So I jumped into a relationship hoping it save me. I ain't even love myself. Now I'm focusing on myself and healing my trauma's. WHEN I TELL YOU, SEX HAS LITERALLY MADE MY NEGATIVE THOUGHTS AMPLIFY. I even started feeling drained and suicidal. Now I've been celibate for almost 7 months. Phew.
@@JaedaWorthy-cp4bh Being in a relationship when you dont love yourself really makes you see shit i can relate to you on that. im so sorry that the sex made you think more negatively glad youre focusing on yourself only up from here girl🩷
For men holding their seed can boost testosterone and build so much drive in their lives and experiencing it first hand with my partner it’s truly beautiful and transformative.
I was sold by the title but this is such a necessary conversation and something I've been contemplating most recently. We really aren't taught very well about platonic connections, friendship and courtship, just being patience and learning about a person first. We're taught about "fun" which sounds like a synonym for "Toxic". Thank you for this 🌈💖
I actually needed this today, this tapped so deep into my family and my shadows and a lot that i have gone through thank you for not making me feel alone
I have lost and am losing all my male friends and have been betrayed by the closest. I am male. Most were in secret competition with me and some were in the closet harboring unreciprocated feelings for me. The most recent I am separating from is just weak and needy and will hold me back. I have also been celibate for about 4 years. Truly worth it but an insane challenge. Now I have a woman I love who is undeniably for me even when I tried to run the divine always draws us close again.
ive been binge watching your videos and it really helps me get out of my negative lonely feelings of my negative thoughts and karmic debt, you really help me realize how important it is to focus on making the changes we know we need to and cherishing and learning more about energy and spirit connection that I need to work on with myself truly, thank you
You are so wise beyond your years. I'm much older than you yet caught myself nodding in heavy agreement with your thought processing lol. This just goes to show that age, race, gender, sex means nothing when the message needs to be delivered! It's clear you are doing the work with great impact. Can't wait to hear about the day you meet your divine masculine ✨️
Wow this is such a deep topic that I didn’t think I needed to listen to since I already felt I grasped it enough but midway through I was like yup I came to this for a reason. It’s so hard bc I’m trying to understand my sacral blockages and when you said your creativity peaks when you’ve been the most celibate I was like 😮😮😮 that makes so much sense esp as an artist!! There was one time in middle school the guy I was dating made me so anxious I couldn’t make art next to him and I wasn’t myself. It’s crazy. I also LOVED what you said about being platonic friends first, I think that would help me a lot as someone who has met great guys through sex but end up being unsure if I like them or if I’m just addicted to that momentary physical connection that’s not only feeding my ego but years of unprocessed trauma (being held for example) it’s SO comforting but then I’ll feel exhausted and sleepy the next day and it’s confusing where I had been more energetic the days before. It really is about observing how you feel afterwards but there’s been times this year after hookups where I’d say wow I feel so calm- it must be good and I’m fine, but I’d cry when they left in the morning to ghost me - so yeah what you said really resonated and you simply explained a lot of complex stuff so thanks for making this bc so many people treat it meaninglessly!!! ESP MALE RAPPERS UGH don’t even get me started!!! In highschool and in college in the south esp the rap I hear 24-7 being blasted esp by frats and athletes ugh! It’s so nasty and dehumanizing of women, and that’s coming from a singer songwriter rap lover Megan thee stallion lover but like a lot of it be so negative and then we were partying the negative music and the frequencies like it’s insane!!! It’s so negative and sad and 😮😮it makes sense bc we’re all fresh from trauma lol so we gravitate towards the music and sometimes a lot of times don’t even question it but gee wiz it’s scary sometimes how easily music can program us so thanks for bringing light to that bc it’s hardly ever spoken about at all!! ❤❤❤ sending love
I’ve been watching yt a lot recently you popped up on my feed I am honestly so grateful that you even make videos I am 15 about to turn 16 on July 16th so I’m happy that you are sharing this I love your energy your just very powerful I can tell it’s a very undescribable energy you have like I’m at lost for words almost lol
I absolutely love this video, not too many people take in account that sex is so so sacred and should not be done just because it’s an option. I’m currently 20 and my body count is less than 10 and by no means do I judge or care what others do but I always try to let them know that sex shouldn’t just be done for no reason. Of course I participated in hookup culture but I quickly realized that it just wasn’t for me at all. I lost my virginity at 17 and during that time those around me would talk about sex all the time and it did make me somewhat insecure because I was the odd one out but I’m glad I didn’t succumb to their own ideologies of sex and get a relatively high body count. Two out of the six bodies I have were within relationships and I really valued the act as well as them as a person. Currently I’m relearning how to look at women with eyes of a man, a future husband instead of eyes of a lustful boy. Getting more tapped in with the universe as well as God has truly been helping me in my journey. Thank you for making this video and sharing your experiences🫶🏿!
Awareness is everything. Im so proud of you and the work you are doing for yourself and for the world. I feel as a man you taking the right steps will allow you to lead by example to your peers as well. Love and blessings to you.
@@carlavargas Thank you so much for your kinds words of support. I just recently found your channel and I really do love hearing your insight! I’m proud of you as well and please stay safe out here🫶🏿
Hello Carla...very informative content...Are you sure you're 22?? It took alot of self-awareness to be open like you are here...this is very sound advice for adults let alone the younger generation of people...this information is very applicable when looking at potential encounters one is gonna have with someone...I think one must have a sense of self-worth and self-value about themselves when encountering another person whether it's a friendship or "any" type of encounter...but respect of self and others is important...great video...have a blessed Friday!!
@@hanifamin-bey1858 He’s projecting & he’s blinded by it; pay no mind to him, for he has yet to find his way. Nonetheless, peace be to you & much love❣️
@@itachi_blvckitachi_blvck-jq6pf unsheathe you eyes, for you are blinded to a degree. Look inward, for your judgement is projection based; a part of you longs to be loved. Though take it if you will, take it if you won’t… either way you’re right. BE love & much love❣️
u inspire me sm, i'm beyond grateful (of the millions of yt channels) that this one found me. wow :D genuine ppl in an ingenuine society is becoming rarer and rarer...to stand in ur truth in the face of being ostracized is the sexiest!
it's interesting how conditional love in heterosexual relationships comes from indoctrination from the patriarchy !! i come back to this video every few months and it resonates deeper everytime :$
Amazing video. Yes your life force energy is vital and powerful. Only do that with people with genuine intentions and on a high vibration. Protect yo energy.. I agree sex is sacred and needs to be treated as such.. ❤❤
Men actually do love each other more than you think. Competition isn't a bad thing. It makes us better as men and gives us a drive to do better. Men are also more emotional than you think with our brothers/friends. You are just seeing everything online and think that's how reality is. There are still good men and women in the world, and most likely they aren't displaying their life on the internet.
I think friendly competition is okay, but theres a fine line where competition starts to integrate deeply in separation, which strays us away from wholeness (truth) that we are all one. Also i never take any of my sources or opinions off internet consumption. i was speaking about the men in my life (family) and how they lacked showing love to each other in ways the women in my family did. it was just a personal experience opinion.
@carlavargas I totally get your perspective and from your point of view that's valid. I apologize, because I meant to say some people see things online and see it as reality. But as far as competition yes there's the side of it as you explained, but as a man living in such a competitive world its better for us than not. It helps us navigate through life and we are warriors at heart. That's part of the masculine energy. Not to say that men shouldn't be integrated in our feminine as well. As men we do have to learn both the intellectual/logical side and the emotional/intimate side equally.
@@KingDez808 We must all cultivate balance! In our feminine and masculine energies. Become fluid beings. Thank you for your thoughts. I appreciate you having an open mind to hearing my perspective, as I have the same. 😊
@carlavargas I agree and you are more than welcome. Thank you. I had my spiritual awakening a long time ago, and balance was a strong component to it. Meditation, self evaluation, accountability, healthy living/eating, and fitness are key to a more peaceful life. It's important to have these conversations and to see other perspectives. You have beautiful heart and mind so I knew I had to Sub and follow you on insta.
Peace reflection, for I have found more of me through you…❣️ In addition, there is so much more to be said for each of these topics. Given the perimeters, you explained it well. So well, in fact, that I truly feel that words don’t do you justice; but to try to encapsulate it & to say the least… you did amazingly & you are amazing. Thank you for being present & for showing up as you are; much love❣️ P.S. 21:52 is my favorite part of the video… The awareness, the acceptance, the puzzled ponder in-between which lead up to the joy-filled “he crazy” 😂. Ahh, I love them type of moments; thanks for keeping it in there.
Literally, from what I was taught in school to the age I lost my virginity. Everyone was always talking about it so I told my bf I was ready....I want‼️
this the second video ive watched from you, Im very glad to have seen both. 'duality' I actually watched with the intention on discovering parts of me that still viewed things with a sense of duality. This one because I grasp the importance of harbouring your sexual energy and was interested on your perspective on the topic also the title looked kinda cool, which ultimately led me to realize the sense of uncomfort it gave me simply talking about the topic. Thank you ma'am Im grateful to have stumbled upon your channel.
This was beautiful. First thing first, the title itself is fire.. very creative & eye catching. Nonetheless this video was very well spoken by someone who is clearly in tune & well connected with self & everything that is. As you talked, I connected with every word for the full of 33 mins which is impressive in itself. Continue to stay true. Continue to spread YOUR message YOUR reality YOUR truth, because as you know, it won’t go unnoticed & as you know, it’s needed. Thank you. Love ❤️
I agree.. Music plays a huge role especially in the US Society. Music is also called incantations. I switch my music to french R&B and Afrobeat. what I found about french is their lyrics is more sensitive. as an example, this was an outro to a song called Les Meteaux by Smeels: "Respect is the minimum When life is good, sometimes it surprises me I'll answer if the mini rings I want to see her in person, not on the phone Not on the phone When life is good, sometimes it surprises me." Also, that is huge thing is to kindle brotherhood.. it doesn't have to be a huge brotherhood. keeping a small circle and share the love.
I really resonated with this video, was surprised even on the level that I did. I too believe that sex is sacred which is a switch from before I ever experienced it myself and only saw movies with it or it in porn, the knowledge of why it actually matters who you share that experience with (beyond religion saying it’s a sin and that’s it) came afterwards lol which I’m so grateful for. You are also so beautiful physically and energetically ofc ✨
the most meaningful of having sex is to get liberation together with our sex partner and enter into the realm of enlightenment. The practice of Tantric Sex is one of the ways to achieve it.
This why im practicing celibacy as a man i battles with lust and empty connections all in the name of feeling less lonely at some point u got to look at yourself and realise everything is in your control and you dictate what you encounter i was encountering women who had nothing but lustful intentions because thats how i navigated the world i love that we could be vulnerable about sex sex used to be taboo for me when i was younger i learned from seeing porn my friends showed my and music like you said im glad i found fhis channel love and prosperity ❤
From the time I lost my virginity at 17 I became a karmic to a lot of women , sexualizing woman from the easiest thang to the coach’s on hs women’s basketball. I used to pride myself not even knowin all my friends wanted to follow , not knowing that I’m leading my homies to chasing when I was the only one havin actual income to support
I’m glad more and more people are becoming intuitive with deep importance and sensitivity when two people are sexually intimate. You are quite literally exchanging dna and energy with another person, choose wisely
I think the difference between men having a lot of sex and women having a lot of sex comes from the idea that the average woman can easily have all the sex that she wants. There's always lots of guys that will have sex with a less attractive, insecure girl any day. On the other hand for guys it's much more difficult to have a lot of sex. If you're an unattractive, insecure guy you will basically not have sex
Long story short I was blessed with a beautiful daughter from a karmic grown women twice my age , that I’ve finally broke n parted ways from n because of my daughter I had a spiritual awakening been celibate 5 months
I’m here to speak more on the topic of sex being sacred… I 100% agree and I honestly feel like you should be friends with anyone at the base of your bond in order to further communion in anyway to my knowledge women are more emotional and men are more logical due to my unique nature I have had the privilege to be able to be balanced in a sense of being emotionally and logically inclined with whomever I’m in bondage with!! Being friends with a female then it later blooming into a more intimate thing where u wanna have sacredness with each other is a very tough place for a (man,guy, child of god)bc the value of our friendship that we have nurtured through bonding is so valuable then we decide to lay down and please each other and then after you see the eyes of your friend in bondage leave and it becomes the eyes of a lover luster.. I’ve literally seen the change with someone I valued far beyond sex and honestly that hurt more than anything and has made me celibate as well as not open to having sex with someone regardless of how much they value me or I value them it’s krazy ik this is all over the place but any advice ??
the war between men and women has been constituted by the industries that put out the things we see and hear pushing a message that intends to keep us in the lower three chakras that desire sex, food, and power. it ain’t even a fight between us they just mask it that way so the hate looks like it’s coming from out there rather than in here if that makes sense. this is why love is so powerful because the heart is the bridge to the higher three chakras i mean we wonder why it’s green like the earth that’s what it means to be between heaven and hell when it is opened and it’s also the reason why yeshua always pointed to the heart in paintings. we must balance the heart by having that unconditional love and gratitude for ourselves that will then overflow into others. obviously easier said than done, i personally am needing to do lots of healing myself but i do think being mindful of this stuff can shed light on the darkness of our society’s status quo when it comes to sexuality. infinite love and gratitude to all , dom.
It is important to acknowledge that sometimes you just want to be used. You said you did not love yourself enough to know you should be selective with sex partners. It is okay to sometimes just have sex rooted off physical attraction. When you are young that happens. As you grow you know that there needs to be more. Also, the idea of having kids starts to be at the forefront of the mind as time goes on. So sex just because is not really as attractive.
Also, the man having lots of partners double standard is becoming evened out. I never liked it. I saved myself until I was very close to someone I trusted. Was a long term relationship, then it ended. People told me to go explore but I still choose celibacy to maintain in my own energy. I can see when people just want something from me and when they want ME for who I am.
Nothing much to disagree with here. Sex is sacred. But not alot of people are in tune to that. I would have sex with a woman I would experience visions during sex and my dreams that night would be unfamiliar. Once it happened it again with a different woman with different visions. At that point I innerstood sex isn't just sex. I guess I knew it all along but this realm makes it seems like it just something to do and nothing happens. Well That's not the case for me.
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“everything is meant for my growth if I allow it to be” I absolutely love that you said this
And this is why I love women who have value and morals. They understand and know their body correctly. As a man myself who struggles with releasing my energy/semen retention, it is so darn important to protect your aura. You cannot give your body to anyone and everyone. You have to trust your alignment and the universe will attract what you sow, which takes time. Temptation and distractions easily control our lust and temporary desires. I have been celibate for since January 5th, and I can say it proudly that I love myself enough to not give my energy to someone I dont know deeply or trust.
Or something as well. Lust of the eyes weigh you down
@@GoldenLamentation agreed!!
“Struggles” with releasing my energy…hahahah okay man
You read my entire comment and picked out the one thing that clearly was not intended to come across how it did. Great job.
😂 women having morals, very funny.
It’s actually sad how many people truly just don’t care, think it’s a game, and won’t realize till it’s too late. But we all need our own experiences to learn that ofc. Celibacy is a gift to yourself. 🙇🏽 It makes you realize how many people only want to have a piece of you instead of really learning who you are as a person and just being a friend fr. When people value themselves and their energy is when they will understand this whole notion. #HigherSelf (Gotta do the work!!!)
Facts celibacy is a BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY ✨
Yes yes yes
much more people need to think this way! your body is a temple and not just anyone should have access to it. i am not having sex until marriage, not even for religious reasons, it just makes sense to wait for someone that you wholeheartedly love and trust
Soo off topic but ur profile picture is fucking hilarious. Thank u for watching! (:
@@carlavargas thank u 😭😭 i love ur videos
I was always aware of the sacred energy and never had a one night stand, to young women reading this you are divine. Do not Just give access. But I have to give this girl credit for the courage she had to open this topic. There are men out here that are aware and not running up body counts. So don't loose hope. The problem is people don't believe in the higher power.
This is such a beautiful, authentic reminder. I’m celibate right now, but sometimes I crave intimacy (not just sexual, just the feeling) so much that my stomach hurts and I get teary eyed. I’m not sure what I need to heal to stop this.
funny enough i was feeling like this last night, i decided to go outside and tune into my breathe, listen to some good music. be embraced by nature. i no longer felt the heaviness. But allow yourself to feel the emotions of craving that intimacy! its part of the process
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love to see your beautiful face on my feed. glad you touched on this topic because i always tell people this and they literally be laughing when i tell them sex is energy exchange, to be cautious who you give your body to. its just nice to hear someone else spread light to this situation because now having sex with many people is populaized and its disgusting.
thank u for showing up and allowing me to speak my mind. i love you! ☘️
Your face is the most important think when retaining attention from others especially in the age of widow media. Prettiness makes heart grow fonder
MUAHHH! always my queen. @@carlavargas
These last two videos that you've uploaded exude spiritual and mental maturity that I think is really dope. Every single word that you said resonated a lot with me.
As someone who has been celibate myself for some time, I REFUSE to be intimate with a woman who has not been doin the inner work. That shit throws off your whole essence. Being intentional with who you choose to become one with physically, is very important and a lost art this current generation doesnt understand! Keep sharing your light, Carla!!
Im so glad you resonated. I feel the same way. Being celibate is a gift to yourself, showing yourself how much you value your temple!!! Much love to you. ♾️🦋♾️ Stay elevated.
The wisdom you have at your age is amazing glad to see others on their spiritual journey speaking their truth, especially gen z
I am 27 been celibate for roughly 3 years and feel great because yes you do need to make sure you are doing the inner work! and yes you will attract in like minded people! I clearly found your channel for a reason! your mindset is similar to mine! Thank you for this video! Due to me bettering my self concept, I find myself not liking rap music as much and can not vibe with tons of reality tv since they are obsessed with mindless sex. Also, even content online tons and tons of people having sex without any precautions and just having kids with any and everyone like NO. I am glad i healed and evolved into a new healthy version of myself.
and yes unconditional love is out there and is a wonderful kind of love to experience
So proud of you. In divine timing we will attract beings to share scared intimacy with, for now, protect your energy! And listen to your intuition, it will never lead you the wrong way. Blessings to u☘️☘️☘️
You dropped a gem at 13:30
edit: just reached the end, you popped up in my recommended yesterday, I kept the tab saved/open and I'm grateful to hear these like-minded words. Keep up the vulnerability, because others can resonate and heal themselves in their own ways through all the nuances you share
Definitely agree with your perspective. It’s almost like the longer you’re on this path , the more powerful you become lol. But I experienced similar things with heightened creativity and the interest issue with women who aren’t aligned in the same space I am.
Also not entirely related to the video but once you become one with self , things change for the better on different levels.
watching this feels like looking in the mirror. this reallyyy resonates. gr888 vid
Wow, I loveeeee that u said that. Thank you, my fellow reflection. 🫀
U definitely attracted the right audience 😊
just reading the title of the video brought me a sense of peace and understanding. my mind was jumbled thinking of relationships and whatnot but a reminder of how deep sexual connection is helped my remember that these interactions are a lot deeper than they seem. im okay with it all taking time plus trail and error.
girl im 18 and our virginity story is the same🤣im baffled at how similar it is but im sorry it was terrible. i feel you about wanted to get it over with but its taught me that i dont want to have sex with someone i dont have a connection with because its took away from my energy way too much as well as lowering my worth.
Girl. I'm 18 as well. I've been through so much shit tho. So I jumped into a relationship hoping it save me. I ain't even love myself. Now I'm focusing on myself and healing my trauma's. WHEN I TELL YOU, SEX HAS LITERALLY MADE MY NEGATIVE THOUGHTS AMPLIFY. I even started feeling drained and suicidal. Now I've been celibate for almost 7 months. Phew.
@@JaedaWorthy-cp4bh Being in a relationship when you dont love yourself really makes you see shit i can relate to you on that. im so sorry that the sex made you think more negatively glad youre focusing on yourself only up from here girl🩷
For men holding their seed can boost testosterone and build so much drive in their lives and experiencing it first hand with my partner it’s truly beautiful and transformative.
I was sold by the title but this is such a necessary conversation and something I've been contemplating most recently. We really aren't taught very well about platonic connections, friendship and courtship, just being patience and learning about a person first. We're taught about "fun" which sounds like a synonym for "Toxic". Thank you for this 🌈💖
I actually needed this today, this tapped so deep into my family and my shadows and a lot that i have gone through thank you for not making me feel alone
Facts❗️You're on the right path. Stay focus and stay on track. Blessings 🙏🏽 💯
blessing us with these uploads omg
I have lost and am losing all my male friends and have been betrayed by the closest. I am male. Most were in secret competition with me and some were in the closet harboring unreciprocated feelings for me. The most recent I am separating from is just weak and needy and will hold me back. I have also been celibate for about 4 years. Truly worth it but an insane challenge. Now I have a woman I love who is undeniably for me even when I tried to run the divine always draws us close again.
ive been binge watching your videos and it really helps me get out of my negative lonely feelings of my negative thoughts and karmic debt, you really help me realize how important it is to focus on making the changes we know we need to and cherishing and learning more about energy and spirit connection that I need to work on with myself truly, thank you
Great way to start my rising!! 😊 Much love Carla
Giving substance and you’re glowing
I cannot explain how much wise words were being said! Like "ego-less sex"! Were the "ego" or "I" is not participating while having intimacy!
You are so wise beyond your years. I'm much older than you yet caught myself nodding in heavy agreement with your thought processing lol. This just goes to show that age, race, gender, sex means nothing when the message needs to be delivered! It's clear you are doing the work with great impact. Can't wait to hear about the day you meet your divine masculine ✨️
You're 💯 percent spitting facts. That energy exchange in sex is a real thing. Keep up the good work.
been going thru similar thought processes and revelations recently crazy to see someone vocalizing what you been thinking fr
As a former “toxic” nigga
Thank you for this video, real affirming nd even healing to hear this feeling articulated I b feelin the same 💯
thank you for this while get ready for my day
You're honestly my favourite TH-camr right now! 💕
I love every bit of the transparency
“He crazy” had me dying 🤣
Self mastery is the key. 🌀 I love the video✨
Wow this is such a deep topic that I didn’t think I needed to listen to since I already felt I grasped it enough but midway through I was like yup I came to this for a reason. It’s so hard bc I’m trying to understand my sacral blockages and when you said your creativity peaks when you’ve been the most celibate I was like 😮😮😮 that makes so much sense esp as an artist!! There was one time in middle school the guy I was dating made me so anxious I couldn’t make art next to him and I wasn’t myself. It’s crazy. I also LOVED what you said about being platonic friends first, I think that would help me a lot as someone who has met great guys through sex but end up being unsure if I like them or if I’m just addicted to that momentary physical connection that’s not only feeding my ego but years of unprocessed trauma (being held for example) it’s SO comforting but then I’ll feel exhausted and sleepy the next day and it’s confusing where I had been more energetic the days before. It really is about observing how you feel afterwards but there’s been times this year after hookups where I’d say wow I feel so calm- it must be good and I’m fine, but I’d cry when they left in the morning to ghost me - so yeah what you said really resonated and you simply explained a lot of complex stuff so thanks for making this bc so many people treat it meaninglessly!!! ESP MALE RAPPERS UGH don’t even get me started!!! In highschool and in college in the south esp the rap I hear 24-7 being blasted esp by frats and athletes ugh! It’s so nasty and dehumanizing of women, and that’s coming from a singer songwriter rap lover Megan thee stallion lover but like a lot of it be so negative and then we were partying the negative music and the frequencies like it’s insane!!! It’s so negative and sad and 😮😮it makes sense bc we’re all fresh from trauma lol so we gravitate towards the music and sometimes a lot of times don’t even question it but gee wiz it’s scary sometimes how easily music can program us so thanks for bringing light to that bc it’s hardly ever spoken about at all!! ❤❤❤ sending love
Oh and I gotta say, YOU ARE GLOWING.
I’ve been watching yt a lot recently you popped up on my feed I am honestly so grateful that you even make videos I am 15 about to turn 16 on July 16th so I’m happy that you are sharing this I love your energy your just very powerful I can tell it’s a very undescribable energy you have like I’m at lost for words almost lol
Glad to see you posting again 🤟🏽
Like your style. Congratulations on your 8 months.
The first person i'm gonna binge watch his old videos since 2019
I absolutely love this video, not too many people take in account that sex is so so sacred and should not be done just because it’s an option. I’m currently 20 and my body count is less than 10 and by no means do I judge or care what others do but I always try to let them know that sex shouldn’t just be done for no reason. Of course I participated in hookup culture but I quickly realized that it just wasn’t for me at all. I lost my virginity at 17 and during that time those around me would talk about sex all the time and it did make me somewhat insecure because I was the odd one out but I’m glad I didn’t succumb to their own ideologies of sex and get a relatively high body count. Two out of the six bodies I have were within relationships and I really valued the act as well as them as a person. Currently I’m relearning how to look at women with eyes of a man, a future husband instead of eyes of a lustful boy. Getting more tapped in with the universe as well as God has truly been helping me in my journey. Thank you for making this video and sharing your experiences🫶🏿!
Awareness is everything. Im so proud of you and the work you are doing for yourself and for the world. I feel as a man you taking the right steps will allow you to lead by example to your peers as well. Love and blessings to you.
@@carlavargas Thank you so much for your kinds words of support. I just recently found your channel and I really do love hearing your insight! I’m proud of you as well and please stay safe out here🫶🏿
u got a good vibe, blessings ur way
I have so much respect for you it's not even funny. Preach
I am only at 5:25, and wow it is like this video found me for a reason!!❤❤ you spoke to everything I am going thru rn and feeling !
i haven't even watch the video yet but i already understand just by the title!!
This has given me a lot to think about
Hello Carla...very informative content...Are you sure you're 22?? It took alot of self-awareness to be open like you are here...this is very sound advice for adults let alone the younger generation of people...this information is very applicable when looking at potential encounters one is gonna have with someone...I think one must have a sense of self-worth and self-value about themselves when encountering another person whether it's a friendship or "any" type of encounter...but respect of self and others is important...great video...have a blessed Friday!!
She doesn’t want you bro 🤣
@@itachi_blvckitachi_blvck-jq6pf WTH!!! What are you talking about? I have a son that's ten years older than her...relax Bro.
@@hanifamin-bey1858 He’s projecting & he’s blinded by it; pay no mind to him, for he has yet to find his way. Nonetheless, peace be to you & much love❣️
@@itachi_blvckitachi_blvck-jq6pf unsheathe you eyes, for you are blinded to a degree. Look inward, for your judgement is projection based; a part of you longs to be loved. Though take it if you will, take it if you won’t… either way you’re right. BE love & much love❣️
@@dhymondre how poetic
yes, you’ve attracted me after watching your first video 😊 sending you so much love back, te aprecio
u inspire me sm, i'm beyond grateful (of the millions of yt channels) that this one found me. wow :D genuine ppl in an ingenuine society is becoming rarer and rarer...to stand in ur truth in the face of being ostracized is the sexiest!
it's interesting how conditional love in heterosexual relationships comes from indoctrination from the patriarchy !! i come back to this video every few months and it resonates deeper everytime :$
Amazing video. Yes your life force energy is vital and powerful. Only do that with people with genuine intentions and on a high vibration. Protect yo energy.. I agree sex is sacred and needs to be treated as such.. ❤❤
Great title, thanks for talking about this
Men actually do love each other more than you think. Competition isn't a bad thing. It makes us better as men and gives us a drive to do better. Men are also more emotional than you think with our brothers/friends. You are just seeing everything online and think that's how reality is. There are still good men and women in the world, and most likely they aren't displaying their life on the internet.
I think friendly competition is okay, but theres a fine line where competition starts to integrate deeply in separation, which strays us away from wholeness (truth) that we are all one. Also i never take any of my sources or opinions off internet consumption. i was speaking about the men in my life (family) and how they lacked showing love to each other in ways the women in my family did. it was just a personal experience opinion.
@carlavargas I totally get your perspective and from your point of view that's valid. I apologize, because I meant to say some people see things online and see it as reality. But as far as competition yes there's the side of it as you explained, but as a man living in such a competitive world its better for us than not. It helps us navigate through life and we are warriors at heart. That's part of the masculine energy. Not to say that men shouldn't be integrated in our feminine as well. As men we do have to learn both the intellectual/logical side and the emotional/intimate side equally.
@@KingDez808 We must all cultivate balance! In our feminine and masculine energies. Become fluid beings. Thank you for your thoughts. I appreciate you having an open mind to hearing my perspective, as I have the same. 😊
@carlavargas I agree and you are more than welcome. Thank you. I had my spiritual awakening a long time ago, and balance was a strong component to it. Meditation, self evaluation, accountability, healthy living/eating, and fitness are key to a more peaceful life. It's important to have these conversations and to see other perspectives. You have beautiful heart and mind so I knew I had to Sub and follow you on insta.
Peace reflection, for I have found more of me through you…❣️
In addition, there is so much more to be said for each of these topics. Given the perimeters, you explained it well. So well, in fact, that I truly feel that words don’t do you justice; but to try to encapsulate it & to say the least… you did amazingly & you are amazing. Thank you for being present & for showing up as you are; much love❣️
P.S. 21:52 is my favorite part of the video… The awareness, the acceptance, the puzzled ponder in-between which lead up to the joy-filled “he crazy” 😂. Ahh, I love them type of moments; thanks for keeping it in there.
Thank you!!! I feel so embraced by these beautiful words. I appreciate you deeply. Thank you for being a part of my journey.
Literally, from what I was taught in school to the age I lost my virginity. Everyone was always talking about it so I told my bf I was ready....I want‼️
Oh, how’d that go for you? Twas the experience worth it?
How did I miss this video? Happy that you’re back x
Great video. Like I always say, not everyone should have access to the king/queen’s body & kingdom
this the second video ive watched from you, Im very glad to have seen both. 'duality' I actually watched with the intention on discovering parts of me that still viewed things with a sense of duality. This one because I grasp the importance of harbouring your sexual energy and was interested on your perspective on the topic also the title looked kinda cool, which ultimately led me to realize the sense of uncomfort it gave me simply talking about the topic. Thank you ma'am Im grateful to have stumbled upon your channel.
This was beautiful. First thing first, the title itself is fire.. very creative & eye catching. Nonetheless this video was very well spoken by someone who is clearly in tune & well connected with self & everything that is. As you talked, I connected with every word for the full of 33 mins which is impressive in itself. Continue to stay true. Continue to spread YOUR message YOUR reality YOUR truth, because as you know, it won’t go unnoticed & as you know, it’s needed. Thank you. Love ❤️
I agree.. Music plays a huge role especially in the US Society. Music is also called incantations. I switch my music to french R&B and Afrobeat. what I found about french is their lyrics is more sensitive. as an example, this was an outro to a song called Les Meteaux by Smeels:
"Respect is the minimum
When life is good, sometimes it surprises me
I'll answer if the mini rings
I want to see her in person, not on the phone
Not on the phone
When life is good, sometimes it surprises me."
Also, that is huge thing is to kindle brotherhood.. it doesn't have to be a huge brotherhood. keeping a small circle and share the love.
Great video..continue the great work
Celibacy Most Definitely Changed My Life As A Man! Best Thang I Ever Did For Myself ✔️
Thank you for sharing, this conversation was needed and it helps a ton!
For me, I'm truly monogamous and I never had a promiscuous phase. It was only one at a time with women I truly felt a connection with.
Hoodie is fire
I really resonated with this video, was surprised even on the level that I did. I too believe that sex is sacred which is a switch from before I ever experienced it myself and only saw movies with it or it in porn, the knowledge of why it actually matters who you share that experience with (beyond religion saying it’s a sin and that’s it) came afterwards lol which I’m so grateful for. You are also so beautiful physically and energetically ofc ✨
the most meaningful of having sex is to get liberation together with our sex partner and enter into the realm of enlightenment. The practice of Tantric Sex is one of the ways to achieve it.
This why im practicing celibacy as a man i battles with lust and empty connections all in the name of feeling less lonely at some point u got to look at yourself and realise everything is in your control and you dictate what you encounter i was encountering women who had nothing but lustful intentions because thats how i navigated the world i love that we could be vulnerable about sex sex used to be taboo for me when i was younger i learned from seeing porn my friends showed my and music like you said im glad i found fhis channel love and prosperity ❤
We deadass are a reflection of one another
Defiantly peaceful
From the time I lost my virginity at 17 I became a karmic to a lot of women , sexualizing woman from the easiest thang to the coach’s on hs women’s basketball. I used to pride myself not even knowin all my friends wanted to follow , not knowing that I’m leading my homies to chasing when I was the only one havin actual income to support
My low mind hates you, but you spitting facts. The world we live in, gotta change one step at a time
I’m glad more and more people are becoming intuitive with deep importance and sensitivity when two people are sexually intimate. You are quite literally exchanging dna and energy with another person, choose wisely
I think the difference between men having a lot of sex and women having a lot of sex comes from the idea that the average woman can easily have all the sex that she wants. There's always lots of guys that will have sex with a less attractive, insecure girl any day. On the other hand for guys it's much more difficult to have a lot of sex. If you're an unattractive, insecure guy you will basically not have sex
so basically men are easy
Thanks for sharing! Keep being you. We are blessed that you are. 🙏
I thought that was a Joint for a minute. I love your Energies God Bless you ❤
Long story short I was blessed with a beautiful daughter from a karmic grown women twice my age , that I’ve finally broke n parted ways from n because of my daughter I had a spiritual awakening been celibate 5 months
You beautiful goddess♥️ and keep spreading wisdom
I’m here to speak more on the topic of sex being sacred… I 100% agree and I honestly feel like you should be friends with anyone at the base of your bond in order to further communion in anyway to my knowledge women are more emotional and men are more logical due to my unique nature I have had the privilege to be able to be balanced in a sense of being emotionally and logically inclined with whomever I’m in bondage with!! Being friends with a female then it later blooming into a more intimate thing where u wanna have sacredness with each other is a very tough place for a (man,guy, child of god)bc the value of our friendship that we have nurtured through bonding is so valuable then we decide to lay down and please each other and then after you see the eyes of your friend in bondage leave and it becomes the eyes of a lover luster.. I’ve literally seen the change with someone I valued far beyond sex and honestly that hurt more than anything and has made me celibate as well as not open to having sex with someone regardless of how much they value me or I value them it’s krazy ik this is all over the place but any advice ??
Your thoughts are beautiful my sister.
Imma burn my blunt you burn da sage ❤ one love
the war between men and women has been constituted by the industries that put out the things we see and hear pushing a message that intends to keep us in the lower three chakras that desire sex, food, and power.
it ain’t even a fight between us they just mask it that way so the hate looks like it’s coming from out there rather than in here if that makes sense.
this is why love is so powerful because the heart is the bridge to the higher three chakras i mean we wonder why it’s green like the earth that’s what it means to be between heaven and hell when it is opened and it’s also the reason why yeshua always pointed to the heart in paintings.
we must balance the heart by having that unconditional love and gratitude for ourselves that will then overflow into others.
obviously easier said than done, i personally am needing to do lots of healing myself but i do think being mindful of this stuff can shed light on the darkness of our society’s status quo when it comes to sexuality.
infinite love and gratitude to all , dom.
It is important to acknowledge that sometimes you just want to be used. You said you did not love yourself enough to know you should be selective with sex partners. It is okay to sometimes just have sex rooted off physical attraction. When you are young that happens. As you grow you know that there needs to be more. Also, the idea of having kids starts to be at the forefront of the mind as time goes on. So sex just because is not really as attractive.
I needed this message today Asè Divine Goddess
Also, the man having lots of partners double standard is becoming evened out. I never liked it. I saved myself until I was very close to someone I trusted. Was a long term relationship, then it ended. People told me to go explore but I still choose celibacy to maintain in my own energy. I can see when people just want something from me and when they want ME for who I am.
Great view points!! 🙌
The Rebirth 😻
26:51 On some sapiosexual ish though, its the deeper connection of how you navigate your own begging and transcending your own understanding.
great information, good work
Very real, I dig the authentic share
Nothing much to disagree with here. Sex is sacred. But not alot of people are in tune to that. I would have sex with a woman I would experience visions during sex and my dreams that night would be unfamiliar. Once it happened it again with a different woman with different visions. At that point I innerstood sex isn't just sex. I guess I knew it all along but this realm makes it seems like it just something to do and nothing happens. Well That's not the case for me.
This world wants lust not love 💔
very needed
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it's better to be alone sometimes in order to heal.
I don't want to allow anyone to have the chance to destroy me again
I fw the content 🔥🤞🏾
I’m in love
thank you for this video ❤
INTENTIONAL 🎯
Great video!