Unlike other episodes, we’re putting on our *grown-up pants* and keeping things mature (mostly). We’re stepping into the world of adulting, and we've got Jacob join us! He’s more than a handsome face!🕴✨ From work-life balance to managing money and whether or not kids are on the radar, we’re tackling *what it really means to be an adult.* 💼🧑💼 *JobStreet Express* Looking for moonlight or considering a career change? Whether you're searching for full-time or part-time work, this platform offers a range of semi-skilled positions like F&B crew, admin assistants, retail sales, and warehouse assistants. Explore your options with Jobstreet Express today! Download the app here: bit.ly/OKJobstreetExpress This episode is also available on Spotify: bit.ly/GETITOUTSPOTIFY Full stories are here: bit.ly/FullStoriesEp6 *Take Part In Our Upcoming Eps & Submit Your Stories* We'll be talking about the internet's hottest 'Am I The Asshole?' debates, where we break down your real-life dilemmas to figure out who’s really in the wrong! 😈💬 Submit Your Stories For This Ep: bit.ly/GetItOutForm-AITA *You Just Want To Rant?* Submit ANY STORIES here: bit.ly/GetItOutForm Timestamps 0:00 Sneakpeak 0:17 Introduction 2:18 Quick Fire Questions with Jacob 5:52 Managing Work Life Balance 10:17 How much money is ENOUGH?! 16:01 Passion VS Salary 21:16 Pressure of getting into a Relationship 24:17 Dating in the Workplace 29:01 Declining Mental health from WORK?! 33:12 Beating INFLATION! 36:31 Not wanting kids Anymore 39:17 Staying with your Mother-In-Law 41:53 Buying a Car in Singapore 46:03 Wrap-Up! For more Ryan's unglams: th-cam.com/channels/N4KjsqbovLvPiAnyp64mIQ.htmljoin fewcents.me/overkillsg fewcents.me/ryanxgo
As a girl, I don't want to be dependent to my partner for financial security. I am responsible for my own finances, and I expect that he has the same mindset. The only security I need from my partner is emotional security.
Having kids is similar to maintaining one's lifestyle and one do have options to take. Example, helper vs DIY, Govt preschool vs Private preschool, Car vs no car. And so on... Those who think this is expensive that is expensive is because they have high expectations to meet or assume the society expects them to.
i just discovered your youtube and i can relate to most of your topics. i am proud to be singaporean. please keep it up. the contents are very relatable. thank you for not making me feel alone 😊
Actually, workplace relationships are common, but workplaces need to know, so that any potential conflicts are avoided (e.g. one part of the couple should never report to the other half).
i feel, it wont mean that cannot get gf without car, but definitely with a car you can get one more easily yaknow, like drive her out for dates or activity or small roadtrip to jb etc is easier than going places that are less accessible via public transport or still need to wait for grab..
1mil bto will be soon especially the prime category. But there is still 300k bto at the OCR, thus just say people can’t afford bto when they want to choose at prime area. It’s like saying my chai peng is very expensive as I only want to eat fish, sotong and pork chop.
nice episode, i think the guest did well but maybe still stick to 3 people if not it feels like cant get the insight of everyone. maybe rotate according to relevance or maybe the mo qi not there yet. but everyone did good
It's true that girls from part of millennial gen onwards are getting more and more materialistic, determine whether to date a guy base on car is one thing. If go on first date only if never bring her go eat at atas restaurant and treat her, she will upright comment "you poor thing can't even afford to bring her to restaurant and eat etc". I already feel numb to all these nonsenses and prefer to stay single already, feel much happier.
So true, and all the talk about gender equality and feminism isn’t helping much either. It seems like they want the benefits of earning a good salary and having a successful career but still expect guys to pay for everything and own a car so they can be the passenger princess.
If you say “don’t have kids as insurance for your old life”, then what is a good reason for having kids? Because other than bible’s “be fruitful and multiply”, almost every reason for having kids is selfish. “I love children” - just because YOU love kids you want to bring them to this world to suffer / leave them to fight for their own in this competitive and brutal world? “I want to be a dad/mum” - just because YOU want to experience parenthood you want to bring them to this world? “I want to continue my family lineage” - your kid didn’t ask to be brought into this world to continue your family lineage and multiply for you. “It’s part of life” - absolutely no reason whatsoever, having a kid just because is also extremely thoughtless and irresponsible. And based on what you’re saying, can I say the same when my parents ask for me to take care of them? I didn’t ask to be brought into this world - why should i take care of you. I didn’t ask to be born into a poor family, why should i work hard just so my family can have a good life? I didn’t ask to be an adult, why should i join the rat race just to survive in this world? Not trying to be rude or anything, but i wonder everyday why do people have kids? Will my spouse take care of me when I’m old then? Is it his/her responsibility then? I love my spouse but is it selfish to assume he/she will take care of me? What happens when my spouse die before me? Who will be left in this world to remember me, love me, care for me then? What will be the end of me? Die alone in my HDB flat’s toilet with my corpse rotting?
Unlike other episodes, we’re putting on our *grown-up pants* and keeping things mature (mostly). We’re stepping into the world of adulting, and we've got Jacob join us! He’s more than a handsome face!🕴✨ From work-life balance to managing money and whether or not kids are on the radar, we’re tackling *what it really means to be an adult.* 💼🧑💼
*JobStreet Express*
Looking for moonlight or considering a career change? Whether you're searching for full-time or part-time work, this platform offers a range of semi-skilled positions like F&B crew, admin assistants, retail sales, and warehouse assistants. Explore your options with Jobstreet Express today!
Download the app here: bit.ly/OKJobstreetExpress
This episode is also available on Spotify: bit.ly/GETITOUTSPOTIFY
Full stories are here: bit.ly/FullStoriesEp6
*Take Part In Our Upcoming Eps & Submit Your Stories*
We'll be talking about the internet's hottest 'Am I The Asshole?' debates, where we break down your real-life dilemmas to figure out who’s really in the wrong! 😈💬
Submit Your Stories For This Ep: bit.ly/GetItOutForm-AITA
*You Just Want To Rant?*
Submit ANY STORIES here: bit.ly/GetItOutForm
Timestamps
0:00 Sneakpeak
0:17 Introduction
2:18 Quick Fire Questions with Jacob
5:52 Managing Work Life Balance
10:17 How much money is ENOUGH?!
16:01 Passion VS Salary
21:16 Pressure of getting into a Relationship
24:17 Dating in the Workplace
29:01 Declining Mental health from WORK?!
33:12 Beating INFLATION!
36:31 Not wanting kids Anymore
39:17 Staying with your Mother-In-Law
41:53 Buying a Car in Singapore
46:03 Wrap-Up!
For more Ryan's unglams:
th-cam.com/channels/N4KjsqbovLvPiAnyp64mIQ.htmljoin
fewcents.me/overkillsg
fewcents.me/ryanxgo
Ben so cute! he dont have eyebrows!😂😂
Take life as it comes. Never rush. Things happen for a reason. Learn from the past, live in the present, strive for the future.
Very well said! 👍
As a girl, I don't want to be dependent to my partner for financial security. I am responsible for my own finances, and I expect that he has the same mindset. The only security I need from my partner is emotional security.
Good discussion and good words of wisdom 👍 more of such daily life adulting topics
Ryan's seat seems really comfortable ah? Is that a lazy sofa? Got from where ah. I give one like already
best series fr
!!! thank you so much 😛
Having kids is similar to maintaining one's lifestyle and one do have options to take. Example, helper vs DIY, Govt preschool vs Private preschool, Car vs no car. And so on... Those who think this is expensive that is expensive is because they have high expectations to meet or assume the society expects them to.
i just discovered your youtube and i can relate to most of your topics. i am proud to be singaporean. please keep it up. the contents are very relatable. thank you for not making me feel alone 😊
Thank you so much!!
Such episode and topic is really helpful and beneficial for young adults just like me.
Actually, workplace relationships are common, but workplaces need to know, so that any potential conflicts are avoided (e.g. one part of the couple should never report to the other half).
Next episode, they should try to get one of their female crew to join in and see if there will be a differing opinion from ladies. :)
i feel, it wont mean that cannot get gf without car, but definitely with a car you can get one more easily yaknow, like drive her out for dates or activity or small roadtrip to jb etc is easier than going places that are less accessible via public transport or still need to wait for grab..
1mil bto will be soon especially the prime category. But there is still 300k bto at the OCR, thus just say people can’t afford bto when they want to choose at prime area. It’s like saying my chai peng is very expensive as I only want to eat fish, sotong and pork chop.
nice episode, i think the guest did well but maybe still stick to 3 people if not it feels like cant get the insight of everyone. maybe rotate according to relevance or maybe the mo qi not there yet. but everyone did good
Hi ben can help me ask jacob who and where he cut his hair
Lets go
Another Get It Out episode🎉❤
Also, congratulations Nigel for finally getting called out😂
Ben has very good insights!
I've been single all my life (36 years). Will I be ready when I'm ready?
It's true that girls from part of millennial gen onwards are getting more and more materialistic, determine whether to date a guy base on car is one thing. If go on first date only if never bring her go eat at atas restaurant and treat her, she will upright comment "you poor thing can't even afford to bring her to restaurant and eat etc". I already feel numb to all these nonsenses and prefer to stay single already, feel much happier.
find thailand or vietnam girl.
So true, and all the talk about gender equality and feminism isn’t helping much either. It seems like they want the benefits of earning a good salary and having a successful career but still expect guys to pay for everything and own a car so they can be the passenger princess.
actually thats a good thing no? if she complain about you not bringing her to atas restaurant then you should know her type. stop loss
14:06 onwards really damn funny! Thanks for making an episode that can make me laugh and enjoy myself!
Really good!!!
Ryan how are you today ☺️ and I really like the video 📹
Jacob so handsome, can’t concentrate 😅😂 had to rewatch 3 times to realize what this video was about
ya dont worry, when i talk to him, i also mesmerized by his handsomeness that i don't really know what he talking about haha
- ryan
@@overkillsingapore ㅋㅋ cannot buy his doors later I want him open mine 😭
Adulting not easy 😢
i have a friend with the same name said the same thing. end up he is the first one to get married among us
If you do everything, you do nothing
2min into the video, and my main comment is.. wait till bro gets a kid.
and on this point, hope to see a part 2 for adulting w kids =)
If you say “don’t have kids as insurance for your old life”, then what is a good reason for having kids? Because other than bible’s “be fruitful and multiply”, almost every reason for having kids is selfish.
“I love children” - just because YOU love kids you want to bring them to this world to suffer / leave them to fight for their own in this competitive and brutal world?
“I want to be a dad/mum” - just because YOU want to experience parenthood you want to bring them to this world?
“I want to continue my family lineage” - your kid didn’t ask to be brought into this world to continue your family lineage and multiply for you.
“It’s part of life” - absolutely no reason whatsoever, having a kid just because is also extremely thoughtless and irresponsible.
And based on what you’re saying, can I say the same when my parents ask for me to take care of them? I didn’t ask to be brought into this world - why should i take care of you. I didn’t ask to be born into a poor family, why should i work hard just so my family can have a good life? I didn’t ask to be an adult, why should i join the rat race just to survive in this world?
Not trying to be rude or anything, but i wonder everyday why do people have kids? Will my spouse take care of me when I’m old then? Is it his/her responsibility then? I love my spouse but is it selfish to assume he/she will take care of me? What happens when my spouse die before me? Who will be left in this world to remember me, love me, care for me then? What will be the end of me? Die alone in my HDB flat’s toilet with my corpse rotting?
Ryan, look at NIGEL leh
jacob damn handsome
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Jacob is so handsome.