Girl just get rid of the mobile it’s more for the aesthetic looks .. he’s a toddler he doesn’t need it anymore .. of course he’s gonna play with it. Totally normal!
@@sarahscigo8686 That’s the best part of childhood! I got my Grandson playing IN a mud puddle, because I know we have a bathtub & the mess will clean. If you don’t allow kids to be kids, they can grow up resenting the parent. Childhood is soooo fleeting. Enjoy the sink water, if that’s the worst part he does as a kid, he will survive lol...
Honestly as long as you have drinks, snacks and entertainment, then travelling with children isn't so bad. I did it from the UK to America with 3 kids and one was 5 months old! 😊
@@LaVitaDiMeg i agree with Lindsey. Just book the flight early, my child slept through the whole flight (4 hours) and when we landed i had snacks ready and just waited until everyone got off to comfortably get off and that also gave them time to finish eating.
I had to take the mobile down pretty much once they started standing. You might want to move the mattress down too bc he’s pretty tall for his age. Another trick is put blackout curtains up. Add a couple safe toys to his crib too. It’s hard when you have just one kid bc they don’t have a playmate. Toddler stage is hard bc they don’t have their communication skills yet, thankfully it’s getting warmer where you live so you can get him outside to play❤️
I’ve watched you since the pink and purple room💜 Because of you I started my interest in hair and make up, I learned from you how to do my hair and I learned from you how to do my makeup. I love to see you grow in life and see how far you’ve come! Much love mama💖
Sensory play is so great for toddlers! Great job momma. He is at the age where you can teach him expectations surrounding safe play. For example while he’s drinking the water from the bin “Kaden, no thank you. We drink water from this cup *show cup he can drink from*. He is starting to understand!
Love you guys . And don’t let any of these women’s comments get you down. You are his parent and you will decide what’s best for him and learn as he grows. Sometimes I feel very overwhelmed with my 4 year old and there are days that I can’t get anything done because she wants all of my attention. Keep doing you girl!!! take the good advice and apply it and the rest dump it into the pile of unsolicited advice .
I’ve traveled with my almost 12 month old. She’s been on 25 flights now. Flying with her has been super easy! I bring snacks and toys and have shows downloaded on my phone just in case she gets super bored. I will say I also ordered a car seat bag and gate checked her car seat and stroller so they would be more gentle with it - they were not and they beat the CRAP out of both 😩 every time we travel with her car seat it gets more and more scratched and messed up. Luckily it’s our travel car seat but just giving you a heads up! He’ll be fine traveling!! Have so much fun! 🤗
You’re glowing meg! Seriously loving all these uploads. Just know the right people will be here to support you. And you always have your brothers & sisters in Christ. Sending love!!!!💕✨🤍
Glad you are finally playing with your son. He needs it, TV is not good for their developing brains. Also I suggest following a page on Instagram like Speech Sisters so you can work on speech with him. They are awesome!
@@Jessa8891 She said it herself that he watch’s Moana 3 times a day, that is 6 hours in front of a a tv on the couch. Not backhanded at all just told her it’s not good for him. It’s a fact. He shouldn’t be watching much tv at all. If he is going to learn things she has to interact with him.
Loving the videos Meg!! I have a 2 year old so I love to watch your videos you keep it real as a mom and I really appreciate you sharing how you feel on a daily basis as a mom.
Maybe you should consider giving greyson to your parents. I know you've mentioned greyson really loving your dad & since he doesn't seem to get very much attention ... he would probably be happier with your parents.
@@ritay1182 I'm pretty sure I can do whatever I want 😉 & my comment isn't based on one video, but several videos. It doesn't take a genius to see Megan isn't really much of a dog person & Greyson doesn't really get much attention.
Does she still have Greyson?? I honestly thought she gave him away. I’m still 2 mins in the video so maybe she shows him in this video, but I’ve commented before wondering where Greyson has been.
It’s funny how she says she can’t do anything with a toddler, I’ve seen other TH-camrs that our moms, vlog and on their own business!! She just complains and shops way to much!
Most of those TH-camrs have help. Most have their husbands/boyfriends working with them. Toddlers are a lot of work. She can complain as much as she wants.
The townhouse deck isn't that big! They have a backyard but no fenced for it! For that, if they wanted a fenced... they have to ask the landlord permission!
You’d think she’d take him downstairs to play in the yard. Fenced or not. Maybe she’s not allowed in the “man cave”. Funny how she pays for everything yet she’s shoved into a tiny extra bedroom and rat face gets a whole dang man cave
It’s so nice to have watched you grow over the last few years! My son is only three months older than Kayden so can totally relate to the struggles of this stage they are at. Love the more consistent blogs as well 💕💕
My daughter turns 2 next month and she still uses her summer chair. She LOVES it. We take it to the race track, pool, park, backyard. It’s perfect for everything even if she doesn’t use the tray much anymore the seat is still good size
Will Kaden sit in his car seat on the plane? If not then I recommend ordering a plane harness from Amazon. It goes around the seat and clips together like a car seat harness. It made all the difference for us traveling with a toddler. Otherwise my son would have been struggling to get out of the seat and wanting to run up and down the aisle 😅 If we had physically tried to hold him and keep him in the seat he would have had a tantrum but because it was similar to being in the car he was super chill about it. Total lifesaver 👍🏻
Giiiiirl don't even waste your your buying a new mobile. Kiddos just keep touching them. My son had a pottery barn one and he kept ripping all the toys off so I just made them toys for him lol. Kids don't care about the esthetic we try for ♡
I just can’t on Kadens shoes beyond cute 🥰 love your last three videos Meg, Hebrews 4 12 for the word of GOD is alive and active sharper then any double edge sword ❤️
just some advice re the flight with Kaden! I am a flight attendent so have had lots of parents and kiddos onboard, if you are stressed he will see that and act out, parents get onboard stressed saying to us oh he's going to be a nightmare/cry the whole time and make a huge deal out of it, of course if he see's that he'll feed off it. Just stay cool calm and collected it will be fine! I have seen one parent travelling with 5 kids and handle it better than two parents with 1 kid because they are making suss a fuss! have some snacks, iPad and something for him to suck on for landing for his ears and it'll be okay!
I’ve been watching you for the past six or seven years and I just found out I was pregnant so I have been binge watching all of your videos so now that you’re consistently posting it literally makes my day!! You’re doing an amazing job.
Don’t throw your used oil bottles!!! Soak in warm soapy water, peel labels off with orange oil to remove stickiness, and reuse for blends or gifts! You can buy roller tops to replace on them
Your doing such an amazing job mama this stage is hard and it gets harder your doing good I have a 2 year old and a 6 month old and my two year old Is off the chain just wanted to say your doing so good
I’ve loved you and your videos since day one! I’m expecting my first kid this August and I’ve had all your pregnant vlogs on repeat 😁wish nothing but love and health for you and you’re beautiful family❤️
Cant wait to see more Florida related content (packing for you and Kayden/what your bringing) and hoping you vlog lots while you’re there! I need a vacation so bad🤪 Loved seeing this vlog/food/outside play!
That salad looks yummy, but try this: Skip the oil and lemon and just drizzle the salad with white balsamic vinegar. Trust me, the flavor is so much better! Way less calories too.
Love the clothes you shared for Kaden. My son is 3 and those tropical button downs would be perfect for an upcoming trip we have to Hawaii. I’m going to try to find them!
I love that portable highchair. It's not the same brand I have but I think they are the same. You can actually strap it to a full size chair when traveling. My son loves it. We also take it to the park.
I feel like I leave this same comment over and over but you are such a great mom! You and Anthony are great parents! I adore watching your videos! Love ya Meg!
& for sensory bins look up ideas on pinterest. They have edible ones, colored pasta, etc so if he's gonna eat it at least it's safe and I put my son in swim trunks or his art shirt so when messes happen it's easy clean up :)
My son is 2 1/2 and he loves the water and pouring he will splash water all over the bathroom floor and some times he pours it into the floor too lol!toddlers are funny little things!Yes I agree with the other ladies dont buy another mobile he will keep playing with it and tearing them up.my toddler loves to take stuff apart and tear things up. 😅
Take the mobile and maybe hang it from the ceiling In the corner if you really want it in the room... that way it’s still displayed but out of his reach. I personally put mine away after a few months 🤷🏻♀️
Kaden is so cute and we love the setup of the room! If you want more fun things to entertain your kids, sing and dance to our representative animated children's songs.
If you want it super simple to travel with him on a plane in my experience with 3 littles make sure you have binkis/bottle/sippy cup handy for take off and landing. Take off and landing are hard on littles because of the pressure change and his favorite snacks and if he has favorite shows download them on your phone of some sort of tablet keeping him entertained and busy will make your flight experience a lot easier in the long run...
Girl just get rid of the mobile it’s more for the aesthetic looks .. he’s a toddler he doesn’t need it anymore .. of course he’s gonna play with it. Totally normal!
I was going to say the same, they become unsafe when they get older
Exactly!!
Agree
Don’t like to be negative but I do agree
For real.
Don’t buy another mobile, he’s too old for that lol
I would pass on buying another mobile for above the crib!
You're probably right 😂
Right. he’s too old
Yes it is a waste, he’s a toddler
Definitely to big for a mobile......
Learn to accept the mess and chaos girl. Toddlers are a breed of their own.
They definitely are 😆
“That’s sink water... that’s not good”😂 Girl, I grew up on a Farm drinking POND water that was green. He will be A-ok😂😁
This comment blew me away! Hose water in the summer, there was nothing like it!!
@@sarahscigo8686 That’s the best part of childhood! I got my Grandson playing IN a mud puddle, because I know we have a bathtub & the mess will clean. If you don’t allow kids to be kids, they can grow up resenting the parent. Childhood is soooo fleeting. Enjoy the sink water, if that’s the worst part he does as a kid, he will survive lol...
@@sarahscigo8686 omg! I thought I was weird for that! Nothing better than hose water 😂
@@byyoursideentombed Sink water won’t kill him😂Neither will water from a garden hose. All part of being a kid😊
Honestly as long as you have drinks, snacks and entertainment, then travelling with children isn't so bad. I did it from the UK to America with 3 kids and one was 5 months old! 😊
Wow, you're amazing, I can't imagine 😂 Fingers crossed he does well!
@@LaVitaDiMeg i agree with Lindsey. Just book the flight early, my child slept through the whole flight (4 hours) and when we landed i had snacks ready and just waited until everyone got off to comfortably get off and that also gave them time to finish eating.
Yes traveling can be hard at times. If you give him a tablet or somethin that makes noise to entertain him.
I had to take the mobile down pretty much once they started standing. You might want to move the mattress down too bc he’s pretty tall for his age. Another trick is put blackout curtains up. Add a couple safe toys to his crib too. It’s hard when you have just one kid bc they don’t have a playmate. Toddler stage is hard bc they don’t have their communication skills yet, thankfully it’s getting warmer where you live so you can get him outside to play❤️
Loving just the mom life vlogs Meg. Lots of your followers are in new chapters of their lives just like you 🤗
Good! It's nice to have other moms who can relate!
Don’t bother buying one of them pretty things above bed 😂 he will keep doing it haha
Love all your videos especially how relaxed and refreshing it is to watch someone with a normal life! X
💕💕💕
I’ve watched you since the pink and purple room💜
Because of you I started my interest in hair and make up, I learned from you how to do my hair and I learned from you how to do my makeup.
I love to see you grow in life and see how far you’ve come! Much love mama💖
Lol why even have a mobile if he's pulling on it? He's just going to keep doing it
Sensory play is so great for toddlers! Great job momma. He is at the age where you can teach him expectations surrounding safe play. For example while he’s drinking the water from the bin “Kaden, no thank you. We drink water from this cup *show cup he can drink from*. He is starting to understand!
Love you guys . And don’t let any of these women’s comments get you down. You are his parent and you will decide what’s best for him and learn as he grows. Sometimes I feel very overwhelmed with my 4 year old and there are days that I can’t get anything done because she wants all of my attention. Keep doing you girl!!! take the good advice and apply it and the rest dump it into the pile of unsolicited advice .
Proud of you for uploading consistently and for a good video!! Hope you’re doing well, mama! 💙
thank you!!! All the encouragement makes it worth it! 💕
@@LaVitaDiMeg good! You seem so happy and like you’re having fun in this vlog! You’re doing a good job! 💙
I’ve traveled with my almost 12 month old. She’s been on 25 flights now. Flying with her has been super easy! I bring snacks and toys and have shows downloaded on my phone just in case she gets super bored. I will say I also ordered a car seat bag and gate checked her car seat and stroller so they would be more gentle with it - they were not and they beat the CRAP out of both 😩 every time we travel with her car seat it gets more and more scratched and messed up. Luckily it’s our travel car seat but just giving you a heads up! He’ll be fine traveling!! Have so much fun! 🤗
Love these consistent uploads Meg!
Came here to say the same thing!!! 💓
Water table and sand box two great outside toys. Same with a outdoor play kitchen.
You’re glowing meg! Seriously loving all these uploads. Just know the right people will be here to support you. And you always have your brothers & sisters in Christ. Sending love!!!!💕✨🤍
Glad you are finally playing with your son. He needs it, TV is not good for their developing brains. Also I suggest following a page on Instagram like Speech Sisters so you can work on speech with him. They are awesome!
Love the upload. Walmart has inexpensive black lanterns that would go perfect on your porch. 3 different sizes.
What a back handed comment. We don't see their whole day. I’m sure she plays with him all the time without TV. Let's keep these remarks to ourselves.
@@Jessa8891 She said it herself that he watch’s Moana 3 times a day, that is 6 hours in front of a a tv on the couch. Not backhanded at all just told her it’s not good for him. It’s a fact. He shouldn’t be watching much tv at all. If he is going to learn things she has to interact with him.
get a life!
Loving the videos Meg!! I have a 2 year old so I love to watch your videos you keep it real as a mom and I really appreciate you sharing how you feel on a daily basis as a mom.
Thank you! I'm glad you can relate!
I think dark hair looks really good on you. Just sayin.
Maybe you should consider giving greyson to your parents. I know you've mentioned greyson really loving your dad & since he doesn't seem to get very much attention ... he would probably be happier with your parents.
@@ritay1182 I'm pretty sure I can do whatever I want 😉 & my comment isn't based on one video, but several videos. It doesn't take a genius to see Megan isn't really much of a dog person & Greyson doesn't really get much attention.
That is such a good idea!! 🐶
Does she still have Greyson?? I honestly thought she gave him away. I’m still 2 mins in the video so maybe she shows him in this video, but I’ve commented before wondering where Greyson has been.
Update: she does in fact still have Greyson. Just saw him in the video lol.
I make that same salad, I also add chickpeas, pumpkin seeds, and dried cranberries. It’s so good!
Chickapeas are great in salads!!!!
It’s funny how she says she can’t do anything with a toddler, I’ve seen other TH-camrs that our moms, vlog and on their own business!! She just complains and shops way to much!
Most of those TH-camrs have help. Most have their husbands/boyfriends working with them. Toddlers are a lot of work. She can complain as much as she wants.
He'd love a water table and a baby pool!! And hard pass on the mobile. He's too old for that and will just keep breaking it. Fun video!!
Where is GREY!?
Is it just a deck no yard at all? So it’s a balcony more so? That’s not common where I’m at except in apartments
In Anthony’s man cave, there’s a sliding glass door that opens to the backyard ☺️
The townhouse deck isn't that big! They have a backyard but no fenced for it! For that, if they wanted a fenced... they have to ask the landlord permission!
@@05heartbeat ohh i see. Even if it’s not fenced they never seem to take the dog out there, they could supervise him 🤔
@@anndam__ so many exclamation points
You’d think she’d take him downstairs to play in the yard. Fenced or not. Maybe she’s not allowed in the “man cave”. Funny how she pays for everything yet she’s shoved into a tiny extra bedroom and rat face gets a whole dang man cave
It’s so nice to have watched you grow over the last few years! My son is only three months older than Kayden so can totally relate to the struggles of this stage they are at. Love the more consistent blogs as well 💕💕
That's awesome! I'm glad you understand the struggle!! 💕
My daughter turns 2 next month and she still uses her summer chair. She LOVES it. We take it to the race track, pool, park, backyard. It’s perfect for everything even if she doesn’t use the tray much anymore the seat is still good size
Kaden is definitely your twin! He’s so adorable 😍 love his eyes!
I think your patio set is perfect! You have such a cozy setup out there.😊
Don’t buy another one
Girl, Kaden is your twin! He’s so precious!! 💙
He looks SO much like her!!
He looks so much like Anthony more I think
@@Beckyh921 really? Lol I see so much of meg
@@Beckyh921 not at all.
@@justjosiexo yes!! He’s such a cutie!
Will Kaden sit in his car seat on the plane? If not then I recommend ordering a plane harness from Amazon. It goes around the seat and clips together like a car seat harness. It made all the difference for us traveling with a toddler. Otherwise my son would have been struggling to get out of the seat and wanting to run up and down the aisle 😅 If we had physically tried to hold him and keep him in the seat he would have had a tantrum but because it was similar to being in the car he was super chill about it. Total lifesaver 👍🏻
Love that rainbow athlethic set youre wearing! That salad looks great! I'm comin over! Your patio looks so nice!
🤣🤣🤣 he's hilarious. So cute ♥️ Maybe it's time for a nap
Giiiiirl don't even waste your your buying a new mobile. Kiddos just keep touching them. My son had a pottery barn one and he kept ripping all the toys off so I just made them toys for him lol. Kids don't care about the esthetic we try for ♡
Put your empty oil bottles open in an Epson salt bag!! Your next bath will be magical 👍👍 by the way love your channel 🥰
That beach high chair is so cute!
The salad looks sooo delicious. Good job Megan. I gotta make myself one.
I just can’t on Kadens shoes beyond cute 🥰 love your last three videos Meg, Hebrews 4 12 for the word of GOD is alive and active sharper then any double edge sword ❤️
they look too small for him very cute
Deck arrangement looks good girl!
Thank you!!
Aww he so cute you should get him a baby pool for the deck 🙂❤
We had to take our kids mobiles down once they started to stand.
I have that plant stand (the $40 target one) PLEASEEE don’t leave it outside. It’s for indoor use, it’ll get ruined out there.
Loving all the vlogs!! Kaden is so freaking cute!!🥰
Thank you!! He knows it too 😂
So happy you’ve been uploading lately! 😊
You can also use that little chair as a booster at restaurants. My friend used hers until her baby was like 3
just some advice re the flight with Kaden! I am a flight attendent so have had lots of parents and kiddos onboard, if you are stressed he will see that and act out, parents get onboard stressed saying to us oh he's going to be a nightmare/cry the whole time and make a huge deal out of it, of course if he see's that he'll feed off it. Just stay cool calm and collected it will be fine! I have seen one parent travelling with 5 kids and handle it better than two parents with 1 kid because they are making suss a fuss! have some snacks, iPad and something for him to suck on for landing for his ears and it'll be okay!
The patio set is cuteee!!
Loved the spring vibes in this Vlog! Definitely going to make that salad, looks so yummy! Enjoy your Florida trip; can’t wait to see more vlogs 💙
Thank you!! We're loving the warmer weather! 💕
I love that Kaden is in the video and that he grabs the camera . So cute
I was thinking the same thing. He wants to do what mommy does.
I’ve been watching you for the past six or seven years and I just found out I was pregnant so I have been binge watching all of your videos so now that you’re consistently posting it literally makes my day!! You’re doing an amazing job.
Congrats! I just found out the same thing 🙂🙃 Eek! When are you due?
you are such a sweet mom, thank you for inspiring me Meg💕💕
So random...but, YOU HAVE LITERALLY THE PRETTIEST TEETH 😂 happy (early) Easter! I hope you guys have a beautiful weekend!! 💜💜
Agreed
Meg, Kaiden is soooooo cute!! He looks just like his momma!! ☺️☺️
Love this vlog 💕 toddler Target clothes haul was my favorite part ❤️ so stylish!
I love his little Queen tshirt! Great choice 👍🏻⭐️💙
Don’t throw your used oil bottles!!! Soak in warm soapy water, peel labels off with orange oil to remove stickiness, and reuse for blends or gifts! You can buy roller tops to replace on them
This is such a great idea!!! Thank you
Your doing such an amazing job mama this stage is hard and it gets harder your doing good I have a 2 year old and a 6 month old and my two year old
Is off the chain just wanted to say your doing so good
Where’s Greyson
He’s in the video! In the beginning when there’s outside
He’s in the vlog around 9:15
Being ignored like usual
@@kayluhluh6973 oh please. You see a small portion of their day. That’s it. You have no idea what they’re doing when the camera is off. Get a life.
@@angusmoore they’ve been doing yt for years. I think we have a pretty good idea what happens. How about you get a life :(
I’ve loved you and your videos since day one! I’m expecting my first kid this August and I’ve had all your pregnant vlogs on repeat 😁wish nothing but love and health for you and you’re beautiful family❤️
Thank you for watching! Wow! Congrats, that's so exciting!
Kaden is so gorgeous 😍 love seeing you as a mama meg, it suits you so much!!!
Cant wait to see more Florida related content (packing for you and Kayden/what your bringing) and hoping you vlog lots while you’re there! I need a vacation so bad🤪 Loved seeing this vlog/food/outside play!
That salad looks yummy, but try this: Skip the oil and lemon and just drizzle the salad with white balsamic vinegar. Trust me, the flavor is so much better! Way less calories too.
I absolutely loved the patio set ! 😍 I'm sure a water table would be so much fun for him ! There definitely becoming popular this year
your office is sooooo pretty meg
Love your oil collection I’m just weary of using them having a dog in the house and I know most can be toxic for them.
I wish Meg was more aware of this!
@@kayluhluh6973 I’m pretty sure she is well aware.
@@annyxo8764 well that makes it 10000x worse because she’s still using them. She’s well aware, doesn’t care. Got it
I’m liking you without make up , yes girl 🙌🏾
That chair is super cute omg!!!!
I love cat and Jack! If you don’t know they do a year warranty if you get any damage on the clothes they’ll replace them ♥️
Omg you get the cutest clothes. That salad looked yummy, definitely going to try it.
Love the clothes you shared for Kaden. My son is 3 and those tropical button downs would be perfect for an upcoming trip we have to Hawaii. I’m going to try to find them!
Love the outside set up! You made the space really work!
Love the patio decor.
U can just put a tarp over your outside setting for when it rains or snows.
Thank you for sharing the salad recipe looks great
Loved the spring vibes of this vlog! 💐
I love your hoodie Meg!
I can’t believe how big kaden is!! It goes by so fast. Hope all is well with you and your family. ❤️ xoxo
I know! I can't believe it either! Thank you 💕💕
Kaden looks just like you Meg.
I love that portable highchair. It's not the same brand I have but I think they are the same. You can actually strap it to a full size chair when traveling. My son loves it. We also take it to the park.
I feel like I leave this same comment over and over but you are such a great mom! You and Anthony are great parents! I adore watching your videos! Love ya Meg!
& for sensory bins look up ideas on pinterest. They have edible ones, colored pasta, etc so if he's gonna eat it at least it's safe and I put my son in swim trunks or his art shirt so when messes happen it's easy clean up :)
Meg you’re doing a great job! Being a mom to a baby/toddler is a tough job. I wish I can say it gets easier but it doesn’t.
My son is 2 1/2 and he loves the water and pouring he will splash water all over the bathroom floor and some times he pours it into the floor too lol!toddlers are funny little things!Yes I agree with the other ladies dont buy another mobile he will keep playing with it and tearing them up.my toddler loves to take stuff apart and tear things up. 😅
Take the mobile and maybe hang it from the ceiling In the corner if you really want it in the room... that way it’s still displayed but out of his reach. I personally put mine away after a few months 🤷🏻♀️
When you go to the nail salon, what do you ask for?
Loved this video! 💛 kaden is so precious!!
Looking good Meg!! Loooove the recent vlogs! Keep up the hard work mama!
Kaden is so cute and we love the setup of the room! If you want more fun things to entertain your kids, sing and dance to our representative animated children's songs.
Sink water isn’t good?
Probably depends where you’re at, here in Oregon we drink from the faucet.
You’re doing such a fire job at being a mama, wife and boss babe. Proud of you! ❤️
That means a lot, thank you!! 💕
Been watching you for years!! Have loved watching you grow and start a family all while staying yourself! You’re gorgeous Meg💗
Thank you so much!! 💕
Please link the cushion you get for that bench because I have the same one from target and I’ve had no luck finding a cushion that has fit on it🤦🏻♀️
Hahaha I don’t put much decor in my daughters room 🤣 love the patio!!!
That Salad looks so delicious and nutritious!! Think I will make one for lunch 😁
Meg your skin looks amazing!
If you want it super simple to travel with him on a plane in my experience with 3 littles make sure you have binkis/bottle/sippy cup handy for take off and landing. Take off and landing are hard on littles because of the pressure change and his favorite snacks and if he has favorite shows download them on your phone of some sort of tablet keeping him entertained and busy will make your flight experience a lot easier in the long run...