For girls, dun take advantage of a guys kindness if you're not interested, be direct about it, as for guys, learn to walk away frm a girl if she told u she's not interested
I was debating on Wedding dinner/Ceremony with my partner, in the end we did the traditional way, no regrets. Its a really memorable event of our life time. About having child, its not easy, financially, emotionally & time sacrifice, its preference but it is worth it for me with the joy I'm getting also improving husband and wife's relationship. "When it comes then everything will work out" is so true. At the end of the day I think its all about financial planning, don't have a child if you can't even afford for yourself. I would say kids nowadays and the older days are different, you tend to give them the best = more money.
I've always thought my girlfriend and I have been quite clear on our long-term "money goals". But, after seeing the depth of the conversation that you guys are having with your partner, I now know that I need to have a proper conversation on it. Appreicate it, great podcast as always!
Maybe in your next ep u can talk about couple finance? since in this era two party is earning so who splits the bill when it comes to expenses? who pays the bills, who pays the rental/house instalment, who pays for groceries etc. and should it be split 50/50 regardkess of who earns more or male pays more as head of the house? it would be interesting to talk about finance as married couples.
omg... as a girl, when i go out with someone i end up not interested in, i'll definitely pay back the money to AA properly 😂 or if i'm the one who invited him out, i'll pay for the whole meal and then slowly distance and ghost
Nice video and sharing. In my opinion, at the end of the day it is really important for both sides (guy and girl) to be aligned with their values on money if they want to take the relationship seriously. And I do not mean both sides must earn the same salary range. The range can be different but the values and perpection of money and spending should be aligned.
The "your money is my money" part holds some truth for Muslims. You see, husbands have to pay for housing, food, etc for the family and one of the reason is to make him think again if he really can afford to have 2, 3, 4 wives and have children with them. If he thinks he can afford when he is actually paying 50 - 50 with his current wife, or his wife is actually the one who owns the house, cars, etc., he actually cannot afford and this will be cruel to put women and children in this state. Admittedly this does little to stop them. When you want, you want lah. 😂 Ladies, you pay by yourself before you get married lah. You ingat you tak perlu duit ke lepas kahwin? You still need some sort of income, takut hujan tgh2 hari nanti.
Most of the time, I happily paid. It wasn't something I minded because I never went on extravagant dates and I didn't date time wasters who were after a free meal. If she wanted to get the bill first, I let her. No biggie. I just refused to make this a problem. However, if the girl refuses or never steps up to pay even when she can, then I see that as an indication that she won't be the one to stick around should I ever fall into hard times.
I hear a story of a man with 4 wives and the wives paying for everything and he just chill, he very good looking so ya genetic plays a huge role in that
I also agreed with Ziet's opinion. Man should pay the bill most of the time and I'll be happy and appreciate if woman offer to pay or take turn. It means she putting effort and not taking granted. Just my own opinion.. 🤓
Ziet's rolex submariner is a myvi on the wrist haha, i wud guess outside of house and cars, thats the most exp thing he bought for himself, i prob wont get 1 anytime soon even though i can cos i dun dare to wear it publicly
I think as a girl, it would be nice for the guy to show that he can provide. To show the girl how he would treat her after marriage. Kind of like investment in the girl. Tough thing now is that females are earning better than guys. Definitely agree to pay the guy back in dates if not interested.
I think if a girl want to show she is interested she should allow us guys to pay haha. Even if the girl jio. But only if the guy offer! If guy never offer but forced to pay, eeww
For girls, dun take advantage of a guys kindness if you're not interested, be direct about it, as for guys, learn to walk away frm a girl if she told u she's not interested
It’s easier said than done🥹💪🏻
Damage has been done. Walking away, still walking away.
girls should take advantage, but do it discreetly :D
Can see HY still young and not living long enough. 'Money can solve 95% problems all the time' this statement is a total joke
I was debating on Wedding dinner/Ceremony with my partner, in the end we did the traditional way, no regrets. Its a really memorable event of our life time.
About having child, its not easy, financially, emotionally & time sacrifice, its preference but it is worth it for me with the joy I'm getting also improving husband and wife's relationship.
"When it comes then everything will work out" is so true.
At the end of the day I think its all about financial planning, don't have a child if you can't even afford for yourself. I would say kids nowadays and the older days are different, you tend to give them the best = more money.
Thank you so much for sharing your valuable experience!
I've always thought my girlfriend and I have been quite clear on our long-term "money goals". But, after seeing the depth of the conversation that you guys are having with your partner, I now know that I need to have a proper conversation on it. Appreicate it, great podcast as always!
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really enjoying this segment with ziet and HY, keep up the good content! very real talk about relationship #NotFinancialAdviceButRelationshipAdvice
Maybe in your next ep u can talk about couple finance? since in this era two party is earning so who splits the bill when it comes to expenses? who pays the bills, who pays the rental/house instalment, who pays for groceries etc. and should it be split 50/50 regardkess of who earns more or male pays more as head of the house? it would be interesting to talk about finance as married couples.
deep dive into couple finance - that's an interesting one!!
You want guy be traditional, why not expect the girl to be traditional? Let her cook , clean the house. Now all mad? Double standard 😂
Exactly double standard
Where is the sex, my d not going get wet itself 😂
they want equality when they have something to gain, but revert back to tradition when they have something to lose.
plus thier performance on the bed very bad, lay there like flat fish
@@rayallan3650and they still convince man that they are the prize 😂
omg... as a girl, when i go out with someone i end up not interested in, i'll definitely pay back the money to AA properly 😂 or if i'm the one who invited him out, i'll pay for the whole meal and then slowly distance and ghost
😂 i see what you’re doing!
@@ZietInvests need to lessen the hurt feels from both ends ah! both parties have responsibility 😂
@@ying1296ops 😂 i think he is hurt more from the slow ghosting hahaha
Nice video and sharing. In my opinion, at the end of the day it is really important for both sides (guy and girl) to be aligned with their values on money if they want to take the relationship seriously. And I do not mean both sides must earn the same salary range. The range can be different but the values and perpection of money and spending should be aligned.
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bro i love this series, please keep it with the same guest ahahaha
i love to listen to HY talk besides financial things like life stories ahahaha
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Guys can pay for the meal. Girls can pay for the dessert after. just make it fun if both like each other. if don't like then better AA. then bye.
The "your money is my money" part holds some truth for Muslims. You see, husbands have to pay for housing, food, etc for the family and one of the reason is to make him think again if he really can afford to have 2, 3, 4 wives and have children with them. If he thinks he can afford when he is actually paying 50 - 50 with his current wife, or his wife is actually the one who owns the house, cars, etc., he actually cannot afford and this will be cruel to put women and children in this state. Admittedly this does little to stop them. When you want, you want lah. 😂
Ladies, you pay by yourself before you get married lah. You ingat you tak perlu duit ke lepas kahwin? You still need some sort of income, takut hujan tgh2 hari nanti.
Yes Men should pay for everything
Most of the time, I happily paid. It wasn't something I minded because I never went on extravagant dates and I didn't date time wasters who were after a free meal. If she wanted to get the bill first, I let her. No biggie. I just refused to make this a problem.
However, if the girl refuses or never steps up to pay even when she can, then I see that as an indication that she won't be the one to stick around should I ever fall into hard times.
Some wise words💯 Though its hard for first-timers or beginners to know this, we all can be easily blinded with emotions haha
I hear a story of a man with 4 wives and the wives paying for everything and he just chill, he very good looking so ya genetic plays a huge role in that
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One thing to know, most guy like us don't change wallet if we are earning good, on conspiracy theory the wallet may be prosperity god to us
“You don’t owe a woman your happiness”
Will you consider putting episodes on Spotify?
It’s on spotify! open.spotify.com/episode/64p2SumpAuKqwlDmIpO5XU?si=LDFp0megTmWK9UBjvceDrg
@ZietInvests I think it's the wrong episode uploaded....duplicated episode 1
@@thinkgrow5967ops ya sorry for the oversight! Will rectify it!
I also agreed with Ziet's opinion. Man should pay the bill most of the time and I'll be happy and appreciate if woman offer to pay or take turn. It means she putting effort and not taking granted. Just my own opinion.. 🤓
So woman must do housework for the man even not yet married?
when a girl keeps insisting on AA, is already a signal. If a guy accepts AA- no more chance to harbor any hope to further pursue
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Ziet's rolex submariner is a myvi on the wrist haha, i wud guess outside of house and cars, thats the most exp thing he bought for himself, i prob wont get 1 anytime soon even though i can cos i dun dare to wear it publicly
I dont think its a Submariner bro. Looks more like a GMT Master 2 (Batman). Market value should be around 60 to 70k 👍🏻
Thx, I heard recently theres a watch market collapse, maybe it's a good time to buy haha, but I prefer to put my money into stocks
Bro just curious to know…are u wearing batman/batgirl? Couldnt see it clearly
Batman😊
I think as a girl, it would be nice for the guy to show that he can provide. To show the girl how he would treat her after marriage. Kind of like investment in the girl. Tough thing now is that females are earning better than guys. Definitely agree to pay the guy back in dates if not interested.
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What is Ziet’s main income?
Omg am i the only one? Whats AA?
Auto Attack. Noob skipped tutorial 😂
HY actually not really who I think she is. She lets her bf pays for everything 😂😂. You want power too? But you not paying anything? Dudeeee
I think if a girl want to show she is interested she should allow us guys to pay haha. Even if the girl jio. But only if the guy offer! If guy never offer but forced to pay, eeww
Ziet, how old are you when your salary is 3.5k?
24 yo!
i am sorry. i cant get my eyes off the watch
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We men are simple. We see HY we like 😅
Can give me some love too?
Keyboard. Lol
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bro getting stuffed since recent wedding, i guess wife is giving too much her portion
She asked me to eat her portion coz she’s prepping for our year end wed🥹