Hi Julie, My mom kicked me out when I was 17. When I was 40 she needed to live with a daughter due to health issues, and I stepped up to the plate. Part of me said oh now I get to treat her the way she treated me. Then I stopped myself and said to myself, no I need to be an example and show her how a loving family should treat each other. We were roommates for 13 years until she passed away from Breast cancer. I never received an apology for getting kicked out, but I believe I showed her more kindness and patience than she showed me. I paid a Karmic debt off.
Beautiful video. It made me cry as it resonated so much. I too, have come to the same conclusion as you, Julie. I dropped all my expectations of what a mother should be, essentially became my own mother & I now accept my mother for who she is. The hard part is when they think they have done no wrong & are a great parent. Its been difficult, painful, a long journey, but so much spiritual growth for me. I hope to be the one to break the cycles.
OMG, you just told the story almost exactly of my relationship with my mother beginning with being thrown out of the house at 16 years old and being taken in by my first husband‘s mother and then talking to my mother two years on and then two years off and on and on just like you. And then, three years before she died, I decided to forgive her and just tell her I loved her, although I did not physically take care of her other than being on the phone with her doctors, nurses and caretakers, etc. It was the end of a tumultuous and loveless relationship and she would even tell me she loved me because at that point she was on some good meds, lol. I hope the same for you, Julie!🥰
Julie I’m 7.5 minutes into this video and I’m just heartbroken at the treatment you received from your mother, she sounds like my mother, exactly the same, when my father left she had a nervous breakdown and was a nightmare to live with? I moved to live with my grandmother when I was 11 years old. My mother is a covert narcissist, they love to spoil every Christmas and family event. I’m going to keep listening and I’m sure I’ll learn something from your experience because right now I just can’t bear to be anywhere near my mother.
She never felt love in her whole life… from her parents or your Dad and you kids and grandkids. The touch on her arm with those loving words completely stopped her in her tracks.. what a beautiful moment ❤
Finally got myself to the best headspace to view this one. I, too, have gone through a similar trauma with my parents. My mom has been gone 10 yrs now, and my dad almost three, but I'm still unpacking the hidden bits of pain they left behind for me. I found consolation in your story--I'm not the only one then, am I? Sending a loving hug to all who have gone through this.
Beautiful thoughtful message. I am in a similar situation and there are multiple layers to sort through when the relationship is (or has been) less than desired. May we navigate through this chapter with peace.
Your perspective is extraordinary!! marvelously helpful to me on the journey with replacing expectations with increasing love, understanding, compassion, empathy and love…THANK YOU, Julie!!!!❤
Thank you for this really honest account of what life has been like for you. I hope that you will continue to have the strength to keep being a loving and supportive daughter, within your own boundaries. Your mother has been so fortunate to have you there for her, even though this was not reciprocated, when you needed it .
Ms. Julie, now it is even clearer to me why I'm following you. I have had a rocky relationship with my all my life. That is the reason I don't even live in the same country. Every time I try to come closer, always something or someone else has better ideas, or I'm just dismissed. Anyway, I'm trying to keep it neutral and not letting it affect me like it used to. Thanks for sharing.
My heart goes out to you, I had the same if not worse with my parents. They both died when I was 40. I just bought your book and have started reading it, really enjoying it!
Hi! My husband is also a toddler with Parkinson’s disease. He is 78. He never could deal with his insecurities and everything is always someone else’s fault. He. Was also born with learning disabilities.
Wow, what an incredible story and what an amazing perspective you have. Glad you found some unconditional love & support for your mum but also taking care of yourself 😊
Thank you so much for sharing dear Julie… such an important and complicated subject. I know you are helping so many others with this. Much respect, support, balance and love to you as you are experiencing this ongoing challenge. May you also feel unconditional love, albeit not from your mother. 🤗💞- Saskia Kidd
Thank you for your time.. Thank you for reminding me that if you want to you can not only find the balance but we can manifest that balance and continue on the path.
Thankyou for sharing your story ❤❤ I am so glad you worked threw all the pain to become the wonderful person you are and the unconditional love you share Thankyou 🙏
Thank you Julie, such beautiful messages. I am also in a similar situation, I am 69 and my mom is 93, that has become at times so demanding and critical of everything around her. She was a very caring and nurturing mother throughout my life, but it is difficult to live with her at times. I meditate and ask for strength to get through this. 🙌🫶🙏
Hello Julie, thank you again for everything! I’d like to ask you the following, if allowed; what is going to happen at the end of September? I’m hearing that there will be something big, yet I really cannot get any other information about it. Could you please give us any insights, lots of love, thank you ✨
Hi Julie, My mom kicked me out when I was 17. When I was 40 she needed to live with a daughter due to health issues, and I stepped up to the plate. Part of me said oh now I get to treat her the way she treated me. Then I stopped myself and said to myself, no I need to be an example and show her how a loving family should treat each other. We were roommates for 13 years until she passed away from Breast cancer. I never received an apology for getting kicked out, but I believe I showed her more kindness and patience than she showed me. I paid a Karmic debt off.
Beautiful video. It made me cry as it resonated so much. I too, have come to the same conclusion as you, Julie. I dropped all my expectations of what a mother should be, essentially became my own mother & I now accept my mother for who she is. The hard part is when they think they have done no wrong & are a great parent. Its been difficult, painful, a long journey, but so much spiritual growth for me. I hope to be the one to break the cycles.
OMG, you just told the story almost exactly of my relationship with my mother beginning with being thrown out of the house at 16 years old and being taken in by my first husband‘s mother and then talking to my mother two years on and then two years off and on and on just like you. And then, three years before she died, I decided to forgive her and just tell her I loved her, although I did not physically take care of her other than being on the phone with her doctors, nurses and caretakers, etc. It was the end of a tumultuous and loveless relationship and she would even tell me she loved me because at that point she was on some good meds, lol. I hope the same for you, Julie!🥰
Julie I’m 7.5 minutes into this video and I’m just heartbroken at the treatment you received from your mother, she sounds like my mother, exactly the same, when my father left she had a nervous breakdown and was a nightmare to live with? I moved to live with my grandmother when I was 11 years old. My mother is a covert narcissist, they love to spoil every Christmas and family event. I’m going to keep listening and I’m sure I’ll learn something from your experience because right now I just can’t bear to be anywhere near my mother.
I've backed right off from her in the last 3 months because it became too much for me, too, so I get it. Stay away if you need to. Protect you. x
She never felt love in her whole life… from her parents or your Dad and you kids and grandkids. The touch on her arm with those loving words completely stopped her in her tracks.. what a beautiful moment ❤
Finally got myself to the best headspace to view this one. I, too, have gone through a similar trauma with my parents. My mom has been gone 10 yrs now, and my dad almost three, but I'm still unpacking the hidden bits of pain they left behind for me. I found consolation in your story--I'm not the only one then, am I? Sending a loving hug to all who have gone through this.
Beautiful thoughtful message. I am in a similar situation and there are multiple layers to sort through when the relationship is (or has been) less than desired. May we navigate through this chapter with peace.
Your perspective is extraordinary!! marvelously helpful to me on the journey with replacing expectations with increasing love, understanding, compassion, empathy and love…THANK YOU, Julie!!!!❤
Thank you for this really honest account of what life has been like for you. I hope that you will continue to have the strength to keep being a loving and supportive daughter, within your own boundaries. Your mother has been so fortunate to have you there for her, even though this was not reciprocated, when you needed it .
Thank you, Julie! This was beautiful.
I took care of my mother for 15 years before she took her next journey into the spirit world, love you Ma 💗.
Thank you Julie for your frank and candid message....Deeply resonant and appreciated 👏 💐 😊
Ms. Julie, now it is even clearer to me why I'm following you. I have had a rocky relationship with my all my life. That is the reason I don't even live in the same country. Every time I try to come closer, always something or someone else has better ideas, or I'm just dismissed. Anyway, I'm trying to keep it neutral and not letting it affect me like it used to. Thanks for sharing.
Thats alot to reveal, and in that I thank you, your words are helpful and thats no small thing
My heart goes out to you, I had the same if not worse with my parents. They both died when I was 40. I just bought your book and have started reading it, really enjoying it!
You are such an earthly angel sending you so much love x
I’m sorry Julie that sounded really tough. I feel for you
Hi! My husband is also a toddler with Parkinson’s disease. He is 78. He never could deal with his insecurities and everything is always someone else’s fault. He. Was also born with learning disabilities.
As you love her, you are loving you ❤
Thank you for this useful podcast. xxx
Wow, what an incredible story and what an amazing perspective you have. Glad you found some unconditional love & support for your mum but also taking care of yourself 😊
Much love to you Julie. ❤ TY
Thank you so much for sharing dear Julie… such an important and complicated subject. I know you are helping so many others with this. Much respect, support, balance and love to you as you are experiencing this ongoing challenge. May you also feel unconditional love, albeit not from your mother.
🤗💞- Saskia Kidd
Thank you so much for sharing ❤❤❤
Thank you 🙏🏻 my lovely lady ❤
You're not going to believe this Julie SNAP !
Thank you Julie for your sincere honesty. Your story is an inspiration for me. I truly appreciate it. Much love and blessings ❤
Thank you x
Bless you Julie - such powerful observations. Sending you love.
Thank you for sharing such strong experience. I will never look at relationship with my parents same like I did before.
Thank you for your time.. Thank you for reminding me that if you want to you can not only find the balance but we can manifest that balance and continue on the path.
You are welcome x
Thankyou for sharing your story ❤❤
I am so glad you worked threw all the pain to become the wonderful person you are and the unconditional love you share Thankyou 🙏
Thank you for your insights, much appreciated. These are elements I need to fully take onboard. 🙏❤
Thank you for sharing 😢 . You are so strong ❤
Thank you /julie..this is so inspiring...love to all beings
Thank you Julie, such beautiful messages. I am also in a similar situation, I am 69 and my mom is 93, that has become at times so demanding and critical of everything around her. She was a very caring and nurturing mother throughout my life, but it is difficult to live with her at times. I meditate and ask for strength to get through this. 🙌🫶🙏
Thank you for sharing this private part of your life Julie. Thanks for reminding us what it means to love unconditionally❤ Love you very much❤❤
You are so welcome!
Thank you for sharing this personal story. I find your personal stories are the most powerful and meaningful teachings you sharw -truly incredible.❤🎉❤
Thanks for letting me know. I appreciate it x
Beautiful explained. Thank you ❤
I did 5 years of palliative care for both parents. Unless you have been there, you do not know the strain and the draining effect
Thank you for sharing 🩵
I’m living w my 94 year old father, so I can relate to this situation 🙏
You got this!
@@manifesting101withjuliepoole We got this 🥰 Amen ;)
Amazing! You doing right thing, love❤
Thank you so much!!
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Thank you ❤
Hello Julie, thank you again for everything! I’d like to ask you the following, if allowed; what is going to happen at the end of September? I’m hearing that there will be something big, yet I really cannot get any other information about it. Could you please give us any insights, lots of love, thank you ✨
I don't feel anything significant is happening other than this shift we are having through 2024 and 2025.
Wow
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Julie where did you get your angel behind you? You are a beautiful angel for your mum 😇
shop in Cornwall somewhere, I think Looe