I'm accepting to keep working on myself and stop chasing if it's meant to be he will reach out if not then I move on my journey by myself , I'll figure it out eventually
I've cut off the contact and start focusing on myself then slowly but surely he has reached out. I feel the energy that he's in deep regret. When he put his arms out and asked me for a hug I felt the intensity. I asked him what for? He said I'll always love you and I'm sorry for everything.
Love we need to talk about few things in person asap 1-2 hrs will clear so much hope u see all the ordeals I'm going trough for us for my person but ur the reason I dnt give up
@Deniselee28 right? that made me sad. That he needed to validate himself to the only person in the entire cosmos, who is supposed to understand what he's going through. However.... it's a twin flame, so that's his twin. Who are we to know what he needed. I guess. I always want the hug, if it's real.
I stopped trying to communicate a week ago after being ignored and ghosted one time too many. I've been focusing on myself and my own inner work, as well as connections with friends and family who love and support me. Now, whenever I feel him connect to me, I feel immense pain and pressure in my chest along with the love I used to feel. It's like I'm feeling an actual breaking heart. It's horrible.
@@kimberlybe5805 You are Definitely correct about that....you know what I am gonna smile and know that everything is alright and going the way it should. She will be here but we have always been in union in other ways.
Interesting. Just yesterday, I chose to let go of being the chaser, d to just be, and to take care of what my body/soul/3D self is in need of right now from ME. Wrestled a few days with that letting go business, but I did it. We've been connected for eons, before we ever even knew it, before we ever met in the 3D 40 years ago. We broke up 36 years ago, knowing nothing about our connection, though I felt and suspected it back then. He even introduced me indirectly to my ex husband. Was married to my karmic ex for 36 years. Moved 2000 miles away from my TF & our home town. 3 kids, 36 shallow years, and one divorce later, my twin & I reconnected-- long distance. He seemed ecstatic and in awe of it himself, we've talked long hours, had sweet romantic notes and conversations, he even proposed to me. After my divorce, I wouldn't even have thought of dating-- except this is my twin, we've had a connection and history all these years. He never married, had no kids, only a long term live- in that didn't work out. He said he has waited for me all these years. Suddenly lately, he became the Runner-- and I don't know why. This hurt me a great deal, I fee the pain to my core. I've spent the last week or two sorting it out on my end, and now realize, I need to do some more work on me. Love myself, clean up my vibration, give him some space. We aren't really disconnected, never have been. So if it's meant to be, here's his chance to raise his own vibration, grow, and catch up with each other on the same level. I actually feel like wanting to be the Runner now, and let HIM be the Chaser. We did have two weeks together last April. I flew out to visit him and some family out there, and it was a wonderful time. We both hated parting, and we both agreed we could see this being the rest of our lives. But my job & family out here called me back for now. I fee like my impulsive trip to see him may have changed things....a month afterward, he became the Runner. Have heard from him less and less. I also was open with him in letting him know his obsession with random girls he doesn't know on Facebook, liking their sexy pics and even commenting & saying sweet things to them, was hurting me. I know part of that is only my need to work on insecurities; but at the same time, after all our connection, and a marriage proposal....not right. This pushed him into going Dark Mode on social media. I occasionally checked to see if he had been online and was continuing the behavior. After a couple weeks, he started doing that again, and I think he may message these girls like he did before. You know, the internet hoes that like to do sexting. I finally had to let go of that, and address my own insecurity. But he is still the Runner. I live him to my core, I know he lives me, we've both said we will never be disconnected, it's beyond our control. But I feel like I need to detach and turn inward now. No more chasing. This is painful, but at the same time, I wonder how much of what I'm feeling may actually be his vibration & pain?🤔
@@phoenixmode6909 lovely!!! I’m happy for you!! I’m in illumination right now and it is soooo beautiful and peaceful! All I can say is keep doing the work you’ll get there!!
💚If you choose to be negative towards your flame your negative to yourself. Healthy healing> dealing> coping> unconditional love is needed in our terms of agreement💚.
The runner is the one that has more pain, because they don’t have the tolls to advance and be aware of the journey. The only thing we can do it’s grow the best way possible in all areas of our lives as chasers. To reach peace and joy within 💫🦋it’s the goal.
Thank you so much. You just opened a bridge between me and my lady. Im the a man, but the Divine Feminine Energy and Chaser. She is a women, but the Divine Masculine Energy and runner. What you said absolutely rings true. She didn't step back bc she doesn't care, she did it bc she does. Im going to stay with her.
I've been confused and tired more than anything during this connection. I've cried out if the blue for no reason. Angry. Bitter. Feelings of wanting to give up and drop them but I know that his rejection isn't of me but if himself due to whatever trauma he has yet to heal. I'm not losing anymore sleep over him anymore. I no longer feel a pull. I felt the pull very strong from March to July. As of late since I started focusing on myself the pull has stopped. Even the dreams have become less vivid and at times I don't dream at all or remember the dream. I still see certain signs but they're not as strong. I understand he's struggling but there are times where I find myself thinking my struggles are worse than his. That's not fair to him. Just because I have no idea what he's doing in his life on a daily basis or who he's around I shouldn't allow that to make me doubt his pain deep down. The 3D self is avoidant-attachment style. He hates conflict but will deal with it if necessary. He has ADD and I have ADHD. So for us, it's extra pain, denial, anger and bitterness but also extra love that I know I have tried to shove deep down but it always bubbles back up. Regardless of his short comings I remain loving him. I see the red flags and I acknowledge them. I know that the red flags are what he needs to address yet and vice-versa. I used to fear losing him but I can't lose him when he's a part of me. I am my twin. Working on your shadow side and learning to embrace certain parts of it while still shining your light especially as an empath is so hard. I am down to 1 solid friend and she use to be someone I took for granted but looking back now, she has never treated me any different. Yeah so she's a bit odd but so am I lol. My twin is a huge nerd deep down and so am I lol. He hides who he really is to the outside world from those he works with because being in a position of authority makes him think and act a certain way. I was also told not to send your twin loving energy just because you feel their pain becaus instinctually they will get too overwhelmed by it and therefore keep running. So the key is to love yourself because loving yourself IS loving your twin. Also don't be concerned with when or how or if the runner will reach out. That will only cause you to expect things which will always lead to disappointment. Just let them be and in time the distance they feel will start to become too much for them. It may take years. As far me, i'm only a year in and have learned so much and still learning.
This message want me to reach out to him and insure him, he is not alone. I dont even care he hurt me or not, rejected or not, I can take anything as long he is fine.. I just want him to not feel hurt.
The amount of entitlement the runner carries is disgusting and appalling.. What do you mean by cut them some slack? If they are so afraid why cant they work on themselves? This way they can also help the chaser.. Actually the one who is really suffering is the chaser.. the cahsers have to literally put aside their pride and ego, to chase the runner until they realise that they are good enough by themselves... most chasers have no support from many sources and have to rise up by themselves.. they have been taught that their feelings are unimportant and now, they have to acknoweledge their own emotions and pass through the fire. the chaser's life is lonely and they will very heavy longing.. on one side, they want their twinflame and want to be with them but on the other side, they dont know what to do, or eve why their twinflame is acting the way they are doing? Do you runners even have any idea, how it hurts when we hear wprds like --you dont matter to me. i dont really love you... Do you know the impact of those words? Chasers know that the runners are doing bad things and still have the courage to love them. Chasers know that they cannot live without their twinflame and yet, they learn to surrender and let go... and they learn this lesson the hardest way... Show some respect and work on your issues.
This is so true. Sometimes you can't see beyond your own pain and triggers and insecurities enough to stay especially when there are insecure attachment styles that cause the runner-chaser behavior.
The Twin flame runner faces the harder challenge if they have been dominated by Fear all their lives when it comes to Love since childhood Their Healing takes Time and the Chaser should sense that because the intuitive and the telepathic energy is so strong Nothing the chaser does or says will diminish their counterparts love for them How to control the triggering by both also takes time Anything worthwhile is worth waiting for No one else matches their spiritual and sacral energy vibration Solitude and Silence brings in Soul Healing If they do not communicate it is for a very good reason If they are true Twins lapse of time means nothing only increases the energy and can extend beyond this lifetime
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The pain is horrible, being separated from my twin . I feel empty inside, my missing piece. I know my twin , I’m speaking with my twin, we are just separated at the moment.
I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART ❤DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX ❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR BABA,, WHO HELPED RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,,,,
Tears were coming through as listening to your message. It touched so much. I learned about the pain of the Runner on the internet, but it is so real when I hear someone speaking the real feeling. Thank you very much😢
Two and a half years later and the pain is still as deep as the day he ghosted me. The day i found out he left hid job i cried five hours straight. This is the most painful thing i ever experienced.
I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART ❤DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX ❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR BABA,, WHO HELPED RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,
777 views... stopped chasing. Just looking on and observing. Noticing many synchronicity. Runner is less spiritually aware. I understand many things they do not; as such i can have patience and wait. It's futile for the runner to run from themselves. Causing all of their own pain. Sending lots of positive thoughts. Strong energy. Prayers. but i also get tired fed up at times. Taking comfort in all the silent messages. 777 views and right at this moment, my phone is 77%.🙂
Good advice; in the last week I finally accepted the same conclusion. It's painful, because we've been separated nearly 37 years, he only had one serious relationship for about 9 years, I was married to my karmic for 36. We recently reconnected long distance, I flew out to visit once in the last 6 months, but we are still separated by 2000 miles. We both have expressed yes, we are twins, but he has a lot of spiritual work to do. I do too, but I'm a bit ahead of him in understanding all of this. I've witnessed ghosting, I've witnessed him having a 2 month period of his feeing like a rudderless ship, I've witnessed a comeback in his career. But he is silent still mostly, I allowed him to take me for granted and rely on me to always be the first to contact. Not now. I need to step back out of the way, work on myself, observe from afar, send him healing vibes, but disconnect a little myself. I need to nurture ME for awhile. If we've been connected all these decades (and Mikey in past lives), we'll remain connected. My 3D self longs for us to be reunited in the physical in this lifetime. But if that doesn't happen, I should take comfort that we'll never be disconnected, and maybe the next physical lifetime will be the one.
I've been ghosted and left so many times in the last 2 years. It never fails, as soon as I force myself to stop thinking about him, and start doing new activities, maybe going out with somebody new, I hear from him. It's like he can feel it.s we've not been contact for a couple of months at this one point and I tried reaching out using *69 because I didn't want his mom nor the other girlfriend to know because they're very toxic and cause many problems and he knows it. Anyway this one particular time after we had not talked in 2 months, which was a long time for us not to at least hear or send a text, he surprisingly answered. He was so full of joy at hearing my voice and said really excitedly, hi baby. And we talked for a long time. And then he went incognito for 2 more weeks. He always comes back around
But also the chasers go through a lot more in the beginning for label terms. Absolutely because the runner for label terms they deny, they run, they block. And they get involved with other people and things to distract themselves, so they don't have to feel any of the pain like the chaser does not until the roles are reversed.
I stopped feeling the pain within 1 month of separation, and being close to him in 5d. I understand because he's in med school and the timing was unexpected.
It's clear he watches everything I do. If he would just SPEAK to me, all this BS would be worked out. I'm tired. The whole world doesn't need to know our "dirty laundry" for Bob's sake, let's TALK!! I won't bite you. Plus, you get the chance to tell your side of the story.
Ditto!! … songs full of love and social media posts full of hints at suppressed emotions and thoughts just doesn’t serve any purpose … And in actual communication it’s “No problem 👍”… that’s it! I had to opt out at that point in time! Regardless of what happened, it takes two to communicate … and move things forward! If that’s not possible, it’s better to let go and keep doing the inner work…
Twin flame journeys do not end with people getting married. It will always be undeniable, even if you're apart. Thats where twin flame relationships are different from normal relationships. It isn't necessary that twin flames end up together in each lifetime. It is part of their learning journey throughout these lifetimes. I hope you can find a peaceful closure to the situation. It must be really painful.
My twin flame she run away back end off august and most of September than late September she reconnected with me but on Sunday she run away and it does hurt 😢 loads I have questioned if I have done something wrong
Same. My TF had SO many changes and he’s a liar and a coward. I’m curious if he’s felt an energy shift bc I have, feeling SO much better since I’ve realized how he doesn’t deserve me.
G even i am the chaser my twin is the runner and he tells me he is feeling lots of pain and i am feeling it too o my god i am feeling what u are saying some time i am feeling pain and heart flatters feeling longing for my twin feeling tired and like am going to fall
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I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART ❤DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX ❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR BABA,, WHO HELPED RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,,,,
You can heal from Past traumas and wounds .... WITH or WithOUT your twin. And THEN you in gotta heal from the effects of his/her running ..... in which case it would be having to heal WITH the returned twin. HARD to see the point of incurring hurt by having to "heal" from other hurts. STILL seems senseLESS to me after 7 Years of looking into this dynamic ...which can't be good for any children with a runaway parent to heal up the wounds of .... and the cycle goes on n On n ON
I don't know if what we had was even real anymore or if I made it up in my mind from the way he acted but I replay everything trying to figure out where I went wrong but while some men throw themselves at me and I have to beat them away with a stick for them to leave me the damn hell alone and STOP TALKING TO ME ALREADY...this one just couldn't get away from me fast enough even though initially he treated me like a princess and was all over me like a cartoon dog with heart eyes and a heartbeat popping out of his chest running around his house like a crazy person just from the mere sight of me I'm not joking it was the weirdest thing he way over did it at first but I gave him a chance anyway because the connection was so strong and intense....Then he gaslit me so hard for it that I feel it in my bones. And ran like hell to get away from me. A$$hole. Chase that money and fame you jerk. See how much you matter to people when all you do is run away from anyone who cares about you. You'll end up with an emotionally unavailable goldigger when we could have made a loving home together as a team and eventually as a family. You did this, not me. Have fun living your shallow superficial materialistic life instead of prioritizing the ones who were prepared to have your back through thick and thin, richer or poorer.
I've been considering reaching out to my runner DM. We haven't had a conversation in 2 years because I told him I can't interact with him while he is with his karmic. He almost talked to me 2 months ago, but must have chickened out last minute.
probably did chicken out.. mine called me two weeks ago and hung up when I answered.. I texted him asking why and he said he suddenly got busy 🥴 I don't have time for foolish games anymore- especially when he has someone else in his bed at night.. best of luck ❤️
My TF got cut SO much slack he admitted to being used to having his cake and eating it too. He’s a selfish coward and I’m done giving chances and moving on. I outted him to his girlfriend yet even with proof she didn’t want to hear it. But I know I did the right thing and feel like my sunshiny self again.
@@Spiritisnobody86 That doesn't make sense. Ghosting is a selfish act whether twin flame or not. Comments like yours is what makes me doubt this whole thing because it's contradictory.
@@Spiritisnobody86 I agree. Even if they choose someone else over you they won't put you in a third party. They couldn't jump from the bed of a tf to the bed of another and back and forth.
It’s impossible for you to say that the runner is in more pain than the chaser, and impossible really. There is no greater pain I could ever imagine happening as a chaser.
I love my Man with all my soul my life and my soul. He Will be my husband. We lived 30 years as neibourgs and we didnt know. He dediced to buy an apartment some where else after we met. I miss him every day
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God Willingly I'm cutting them some slack but they continue with the narcisstic actionz I'll ghost them for good and they can play mind gamez on somebody else!!!
I have been runner all my life, dont know when and how i converted into anxious/chaser. Well it has been the best experience of my journey so far, i felt my wounds which are causing loneliness during this runner chaser phase.. i deeply understand why she is running away, yes ofcourse its her wounds but she loves her independence more than anything and yeah fuck ! I was chasing her like a shadow i didnt give her time to miss me and i ddnt do anything wrong as i was just showing my week side, i was honest and vulnerable with her. I respect her decision and i love myself the most, after going through major emotional breakdown ive decided not to cut the cord but to hold and keep this matter on side till i return to my town. Till then i will growing up!
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Chasers.... if you're like me.. you're seeking validation from this man or woman. Even if you are married, like me... and you learn about twin flame... and you learn that you and this other person are 1.... things become very scary, even if you aren't doing anything but talking. You don't cross any boundaries... I learned I seek her validation. And that's always been wrong for me to seek any outside validation. Then I feel embarrassed, when I look back and see my 6 paragraph texts... 3 of them... and her 1 line responses. Makes me question myself about the entire twin flame thing all together... fuck it I'm married... I have a wife and kids... so what we have problems sometimes? I can't afford to "fall in love" with someone again. (Then I hear her voice tell me, that's not love Allan. Love isn't supposed to be painful.) I spend most of my time talking to my twin, within my own head now........ and I make her respond to me, based on what I've known about her this entire 20 years. By doing this conversation with her basically in your "imagination" if you want to call it that.... I have began to understand that she is feeling everything I feel... I have asked her about this telepathy multiple times and she says she does the same exact thing... She pulls away everytime we get this really, elevating bond where we agree on something almost at the same time. I've always been able to finish her thoughts. She's such a runner, and I know it's because I'm in this marriage. She's afraid "if Allan finds out we're twin flames he'll destroy his marriage." So she protects her feelings from even going a direction where she would attatch to me emotionally. This is frustrating, because it's making me long for her more..... sometimes... and it's because I can't shake the idea of her longing for me as well. And she's such a responsible person with morals, she would never want me to dissolve a marriage for her. Not ever... But she HAS taken opportunity to tell me when my marriage was looking shakey... I couldn't help but feel her be slightly excited by the idea that I would be available. I could also feel that she could not take the pain I was feeling. I'm too intense for her. So she runs... which means she runs from her own intensity... which means she is just as intense with emotion if not worse than I am. I love my wife, and family dearly. I have no plans of going anywhere... But there is no doubt in my mind that I love my twin flame. I would do anything for this person, short of leave my family and again shed never allow that. I now feel like she's always watching me. And I like it. I'm no longer embarrassed to be me. People don't want to admit that about themselves. But your twin will show you how beautiful you really are if you pay attention... texting works as a semi 3d. it allows for you to not judge or be judged by your twin as you grow in the 5th dimension. Because the 5th dimension is where you would "picture you twin" in your head anyway ....
The funny thing is.. I'm seeking validation, and she's seeking proof that it's real. I thought i was seeking proof. I have my proof... what I want is her validation of Me figuring it all out. (So I'm finally worth being loved) The thing is, we both hold the same fear.. . . Abandonment. So if she finds the proof she's looking for... and I'm married with a family. "What the he'll am I going to do now?" That's her thought. I won't say im assuming. I can't explain how I know.... the crazy thing is.... "I know she knows" - j. Cole But I won't tell her for fear of disrespecting her morals about me breaking up a family. It's so Irie. That if her and I got together now, I'd be repeating her childhood traumas on my own children. By leaving my family for a woman I met online. I've known her longer than my wife. So everything is setup in such a way, that qe have nothing but challenges to work through personally before we could ever exists together in a 3d. I never thought I could love someone so unconditionally. And never have met face to face. And both know the exact same thing about each other.... say things that make each other's jaw drop in disbelief... yet feel so far away. I do everything I can to give her her space. And everytime we talk for a few. I overwhelm her with shit... and even if she agrees with what im saying, she runs.. I get it now. In fact. I can't help but feel she's the one struggling right now and needed my help, but she still thinks she can't handle it.. I'll say something I shouldn't and fuck with her emotions... I'm treading so lightly, yet teedering on a line, because if I say "twin flame" one time...(and oh I want to tell her I believe we are twin flamee so badly) I fear I would cause her to attatch to me and hurt her. Truth is, I would commit to her more deeply and I don't know what that means for my family.... if I started to fall for this person enough to lose interest in my family, then I'd no longer fear losing them. And I'd be able to pursue herm and it would be very wrong! Especially in her eyes... so neither one of us admit twin flame or mention it, but if I want to say it, I know...... that she wants to. We always hint.. it's pathetic and cute at the same time when I look back at it.. I wonder sometimes if her and i will laugh about this 20 years from now. And those sorts of thoughts somehow, send me out of the bathroom or where I am, straight into my wife's arms. I can't tell if that's guilt causing me to do that? it feels guiltless and free and I've never treated my wife with so much love and respect. But I've longed for someone before who was in a relationship I don't ever want my twin to feel that sort of longing. I've lived that way my entire life, and she knows it.. we are at a stand off, us two. I want to be able to tell her in text, to be patient... that it's OK, that I'm not afraid anymore, that I see you 👁 But she won't let me.... she's stronger than I am...
If theres such thing as this, which i think its just demons then how can i get such a download so beautiful that hes actually waiting for me to become the best version of myself. A positive message from a demon then this video pops up🤔.idk All i do know is im not sad were not even talking. God can just be using him as my catalyst cause im on the next level of body positivity. When i make love again, if its not with him, it will be free and intimate the way i imagined it would be with him. Hes spiritually awakened to know hes helping me but knows were probably not twin flames or even meant to be like that which is ok now. My heart soul and body belong to God and i dont want to submit to anyone whos heart is not one with the creator as well. Its probably why i wanted him so bad cause i know he is. A beautiful soul
did she cut ME any slack by throwing insults at me and our connection, talking behind my back to others and unnecessarily threatening me with the law?? 31 months later, she can continue to marinate in her "guilt" 🤷♂️
Since. I know. This setuation. About runner and Chaser I am the chaser. But now I will stop and. 4 month. Chaser. But now I feel stupid. Shameful of my self. I feel very. Anger inside. But. I cnt angry to him.
If your "twin flame" is mean or abusive in any way, then you might be being tricked into the twin flame stuff. I was tricked into it by a covert narcissist (demon), which caused most of my triggers with my real twin and a huge denial of twin flames until i was pretty much hit with a brick and forced to believe lol.
Yes! Those partners are there to teach them lessons and they will long for you the whole time. They feel the bond as much as you do. They long for you deeply.
I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART ❤DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX ❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR BABA,, WHO HELPED RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,
I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART ❤DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX ❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR BABA,, WHO HELPED RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,
Some say the runner don't truly give a f%$k about it all. They just keep on living their lives, in lower vibration and facing karma all the time, until they learn their lessons. But they do not think of their counterpart at all. I'm chaser, just stating what I saw in other videos.
All of you “twin flame runner” people are actually narcissists and need to seek forgiveness from God about the way that you abuse others. Jesus loves you
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thank you so much for this message and you are spot on...namaste 💜💜🔥🔥🌞🌞
I'm accepting to keep working on myself and stop chasing if it's meant to be he will reach out if not then I move on my journey by myself , I'll figure it out eventually
I've cut off the contact and start focusing on myself then slowly but surely he has reached out. I feel the energy that he's in deep regret. When he put his arms out and asked me for a hug I felt the intensity. I asked him what for? He said I'll always love you and I'm sorry for everything.
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Love we need to talk about few things in person asap 1-2 hrs will clear so much hope u see all the ordeals I'm going trough for us for my person but ur the reason I dnt give up
@Deniselee28 right? that made me sad. That he needed to validate himself to the only person in the entire cosmos, who is supposed to understand what he's going through.
However.... it's a twin flame, so that's his twin. Who are we to know what he needed. I guess. I always want the hug, if it's real.
I stopped trying to communicate a week ago after being ignored and ghosted one time too many. I've been focusing on myself and my own inner work, as well as connections with friends and family who love and support me. Now, whenever I feel him connect to me, I feel immense pain and pressure in my chest along with the love I used to feel. It's like I'm feeling an actual breaking heart. It's horrible.
Is this pain from our twin or is the heart ache our own pain??
How to stay in the present moment all the time?? I meditate every day... Will this happen when its meant to or?
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The universe isn't cutting the awakened twins any slack! 🤣 They better come on, most of us have left the building!
Did you get back?
💚I wish everyone involved with these diffrent situations Healthy Healing💚.
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🥺💟Thank you dear one god bless your soul🌷🦋🌹
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I am a divine feminine
I have a divine masculine
We will be together ❤
Not chasing this time, just being. Today I feel his longing and it saddens me but it’s all working out 🙏
I feel hers....very deeply
@@AlchemyOfLife then smile 😊 this connection is beautiful no matter what!! And if she’s longing then there’s love ❤️ good luck!
@@kimberlybe5805 You are Definitely correct about that....you know what I am gonna smile and know that everything is alright and going the way it should. She will be here but we have always been in union in other ways.
Interesting. Just yesterday, I chose to let go of being the chaser, d to just be, and to take care of what my body/soul/3D self is in need of right now from ME. Wrestled a few days with that letting go business, but I did it.
We've been connected for eons, before we ever even knew it, before we ever met in the 3D 40 years ago. We broke up 36 years ago, knowing nothing about our connection, though I felt and suspected it back then. He even introduced me indirectly to my ex husband. Was married to my karmic ex for 36 years. Moved 2000 miles away from my TF & our home town.
3 kids, 36 shallow years, and one divorce later, my twin & I reconnected-- long distance. He seemed ecstatic and in awe of it himself, we've talked long hours, had sweet romantic notes and conversations, he even proposed to me. After my divorce, I wouldn't even have thought of dating-- except this is my twin, we've had a connection and history all these years.
He never married, had no kids, only a long term live- in that didn't work out. He said he has waited for me all these years.
Suddenly lately, he became the Runner-- and I don't know why. This hurt me a great deal, I fee the pain to my core.
I've spent the last week or two sorting it out on my end, and now realize, I need to do some more work on me. Love myself, clean up my vibration, give him some space.
We aren't really disconnected, never have been. So if it's meant to be, here's his chance to raise his own vibration, grow, and catch up with each other on the same level.
I actually feel like wanting to be the Runner now, and let HIM be the Chaser.
We did have two weeks together last April. I flew out to visit him and some family out there, and it was a wonderful time. We both hated parting, and we both agreed we could see this being the rest of our lives. But my job & family out here called me back for now.
I fee like my impulsive trip to see him may have changed things....a month afterward, he became the Runner. Have heard from him less and less. I also was open with him in letting him know his obsession with random girls he doesn't know on Facebook, liking their sexy pics and even commenting & saying sweet things to them, was hurting me.
I know part of that is only my need to work on insecurities; but at the same time, after all our connection, and a marriage proposal....not right.
This pushed him into going Dark Mode on social media. I occasionally checked to see if he had been online and was continuing the behavior. After a couple weeks, he started doing that again, and I think he may message these girls like he did before. You know, the internet hoes that like to do sexting.
I finally had to let go of that, and address my own insecurity.
But he is still the Runner.
I live him to my core, I know he lives me, we've both said we will never be disconnected, it's beyond our control.
But I feel like I need to detach and turn inward now. No more chasing. This is painful, but at the same time, I wonder how much of what I'm feeling may actually be his vibration & pain?🤔
@@phoenixmode6909 lovely!!! I’m happy for you!! I’m in illumination right now and it is soooo beautiful and peaceful! All I can say is keep doing the work you’ll get there!!
💚If you choose to be negative towards your flame your negative to yourself. Healthy healing> dealing> coping> unconditional love is needed in our terms of agreement💚.
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The runner is the one that has more pain, because they don’t have the tolls to advance and be aware of the journey.
The only thing we can do it’s grow the best way possible in all areas of our lives as chasers.
To reach peace and joy within 💫🦋it’s the goal.
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Thank you so much. You just opened a bridge between me and my lady. Im the a man, but the Divine Feminine Energy and Chaser. She is a women, but the Divine Masculine Energy and runner.
What you said absolutely rings true. She didn't step back bc she doesn't care, she did it bc she does. Im going to stay with her.
I'm okay, I'm not alone. My twin will be back, I'm enjoying my dark knight of the soul process. It was needed
I've been confused and tired more than anything during this connection. I've cried out if the blue for no reason. Angry. Bitter. Feelings of wanting to give up and drop them but I know that his rejection isn't of me but if himself due to whatever trauma he has yet to heal. I'm not losing anymore sleep over him anymore. I no longer feel a pull. I felt the pull very strong from March to July. As of late since I started focusing on myself the pull has stopped. Even the dreams have become less vivid and at times I don't dream at all or remember the dream. I still see certain signs but they're not as strong. I understand he's struggling but there are times where I find myself thinking my struggles are worse than his. That's not fair to him. Just because I have no idea what he's doing in his life on a daily basis or who he's around I shouldn't allow that to make me doubt his pain deep down. The 3D self is avoidant-attachment style. He hates conflict but will deal with it if necessary. He has ADD and I have ADHD. So for us, it's extra pain, denial, anger and bitterness but also extra love that I know I have tried to shove deep down but it always bubbles back up. Regardless of his short comings I remain loving him. I see the red flags and I acknowledge them. I know that the red flags are what he needs to address yet and vice-versa. I used to fear losing him but I can't lose him when he's a part of me. I am my twin. Working on your shadow side and learning to embrace certain parts of it while still shining your light especially as an empath is so hard. I am down to 1 solid friend and she use to be someone I took for granted but looking back now, she has never treated me any different. Yeah so she's a bit odd but so am I lol. My twin is a huge nerd deep down and so am I lol. He hides who he really is to the outside world from those he works with because being in a position of authority makes him think and act a certain way. I was also told not to send your twin loving energy just because you feel their pain becaus instinctually they will get too overwhelmed by it and therefore keep running. So the key is to love yourself because loving yourself IS loving your twin. Also don't be concerned with when or how or if the runner will reach out. That will only cause you to expect things which will always lead to disappointment. Just let them be and in time the distance they feel will start to become too much for them. It may take years. As far me, i'm only a year in and have learned so much and still learning.
This message want me to reach out to him and insure him, he is not alone. I dont even care he hurt me or not, rejected or not, I can take anything as long he is fine.. I just want him to not feel hurt.
The amount of entitlement the runner carries is disgusting and appalling.. What do you mean by cut them some slack? If they are so afraid why cant they work on themselves? This way they can also help the chaser.. Actually the one who is really suffering is the chaser.. the cahsers have to literally put aside their pride and ego, to chase the runner until they realise that they are good enough by themselves... most chasers have no support from many sources and have to rise up by themselves.. they have been taught that their feelings are unimportant and now, they have to acknoweledge their own emotions and pass through the fire. the chaser's life is lonely and they will very heavy longing.. on one side, they want their twinflame and want to be with them but on the other side, they dont know what to do, or eve why their twinflame is acting the way they are doing? Do you runners even have any idea, how it hurts when we hear wprds like --you dont matter to me. i dont really love you... Do you know the impact of those words? Chasers know that the runners are doing bad things and still have the courage to love them. Chasers know that they cannot live without their twinflame and yet, they learn to surrender and let go... and they learn this lesson the hardest way... Show some respect and work on your issues.
unconditional love
It's your twin, what does that say about YOU? Missing the point
This is so true. Sometimes you can't see beyond your own pain and triggers and insecurities enough to stay especially when there are insecure attachment styles that cause the runner-chaser behavior.
The Twin flame runner faces the harder challenge if they have been dominated by Fear all their lives when it comes to Love since childhood Their Healing takes Time and the Chaser should sense that because the intuitive and the telepathic energy is so strong Nothing the chaser does or says will diminish their counterparts love for them How to control the triggering by both also takes time Anything worthwhile is worth waiting for
No one else matches their spiritual and sacral energy vibration Solitude and Silence brings in Soul Healing
If they do not communicate it is for a very good reason If they are true Twins lapse of time means nothing only increases the energy and can extend beyond this lifetime
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The pain is horrible, being separated from my twin . I feel empty inside, my missing piece. I know my twin , I’m speaking with my twin, we are just separated at the moment.
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Are u the runner or the chaser?
No one can understand the pain of a twinflame runner 🍀🥰🙏
Tell me! Tell me! Tell me! I need to understand more! If you don't mind 🙏🏻
Tears were coming through as listening to your message. It touched so much.
I learned about the pain of the Runner on the internet, but it is so real when I hear someone speaking the real feeling.
Thank you very much😢
Two and a half years later and the pain is still as deep as the day he ghosted me. The day i found out he left hid job i cried five hours straight. This is the most painful thing i ever experienced.
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777 views... stopped chasing. Just looking on and observing. Noticing many synchronicity. Runner is less spiritually aware. I understand many things they do not; as such i can have patience and wait. It's futile for the runner to run from themselves. Causing all of their own pain. Sending lots of positive thoughts. Strong energy. Prayers. but i also get tired fed up at times. Taking comfort in all the silent messages. 777 views and right at this moment, my phone is 77%.🙂
777 is my twin flame number.
Literally been seeing 177, 777 and 717 since surrendering
777 is my number and it's also my DMs birthday, 7-7-70. 💕 Missing him. 💖
Good advice; in the last week I finally accepted the same conclusion.
It's painful, because we've been separated nearly 37 years, he only had one serious relationship for about 9 years, I was married to my karmic for 36. We recently reconnected long distance, I flew out to visit once in the last 6 months, but we are still separated by 2000 miles.
We both have expressed yes, we are twins, but he has a lot of spiritual work to do. I do too, but I'm a bit ahead of him in understanding all of this.
I've witnessed ghosting, I've witnessed him having a 2 month period of his feeing like a rudderless ship, I've witnessed a comeback in his career. But he is silent still mostly, I allowed him to take me for granted and rely on me to always be the first to contact.
Not now. I need to step back out of the way, work on myself, observe from afar, send him healing vibes, but disconnect a little myself. I need to nurture ME for awhile.
If we've been connected all these decades (and Mikey in past lives), we'll remain connected.
My 3D self longs for us to be reunited in the physical in this lifetime. But if that doesn't happen, I should take comfort that we'll never be disconnected, and maybe the next physical lifetime will be the one.
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Thank you so much💐💐💐
This was super helpful thank you 💗
I've been ghosted and left so many times in the last 2 years. It never fails, as soon as I force myself to stop thinking about him, and start doing new activities, maybe going out with somebody new, I hear from him. It's like he can feel it.s we've not been contact for a couple of months at this one point and I tried reaching out using *69 because I didn't want his mom nor the other girlfriend to know because they're very toxic and cause many problems and he knows it. Anyway this one particular time after we had not talked in 2 months, which was a long time for us not to at least hear or send a text, he surprisingly answered. He was so full of joy at hearing my voice and said really excitedly, hi baby. And we talked for a long time. And then he went incognito for 2 more weeks.
He always comes back around
Runners which ghost and block and screw others dont deserve their twin.
mine literally monkeybranched
Agreed
I don't want to run, I want him and only him I just don't know how to make this work at the moment. 😢
But also the chasers go through a lot more in the beginning for label terms. Absolutely because the runner for label terms they deny, they run, they block. And they get involved with other people and things to distract themselves, so they don't have to feel any of the pain like the chaser does not until the roles are reversed.
He’s the runner and with karmic i won’t interfere. I get it but it hurts never even met in this lifetime before 🥺
I stopped feeling the pain within 1 month of separation, and being close to him in 5d. I understand because he's in med school and the timing was unexpected.
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Deepest pray to God to settle this karmic account peacefully as early as possible..
Shree Swami Samartha 🙏
It's clear he watches everything I do. If he would just SPEAK to me, all this BS would be worked out. I'm tired. The whole world doesn't need to know our "dirty laundry" for Bob's sake, let's TALK!! I won't bite you. Plus, you get the chance to tell your side of the story.
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Ditto!! … songs full of love and social media posts full of hints at suppressed emotions and thoughts just doesn’t serve any purpose …
And in actual communication it’s “No problem 👍”… that’s it!
I had to opt out at that point in time! Regardless of what happened, it takes two to communicate … and move things forward!
If that’s not possible, it’s better to let go and keep doing the inner work…
our journey has ended.. if he's in any pain, I guess he can lean on his new wife for comfort..
How long was your TF journey dear?
Twin flame journeys do not end with people getting married. It will always be undeniable, even if you're apart. Thats where twin flame relationships are different from normal relationships. It isn't necessary that twin flames end up together in each lifetime. It is part of their learning journey throughout these lifetimes. I hope you can find a peaceful closure to the situation. It must be really painful.
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Thank you.
Thank you ♥️
You’re welcome 😊
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I’m the chaser. I have backed off and show more empathy to him
My twin flame she run away back end off august and most of September than late September she reconnected with me but on Sunday she run away and it does hurt 😢 loads I have questioned if I have done something wrong
Stay true to yourself, what feels right for you. Make sure you’re 💯 in what YOU would do.
How many times should you give one person chances? Until they utterly destroy me
Maybe change how you look at it. How many chances do you give yourself?
Same. My TF had SO many changes and he’s a liar and a coward. I’m curious if he’s felt an energy shift bc I have, feeling SO much better since I’ve realized how he doesn’t deserve me.
G even i am the chaser my twin is the runner and he tells me he is feeling lots of pain and i am feeling it too o my god i am feeling what u are saying some time i am feeling pain and heart flatters feeling longing for my twin feeling tired and like am going to fall
Well as a chaser I’m stressed out & stubborn ….I’m trying to understand
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Peekaboo… 👁 c u 😎 let’s have a JACK AND COKE… you can tell me about your problems 😂
Hahaha U so much fun❣
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You can heal from Past traumas and wounds .... WITH or WithOUT your twin. And THEN you in gotta heal from the effects of his/her running ..... in which case it would be having to heal WITH the returned twin. HARD to see the point of incurring hurt by having to "heal" from other hurts. STILL seems senseLESS to me after 7 Years of looking into this dynamic ...which can't be good for any children with a runaway parent to heal up the wounds of .... and the cycle goes on n On n ON
Blessing
I'm the cap chaser the runner libra ghosted 5 months ago still no contact😢
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Libras are very to themselves when running. They barely reach out even to reconcile. I’m sorry you are experiencing that.
I don't know if what we had was even real anymore or if I made it up in my mind from the way he acted but I replay everything trying to figure out where I went wrong but while some men throw themselves at me and I have to beat them away with a stick for them to leave me the damn hell alone and STOP TALKING TO ME ALREADY...this one just couldn't get away from me fast enough even though initially he treated me like a princess and was all over me like a cartoon dog with heart eyes and a heartbeat popping out of his chest running around his house like a crazy person just from the mere sight of me I'm not joking it was the weirdest thing he way over did it at first but I gave him a chance anyway because the connection was so strong and intense....Then he gaslit me so hard for it that I feel it in my bones. And ran like hell to get away from me. A$$hole. Chase that money and fame you jerk. See how much you matter to people when all you do is run away from anyone who cares about you. You'll end up with an emotionally unavailable goldigger when we could have made a loving home together as a team and eventually as a family. You did this, not me. Have fun living your shallow superficial materialistic life instead of prioritizing the ones who were prepared to have your back through thick and thin, richer or poorer.
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I've been considering reaching out to my runner DM. We haven't had a conversation in 2 years because I told him I can't interact with him while he is with his karmic. He almost talked to me 2 months ago, but must have chickened out last minute.
probably did chicken out.. mine called me two weeks ago and hung up when I answered.. I texted him asking why and he said he suddenly got busy 🥴 I don't have time for foolish games anymore- especially when he has someone else in his bed at night.. best of luck ❤️
You probably should reach out. Perhaps he's ready now.
My TF got cut SO much slack he admitted to being used to having his cake and eating it too. He’s a selfish coward and I’m done giving chances and moving on. I outted him to his girlfriend yet even with proof she didn’t want to hear it. But I know I did the right thing and feel like my sunshiny self again.
Your twin flame can not act selfish with you. That soul wasn't your real twin flame.
@@Spiritisnobody86 That doesn't make sense. Ghosting is a selfish act whether twin flame or not. Comments like yours is what makes me doubt this whole thing because it's contradictory.
@@Spiritisnobody86 I agree. Even if they choose someone else over you they won't put you in a third party. They couldn't jump from the bed of a tf to the bed of another and back and forth.
It’s impossible for you to say that the runner is in more pain than the chaser, and impossible really. There is no greater pain I could ever imagine happening as a chaser.
I love my Man with all my soul my life and my soul. He Will be my husband. We lived 30 years as neibourgs and we didnt know. He dediced to buy an apartment some where else after we met. I miss him every day
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My tf always hug me . And my tf is my cousin. I am the Runner. He is a Chaser
Twin flames are never people we are related to 🫣
God Willingly I'm cutting them some slack but they continue with the narcisstic actionz I'll ghost them for good and they can play mind gamez on somebody else!!!
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Just think thier just doing what you would do to if you were in their shoes
I have been runner all my life, dont know when and how i converted into anxious/chaser. Well it has been the best experience of my journey so far, i felt my wounds which are causing loneliness during this runner chaser phase.. i deeply understand why she is running away, yes ofcourse its her wounds but she loves her independence more than anything and yeah fuck ! I was chasing her like a shadow i didnt give her time to miss me and i ddnt do anything wrong as i was just showing my week side, i was honest and vulnerable with her. I respect her decision and i love myself the most, after going through major emotional breakdown ive decided not to cut the cord but to hold and keep this matter on side till i return to my town. Till then i will growing up!
I bump into him at our old meet places occasionally...its painful
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I stopped chasing...focusing on myself.
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Chasers.... if you're like me.. you're seeking validation from this man or woman. Even if you are married, like me... and you learn about twin flame... and you learn that you and this other person are 1.... things become very scary, even if you aren't doing anything but talking. You don't cross any boundaries... I learned I seek her validation. And that's always been wrong for me to seek any outside validation. Then I feel embarrassed, when I look back and see my 6 paragraph texts... 3 of them... and her 1 line responses.
Makes me question myself about the entire twin flame thing all together... fuck it I'm married... I have a wife and kids... so what we have problems sometimes? I can't afford to "fall in love" with someone again. (Then I hear her voice tell me, that's not love Allan. Love isn't supposed to be painful.)
I spend most of my time talking to my twin, within my own head now........ and I make her respond to me, based on what I've known about her this entire 20 years. By doing this conversation with her basically in your "imagination" if you want to call it that.... I have began to understand that she is feeling everything I feel... I have asked her about this telepathy multiple times and she says she does the same exact thing...
She pulls away everytime we get this really, elevating bond where we agree on something almost at the same time. I've always been able to finish her thoughts. She's such a runner, and I know it's because I'm in this marriage. She's afraid "if Allan finds out we're twin flames he'll destroy his marriage."
So she protects her feelings from even going a direction where she would attatch to me emotionally. This is frustrating, because it's making me long for her more..... sometimes... and it's because I can't shake the idea of her longing for me as well. And she's such a responsible person with morals, she would never want me to dissolve a marriage for her. Not ever...
But she HAS taken opportunity to tell me when my marriage was looking shakey... I couldn't help but feel her be slightly excited by the idea that I would be available. I could also feel that she could not take the pain I was feeling. I'm too intense for her. So she runs... which means she runs from her own intensity... which means she is just as intense with emotion if not worse than I am.
I love my wife, and family dearly. I have no plans of going anywhere...
But there is no doubt in my mind that I love my twin flame. I would do anything for this person, short of leave my family and again shed never allow that. I now feel like she's always watching me. And I like it. I'm no longer embarrassed to be me. People don't want to admit that about themselves. But your twin will show you how beautiful you really are if you pay attention... texting works as a semi 3d. it allows for you to not judge or be judged by your twin as you grow in the 5th dimension. Because the 5th dimension is where you would "picture you twin" in your head anyway ....
The funny thing is.. I'm seeking validation, and she's seeking proof that it's real. I thought i was seeking proof.
I have my proof... what I want is her validation of Me figuring it all out. (So I'm finally worth being loved)
The thing is, we both hold the same fear.. . . Abandonment. So if she finds the proof she's looking for... and I'm married with a family. "What the he'll am I going to do now?" That's her thought. I won't say im assuming. I can't explain how I know.... the crazy thing is.... "I know she knows" - j. Cole
But I won't tell her for fear of disrespecting her morals about me breaking up a family. It's so Irie. That if her and I got together now, I'd be repeating her childhood traumas on my own children. By leaving my family for a woman I met online.
I've known her longer than my wife. So everything is setup in such a way, that qe have nothing but challenges to work through personally before we could ever exists together in a 3d.
I never thought I could love someone so unconditionally. And never have met face to face. And both know the exact same thing about each other.... say things that make each other's jaw drop in disbelief... yet feel so far away. I do everything I can to give her her space. And everytime we talk for a few. I overwhelm her with shit... and even if she agrees with what im saying, she runs.. I get it now. In fact. I can't help but feel she's the one struggling right now and needed my help, but she still thinks she can't handle it.. I'll say something I shouldn't and fuck with her emotions... I'm treading so lightly, yet teedering on a line, because if I say "twin flame" one time...(and oh I want to tell her I believe we are twin flamee so badly) I fear I would cause her to attatch to me and hurt her. Truth is, I would commit to her more deeply and I don't know what that means for my family.... if I started to fall for this person enough to lose interest in my family, then I'd no longer fear losing them. And I'd be able to pursue herm and it would be very wrong! Especially in her eyes... so neither one of us admit twin flame or mention it, but if I want to say it, I know...... that she wants to. We always hint.. it's pathetic and cute at the same time when I look back at it.. I wonder sometimes if her and i will laugh about this 20 years from now. And those sorts of thoughts somehow, send me out of the bathroom or where I am, straight into my wife's arms. I can't tell if that's guilt causing me to do that?
it feels guiltless and free and I've never treated my wife with so much love and respect.
But I've longed for someone before who was in a relationship
I don't ever want my twin to feel that sort of longing. I've lived that way my entire life, and she knows it.. we are at a stand off, us two. I want to be able to tell her in text, to be patient... that it's OK, that I'm not afraid anymore, that I see you 👁
But she won't let me.... she's stronger than I am...
@REALAMERICANMAN531 how are things now?
If theres such thing as this, which i think its just demons then how can i get such a download so beautiful that hes actually waiting for me to become the best version of myself. A positive message from a demon then this video pops up🤔.idk
All i do know is im not sad were not even talking. God can just be using him as my catalyst cause im on the next level of body positivity. When i make love again, if its not with him, it will be free and intimate the way i imagined it would be with him. Hes spiritually awakened to know hes helping me but knows were probably not twin flames or even meant to be like that which is ok now. My heart soul and body belong to God and i dont want to submit to anyone whos heart is not one with the creator as well. Its probably why i wanted him so bad cause i know he is. A beautiful soul
did she cut ME any slack by throwing insults at me and our connection, talking behind my back to others and unnecessarily threatening me with the law?? 31 months later, she can continue to marinate in her "guilt" 🤷♂️
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were you stalking her bro?
Since. I know. This setuation. About runner and Chaser I am the chaser. But now I will stop and. 4 month. Chaser. But now I feel stupid. Shameful of my self. I feel very. Anger inside. But. I cnt angry to him.
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If your "twin flame" is mean or abusive in any way, then you might be being tricked into the twin flame stuff. I was tricked into it by a covert narcissist (demon), which caused most of my triggers with my real twin and a huge denial of twin flames until i was pretty much hit with a brick and forced to believe lol.
Truth!!! ❤
Apart. Sad, but it had to be. Does this missing their tf apply if they have a wife/partner?
Yes! Those partners are there to teach them lessons and they will long for you the whole time. They feel the bond as much as you do. They long for you deeply.
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What Sapp him now,
Guess it is harder being with someone you dont love but choose over the real one. Trapped in their own chosen hell.
He’s married.
No.
How do i know if im the chaser or the runner ?
Are you doing the chasing or are you the one running ?
@@gwendolynn7314 good question. i don't think i am cheasing at least not activly... but i also don't think i am running...
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What Sapp him now,
Some say the runner don't truly give a f%$k about it all. They just keep on living their lives, in lower vibration and facing karma all the time, until they learn their lessons. But they do not think of their counterpart at all.
I'm chaser, just stating what I saw in other videos.
🙏🙏🙏
All of you “twin flame runner” people are actually narcissists and need to seek forgiveness from God about the way that you abuse others. Jesus loves you
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What Sapp him now,,,
,I am the chaser
He don't want to talk he want to die hes become crazy. When I try to ask him to Reading.
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One Twin Flame, The Runner Will Always Be A Loser 🐷💩🤡🤣