Living With Creatives (Season 1) - What duties are for men and women in a home ?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ต.ค. 2024
- This Episode features Dwp Academy members ;
Lisaquama
Afronitaaa
Richeal
Realcesh
Demzybaye
Energetictymlez
Keyguy
Endurancegrand
Starter
Champion rolie
I love Racheal, she is born with sense and she talks with swag. I love afronita too, she do not force vibes. Her own is to confirm from google😂. I love you all😘
Go back in time as how, my guy the ways of the world are changing so upgrade ya thinking , if both u and ya wife bring finance at home, help her in domestic work at home, house work is not easy for only a woman to be doing it alone my guy were is your conscience. 🤨
Rollie shock me with his mentality.. Eiii Danita has alot to deal with ooo😎.
True I think the real self of Danita doesn't deserve this kind of person
Rolie dey craze! Period
Whether it be duty or responsibility, marriage is teamwork. You both help each other and do what works for your marriage. It would be nice to get an update in the future when you all are married. I bet you all will have a totally different perspective.😊
Thank you🙏👏
Well said. I have been married for over 30 years. It is important that we refrain from using either word because they both establish wrong expectations. It is important to note that each marrital team is different therefore what is necessary to maintain each one is different. Keep in mind that what you saw in your parents and those whom you respect may not work nor maintain balance in your home. I too would like to see a follow-up conversation with this set of creatives on the flip side (once they have been married for a time) in order to see what their perspectives are at that time. This was really good.
Exactly
The girls are funny 😂
Thanks bro that's true
Endurance was ready throw hands 😂😂😂
Bring more of these episodes
I swear 😂😂😂
Ya, discussion is allowed
Yes yes yes😂😂😂
Endurance is a very passionate person, her dancing comes from that same angle...She is very intelligent, but need the Demzies , that are thinkers, and more on the quiet side who understand her... She will definitely respect that, which is what men need as Demzy said... Endurance need love, Demzy need respect... They both win! 🤷🏻♀️💕🙏🏼
@@gildahernandez3557you are very wise. Well said
Endurance you are crazy 😜 is true don’t hold my waist come make we cook
Lmao endurance has my entire heart, this girl is hilarious 😂😂 sis said “you can’t force me” period
In a marriage teamwork makes the dream work..communication and yielding to one another is the key. 🔑
Yes thanks ma
@@OladeleAishat-mu1xt 😘welcome
There’s no right or wrong answer just find a partner who compliments you.
Exactly🤣🤣🤣
I love eduarance
Lisa's question was left unanswered and I feel if women are supporting men to put something on the table for the family why can't men support women with doing domestics. That's a fair play
Yea the right point 💯
Well said ❤
This was fun but I support the ladies 99%. In my opinion, in relationships when it come with building a peaceful and humble home everything should be 50/50. In most of the advanced countries, there is nothing like this is your responsibility so even if you are not available you must come and accomplish it.
There should be a respect on both side and moreover understanding as well.
In conclusion, good communication is the best.
Love you all I had fun watching you guy.
Shine bright and stay blessed 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘🥰
Low key, the guys know the ladies are right but their pride won't allow them accept it 😂
I liked the fact that Endorance said, “as a woman u are entitle to do all the house choices and after making love to your husband then later he will be like the kids need to bed”that thus not mean is a duty but coming together as a team working hand in hand to make the marriage look lovely and also impact as a role model to others.
It was d way Demzy was calming Endurance down 😂😂😂😂
After he said nonsense😂😂😂
@@joyadebisi9312 lol nawaoo😂😂
Swrz❤❤Endurance is a phenomenal woman. Demzy won't find it funny if he do anyhow😂😂😂
Like how Baye took his time. Afronita was there giggling. Endurance the defender.
I love the way the girls explained what responsibility and duty are. Girls are taught to do household chores, but that does not mean it is a duty. Marriage is a union and teamwork makes it beautiful. We need to learn to understand what the Bible says and what our culture/society has instilled in us.
Please come again😂.
Its like they are misinforming them selves.
Responsibilities are duties which one must do and which one is answerable for
That was my very thought...I feel bad for our youth today, they have the freedom to make choices that the older generation didn’t have, but are they happy? I see so much confusion, as they keep moving the goal post! We see some of the side effects already.. The family is in big trouble as culture/ society pull them away from what our Manual instructed and teaches us... very sad for me to see Africa adopting what’s going on in the West! 💕🙏🏼
I like you guys especially Lisa quamaa
Richael literally speaking like a Social Studies teacher😂❤️
Nita is just laughing you'll meet Rolie after marriage with all these talks he's saying🤣🤣
I'm telling... she dey play
I love Rachael. She's knowledgeable and full of wisdom
From experience, start your marriage as a team rather than head and tail. It saves unnecessary competition and bitterness.
Endurance grand I love you, you are so real no time for pretence 🥰🥰🥰🥰
You guys should understand that marriage is a long journey so you people should understand each other and work as a team is the both of you duty
The boys were really contradicting themselves😭 But i'm really disappointed at the way some of the boys think.
Endurance is Right ❤️
Richael is very wiseee🔥❤️❤️
Why endurance dey vex
She said I don't need you to hold my waist😂😂
Girl's I'm with jou, but Endurance will not kill me
Bravo! this topic was on point and a great example of Cultural behaviors and gender roles. The question of Duty vs Responsibility was a great point to define. As a westerner listening( U.S.A) It seemed that the lovely Men can came form a biblical definition of the a woman and man's role where the Women are to be submissive and home makers and the Men is the bread winner. the beautiful women while recognizing the religious and Biblical context of the gender role, they also recognized the changing world that has crumbled the gender roles as they use to be. The world is evolving and opportunities are leveling the playing field on what woman and men can and will do. specific gender roles and becoming blurred each and every day. Currently the only thing a woman only can do is bear children. there was some very valid and interesting thoughts from both side. but I think you all would have done well to set a talk time keeper so that everyone could speak respectively without being interrupted until their time ended. "like 2 minutes each" Hope you guys do more of this and be able to learn from each other in the process. Blessing!!!
Yours faithfully 😂
Well said sis 👏
Sis endurance plz take it easy on them oooo😂😂😂😂😂
ChampionRolie talking about holding your waist and massaging of the shoulders bro that's not what's necessary. Anyways I can see most of the men in DWP academy are gonna be single till they change their mentality. That was a good debate show guys.
You are right!!
I swear 😂😂
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Demzy is quite because he is afraid Endurance will kill him in the future
Omoh exactly 😂
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Me watching it in 2024 ❤😂
This is interesting , there should be a coordinator to calm the team down and be orderly . I like this ❤
The only thing rollie likes is being romantic 😂😂😂 but he doesn't want to share duties with his wife😂😂😂 Danita prepare yourself oooo... Yoooo
😂😂😂 he was scaring her with his submissions
exactly what i said!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Well thus is not what they will do but it's a debate so they want who own is sweet
Not endurance grand being the cutest awkward person at the start of the video😁
Cooking and cleaning, in general house hold chores are basic things. But society have made it as a woman responsibility something like mandatory to do. In marriage, it's about team work, sharing responsibility that's;both the wife and the husband can provide for the family, even if both of you are working, you the husband shouldn't see your wife as a maid. She can cook, you can cook that's the beauty of marriage.
As a husband your duty is to protect your wife and kids and your responsibility is to put food on the table.
As a wife, your duty is to take care of the kids and the house, your responsibility is to make the house peaceful.
NB: duty and responsibility ain't the same.
I support you ladies✌️. but endurance will kill person ooo 😂😂😂
I follow because of her. Just love endurance
She go show Demzy pepe if he try looseguard 😂😂😂
I don't even know who to support 🤣🤣🤣. At the end, it's based on the agreement between you and your partner. If it's good for you, you accept if not don't even get to the point of marriage.
Afronitaa think twice before you say yes to rolie
It’s exactly what I was thinking
I'm telling... he has a low mentality about marriage
I love the fact that the ladies are educating the guys 😂😂😂they need to do better because marriage is a team work
I want a part 2 of this video 😂
Anyways support and responsibility should be at both sides not one sided
I also want a part of this video love 💕 you all💋💋💋
Afronita, Afronira, Afronita......how many times did I call u ? Champion Rolie will turn u into a house help oooo 😜😜😜😜
Yh
Afronira😂
Demzy explanation was on point 💯❤
Afronitaa just dey stare at Rolie😂
she's like herhh is that you want me to be doing🤣🤣
Yes oo but they look cute together though
@@yasminfafayakubu7500yes oo and she's like "are sure I shouldn't rethink this whole thing?" 😂😂
These guys need maids not wives cos that he said it's not a priority to marry a woman that works👎👎👎
Na maid you dey marry or wife we do 50/50 in this marriage
All I have to say when two people come together, in order to make the work load lighter. Help each other, if the man comes home first cook until the wife gets home. Women are know working to make life less stressful for her husband. Work with the flow and the marriage will be a good one.
Thank you my sister
Demzy knows not to open his mouth😂😂
When you make it look like a responsibility, that’s when it’s wrong. Duties can be shared. If I’m up to cook I cook, if I’m available to take care of the kids, why not. It’s the woman’s responsibility to take care of the home but don’t make it look like a tag or WOMENS THING. Marriage is more of a tag team.
It's only in Africa u'll here men saying women are obliged to do hose hold management. Girls choose wisely oo
These guys mentality on marriage is on a different level kraaaa.....it's a teamwork ooh guys.
Has for me the girls are right
Would love to see more of these Guys
It’s really fun 🤩
Rolie is seriously sick aswear 🤣🤣🤣
Wetin she do?
I tell you
You are sick, you don't want to do house work as woman
yall should do more of this honestlyyyyy i didn't even skip😂
Seriously these guys need a reality check. The girls are putting a good conversation but the guys cannot just listen to them. Rolie really needs to stop interrupting the girls as it’s definitely not polite
The girls are saying the fact❤
Danita just dey google 😂
Lisa's asking questions the guys leaving it unanswered 😂
Endurance tge defender ♥️
Riri talks with sense 🥰
Those guys just dey do strong head 😂 dem no wan gree eveb though dem sabi say the girls are right 😂
Rolie needs a househelp not a partner/wife!
Note to self: Never marry any of the DWP boys....smh
Never marry an african man thats the general approach
Endurance is the Best ❤❤❤❤
Endurance bi killer😂😂😂😂😂😂
Endurance I love you more.you are so mature. Your points are valid. Most men don't know that it's full-time work to take care of the home. In Norway, full time house wives are paid. You get
Is afronita shy of the camera 😂ah she's just laughing laughing
Afronitaa dey just laugh 😂 saaa
She's the quite type naturally
Quite alright that is what is done in the ancient times, but times changes, it's only you and your spouse that can make your home what you want it to be... If you want your spouse to be happy and comfortable you must learn how to support each other... It is not just the man's home or the woman's home... It's both of your homes.. you two are now one... So act like one... The children are for both of you, the house is for both of you.... Support, care and show love to one another... Build your home together... That's what works better.... That's my take....
The Girls all the way I'm with you guys 💯🥰🥰🥰🥰
What I always tell my boy friends ...finally we have women saying it as it is 50/50 always
It's the woman's responsibility to do the house chores but the man has to support the woman . It not necessarily that the woman or the wife needs to to do all . Supporting each other is what would make the marriage grow better
Wow i love this team talk, i dt think have ever come across this type of responsible topic be4 on social media.
I love this guys 🤍.
To this topic ,i remember one poem then in sch when i was young (Daddy in the parlor watching film paaaaapaaaapaaa,Mommy in the kitchen cooking rice paaaaapaaa,children in the garden playing ball paaapaaa ,another style) 😂.What am trying to say in that poem is daddy should not be in the parlor watching movie,As a youth ,young couple both the wife and the husband should be supportive with the house choice,Like love will be more stronger self,You guys will be happy and your children will learn from you guys .
We women we are not a wood you no .Youth is different from old age family.
The best thing is understanding,if u understand urself in marriage it will work better
Afronita be serious hahaha
A marriage woman is not supposed to a full house wife she is suppose to be working and assist d husband
all this is toxic masculinity 😂😂,the fact that they think it's the man who has to work to pay the bills and stuff, there are a lot of homes where women are the breadwinners....its all about support 😂
Thank you.
The guy with d blue 🔵💙 braids the wayyyyyyy he was saying NO MATTER NO MATTER NO MATTER and his facial expressions says it alllll 😭😭🤣🤣🤣😅
But Afronitaa always eating????
Team Afronitaa
God created woman because God knew dat Adam can't do all the work. Also women are not to be slaves after marriage oooooo. We marry to help each other. In dis century it's not
That's why it's always advisable to date or marry kind men.
Kindness goes a long way.
A man that doesn't want to see you stress will join or help out in the house without even asking.
Y'all better shine your eyes because these guys show all these attributes during courtship or dating.
You can't change them.
I see Nita smiling 🙂...
Rolie said he's going to hold waist😂😂 na to knack spoon on your head.
Rollie is very passionate about what he believe! Same like Endurance! 🤣🤣Endurance!
You can say that again! All these red flags show when dating/courting. If you choose to ignore, that is your own matter. I am so disappointed at the points raised by the men, very archaic! Like in this modern world?? Lol
You guys spoke what I was thinking. The red flags are there…😂
Demzy made it look like marrying a woman or going to pay her bride price is like doing her a favour.
Love Richeal she's cool and has swag and Lisa she's smart and Endurance her vibe is smooth while Danita has her own ways for dealing with issue's love u all
A man doesn’t make a home it’s a woman who makes a house become a HOME 👍🏻
Charle I love the vibes of Lisa Quarm
In marriage it's 50 50 I understand where the girls are coming from
But the boys hv a mind set that is y they r not getting where the girls are coming from
Kwabena rollie do the most and starter just laughing 😂😂 part 2 please
Women work today they are not just sitting home. So you have to work it out 50 50. Now if you want a house wife just to stay home then don't married a women who work.
I loved every bit of the discussion. We all have different opinions. Personally I think since marriage is a team work even if it’s 50/50 the women are meant to play their roles as wives no matter their working class. Men have always been the hunters since since. Wives should keep the home and make it a safe place for the whole family
I love this conversation it was fun😀😀😀
For a peaceful home it best to share duties . Because it gets tiring when it one sided
But if we do it together it fun and peaceful
Rolie you and your guys are completely wrong
Please change that mentality please oooh
the truth of the matter is that until you get married, you will never get it correct on how both should live ....as much as the woman is supposed to take care of the house .the man who loves his wife will do most chorse and allow his wife to rest ..and thats why its good to marry ur best friend.ur wife should be ur best friend. with that doing things In the home won't be a struggle...
Afronita are u prepared coz Rosie can only romance but house chores deir forget 🤣🤣
I love demzy he's cool guy😍
😂😂 naso
yes
Marriage is not slavery...it's a two team work .
Why is Demzy so quiet like this 😂is he afraid of Endurance ni ?😂😅
We will like to be watching more of this
I'm on the girls side period
This is so interesting I want season 2, I am learning alot
I agree with endurance on this one ebi 50/50
God created woman to keep company and help a man didn’t say woman should do all the job
When you were single you were still working for hours come home late and still cook
Your wife should cook but it’s not a full time job
But tymless why 😅😅😅 you guys sika mp3 Dede ooo
To be frank here is the duty for the woman to do the house work but doesn't mean the man can't help . Love you guys 🥰🥰
Weather you are a working woman it’s your duty to do the house work the only thing your husband can do is to just support your if he feels like
Imaging if you in-laws comes in and meet your husband cooking in the kitchen and you are setting in the setting room watching movie how will you feel
It’s is woman duty to do the house work your husband will only support
It’s not the husband responsibility to do the work it’s the woman responsibility the will only help you that’s all
@@ajayiadijat2590 that is why when the man is cooking the woman will not be sitting down but will also be doing something reasonable… however what we the women want you guys to know is that you don’t expect us to do everything all in the name of duty … you paid my bride price to marry me mainly to produce offspring and companionship not to do house chores and become a housemaid
@@ajayiadijat2590 That also means the money a woman makes from her job is hers alone, right?
Can't wait for part 2
Part 2 please! And more discussion topics!
Marriage is a teamwork both of you have a role to play 😂
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