Grateful for this reflection. I needed this message regarding my own son. Divine timing. I’m learning to release control of outcomes and fixing his life/issues and learning to allow HIS life to unfold for HIS journey. Staying very present and centered while trusting the divine plan for his life!
@@SheiladHaeneit has made all the difference with my son. Loving and accepting him right where he is and allowing him to chose his path. Also reflecting to him his superpowers, even at his lowest points. I always trusted in the unfolding. Hardships are part of the human journey and where the most growth occurs. His transformation in a few years time is miraculous. And do not underestimate the power of planting seeds (without expectations of outcomes) 🌱 Many seeds I planted with him are now coming to fruition! 🙏🏻 And most of all, working on MYSELF has made the biggest difference. ❤
The mystery of surrender is beyond the capability of the mind to understand… …but not to the enlightened heart, which perceives the “mystery” without even a hint of shadow.
Yes yes yes! I'm experiencing these revelations in my journey 💯... Letting go of outer control, going inside to take responsibility for growth and grace... Love to all🙏❤️😎
I was just contemplating a similar theme, what it means to say 'we are all one' and "I see myself in you' so this teaching is perfect timing. I feel it speaks directly to this core pattern of enmeshment that runs all human relationships in the shadow. Even though we know in our hearts that it is inapproriate to interfere with another person's life path, we are conditioned from our first ever relationship (mother and child) to rely on the wellebing of the other for our own wellbeing. This is a genuinely powerful realtional pattern and one that may take time to be liberated from. If we are fortunate by adulthood we will have matured out of this dynamic but most of us stay stuck in a cycle of enmeshment in our marriages, families, cultures and identities. I think this is also expressed in the work world, where my value is dependent on the recognition of the other. This entanglement is everywhere, in every human relationship and really uses up our creative energy quickly. I sense it is most powerful in close and intimate relationships because this is where we feel naked and vulnerable to the experinece of the other. Personal empowerment is born out of recognising enmeshment for what it is, a dysfunctional pattern of love and begin contemplating our way out of it.
It is helpful dear Richard! For someone with no less than three 21 key, I totally feel what you are transmitting. A lot of work with the control: taking it back, letting it go, recognising the tricky shadow.. Sometimes I see that is so little I understand of it and yet..so much. Thank you with gratitude! ❤
0:17 💚 Poem I am surrounded by the suffering of those I love. Some have not yet cultivated inside themselves the mystic hollow where the mist of solitude gathers in the quiet dawn, cupping the penumbral rays of the Self's bliss. I can no longer imagine the agony of facing suffering without the gentle shade of my enlightened knowing. What kind of valour must there be in the soul of one who has organised such a grand forgetting? 1:04
Thank you for your Guidance. It has helped me tremendously as I am the mother of a son who is exactly like the one you talk about in your clip. My heartfelt gratitude Mr Richard for your loving kindness and support ❤️
Thank you 🙏🏻 your words feel like keys unlocking doors in me resonating with what already wanted to be felt and highlited in me.. so much of these words meet past and present versions of myself 💛
2:44 Amazing poem Richard I love your teachings and i am very challenged too by having to endure the suffering of those close to me. If i manage to let go and come to some higher plane within it all, the shift is initially tainted by the awareness that it seems it is at their expense that i have been able to make a breakthrough. However, magically, if there was conflict between us, the dynamic of my shifting seems to effect them and release them somewhat, energetically. To let go i use the technique of focusing on the feeling itself, merging my awareness deeply into the feeling. When we scrutinise the feeling on that deeper level beneath thoughts, embodying it, it releases, ie.disappears, since it has no essence. Thanks so much for being here for all of us Richard
Thankyou Richard. I have also been contemplating this in my life. I realise I have judged another's path as not " the right one " from My perspective. Surrender...💙. And interested in the prayer offering isn't that also a subtle form of control? 🙏💞 or is " offering" the magic key 💚🙌
Woohooo! So good to hear from you this morning, Richard, as I awaken to the embodiment of this lesson lol… to surrender control. It is my youngest son’s 15th birthday, and there’s much to do today to celebrate and much yet to prepare. I was woken up by my daughter, asking for help because one of our cats pooped on top of her laundry bag lol… And then 45 minutes later, our other cat pooped half outside of the litter box, which is very out of character for her… and then she discovered the catnip seeds I placed in a baggie on my desk to separate for a friend, and she’s rubbing her face on the bag and then flipping all over the table surface and my projects 😑. So I appreciate your message, I’m transmuting this fertilizer my life has provided into hilarity, and join the Ecstatics in experiencing the bliss of the blessings that surround me. I deeply appreciate how both of my cats conspired in my #DreamArc journey to help release the tension I woke with, to help me flow better with what began as an overwhelming day… Have a wonderful day!🥰
Thank you,Richard! What wonderful thoughts,a marvelous way to deepen into our inner lands. It's a joy to listen to you. Thank you you exist with us here and now. Be blessed!🙏🙏🙏
Thank you, Richard, you are always giving the proper insights for me and my soul. Because of your work I truly trust the power of connection and connectivity beyond any borders. I am dedicated to working in a way by your side, in this lifetime using the tools that you and your team are gracefully offering to humanity. Thank you so much for the Language of humanity that you made it reach me and others through the gene keys. I send you all my appreciation, love, respect, recognition and full speed ahead. 🤗🙏🦋
This is so true! To find grace and compassion for whatever situation you want to control or other person. I’ve wrestled with this for years and now the allowing effect is having improved my own journey. My brother is a stroke survivor and it was very hard for me to see him go from incredibly musically talented successful attorney Tech engineering genius brain child classical guitarist extraordinaire to not knowing how to brush his teeth. Needing every day care. I think my own personal work as his caretaker in acceptance ❤ staying in the moment contemplating the best outcomes realizing he is not unhappy on so many levels it’s me remembering what he used to be like. But my new view my own personal paradigm shift has turned into a journey where he is literally giving me the gift of a deeper love and compassion and a less reactionary personality. I now watch him enjoying the moment and I see him as flourishing and bringing love wherever he goes I see him as a brave and courageous man everything has changed. So I believe your message is so important and it’s part of your own journey moving towards becoming a being of light true love, and compassion acceptance-(Non-Judgement) and understanding what’s really important. Thank you Richard ❤
I stopped this a 3rd of the way through to say I appreciate the spirit of this message. It’s an expression of truth and what is known but constructed from the integrity of a new messenger. Thank you for imparting this gift purely. I receive the energy of this unexpected blessing. I was drawn to it and immediately the tone resonated and then the message was in alignment with my past couple days but more surprisingly some frustration in my last few minutes. This supported a shift and I’m grateful. I’ve never been recommended this channel before so this occurrence is even more divine❤
Thank you for this enlightening video. Feeling powerless and then wanting to interfere, giving advice is a point of attention for me. I now feel that these situations are opportunities to deepen my trust, patience, love, surrender, etc., which is enlightening. Thank you because I can really do something with this. Seeing these experiences as fuel for my own process of learning ' suffering is grace' will certainly help me to look at and empathize with a different lens.
This is unbelievably helpful, thank you SO much Richard for this deep and timely wisdom. A profound contemplation in turning around the way we view suffering of others and ourselves. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for your insights and wisdom. I’ve been struggling with this exact issue and have had trouble being too involved in my own thoughts and therefore perpetuating the theme of self-suffering. Your message has helped me release and grieve some tension and emotions I’ve been carrying and I’m now feeling lighter. So thank you for helping me see this situation through a different lens and for helping me accept my part in my own suffering.
Perfect timing for this message. Love your poetic wisdom Richard. You have helped me weave the challenges of life into many gifts. Deep gratitude for you and the gene keys. ❤
Thus is helpful and beautiful, thank you. I experience simething similar toward control i wanna exerce on people into being silently critical and judgemental of their behavior which leads me to bitterness, reaentment. When i realized how awful my thougths and feeling were, i learned to turn it around and found surrender, comprehension, love and forgiveness of them..and me. This reevaluation of control is really a nice step up toward peace and inner harmony. I still need to reloop the practice everyday..at work and in my relationship. It worth it, i see the lessons in my craving to judge and interfere, which thankfully is fading. Am about to buy the paper hook gen keys, type it today and found this post and channel. Excellent, you are surfing on a soft and loving energy, i enjoy your vibes. 💫
After a recent few weeks of time spent with friends and family with various forms of suffering, and now the despair and pain of yet another war, this was so helpful to sort out tension and sadness it creates in me. It is also my thorn, to witness others sufferings, and try not to feel guilty for all the beautiful love I have in my life, I can barely tolerate being around them and listen to their issues, their unconsciousness. With the simple truth of your words I can now - let it be…. Brings me to a peaceful recalibration of those feelings. Thank you.
So very helpful, thank you very much, Richard. It’s good to hear that no one’s alone with these kinds of experiences. That this is part of human nature and that we all can deal with it along the example you give to the world by sharing your thoughts💛
These words speak to my situation, to my heart, to my soul & knowingness. I continue on with grace and valor. Release ideals and holding space. Deepest gratitude, thank you, thank you, thank you. Be well (myself included)💛
Thank you! I feel deeply touched and grateful for getting to hear these words at this moment, they are empowering and coming as an answer to my calling out to Spirit for helping to deal with my pain that comes up as I am witnessing my sons pain. Perfect Divine synchronicity. And this helps me to also see how we are all connected and everything is connected. Deep gratitude from my heart for sharing this diamond that you pulled out of you pocket, Richard.
Hmm. This is how I see it, Richard. You can take it or leave it. People do not need need our control of them, because in there, there's judgement before love. There is a continual misunderstanding here, on a fundamental level, assuming that what they're asking for is Help from their suffering. We make this mistake because We are suffering, and we project that unto them. If we absolve ourselves from our selfish desires and not make it about them, we realize we have a problem with relationship to the suffering they bring within ourselves. Not only that, we miss to recognize the overt ways in which they truly need us. There is a need here. That need is support. Support rather than control. Love, rather than change. Perhaps we ourselves have bypassed our own self-acceptance and love in some way, and forget that people need to be loved. They are in fact simply asking to be loved, in their flawedness. "Can you love me, when I make bad decisions? Can you love me when I don't love myself? Can you take care of me, because I have never been before by anyone?" So control here isn't the answer to begin with. When we project control onto others, we are saying the same thing to them. "Can you take care of me, by not making me suffer with seeing you suffer, because I don't know how to handle helplessness I feel in me" "Can you please grow, so that I don't feel the pain of your poor decisions". What we are needing is a deepening of a relationship with being in the midst of someone's poor actions and being invariably affected by it, through our feelings of powerlessness. Agency here then lies in - 1. How can I take care of myself, to be least affected by your decision and not blame you? 2. How can I love you in the midst of your poor decisions, seeing that your real need is to feel supported, which you have never gotten.
Been contemplating discernment quite a bit, especially as it relates to the myriad of online sources about self improvement and spirituality. Yours is a great story to use. You have this amazing story about how you received what you received. And then of course, then there is all this wonderful content. Now, there are times when something just makes "sense" but Im not sure about the genuineness of that sense of knowing. With our pasts, trauma, etc, is there an approach to having a knowing about ones discernment and that when in sync, thee information is more clear to be put into a practice or applied for growth? Or is it a matter of meditation and quieting? Of course, then you have to go with what comes up, if anything? As I share this, it definitely seems related to control, outcomes but also compassion and love to be more at peace, or feel love for self mor, etc. Thanks.
Dear Richard, thank you for sharing you..the myriad of insight you share and touch in my is bringing the cutting of our inner diamond 💎 of love of being in clear site and being able to soften into my being. Your words diatribe the dance of insight and inner being of my daughter and I...she has been in severe pains for years and I grew from powerlessness wanting to fix...realising I did not want to feel and see my own suffering...I could not really be there for her as she told me what it did to her. Mum ther is no space for me to be with the pain so it can dissolve in me so I can be with it. I just need you to hold space and help me when I ask you. So beautiful how we both softened over the years and are aware when contraction enters the space. ❤🙏🪽🙏❤️
Deep ,very deep, oh how I love to control and fix others.To be the saviour, the rescuer. Thankyou Richard, wise words .🙏🙏
Incredibly timely.
Incredibly helpful.
Incredibly affirming.
Thank you Richard.
Grateful for this reflection. I needed this message regarding my own son. Divine timing. I’m learning to release control of outcomes and fixing his life/issues and learning to allow HIS life to unfold for HIS journey. Staying very present and centered while trusting the divine plan for his life!
And yes, lots and lots of prayers. I’ve gained so much wisdom in the letting go and staying centered in self.
I resonate so much with this too, learning to surrender my control of stearing my daughter on her journey.
@@SheiladHaeneit has made all the difference with my son. Loving and accepting him right where he is and allowing him to chose his path. Also reflecting to him his superpowers, even at his lowest points. I always trusted in the unfolding. Hardships are part of the human journey and where the most growth occurs. His transformation in a few years time is miraculous. And do not underestimate the power of planting seeds (without expectations of outcomes) 🌱 Many seeds I planted with him are now coming to fruition! 🙏🏻 And most of all, working on MYSELF has made the biggest difference. ❤
The mystery of surrender is beyond the capability of the mind to understand…
…but not to the enlightened heart, which perceives the “mystery” without even a hint of shadow.
Yes yes yes! I'm experiencing these revelations in my journey 💯... Letting go of outer control, going inside to take responsibility for growth and grace... Love to all🙏❤️😎
I was just contemplating a similar theme, what it means to say 'we are all one' and "I see myself in you' so this teaching is perfect timing. I feel it speaks directly to this core pattern of enmeshment that runs all human relationships in the shadow. Even though we know in our hearts that it is inapproriate to interfere with another person's life path, we are conditioned from our first ever relationship (mother and child) to rely on the wellebing of the other for our own wellbeing. This is a genuinely powerful realtional pattern and one that may take time to be liberated from. If we are fortunate by adulthood we will have matured out of this dynamic but most of us stay stuck in a cycle of enmeshment in our marriages, families, cultures and identities. I think this is also expressed in the work world, where my value is dependent on the recognition of the other. This entanglement is everywhere, in every human relationship and really uses up our creative energy quickly. I sense it is most powerful in close and intimate relationships because this is where we feel naked and vulnerable to the experinece of the other. Personal empowerment is born out of recognising enmeshment for what it is, a dysfunctional pattern of love and begin contemplating our way out of it.
Thank you Richard. I need to hear this in this very moments. You are such a precious’s gifts to the world.
It is helpful dear Richard! For someone with no less than three 21 key, I totally feel what you are transmitting. A lot of work with the control: taking it back, letting it go, recognising the tricky shadow..
Sometimes I see that is so little I understand of it and yet..so much.
Thank you with gratitude! ❤
0:17 💚 Poem
I am surrounded by the suffering of those I love. Some have
not yet cultivated inside themselves the mystic hollow
where the mist of solitude gathers in the quiet dawn,
cupping the penumbral rays of the Self's bliss.
I can no longer imagine the agony of facing suffering
without the gentle shade of my enlightened knowing.
What kind of valour must there be in the soul of
one who has organised such a grand forgetting?
1:04
Thank you for your Guidance. It has helped me tremendously as I am the mother of a son who is exactly like the one you talk about in your clip.
My heartfelt gratitude Mr Richard for your loving kindness and support ❤️
Спасибо, Ричард! 😇
Стало веселее.... 🙏
Beautiful contemplation and so practical in a way. Thanks Richard for your wisdom, clarity, insights and depth!
Thank you 🙏🏻 your words feel like keys unlocking doors in me resonating with what already wanted to be felt and highlited in me.. so much of these words meet past and present versions of myself 💛
2:44 Amazing poem Richard I love your teachings and i am very challenged too by having to endure the suffering of those close to me. If i manage to let go and come to some higher plane within it all, the shift is initially tainted by the awareness that it seems it is at their expense that i have been able to make a breakthrough.
However, magically, if there was conflict between us, the dynamic of my shifting seems to effect them and release them somewhat, energetically.
To let go i use the technique of focusing on the feeling itself, merging my awareness deeply into the feeling. When we scrutinise the feeling on that deeper level beneath thoughts, embodying it, it releases, ie.disappears, since it has no essence.
Thanks so much for being here for all of us Richard
Beautiful ❤❤❤
Thankyou Richard. I have also been contemplating this in my life. I realise I have judged another's path as not " the right one " from My perspective. Surrender...💙. And interested in the prayer offering isn't that also a subtle form of control? 🙏💞 or is " offering" the magic key 💚🙌
So completely resonant 🙏 truly an emotion that is shared in this present moment 🤗
Perfect timing. Exactly what I needed to hear today 🙏🤍
Very helpfilled and hopefilled … much appreciation and love coming your way ❤🙏🏼
Thankyou Richard, very helpful contemplation with all of the suffering going on in the world. ❤
Woohooo! So good to hear from you this morning, Richard, as I awaken to the embodiment of this lesson lol… to surrender control. It is my youngest son’s 15th birthday, and there’s much to do today to celebrate and much yet to prepare. I was woken up by my daughter, asking for help because one of our cats pooped on top of her laundry bag lol… And then 45 minutes later, our other cat pooped half outside of the litter box, which is very out of character for her… and then she discovered the catnip seeds I placed in a baggie on my desk to separate for a friend, and she’s rubbing her face on the bag and then flipping all over the table surface and my projects 😑. So I appreciate your message, I’m transmuting this fertilizer my life has provided into hilarity, and join the Ecstatics in experiencing the bliss of the blessings that surround me. I deeply appreciate how both of my cats conspired in my #DreamArc journey to help release the tension I woke with, to help me flow better with what began as an overwhelming day… Have a wonderful day!🥰
Thank you,Richard!
What wonderful thoughts,a marvelous way to deepen into our inner lands.
It's a joy to listen to you.
Thank you you exist with us here and now.
Be blessed!🙏🙏🙏
Thank you, Richard, you are always giving the proper insights for me and my soul. Because of your work I truly trust the power of connection and connectivity beyond any borders. I am dedicated to working in a way by your side, in this lifetime using the tools that you and your team are gracefully offering to humanity. Thank you so much for the Language of humanity that you made it reach me and others through the gene keys. I send you all my appreciation, love, respect, recognition and full speed ahead. 🤗🙏🦋
This is so true! To find grace and compassion for whatever situation you want to control or other person.
I’ve wrestled with this for years and now the allowing effect is having improved my own journey.
My brother is a stroke survivor and it was very hard for me to see him go from incredibly musically talented successful attorney Tech engineering genius
brain child classical guitarist extraordinaire
to not knowing how to brush his teeth.
Needing every day care.
I think my own personal work as his caretaker in acceptance ❤ staying in the moment contemplating the best outcomes realizing he is not unhappy on so many levels it’s me remembering what he used to be like.
But my new view my own personal paradigm shift has turned into a journey where he is literally giving me the gift of a deeper love and compassion and a less reactionary personality.
I now watch him enjoying the moment and I see him as flourishing and bringing love wherever he goes I see him as a brave and courageous man everything has changed.
So I believe your message is so important and it’s part of your own journey moving towards becoming a being of light true love, and compassion acceptance-(Non-Judgement) and understanding what’s really important.
Thank you Richard
❤
OMGOSH!!! So timely for me! Your message is a blessing! Thankful for your words and direction!!!
I stopped this a 3rd of the way through to say I appreciate the spirit of this message. It’s an expression of truth and what is known but constructed from the integrity of a new messenger. Thank you for imparting this gift purely. I receive the energy of this unexpected blessing. I was drawn to it and immediately the tone resonated and then the message was in alignment with my past couple days but more surprisingly some frustration in my last few minutes. This supported a shift and I’m grateful. I’ve never been recommended this channel before so this occurrence is even more divine❤
❤ wow... your words were what I needed to hear❣️ bless you Richard for all you've shared with ALL🙏
Thank you for this enlightening video. Feeling powerless and then wanting to interfere, giving advice is a point of attention for me. I now feel that these situations are opportunities to deepen my trust, patience, love, surrender, etc., which is enlightening. Thank you because I can really do something with this. Seeing these experiences as fuel for my own process of learning ' suffering is grace' will certainly help me to look at and empathize with a different lens.
This is unbelievably helpful, thank you SO much Richard for this deep and timely wisdom. A profound contemplation in turning around the way we view suffering of others and ourselves. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for your insights and wisdom. I’ve been struggling with this exact issue and have had trouble being too involved in my own thoughts and therefore perpetuating the theme of self-suffering.
Your message has helped me release and grieve some tension and emotions I’ve been carrying and I’m now feeling lighter. So thank you for helping me see this situation through a different lens and for helping me accept my part in my own suffering.
Thank you for this 🙏🏾
Perfect timing for this message. Love your poetic wisdom Richard. You have helped me weave the challenges of life into many gifts. Deep gratitude for you and the gene keys. ❤
Thus is helpful and beautiful, thank you. I experience simething similar toward control i wanna exerce on people into being silently critical and judgemental of their behavior which leads me to bitterness, reaentment. When i realized how awful my thougths and feeling were, i learned to turn it around and found surrender, comprehension, love and forgiveness of them..and me. This reevaluation of control is really a nice step up toward peace and inner harmony. I still need to reloop the practice everyday..at work and in my relationship. It worth it, i see the lessons in my craving to judge and interfere, which thankfully is fading.
Am about to buy the paper hook gen keys, type it today and found this post and channel. Excellent, you are surfing on a soft and loving energy, i enjoy your vibes. 💫
Wow - I have no words but Thankyou 🙏🌸💕🌬️
Faaaantastic support and loving empowerment 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This is wise. Hard, but wise. And true. Thank you
After a recent few weeks of time spent with friends and family with various forms of suffering, and now the despair and pain of yet another war, this was so helpful to sort out tension and sadness it creates in me.
It is also my thorn, to witness others sufferings, and try not to feel guilty for all the beautiful love I have in my life, I can barely tolerate being around them and listen to their issues, their unconsciousness. With the simple truth of your words I can now - let it be…. Brings me to a peaceful recalibration of those feelings. Thank you.
You words are poetry in and of itself 🙏💜💞🎶
So very helpful, thank you very much, Richard. It’s good to hear that no one’s alone with these kinds of experiences. That this is part of human nature and that we all can deal with it along the example you give to the world by sharing your thoughts💛
Thank you!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is profoundly constructive insight. Thank you so much. ❤
Beautiful!!
And we can internally honor their commitment to their own growth through their own discomfort.
So grateful for finding you, Richard. Thank you so much for your contemplations ❤️
These words speak to my situation, to my heart, to my soul & knowingness. I continue on with grace and valor. Release ideals and holding space. Deepest gratitude, thank you, thank you, thank you. Be well (myself included)💛
So beautiful. Thank you! 🙏🏼💚
Beautifully said. Again ❤ Thank you
Thank you to give words with high vibration to the process of letting go of control, the suffering and show way outs . Thank you .
Thank you! I feel deeply touched and grateful for getting to hear these words at this moment, they are empowering and coming as an answer to my calling out to
Spirit for helping to deal with my pain that comes up as I am witnessing my sons pain.
Perfect Divine synchronicity. And this helps me to also see how we are all connected and everything is connected. Deep gratitude from my heart for sharing this diamond that you pulled out of you pocket, Richard.
So timely and much needed. Embracing my humility and my humanity. Thank you!! 🙏🕷🦌
This is so brilliant Richard thank you thank you 🫶🏼🫶🏼🥹🌆🗽
Brilliant contemplations , thank you this is useful 🌸💛🙏🏽
Richard Rudd ❤
Really enjoyed this talk and the explanations. Thank you.
Super thanks You for sharing Richard❤
Wow!! Thank you inmensly!!!! This is one of my main struggles and this words helped me so much 💓
This resonated with me on so many levels. Thank you!
Thank you so much, it's been brought to the point 🙏🙏🙏
I thought this morning I need to let go of control. Then this popped up 😮❤
Ooooh i needed this at this time..
Thank u Richard❤
Thank you ☀️☀️☀️
Yes. Beautiful 🙏🏼✨💛
Thank you so much for this wisdom🙏
I love these words! Exactly where I have been the last couple of days. Thank you 🙏
Thank you 🤍
Thank you so much for this !! ❤️
This video makes me speechless...❤
Thank you Richard, perfect for the moment. Oh and where’d all your books go?!
Thank you💙
Very insightful and helpful, thank you!
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. This was a timely and powerful message for me. I am grateful for you and all of your work. ❤
Thank You ❤ That was perfect for me to hear Now!
OMG 😍 Thank you Thank you Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much I really needed to hear this today
Wonderful insights... so inspiring and consoling... thank you so much for sharing!!!
I just love you, thank you.
Whoosh 💖
this is very helpful with respect to my Gate 21 conscious Moon 💜
Very helpful one of those big things in life
Most answers boil down to trust
Hmm. This is how I see it, Richard. You can take it or leave it.
People do not need need our control of them, because in there, there's judgement before love. There is a continual misunderstanding here, on a fundamental level, assuming that what they're asking for is Help from their suffering. We make this mistake because We are suffering, and we project that unto them. If we absolve ourselves from our selfish desires and not make it about them, we realize we have a problem with relationship to the suffering they bring within ourselves. Not only that, we miss to recognize the overt ways in which they truly need us. There is a need here.
That need is support. Support rather than control. Love, rather than change.
Perhaps we ourselves have bypassed our own self-acceptance and love in some way, and forget that people need to be loved. They are in fact simply asking to be loved, in their flawedness. "Can you love me, when I make bad decisions? Can you love me when I don't love myself? Can you take care of me, because I have never been before by anyone?"
So control here isn't the answer to begin with. When we project control onto others, we are saying the same thing to them. "Can you take care of me, by not making me suffer with seeing you suffer, because I don't know how to handle helplessness I feel in me" "Can you please grow, so that I don't feel the pain of your poor decisions". What we are needing is a deepening of a relationship with being in the midst of someone's poor actions and being invariably affected by it, through our feelings of powerlessness. Agency here then lies in -
1. How can I take care of myself, to be least affected by your decision and not blame you?
2. How can I love you in the midst of your poor decisions, seeing that your real need is to feel supported, which you have never gotten.
Been contemplating discernment quite a bit, especially as it relates to the myriad of online sources about self improvement and spirituality. Yours is a great story to use. You have this amazing story about how you received what you received. And then of course, then there is all this wonderful content. Now, there are times when something just makes "sense" but Im not sure about the genuineness of that sense of knowing. With our pasts, trauma, etc, is there an approach to having a knowing about ones discernment and that when in sync, thee information is more clear to be put into a practice or applied for growth? Or is it a matter of meditation and quieting? Of course, then you have to go with what comes up, if anything? As I share this, it definitely seems related to control, outcomes but also compassion and love to be more at peace, or feel love for self mor, etc. Thanks.
self-less prayer is atomic
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😮 2:29
💝
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As Ram Dass said (paraphrased), if you think you're enlightened, go live with your parents for a while.
Dear Richard, thank you for sharing you..the myriad of insight you share and touch in my is bringing the cutting of our inner diamond 💎 of love of being in clear site and being able to soften into my being.
Your words diatribe the dance of insight and inner being of my daughter and I...she has been in severe pains for years and I grew from powerlessness wanting to fix...realising I did not want to feel and see my own suffering...I could not really be there for her as she told me what it did to her. Mum ther is no space for me to be with the pain so it can dissolve in me so I can be with it. I just need you to hold space and help me when I ask you. So beautiful how we both softened over the years and are aware when contraction enters the space. ❤🙏🪽🙏❤️
Thank you so much for this heartwarming kontemplation 💜💙💚💛🧡🤎🤍
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