I Flew to See Him, But He Only Cared About Work-Then Asked Why I Left

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @Shanti-qr3ky
    @Shanti-qr3ky หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    In this story, it was his indifference that caused the break up. Men knows when they have a doormat, who they think will put up with all their quirks and indifference. I like that the FL ended up with a "regular" guy with a "regular" job and not the usual billionaire.

    • @lazallewillemse3617
      @lazallewillemse3617 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Agreed. What's the point of being with a rich guy if they give you everything but love and affection?

  • @seonjang
    @seonjang หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    His POV of him yapping about how great he is with his achievements and highlights how his ex has a "not-so-pretty" face and her new romantic interest is not as great as him 😅 That guy should be single for life... he's too unintelligent, emotionally at least...
    And him complaining about a few inconveniences when he went to see her, only shows that he's selfish, not realizing how she experienced this too many times whenever she comes to see him.
    They're really not a good match.

    • @lazallewillemse3617
      @lazallewillemse3617 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Agreed. He makes it sound like it's an honor for her to date him

  • @sidneyu6011
    @sidneyu6011 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Girl, you obviously did your best to sustain/uphold your relationship with that block of ice, but it'd be so lonesome and exhausting if you are alone fighting. It's better to cut your losses early, girl. He is not worth it.

  • @cindyroorda3410
    @cindyroorda3410 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really like this story and storytelling more please and please

  • @lazallewillemse3617
    @lazallewillemse3617 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Late affection is cheaper than grass. Doesn't matter if you're rich and successful. Doesn't matter if you're better than the other guy. Doesn't matter if you can give her anything that you think she wants. If you can't show her that you love her then what's the point of being together? His POV made it clear to me that she made the right choice to leave

  • @mchooi9588
    @mchooi9588 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    After the break up, he had many opportunities.... when he finally put some effort to win her back, it was already too late

  • @TKSizemore-sr6bx
    @TKSizemore-sr6bx หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The end of his POV says it all: He finally realized where he was wrong in all his thinking and how he should have responded to be able to keep the one he loved. Hopefully, he will remember this lesson and can actually be a better partner for someone in the future.

  • @Jaym888
    @Jaym888 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Andrew hasn't change. He is offering to stay with her for a year in her City, but after a year FL will need to give up her career and family friends that she lived in so many years to go with him to a City to start his permanent career.

  • @tsukiko3000
    @tsukiko3000 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was a really go story.
    Hus indifference is what drove this relationship into the ground. I'm glad the FL moved on.

  • @21loverose
    @21loverose หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    His POV, I'm so great, I'm so amazing. I don't understand why she left me
    Me watching this video it's because you're so narcissistic and full of crap that why she left you.

  • @Ash_Ivory
    @Ash_Ivory หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The logical and the emotional have never made a good match. You can’t force someone who doesn’t understand emotions or the value of them to be empathetic. Just as you can’t be overly logical with someone who’s emotional. You’ll seem too indifferent and they’ll think you’re heartless even when you don’t mean it in that way. Although this guys way of thinking was toxic and probably ingrained by his parents unfortunately. Especially if he was raised in such a high class family it could have been a loveless household. Glad FL got her happiness tho! 🎉

    • @kritikakishore6689
      @kritikakishore6689 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The thing is, if the so-called logical people are treated with the same indifference as they show their loved ones, they take offense. It's not that they don't know that they're mistreating their loved ones, they just take the care given to them for granted.

  • @anncha-q6b
    @anncha-q6b หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Why is she going on and on and on trying to make excuses for being in that relationship … and this was easiest to breakup .. long distance and the man doesn’t want to call or chat .. and why explain so much .. she is yap yap yap .. so very incompatible.. how did these people become a couple ??? Baffling 😂

  • @Mochii_waffles
    @Mochii_waffles 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He didn’t want a relationship. He wanted a doormat/ nanny/ a call girl when he needed one. What a selfish bastard. Everything was “Me, Me, Me.”
    He can’t seem to understand other ppl have emotions as well. Not only his matter.

  • @TirsaNkhoma
    @TirsaNkhoma หลายเดือนก่อน

    Attempting to make up with your girlfriend by calling her invalidated emotions childish is insane 😮😮

  • @syedashazadibatool8145
    @syedashazadibatool8145 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why Tqke 4 Years to decide? Why spend so much time for àn illicit relationship? Without marriage whether ml has 2 or 3 girlfriends what makes the difference? How can an old girlfriend compare to the new one? It is strange to Hear when tens of Years are spent without marriage

  • @lindadiedrich3162
    @lindadiedrich3162 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He's cheating and also a liar leave....

  • @alyayaseen
    @alyayaseen หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Feels like he has scholar syndrome or something.