This lady is no ordinary person. She is highly intelligent, adaptable and perceptive. Give her a problem and she has the creativity and capability to deal with it. SG government should tap her for her expertise.
Your comment just sounds like simping without directly calling her "beautiful". I bet if she was black, you'd call her voice and manner of speech "eloquent" wouldn't you? 😉
I never commented or replied in TH-cam. But I want to say this is one most the most impressive conversation I ever watched. Qi is amazing woman with lots of wisdoms. If Qi has her own channel, I wil be the first one to follow.
Qi 's articulation on her career and life is reflective of her abilities to adapt and evolve. Such a wealth of experiences have only made her an even better counselor. This does not discount that she is inherently empathetic and a good observer of human nature ..... traits that are absolutely invaluable toward being a good therapist! I enjoyed this interview!😀
I watched this expecting a pompous attitude... BUT, I was clearly wrong. She was very kind, elegant and very smart. I like her kind attitude and lots of experience. She is very well-rounded and a sweet human being.
By accident I happened upon this video, wow! what an fascinating discussion. I’m not Asian but I find smart people talking about their passion and interests utterly fascinating. Plus I hope to travel more including to Singapore and other Asian countries in the near future.
One of the most insightful videos I've watched in a very long time. Great in-depth interview, I'm thankful for Qi's openness in sharing her life experiences. I feel like I've gotten a therapy session for free
It's a very nice interview, thoroughly enjoyed. She is open-hearted. She has full clarity of her thoughts and never short of right words to explain her believes.
Thank you, Prabir. I'm glad the ideas came across clearly. Sometimes ideas feel clearer in our own heads and when shared they don't always come across well!
I am Singaporean living in the US for the last 40 years. Singapore is a great country, love my people and the food but I can’t never live there again. I am now a country gal, living far away from the crowds and my life is calm and peaceful. No family drama in the US an even during my short visit to Singapore, I see drama ready to pop up anytime. I love my family but to deal with their dramas so often is not what I am looking for in my old age. I love the mountains and the lake and I can’t get that in Singapore. In addition, I love cold weather. I have considered going back for good numerous times but I just couldn’t do it. There are regrets for sure… missing big milestones with family, my kids not knowing their grandparents..etc. if any Singaporeans considering returning to Singapore, do it before kids turned 5 years old, otherwise it is going to make your decisions harder. Pick a country, settle down and learned to be happy with your decision. There is no perfect country.
If you live in a state where you can get equal amounts of sunshine, I think it's great to stay in the US. Family drama..even the Korean peninsula, half, is not big enough, I shudder to think about Sing.
I know nothing of Singapore but all about family drama. I'm Dutch and went living in Spain sone 25 years ago. One of the reasons was to be out of that tight oppressing family nucleus. Now I visit them and I love it. I love them, I love Holland, but I can kiss the ground when I'm back in Spain😊
@@yaki-moon I thought it's not an issue in that part of the world. :). I'm from one of the post Soviet states now living in Australia, looking back why I decided to change the place was partly coming from the fact I didn't have loving extended family circles (well except from my mother, of course, though we're not best friends with her either). Extended family circles in Almaty were miserable (control and status freaks dominating and pressing). Along with some other factors. I miss my home country's social discourse though.
An extremely invigorating conversation. I've learned so much from Qi in this one video. She is worldly, empathetic, incredibly smart, perceptive, and articulate. Thank you, Max, for doing this interview with her.
Unfortunately, if a person was brought up in Sinkapore and lived there all their life, they would never have been able to deliver their thoughts in as articulate a fashion as this lady.
I love her air of confidence, her eloquence n unhindered speech but more than that I love the richness n depth of her experience n how her environment has shaped her unique identity n worldview. She is both affable n grounded and seems to be someone who has her finger on the pulse. Hvg lived in several countries, I too quite resonate with her. She has definitely inspired me to be brave in my current pursuits. I’m glad to hv stumbled on this podcast. My thanks n admiration to this amazing lady. ❤
This is probably the most interesting interviewee I have ever watched on Max's TH-cam channel, Qi is very candid and authentic with her views and she pretty much laid out the solution to relationship issues
I want to respond “no duh” but the older I get the more I understand (with horror) that most people judge the world through only one cultural lens - typically religious.
i loved this video. this is my first time coming across this channel, and qi absolutely captivated me. i felt like i was in and part of your guys conversation. it’s been a while since i’ve been so attentive to a conversational type youtube video like this. she is a very intelligent woman
Singapore will always have a special place in my heart. It was my second home for almost 2 decades, and still feels like it after leaving a year ago. Probably the place where I am most comfortable with. And I share the same views with Qi, 100%.
Singapore has been my second (third?) home since I first came here to work in the 2000s. It’s a place I kept coming back to and by the time we had completed our family, it felt like the best place to raise our children. I’m glad you have found a feeling of home here too ❤
Hearing your story, you sound to have lived a very dynamic and experienced life. Was very inspiring to hear about your perspectives on making a major career change whilst balancing family commitments and your own mental health. Very much resonated with me and I hope to see more of your content too!
@@samuraik-o8s Thank you. I struggled at times in my 20s and 30s, but at midlife I feel comfortable with the things I did and the things that happened. In the midst of making a family or a career change, I couldn't see the end goal. But in hindsight, I'm glad I kept trying to take one step at a time because it did eventually take shape and make sense.
@@bakerstreet101 I was fortunate to have my public education in China for free and my private school education abroad sponsored as part of an employment benefit. When my husband and I met, we were equal in our earnings, and through the different seasons of our life together, we have taken turns being the more "domestic" one and the more "provider" one.
Thank you for your compliment on my attempt at Singlish. I have been told that my accent changes slightly depending on where I am and with whom I'm speaking.
Well my english below average and i still can understand all your sentence ...means your words perfect for me ...i enjoy your way of speaking ...thanks la !!!
I seriously agreed with her on how comfortable and safe Singapore made us feel that I am always edgy when I’m overseas regardless where I go but I think it’s a plus point because you will appreciate more of the place you are in, how fortunate you are in Singapore 🇸🇬
@@jack99889988 I have been there for a while , and I really enjoyed there. Yes , it is true that Singapore might not be the best place for people who are poor , the people I know don't really take wealth as the forefront of relationships. It's just different for everyone perhaps.
Excellent Interview. One of the most enjoyable and thought provoking interview I have listened to in recent months. Thanks Qi for making Singapore your home. We need talents like you!
I rarely commented on a interview, but this is the best interview I've ever seen on TH-cam, and I've seen a lotttt of long interviews that didn't give much impact to my POV about life as this one. She summed up everything about life very very well from the start til the end of the interview. Singaporeans are so lucky to have her based her life and clinic there. Thank you for sharing this interview.
very good interview - good perspective socially, politically and living. And she is right, she does not know in 10, 20 or 30 years but this feels right for now. I like that perspectives. She is not lviing in Singapore for night entertainment for younger professionals and singles. What she is looking right now, Singapore fits what her needs and her family needs. She is an eloquent conversationalist, well-thought out answers. She will be an excellent TED speaker.
Thank you for your kind words. I did once enjoy the nightlife, when I first moved here in my 20s. Now I enjoy the safety, comfort, and cultural diversity for my Third Cuture Kid children. Having lived in Singapore three times, I really feel that Singapore has a lot to offer to people at different life stages!
I enjoyed this interview so much. Very good content with insightful thoughts and observations. Qi, you earned my admiration as a very professional, intelligent and successful woman of modern times! Enjoy Singapore my beloved nation!
Thank you! Singapore has been so welcoming in ways big and small. We’re grateful to be here and to have the support of friends, neighbors, and a great community.
Thank you for an interesting interview. I literally could listen to Ms Qi the whole day and not lose attention! She has a very soothing and calm voice that is very engaging! 😄
She's good. Thanks for all the pointers for a successful relationship. My partner and I are watching this on a couch we are saying to each other.."see what I mean".
I love that you watched this with your partner. You're doing a "ritual of connection" and learning about / understanding each other better with this simple act of watching TH-cam together!
Enjoyed listening to Qi so much, it feels like she's chatting with you, like a close personal friend. It also feels at the same time like you're in her therapy session and it feels very safe and calming. Agree with most comments here, one of the best, more intelligent and stimulating dialogues thus far. Thank you Max and Qi! Where does Qi practise btw :)
So nice to have you, Qi, in Singapore after your RTW travels and career! After 30 years, Starting in London (local). HK, SGP, France, SGP, India, London (expat), SGP - we have moved on to Malaysia. But Singapore is also home, and always will be.
You have led quite an adventurous life! A piece of every place I've lived in shaped a piece of me - I wholeheartedly agree with your comment that "Singapore is also home, and always will be."
I found I am easy to understand the lady's point of views as I am also from China and live in the western country. She is truly an excellent counselor, friendly, forthright, and to the point..
This interview segued from her experience of feeling at home in Spore, to sharing her knowledge n approach on helping couples as a marriage therapist. As a Singaporean n counsellor, I enjoyed the interview immensely, n admire her authenticity in pursuing a life that brings her joy n significance.
I have lived in the US before and I absolutely did not feel free there either, every other day there was a shooting, also the racist stares I get, and also not able to go out after sundown. I felt imprisoned and oppressed.
Americans alwys comment Sg does not hv Freedom of Speech, no democracy etc..but we feel free here, our mind are not worrying about being shot, mugged etc. Thats real Freedom.
Watched this by chance, did not expect to spend more than a few min, but it was so engrossing that I watched it to the end. Fantastic wide ranging topics with many valuable and candid life lessons and sharing.
That's so sweet that you called Singapore a perfect bubble. Singaporeans who haven't lived in other countries don't understand how good they have it until they move overseas for a bit. Thank you for appreciating Singapore! Also really appreciated the insight into couples therapy by Qi. You are so intelligent and articulate. I'll definitely recommend you to couples who need therapy!
I enjoyed this episode. Definitely can relate as we have similar backgrounds and have many questions, doubts, and optimism of our stay here in Singapore as we go into our 3rd year. Thank you for sharing Qi!
Thanks Max for this awesome interview with Oi’s . Impressive on this intelligent lady who have achievements balanced life Her smile pleasantly & genuinely release her thoughts & experience . A great blessings to live in Singapore , regardless or our individual economic situations
I unexpectedly listened to the whole thing! Qi is so lovely, articulate and sounds like a great mom. Happy she liked singapore enough to stay here in these few years.
I really LOVE this episode contents. I must say she (the guest) simply charming. I don't know why but she is just comfortable listening to. I'm glad she kind of like "fortifying" my opinions/views.
Your guest today, Lee is outstanding talking about couples relationships. Everything she said are true to the fullest. She is so smart, and of course, why not? She went to school at Stanford where I am from SF, CA. I do like Singapore, but my husband doesn't. He thinks it too strict, where for me, I love it because it's clean and organized. We lived in Bangkok, Thailand for 3 years because of his job with IBM. I went there with him while living in Thailand on a a week of one of his work seminars he attended. All I can remember is Orchard Rd and shopping at Takashimaya Mall that I enjoyed.
33:47. "And so, I never wanted to have the lifestyle be a stumbling block for life. " Utterly brilliant observation. Thank you for bringing this interview out. Both you and Qi have some solid life insights.
Wow!! I'm blown away by this interview. Qi is so well spoken and articulates her ideas in a way that is very easy to understand. There are so many gems of wisdom sprinkled throughout this interview that leaves listeners a lot to ponder upon afterwards. I'm very glad that this video came across my YT feed. Keep up the great work.
Don't even need to go to Cambodia. If expats living in Robertson Quay were to just cross the road to Jalan Kukoh estate, they'd notice the stark difference. She's brilliant!
Just wow. This is one of the best well spent 1-hrs for me. She is amazing and I think this video should be shared with many. Thank you Max for picking her !
I love this interview. As a Singaporean who's lived in Japan for most of my adult life, I can relate to a lot of feelings and thoughts coming from both Max and Qi. Living abroad for more than 20 years has made me more introspective about my identity and the kind of life I want. As a mum of a child who is mixed (Chinese Singaporean, Japanese and American), I'm also trying to make conscious choices that will contribute to her future.
Great Insight, very articulate! Especially resonated with her views on identity crisis and introspection and questioning. I'm Indian but grew up overseas and often feel like I'm in limbo...
Theodora Voutsa at 88 Productions is making a documentary on "Third Culture Kids." You should check out her trailers! It might resonate with yours and my experience.
Wasn't expecting to watch for more than 5 mins but watched the whole video through & wanted to hear from Wise Words of Wisdom from Qi. She's not only a genuine global citizen but one whose Curiosity & Freedom have shaped her into Who She Is today, an Eloquent, Articulated, Humble yet one with a Broad & Open-minded views about many aspects of Life. Thank you Qi for your sharing & also Max for featuring such a Fascinating person! 👌🙂👍
This is my first time leaving a review, and I must say, this woman is truly inspirational. I resonated with her profoundly, and I wholeheartedly encourage her to consider starting her own TH-cam channel. She is undeniably a wise woman.
This lady is no ordinary person. She is highly intelligent, adaptable and perceptive. Give her a problem and she has the creativity and capability to deal with it. SG government should tap her for her expertise.
Thank you! I went to school with many Singaporeans and count them amongst my closest friends. Singapore has really welcomed me and my family.
@@SeeingQitell them how it feels to be a minority. And be kind to minorities here or anywhere else in the world.🙂
Your comment just sounds like simping without directly calling her "beautiful". I bet if she was black, you'd call her voice and manner of speech "eloquent" wouldn't you? 😉
@02june80 I'm not the person you seek answers from, but I am seeking answers for myself, so tell me - what did you mean by that?
@02june80she is woman. Even if she was a Singaporeans she wouldn’t have to do national service
I never commented or replied in TH-cam. But I want to say this is one most the most impressive conversation I ever watched. Qi is amazing woman with lots of wisdoms. If Qi has her own channel, I wil be the first one to follow.
Totally agree! Not sure how to find her... virtually every words is on the spot and the whole conversation is full of wisdom!
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Qi 's articulation on her career and life is reflective of her abilities to adapt and evolve. Such a wealth of experiences have only made her an even better counselor. This does not discount that she is inherently empathetic and a good observer of human nature ..... traits that are absolutely invaluable toward being a good therapist! I enjoyed this interview!😀
Thank you, Frank!
so refreshing to hear someone with a sound and rational mind speaks.....we need more positive Qi in Singapore :)
Thank you!
I watched this expecting a pompous attitude... BUT, I was clearly wrong. She was very kind, elegant and very smart. I like her kind attitude and lots of experience. She is very well-rounded and a sweet human being.
Thank you for keeping an open mind and watching something that might've turned you off at first glance!
Why did you assume this? Every American has a Trump personality?
By accident I happened upon this video, wow! what an fascinating discussion. I’m not Asian but I find smart people talking about their passion and interests utterly fascinating. Plus I hope to travel more including to Singapore and other Asian countries in the near future.
One of the most insightful videos I've watched in a very long time. Great in-depth interview, I'm thankful for Qi's openness in sharing her life experiences. I feel like I've gotten a therapy session for free
I'm glad you found this useful. I also share daily therapy / relationship / life tips on my social media.
@@SeeingQi You will be a very great TH-camr, sharing wisdom and insightful thoughts. I’m already your fan.❤
This woman needs to have her own youtube channel! amazing interview, throughly enjoyed it!
It turns out she does! it's @QiZhaiMcCartney
It's a very nice interview, thoroughly enjoyed. She is open-hearted. She has full clarity of her thoughts and never short of right words to explain her believes.
Thank you, Prabir. I'm glad the ideas came across clearly. Sometimes ideas feel clearer in our own heads and when shared they don't always come across well!
"full clarity of her thoughts" well said.
I am Singaporean living in the US for the last 40 years. Singapore is a great country, love my people and the food but I can’t never live there again. I am now a country gal, living far away from the crowds and my life is calm and peaceful. No family drama in the US an even during my short visit to Singapore, I see drama ready to pop up anytime. I love my family but to deal with their dramas so often is not what I am looking for in my old age. I love the mountains and the lake and I can’t get that in Singapore. In addition, I love cold weather. I have considered going back for good numerous times but I just couldn’t do it. There are regrets for sure… missing big milestones with family, my kids not knowing their grandparents..etc. if any Singaporeans considering returning to Singapore, do it before kids turned 5 years old, otherwise it is going to make your decisions harder. Pick a country, settle down and learned to be happy with your decision. There is no perfect country.
If you live in a state where you can get equal amounts of sunshine, I think it's great to stay in the US. Family drama..even the Korean peninsula, half, is not big enough, I shudder to think about Sing.
I know nothing of Singapore but all about family drama. I'm Dutch and went living in Spain sone 25 years ago. One of the reasons was to be out of that tight oppressing family nucleus. Now I visit them and I love it. I love them, I love Holland, but I can kiss the ground when I'm back in Spain😊
@@yaki-moon I thought it's not an issue in that part of the world. :). I'm from one of the post Soviet states now living in Australia, looking back why I decided to change the place was partly coming from the fact I didn't have loving extended family circles (well except from my mother, of course, though we're not best friends with her either). Extended family circles in Almaty were miserable (control and status freaks dominating and pressing). Along with some other factors. I miss my home country's social discourse though.
Finding the life you want is what everyone yearns for, but some people can’t do it and you can do it. You are great.
@@joannatam6567 I know I know. it would be stupid to associate it with Sing alone! family drama goes in many societies.
An extremely invigorating conversation. I've learned so much from Qi in this one video. She is worldly, empathetic, incredibly smart, perceptive, and articulate. Thank you, Max, for doing this interview with her.
Qi is a remarkable person! wonderful dialogue!
Thank you! Credit to my interviewer Max for asking engaging questions.
Great speaker. Love her thoughts and the way she delivered her points.
Thank you so much!
Unfortunately, if a person was brought up in Sinkapore and lived there all their life, they would never have been able to deliver their thoughts in as articulate a fashion as this lady.
Wow what a character！Thank you so much for your insights. I really appreciate this video interview!
@sktoh4469 why?
This woman is just incredible , she has both the look and the brain to go with it , her husband should be one of the most fortunate man on earth
This was not just an interview. Its one of the best content I've come across online, even great advice for my personal life
I love her air of confidence, her eloquence n unhindered speech but more than that I love the richness n depth of her experience n how her environment has shaped her unique identity n worldview. She is both affable n grounded and seems to be someone who has her finger on the pulse. Hvg lived in several countries, I too quite resonate with her. She has definitely inspired me to be brave in my current pursuits. I’m glad to hv stumbled on this podcast. My thanks n admiration to this amazing lady. ❤
Thank you for the kind words. I wish you good luck and great courage in pursuing your next dream!
This is probably the most interesting interviewee I have ever watched on Max's TH-cam channel, Qi is very candid and authentic with her views and she pretty much laid out the solution to relationship issues
Thank you!
Excellent interview with a wonderful individual, esp. in the 2nd half of interview. we need more people like her in the world.
This is the benefit of having a cross cultural background. Understanding cultural differences broadens one's perspective.
I want to respond “no duh” but the older I get the more I understand (with horror) that most people judge the world through only one cultural lens - typically religious.
i loved this video. this is my first time coming across this channel, and qi absolutely captivated me. i felt like i was in and part of your guys conversation. it’s been a while since i’ve been so attentive to a conversational type youtube video like this. she is a very intelligent woman
Very enjoyable and interesting interview. She’s mature, intelligent and also down to earth. Sounds like a person whom I could talk to easily.
I love meeting new people and sharing interesting conversations!
Singapore will always have a special place in my heart. It was my second home for almost 2 decades, and still feels like it after leaving a year ago. Probably the place where I am most comfortable with. And I share the same views with Qi, 100%.
Pls cme visit again!
Singapore has been my second (third?) home since I first came here to work in the 2000s. It’s a place I kept coming back to and by the time we had completed our family, it felt like the best place to raise our children. I’m glad you have found a feeling of home here too ❤
@@blessedcheflim8579 Definitely visiting again.
Why did you leave ⁉️
@@cynthiagonzalez658 To be with family
Her articulation, humility and insights are so inspiring. Probably my fav interview on this channel!!
What a remarkable woman. Thank you to TH-cam algothrim for showing me your content and interview! Learned a lot
Thank you for watching. I also want to thank the YT algorithm LOL.
Hearing your story, you sound to have lived a very dynamic and experienced life. Was very inspiring to hear about your perspectives on making a major career change whilst balancing family commitments and your own mental health. Very much resonated with me and I hope to see more of your content too!
@@samuraik-o8s Thank you. I struggled at times in my 20s and 30s, but at midlife I feel comfortable with the things I did and the things that happened. In the midst of making a family or a career change, I couldn't see the end goal. But in hindsight, I'm glad I kept trying to take one step at a time because it did eventually take shape and make sense.
It is very smart for her to be choosing Singapore... especially now that China and US tension is alarming.
I am so impressed by how intelligent this interview turns out...beautifully presented by Qi and Max. Thank you both.
Her English accent is pretty neutral and Singlish (based on the couple of words) is also quite accurate. Wow what a diverse life she has had.
She sounds like she married someone pretty wealthy.
@@bakerstreet101 I was fortunate to have my public education in China for free and my private school education abroad sponsored as part of an employment benefit. When my husband and I met, we were equal in our earnings, and through the different seasons of our life together, we have taken turns being the more "domestic" one and the more "provider" one.
Thank you for your compliment on my attempt at Singlish. I have been told that my accent changes slightly depending on where I am and with whom I'm speaking.
Well my english below average and i still can understand all your sentence ...means your words perfect for me ...i enjoy your way of speaking ...thanks la !!!
I feel that she is an empathetic lady. I somehow like the way she is talking. It's a great interview.
I seriously agreed with her on how comfortable and safe Singapore made us feel that I am always edgy when I’m overseas regardless where I go but I think it’s a plus point because you will appreciate more of the place you are in, how fortunate you are in Singapore 🇸🇬
Not to take everything for granted , best advice.
@@jack99889988 I have been there for a while , and I really enjoyed there. Yes , it is true that Singapore might not be the best place for people who are poor , the people I know don't really take wealth as the forefront of relationships. It's just different for everyone perhaps.
Wow, didn't expect to get very valuable advice about life. This was very intellectually deep and informative for me. Thanks Max!
Glad it was helpful!
I'm glad you found the interview helpful to your life. I share daily relationship counselling / life tips on my socials too. Have a good day!
Great Interview Max! Thank you for allowing your interviewees to speak without interruptions! This lady is an awesome human being!
Max for interrupting her trend of thoughts is Max amazing skill. That is where we get the gems.
Excellent Interview. One of the most enjoyable and thought provoking interview I have listened to in recent months. Thanks Qi for making Singapore your home. We need talents like you!
This is one of the most impressive interview I have watched. Her thought process was shockingly clear. It would be great to see & hear more from her.
I rarely commented on a interview, but this is the best interview I've ever seen on TH-cam, and I've seen a lotttt of long interviews that didn't give much impact to my POV about life as this one. She summed up everything about life very very well from the start til the end of the interview. Singaporeans are so lucky to have her based her life and clinic there. Thank you for sharing this interview.
very good interview - good perspective socially, politically and living. And she is right, she does not know in 10, 20 or 30 years but this feels right for now. I like that perspectives. She is not lviing in Singapore for night entertainment for younger professionals and singles. What she is looking right now, Singapore fits what her needs and her family needs. She is an eloquent conversationalist, well-thought out answers. She will be an excellent TED speaker.
Thank you for your kind words. I did once enjoy the nightlife, when I first moved here in my 20s. Now I enjoy the safety, comfort, and cultural diversity for my Third Cuture Kid children. Having lived in Singapore three times, I really feel that Singapore has a lot to offer to people at different life stages!
😅@@SeeingQi
Thank you so much, Qi and Max! This is the most insightful and interesting interview! I watched over again .. for motivation 🤩
EXCELLENT INTERVIEW!
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I enjoyed this interview so much. Very good content with insightful thoughts and observations. Qi, you earned my admiration as a very professional, intelligent and successful woman of modern times! Enjoy Singapore my beloved nation!
Thank you! Singapore has been so welcoming in ways big and small. We’re grateful to be here and to have the support of friends, neighbors, and a great community.
Really enjoyed this interview. Very insightful.
Thank you for an interesting interview. I literally could listen to Ms Qi the whole day and not lose attention! She has a very soothing and calm voice that is very engaging! 😄
I really enjoyed the longer form video! Excellent guest as well!
She's good. Thanks for all the pointers for a successful relationship. My partner and I are watching this on a couch we are saying to each other.."see what I mean".
I love that you watched this with your partner. You're doing a "ritual of connection" and learning about / understanding each other better with this simple act of watching TH-cam together!
Enjoyed listening to Qi so much, it feels like she's chatting with you, like a close personal friend. It also feels at the same time like you're in her therapy session and it feels very safe and calming. Agree with most comments here, one of the best, more intelligent and stimulating dialogues thus far. Thank you Max and Qi!
Where does Qi practise btw :)
So nice to have you, Qi, in Singapore after your RTW travels and career! After 30 years, Starting in London (local). HK, SGP, France, SGP, India, London (expat), SGP - we have moved on to Malaysia. But Singapore is also home, and always will be.
You have led quite an adventurous life! A piece of every place I've lived in shaped a piece of me - I wholeheartedly agree with your comment that "Singapore is also home, and always will be."
Really enjoyable interview .
Thank you, Joanna!
Best whole hearted interview ever
Your comment made my day. Thank you, Aaron.
Wow, I watched the whole 50 minutes of this interview. It was unexpectedly captivating. Thank you!
Qi’s clear and thoughtful approach to her career and life showcases her impressive adaptability and growth
I found I am easy to understand the lady's point of views as I am also from China and live in the western country. She is truly an excellent counselor, friendly, forthright, and to the point..
This interview segued from her experience of feeling at home in Spore, to sharing her knowledge n approach on helping couples as a marriage therapist. As a Singaporean n counsellor, I enjoyed the interview immensely, n admire her authenticity in pursuing a life that brings her joy n significance.
I have lived in the US before and I absolutely did not feel free there either, every other day there was a shooting, also the racist stares I get, and also not able to go out after sundown. I felt imprisoned and oppressed.
Americans alwys comment Sg does not hv Freedom of Speech, no democracy etc..but we feel free here, our mind are not worrying about being shot, mugged etc. Thats real Freedom.
Watched this by chance, did not expect to spend more than a few min, but it was so engrossing that I watched it to the end. Fantastic wide ranging topics with many valuable and candid life lessons and sharing.
I enjoyed her conversation so much. I was from China too. I wish I could be that intelligent and articulate.
That's so sweet that you called Singapore a perfect bubble. Singaporeans who haven't lived in other countries don't understand how good they have it until they move overseas for a bit. Thank you for appreciating Singapore! Also really appreciated the insight into couples therapy by Qi. You are so intelligent and articulate. I'll definitely recommend you to couples who need therapy!
Brilliant and articulate women, amazing interview!
I enjoyed this episode. Definitely can relate as we have similar backgrounds and have many questions, doubts, and optimism of our stay here in Singapore as we go into our 3rd year. Thank you for sharing Qi!
Thank you for watching and sharing your comments, Kay!
Such inspiring content. Such an intelligent and confident lady and really really down to earth.
I would like to watch this video a times more.
First time here, your guest is incredible. The breadth of knowledge she exhibits at a still young age is pretty amazing.
Thanks Max for this awesome interview with Oi’s . Impressive on this intelligent lady who have achievements balanced life Her smile pleasantly & genuinely release her thoughts & experience . A great blessings to live in Singapore , regardless or our individual economic situations
Such a nice interview! She seems like a nice person
Thank you very much!
Fabulous and very informative. Qi is absolutely wonderful, intelligent and observant of many of todays problems with society.
I unexpectedly listened to the whole thing! Qi is so lovely, articulate and sounds like a great mom. Happy she liked singapore enough to stay here in these few years.
Qi's kids are very fortunate for having such an open-minded and conscientious mother. Ela arrasa♥
Cheers from South America!
Best Chernov interview I've seen so far imo... I learned a lot from Qi.
I really LOVE this episode contents. I must say she (the guest) simply charming. I don't know why but she is just comfortable listening to. I'm glad she kind of like "fortifying" my opinions/views.
I can listen to this woman for hours. She speaks so well.
There is so much to absorb and digest from this interview, all insightful and intelligetn advice and analysis. Thank you.
I really appreciate her insight and honesty.
Your guest today, Lee is outstanding talking about couples relationships. Everything she said are true to the fullest. She is so smart, and of course, why not? She went to school at Stanford where I am from SF, CA. I do like Singapore, but my husband doesn't. He thinks it too strict, where for me, I love it because it's clean and organized. We lived in Bangkok, Thailand for 3 years because of his job with IBM. I went there with him while living in Thailand on a a week of one of his work seminars he attended. All I can remember is Orchard Rd and shopping at Takashimaya Mall that I enjoyed.
33:47. "And so, I never wanted to have the lifestyle be a stumbling block for life. " Utterly brilliant observation. Thank you for bringing this interview out. Both you and Qi have some solid life insights.
One of the Best interview I’ve watched about life!
Amazing interview, she delivers her thoughts extremely well.
max , one of the best interviews to date ... Very insightful and I'm everyone will have something to pick up from this
Wow!! I'm blown away by this interview. Qi is so well spoken and articulates her ideas in a way that is very easy to understand. There are so many gems of wisdom sprinkled throughout this interview that leaves listeners a lot to ponder upon afterwards. I'm very glad that this video came across my YT feed. Keep up the great work.
I love this person.
A lot of wisdom is packed in this interview. Thank you!
Don't even need to go to Cambodia. If expats living in Robertson Quay were to just cross the road to Jalan Kukoh estate, they'd notice the stark difference.
She's brilliant!
Just wow. This is one of the best well spent 1-hrs for me. She is amazing and I think this video should be shared with many. Thank you Max for picking her !
Loved listening to this Lady- she is so intelligent and perceptive and knowledgeable about so many aspects of life
I love this interview. As a Singaporean who's lived in Japan for most of my adult life, I can relate to a lot of feelings and thoughts coming from both Max and Qi. Living abroad for more than 20 years has made me more introspective about my identity and the kind of life I want. As a mum of a child who is mixed (Chinese Singaporean, Japanese and American), I'm also trying to make conscious choices that will contribute to her future.
She is pleasant and impressive… she definitely earns your admiration after just watching her for a couple of minutes!
Very well mannered and inteligetn lady. Like her a lot. Regards from Dubai
She is fabulous. I am enjoying her talk A LOT.
I love this interview and learn alot from her.I likes the way she explained things in life made us see worid different.
Great Insight, very articulate! Especially resonated with her views on identity crisis and introspection and questioning. I'm Indian but grew up overseas and often feel like I'm in limbo...
Theodora Voutsa at 88 Productions is making a documentary on "Third Culture Kids." You should check out her trailers! It might resonate with yours and my experience.
Wasn't expecting to watch for more than 5 mins but watched the whole video through & wanted to hear from Wise Words of Wisdom from Qi.
She's not only a genuine global citizen but one whose Curiosity & Freedom have shaped her into Who She Is today, an Eloquent, Articulated, Humble yet one with a Broad & Open-minded views about many aspects of Life.
Thank you Qi for your sharing & also Max for featuring such a Fascinating person! 👌🙂👍
This is a great interview. Well spoken lady.
Smart and intelligent lady. I love her sharing opinions and thoughts.
What a human! I could listen to this wonderful soul indefinitely….
Great interview, great guest!
Great therapeutic session just listening to the lady speak. I enjoyed this interview tremendously without even minding the length of it. :)
she has a compassionate and sincere face and easily approachable, makes people feel comfortable and can totally trust her.
Qi is a clear and articulate speaker. Thank you, this was an informative interview.
‘believe in yourself… Take a small step…’ Love her advice n wisdom…
The concept of ‘continuum’ in our volatile environment.
Wow, what an insightful, thoughtful and wise person! I truly enjoyed learning many substantive ideas from Qi.
Thank you @QiZhaiMcCartney, totally impressed by your thoughts and intellectual experiences. Your parents will be so proud of you.
I really enjoy this interview ❤
Deeply meaningful n honest conversation! TQVM 😊
I am mesmerized by this lady.. she is great! Excellent interview Max!!❤❤
This is my first time leaving a review, and I must say, this woman is truly inspirational. I resonated with her profoundly, and I wholeheartedly encourage her to consider starting her own TH-cam channel. She is undeniably a wise woman.
I told her that as well! 😁
Refreshing to have such an intelligent guest