This lady is no ordinary person. She is highly intelligent, adaptable and perceptive. Give her a problem and she has the creativity and capability to deal with it. SG government should tap her for her expertise.
Your comment just sounds like simping without directly calling her "beautiful". I bet if she was black, you'd call her voice and manner of speech "eloquent" wouldn't you? 😉
I never commented or replied in TH-cam. But I want to say this is one most the most impressive conversation I ever watched. Qi is amazing woman with lots of wisdoms. If Qi has her own channel, I wil be the first one to follow.
I am Singaporean living in the US for the last 40 years. Singapore is a great country, love my people and the food but I can’t never live there again. I am now a country gal, living far away from the crowds and my life is calm and peaceful. No family drama in the US an even during my short visit to Singapore, I see drama ready to pop up anytime. I love my family but to deal with their dramas so often is not what I am looking for in my old age. I love the mountains and the lake and I can’t get that in Singapore. In addition, I love cold weather. I have considered going back for good numerous times but I just couldn’t do it. There are regrets for sure… missing big milestones with family, my kids not knowing their grandparents..etc. if any Singaporeans considering returning to Singapore, do it before kids turned 5 years old, otherwise it is going to make your decisions harder. Pick a country, settle down and learned to be happy with your decision. There is no perfect country.
If you live in a state where you can get equal amounts of sunshine, I think it's great to stay in the US. Family drama..even the Korean peninsula, half, is not big enough, I shudder to think about Sing.
I know nothing of Singapore but all about family drama. I'm Dutch and went living in Spain sone 25 years ago. One of the reasons was to be out of that tight oppressing family nucleus. Now I visit them and I love it. I love them, I love Holland, but I can kiss the ground when I'm back in Spain😊
@@yaki-moon I thought it's not an issue in that part of the world. :). I'm from one of the post Soviet states now living in Australia, looking back why I decided to change the place was partly coming from the fact I didn't have loving extended family circles (well except from my mother, of course, though we're not best friends with her either). Extended family circles in Almaty were miserable (control and status freaks dominating and pressing). Along with some other factors. I miss my home country's social discourse though.
Qi 's articulation on her career and life is reflective of her abilities to adapt and evolve. Such a wealth of experiences have only made her an even better counselor. This does not discount that she is inherently empathetic and a good observer of human nature ..... traits that are absolutely invaluable toward being a good therapist! I enjoyed this interview!😀
One of the most insightful videos I've watched in a very long time. Great in-depth interview, I'm thankful for Qi's openness in sharing her life experiences. I feel like I've gotten a therapy session for free
It's a very nice interview, thoroughly enjoyed. She is open-hearted. She has full clarity of her thoughts and never short of right words to explain her believes.
Thank you, Prabir. I'm glad the ideas came across clearly. Sometimes ideas feel clearer in our own heads and when shared they don't always come across well!
I watched this expecting a pompous attitude... BUT, I was clearly wrong. She was very kind, elegant and very smart. I like her kind attitude and lots of experience. She is very well-rounded and a sweet human being.
An extremely invigorating conversation. I've learned so much from Qi in this one video. She is worldly, empathetic, incredibly smart, perceptive, and articulate. Thank you, Max, for doing this interview with her.
This is probably the most interesting interviewee I have ever watched on Max's TH-cam channel, Qi is very candid and authentic with her views and she pretty much laid out the solution to relationship issues
Unfortunately, if a person was brought up in Sinkapore and lived there all their life, they would never have been able to deliver their thoughts in as articulate a fashion as this lady.
I love her air of confidence, her eloquence n unhindered speech but more than that I love the richness n depth of her experience n how her environment has shaped her unique identity n worldview. She is both affable n grounded and seems to be someone who has her finger on the pulse. Hvg lived in several countries, I too quite resonate with her. She has definitely inspired me to be brave in my current pursuits. I’m glad to hv stumbled on this podcast. My thanks n admiration to this amazing lady. ❤
I want to respond “no duh” but the older I get the more I understand (with horror) that most people judge the world through only one cultural lens - typically religious.
@@jack99889988 I have been there for a while , and I really enjoyed there. Yes , it is true that Singapore might not be the best place for people who are poor , the people I know don't really take wealth as the forefront of relationships. It's just different for everyone perhaps.
Hearing your story, you sound to have lived a very dynamic and experienced life. Was very inspiring to hear about your perspectives on making a major career change whilst balancing family commitments and your own mental health. Very much resonated with me and I hope to see more of your content too!
@@samuraik-o8s Thank you. I struggled at times in my 20s and 30s, but at midlife I feel comfortable with the things I did and the things that happened. In the midst of making a family or a career change, I couldn't see the end goal. But in hindsight, I'm glad I kept trying to take one step at a time because it did eventually take shape and make sense.
Singapore will always have a special place in my heart. It was my second home for almost 2 decades, and still feels like it after leaving a year ago. Probably the place where I am most comfortable with. And I share the same views with Qi, 100%.
Singapore has been my second (third?) home since I first came here to work in the 2000s. It’s a place I kept coming back to and by the time we had completed our family, it felt like the best place to raise our children. I’m glad you have found a feeling of home here too ❤
I enjoyed this interview so much. Very good content with insightful thoughts and observations. Qi, you earned my admiration as a very professional, intelligent and successful woman of modern times! Enjoy Singapore my beloved nation!
Thank you! Singapore has been so welcoming in ways big and small. We’re grateful to be here and to have the support of friends, neighbors, and a great community.
very good interview - good perspective socially, politically and living. And she is right, she does not know in 10, 20 or 30 years but this feels right for now. I like that perspectives. She is not lviing in Singapore for night entertainment for younger professionals and singles. What she is looking right now, Singapore fits what her needs and her family needs. She is an eloquent conversationalist, well-thought out answers. She will be an excellent TED speaker.
Thank you for your kind words. I did once enjoy the nightlife, when I first moved here in my 20s. Now I enjoy the safety, comfort, and cultural diversity for my Third Cuture Kid children. Having lived in Singapore three times, I really feel that Singapore has a lot to offer to people at different life stages!
I have lived in the US before and I absolutely did not feel free there either, every other day there was a shooting, also the racist stares I get, and also not able to go out after sundown. I felt imprisoned and oppressed.
Americans alwys comment Sg does not hv Freedom of Speech, no democracy etc..but we feel free here, our mind are not worrying about being shot, mugged etc. Thats real Freedom.
Watched this by chance, did not expect to spend more than a few min, but it was so engrossing that I watched it to the end. Fantastic wide ranging topics with many valuable and candid life lessons and sharing.
@@bakerstreet101 I was fortunate to have my public education in China for free and my private school education abroad sponsored as part of an employment benefit. When my husband and I met, we were equal in our earnings, and through the different seasons of our life together, we have taken turns being the more "domestic" one and the more "provider" one.
Thank you for your compliment on my attempt at Singlish. I have been told that my accent changes slightly depending on where I am and with whom I'm speaking.
Well my english below average and i still can understand all your sentence ...means your words perfect for me ...i enjoy your way of speaking ...thanks la !!!
My ex girlfriend is Lithuanian, East European, she came to China 2020 during covid. She went to Hangzhou, sanya, guangzhou, beijing loves China very much. Shanghai is the best city.
I rarely commented on a interview, but this is the best interview I've ever seen on TH-cam, and I've seen a lotttt of long interviews that didn't give much impact to my POV about life as this one. She summed up everything about life very very well from the start til the end of the interview. Singaporeans are so lucky to have her based her life and clinic there. Thank you for sharing this interview.
I seriously agreed with her on how comfortable and safe Singapore made us feel that I am always edgy when I’m overseas regardless where I go but I think it’s a plus point because you will appreciate more of the place you are in, how fortunate you are in Singapore 🇸🇬
Thank you for an interesting interview. I literally could listen to Ms Qi the whole day and not lose attention! She has a very soothing and calm voice that is very engaging! 😄
She's good. Thanks for all the pointers for a successful relationship. My partner and I are watching this on a couch we are saying to each other.."see what I mean".
I love that you watched this with your partner. You're doing a "ritual of connection" and learning about / understanding each other better with this simple act of watching TH-cam together!
This interview segued from her experience of feeling at home in Spore, to sharing her knowledge n approach on helping couples as a marriage therapist. As a Singaporean n counsellor, I enjoyed the interview immensely, n admire her authenticity in pursuing a life that brings her joy n significance.
Enjoyed listening to Qi so much, it feels like she's chatting with you, like a close personal friend. It also feels at the same time like you're in her therapy session and it feels very safe and calming. Agree with most comments here, one of the best, more intelligent and stimulating dialogues thus far. Thank you Max and Qi! Where does Qi practise btw :)
So nice to have you, Qi, in Singapore after your RTW travels and career! After 30 years, Starting in London (local). HK, SGP, France, SGP, India, London (expat), SGP - we have moved on to Malaysia. But Singapore is also home, and always will be.
You have led quite an adventurous life! A piece of every place I've lived in shaped a piece of me - I wholeheartedly agree with your comment that "Singapore is also home, and always will be."
I enjoyed this episode. Definitely can relate as we have similar backgrounds and have many questions, doubts, and optimism of our stay here in Singapore as we go into our 3rd year. Thank you for sharing Qi!
Wow!! I'm blown away by this interview. Qi is so well spoken and articulates her ideas in a way that is very easy to understand. There are so many gems of wisdom sprinkled throughout this interview that leaves listeners a lot to ponder upon afterwards. I'm very glad that this video came across my YT feed. Keep up the great work.
Thanks Max for this awesome interview with Oi’s . Impressive on this intelligent lady who have achievements balanced life Her smile pleasantly & genuinely release her thoughts & experience . A great blessings to live in Singapore , regardless or our individual economic situations
This is my first time leaving a review, and I must say, this woman is truly inspirational. I resonated with her profoundly, and I wholeheartedly encourage her to consider starting her own TH-cam channel. She is undeniably a wise woman.
Just wow. This is one of the best well spent 1-hrs for me. She is amazing and I think this video should be shared with many. Thank you Max for picking her !
Don't even need to go to Cambodia. If expats living in Robertson Quay were to just cross the road to Jalan Kukoh estate, they'd notice the stark difference. She's brilliant!
Wasn't expecting to watch for more than 5 mins but watched the whole video through & wanted to hear from Wise Words of Wisdom from Qi. She's not only a genuine global citizen but one whose Curiosity & Freedom have shaped her into Who She Is today, an Eloquent, Articulated, Humble yet one with a Broad & Open-minded views about many aspects of Life. Thank you Qi for your sharing & also Max for featuring such a Fascinating person! 👌🙂👍
This was almost an hour interview but it didn't feel too long at all and that's only because you found an interesting subject. She was articulate and very pleasant to listen to and you also did well as an interviewer. Thank you to both of you and keep up the good work, Max!
As a "pure breed", Singaporean, I'm really glad our country has attracted this lady to come here. We need more foreigners like her to settle down here for the right reasons and also contribute positively to the society. Most of my contacts with foreigners who had stayed here long term were mainly to "extract something" such as academic qualifications, lifestyle or simply just money from Singapore before they leave.
Great Insight, very articulate! Especially resonated with her views on identity crisis and introspection and questioning. I'm Indian but grew up overseas and often feel like I'm in limbo...
Theodora Voutsa at 88 Productions is making a documentary on "Third Culture Kids." You should check out her trailers! It might resonate with yours and my experience.
Asian Americans are unfortunately heavily stereotyped in life and work by the mainstream society in US. They are viewed as unable to talk about their feelings, more quantitative inclined, high achieving when many of us are not. 😂 Many like this articulate lady study psychology to understand the Asian American identity and struggle. As she mentioned she feels free in singapore because she is not viewed as a minority and that must felt like a tremendous sigh of relief after years of trying to fit in the US. I can certainly attest to that. As an Asian American it is not easy to land a well paying position as a mental health/marriage counselor but it is possible in Singapore, once again this smart lady made a strategic decision. Asian Americans feel less pressured in a east-west society like Singapore because for once you are no longer are restricted to a set of stereotypes/expectations - career, economic, social and political - and you no longer need to stay in your lane to avoid creating discomfort for the majority. That’s true Freedom and it contributes to your total well-being. Asian Americans who live in Singapore probably have better mental health and than those living in the US.
Thank you for sharing this! I also experienced the other side of the coin you described - while in the US, I found it very hard to relate to my own counsellors who had little experience of life outside the US, being a minority, or the immigrant life. Cultural understanding is so important to the feeling of “belonging” (a fundamental human need).
Great interview! I am a Chinese Canadian and I work in the tech industry. Recently my company offered me a promotion and relocation to our office in Singapore. I have been thinking about that a lot lately. This interview helped me a lot. Thanks again bro!
I have never write in your comment section before. But i am so impressed with Qi 's intelligent and choice of words. High wisdom guest !! Good job Max 👏
33:47. "And so, I never wanted to have the lifestyle be a stumbling block for life. " Utterly brilliant observation. Thank you for bringing this interview out. Both you and Qi have some solid life insights.
Thank you for watching and I’m glad you found the therapy tips helpful. My socials are linked in the episode notes - I share daily mental health and relationship tips.
I logged in just to make this comment: I am so impressed by her eloquence and her ability to articulate her thoughts so well. And Max, your interviews have grown in depth; well done !👍
I really LOVE this episode contents. I must say she (the guest) simply charming. I don't know why but she is just comfortable listening to. I'm glad she kind of like "fortifying" my opinions/views.
This lady is no ordinary person. She is highly intelligent, adaptable and perceptive. Give her a problem and she has the creativity and capability to deal with it. SG government should tap her for her expertise.
Thank you! I went to school with many Singaporeans and count them amongst my closest friends. Singapore has really welcomed me and my family.
@@RelationshipsWithQitell them how it feels to be a minority. And be kind to minorities here or anywhere else in the world.🙂
Your comment just sounds like simping without directly calling her "beautiful". I bet if she was black, you'd call her voice and manner of speech "eloquent" wouldn't you? 😉
@02june80 I'm not the person you seek answers from, but I am seeking answers for myself, so tell me - what did you mean by that?
@02june80she is woman. Even if she was a Singaporeans she wouldn’t have to do national service
I never commented or replied in TH-cam. But I want to say this is one most the most impressive conversation I ever watched. Qi is amazing woman with lots of wisdoms. If Qi has her own channel, I wil be the first one to follow.
Totally agree! Not sure how to find her... virtually every words is on the spot and the whole conversation is full of wisdom!
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I am Singaporean living in the US for the last 40 years. Singapore is a great country, love my people and the food but I can’t never live there again. I am now a country gal, living far away from the crowds and my life is calm and peaceful. No family drama in the US an even during my short visit to Singapore, I see drama ready to pop up anytime. I love my family but to deal with their dramas so often is not what I am looking for in my old age. I love the mountains and the lake and I can’t get that in Singapore. In addition, I love cold weather. I have considered going back for good numerous times but I just couldn’t do it. There are regrets for sure… missing big milestones with family, my kids not knowing their grandparents..etc. if any Singaporeans considering returning to Singapore, do it before kids turned 5 years old, otherwise it is going to make your decisions harder. Pick a country, settle down and learned to be happy with your decision. There is no perfect country.
If you live in a state where you can get equal amounts of sunshine, I think it's great to stay in the US. Family drama..even the Korean peninsula, half, is not big enough, I shudder to think about Sing.
I know nothing of Singapore but all about family drama. I'm Dutch and went living in Spain sone 25 years ago. One of the reasons was to be out of that tight oppressing family nucleus. Now I visit them and I love it. I love them, I love Holland, but I can kiss the ground when I'm back in Spain😊
@@yaki-moon I thought it's not an issue in that part of the world. :). I'm from one of the post Soviet states now living in Australia, looking back why I decided to change the place was partly coming from the fact I didn't have loving extended family circles (well except from my mother, of course, though we're not best friends with her either). Extended family circles in Almaty were miserable (control and status freaks dominating and pressing). Along with some other factors. I miss my home country's social discourse though.
Finding the life you want is what everyone yearns for, but some people can’t do it and you can do it. You are great.
Qi 's articulation on her career and life is reflective of her abilities to adapt and evolve. Such a wealth of experiences have only made her an even better counselor. This does not discount that she is inherently empathetic and a good observer of human nature ..... traits that are absolutely invaluable toward being a good therapist! I enjoyed this interview!😀
Thank you, Frank!
so refreshing to hear someone with a sound and rational mind speaks.....we need more positive Qi in Singapore :)
Thank you!
Qi is a remarkable person! wonderful dialogue!
Thank you! Credit to my interviewer Max for asking engaging questions.
One of the most insightful videos I've watched in a very long time. Great in-depth interview, I'm thankful for Qi's openness in sharing her life experiences. I feel like I've gotten a therapy session for free
I'm glad you found this useful. I also share daily therapy / relationship / life tips on my social media.
@@RelationshipsWithQi You will be a very great TH-camr, sharing wisdom and insightful thoughts. I’m already your fan.❤
It's a very nice interview, thoroughly enjoyed. She is open-hearted. She has full clarity of her thoughts and never short of right words to explain her believes.
Thank you, Prabir. I'm glad the ideas came across clearly. Sometimes ideas feel clearer in our own heads and when shared they don't always come across well!
"full clarity of her thoughts" well said.
I watched this expecting a pompous attitude... BUT, I was clearly wrong. She was very kind, elegant and very smart. I like her kind attitude and lots of experience. She is very well-rounded and a sweet human being.
Thank you for keeping an open mind and watching something that might've turned you off at first glance!
Why did you assume this? Every American has a Trump personality?
An extremely invigorating conversation. I've learned so much from Qi in this one video. She is worldly, empathetic, incredibly smart, perceptive, and articulate. Thank you, Max, for doing this interview with her.
This woman needs to have her own youtube channel! amazing interview, throughly enjoyed it!
It turns out she does! it's @QiZhaiMcCartney
This is probably the most interesting interviewee I have ever watched on Max's TH-cam channel, Qi is very candid and authentic with her views and she pretty much laid out the solution to relationship issues
Thank you!
Great speaker. Love her thoughts and the way she delivered her points.
Thank you so much!
Unfortunately, if a person was brought up in Sinkapore and lived there all their life, they would never have been able to deliver their thoughts in as articulate a fashion as this lady.
Wow what a character！Thank you so much for your insights. I really appreciate this video interview!
@sktoh4469 why?
This was not just an interview. Its one of the best content I've come across online, even great advice for my personal life
I love her air of confidence, her eloquence n unhindered speech but more than that I love the richness n depth of her experience n how her environment has shaped her unique identity n worldview. She is both affable n grounded and seems to be someone who has her finger on the pulse. Hvg lived in several countries, I too quite resonate with her. She has definitely inspired me to be brave in my current pursuits. I’m glad to hv stumbled on this podcast. My thanks n admiration to this amazing lady. ❤
Thank you for the kind words. I wish you good luck and great courage in pursuing your next dream!
This is the benefit of having a cross cultural background. Understanding cultural differences broadens one's perspective.
I want to respond “no duh” but the older I get the more I understand (with horror) that most people judge the world through only one cultural lens - typically religious.
Excellent interview with a wonderful individual, esp. in the 2nd half of interview. we need more people like her in the world.
Her articulation, humility and insights are so inspiring. Probably my fav interview on this channel!!
This woman is just incredible , she has both the look and the brain to go with it , her husband should be one of the most fortunate man on earth
Great Interview Max! Thank you for allowing your interviewees to speak without interruptions! This lady is an awesome human being!
Max for interrupting her trend of thoughts is Max amazing skill. That is where we get the gems.
It is very smart for her to be choosing Singapore... especially now that China and US tension is alarming.
Very enjoyable and interesting interview. She’s mature, intelligent and also down to earth. Sounds like a person whom I could talk to easily.
I love meeting new people and sharing interesting conversations!
I am so impressed by how intelligent this interview turns out...beautifully presented by Qi and Max. Thank you both.
Not to take everything for granted , best advice.
@@jack99889988 I have been there for a while , and I really enjoyed there. Yes , it is true that Singapore might not be the best place for people who are poor , the people I know don't really take wealth as the forefront of relationships. It's just different for everyone perhaps.
What a remarkable woman. Thank you to TH-cam algothrim for showing me your content and interview! Learned a lot
Thank you for watching. I also want to thank the YT algorithm LOL.
Hearing your story, you sound to have lived a very dynamic and experienced life. Was very inspiring to hear about your perspectives on making a major career change whilst balancing family commitments and your own mental health. Very much resonated with me and I hope to see more of your content too!
@@samuraik-o8s Thank you. I struggled at times in my 20s and 30s, but at midlife I feel comfortable with the things I did and the things that happened. In the midst of making a family or a career change, I couldn't see the end goal. But in hindsight, I'm glad I kept trying to take one step at a time because it did eventually take shape and make sense.
Singapore will always have a special place in my heart. It was my second home for almost 2 decades, and still feels like it after leaving a year ago. Probably the place where I am most comfortable with. And I share the same views with Qi, 100%.
Pls cme visit again!
Singapore has been my second (third?) home since I first came here to work in the 2000s. It’s a place I kept coming back to and by the time we had completed our family, it felt like the best place to raise our children. I’m glad you have found a feeling of home here too ❤
@@blessedcheflim8579 Definitely visiting again.
Why did you leave ⁉️
@@cynthiagonzalez658 To be with family
I enjoyed this interview so much. Very good content with insightful thoughts and observations. Qi, you earned my admiration as a very professional, intelligent and successful woman of modern times! Enjoy Singapore my beloved nation!
Thank you! Singapore has been so welcoming in ways big and small. We’re grateful to be here and to have the support of friends, neighbors, and a great community.
Wow, didn't expect to get very valuable advice about life. This was very intellectually deep and informative for me. Thanks Max!
Glad it was helpful!
I'm glad you found the interview helpful to your life. I share daily relationship counselling / life tips on my socials too. Have a good day!
EXCELLENT INTERVIEW!
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Thank you so much, Qi and Max! This is the most insightful and interesting interview! I watched over again .. for motivation 🤩
Such a nice interview! She seems like a nice person
Thank you very much!
very good interview - good perspective socially, politically and living. And she is right, she does not know in 10, 20 or 30 years but this feels right for now. I like that perspectives. She is not lviing in Singapore for night entertainment for younger professionals and singles. What she is looking right now, Singapore fits what her needs and her family needs. She is an eloquent conversationalist, well-thought out answers. She will be an excellent TED speaker.
Thank you for your kind words. I did once enjoy the nightlife, when I first moved here in my 20s. Now I enjoy the safety, comfort, and cultural diversity for my Third Cuture Kid children. Having lived in Singapore three times, I really feel that Singapore has a lot to offer to people at different life stages!
😅@@RelationshipsWithQi
I have lived in the US before and I absolutely did not feel free there either, every other day there was a shooting, also the racist stares I get, and also not able to go out after sundown. I felt imprisoned and oppressed.
Americans alwys comment Sg does not hv Freedom of Speech, no democracy etc..but we feel free here, our mind are not worrying about being shot, mugged etc. Thats real Freedom.
Watched this by chance, did not expect to spend more than a few min, but it was so engrossing that I watched it to the end. Fantastic wide ranging topics with many valuable and candid life lessons and sharing.
Her English accent is pretty neutral and Singlish (based on the couple of words) is also quite accurate. Wow what a diverse life she has had.
She sounds like she married someone pretty wealthy.
@@bakerstreet101 I was fortunate to have my public education in China for free and my private school education abroad sponsored as part of an employment benefit. When my husband and I met, we were equal in our earnings, and through the different seasons of our life together, we have taken turns being the more "domestic" one and the more "provider" one.
Thank you for your compliment on my attempt at Singlish. I have been told that my accent changes slightly depending on where I am and with whom I'm speaking.
Well my english below average and i still can understand all your sentence ...means your words perfect for me ...i enjoy your way of speaking ...thanks la !!!
I feel that she is an empathetic lady. I somehow like the way she is talking. It's a great interview.
My ex girlfriend is Lithuanian, East European, she came to China 2020 during covid. She went to Hangzhou, sanya, guangzhou, beijing loves China very much. Shanghai is the best city.
I rarely commented on a interview, but this is the best interview I've ever seen on TH-cam, and I've seen a lotttt of long interviews that didn't give much impact to my POV about life as this one. She summed up everything about life very very well from the start til the end of the interview. Singaporeans are so lucky to have her based her life and clinic there. Thank you for sharing this interview.
I really enjoyed the longer form video! Excellent guest as well!
I seriously agreed with her on how comfortable and safe Singapore made us feel that I am always edgy when I’m overseas regardless where I go but I think it’s a plus point because you will appreciate more of the place you are in, how fortunate you are in Singapore 🇸🇬
Thank you for an interesting interview. I literally could listen to Ms Qi the whole day and not lose attention! She has a very soothing and calm voice that is very engaging! 😄
She's good. Thanks for all the pointers for a successful relationship. My partner and I are watching this on a couch we are saying to each other.."see what I mean".
I love that you watched this with your partner. You're doing a "ritual of connection" and learning about / understanding each other better with this simple act of watching TH-cam together!
Really enjoyed this interview. Very insightful.
Best whole hearted interview ever
Your comment made my day. Thank you, Aaron.
Smart and intelligent lady. I love her sharing opinions and thoughts.
This interview segued from her experience of feeling at home in Spore, to sharing her knowledge n approach on helping couples as a marriage therapist. As a Singaporean n counsellor, I enjoyed the interview immensely, n admire her authenticity in pursuing a life that brings her joy n significance.
Really enjoyable interview .
Thank you, Joanna!
First time here, your guest is incredible. The breadth of knowledge she exhibits at a still young age is pretty amazing.
Enjoyed listening to Qi so much, it feels like she's chatting with you, like a close personal friend. It also feels at the same time like you're in her therapy session and it feels very safe and calming. Agree with most comments here, one of the best, more intelligent and stimulating dialogues thus far. Thank you Max and Qi!
Where does Qi practise btw :)
So nice to have you, Qi, in Singapore after your RTW travels and career! After 30 years, Starting in London (local). HK, SGP, France, SGP, India, London (expat), SGP - we have moved on to Malaysia. But Singapore is also home, and always will be.
You have led quite an adventurous life! A piece of every place I've lived in shaped a piece of me - I wholeheartedly agree with your comment that "Singapore is also home, and always will be."
I enjoyed this episode. Definitely can relate as we have similar backgrounds and have many questions, doubts, and optimism of our stay here in Singapore as we go into our 3rd year. Thank you for sharing Qi!
Thank you for watching and sharing your comments, Kay!
Best Chernov interview I've seen so far imo... I learned a lot from Qi.
Wow!! I'm blown away by this interview. Qi is so well spoken and articulates her ideas in a way that is very easy to understand. There are so many gems of wisdom sprinkled throughout this interview that leaves listeners a lot to ponder upon afterwards. I'm very glad that this video came across my YT feed. Keep up the great work.
Thanks Max for this awesome interview with Oi’s . Impressive on this intelligent lady who have achievements balanced life Her smile pleasantly & genuinely release her thoughts & experience . A great blessings to live in Singapore , regardless or our individual economic situations
Amazing interview, she delivers her thoughts extremely well.
Fabulous and very informative. Qi is absolutely wonderful, intelligent and observant of many of todays problems with society.
Wow, I watched the whole 50 minutes of this interview. It was unexpectedly captivating. Thank you!
Qi's kids are very fortunate for having such an open-minded and conscientious mother. Ela arrasa♥
Cheers from South America!
This is a great interview. Well spoken lady.
There is so much to absorb and digest from this interview, all insightful and intelligetn advice and analysis. Thank you.
One of the Best interview I’ve watched about life!
Thank you for this wonderful interview speaking to differences living abroad among multi-cultural environments/countries...🙏🏾
This is my first time leaving a review, and I must say, this woman is truly inspirational. I resonated with her profoundly, and I wholeheartedly encourage her to consider starting her own TH-cam channel. She is undeniably a wise woman.
I told her that as well! 😁
Just wow. This is one of the best well spent 1-hrs for me. She is amazing and I think this video should be shared with many. Thank you Max for picking her !
A lot of wisdom is packed in this interview. Thank you!
max , one of the best interviews to date ... Very insightful and I'm everyone will have something to pick up from this
Don't even need to go to Cambodia. If expats living in Robertson Quay were to just cross the road to Jalan Kukoh estate, they'd notice the stark difference.
She's brilliant!
Refreshing to have such an intelligent guest
Qi’s clear and thoughtful approach to her career and life showcases her impressive adaptability and growth
Wasn't expecting to watch for more than 5 mins but watched the whole video through & wanted to hear from Wise Words of Wisdom from Qi.
She's not only a genuine global citizen but one whose Curiosity & Freedom have shaped her into Who She Is today, an Eloquent, Articulated, Humble yet one with a Broad & Open-minded views about many aspects of Life.
Thank you Qi for your sharing & also Max for featuring such a Fascinating person! 👌🙂👍
I am mesmerized by this lady.. she is great! Excellent interview Max!!❤❤
I am so glad I clicked and watched! What an incredible woman she is!
She is pleasant and impressive… she definitely earns your admiration after just watching her for a couple of minutes!
I love this person.
Qi is a clear and articulate speaker. Thank you, this was an informative interview.
This was almost an hour interview but it didn't feel too long at all and that's only because you found an interesting subject. She was articulate and very pleasant to listen to and you also did well as an interviewer. Thank you to both of you and keep up the good work, Max!
Thank you for watching! I was impressed with the progression of easy to “big life questions” Max orchestrated.
As a "pure breed", Singaporean, I'm really glad our country has attracted this lady to come here. We need more foreigners like her to settle down here for the right reasons and also contribute positively to the society. Most of my contacts with foreigners who had stayed here long term were mainly to "extract something" such as academic qualifications, lifestyle or simply just money from Singapore before they leave.
Great Insight, very articulate! Especially resonated with her views on identity crisis and introspection and questioning. I'm Indian but grew up overseas and often feel like I'm in limbo...
Theodora Voutsa at 88 Productions is making a documentary on "Third Culture Kids." You should check out her trailers! It might resonate with yours and my experience.
I can listen to this woman for hours. She speaks so well.
Thank you @QiZhaiMcCartney, totally impressed by your thoughts and intellectual experiences. Your parents will be so proud of you.
Beautiful conversation, thank you
Asian Americans are unfortunately heavily stereotyped in life and work by the mainstream society in US. They are viewed as unable to talk about their feelings, more quantitative inclined, high achieving when many of us are not. 😂 Many like this articulate lady study psychology to understand the Asian American identity and struggle. As she mentioned she feels free in singapore because she is not viewed as a minority and that must felt like a tremendous sigh of relief after years of trying to fit in the US. I can certainly attest to that. As an Asian American it is not easy to land a well paying position as a mental health/marriage counselor but it is possible in Singapore, once again this smart lady made a strategic decision. Asian Americans feel less pressured in a east-west society like Singapore because for once you are no longer are restricted to a set of stereotypes/expectations - career, economic, social and political - and you no longer need to stay in your lane to avoid creating discomfort for the majority. That’s true Freedom and it contributes to your total well-being. Asian Americans who live in Singapore probably have better mental health and than those living in the US.
Thank you for sharing this! I also experienced the other side of the coin you described - while in the US, I found it very hard to relate to my own counsellors who had little experience of life outside the US, being a minority, or the immigrant life. Cultural understanding is so important to the feeling of “belonging” (a fundamental human need).
@@RelationshipsWithQi I agree 100% and more!
‘believe in yourself… Take a small step…’ Love her advice n wisdom…
The concept of ‘continuum’ in our volatile environment.
I love this interview and learn alot from her.I likes the way she explained things in life made us see worid different.
Great interview! I am a Chinese Canadian and I work in the tech industry. Recently my company offered me a promotion and relocation to our office in Singapore. I have been thinking about that a lot lately. This interview helped me a lot. Thanks again bro!
I would be very happy if Qi starts her own channel 😊
I really enjoy this interview ❤
This is one of the best conversations I’ve ever seen
Great therapeutic session just listening to the lady speak. I enjoyed this interview tremendously without even minding the length of it. :)
Great interview, great guest!
Wow, what an insightful, thoughtful and wise person! I truly enjoyed learning many substantive ideas from Qi.
She is simply amazing
I have never write in your comment section before. But i am so impressed with Qi 's intelligent and choice of words. High wisdom guest !! Good job Max 👏
33:47. "And so, I never wanted to have the lifestyle be a stumbling block for life. " Utterly brilliant observation. Thank you for bringing this interview out. Both you and Qi have some solid life insights.
she has a compassionate and sincere face and easily approachable, makes people feel comfortable and can totally trust her.
This is a very enriching talk. Thank you both, and much blessings to you and your love ones.
That last part of mental health advice and meaning of life is so valuable! Glad to have watched/come across it. :) Thank you for it.
Thank you for watching and I’m glad you found the therapy tips helpful. My socials are linked in the episode notes - I share daily mental health and relationship tips.
I logged in just to make this comment: I am so impressed by her eloquence and her ability to articulate her thoughts so well. And Max, your interviews have grown in depth; well done !👍
one of the coolest video in my collection. definitely a highly intelligent woman she is.
Deeply meaningful n honest conversation! TQVM 😊
I really LOVE this episode contents. I must say she (the guest) simply charming. I don't know why but she is just comfortable listening to. I'm glad she kind of like "fortifying" my opinions/views.
A great interview. Qi's story is so interesting and informative. A lot of insightful lessons from her life journey. Appreciate the sharing.