amazing how greedy lawsuits like this clog up the legal system. I saw it for myself with my mom's greedy, grasping, richy rich relatives. and taught me the mounting evidence that family is over rated.
"We've decided?" When I stopped laughing, I'd be outta there so fast; changed my number, blocked them on all social media and possibly change my name. "You owe us" for us doing what all decent parents do. Tell the other relatives your unemployed sibling isn't contribute one red cent and if the other relatives are so worried, they're welcome to your old room.
_You owe us for raising you!_ _Your sibling needs help."_ At least the sibling isn't totally on board. But still, the OP has no obligation to support a shiftless sibling, That is, for every single responsible adult, well over the line. Not going to lie, but from my perspective, they just want an excuse to not have to realize their other son/daughter thinks they are just entitled "be taken care of simply because they exist." That seems to be the third of those reoccurring parts of such stories. Those and the _You will move back at the end of the month.. we will figure out some rent arrangement later..._ not only is not "family caring about family," but it can be considering unlawful/holding a person against their will in most if not all states. The parents lying and some of the extended family seeing through it, but something tells me that sibling also has been told that they are "filling their role", and that is beyond creepy. The "family dues" letter stunt was the worst idea (which makes me wonder if they used that on the sibling...), but then the father is losing his marbles, clearly. What the OP did in informing the extended family was the right thing to do, because it was what needed to happen.
You live in your own house and take care of your self and your siding needs to take care of there self their own wants you to do the chores and pay all the bills in that house don't give in to them
No is a legitimate answer to selfish parents trying to control. Raising your children to adulthood is their duty. Parents have a duty to support after that they have no obligation. Making a unilateral decision on their child is a demand not a request. Tell them no and let them know you will block their numbers.
I have no problem telling my aunts or uncles they are full of it. He should have suggested the cousin to take the parents to court and get the loaned money back. My father was a good man and would never do this and my mother although difficult is reasonable.
Mom: move back home and pay rent
Op: let me think about it ( hangs up phone and block all family members)
amazing how greedy lawsuits like this clog up the legal system. I saw it for myself with my mom's greedy, grasping, richy rich relatives. and taught me the mounting evidence that family is over rated.
"If I stepped in his house again. . ." Well, now he doesn't want you back.
"We've decided?" When I stopped laughing, I'd be outta there so fast; changed my number, blocked them on all social media and possibly change my name.
"You owe us" for us doing what all decent parents do. Tell the other relatives your unemployed sibling isn't contribute one red cent and if the other relatives are so worried, they're welcome to your old room.
And, when they stated they asked everyone in family, I’d suggest you have them pay instead.
Two words...Hell No....
P.E.R.I.O.D.T.!!!!!
Survey says: number 1 answer
These idiotic OPs keep walking into clear traps and letting clearly hostile people into their homes. It's infuriating.
Why answer the phone ? It’s not like old land lines before caller ID . Nowadays you just ignore anyone’s call you don’t want to speak to .
_You owe us for raising you!_ _Your sibling needs help."_ At least the sibling isn't totally on board. But still, the OP has no obligation to support a shiftless sibling, That is, for every single responsible adult, well over the line. Not going to lie, but from my perspective, they just want an excuse to not have to realize their other son/daughter thinks they are just entitled "be taken care of simply because they exist." That seems to be the third of those reoccurring parts of such stories. Those and the _You will move back at the end of the month.. we will figure out some rent arrangement later..._ not only is not "family caring about family," but it can be considering unlawful/holding a person against their will in most if not all states. The parents lying and some of the extended family seeing through it, but something tells me that sibling also has been told that they are "filling their role", and that is beyond creepy. The "family dues" letter stunt was the worst idea (which makes me wonder if they used that on the sibling...), but then the father is losing his marbles, clearly. What the OP did in informing the extended family was the right thing to do, because it was what needed to happen.
We're family my ass, forget that family..
THEY CAN KISS OUR ASS AND HOPE WE DON'T SHIT ON THEM THEY LOST THEIR DAM MINDS!
Enough with sibling!
op is so delusional to think she would move back home 🏡 and take care of them and her jobless sibling and give up her freedom
Tell them you will come back if they kick brother out and tell him to get a job, tough love
No
Within the first 10 seconds of them saying this they would of known not to mess with me .
You live in your own house and take care of your self and your siding needs to take care of there self their own wants you to do the chores and pay all the bills in that house don't give in to them
Can we just stop with the pronouns and give your brother/sister a name?
I hope that this pronoun insanity comes to an end ASAP. It is the most idiotic thing I ever seen.
[Whiny voice] but then they'll have to think of a name ad then put in a sentence about how the names are fake.
No is a legitimate answer to selfish parents trying to control. Raising your children to adulthood is their duty. Parents have a duty to support after that they have no obligation. Making a unilateral decision on their child is a demand not a request. Tell them no and let them know you will block their numbers.
Hell to the NAW!
There is only one sibling a male or a female/brother or sister or is there two siblings so you need to call them they?
OHMIL HOW WRONG YOU ARE THIS IS MY HOME SO JUST TURN AROUND AND GET OUT OF MY HOUSE BEFORE THE POLICE ARREST YOU FOR TRESPASSING
No and black them
These stupid stories are just plain STUPID.
I have no problem telling my aunts or uncles they are full of it. He should have suggested the cousin to take the parents to court and get the loaned money back. My father was a good man and would never do this and my mother although difficult is reasonable.