You know, if my crush isn't interested in me but still sees me as a friend/buddy, then I'll take that as a win since it's always nice to have some good friends around you!
I wish I could have a mindset like that. I feel way too much, that the thought of them only seeing me as a friend and seeing another man in a romantic light, just shatters my heart.
0:17 -- they dont seem particularly focused on you or what you have to say. 0:48 -- they're always busy. 1:24 -- you're the one starting all the conversations. 1:51 -- your conversations are either professional or small talk. 2:17 -- they treat you like their buddy or acquaintance. sorry for everyone who found out the hard way ... i hope u find ur special someone soon
I already pretty much knew this anyway and I'm just hanging by a thread at this point. She's been too distant and even appears irate when around me so I'm just gonna move on and figure out my life before trying to pursue someone else
Things I try to focus on remembering: -Someone not being interested and actually TELLING YOU is a GOOD thing. -Its always best to be told sooner rather than later because it saves everyone involved precious time. Time that is best not wasted on pursuing a fruitless relation. -If feelings are not mutual, you don't want it. Love has to be a two-way street to truly work. -as Barney Stinson said; "New is always better!" It's a privilege to move on and find new, different people to surprise you. Eventually one of them will blossom into something unique and wonderful. -You only need Chemistry and Timing. Focus on what you can control and enjoy the wild ride otherwise!
You don't even really need timing. Waiting for the perfect moment is the #1 cause of lost opportunities for men. If there is chemistry they will MAKE the time, you don't have to wait for a moment.
"Should you confess your feelings to them?" Yes. Get it over with so everyone's on the same page. Also, being in love with someone isn't a dirty secret and it shouldn't be treated as such.
It matters not if my crush has any interest in me or not at this point. It’s not my primary goal at this point or won’t be. New gym opens tomorrow and I’m already a member. Swan diving in head first. 2024 goals connect better with family, evolve myself in a positive direction and find my purpose in life. I’ll get it done even if it’s painful. All of you can do this because I know I can.
You're kidding right? How can it be worse for someone who hasn't got any feelings for someone, to friendzone him. The one who has feelings is always hurt more.. even if it's just a crush. It just hurts to friendzone if you lose a friend by that.
@@L.O.P.x Yes, but no.. i think most only can handle their own pain better because they're so used to it. If they'd experience some positive things directly linked to the reason of this pain, the tolerance would lower again. But i absolutely see your point, i just think it's not measurably true, because pain tolerance. P.S. what i mean is: it can absolutely feel worse subjectively, but the pain level isn't comparable, because if you open up to your crush you create vulnerability.
These points also apply to situations where people you think are your friends aren't actually interested to be friends with you or to put in effort in the friendship :/
@@Psych2go yep. I have learned to make peace with the fact that some people are indeed our friends, whereas some other people are acquaintances we regularly meet because we do certain group / community activities together. It's healthy to have both types in our life imo, we simply need to mind the difference.
Yup. I have been coming to terms with the fact I don't really have friends, I have long-lived acquaintances. When they ask for help I help, when I ask for help I get nothing or am told I don't deserve it.
A little extra advice before you go to college: match the level of investment. If they don't text much, then don't text them much. If they don't start a conversation much, then don't talk to them. Talk with those who want to talk with you. If they're interested, you'll find it obvious because they'll proactively make an effort for you. Whenever you're in doubt, go back through past interactions and ask yourself 'is this balanced in terms of starting the convo and replies?'
4/5 signs that she's not interested, omg. I'm always the one starting conversations which often just end up in professional or small talk, she doesn't seem to be as focused on me and our conversations don't seem to go anywhere unless I'm the one cracking jokes (humor isn't a strength of mine but I try) and finally she never re-schedules plans to hang out. Is there no hope? I think I'm going to start treating her just like a friend for now & gradually work my way up when there's some reciprocity! ❤
I know, right? So much of my time and energy wasted and so much pain and regret later on from fantasizing about someone who isn't even real. That's just the idealized version I have created of them in my head, and when I finally wake up I begin to realize how wrong and inaccurate it was. Having crushes on people I see or talk to in my day-to-day life is literally debilitating, it always grows into bad limerence...
Aw this animation is so cute. I definitely had times when a crush was just treating me as a buddy, or I'd start the convo first. On the flipside I had guys suddenly chatting with me out of the blue and I'm not sure how to feel about it.
Timestamps 1). They don't seem particularly focused on you or what you have to say 0:16 2). They're always busy 0:47 3). You're the one starting all the conversations 1:21 4). Your conversations are either professional or small talk 1:49 5). They treat like their buddy or acquaintance 2:15 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙😂
Got some rejections throughout my life and it really sucked. I mostly get two types of people around me: Either it's the ones only interested in the casual fling...or I'm stuck being the "buddy". It made me so frustrated during my teenage years and in my early 20's. Made me think I'm not capable of ever finding somebody who loves me for who I am and is interested in me romantically. Maybe wants to start a family with me later on... But then again, I never made it myself easy with opening up about my feelings to them, as I was so scared of being hurt/rejected again. For now, I'm trying to work on myself mentally, so that I can learn to open up again and if a situation comes where I could get hurt, then hey, then it wasn't the right partner, I guess. Even though it sometimes still hurts seeing couples kissing, hugging etc. while I sit there alone, I know that it shouldn't mean the end of the world if I don't find my soul mate. But society really makes us think otherwise, especially as a woman: "Why aren't you married yet?! Why don't you have children yet?! You're in your late 20s/early 30's, you should have settled down by now!!!"
when i saw the notification for video omg i collapsed to the ground- But now that I watched the video, some of these signs are literally me and maybe my crush(?). Maybe because I’m too introverted i can’t even talk to my crush (and totally not purposely avoiding them-) but its soooo hard to get to know people today because of friend circles and big groups. You just have to take baby steps, which i cannot do.
Personally I never want to stay friends with a crush that isn’t interested. There are feelings that can’t change and being friends would be awkward and forced to me. It’s better just to take it gracefully and move on. Out of sight out of mind.
I have a crush but I seem to make her uncomfortable... shes pretty. I like her personality, she does the same profession... and im a high quality man too, i conpliment her, am always nice, we have deep talks and I help her out, gift her drinks. Its just. Im terrified kf coming off as weird or awkward. I struggle with a lot in my personal life... divorce, heartbreak, depression, anxiety, asd, add, ptsd, low self esteem ... and idk if im ready for dating again or should work on myself enough to fix my brokenness...
I feel you. I’ve had similar experiences. Let’s be real. Nobody wants a broken toy and men and women alike can somehow sense the brokenness within us. And truly and wholly healing is an illusion.
ive noticed how you release the same videos over and over again lol, idk i still watch them, its just calming to know that im alone, and i probably will be for a very very long time
I've been on both sides of this... That said i've also been in the unfortunate position where i was so anxious about coming off as being too interested in someone that i swung the pendulum to acting professional and disinterested.
These videos always get me thinking. But every time I see her eyes and her smile it makes me believe otherwise. It’s not the right time right now. But I hope in the future we might be in the same city, or at least closer to
People also change their minds. That being said, it is 100% important to give them the space and ability to see YOU for the value you bring to the table. If you told them you liked them, and they said "no", pull away. When you pull back your attention and energy, that gives them the space to assess. Their choice can only be changed if they have given it enough thought and consideration. If it happens, good for you! If not, at least they gave it some time and thought. Flip the tables, you would have done the same for someone who likes you.
My pov: they say the like you they say they miss you but they end up ghosting you the next day and avoiding your questions and talk abt something totally different 👍
Tbh I think that crushes are things that come and go and aren’t deep. I understand they can be so dreamy and so damn cute✨ but sometimes people don’t reciprocate ur feelings and that’s alright. It just means they weren’t for u and someone better out there is waiting for u.have hope
Step 1: Have a crush Step 2: confess Step 3: rejected Step 4: try again Step 5: same cycle Step 6: *Just give up man, no one is going to like you. It's just part of life.*
As someone who has social anxiety and gets nervous around girls, it becomes hard to keep conversations going which is why I end up in these type of situations☹️
I really love them who are the people mentioned at the end credits❤well done it's really a great work and experience... Please upload more videos these are very helpful to this and our future generations... Please spread love and humanity
To be fair, it could also mean that the other person does not necessarily want to pursue a relationship and/or doesn't know that you are interested in them on a romantic level. As someone who was that other person at one point, it never crossed my mind that the other person had that level of interest towards me (mainly because I don't pick up on hints/signs like these at all). Literally 3 years later it finally clicked that they were likely interested in me. Am I kicking myself for it? Not really, it would have been nice but not a necessity. It is however an eye-opener as to how many hints I probably missed.
It's hard to know if they like they can just be friendly and that's all...I was the one who started the conversations and approached them and I got rejected a lot throughout highschool 7 times actually and always got stuck in the friendzone it's hard to accept the fact that they don't like you and that there's even a small hope that they might like you back😢
Crushing to me is an overall waste of time. Most of the people I crushed on never felt nearly the same. I'm glad I expressed my interest.. she ain't given the same energy.. It's her loss. I want to give that energy to someone who reciprocates.
I always start conversations, and half of them are weather related, but they do have social anxiety and the conversations are usually very fun, so I’m still not sure
Everyone whose exprienced this and is still single, please be aware, not just that of the people who are uninterested, but to the people who are also interested but are too shy to say anything. I promise you, there will be a ton of people you meet throughout your life that will and/or already do find you attractive, you just have to meet them first and get to know them, because in this day and age, people are masters at masking their true feelings socially and need to feel safe enough before expressing their true feelings.
Hmmm I see this but there are a few things that should be said in here. If you speak about initiative conversation, it depends if its face to face or on phone On phone sometimes its different. Each person have his own texting comfort and style but when he/she does, it should be with affection and playful, if its plain and fast, he/she most likely not interested, unless the person is busy, if its all the time like this and he/she does not shows any approach sometimes forward, it could indicate that he/she does not sees you as a romantic partner. It should be for both sides and you should see if he/she misses you. If its 100% only on your side (always) thats almost certain that he/she does not sees you as a romantic partner, do not lose hope, There are many more amazing people out there that could fit you as you fit them. Stay safe ❤️
I might have messed up. The girl I like probably had a thing for me, and because I seemed uninterested (not on purpose, I was absolutely bombarded with work), she probably got over me, stopped talking to me, and now I miss her so much. We talked a lot. I have no idea how to get her back. There's also the possibility that she never liked me, and found out I had a thing for her somehow, and is giving me the cold shoulder. I'm all grown up, and this is just sad.
2 years ago, there was a certain someone I cared abt. He was kind, funny, and in a way, cute. But when his best friend shipped me and him for some reason, he did everything that was on that list in the video. At first, I thought it was me and that I did something wrong and I felt hurt by his actions. But I realized he didn’t deserve my attention and respect, so I would never look his way and even if we made eye contact, I would give the cold stare. A few weeks ago (back then was middle school and now it’s high school), my teacher decided to put him next to me. It was very. Very. Awkward. We haven’t spoken abt the past but we’re still def talking only for school. He keeps looking at me and smiling at me whenever I spoke with him. I made sure not to talk to him when it’s necessary. I’m trying to convince myself that this is all a trick but it’s hard when he’s acting so nice like back then.
the amount of crushes i had that i never knew liked me or not and i just selfishly assumed that they didn't just to spare my heart from hurting itself 😂 btw, i really love the animation in this video 😍
This is me………. 😔 And I don’t know if my crush likes me or not… She’s said she likes me… And that I’m “handsome af”… but our conversations aren’t very productive… and yes… sadly I’m the one starting the conversations….. 😔
About the conversations: I always start the conversations but I still think she has a crush on me. Why?: I do catch her looking at me oftenly. I think that she doesnt have the confidence to come and start a conversation. But she really does have different ways of expanding the duration of the conversation. Maybe someone will find this comment helpful.👋🏻
What are some hobbies that you are taking up this year?
Watch repair
Depression
Workout
Sleeping
Sleeping
“Your crush isn’t interested”
*Story of my love life: They never are*
I can relate to that
I absolutely get this.
Every man in existence... I can relate...
Wanna go out sometime?😶
Skill issue
Number 1: you're me
i felt that
Number 2: you’re *me*
Damn
Same
I feel that
You know, if my crush isn't interested in me but still sees me as a friend/buddy, then I'll take that as a win since it's always nice to have some good friends around you!
I wish I could have a mindset like that. I feel way too much, that the thought of them only seeing me as a friend and seeing another man in a romantic light, just shatters my heart.
@@kirubavictor1562it is a hurdle to get over. The benefit is you avoid unecessary heartbreak that way. 😊
hmmm...good way to get friendzoned
@@pyramidhead138 and the friendzone is underrated actually
@@Friendly_Neigborhood_Astolfo the friendzone is for simps
0:17 -- they dont seem particularly focused on you or what you have to say.
0:48 -- they're always busy.
1:24 -- you're the one starting all the conversations.
1:51 -- your conversations are either professional or small talk.
2:17 -- they treat you like their buddy or acquaintance.
sorry for everyone who found out the hard way ... i hope u find ur special someone soon
I already pretty much knew this anyway and I'm just hanging by a thread at this point. She's been too distant and even appears irate when around me so I'm just gonna move on and figure out my life before trying to pursue someone else
I hope so
i kinda felt all that, gonna move on now.. 😢
@@maz-jd8qfLol no there isn't
Nah I'm lucky:) even tho he doesn't like me, we're still good friends
Things I try to focus on remembering:
-Someone not being interested and actually TELLING YOU is a GOOD thing.
-Its always best to be told sooner rather than later because it saves everyone involved precious time. Time that is best not wasted on pursuing a fruitless relation.
-If feelings are not mutual, you don't want it. Love has to be a two-way street to truly work.
-as Barney Stinson said; "New is always better!" It's a privilege to move on and find new, different people to surprise you. Eventually one of them will blossom into something unique and wonderful.
-You only need Chemistry and Timing. Focus on what you can control and enjoy the wild ride otherwise!
But Timing is a bitch!
@@yuvikakathaith ain't that the truth Scherbatsky
You don't even really need timing. Waiting for the perfect moment is the #1 cause of lost opportunities for men. If there is chemistry they will MAKE the time, you don't have to wait for a moment.
"Should you confess your feelings to them?"
Yes. Get it over with so everyone's on the same page. Also, being in love with someone isn't a dirty secret and it shouldn't be treated as such.
You are right, yes. But people are evil, and if they find out you confessed to your crush, then they are going to make your life hell
if they give you directions to the nearest jello shop they are DEFINITELY into you
It's a greeeeeeeeeen flag!!!
Major true.
Hahahaha 😂😂
It matters not if my crush has any interest in me or not at this point. It’s not my primary goal at this point or won’t be. New gym opens tomorrow and I’m already a member. Swan diving in head first. 2024 goals connect better with family, evolve myself in a positive direction and find my purpose in life. I’ll get it done even if it’s painful. All of you can do this because I know I can.
Purpose in life is Jesus Christ
For every like this comment gets, I will do 10 pushups
Yes I love a gym
You're getting a gf with thos one
Have fun with your 330 push-ups ☺️
Now enjoy 600 push ups😅
I have loved these videos for years. Also, can you do a video on developing a crush on people that aren't particularly your type. ❤❤❤❤
Bro 32’s ago is crazy. Bro’s watching the video at 3x speed lol
Aww. Thank you! You mean 'how to deal with unrequited love"?
@@Psych2go yes I do
Omg yess, this is a good one. I hope they would do a vid for this 🥹
Getting friendzoned is hard, but I know from experience that friendzoning someone feels worse 😬
You're very understanding of others. Hopefully you meet someone amazing.
You're kidding right? How can it be worse for someone who hasn't got any feelings for someone, to friendzone him. The one who has feelings is always hurt more.. even if it's just a crush.
It just hurts to friendzone if you lose a friend by that.
@@L.O.P.x Yes, but no.. i think most only can handle their own pain better because they're so used to it. If they'd experience some positive things directly linked to the reason of this pain, the tolerance would lower again. But i absolutely see your point, i just think it's not measurably true, because pain tolerance.
P.S. what i mean is: it can absolutely feel worse subjectively, but the pain level isn't comparable, because if you open up to your crush you create vulnerability.
@@EinfachValle91 i would feel terrible if i have to crush someones heart...
@@Jarabassajoukee And why? Because you know how it feels to get your heart crushed..
These drawings are so CUTE!!!
Would you like to see more from this animator?
@@Psych2goYESSSSSSSSSS
@@Psych2goyes
@@Psych2go i clicked on this one just because the art was so cute :3
These points also apply to situations where people you think are your friends aren't actually interested to be friends with you or to put in effort in the friendship :/
Good point. Signs someone really isn't your friend?
@@Psych2go yep. I have learned to make peace with the fact that some people are indeed our friends, whereas some other people are acquaintances we regularly meet because we do certain group / community activities together. It's healthy to have both types in our life imo, we simply need to mind the difference.
This is so true
Yup. I have been coming to terms with the fact I don't really have friends, I have long-lived acquaintances. When they ask for help I help, when I ask for help I get nothing or am told I don't deserve it.
Yaas!
I wish Middle school me saw this, it would've helped me alot. Atleast this'll help me in college hopefully
A little extra advice before you go to college: match the level of investment. If they don't text much, then don't text them much. If they don't start a conversation much, then don't talk to them. Talk with those who want to talk with you. If they're interested, you'll find it obvious because they'll proactively make an effort for you. Whenever you're in doubt, go back through past interactions and ask yourself 'is this balanced in terms of starting the convo and replies?'
4/5 signs that she's not interested, omg.
I'm always the one starting conversations which often just end up in professional or small talk, she doesn't seem to be as focused on me and our conversations don't seem to go anywhere unless I'm the one cracking jokes (humor isn't a strength of mine but I try) and finally she never re-schedules plans to hang out. Is there no hope?
I think I'm going to start treating her just like a friend for now & gradually work my way up when there's some reciprocity! ❤
I love the illustrations in this one! ❤
Why I don't bother anymore. It's childish to "fall for someone" and it's wasted energy trying to pursue something that yields to nothing.
I know, right?
So much of my time and energy wasted and so much pain and regret later on from fantasizing about someone who isn't even real. That's just the idealized version I have created of them in my head, and when I finally wake up I begin to realize how wrong and inaccurate it was. Having crushes on people I see or talk to in my day-to-day life is literally debilitating, it always grows into bad limerence...
I genuinely dont understand how people are able to succeed with their crushes man...
Aw this animation is so cute. I definitely had times when a crush was just treating me as a buddy, or I'd start the convo first. On the flipside I had guys suddenly chatting with me out of the blue and I'm not sure how to feel about it.
Timestamps
1). They don't seem particularly focused on you or what you have to say 0:16
2). They're always busy 0:47
3). You're the one starting all the conversations 1:21
4). Your conversations are either professional or small talk 1:49
5). They treat like their buddy or acquaintance 2:15
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙😂
Got some rejections throughout my life and it really sucked. I mostly get two types of people around me: Either it's the ones only interested in the casual fling...or I'm stuck being the "buddy".
It made me so frustrated during my teenage years and in my early 20's. Made me think I'm not capable of ever finding somebody who loves me for who I am and is interested in me romantically.
Maybe wants to start a family with me later on...
But then again, I never made it myself easy with opening up about my feelings to them, as I was so scared of being hurt/rejected again.
For now, I'm trying to work on myself mentally, so that I can learn to open up again and if a situation comes where I could get hurt, then hey, then it wasn't the right partner, I guess.
Even though it sometimes still hurts seeing couples kissing, hugging etc. while I sit there alone, I know that it shouldn't mean the end of the world if I don't find my soul mate. But society really makes us think otherwise, especially as a woman: "Why aren't you married yet?! Why don't you have children yet?! You're in your late 20s/early 30's, you should have settled down by now!!!"
Need this video for my delulu self😭
SAME HERE 😭
So helpful, thank you!!❤❤
If they are into you, you'll know it.
If they are not, you'll be confused.
What if I have absolutely no doubt in her NOT liking me?
My crush and I fall under most of these categories, but she and I are both introverts.
Same 😞
when i saw the notification for video omg i collapsed to the ground- But now that I watched the video, some of these signs are literally me and maybe my crush(?). Maybe because I’m too introverted i can’t even talk to my crush (and totally not purposely avoiding them-) but its soooo hard to get to know people today because of friend circles and big groups. You just have to take baby steps, which i cannot do.
Dont be sad because ur rejected because everyone reject the expensive thing and goes to the cheap one~
"A wise person"
Me who doesnt show any signs...
; w ; Awww I feel like this video knew what my week's been like after being rejected by my crush. As always, thank you for this video Psych2Go
Hope you get some self care in!
Ty@@Psych2go. I will do my best to get some self care in
i feel like im gonna get mine broken soon , probably in some minutes or hours or days
Personally I never want to stay friends with a crush that isn’t interested. There are feelings that can’t change and being friends would be awkward and forced to me. It’s better just to take it gracefully and move on. Out of sight out of mind.
Fun fact: ask your crush out for valentines, and then you find out if they like you or not.
then they're gonna crush your heart lmao
@@Rended_ yeah I just need to delete all the plans I've made for us because whenever I'm in love. I'm 100% in
She did give me air kisses out side of the classroom i was in the day after because she needs permission from her father..
Okay well damn… that hurt
Btw your voice is vary calming and helps with all the things in my head
Thank you! Did you know Amanda has her own channel as well?
No I did not can you send a lonk
And I watched this video because I have a crush on a friend named Payton
I have a crush but I seem to make her uncomfortable... shes pretty. I like her personality, she does the same profession... and im a high quality man too, i conpliment her, am always nice, we have deep talks and I help her out, gift her drinks. Its just. Im terrified kf coming off as weird or awkward. I struggle with a lot in my personal life... divorce, heartbreak, depression, anxiety, asd, add, ptsd, low self esteem ... and idk if im ready for dating again or should work on myself enough to fix my brokenness...
I feel you. I’ve had similar experiences. Let’s be real. Nobody wants a broken toy and men and women alike can somehow sense the brokenness within us. And truly and wholly healing is an illusion.
The art style is so pretty
Im watching this even though my crush is already my boyfriend 💀
Damn☠️
Did these signs still matched? lol
@@Psych2go thankfully it seems like my crush is interested in me, you think I should ask him out?
Flex 💪🏽 😏
this video is so TRUE and sad, I'm crying right now
ive noticed how you release the same videos over and over again lol, idk i still watch them, its just calming to know that im alone, and i probably will be for a very very long time
Most of my crushes were NEVER interested in me. Some were only attracted to me. Just not interested.
Ok first of all the art style is super adorable!
After four years of watching and trying every day of approaching, I finally succeed and take the first step. Found out she loves someone else.
I've been on both sides of this... That said i've also been in the unfortunate position where i was so anxious about coming off as being too interested in someone that i swung the pendulum to acting professional and disinterested.
Love you Psych2Go ❤ thank you for helping me with your videos 💕🎀
Glad they can be useful! How did you find our channel?
These videos always get me thinking. But every time I see her eyes and her smile it makes me believe otherwise.
It’s not the right time right now. But I hope in the future we might be in the same city, or at least closer to
People also change their minds. That being said, it is 100% important to give them the space and ability to see YOU for the value you bring to the table. If you told them you liked them, and they said "no", pull away. When you pull back your attention and energy, that gives them the space to assess. Their choice can only be changed if they have given it enough thought and consideration. If it happens, good for you! If not, at least they gave it some time and thought. Flip the tables, you would have done the same for someone who likes you.
My pov: they say the like you they say they miss you but they end up ghosting you the next day and avoiding your questions and talk abt something totally different 👍
This video gave me another vision about my crush, now i just wanna cry a little bit
Tbh I think that crushes are things that come and go and aren’t deep. I understand they can be so dreamy and so damn cute✨ but sometimes people don’t reciprocate ur feelings and that’s alright. It just means they weren’t for u and someone better out there is waiting for u.have hope
I like how this video comes up after my crush literally told me she’s lesbian, this is a just a dagger 😂😂
Just tell her you identify as a woman. 😊
Step 1: Have a crush
Step 2: confess
Step 3: rejected
Step 4: try again
Step 5: same cycle
Step 6: *Just give up man, no one is going to like you. It's just part of life.*
That literally defines me. Why can’t we all just be asexual or something. :(
Can i just say that i love the art style? It's so damn cute
As someone who has social anxiety and gets nervous around girls, it becomes hard to keep conversations going which is why I end up in these type of situations☹️
To me I thought my crush wasnt interested to me at first but after confessing and making her looking like a tomato I'd say She was after all
I really love them who are the people mentioned at the end credits❤well done it's really a great work and experience... Please upload more videos these are very helpful to this and our future generations... Please spread love and humanity
AHHH I love the art of this video! It’s so cute and I love the way they draw the hair 😭
To be fair, it could also mean that the other person does not necessarily want to pursue a relationship and/or doesn't know that you are interested in them on a romantic level.
As someone who was that other person at one point, it never crossed my mind that the other person had that level of interest towards me (mainly because I don't pick up on hints/signs like these at all). Literally 3 years later it finally clicked that they were likely interested in me. Am I kicking myself for it? Not really, it would have been nice but not a necessity. It is however an eye-opener as to how many hints I probably missed.
It's hard to know if they like they can just be friendly and that's all...I was the one who started the conversations and approached them and I got rejected a lot throughout highschool 7 times actually and always got stuck in the friendzone it's hard to accept the fact that they don't like you and that there's even a small hope that they might like you back😢
Thanks for this info. You’ve made me come to a realization. Thanks!
She treats everyone with a smile and small talk, I get nothing so I started to treat her like nothing.
I don’t know why I watch these videos, every single time they confirm I have zero chance. I don’t even know why I try anymore.
Crushing to me is an overall waste of time. Most of the people I crushed on never felt nearly the same.
I'm glad I expressed my interest.. she ain't given the same energy.. It's her loss. I want to give that energy to someone who reciprocates.
Your voice is so calming and relaxing
Is it possible for them to show these signs that they are disinterested, but are actually interested in you? If that makes sense.
Thats playing games
loved this art style
I did not need to watch this, to know that i will forever be alone.
Well, according to this video, I've been showing my crush that I'm NOT interested, but I just get really shy around them and act this way 😔
I always start conversations, and half of them are weather related, but they do have social anxiety and the conversations are usually very fun, so I’m still not sure
It's all pretty self explanationary. I never been my crushes type sadly 🤷🏾♀️
Same…
me literally relating to all of that and at the same time cant even tell when people are flirting with me.
This art style is very cute!!
The animation is sooooo cute!!
I behave like this to people I like, I don’t like having meaningful interactions with people I like because I’m shy
Everyone whose exprienced this and is still single, please be aware, not just that of the people who are uninterested, but to the people who are also interested but are too shy to say anything. I promise you, there will be a ton of people you meet throughout your life that will and/or already do find you attractive, you just have to meet them first and get to know them, because in this day and age, people are masters at masking their true feelings socially and need to feel safe enough before expressing their true feelings.
no female IVE crushed on these last 23 years has returned the chemistry
Luckily for me, I have zero crushes 😉☺️
How did you manage to achieve that?
@@Psych2go isolation and detachment
Hmmm
I see this but there are a few things that should be said in here.
If you speak about initiative conversation, it depends if its face to face or on phone
On phone sometimes its different.
Each person have his own texting comfort and style but when he/she does, it should be with affection and playful, if its plain and fast, he/she most likely not interested, unless the person is busy, if its all the time like this and he/she does not shows any approach sometimes forward, it could indicate that he/she does not sees you as a romantic partner.
It should be for both sides and you should see if he/she misses you.
If its 100% only on your side (always) thats almost certain that he/she does not sees you as a romantic partner, do not lose hope,
There are many more amazing people out there that could fit you as you fit them.
Stay safe ❤️
Number 3 & 4. 😃I mean I guess I just wasted a year of crushing on them.
Ah... thanks. Ill slap myself awake. N come back to this video again. And again and again.
Sadly my crush doesn’t like me…. It’s okay I always have fan fictions!
You can always have new crushes as well.
I’m not really interested to other people
The moment I got rejected this video got recommended and now it's too late to know😞
btw the drawings are so cute and amazing makes everything more interesting!!
I might have messed up. The girl I like probably had a thing for me, and because I seemed uninterested (not on purpose, I was absolutely bombarded with work), she probably got over me, stopped talking to me, and now I miss her so much. We talked a lot. I have no idea how to get her back. There's also the possibility that she never liked me, and found out I had a thing for her somehow, and is giving me the cold shoulder. I'm all grown up, and this is just sad.
The fact im here says something alot
2 years ago, there was a certain someone I cared abt. He was kind, funny, and in a way, cute. But when his best friend shipped me and him for some reason, he did everything that was on that list in the video. At first, I thought it was me and that I did something wrong and I felt hurt by his actions. But I realized he didn’t deserve my attention and respect, so I would never look his way and even if we made eye contact, I would give the cold stare. A few weeks ago (back then was middle school and now it’s high school), my teacher decided to put him next to me. It was very. Very. Awkward. We haven’t spoken abt the past but we’re still def talking only for school. He keeps looking at me and smiling at me whenever I spoke with him. I made sure not to talk to him when it’s necessary. I’m trying to convince myself that this is all a trick but it’s hard when he’s acting so nice like back then.
the amount of crushes i had that i never knew liked me or not and i just selfishly assumed that they didn't just to spare my heart from hurting itself 😂 btw, i really love the animation in this video 😍
The starting conversations is basically me, no matter how I try to at least be closer friends to them. I'm also the Conversation starter
I never have the courage to talk to them (introvert), and when they find out the secret from my friends, I get friend-zoned Lol 💔
Me when the closest i have come to my crush is us waving to eachother whenever we see eachother and saying hi! :D:
Even though I can't read any of these signs irl it stills hurts my chest when I watch these vids..
I like this style of animation better ❤
Wow the animation is gorgeous in this video
Perfect timing...
Thanks for useful and valuable video as always ❤❤❤
This is me………. 😔
And I don’t know if my crush likes me or not… She’s said she likes me… And that I’m “handsome af”… but our conversations aren’t very productive… and yes… sadly I’m the one starting the conversations….. 😔
Whoever did this animation needs a raise
I really like the art style in this video. Good hybrid between the classic psych2go style and chibi.
Yea exercise helps me to run away from my feelings i just dont wanna feel anything anymore
We font even talk, we just stare at each other and ignore each other 💀
About the conversations:
I always start the conversations but I still think she has a crush on me. Why?:
I do catch her looking at me oftenly. I think that she doesnt have the confidence to come and start a conversation. But she really does have different ways of expanding the duration of the conversation.
Maybe someone will find this comment helpful.👋🏻