Difficulties in Relationships according to The Human Design System

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  • @benevolentconcepts
    @benevolentconcepts ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Oh, boy …. Holding my breath about Depp and Heard. I looked into their charts in depth…. I also read the UK judgment and have a strong opinion as to what happened between them.
    There was a Neptune Transit of Gate 37 going on back in 2014-2015(ish), which I think gave Depp temporary access to his emotions via the Channel of Community, which activated both his conscious and unconscious Pluto in Gate 40 - causing him to feel a strong desire to enter into a bargain (marriage).
    When the transit passed, these two were left with each-other - 0 electromagnetics, only compromise and dominance.
    I don’t know how much you know about their relationship, but Depp is on audio recordings saying that she was never real, implying that he fell in love with an illusion that was never there - I attribute that to the Neptune transit in Gate 37 creating the illusion that they would make good spouses, and that all vanishing when the transit passed.
    And Amber Compromises Depp in the Channel of Struggle, from my perspective, that left Depp feeling unstable in their conflicts. Again, there is plenty of evidence of physical violence between them … I won’t say more, as I am not here to stir controversy.
    DEPP’s ‘Monster’ is his unconscious, highly defined emotional system.
    I think (17-62 speaking…) these two were meant to play out the death of the Cross of Planning Tribal energy by breaking down the allure of the 37-40 on the world stage.
    I was going to make a video analyzing their connection and call it:
    “Amber & Johnny: The Maelstrom that Sank the Illusion of Love and Marriage.”
    (Maelstrom being a reference to both Pirates and Aquaman’s nautical elements)
    Then I (splenic P) lost the energy for it 😂
    I have paused the video to write this off the top of my head, I will see what you say now.
    🙏✨

    • @benevolentconcepts
      @benevolentconcepts ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, their entire connection was based on Compromise and Dominance, only.
      Depp obviously dominated in terms of Emotions, Will and Identity.
      Amber’s Spleen and Sacral must have been quite alluring to Depp.
      I am also an 18-58, and I feel strong resonance with Amber the Activist.
      If you have never seen Amber in her Activism, I implore you to seek videos of her, especially when she is working with children (her 27-50 + 18-58 + 28-38 in action = Stunning)🙏✨

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Excellent! I love that you have gone deeply into their relationships dynamics and the transit that brought them together. :)

    • @LauraINFJ
      @LauraINFJ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is Brilliant! People need to see this video 🙏

    • @vivienschnelle9476
      @vivienschnelle9476 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, this is so interesting and it resonates a lot with me for my own relationship because we have a very difficult compatibility and I just can’t wrap my head around what that is. Can you let me know where I can find out about the transits of the past years?

    • @Emily-dt2xy
      @Emily-dt2xy ปีที่แล้ว

      Very interesting take. I’m new to learning about Human Design so I’m not criticising your take but Amber Heard was abusive towards her ex partner, her own sister and an ex assistant. There is a pattern of destructive behaviour surrounding her so whilst I believe that it was toxic between her and Depp, I believe she was the problematic one in their relationship which caused it to turn toxic. He is on numerous audio tapes begging for peace and for the violence to stop and she is the one saying she can’t promise she won’t get physical with him again and admits to hitting him and starting physical fights.

  • @missj794
    @missj794 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Interesting. There should be a human design dating site where they match up your charts for compatibility.

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hi MissJ, Nice idea. I did try it. It doesn't work :)

    • @wakingtheworld
      @wakingtheworld ปีที่แล้ว

      @@humandesigninfo It was top heavy with women chasing few guys as well....

    • @shmooglevitz7281
      @shmooglevitz7281 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@humandesigninfoi've heard, "don't date by design. Date who makes you happy"

  • @poebeth
    @poebeth ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There’s a lot to be said about intertype relationships and I’m looking forward to what you might share. Also, the dominance of centres in a relationship. Now that I know HD, it has put in perspective what always tends to happen to me in relationships. I’m a splenic projector - no motor. I’ve always been with motorized guys. That in itself brings all sorts of challenges. Particularly one emotional and the other non-emotional. The emotional feeling the unemotional as cold. The unemotional feeling the domination of the wave. Seeing the helplessness of it all in HD is so useful. Having this knowledge has allowed me to move into the first relationship in my life where I feel aware and not completely lost in the other and their film. The challenges remain - the energetic challenge is a big one, and, like you said, it’s about being able to manage them together or not. It’s where HD’s rubber meets the road, really. In relationship. Thanks for beginning to explore this topic!

  • @RocAurora2910
    @RocAurora2910 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please do more of these ... so helpful

  • @miny_moni
    @miny_moni ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video with great insights!
    thank you!
    💜

  • @hagarmahlevbfsbeafreespiri4408
    @hagarmahlevbfsbeafreespiri4408 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    wonderful and richfull explanation❤️

  • @Irene.Era.
    @Irene.Era. ปีที่แล้ว

    ‘Hellooo, and welcome to my YT channel on Human Design’ it starts to feel like Home!! Thanks Richard. May ‘the Human Design star’🌟in 2023 help us all unravel our beautiful individuality. Love from Brazil

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw Irene, that's so sweet! I'm happy to bring a sense of 'home' to you :)

  • @deenarocco8908
    @deenarocco8908 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So insightful your discussion about their charts and overlap! Learning a ton from your videos Richard. Thank you! 😊

  • @TheLailaelbazi
    @TheLailaelbazi ปีที่แล้ว

    Wauw really happy to see and realise no HD compromisses are done when I overlap the relationship charts of mine, two friendship channels (I thought that's when you have the same?) and five electromagnetic connections. Would love to see a video like this one on those connections. Thank you again Richard!

  • @j8590
    @j8590 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tthank you Richard and Best wishes for a Happy New Year!🍀❤

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same to you! Jamina D. Although in Human Design terms, the New Year is on the 22nd Jan. :)

  • @lorisharing4142
    @lorisharing4142 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Richard! This is fantastic. I'm wondering too about dynamics where each person carries just one side of a channel. Any chance you have a video and/or course on that topic? Thanks again!

  • @iheartastrology7877
    @iheartastrology7877 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful video thank you! I feel like relationships are one of the top areas i first saw dramatic changes in once i started experimenting with my human design. Also I fell deeply in love with human design so it kinda caused a love wave to ripple throughout my whole life. ❤

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wonderful! I know exactly what you mean :)

  • @julesnaraine
    @julesnaraine ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy New Year Richard! 😊

  • @starshine7937
    @starshine7937 ปีที่แล้ว

    So interesting!! Thank you Richard !!

  • @karinvancaspel
    @karinvancaspel ปีที่แล้ว

    Very interesting! And thank you for pointing out that it’s nobody’s fault: that is a very good place to start!
    My partner and I both have 2 channels for ourselves, 2 of the same channels that we both have completely, 4 that we create when we’re together, and 6 channels where I am compromising.
    Interestingly, those 6 comprising channels are all in my Saturn and Neptune. He does have a great influence on the way I experience reality. It helps to keep communicating (especially me with my open throat to him with his defined throat) - and of course for me to have a walk outside on my own ;)

  • @wakingtheworld
    @wakingtheworld ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another fascinating vid, Richard [need to find a synonym for that word!]
    It's a minefield... but with understanding and an 'acceptance of the things you cannot change' (the wiring) I reckon one can make most relationships 'work'. Environment is a biggie though and in addition, the 'open G' wants the residence/its location/interior decor their way. How do 2 open 'G's' cope? Separate houses I feel. Then there are all those other boxes, outside HD, that need ticking... Some are crucial for me which rules out most guys... never mind the tall, dark and handsome aspect. Lol... It's a nightmare...
    P.S. But don't forget folks, that Richard does compatibility analyses for couples and unless you're a pro yourself, this would be essential for both parties...

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Cassandra. For the record, two Open G's will probably want to move to a new place together. P.S. Just for the record I've paused my reading service for a few months to concentrate on new work. Yes, relationships are a minefield - but if S & A makes the decisions, even if they don't last they can be immensely nourishing and important to one's life. :)

    • @wakingtheworld
      @wakingtheworld ปีที่แล้ว

      @@humandesigninfo Hmmm, so one likes an older property full of character, the other prefers more modern and streamlined... Then what? There'd possibly be a difference of colour scheme preference too. I know I'm jumping the gun so guess it's a Q of 'meet that bridge when you come to it'...

  • @RokSivante
    @RokSivante ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My body/unconscious sun in gate 21 of control was compromised in my marriage. NOT recommended. Lol.
    I also found it interesting to observe in hindsight the dynamic that often occurred in fights of what was probably a negative feedback loop - my open ego center amplifying her definition, and her open G amplifying my defined. Often wonder how differently it could’ve gone with that simple awareness, being able to recognize and pull out of the loop rather than having let it repeatedly escalate to blowout. Alot of wisdom to be extracted in grasping such mechanics as these.

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes Rok, I can understand how difficult that compromise would have been. Sure we can wonder "what if", but now you have so much more wisdom of mechanics, I trust there is now a more engaged implementation of what you know in your connection to others. Give yourself a break about the past, we can only operate from what we know. :)

  • @sueanndayton3458
    @sueanndayton3458 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Richard. ABSOLUTELY Fascinating. It would also be interesting to hear your Analysis and a chart example of what appears to be a loving, functional and fun relationship. I'm interested in how the number of Companionship and or Electromagnetic channels come into play. I will review at some point your wonderful material on relationships. Im Grateful for you and your resources. In the meantime life is Full and Very Satisfying....ok I do miss the Mountains. Happiest of Happy New Year Richard!

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you Sue Ann. I would certainly enjoy doing an analysis of a harmonic partnership. I do appreciate your support. Wishing you a Happy 2023 too, may it conintue to be full and satisfying :)

  • @ratnakwok3972
    @ratnakwok3972 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
    Need to learn a lot from you 🙏

  • @theliterarytarot
    @theliterarytarot 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so interesting. I wish you could do a composite with me and a particular person I know 😂 we both have the channel of mutation

  • @terrelltaylorjr8608
    @terrelltaylorjr8608 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do you have anything about a 9-0 relationship combined chart?

  • @brittrubin9461
    @brittrubin9461 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So in other words we should all live and sleep in our own space ?

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes. This will be hard for some of those with Tribal Channels and cuddles are very important to them. So for them, I wouldn't want to make a hard line with "always". Awareness of one's own nature aurically can be regained if you've been in HD for a while. :)

  • @nataliagrace4
    @nataliagrace4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you offer HD relationship readings? ❤

  • @christiee.4204
    @christiee.4204 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Richard. Your videos are very helpful. My fiancé and I have been experiencing this wonderful awakening for about 5 months now. He is a 4/6 Manifesting Generator and I’m a a 3/5 Projector. We also have fixed G and Will centers, the rest are open. In composite we share a few channels but specifically the 26/44, both of us are in the unconscious but I also have the 44 concious. This channel has got me stumped. How do we decondition and use this in our lives. Neither of us want anything to do with sales. Any suggestions?

  • @fairyluvv0
    @fairyluvv0 ปีที่แล้ว

    ​@humandesigninfo Can you tell me anything about these channels a romantic interest and I complete for each other?😢
    He has: 52,5,46,16,11,54,22 and is a splenic projector
    I have: 9,15,29,48,56,32,12 and am a 1/3 Generator w sacral authority. It has been difficult for us to get on the same page. If you could shed some light on this, it would be appreciated. Thx in advance!

  • @brittrubin9461
    @brittrubin9461 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are there any designs that work well together ?

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wish it were that simple Britt. The quick answer: Someone who knows Human Design and can understand themselves. :)

  • @Supercoololive
    @Supercoololive ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @maysaraali5772
    @maysaraali5772 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @tamelashafer8852
    @tamelashafer8852 ปีที่แล้ว

    💜♾🙏🏼🕉