How to Stop Wanting to Buy Stuff | Deinfluencing Yourself

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ม.ค. 2024
  • How to finally stop buying things that you DON'T NEED. Whether it's to create a wardrobe that you actually love or to purchase things that you will actually get a lot of use out of. In today's video, I'll be sharing 5 simple tips that I use almost every single time that I am going to buy something. These tips help me save money and shop much more consciously. These tips will prevent you from feeling like you have nothing to wear, despite having a closet full of clothes.
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  • @shellbell8062
    @shellbell8062 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    My favourite point is the one about paying everything first and then deciding if your budget has the capacity for shopping. If you have loans, credit card bills etc you shouldn't be shopping; you're just digging yourself into a deeper hole. It's so easy to do when everything is accessible with a few clicks and you don't have a realistic perspective of how much you are spending.

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Couldn't agree more.

  • @julialongo
    @julialongo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The wishlist really works, I often go back to my wishlist and find that I’ve changed my mind about the item !

  • @myhazyyyy8512
    @myhazyyyy8512 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    heavy on the wishlists! as a thrifter, they helped me stop buying useless junk
    i've also made a rule that whenever i go thrifting, i donate things i don't wear. i think our generation is leaning towards hoarding tendencies with all the overconsumption. my grandpa was a hoarder and it is scary! glad influencers like you are promoting safe habits ❤

  • @violetteg.1709
    @violetteg.1709 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I've been making wishlists since 2018 and can hands down say this has helped my spending SO much. As always, love all of your tips Gemary. You're a great influence on the internet, thank you for another great video!

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yessss, wishlists help me TREMENDOUSLY. & tysm 🥹🤍

  • @alanascialo808
    @alanascialo808 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This video title is literally THE thing I need to work on this year. Thank you Gemary!!!

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Let’s start 2024 off STRONG! 💪🏻 you got this.

  • @jenntruong6023
    @jenntruong6023 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good tips overall! I have always made wishlists and I also save up for my shopping trips! Those shopping trips usually happen for my birthday, Black Friday, Christmas, and Mother's Day!

  • @coronnss
    @coronnss 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The timing of this video is so perfect! Have you ever considered making a video on how you organize your finances/save? If so, this would definitely be a video I would enjoy seeing in the future.

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yess, I’ll put something together for a future video 🤍🤍

  • @anjelicaa
    @anjelicaa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A tip I have is to go into the dressing room & try on every single item you’re considering purchasing because even though you know your size it’s not the same as trying it on & seeing how the clothes lay on your body.

  • @hermig1711
    @hermig1711 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just came across this video and it was a good reminder to not get sucked into buying things that aren't for my body type - though I admire other's aesthetics, I have come into the awareness that I can admire things but I don't have to own them if the aesthetic doesn't match me. I'm still figuring out what does but that will come with time. Thanks for your tips!

  • @Maybequizz
    @Maybequizz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It had been a while since I watched your channel. I don't know how to explain it but you seem more mature and confident now ❤

  • @Loveroflifee
    @Loveroflifee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Please continue to make these! Such great advice thank you! ❤️

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @thisisme6137
    @thisisme6137 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    YES, YES, YES... tysm, Gemary! ❤

  • @renadalqarni7055
    @renadalqarni7055 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this - I appreciate how your advice is against your interests

  • @abbyjenkins7212
    @abbyjenkins7212 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was amazing❤️ Danke

  • @reggieb5145
    @reggieb5145 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you I really needed this message to be reminded to focus on my own body type

  • @biancacifuentes357
    @biancacifuentes357 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video was so helpful. Love your content. Ty ❤

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @jasminetyxo
    @jasminetyxo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your content so much!! This was so helpful 🖤

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @nicolem9884
    @nicolem9884 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for this video!

  • @giafassion
    @giafassion 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great content!!!

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ty 🤍🤍

  • @zozofab02
    @zozofab02 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Thank you for posting this. I needed this as a guide for more proactive tips. I started cutting down consumption last year in all categories. I got much better and am trying to remain consistent in this new year 💕😤.

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You got this!!! 👏🏻👏🏻

    • @zozofab02
      @zozofab02 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Gemaryermus Thank you 😤💪🏽. I’m definitely going to try lol 😂

  • @cristinaph
    @cristinaph 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are looking amazing, Mama! ❤ Happy new year! 🥂

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww tysm 🥹🤍

  • @mingomango1
    @mingomango1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One thing I do if I want something but know I don't need it and can't justify buying it for myself is simply asking for it as a gift for my birthday or xmas. I only do this for close friends and family where I have a general sense for what their budget for a gift would be for me so I don't ask for something too expensive for their budget. It's been great because it eliminates the gifting anxiety a lot of people might have and I also know I will love what I get!

  • @LittleDogTobi
    @LittleDogTobi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love your vids!

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you 🥹🤍

  • @z-6517
    @z-6517 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What you said around 4:20 is very true and I use this even with makeup/beauty. Using seasonal color analysis has helped a lot.

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Such a good point. I love my light neutrals but darker colors and just colors in general work so much better for me! I want to do a future video on this.

    • @z-6517
      @z-6517 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You should definitely do it! I think the video would be amazing. It took me a long time for me to figure out my type because videos always made it seem that hair and eye color mattered a lot when figuring it out, but that's actually secondary according to some. So I went from thinking I was neutral, leaning warm to neutral, leaning slightly cool. My makeup looks 10x better and I don't get influenced as much on makeup. I just get inspired, or I get more discerning on what colors to pick. Even if they're not my exact type, I borrow from the whole season or sneak options from the other cool season. It's like I've saved more money but have gotten to know myself, and love myself.@@Gemaryermus

  • @lgreen2605
    @lgreen2605 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am influenced to buy this green too!

  • @bipi420
    @bipi420 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loooved this video! Love from germanyyy 🎉😊

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🤍🤍🤍

  • @robyngarver7869
    @robyngarver7869 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gemary, I would love to know how you (or your viewers) found the Adidas Samba shoes to fit. Are they true to size or do they run large? Love your videos! Thanks so much!

  • @butterification
    @butterification 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gemary your videos don't show up on my feed anymore 😢. However I have to actually search for your name to get to see any new content 👍 Happy New Year ❤

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aww man, yea idk why TH-cam keeps doing that. Maybe try unsubscribing and re-subscribing + turning notifications on so that it refreshes your subscription? I’ve tried contacting TH-cam about it and it’ impossible to get ahold of anyone. 😭🤍

  • @AM-qx5my
    @AM-qx5my 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video! Love your content. What size did you get the sweater you are wearing? Thank you

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! I got a medium

  • @mykaydiaries1569
    @mykaydiaries1569 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! You look very pretty! Is it a new haircut? You look very good! 😍😍

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aw thank you!! 🥹 I just blow dried my hair 😂

  • @yunarikku2723
    @yunarikku2723 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What bra are you wearing for this blouse? I have one similar and have no idea what bra would work!

  • @Chi_di
    @Chi_di 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where if your top from?

  • @shaywilliams3358
    @shaywilliams3358 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have done this yesterday….

  • @rebeccamendoza2969
    @rebeccamendoza2969 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    where did you get you sweater from?

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's from oak & fort. I have a direct link on my Shopmy page, it's linked in the description 🤍🤍

  • @valeriar3346
    @valeriar3346 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    where is the sweater from? such a beautiful color

  • @luisaermus6048
    @luisaermus6048 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤☝️👍👍👍

  • @--Singularity--
    @--Singularity-- 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    1. Pay Taxes
    2. Pay Bills
    3. Save your money

  • @michelles9897
    @michelles9897 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤎🤍🖤🤎🤍🖤

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @adriluda
    @adriluda 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Loved this video! I'll admit, your content has influenced me on a few occasions haha. Having said that, these are items that i still have and enjoy to this day 🤍

    • @Gemaryermus
      @Gemaryermus  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yay! Yesss. As long as your getting use out of it! That is the more important thing.🤍🤍