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My ex ( baby daddy) told me he does not see himself getting married and told me he is still looking for the right woman , mind you I stayed for 6 years knowing. Listening is very important. But thank God I left even though it took me so long I am glad its over
Hi Mpoomy and Brenden, I'm just a teen, just turned 18 on April. I love these conversations guys #ourlovejournery, even though I'm far from getting married but I'm taking notes for the future. Thank you so much and please just keep on giving us wisdom
I understand the emphasis on communication however, I feel like we need equal emphasis on comprehension. What good is communication if someone is listening but not comprehending? The person should show in their actions that they’ve taken note of your concerns/ communication. I really enjoyed this topic.
10:38 Absolutely agree 150% . At a certain age, guard your heart and be respectful of the other persons emotions and spirit. Just asking out someone without having done due diligence is detrimental.
Just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. It was a mutual decision I'm taking it day by day. We did all the right things the foundation was there and everything. We had communication we had everything but somehow she just hurt and she couldn't be happy with me I had to let her go for her to find her joy.
I think my younger cousins need to hear this. I was never big on titles, my husband is the longest I ever had. While I was dating I never made any new relationship official until I knew what was going on. We need to teach young girls and boys what dating is.... To manage expectations and assumptions..... Dating means getting to know each other via hanging out together but it doesn't mean you are an official couple....... Hence put breaks on ukuba umakoti, cooking cleaning etc while dating🤣🤣🤣
This channel is everything for me! It positively contributes so much to my mental health. I love you guys for creating this channel and moulding it into something this meaningful. I pray that God continues to give u the wisdom to cone up with more of these important topics.
I like how informative your content is Mpoomy. it's relatable. It really helps us (the youth) to take informed decisions about our life in general. Not that we CANT take them on our own, but hearing someone elses experiences and realizing that you've walked that path and perhaps struggled to deal with the situation, it may help with the future similar encounters. I love how the both of you do not paint your life "perfect" as Christians as well.
"today I'm cutting you so much"... That thoughtfulness😊. Very sweet. Interesting conversations. I'm married 5 years with an amazing man!... And sometimes as a woman it's hard to understand and accept the real make-up of a man in general but I love how you guys discuss so comfortably. I'm grateful to God and for Him giving us close and senior couple friends that we learn from who have strong Godly principles about life as a whole. ❤️
Yoh. This topic. I've been recently feeling like my current relationship just isn't it but we just started dating and I like him a lot. But my guts tell me he doesn't like me back. So this video gives a clearer perspective. Thank you.
The most beautiful conversation ever😄🥰😍🥰I love how he said "wow today I am cutting you too much, I am sorry.."ncooh Love is beautiful.. Brenden is the referee here, 😂
My words right out of my mouth, I said to my mom when she asked what went wrong between me and my ex-husband and I said to her I fell inlove with the person he pretended to be and eventually he couldn't keep up with the act so true colours started showing and man oh man after investing a good 8yrs dating and one year of marriage and two beautiful boys I faced my biggest fear and just left and started all over again, my life is not perfect but I've been at so much peace oh my🙌
Just because someone calls you “makoti” during the dating phase does not mean that they will marry you. They will hurt you. Once you start dating someone and their friends say “nangu Umakoti wethu” Weeh just know ukuthi no. Because the friends of your boyfriend are always on his side. He will play you like nobodies business but his friends will act like his not doing anything. He must ask you out and avoid being called names before you are that title. Makoti naming needs lobola.
I've heard what Brendon said about stating your expectations from another male. I think sometimes some women are afraid to state their expectations because they're afraid of loosing the person, unfortunately this can be a waste of time and lead to the heart break that was being avoided
This is literally preparing for my first ever successful relationship , i never used to express the cause of my insecurities and it scared my prev partners 🤨 but some really played a huge role on those insecurities,
Hahahahh Mpoomy will never win the debate of pictures. 🤣 I used to explain to my husband the same way that I do it for memories to relive the moment and he would give me the same answer as Brenden “it’s in your head”😩 it’s not the same guys! We tried to meet each other half way 🤣♥️
So true Brenden it's important to put out your expectations saves you so much drama. It's saved me from so much future drama and it scared away the wrong guys
Firstly we appreciate this content , it’s so real and raw. A lot Of open mindedness from sis Mpoomi. Brandon makes a good point about pictures, I still cannot understand why but sometimes it’s necessary...as long as the intention is pure .
I love the importance of expressing your intention from the onset, WHATEVER the intention is. It truly eliminates a lot of doubt and insinuations. If it’s “I like you but I want to take time to get to know you”, it’s OK. The person still has a choice on whether they want to linger on or not. I love the importance of also expressing your idea of a relationship. My husband said to me after 2 months of getting to know each other…”I want to marry you but if you have no intentions of getting married, let me know so I move on”. In that moment I just thought “what dude is this”…but it spoke about intentionality and it made me refocus and rethink as well. A great video for our young couples “courting” or having intention to truly want to start something. LET US NOT IGNORE FLAGS…they won’t go away if you don’t address them.
I agree, make time to spend with your partner, watch sunsets together or go chill at the park.. It's not always supposed to be fancy... Just simple stuff.
Just stopped by again just to save this for my kids especially my daughter. I had this convo with my father after the fact and it freed me. I’m at a good and happy place and I know I wouldn’t have been if it wasn’t for that.
I love how comfortable you are to share your past with Brandon around. I'm not sure that my hubby would be as comfortable 🙈 never tried. Perhaps I will some day. We spoke about previous relationships obviously when we started dating. To just understand where we've been but it's like a closed topic now. Maybe because we have never really had a reason to talk about it, like you guys do because of podcast and questions from your viewers.
I think guys feel uncomfortable with this kinda topics, also depending on the depth of the details I guess. Once did and he wanted to throw up, he was sick to the stomach 😬🤕
Thoroughly enjoyed this and thank you for these communications. My single self is learning and taking notes, strong points you mentioned there. I am allowing my self to learn for my next loving and healthy relationship. I have failed to communicate in my previous relationship cause I always thought I'll scare the guy away, but as time went by, I realized that this thinking got me to point were I was not happy about things and just let them slide which I ended up ending things cause wow it was underwhelming. Wow I cannot believe I ridiculed so many redflags and so many gut feelings cause I was not aware of who I was nor what I wanted.
This is unrelated to the video but as young girl from Middelburg myself. Watching you Mpumi really inspires me to be more and do better . You truly are one of our own role model😭 Keep shining ❤.
I have learnt that pipo go through alot to get that perfect person to settle with🤕...but honestly in the end u #Praise #Jesus💖 4 the person u settle with
Communication- some guys will make you sound crazy for wanting to Determine the status of the situation/relationship. That fight about “what are we?”… hayibo kanti who else must a lady ask if not you brother since you are the one I’m talking with? Dating culture can be such a toxic environment because of lack of true intentions
Because the guy hold the cards of whether it's vibes, a relationship or not, or relationship for marriage, that's why it is a fight. All you can do as a women is work with standards and make him work with them until you know where you stand or your worth
@Tiyisela Baloyi ; but that doesn’t excuse the fact that gents start things or disturb a lady in her peace while having no real intentions. If it’s just vibes, it should also be communicated. Not this I must wait and see thing. People sit 5 years in waiting because he is the one who holds the cards??? No sir
@@LuthandoLuyanda Yessss I don't disregard the accountability a man must take. That's the other problem, the wait and see thing gets dragged for longer than it should. The problem with a man is he knows what you are looking for so if you invest yourself and tell him what you want before he says anything and still no clear answer it's better to leave because he can use words to manipulate you to stay, always wait for him to say where he stands with you
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I love this video. It's the best... on a serious note: I love how you guys are just so comfortable to talk about exes and your past. That's just shows that all channels of communication are open... thank you guys
Got to work this morning and I took some time out to go say a prayer ... you guys heard my prayer, telling God that I think I want to be in a relationship. Feel like this was an are you sure questionnaire. Thank you
Watching our love journey has officially become part of my weekly routine! I love it here!! I feel like I’m understanding myself better (watching you guys has made be introspect very often) This is the content I signed up for🙌🏽
Insomnia hit and I’m here watching this. I enjoyed the conversation, it’s funny how as a young girl there were so many red flags in the relationships then but I didn’t even acknowledge them. Also enjoyed how you guys threw vernac here and there👌🏼
This coach is a legend mpoomy....It never seem out of place always ready to fit in with the deco. Oh and nice video. Been enjoying and learning lots. Thanks I appreciate the time. 🎷🎷🎷
Brenden: "if I haven't mentioned that siyajola then asijoli, we're just hanging out" 😂🤣🤣so basically in life a relationship is a relationship only when a guy is serious about it🤷♀️😆ayisembi
My ex has been nothing but amazing, very intentional, communication was awesome, everything was just awesome... I honestly wish I met him when I was ready cos then it would have saved us a lot of heartache and unnecessary trauma that we've put each other through..
Yoooooo Brenden le pictures and memories "ona le Amnesia " 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Guys I love your channel . I have to say young adults will benefit ALOT from watching your channel. The wisdom, education, advise,the honesty is on another level . Communication, communication,communication , Eish communication
Wow you guys are truly used by God hey. So I broke up with someone this week and after the break up I started doubting my reasons for the break up and I was feeling really bad. But the Holy spirit has been assuring me that I made the right decision and this is another way He just confirmed to me that I made the right decision. Thank you so much guys❤
Generally speaking, the thing about a guy is when he wants to wife you & can wife you, he will. If they don't, then just know they are still looking. It's generally really that simple with guys.
Oh Gassssshhhhh i love taking pictures for memoirs to lay and go through one day with them to even laugh about as it reminds you about how long the relationship is coming and places you've visited together!! Its so beautiful to feel those emotions again when going down memory lane🤗🇳🇦🇳🇦 or just laugh about your fashion sense or how you've grown etc. Ps: Not for the social media as i barely most
The Sbu illustration just made me want to pee my pants 😂😂🤣 uSbu ukhuluma engathi wazalelwa eMeeting'ini 😭🤣 Yoh. This was a mind opening conversation ❤️ now I've made a conclusion about my own situation, thank you! ❤️
Great topic guys, thank you. Ja neh, SOME men really can change your outlook on men and love. I always say our definition of love really is messed up, by so many things - we only realise this when we start loving ourselves and being honest about the nonsense we've settled for in the past. Thank God for hindsight.
My ex ( baby daddy) told me he does not see himself getting married and told me he is still looking for the right woman , mind you I stayed for 6 years knowing. Listening is very important. But thank God I left even though it took me so long I am glad its over
Very true ❤️... I'm glad that you had the strength to leave 🙏🏽
Well done sis. Someone will appreciate and marry you in less than 6 years.
Well done sis, the biggest thing that matters is (YOU DID LEAVE)💕
@@reamogetsetjale2814 Absolutely.
You were hoping that he will eventually see that you are that right woman, big ups for leaving super proud of you!
The privacy vs secrecy topic is a big one !
Hey Mpumi and Brenden
I introduced my boyfriend to this channel, now I feel like he watches it more than me🙈, you guys are awesome... Thank you
I love Brendan's honesty in all this. He's genuine.
“Sometimes we have to allow each other to find out what’s real for us and what we want” impactful 🥺🔥🔥🔥.
Thoroughly enjoyed this chat! Mpoomy is right the gut feeling NEVER lies. Women always know! Thank you guys 🙏🏾
Always babe always!
Always. When you know you know..🤣🤣🤣🤣
Today's topic hit home 🥺🥺.
We find ourselves attached to people who haven't even said they like us like that.
Yoh😏🥺
You guys are the older siblings I never knew I needed!🥺❤️ Enjoyed this so much🤞🏽
Lol they are husband and wife!
Our Love Journey is a great blessing for us on TH-cam hle ❤❤❤
God bless this union❤
Brenden "so lento yama musician k'dala iqalile" 😂😂😂😂 I died!
lmao he is being extra
Same!! 😂🤣🤣
Brenden is extra🤣🤣🤣
No but same😭😭😭
I experienced something similar with a musician 😂😂😭so it hit the spot for me
The way I love how Mpoomy says 'Indoda yami'......... 😃
One thing about Brendon, he loves his wife❤️. Always touching, so beautiful guys.
I'm obsessed with this channel, I'm 23 and I learn a lot from you guys, you literally my gift from God
Hi Mpoomy and Brenden, I'm just a teen, just turned 18 on April. I love these conversations guys #ourlovejournery, even though I'm far from getting married but I'm taking notes for the future. Thank you so much and please just keep on giving us wisdom
It’s the Sotho for me 😂🥴 “Di bedroom relationships”
I love you guys wholeheartedly . ♥️😪
I understand the emphasis on communication however, I feel like we need equal emphasis on comprehension. What good is communication if someone is listening but not comprehending? The person should show in their actions that they’ve taken note of your concerns/ communication.
I really enjoyed this topic.
10:38 Absolutely agree 150% . At a certain age, guard your heart and be respectful of the other persons emotions and spirit. Just asking out someone without having done due diligence is detrimental.
Just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. It was a mutual decision I'm taking it day by day. We did all the right things the foundation was there and everything. We had communication we had everything but somehow she just hurt and she couldn't be happy with me I had to let her go for her to find her joy.
When Brenden said " ooooh you can't remember now, onale amnesia?" 😭😭😭💀🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think my younger cousins need to hear this. I was never big on titles, my husband is the longest I ever had. While I was dating I never made any new relationship official until I knew what was going on. We need to teach young girls and boys what dating is.... To manage expectations and assumptions..... Dating means getting to know each other via hanging out together but it doesn't mean you are an official couple....... Hence put breaks on ukuba umakoti, cooking cleaning etc while dating🤣🤣🤣
What you're saying is difenatley true we don't have anyone to teach us all this things it should be a topic even in schools
This 💯🙌🏾
This channel is everything for me! It positively contributes so much to my mental health. I love you guys for creating this channel and moulding it into something this meaningful. I pray that God continues to give u the wisdom to cone up with more of these important topics.
Love love this, always enjoy your talks!❤❤
Amen ♥️
I like how informative your content is Mpoomy. it's relatable. It really helps us (the youth) to take informed decisions about our life in general. Not that we CANT take them on our own, but hearing someone elses experiences and realizing that you've walked that path and perhaps struggled to deal with the situation, it may help with the future similar encounters. I love how the both of you do not paint your life "perfect" as Christians as well.
"today I'm cutting you so much"... That thoughtfulness😊. Very sweet. Interesting conversations. I'm married 5 years with an amazing man!... And sometimes as a woman it's hard to understand and accept the real make-up of a man in general but I love how you guys discuss so comfortably.
I'm grateful to God and for Him giving us close and senior couple friends that we learn from who have strong Godly principles about life as a whole. ❤️
Yoh. This topic. I've been recently feeling like my current relationship just isn't it but we just started dating and I like him a lot. But my guts tell me he doesn't like me back. So this video gives a clearer perspective. Thank you.
Im currently in that situation, things are great when we are together but when we not together he doesn't communicate. I called it quits though...
The most beautiful conversation ever😄🥰😍🥰I love how he said "wow today I am cutting you too much, I am sorry.."ncooh Love is beautiful.. Brenden is the referee here, 😂
My words right out of my mouth, I said to my mom when she asked what went wrong between me and my ex-husband and I said to her I fell inlove with the person he pretended to be and eventually he couldn't keep up with the act so true colours started showing and man oh man after investing a good 8yrs dating and one year of marriage and two beautiful boys I faced my biggest fear and just left and started all over again, my life is not perfect but I've been at so much peace oh my🙌
wow... this is deep thank you for sharing
I am here....As young as I am.....I love this couple and they inspire me in every aspect of my life. May God richly bless you in Jesus Name,Amen
Just because someone calls you “makoti” during the dating phase does not mean that they will marry you. They will hurt you. Once you start dating someone and their friends say “nangu Umakoti wethu” Weeh just know ukuthi no. Because the friends of your boyfriend are always on his side. He will play you like nobodies business but his friends will act like his not doing anything. He must ask you out and avoid being called names before you are that title. Makoti naming needs lobola.
Yebo including family. Until he sends the cows don't even
I've heard what Brendon said about stating your expectations from another male. I think sometimes some women are afraid to state their expectations because they're afraid of loosing the person, unfortunately this can be a waste of time and lead to the heart break that was being avoided
Absolutely. One has to be honest. If a batla go tsamaya then a tsamaye motho. 🤣
Your topics are everything ❤️! Love how you guys take them on so holistically ❤️
thank you! we love having yall
Lol It's Baby Talk Mpoomy...😁
"Ona Le Amnesia?"😂😂😂 Brenden Was Speaking For The Gents Here I'm So Triggered🤣
lol i was on the floor when he said that
😅😅😅😅😅😅
I died 😂😂🤣🤣😂
🤣😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is literally preparing for my first ever successful relationship , i never used to express the cause of my insecurities and it scared my prev partners 🤨 but some really played a huge role on those insecurities,
Hahahahh Mpoomy will never win the debate of pictures. 🤣 I used to explain to my husband the same way that I do it for memories to relive the moment and he would give me the same answer as Brenden “it’s in your head”😩 it’s not the same guys!
We tried to meet each other half way 🤣♥️
So true Brenden it's important to put out your expectations saves you so much drama. It's saved me from so much future drama and it scared away the wrong guys
Firstly we appreciate this content , it’s so real and raw. A lot Of open mindedness from sis Mpoomi. Brandon makes a good point about pictures, I still cannot understand why but sometimes it’s necessary...as long as the intention is pure .
I love the importance of expressing your intention from the onset, WHATEVER the intention is. It truly eliminates a lot of doubt and insinuations. If it’s “I like you but I want to take time to get to know you”, it’s OK. The person still has a choice on whether they want to linger on or not. I love the importance of also expressing your idea of a relationship. My husband said to me after 2 months of getting to know each other…”I want to marry you but if you have no intentions of getting married, let me know so I move on”. In that moment I just thought “what dude is this”…but it spoke about intentionality and it made me refocus and rethink as well. A great video for our young couples “courting” or having intention to truly want to start something. LET US NOT IGNORE FLAGS…they won’t go away if you don’t address them.
I agree, make time to spend with your partner, watch sunsets together or go chill at the park..
It's not always supposed to be fancy... Just simple stuff.
absolutely
Not wanting to take a picture together, it's a red flag for me.
lol not always, its important to ask why
I was like this, till I realized I was just embarrassed of the guy.
😂😂😂 not always. Privacy is good sometimes
@@muciikujoyce i like your honesty😂😂
or they're not confident in themselves especially within pictures
Brenden was like you have amnesia 😂😂😂😂. Mpoomy tell him that we as gurls love pictures that is one thing God gave us😂😂😂😂
"Pictures for eng? Onale amnesia?"- Brenden 2021
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿.
I died
😂😂😂😂😂
Did I not die😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Did I not die😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 threw me off
Sis dead😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 peak of this episode
Just stopped by again just to save this for my kids especially my daughter. I had this convo with my father after the fact and it freed me. I’m at a good and happy place and I know I wouldn’t have been if it wasn’t for that.
I love how comfortable you are to share your past with Brandon around. I'm not sure that my hubby would be as comfortable 🙈 never tried. Perhaps I will some day. We spoke about previous relationships obviously when we started dating. To just understand where we've been but it's like a closed topic now. Maybe because we have never really had a reason to talk about it, like you guys do because of podcast and questions from your viewers.
I also admire that about them coz wow, the conversations I’v had with my man about my ex were all such a cringe fest for him😂 so ay.
I think guys feel uncomfortable with this kinda topics, also depending on the depth of the details I guess. Once did and he wanted to throw up, he was sick to the stomach 😬🤕
@@malebelomaphutha6566 exactly!! Its rare for a man to be comfortable with this particular topic🤦🏾♀️ This is very admirable of Brandon👏
Brendon is always touching Mpoomy ❤️❤️❤️
Right?! Love it, it's so cute! ♥️
❤️❤️❤️
I've noticed and it's so cute I like it
re mo!!!!
Sila and we love it here💫
always...
Sila ❤️❤️❤️❤️☕
Sikhona. Enjoying the convo
Love your depth Brenden such an amazing man
Thoroughly enjoyed this and thank you for these communications.
My single self is learning and taking notes, strong points you mentioned there. I am allowing my self to learn for my next loving and healthy relationship.
I have failed to communicate in my previous relationship cause I always thought I'll scare the guy away, but as time went by, I realized that this thinking got me to point were I was not happy about things and just let them slide which I ended up ending things cause wow it was underwhelming.
Wow I cannot believe I ridiculed so many redflags and so many gut feelings cause I was not aware of who I was nor what I wanted.
🤗😍🤲🏽☯️⚖️
This may be pulling it, but would it be possible to have Mpoomy n Brenden on Defining 😊
Riiiiiiiight??????! 🙌🏾
I've beeeeeen saying 😭
Abeg!!😭😭
Yessss
Yes please we need to see it 🥰🥰🥰
I'm learning something new every time when I'm watching you guys thanks a lot for the advices,
This is unrelated to the video but as young girl from Middelburg myself. Watching you Mpumi really inspires me to be more and do better .
You truly are one of our own role model😭
Keep shining ❤.
I have learnt that pipo go through alot to get that perfect person to settle with🤕...but honestly in the end u #Praise #Jesus💖 4 the person u settle with
Your podcast is not rehearsed. I love that❤
Mpoomy's attempt to speaking Sepedi!!! Thoroughly enjoyed. Can't wait for more!!!
So true 👍if we don't listen to our gut feeling we fail ourselves
True. Our inner voice. It's louder than all other voices.
True ❤️
Yohhh Mpoomy my intuition has never ever failed me!!! I’ve learnt to listen because if I ignore it I get burnt
It's just how you look at Brenden for me🥰🥰🥰🥰
You can tell she's forever in love with her husband 💕❤
As always loved the conversation! I was a victim of being stringed along.. “ Bedroom relationships” killed me 😅😂🤣
Brenden is pouring out that truth that is SOOO needed
Brendan's "wankwishisha" takes me back home.😁🥺
Eish, I honestly miss home now 😂(Bushbuckridge, Mapulaneng)
Communication- some guys will make you sound crazy for wanting to Determine the status of the situation/relationship. That fight about “what are we?”… hayibo kanti who else must a lady ask if not you brother since you are the one I’m talking with? Dating culture can be such a toxic environment because of lack of true intentions
What's the meaning of hayibo kanti?
Because the guy hold the cards of whether it's vibes, a relationship or not, or relationship for marriage, that's why it is a fight. All you can do as a women is work with standards and make him work with them until you know where you stand or your worth
@@teeworld9524 it's just an expression to emphasize exxagaration
@Tiyisela Baloyi ; but that doesn’t excuse the fact that gents start things or disturb a lady in her peace while having no real intentions. If it’s just vibes, it should also be communicated. Not this I must wait and see thing. People sit 5 years in waiting because he is the one who holds the cards??? No sir
@@LuthandoLuyanda Yessss I don't disregard the accountability a man must take. That's the other problem, the wait and see thing gets dragged for longer than it should. The problem with a man is he knows what you are looking for so if you invest yourself and tell him what you want before he says anything and still no clear answer it's better to leave because he can use words to manipulate you to stay, always wait for him to say where he stands with you
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I love this video. It's the best... on a serious note: I love how you guys are just so comfortable to talk about exes and your past. That's just shows that all channels of communication are open... thank you guys
You are so amazing , real and honest . much love
Got to work this morning and I took some time out to go say a prayer ... you guys heard my prayer, telling God that I think I want to be in a relationship. Feel like this was an are you sure questionnaire. Thank you
I just love that patch of Grey hair 😍😍😍 beautiful!
The taking picture part kills me🤣😂. Bari “you got amnesia?”!! We’re suffering and all we want is pictures💁🏻♀️🤣🤣🤣..
The Sesotho part in this conversation is killing me 😭🤣🤣❣
Watching our love journey has officially become part of my weekly routine! I love it here!! I feel like I’m understanding myself better (watching you guys has made be introspect very often)
This is the content I signed up for🙌🏽
I love Mpoomy's laughter😍❤️
Insomnia hit and I’m here watching this. I enjoyed the conversation, it’s funny how as a young girl there were so many red flags in the relationships then but I didn’t even acknowledge them. Also enjoyed how you guys threw vernac here and there👌🏼
This coach is a legend mpoomy....It never seem out of place always ready to fit in with the deco.
Oh and nice video. Been enjoying and learning lots. Thanks I appreciate the time. 🎷🎷🎷
Brenden: "if I haven't mentioned that siyajola then asijoli, we're just hanging out" 😂🤣🤣so basically in life a relationship is a relationship only when a guy is serious about it🤷♀️😆ayisembi
Hectic right 🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣killed me hle
(can someone please translate that for me) I didn't understand what he said but his vibe was fun 🤣🤣
@@aloisianangombe115 if he hasn't that they're dating then they're NOT dating, ... just hanging out. Something like that
ahaa..🤣🤣🤣thank you
My ex has been nothing but amazing, very intentional, communication was awesome, everything was just awesome... I honestly wish I met him when I was ready cos then it would have saved us a lot of heartache and unnecessary trauma that we've put each other through..
Brenden dropping some Steve Harvey advice there. That's some wise advice Bro...
😅when Mpumi says "Indoda yam🤭😊" it hits😅😅
Abane ndlebe bavile. You guys nicely broke down the difference between being in a relationship and dating 🙌🏾
"Usbu ukhuluma ngathi Wazalelwa emeetingini" 🤣😂🤣😂🤣 I'm in stitches
When Brenden said. "Lento Yama musican kudala yaqala" 😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mpoomy has always been into musicians 🤣🤣🤣 Brendan sounds congested. Hope he gets better.
Thankyou Mr. Ledwaba being honest upfront from the beginning saves us from alot of drama.
Keep up the good work..I enjoy your content.
Yoooooo Brenden le pictures and memories "ona le Amnesia " 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Guys I love your channel . I have to say young adults will benefit ALOT from watching your channel. The wisdom, education, advise,the honesty is on another level .
Communication, communication,communication , Eish communication
I also love keeping pictures as a memory
This couple made me realise my worth,made me realise that true love does exist and settling for less is no longer in me.i love you guys so much ❤
"Bedroom relationship" yhoooo been there Bawo wam. Thank you guys for this video.....
I paused and loughed at myself... It's now I realise everything
BEKE LE BEKE 🔥🔥 Thank you Mpoomy & Brenden, now let me indulge 😍
Real helpful talks much needed especially by us the youth...
😂😂😍😍🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Your content and characters good people, testimony of God’s goodness in the land of the living 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💞💞 May He take you higher and higher.
Brandon's humor🤣🤣 as for "do u have amnesia"
True the playing wifey part went straight to my heart... Thanks for sharing, I have to introspect
#Much Love ♥️
“Maybe the fire is like a borne fire it’s meant to heat you up “ I’m in screaming 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This had me screaming 😂😂😂😂
Don’t stop guys keep continuing I am learning heeeeey I’ve been dating for 8 years with this man
Wow you guys are truly used by God hey. So I broke up with someone this week and after the break up I started doubting my reasons for the break up and I was feeling really bad. But the Holy spirit has been assuring me that I made the right decision and this is another way He just confirmed to me that I made the right decision. Thank you so much guys❤
Brenden is very accurate 👌🏿. If I don't say I love you and would love to be with you in the first week of dating just know I'm not in.
Mpoomy , this musician thing, I get it😂😂😂. Nna that’s the hill I’m living on 🤚🏾.
Mpoomy and Braiden content🔥🔥🙏
Communication, honesty and effort is the key.
Thank you
Generally speaking, the thing about a guy is when he wants to wife you & can wife you, he will. If they don't, then just know they are still looking. It's generally really that simple with guys.
Oh Gassssshhhhh i love taking pictures for memoirs to lay and go through one day with them to even laugh about as it reminds you about how long the relationship is coming and places you've visited together!! Its so beautiful to feel those emotions again when going down memory lane🤗🇳🇦🇳🇦 or just laugh about your fashion sense or how you've grown etc. Ps: Not for the social media as i barely most
The Sbu illustration just made me want to pee my pants 😂😂🤣 uSbu ukhuluma engathi wazalelwa eMeeting'ini 😭🤣 Yoh. This was a mind opening conversation ❤️ now I've made a conclusion about my own situation, thank you! ❤️
"listen to that gut feeling" I'm taking this and owning it because i always have regrets whenever i don't listen to my gut feeling.
These conversations are so healthy. Love ❤️
Great topic guys, thank you.
Ja neh, SOME men really can change your outlook on men and love. I always say our definition of love really is messed up, by so many things - we only realise this when we start loving ourselves and being honest about the nonsense we've settled for in the past. Thank God for hindsight.
I'm suppose to be editing at work but hey what will a 30 min break do....get me to trouble yeah but its worth the risk. WE HERE WE PRESENT!!!