My ex ( baby daddy) told me he does not see himself getting married and told me he is still looking for the right woman , mind you I stayed for 6 years knowing. Listening is very important. But thank God I left even though it took me so long I am glad its over
Just because someone calls you “makoti” during the dating phase does not mean that they will marry you. They will hurt you. Once you start dating someone and their friends say “nangu Umakoti wethu” Weeh just know ukuthi no. Because the friends of your boyfriend are always on his side. He will play you like nobodies business but his friends will act like his not doing anything. He must ask you out and avoid being called names before you are that title. Makoti naming needs lobola.
This channel is everything for me! It positively contributes so much to my mental health. I love you guys for creating this channel and moulding it into something this meaningful. I pray that God continues to give u the wisdom to cone up with more of these important topics.
Just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. It was a mutual decision I'm taking it day by day. We did all the right things the foundation was there and everything. We had communication we had everything but somehow she just hurt and she couldn't be happy with me I had to let her go for her to find her joy.
I think my younger cousins need to hear this. I was never big on titles, my husband is the longest I ever had. While I was dating I never made any new relationship official until I knew what was going on. We need to teach young girls and boys what dating is.... To manage expectations and assumptions..... Dating means getting to know each other via hanging out together but it doesn't mean you are an official couple....... Hence put breaks on ukuba umakoti, cooking cleaning etc while dating🤣🤣🤣
I understand the emphasis on communication however, I feel like we need equal emphasis on comprehension. What good is communication if someone is listening but not comprehending? The person should show in their actions that they’ve taken note of your concerns/ communication. I really enjoyed this topic.
10:38 Absolutely agree 150% . At a certain age, guard your heart and be respectful of the other persons emotions and spirit. Just asking out someone without having done due diligence is detrimental.
Hi Mpoomy and Brenden, I'm just a teen, just turned 18 on April. I love these conversations guys #ourlovejournery, even though I'm far from getting married but I'm taking notes for the future. Thank you so much and please just keep on giving us wisdom
Hahahahh Mpoomy will never win the debate of pictures. 🤣 I used to explain to my husband the same way that I do it for memories to relive the moment and he would give me the same answer as Brenden “it’s in your head”😩 it’s not the same guys! We tried to meet each other half way 🤣♥️
Yoh. This topic. I've been recently feeling like my current relationship just isn't it but we just started dating and I like him a lot. But my guts tell me he doesn't like me back. So this video gives a clearer perspective. Thank you.
My words right out of my mouth, I said to my mom when she asked what went wrong between me and my ex-husband and I said to her I fell inlove with the person he pretended to be and eventually he couldn't keep up with the act so true colours started showing and man oh man after investing a good 8yrs dating and one year of marriage and two beautiful boys I faced my biggest fear and just left and started all over again, my life is not perfect but I've been at so much peace oh my🙌
The most beautiful conversation ever😄🥰😍🥰I love how he said "wow today I am cutting you too much, I am sorry.."ncooh Love is beautiful.. Brenden is the referee here, 😂
I've heard what Brendon said about stating your expectations from another male. I think sometimes some women are afraid to state their expectations because they're afraid of loosing the person, unfortunately this can be a waste of time and lead to the heart break that was being avoided
This is unrelated to the video but as young girl from Middelburg myself. Watching you Mpumi really inspires me to be more and do better . You truly are one of our own role model😭 Keep shining ❤.
"today I'm cutting you so much"... That thoughtfulness😊. Very sweet. Interesting conversations. I'm married 5 years with an amazing man!... And sometimes as a woman it's hard to understand and accept the real make-up of a man in general but I love how you guys discuss so comfortably. I'm grateful to God and for Him giving us close and senior couple friends that we learn from who have strong Godly principles about life as a whole. ❤️
I like how informative your content is Mpoomy. it's relatable. It really helps us (the youth) to take informed decisions about our life in general. Not that we CANT take them on our own, but hearing someone elses experiences and realizing that you've walked that path and perhaps struggled to deal with the situation, it may help with the future similar encounters. I love how the both of you do not paint your life "perfect" as Christians as well.
So true Brenden it's important to put out your expectations saves you so much drama. It's saved me from so much future drama and it scared away the wrong guys
The Sbu illustration just made me want to pee my pants 😂😂🤣 uSbu ukhuluma engathi wazalelwa eMeeting'ini 😭🤣 Yoh. This was a mind opening conversation ❤️ now I've made a conclusion about my own situation, thank you! ❤️
Firstly we appreciate this content , it’s so real and raw. A lot Of open mindedness from sis Mpoomi. Brandon makes a good point about pictures, I still cannot understand why but sometimes it’s necessary...as long as the intention is pure .
Yoooooo Brenden le pictures and memories "ona le Amnesia " 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Guys I love your channel . I have to say young adults will benefit ALOT from watching your channel. The wisdom, education, advise,the honesty is on another level . Communication, communication,communication , Eish communication
Thoroughly enjoyed this and thank you for these communications. My single self is learning and taking notes, strong points you mentioned there. I am allowing my self to learn for my next loving and healthy relationship. I have failed to communicate in my previous relationship cause I always thought I'll scare the guy away, but as time went by, I realized that this thinking got me to point were I was not happy about things and just let them slide which I ended up ending things cause wow it was underwhelming. Wow I cannot believe I ridiculed so many redflags and so many gut feelings cause I was not aware of who I was nor what I wanted.
This is literally preparing for my first ever successful relationship , i never used to express the cause of my insecurities and it scared my prev partners 🤨 but some really played a huge role on those insecurities,
I agree, make time to spend with your partner, watch sunsets together or go chill at the park.. It's not always supposed to be fancy... Just simple stuff.
Niyangihlekisa yaz🤣🤣🤣 I've always been up front and wanted to be sure what we doing. Strangest thing is that it didn't work out with clarity with my then bf now husband. I thought we were still getting to know each other and he thought we were already gf and bf,... Thats how the awekward first kiss went 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭 15 years later am glad that awekward kiss happened
I have learnt that pipo go through alot to get that perfect person to settle with🤕...but honestly in the end u #Praise #Jesus💖 4 the person u settle with
I love the importance of expressing your intention from the onset, WHATEVER the intention is. It truly eliminates a lot of doubt and insinuations. If it’s “I like you but I want to take time to get to know you”, it’s OK. The person still has a choice on whether they want to linger on or not. I love the importance of also expressing your idea of a relationship. My husband said to me after 2 months of getting to know each other…”I want to marry you but if you have no intentions of getting married, let me know so I move on”. In that moment I just thought “what dude is this”…but it spoke about intentionality and it made me refocus and rethink as well. A great video for our young couples “courting” or having intention to truly want to start something. LET US NOT IGNORE FLAGS…they won’t go away if you don’t address them.
Just stopped by again just to save this for my kids especially my daughter. I had this convo with my father after the fact and it freed me. I’m at a good and happy place and I know I wouldn’t have been if it wasn’t for that.
Communication- some guys will make you sound crazy for wanting to Determine the status of the situation/relationship. That fight about “what are we?”… hayibo kanti who else must a lady ask if not you brother since you are the one I’m talking with? Dating culture can be such a toxic environment because of lack of true intentions
Because the guy hold the cards of whether it's vibes, a relationship or not, or relationship for marriage, that's why it is a fight. All you can do as a women is work with standards and make him work with them until you know where you stand or your worth
@Tiyisela Baloyi ; but that doesn’t excuse the fact that gents start things or disturb a lady in her peace while having no real intentions. If it’s just vibes, it should also be communicated. Not this I must wait and see thing. People sit 5 years in waiting because he is the one who holds the cards??? No sir
@@LuthandoLuyanda Yessss I don't disregard the accountability a man must take. That's the other problem, the wait and see thing gets dragged for longer than it should. The problem with a man is he knows what you are looking for so if you invest yourself and tell him what you want before he says anything and still no clear answer it's better to leave because he can use words to manipulate you to stay, always wait for him to say where he stands with you
I love how comfortable you are to share your past with Brandon around. I'm not sure that my hubby would be as comfortable 🙈 never tried. Perhaps I will some day. We spoke about previous relationships obviously when we started dating. To just understand where we've been but it's like a closed topic now. Maybe because we have never really had a reason to talk about it, like you guys do because of podcast and questions from your viewers.
I think guys feel uncomfortable with this kinda topics, also depending on the depth of the details I guess. Once did and he wanted to throw up, he was sick to the stomach 😬🤕
Bathung the way he's stroking her hair 😍. This kind of Love. The God kind of love. I love you guys and how real you are and comfortable with telling your truth out here realeboga. ❤. A solid fan from 🇧🇼.
Wow you guys are truly used by God hey. So I broke up with someone this week and after the break up I started doubting my reasons for the break up and I was feeling really bad. But the Holy spirit has been assuring me that I made the right decision and this is another way He just confirmed to me that I made the right decision. Thank you so much guys❤
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I love this video. It's the best... on a serious note: I love how you guys are just so comfortable to talk about exes and your past. That's just shows that all channels of communication are open... thank you guys
Got to work this morning and I took some time out to go say a prayer ... you guys heard my prayer, telling God that I think I want to be in a relationship. Feel like this was an are you sure questionnaire. Thank you
Brenden: "if I haven't mentioned that siyajola then asijoli, we're just hanging out" 😂🤣🤣so basically in life a relationship is a relationship only when a guy is serious about it🤷♀️😆ayisembi
This coach is a legend mpoomy....It never seem out of place always ready to fit in with the deco. Oh and nice video. Been enjoying and learning lots. Thanks I appreciate the time. 🎷🎷🎷
My ex has been nothing but amazing, very intentional, communication was awesome, everything was just awesome... I honestly wish I met him when I was ready cos then it would have saved us a lot of heartache and unnecessary trauma that we've put each other through..
Watching our love journey has officially become part of my weekly routine! I love it here!! I feel like I’m understanding myself better (watching you guys has made be introspect very often) This is the content I signed up for🙌🏽
Insomnia hit and I’m here watching this. I enjoyed the conversation, it’s funny how as a young girl there were so many red flags in the relationships then but I didn’t even acknowledge them. Also enjoyed how you guys threw vernac here and there👌🏼
I concur with Brenden on “ we have to agree that we dating”…Abanye bethu we’ve found ourselves in “relationships” we knew nothing about😂🤷🏾♀️. Like , I’m just being nice with you. It DOES NOT equate to is dating😳
Yooo you hit the nail on its head. I am glad God saved me eish I was equally naive 🤣🤣🤣I like how Brenden is being blatantly honest about how guys string us along. You married a good man. Glad the Lord blessed me with a good husband too. Wow this talk was insightful, I wish i knew this in my baby talk days🤣🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Oh Gassssshhhhh i love taking pictures for memoirs to lay and go through one day with them to even laugh about as it reminds you about how long the relationship is coming and places you've visited together!! Its so beautiful to feel those emotions again when going down memory lane🤗🇳🇦🇳🇦 or just laugh about your fashion sense or how you've grown etc. Ps: Not for the social media as i barely most
Great topic guys, thank you. Ja neh, SOME men really can change your outlook on men and love. I always say our definition of love really is messed up, by so many things - we only realise this when we start loving ourselves and being honest about the nonsense we've settled for in the past. Thank God for hindsight.
My ex ( baby daddy) told me he does not see himself getting married and told me he is still looking for the right woman , mind you I stayed for 6 years knowing. Listening is very important. But thank God I left even though it took me so long I am glad its over
Very true ❤️... I'm glad that you had the strength to leave 🙏🏽
Well done sis. Someone will appreciate and marry you in less than 6 years.
Well done sis, the biggest thing that matters is (YOU DID LEAVE)💕
You were hoping that he will eventually see that you are that right woman, big ups for leaving super proud of you!
@@malebelomaphutha6566we always give them the benefit of the doubt but i am glad i was able to leave thank you
re mo!!!!
Sila and we love it here💫
always...
Sila ❤️❤️❤️❤️☕
Sikhona. Enjoying the convo
Love your depth Brenden such an amazing man
The privacy vs secrecy topic is a big one !
Hey Mpumi and Brenden
I introduced my boyfriend to this channel, now I feel like he watches it more than me🙈, you guys are awesome... Thank you
I love Brendan's honesty in all this. He's genuine.
Thoroughly enjoyed this chat! Mpoomy is right the gut feeling NEVER lies. Women always know! Thank you guys 🙏🏾
Always babe always!
The way I love how Mpoomy says 'Indoda yami'......... 😃
“Sometimes we have to allow each other to find out what’s real for us and what we want” impactful 🥺🔥🔥🔥.
Today's topic hit home 🥺🥺.
We find ourselves attached to people who haven't even said they like us like that.
Yoh😏🥺
Just because someone calls you “makoti” during the dating phase does not mean that they will marry you. They will hurt you. Once you start dating someone and their friends say “nangu Umakoti wethu” Weeh just know ukuthi no. Because the friends of your boyfriend are always on his side. He will play you like nobodies business but his friends will act like his not doing anything. He must ask you out and avoid being called names before you are that title. Makoti naming needs lobola.
Yebo including family. Until he sends the cows don't even
Our Love Journey is a great blessing for us on TH-cam hle ❤❤❤
God bless this union❤
This channel is everything for me! It positively contributes so much to my mental health. I love you guys for creating this channel and moulding it into something this meaningful. I pray that God continues to give u the wisdom to cone up with more of these important topics.
Love love this, always enjoy your talks!❤❤
Amen ♥️
One thing about Brendon, he loves his wife❤️. Always touching, so beautiful guys.
You guys are the older siblings I never knew I needed!🥺❤️ Enjoyed this so much🤞🏽
Lol they are husband and wife!
Just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. It was a mutual decision I'm taking it day by day. We did all the right things the foundation was there and everything. We had communication we had everything but somehow she just hurt and she couldn't be happy with me I had to let her go for her to find her joy.
It’s the Sotho for me 😂🥴 “Di bedroom relationships”
I love you guys wholeheartedly . ♥️😪
Brenden "so lento yama musician k'dala iqalile" 😂😂😂😂 I died!
lmao he is being extra
Same!! 😂🤣🤣
Brenden is extra🤣🤣🤣
No but same😭😭😭
I experienced something similar with a musician 😂😂😭so it hit the spot for me
I am here....As young as I am.....I love this couple and they inspire me in every aspect of my life. May God richly bless you in Jesus Name,Amen
I think my younger cousins need to hear this. I was never big on titles, my husband is the longest I ever had. While I was dating I never made any new relationship official until I knew what was going on. We need to teach young girls and boys what dating is.... To manage expectations and assumptions..... Dating means getting to know each other via hanging out together but it doesn't mean you are an official couple....... Hence put breaks on ukuba umakoti, cooking cleaning etc while dating🤣🤣🤣
What you're saying is difenatley true we don't have anyone to teach us all this things it should be a topic even in schools
This 💯🙌🏾
I understand the emphasis on communication however, I feel like we need equal emphasis on comprehension. What good is communication if someone is listening but not comprehending? The person should show in their actions that they’ve taken note of your concerns/ communication.
I really enjoyed this topic.
10:38 Absolutely agree 150% . At a certain age, guard your heart and be respectful of the other persons emotions and spirit. Just asking out someone without having done due diligence is detrimental.
I'm obsessed with this channel, I'm 23 and I learn a lot from you guys, you literally my gift from God
Hi Mpoomy and Brenden, I'm just a teen, just turned 18 on April. I love these conversations guys #ourlovejournery, even though I'm far from getting married but I'm taking notes for the future. Thank you so much and please just keep on giving us wisdom
Hahahahh Mpoomy will never win the debate of pictures. 🤣 I used to explain to my husband the same way that I do it for memories to relive the moment and he would give me the same answer as Brenden “it’s in your head”😩 it’s not the same guys!
We tried to meet each other half way 🤣♥️
Your topics are everything ❤️! Love how you guys take them on so holistically ❤️
thank you! we love having yall
Lol It's Baby Talk Mpoomy...😁
Yoh. This topic. I've been recently feeling like my current relationship just isn't it but we just started dating and I like him a lot. But my guts tell me he doesn't like me back. So this video gives a clearer perspective. Thank you.
My words right out of my mouth, I said to my mom when she asked what went wrong between me and my ex-husband and I said to her I fell inlove with the person he pretended to be and eventually he couldn't keep up with the act so true colours started showing and man oh man after investing a good 8yrs dating and one year of marriage and two beautiful boys I faced my biggest fear and just left and started all over again, my life is not perfect but I've been at so much peace oh my🙌
wow... this is deep thank you for sharing
The most beautiful conversation ever😄🥰😍🥰I love how he said "wow today I am cutting you too much, I am sorry.."ncooh Love is beautiful.. Brenden is the referee here, 😂
When Brenden said " ooooh you can't remember now, onale amnesia?" 😭😭😭💀🤣🤣🤣🤣
Brendon is always touching Mpoomy ❤️❤️❤️
Right?! Love it, it's so cute! ♥️
❤️❤️❤️
I've noticed and it's so cute I like it
I've heard what Brendon said about stating your expectations from another male. I think sometimes some women are afraid to state their expectations because they're afraid of loosing the person, unfortunately this can be a waste of time and lead to the heart break that was being avoided
This is unrelated to the video but as young girl from Middelburg myself. Watching you Mpumi really inspires me to be more and do better .
You truly are one of our own role model😭
Keep shining ❤.
"today I'm cutting you so much"... That thoughtfulness😊. Very sweet. Interesting conversations. I'm married 5 years with an amazing man!... And sometimes as a woman it's hard to understand and accept the real make-up of a man in general but I love how you guys discuss so comfortably.
I'm grateful to God and for Him giving us close and senior couple friends that we learn from who have strong Godly principles about life as a whole. ❤️
I like how informative your content is Mpoomy. it's relatable. It really helps us (the youth) to take informed decisions about our life in general. Not that we CANT take them on our own, but hearing someone elses experiences and realizing that you've walked that path and perhaps struggled to deal with the situation, it may help with the future similar encounters. I love how the both of you do not paint your life "perfect" as Christians as well.
"Usbu ukhuluma ngathi Wazalelwa emeetingini" 🤣😂🤣😂🤣 I'm in stitches
When Brenden said. "Lento Yama musican kudala yaqala" 😂😂😂😂😂
Abane ndlebe bavile. You guys nicely broke down the difference between being in a relationship and dating 🙌🏾
It's just how you look at Brenden for me🥰🥰🥰🥰
You can tell she's forever in love with her husband 💕❤
Im currently in that situation, things are great when we are together but when we not together he doesn't communicate. I called it quits though...
So true Brenden it's important to put out your expectations saves you so much drama. It's saved me from so much future drama and it scared away the wrong guys
The Sbu illustration just made me want to pee my pants 😂😂🤣 uSbu ukhuluma engathi wazalelwa eMeeting'ini 😭🤣 Yoh. This was a mind opening conversation ❤️ now I've made a conclusion about my own situation, thank you! ❤️
Firstly we appreciate this content , it’s so real and raw. A lot Of open mindedness from sis Mpoomi. Brandon makes a good point about pictures, I still cannot understand why but sometimes it’s necessary...as long as the intention is pure .
Yoooooo Brenden le pictures and memories "ona le Amnesia " 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Guys I love your channel . I have to say young adults will benefit ALOT from watching your channel. The wisdom, education, advise,the honesty is on another level .
Communication, communication,communication , Eish communication
Thoroughly enjoyed this and thank you for these communications.
My single self is learning and taking notes, strong points you mentioned there. I am allowing my self to learn for my next loving and healthy relationship.
I have failed to communicate in my previous relationship cause I always thought I'll scare the guy away, but as time went by, I realized that this thinking got me to point were I was not happy about things and just let them slide which I ended up ending things cause wow it was underwhelming.
Wow I cannot believe I ridiculed so many redflags and so many gut feelings cause I was not aware of who I was nor what I wanted.
🤗😍🤲🏽☯️⚖️
This is literally preparing for my first ever successful relationship , i never used to express the cause of my insecurities and it scared my prev partners 🤨 but some really played a huge role on those insecurities,
I agree, make time to spend with your partner, watch sunsets together or go chill at the park..
It's not always supposed to be fancy... Just simple stuff.
absolutely
So true 👍if we don't listen to our gut feeling we fail ourselves
True ❤️
This may be pulling it, but would it be possible to have Mpoomy n Brenden on Defining 😊
Riiiiiiiight??????! 🙌🏾
I've beeeeeen saying 😭
Abeg!!😭😭
Yessss
Yes please we need to see it 🥰🥰🥰
Niyangihlekisa yaz🤣🤣🤣 I've always been up front and wanted to be sure what we doing. Strangest thing is that it didn't work out with clarity with my then bf now husband. I thought we were still getting to know each other and he thought we were already gf and bf,... Thats how the awekward first kiss went 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭 15 years later am glad that awekward kiss happened
Mpoomy's attempt to speaking Sepedi!!! Thoroughly enjoyed. Can't wait for more!!!
I have learnt that pipo go through alot to get that perfect person to settle with🤕...but honestly in the end u #Praise #Jesus💖 4 the person u settle with
I love the importance of expressing your intention from the onset, WHATEVER the intention is. It truly eliminates a lot of doubt and insinuations. If it’s “I like you but I want to take time to get to know you”, it’s OK. The person still has a choice on whether they want to linger on or not. I love the importance of also expressing your idea of a relationship. My husband said to me after 2 months of getting to know each other…”I want to marry you but if you have no intentions of getting married, let me know so I move on”. In that moment I just thought “what dude is this”…but it spoke about intentionality and it made me refocus and rethink as well. A great video for our young couples “courting” or having intention to truly want to start something. LET US NOT IGNORE FLAGS…they won’t go away if you don’t address them.
I'm learning something new every time when I'm watching you guys thanks a lot for the advices,
Just stopped by again just to save this for my kids especially my daughter. I had this convo with my father after the fact and it freed me. I’m at a good and happy place and I know I wouldn’t have been if it wasn’t for that.
Communication- some guys will make you sound crazy for wanting to Determine the status of the situation/relationship. That fight about “what are we?”… hayibo kanti who else must a lady ask if not you brother since you are the one I’m talking with? Dating culture can be such a toxic environment because of lack of true intentions
What's the meaning of hayibo kanti?
Because the guy hold the cards of whether it's vibes, a relationship or not, or relationship for marriage, that's why it is a fight. All you can do as a women is work with standards and make him work with them until you know where you stand or your worth
@@teeworld9524 it's just an expression to emphasize exxagaration
@Tiyisela Baloyi ; but that doesn’t excuse the fact that gents start things or disturb a lady in her peace while having no real intentions. If it’s just vibes, it should also be communicated. Not this I must wait and see thing. People sit 5 years in waiting because he is the one who holds the cards??? No sir
@@LuthandoLuyanda Yessss I don't disregard the accountability a man must take. That's the other problem, the wait and see thing gets dragged for longer than it should. The problem with a man is he knows what you are looking for so if you invest yourself and tell him what you want before he says anything and still no clear answer it's better to leave because he can use words to manipulate you to stay, always wait for him to say where he stands with you
I love how comfortable you are to share your past with Brandon around. I'm not sure that my hubby would be as comfortable 🙈 never tried. Perhaps I will some day. We spoke about previous relationships obviously when we started dating. To just understand where we've been but it's like a closed topic now. Maybe because we have never really had a reason to talk about it, like you guys do because of podcast and questions from your viewers.
I also admire that about them coz wow, the conversations I’v had with my man about my ex were all such a cringe fest for him😂 so ay.
I think guys feel uncomfortable with this kinda topics, also depending on the depth of the details I guess. Once did and he wanted to throw up, he was sick to the stomach 😬🤕
@@malebelomaphutha6566 exactly!! Its rare for a man to be comfortable with this particular topic🤦🏾♀️ This is very admirable of Brandon👏
As for “U’sbu ukhuluma ga khulu ngathi uza lelwe e’meetinin 😂😂😂♥️♥️♥️
Bathung the way he's stroking her hair 😍. This kind of Love. The God kind of love. I love you guys and how real you are and comfortable with telling your truth out here realeboga. ❤. A solid fan from 🇧🇼.
Brenden was like you have amnesia 😂😂😂😂. Mpoomy tell him that we as gurls love pictures that is one thing God gave us😂😂😂😂
Yohhh Mpoomy my intuition has never ever failed me!!! I’ve learnt to listen because if I ignore it I get burnt
"Bedroom relationship" yhoooo been there Bawo wam. Thank you guys for this video.....
I paused and loughed at myself... It's now I realise everything
Wow you guys are truly used by God hey. So I broke up with someone this week and after the break up I started doubting my reasons for the break up and I was feeling really bad. But the Holy spirit has been assuring me that I made the right decision and this is another way He just confirmed to me that I made the right decision. Thank you so much guys❤
"Ona Le Amnesia?"😂😂😂 Brenden Was Speaking For The Gents Here I'm So Triggered🤣
lol i was on the floor when he said that
😅😅😅😅😅😅
I died 😂😂🤣🤣😂
🤣😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not wanting to take a picture together, it's a red flag for me.
lol not always, its important to ask why
I was like this, till I realized I was just embarrassed of the guy.
😂😂😂 not always. Privacy is good sometimes
or they're not confident in themselves especially within pictures
😅when Mpumi says "Indoda yam🤭😊" it hits😅😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I love this video. It's the best... on a serious note: I love how you guys are just so comfortable to talk about exes and your past. That's just shows that all channels of communication are open... thank you guys
Got to work this morning and I took some time out to go say a prayer ... you guys heard my prayer, telling God that I think I want to be in a relationship. Feel like this was an are you sure questionnaire. Thank you
As always loved the conversation! I was a victim of being stringed along.. “ Bedroom relationships” killed me 😅😂🤣
This couple made me realise my worth,made me realise that true love does exist and settling for less is no longer in me.i love you guys so much ❤
Your podcast is not rehearsed. I love that❤
Brenden: "if I haven't mentioned that siyajola then asijoli, we're just hanging out" 😂🤣🤣so basically in life a relationship is a relationship only when a guy is serious about it🤷♀️😆ayisembi
Hectic right 🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣killed me hle
(can someone please translate that for me) I didn't understand what he said but his vibe was fun 🤣🤣
@@aloisianangombe115 if he hasn't that they're dating then they're NOT dating, ... just hanging out. Something like that
ahaa..🤣🤣🤣thank you
Brendan's "wankwishisha" takes me back home.😁🥺
Eish, I honestly miss home now 😂(Bushbuckridge, Mapulaneng)
"ukhuluma ngathi uzalelwe e meeting.ini"😂😂😂😂
Amazing content😁spot on
Thankyou Mr. Ledwaba being honest upfront from the beginning saves us from alot of drama.
Keep up the good work..I enjoy your content.
This coach is a legend mpoomy....It never seem out of place always ready to fit in with the deco.
Oh and nice video. Been enjoying and learning lots. Thanks I appreciate the time. 🎷🎷🎷
I love Mpoomy's laughter😍❤️
You are so amazing , real and honest . much love
My ex has been nothing but amazing, very intentional, communication was awesome, everything was just awesome... I honestly wish I met him when I was ready cos then it would have saved us a lot of heartache and unnecessary trauma that we've put each other through..
Brenden is pouring out that truth that is SOOO needed
😂😂😍😍🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Your content and characters good people, testimony of God’s goodness in the land of the living 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💞💞 May He take you higher and higher.
Watching our love journey has officially become part of my weekly routine! I love it here!! I feel like I’m understanding myself better (watching you guys has made be introspect very often)
This is the content I signed up for🙌🏽
I just love that patch of Grey hair 😍😍😍 beautiful!
Brenden dropping some Steve Harvey advice there. That's some wise advice Bro...
"Pictures for eng? Onale amnesia?"- Brenden 2021
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿.
I died
😂😂😂😂😂
Did I not die😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Did I not die😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 threw me off
Sis dead😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 peak of this episode
Insomnia hit and I’m here watching this. I enjoyed the conversation, it’s funny how as a young girl there were so many red flags in the relationships then but I didn’t even acknowledge them. Also enjoyed how you guys threw vernac here and there👌🏼
Absolutely agree with Mpumi on the accuracy of the woman’s gut... the conversation was very well balanced 🤍
I concur with Brenden on “ we have to agree that we dating”…Abanye bethu we’ve found ourselves in “relationships” we knew nothing about😂🤷🏾♀️. Like , I’m just being nice with you. It DOES NOT equate to is dating😳
Brenden is very accurate 👌🏿. If I don't say I love you and would love to be with you in the first week of dating just know I'm not in.
Mpoomy , this musician thing, I get it😂😂😂. Nna that’s the hill I’m living on 🤚🏾.
Don’t stop guys keep continuing I am learning heeeeey I’ve been dating for 8 years with this man
The Sesotho part in this conversation is killing me 😭🤣🤣❣
Yooo you hit the nail on its head. I am glad God saved me eish I was equally naive 🤣🤣🤣I like how Brenden is being blatantly honest about how guys string us along. You married a good man. Glad the Lord blessed me with a good husband too. Wow this talk was insightful, I wish i knew this in my baby talk days🤣🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Love love the talk
😂😂😂😂🤣 I am at work and laughing loud oooo my goodness. Good conversation guys thank you.
lol glad we could make your day
Broke up with my partner and my friend suggested I watch this... I'm hoping this will help me heal
The taking picture part kills me🤣😂. Bari “you got amnesia?”!! We’re suffering and all we want is pictures💁🏻♀️🤣🤣🤣..
Real helpful talks much needed especially by us the youth...
BEKE LE BEKE 🔥🔥 Thank you Mpoomy & Brenden, now let me indulge 😍
Oh Gassssshhhhh i love taking pictures for memoirs to lay and go through one day with them to even laugh about as it reminds you about how long the relationship is coming and places you've visited together!! Its so beautiful to feel those emotions again when going down memory lane🤗🇳🇦🇳🇦 or just laugh about your fashion sense or how you've grown etc. Ps: Not for the social media as i barely most
Am I the first to comment ? 😅😆 we like before we watch. I'm really enjoying the series. Keep it up guys 👏🏽👏🏽
Great topic guys, thank you.
Ja neh, SOME men really can change your outlook on men and love. I always say our definition of love really is messed up, by so many things - we only realise this when we start loving ourselves and being honest about the nonsense we've settled for in the past. Thank God for hindsight.