The Smart Guy On How He Turned Adversity Into Success -- Black Women and Relationships

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  • @i_dont_miss_often
    @i_dont_miss_often หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I love this new style of interviewing. Last few episodes been fire. 🔥

    • @cubanjay2116
      @cubanjay2116 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I totally agree, 100 percent. Cursing down, knowledge way up.🤜🤛

    • @nathanwilson1465
      @nathanwilson1465 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You too are sad.

    • @ogamiitto8056
      @ogamiitto8056 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What style is that

  • @Mikeyfit13
    @Mikeyfit13 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Spitting facts as always

  • @J_jewel91
    @J_jewel91 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Great Interview! Guest Wasn’t Biased He Spoke On Problems With Not Only The BW, But Also With The BM…

  • @kiddoutlaw600
    @kiddoutlaw600 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Protect this brother man

  • @UHLAWNTAY
    @UHLAWNTAY 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really enjoy hearing him speak. 🔥👏🏾

  • @johnbrown4936
    @johnbrown4936 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    All🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 interview

  • @jahleedabarber5979
    @jahleedabarber5979 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I needed to hear and see this

  • @garagegeek7559
    @garagegeek7559 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Fire interview!!!!

    • @Trev_Smoove
      @Trev_Smoove  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I appreciate it!!

  • @tomdavis3783
    @tomdavis3783 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great interview. Super hot bars at the end. Smart guy thanks bro. To the host thanks bro

  • @AbdulLatif-ih8nn
    @AbdulLatif-ih8nn 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    He gave us as men a tool to putting yourself first and loving who you are and respecting your boundaries and what you stand on as a MAN

  • @raymondstewart7660
    @raymondstewart7660 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This interview was great, and the interviewer was extremely professional.

  • @questioneverything7011
    @questioneverything7011 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Got to be on the same high level frequency to get what he saying! That Noah’s ark analogy was on point!!!

  • @lito2351
    @lito2351 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    “Sometimes god gives you flowers but often time he’s sowing seeds, you can’t eat the fruit and then hate the tree” made me go 😮

  • @willieboyland3180
    @willieboyland3180 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Focus on yourself.
    BARZ!!!!! 🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @FlyOrDie90
    @FlyOrDie90 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    34:41 is pure gospel man,thats a God sent message 🫡⭐️

  • @relationshiptalkwithgeez
    @relationshiptalkwithgeez หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Cassidy has entered the chat room! And he spitting BARZ N!GGA😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 @SMART

    • @CL_TheSource
      @CL_TheSource หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He really do look like Cassidy!! 😂

    • @kiddoutlaw600
      @kiddoutlaw600 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Facts

  • @Ausargood
    @Ausargood หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Enlightenment is brown people frequency, we are meant to keep evolving. And watching things of no value like sports hinders our growth. Every lie or wrong doing hinders growth, that’s karma for me.
    The mind is precious.

  • @Latomdra
    @Latomdra หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    He has a very nice, soothing voice. Love his personality

  • @papajay6385
    @papajay6385 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Chose he right name for himself. Smart guy❤

  • @Solidrock3
    @Solidrock3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    South Jamacia Queens in the house. Understand is understood. 1 heart 1 mind my brother. Can't stop won't stop. Do or die Bed-Sty. Peace God.

  • @UHLAWNTAY
    @UHLAWNTAY 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    52:16 well said Sir Smart.

  • @TreasureA11Gold
    @TreasureA11Gold หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I can hear all the athletes saying “You maxed 700 lbs you didn’t bench 700lbs” 😂 5:13

    • @DBFresco
      @DBFresco หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Smart is a cool dude to listen to on podcast, but that 700lbs bench press is cap, ngl. It would of been believable if he said 315lb.

    • @mr7thletter933
      @mr7thletter933 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂 I was thinking the same thing. He probably hittin 700 on the squat rack!​@@DBFresco

    • @DBFresco
      @DBFresco หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@mr7thletter933 that’s strong man competition weight. Unless you’re competing, ain’t no way 😂. I’m not saying he’s not strong in his own right, but he definitely gassed it with that statement.

  • @Mindfulnesswithayla
    @Mindfulnesswithayla 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The Smart Guy For Real

  • @former-paconstablewiggs354
    @former-paconstablewiggs354 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    In'shaAllah the Bro Smart stay ten toes...🖤👑💪🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾 But when it comes to the Women comments Brother Smart is stating, part of what's being communicated is true, but at the same time he is responding to the Effects of a Cause. As knowledgeable as he could be, he is allowing his emotions to dictate the outcome on how he communicates with regards to women. In particular our black women. Just as our black men are lost of themselves, so is our black woman. We have to help our black women rise above the ignorance regardless of how bad they are as best we can. This is not simp behavior I am communicating, this is the thinking of a God full of knowledge, wisdom, and understanding of our history in this country...🖤👑💪🏾

    • @kiiidbot2594
      @kiiidbot2594 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      They way smart speaks is necessary for the state of our people to respond. It's not bad at all... We need that energy... Whoever listens will pick up and whoever doesn't well ...🤷🏽‍♂️bye. Bye bye 👋🏽. That's the point. Still confused?

    • @iamkoghod
      @iamkoghod 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      God is the Father, not the Mother. Fathers provide Correction. Smart is exemplifying a Fathers Corrective Tone.
      The Fatherless hate The Father and His Correction!
      #GodTheFather #OneGod

    • @michaelroberts680
      @michaelroberts680 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      But how can one communicate with somebody that don’t wanna listen that think they know everything? A lot of women have this mind state.

    • @blackbutterflyjourney
      @blackbutterflyjourney 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@michaelroberts680Are communicating with the ONE you’re married to or all women you encounter? The ONE that’s suppose to submit to her husband is the only one to concern yourself with and you two communicate with one another. If you’re unable to communicated with one of interest because you’re seeking a wife… she ain’t the one. Your communication should flow like a beautiful dance not a power fight with words. Slow down… Look on the inside because looking at the outer beauty ONLY can fool even the most righteous… that is not gender based.

    • @serendipitouscomet
      @serendipitouscomet 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So we have to let them bite the hand that feeds them and do it with a smile on our face?

  • @Reemhub
    @Reemhub หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Smart guy said gooses? My elementary teacher told me it's geese. I'm confused😅
    Simply teasing. Love the way you think 💯

    • @Arioste_
      @Arioste_ 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He still processing amidst the process bool out lol

  • @victormuhammad2678
    @victormuhammad2678 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I thought the dude with the beard was Jaron “ Boots” Ennis the boxer from Philly

  • @ambitiousty
    @ambitiousty 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Smart Guy for the people

  • @TheFewAreChosen
    @TheFewAreChosen 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Does he have a course or something I can tap into?

  • @SincerelyWavey
    @SincerelyWavey 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    How do I find more of him?

  • @uncommonsha
    @uncommonsha หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Big bro cooking. Peace God.

  • @HumanformFromgod
    @HumanformFromgod หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Anybody know what song he spit?

  • @LapeefNetwork
    @LapeefNetwork หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    🔥🔥

  • @thenobodythatknowsbody
    @thenobodythatknowsbody หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you man

  • @danawiggins6172
    @danawiggins6172 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Honestly I really don't see how you can even be successful with a BW in America. It's good brothers like him still even think about BW in America because me personally, I'm good.

  • @AcKnowledgeLowskii
    @AcKnowledgeLowskii หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    smart 💪🏾

  • @chalesevanhorn2587
    @chalesevanhorn2587 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I LOVE BLACK MEN….like allot❤❤❤

    • @Mark-ko9hk
      @Mark-ko9hk 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Question are you black?

  • @gingermientras3445
    @gingermientras3445 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    30:00 wow

  • @michellejackson1279
    @michellejackson1279 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This is a sad perpetuation of what divides our people. The message is confusing because on one hand "it's positive and on the other hand negative and disrespectful to himself and other people. Both men and women. It appears to be some unresolved mother & father wounds. Overall the message is powerful. This is a crucial conversation that ought to be continued. I appreciate his perspective. 💪🏾

    • @goodvybesbeauty5902
      @goodvybesbeauty5902 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He had a toxic relationship with his mom very telling why he has a certain feeling towards women. He’s a product of his environment.

  • @pelenge49
    @pelenge49 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I don’t think women mind following men who have a vision, a solid plan, work ethic and good character. My dad is an excellent leader of his household. My mom would not follow or partner with my dad if he didn’t have sound leadership traits.
    Here’s some suggested reading for men and women re: true manhood and womenhood by RC Blakes.
    For Men: Kingology
    For Women: Queenology
    Be well all!

    • @serendipitouscomet
      @serendipitouscomet 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      What determines "a vision?" Who determines if a plan or work ethic is "solid?" Who determines what "good character" is? When women say that don't mind following men who have these things, they're basically saying "I will let you lead me as long as I feel like it." Because the moment the man makes a decision that goes against what she says or makes her feel negatively, she will claim he is not leading properly. If the man can lead you, but he can only make decision that you would agree with, that's not him leading you. That's you being the leader and pretending he is, but then using him as a scapegoat to avoid accountability in case anything goes wrong.

  • @outlawthomas44
    @outlawthomas44 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Let's gooooo

  • @karastamusecrecords
    @karastamusecrecords 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    NG is NK is Divine n Royal.

  • @chalesevanhorn2587
    @chalesevanhorn2587 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I do understand what smart is saying there are a lot of women who are not does not have emotional intelligence, and it’s a lot of things that they lack yet they want to tell men what to do and how to do this and how to do that instead of allowing him to be a leader, but in my experience dated a dummy and I knew he was gonna lead me into a cardboard box and I just could not accept it so I had to let him go, but there are great men out here who get head, strong women, and that woman like smart said ain’t even in the space of intelligence to tell him how to lead what to do it’s a lot of women like that but it’s also a lot of me who are just not leaders and they feel because they are a man that we should be submissive to them There’s nothing binding us to having anything in common. We’re not making money together when not praying together not fasting together not building together we just have a fun going out having sex and then you wanna be the lead but you’re not taking me nowhere but in the corner.

    • @ladylady7848
      @ladylady7848 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯💯💯

    • @serendipitouscomet
      @serendipitouscomet 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      So basically "lead me but only in the way I want to be lead." Which isn't you being lead. That's you pretending he's leading you but you're actually the one calling the shots. You're fine with leading him as long as he doesn't go against what you say or believe. If he's the leader, it shouldn't matter how you feel about it. You're basically the leader, because the moment he makes a decision you don't like, you leave him. And because he's the leader, when a decision goes wrong, you can just blame him and absolve yourself of any responsibility/culpability. Having your cake and eating it too. This is why men say that women want the power of a man but the accountability of a child.

    • @christophermccrea7133
      @christophermccrea7133 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯💯💯

    • @donatello9482
      @donatello9482 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@serendipitouscometplease let them know. At a point they use to brag about being the one in control behind the scene. What leader doesn’t have control lol

  • @relationshiptalkwithgeez
    @relationshiptalkwithgeez หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    21:46 unhealthy perception of what bla- continuing from there later - note to self

  • @g4do
    @g4do 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Isaiah 46:10 . God declared the end from the beginning... predestination. Those that will be great , were chosen before the womb to be great .

  • @awomanlikemegodly3
    @awomanlikemegodly3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Reasons why you have to watch and listen to the entire interview. If it doesn't apply, let it fly. That still doesn't negate the fact that there is a lack of male leadership in our community. And that is not all to blame on the female. And the fact that there are deceitful people still remain. And that is the cause and effect.

    • @serendipitouscomet
      @serendipitouscomet 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why lead people who are never satisfied, forever ungrateful and endlessly resentful? Women say that they don't want to be lead anymore, they want to be equal now. Male leadership exists, it just left and went somewhere else. You have to seek it out now, instead of it seeking you out. And you can't complain or nitpick when you get it.

  • @Clyde3128
    @Clyde3128 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cassidy and Jaron boots ennis 😂

  • @michellejackson1279
    @michellejackson1279 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Exactly! I agree with his recommendation of cultivating that personal relationship with God, meditation and prayer! That's it. God bless you SMART. "I AM". On point.

  • @RedmanGold
    @RedmanGold หลายเดือนก่อน

    kids lost and it hurt 😢😢

  • @coldhitman1
    @coldhitman1 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don't understand why some content creators, want to spread the word and the message but put so many commercials on one single video.
    Do you want to spread the message or your money hungry.
    2 or 3 would be enough.

  • @seababy3324
    @seababy3324 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love u Black God ❤❤❤❤

  • @ms.pandatalktime
    @ms.pandatalktime หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I think that it all depends on what type of Women he's dealing with. Not all Women are the same

    • @KC-lg8qf
      @KC-lg8qf หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women are mostly the same......the bible already gave us the code for dealing with women. Do not trust or give your power to women is one of its lessons.

    • @Trev_Smoove
      @Trev_Smoove  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Valid. We did touch on virtuous women. There aren't that many left though.

    • @endofbozrah8881
      @endofbozrah8881 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢

    • @Trev_Smoove
      @Trev_Smoove  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@endofbozrah8881 How?

    • @Air-king101st
      @Air-king101st 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Who cares about the minority, he’s speaking about the majority, that’s our problem now we all know all women aren’t the same but when the majority has the same mentality that’s what kills the community.

  • @alwaysaccurate8725
    @alwaysaccurate8725 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the interview and respect Smart. But what is the informed woman to do. For ex my ex wanted to start a business. I asked if we can discuss it. He never had an answer we ended and im building by myself. Today he acts like no one wanted to help him. I was there but he was scared to fail- im not Im scared of living a life cause I was too scared to make it happen.

  • @backtothebasics3193
    @backtothebasics3193 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🫡🇺🇸

  • @tristateshawn
    @tristateshawn 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💯

  • @desireehoward4464
    @desireehoward4464 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    That Muslim doctrine has messed his mind up.

    • @BrotherDjee
      @BrotherDjee 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Looks like he chose Islam cause he thinks Christianity originated from “The White Man”. Unfortunate.

    • @michaelswanigan2115
      @michaelswanigan2115 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      How

  • @MoeToOFFeR
    @MoeToOFFeR หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The problem with smart is that he wants to implement religious/traditional values, but that doesn’t work in this day and age, so he’s always going to continue to be battling somebody or something which is why he comes off so strong or even obnoxious and ignorant, but I see The things he says, get yourself a good woman i.e. a Muslim devoted woman and you won’t have a lot of the problems you have now
    🙏

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah at this point it is pretty much impossible to bring back traditional values . I’m not even religious but I’d like to see those values come back but I’m afraid that ship has sailed

  • @TwentyFour-ob24
    @TwentyFour-ob24 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Smart getting swole

  • @delitenews4280
    @delitenews4280 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Let's be clear, to implement God into your life is also acknowledge his love and humbleness....God has his hands on everyone in dome for, but to speak in a agressive manner towards women you never met is insane, no logic and reasoning is the same and you cannot base your bad experience with some and apply that to every woman you meet. You place limitation on yourself when you choose to place every black woman in the box of devaluing, disrespectful and/or not intelligent. Did God not say that when men and women meet in a relationship they are equally yoke. That a confident man knows his role as welll as the woman should know hers. A man should never have to be aggressive toward his woman, your present and gentleness is enough to have the woman choose to be submissive. Unecessary aggression, create choas! The bible talks about quick to angry. Being that you went thru so trumatic experience in your life, what kind of help did you seek to get through the trauma? Cause proper healing is essential to see the world in a full spectrum. Lean not on your understanding, and dont be a fool if your self awareness.

    • @lifeisagamble3615
      @lifeisagamble3615 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He’s a hippocratic, in one video he’s lifting us up as a people and in next he tearing us down its crazy

    • @tomdavis3783
      @tomdavis3783 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your a clown

    • @serendipitouscomet
      @serendipitouscomet 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's the problem. A lot of women take the truth or being given direction/orders as "angry" or "aggressive," because then they can't do what they want. Leadership isn't "gentle," it's firm and unwavering.

  • @awomanlikemegodly3
    @awomanlikemegodly3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    With leadership comes duties, right? So, it's man duty to be transparent about his interests and intentions with women. I believe that most women are willing to be led by men who are living correctly. (Godly)
    And that's not to take away from our lack thereof, but... his perspective is off a bit.

  • @lou8853
    @lou8853 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Once the dude lied and said he benching 700 pounds he lost me.. credibility out the window

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah there’s not a guy that has ever lived that benched 700 with his body type lol

  • @xavierjones3410
    @xavierjones3410 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Smart says a lot of good things but I don’t understand how he believes in Karma and that’s not a Muslim belief🤔

  • @sisterautumnlathon1228
    @sisterautumnlathon1228 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ask yourself Smarts, is God a Muslim? We are suppose to be his children, and be what our father is right? The Holy Scriptures speaks plain, but keep traveling until you find the answer…

  • @Charlotte-bz8ho
    @Charlotte-bz8ho หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This dude never gets tired of talking bout himself and I get it but Ngl I’m tired of it lmaooo like what else do you do

    • @seababy3324
      @seababy3324 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That was cold why you say that bro got mad ppl are inspired by him .....das crazy

    • @Charlotte-bz8ho
      @Charlotte-bz8ho หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ I’m inspired by him but every interview I listen too he only talks about himself most of the time

    • @franciszico828
      @franciszico828 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Do you expect him to speak about you ? He is the only person he really knows . You are just silly ma'am

  • @nathanwilson1465
    @nathanwilson1465 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can see why Trev had this guy on his show. They both speak hateful rhetoric, it’s an even match.

    • @Sinc39
      @Sinc39 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂😂😂

  • @Waveybaby-p4y
    @Waveybaby-p4y หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This man hate women and needs a man

    • @bdb7185
      @bdb7185 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women are annoying. They need guidance maybe because you believe women because that's all you know

    • @bdb7185
      @bdb7185 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You don't love a woman listening to her stupidity

    • @terronnelson9365
      @terronnelson9365 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Shut up and actually listen

    • @stan4288
      @stan4288 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      If dats all u got from d jewels he dropped then u need urgent help....smh

    • @jakeemjohnson5252
      @jakeemjohnson5252 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      How he hates women?

  • @Vizion512
    @Vizion512 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bless this man Smart, I can see it in his face, this man is absolutely exhausted, and still trying to give a message.🫡

  • @johnnybradley1189
    @johnnybradley1189 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @CL_TheSource
    @CL_TheSource หลายเดือนก่อน +3

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  • @johnnybradley1189
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