True. I am a mother who is a former good girl. I married the bad boy and it caused all kinds of problems. I teach my daughter to embrace both her good and bad. You don't want to only go towards one or the other. Embrace all of yourself and be in balance.
Or the “understanding girl” ie Keke Palmer. It’s the reason she got with her BD because she understood that her success at her age was an exception and not the rule.
Yeah, I think this is great. We should most definitely rethink the way we raise our daughters in general. Because we also need to include, let’s not raise them to be male-centered, male-identified, seeking male validation. You know, all of these things, altering ambition, goals, beauty standards, the way that we treat one another as women, all in pursuit of male attention. You know, think about how women are so competitive with one another if there is a man involved. In any situation, it could be a brother, cousin, friend, boyfriend, father. You know, not all cases, but, you know, these types of things need to be considered as well. We as women, we need to rethink and readjust and understand how powerful-how much of a responsibility it is to truly have a womb and be able to bring life onto this planet. And consider the fact that whatever man we choose to lay down with and sleep with and give kids to, we are essentially allowing him to copy and paste himself. And we are choosing what type of people we bring onto this planet by ignoring red flags, poor behavior, lazy, low ambition. There’s a lot of things that we need to make our daughters aware of in regards to the way they interact with one another as women and the way that they interact with men in general. Whether it be romantic or platonic or career wise, we really need to rethink.
While I understand the concern about rebellion, I believe that being a 'good girl' doesn't inherently lead to self-sabotage or poor choices. There are many smart, good girls who grow up to make wise decisions and avoid toxic relationships. It's not about being good or bad; it's about teaching our daughters to recognize their worth, set boundaries, and make informed choices. Attractiveness to certain types of people can stem from various factors, and it’s crucial to focus on building self-esteem and resilience rather than labeling behaviors.
Interesting. I was raised to be good and I never wanted a bad boy. Maybe because I wasn't sheltered so I saw things thus had absolutely no desire to deal with those types
That wasn't my case but I am the good girl that married the bad boy. I am good but hood, I have manners and morals and can all also air this bitch out when need be. I never purposely intentionally chose what I knew was bad for me or a figment of bad, I was too smart for that but I ended up making all the mistakes you mentioned and I totally agree girls should be well rounded , bc being cold is needed sometimes in this world. So I understand in a round Abt way ...💞
I thank you for sharing very effective and educational
I'm raising my future daughters to not give a damn about anyone but themselves ✌️✌️✌️✌️
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True. I am a mother who is a former good girl. I married the bad boy and it caused all kinds of problems. I teach my daughter to embrace both her good and bad. You don't want to only go towards one or the other. Embrace all of yourself and be in balance.
Absolutely I love this, recognizing your human and it’s the inevitable that you will make mistakes and not be perfect
Or the “understanding girl” ie Keke Palmer. It’s the reason she got with her BD because she understood that her success at her age was an exception and not the rule.
Also a lot of good girls have not been trained to have boundaries. A lot of people try to get over in them
Exactly how I got to this place…
Yeah, I think this is great. We should most definitely rethink the way we raise our daughters in general. Because we also need to include, let’s not raise them to be male-centered, male-identified, seeking male validation. You know, all of these things, altering ambition, goals, beauty standards, the way that we treat one another as women, all in pursuit of male attention. You know, think about how women are so competitive with one another if there is a man involved. In any situation, it could be a brother, cousin, friend, boyfriend, father. You know, not all cases, but, you know, these types of things need to be considered as well. We as women, we need to rethink and readjust and understand how powerful-how much of a responsibility it is to truly have a womb and be able to bring life onto this planet. And consider the fact that whatever man we choose to lay down with and sleep with and give kids to, we are essentially allowing him to copy and paste himself. And we are choosing what type of people we bring onto this planet by ignoring red flags, poor behavior, lazy, low ambition. There’s a lot of things that we need to make our daughters aware of in regards to the way they interact with one another as women and the way that they interact with men in general. Whether it be romantic or platonic or career wise, we really need to rethink.
THIS COMMENT IS NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH. I hope I can begin to help in anyway I can by using my voice. I truly agree with everything you said 100% 🙏🏾
While I understand the concern about rebellion, I believe that being a 'good girl' doesn't inherently lead to self-sabotage or poor choices. There are many smart, good girls who grow up to make wise decisions and avoid toxic relationships. It's not about being good or bad; it's about teaching our daughters to recognize their worth, set boundaries, and make informed choices. Attractiveness to certain types of people can stem from various factors, and it’s crucial to focus on building self-esteem and resilience rather than labeling behaviors.
Well you know this is just my exact story, everyone is different
I try to raise my three beautiful daughters ti be indiependend.
And that rhey never step back because of the fragile efo of a Guy. 😅
Love this!
Interesting. I was raised to be good and I never wanted a bad boy. Maybe because I wasn't sheltered so I saw things thus had absolutely no desire to deal with those types
Yeah sometimes it skips over you lol
That wasn't my case but I am the good girl that married the bad boy. I am good but hood, I have manners and morals and can all also air this bitch out when need be. I never purposely intentionally chose what I knew was bad for me or a figment of bad, I was too smart for that but I ended up making all the mistakes you mentioned and I totally agree girls should be well rounded , bc being cold is needed sometimes in this world. So I understand in a round Abt way ...💞