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  • @masikaritah9001
    @masikaritah9001 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +260

    Who else is from Tiktok

  • @kemi0495
    @kemi0495 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    Who came here after watching this on TikTok

  • @elvahatugonza8705
    @elvahatugonza8705 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    This is me😢I can't count how many times I have cried in my bed, having one child en the father rejects the baby is the most painful thing on earth, I got so annoyed that I stopped going to church but after seeing many stories I realized mine is even far better, I have a very nice job, my son is on medical insurance meaning we can access the best hospitals in Uganda , I decided to forgive the father of my son for the past, present and future and give my time to my boy, have gone back to God coz am live and still have a purpose, I have faith that I will be a great woman in future and will give the best to my child, May all single mothers and fathers God see you through and you bring up the most responsible children

    • @RaymondProsper
      @RaymondProsper 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's me but less be strong in Jesus christ

    • @ngonzigloria6511
      @ngonzigloria6511 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May God bless you dear

    • @nantongoclaire6017
      @nantongoclaire6017 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too dia u not alone

    • @Mirembe_Nicole
      @Mirembe_Nicole 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That is a great attitude,keep going ,I was once a single mom too father left but held on to God, He blessed me with a good Husband, God fearing who has loved me and my Child ,Its 5years later God is Faithful

    • @lisaclarasamson1528
      @lisaclarasamson1528 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is me😢

  • @niwagabaabraham4511
    @niwagabaabraham4511 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Yes, this is my classmate, i can confirm that sylivia was always outstanding and I believe she's still outstanding, Great thanks to fortunate for standing with you.

  • @ssubibrenda4601
    @ssubibrenda4601 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    For every woman going through this, we are sorry that we judged you, only God can help you and strengthen you

  • @kaliisakaita5831
    @kaliisakaita5831 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    From TikTok to here😢

  • @kabasinguzisusan9811
    @kabasinguzisusan9811 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I have cried all through this because God has been there for me and every time you mentioned God being there for you I related with God being there for me .God is love and pure lets keep trusting God

    • @saraibabra131
      @saraibabra131 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True me too was like that and God was there for me

  • @candidtalkwithadelle
    @candidtalkwithadelle 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I have come to learn that God will make you go through struggles that will prepare you for your purpose. To be a great Councillor, you needed this experience to help you understand your clients better. Thank you for the brevity to share your story!

  • @nagasharacheal4
    @nagasharacheal4 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    One thing I've realised is that If only we as christians tried to be like God in how we relate with eachother..if we extended even half of the grace we receive from God, church wouldn't lose so many to the den of feeling judged...its so sad.. we've got to do better.we need to extend more grace,more empathy😢let people fall and rise before their maker,He himself has promised to see to it that none falls and remains fallen.It's not our job to scrutinise their journey.Thank you for sharing darling ❤Blessings

  • @randaranow
    @randaranow 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Something I have learnt in my experience as well is that some men can never love, respect you the moment you can't earn something.
    It's very good for us women to embark on working.

    • @AshaNats-h9q
      @AshaNats-h9q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      True

    • @kizitonen5576
      @kizitonen5576 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Full support , it better to first embark on achieving what u expect from a man your self , this reduces on dependence and too much expectations.

    • @randaranow
      @randaranow 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kizitonen5576 Gotcha

    • @michezo256
      @michezo256 หลายเดือนก่อน

      never low your standards for anyone not even love

  • @robertmambo9711
    @robertmambo9711 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wanted whole story. From TikTok

  • @Shellinahkanyesigye
    @Shellinahkanyesigye 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    From tiktok and I wish l can share my story to becoz what the man did to me is unbelievable 😪.

  • @sarahadhiambo7858
    @sarahadhiambo7858 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm from tiktok n I can tell you this sounds like my story 😢 😢 😭 people should never judge

  • @KisakyeAngela-ql9kg
    @KisakyeAngela-ql9kg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Am from TikTok....i wanted the whole story ❤

  • @orishabaalbina4671
    @orishabaalbina4671 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ooh my dear OG at Trinity, such a strong woman, may the good Lord give you all the blessings and happiness, thanks for sharing.

  • @nahweraangella5706
    @nahweraangella5706 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I suggest you always put the visistors on the cover page😂😂😂😂.I have suffered scrolling looking for this story coz the cover had u not her.

    • @BahatiHilda
      @BahatiHilda  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thank you, just sorted it! You’re awesome

    • @miriammonicah
      @miriammonicah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too I was failing to get it, but i just typed in the title

    • @kyomugishamoureen3260
      @kyomugishamoureen3260 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same to me been looking for this story on her page ehhh mukama out of the blue it came on my newsfeeds

    • @namarajoy8884
      @namarajoy8884 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@BahatiHildayou are an awesome and amazing woman
      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @KansiimeDorothy-bf1mx
      @KansiimeDorothy-bf1mx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought I was alone 😂, what an amazing story it is!

  • @aineviq5333
    @aineviq5333 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I remember this girl at stacon. She was a humble and prayerful girl.

    • @nuwabasaflavia8524
      @nuwabasaflavia8524 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah sure, very down to earth and indeed outstanding. Sylivia we really believe that you’re indeed destined for the best

  • @nabukenyaeron5205
    @nabukenyaeron5205 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    True meaning of "bwoba tonafa tewevuma nsi".God is always great ❤

  • @ElizabethBalimunsi
    @ElizabethBalimunsi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    To all men out there, no matter the circumstances, do the best you can to be loving and supportive of a woman that is carrying your child and has had your child. Don't question it, just do it.

  • @dorisamooti1204
    @dorisamooti1204 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are very honest with yourself.

  • @simbig8975
    @simbig8975 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The devil is a big liar. You are a strong woman and God has the best for you.

    • @majoriebasiima645
      @majoriebasiima645 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You gal the devil is a liar😢😢😢😢

  • @katungirichard
    @katungirichard หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Brilliant girl, full of courage.

  • @norbertpiwang5765
    @norbertpiwang5765 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    From TikTok this touched and and learnt some lesions guess it's not late for me my dear God

  • @natukundagrace4903
    @natukundagrace4903 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you dear for being bold to share. It's never too late to return to God. He is such a loving and forgiving father

  • @sharonnavuga5039
    @sharonnavuga5039 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Such a sweet woman. You've been through a lot. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @SanyuRabecca
    @SanyuRabecca 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amen, thanks for the closing prayer.
    But believe me, men aren’t easy 😢. Most of us are survivors from mental illness and trauma

  • @bexameria9804
    @bexameria9804 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow. What a beautiful message from Arinda ive really learnt from your experience and am not remaining the same. Thanks Mrs Bahati for the show

  • @oldlaqaaye9931
    @oldlaqaaye9931 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    " If you get a job syia seated at home please connect her." That words they're touched me.😢

  • @joanKihembo
    @joanKihembo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Another day of cutting onions while watching this story..you are astrong woman..woah

  • @saraibabra131
    @saraibabra131 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One day i will come and give my testimony . Where i am is by the grace of God

  • @esthernimah7416
    @esthernimah7416 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God is so amazing and faithful ❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @sumayyahkalyegira106
    @sumayyahkalyegira106 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bambi she has a very touching story 😢but i'm happy that whatever she went through she never lose hope,she never gave up and here she's now she stood and now fond her purpose
    This's so amazing 😊😊

  • @Pamelakittyy
    @Pamelakittyy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Not me living campus without a boyfriend 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @NafunaAllen
      @NafunaAllen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's a win win❤🎉🎉🎉 congratulations

  • @catherineabenaitwe7167
    @catherineabenaitwe7167 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think i sat with this lady in a taxi from Mbra to Kla....
    God is a good God, He said that He will never leave us alone... Even when ur own pple leave, He remains.
    You were just being prepared for greater things. Just keep looking up to Him.

  • @WendyNgabire
    @WendyNgabire 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was too emotional to watch. Thank you for sharing

  • @funwithnicole3868
    @funwithnicole3868 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a story. So many lessons to learn.

  • @ayebareannah8975
    @ayebareannah8975 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    From tiktok to full story 😭 God is great always 🙏

  • @peacedorothy9108
    @peacedorothy9108 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cried all through watching this. Our God never forsakes us. He is a God of many chances

  • @carolynmainga
    @carolynmainga 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Go home don't punish yourself..your family will always love you..God will never leave you.God I pray for the favor from people that this woman has from you.Amen

  • @Mwigar
    @Mwigar 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Strong woman🙏🏽 God is with you.

  • @namarajoy8884
    @namarajoy8884 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God is above every situation, Glory to Him. Dear sons of Pharaoh stand warned, the Lord sees everything

  • @peruthmwenkanya2508
    @peruthmwenkanya2508 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    it was just too much🤦‍♀. We thank God for restoring you.

  • @iyengugladys2824
    @iyengugladys2824 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow this is so heart touching
    Thanks for sharing
    God will surely bring you someone worth it

  • @nansumbanoeline6440
    @nansumbanoeline6440 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Eeeh really touching story, thanks for Sharing dear Sylvia.

  • @aphiaowatuhaire777
    @aphiaowatuhaire777 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i don't know why am crying

  • @ritaariho921
    @ritaariho921 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cyber hugs for you dear Arinda, indeed you are destined for greatness, i have experienced postnatal depression, even while my husband was still around.. so i can really imagine what exactly you were going through during that time. People will judge you here , but only a few of us who have through the same can understand you. Am happy that you picked it up yourself again and here you are inspiring others. God surely bless you and one day one time, the first father of your child will regret. Keep shining baby girl.

  • @patiencemagoola101
    @patiencemagoola101 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow . This was mind blowing. God fortified her indeed. Sending love to both of you❤❤❤❤❤

  • @aphiaowatuhaire777
    @aphiaowatuhaire777 หลายเดือนก่อน

    so touching and encouraging thanks dearest and more some stories that will motivate and make us grow harder

  • @hibumbemoses3440
    @hibumbemoses3440 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Arinda for sharing this story, i have a friend who has a similar story.
    I am grateful to also have been part of KUAYM ministries at campus

  • @kabaliisachall
    @kabaliisachall 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hes a God of restoration. Just keep seeking his will

  • @clarenuwampa8917
    @clarenuwampa8917 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you, dear Arinda. Sorry for what happened to you, but remember. God doesn't make mistakes. This happened to you because God wanted you to heal hearts that are broken.
    May the will of God be done.
    Amen

  • @mwizasafaristourvlog8142
    @mwizasafaristourvlog8142 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Youre a strong woman Arinda, and we have a good good father Jesus Christ

  • @natobolilian
    @natobolilian 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am here from TikTok
    Am proud of you bahat hubby and wifey Hilda

  • @kaijukyospecioza5468
    @kaijukyospecioza5468 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for being a strong woman. We serve a living God who never forsakes us. Greater things a wait you dear

  • @primafancybirungi
    @primafancybirungi หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ooohhh I know her, she was my sweet customer in my saloon back Uganda, she used not to miss st poul church every Sunday mawanda road with her two little girls

  • @nabaggalaritah4467
    @nabaggalaritah4467 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    she is going to become a great lady. So hardworking

  • @katek4724
    @katek4724 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sad to hear what you went through and I am glad you overcame. Let's educate girls to guard their hearts and bodies. Love is a beautiful thing but baby steps... Godspeed to all facing this.

  • @uwasebarbra1425
    @uwasebarbra1425 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God is so loving and faithful ❤️ he will always come through 🙏

  • @kamukamadiana-ko6cp
    @kamukamadiana-ko6cp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love you Hilda❤and thank you always for encouraging us 😭😭😭🙏🙏

  • @AmanyaAnnah
    @AmanyaAnnah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May God continue protecting me 🙏🙏

  • @angel.----
    @angel.---- 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im from TikTok Ijust landed now ❤❤

  • @clairekatusiime7913
    @clairekatusiime7913 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Arinda thank you for sharing this is so helpful to us mothers. You're indeed a great woman. Thanks Bahati for the show.

  • @mariankamau2493
    @mariankamau2493 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I saw this on tik tok am touched by her story 😢

  • @nantalewinnie
    @nantalewinnie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Eye opening 🤦‍♀️thank you so much sharing with us❤

    • @BahatiHilda
      @BahatiHilda  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are so welcome

  • @kaijukyospecioza5468
    @kaijukyospecioza5468 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May God continue protecting us from such hurtful men and how i wish at one time such men go through more than the pain they make innocent souls go through in the name of love.

  • @edwinkamusiimeadvocate
    @edwinkamusiimeadvocate 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wao Arinda.
    Thanks Our heaven sent Bahati for the interview alot to learn here

    • @BahatiHilda
      @BahatiHilda  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you liked it

  • @ainembabazivickievanessa9382
    @ainembabazivickievanessa9382 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    story of my life😢😢but am sure oneday i wil be okay God willing 🙏🙏

  • @munezaderick1033
    @munezaderick1033 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for being strong and sharing this to us ❤
    Thank you Hilda for edifying us with these powerful testimonies.

    • @BahatiHilda
      @BahatiHilda  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Always!

  • @raykye4711
    @raykye4711 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bambi. Thank God who never gives up on us

  • @nakittopeace
    @nakittopeace 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wooow what a story, thanks for sharing Arinda indeed God uses different circumstances to bring the best out of us

    • @BahatiHilda
      @BahatiHilda  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Absolutely!!

  • @NinsiimaProssy-d1x
    @NinsiimaProssy-d1x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Arinda thanks for being a strong n hardworking lady,this so educative mostly to us young ladies ❤n thanks for sharing 🙏.
    Be blessed 🙏

  • @nyangomamogranie1795
    @nyangomamogranie1795 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We thank God for Arinda and for sharing, the message has taught me alot, to first understand my purpose, and not to give up on life no matter the circumstances

  • @MargretKambili-ig7yc
    @MargretKambili-ig7yc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your encouragement ❤

  • @LiniaLynda-rp1of
    @LiniaLynda-rp1of หลายเดือนก่อน

    She experienced Puerperal psychosis, sorry about that dear we thank God He still kept you regardless of what you went through , today's preacher mentioned some important statement which says "man's disappointment is God's appointment" thank you Arinda for sharing your story ,helping and encouraging mothers going through same condition.

    • @majoriebasiima645
      @majoriebasiima645 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      When ever I feel low and mentally not okay. I run to this channel

  • @sandraug7042
    @sandraug7042 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your story Arinda
    I pray God enables me share my story too one day. Who knows how many lives it could touch and change for the better. My son is turning 3 and starting school next year🥰🥰 I pray God uses me to put him in one of the best schools. My dream is seing him become a great man oneday

  • @akademaitesther2921
    @akademaitesther2921 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He is a faithful God 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @kaliisakaita5831
    @kaliisakaita5831 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are brave baby

  • @HopeKomujinya
    @HopeKomujinya 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me ff this..
    Came from tiktok❤..
    Wish her all the best ❤

  • @dorothykyomugisha26
    @dorothykyomugisha26 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you coach Hilda and thank you for sharing your story Arinda and being vulnerable with us.

  • @zainakulabako2916
    @zainakulabako2916 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh God, always strengthen single moms

  • @lilliankabasingwa2300
    @lilliankabasingwa2300 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for sharing❤

  • @evelynanyeko1635
    @evelynanyeko1635 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mama I remember you at St Kakumba Chapel.

  • @birungiricia6841
    @birungiricia6841 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a lovely message.that what happened to me I wish I had viewed this message before

  • @anitahkansiime1530
    @anitahkansiime1530 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so touching,thanks for sharing.

  • @atukunziredoreen7269
    @atukunziredoreen7269 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We thank God for life
    God is always having a plan for us
    Thank you for sharing dear

  • @owomugishasophia7863
    @owomugishasophia7863 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank God ur still alive and his plans are better

  • @michezo256
    @michezo256 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Madam Hilda thanks for this show , do you what i have learnt..? i have learnt that never to lower my standards for anyone not even for love. thanks.

  • @nansubugashaqiqah1058
    @nansubugashaqiqah1058 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh my God
    my Sylvia noo😢i realy remember the days at campus with you girl..But God is always faithful
    If possible i would like to have your contact again ❤

  • @NamawejjeHildah-mo5uw
    @NamawejjeHildah-mo5uw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow this is powerful..God is indeed great...

  • @kyarikundacostance5856
    @kyarikundacostance5856 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing

  • @janetsematimba2672
    @janetsematimba2672 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the inspiring stories❤

  • @ElizabethBalimunsi
    @ElizabethBalimunsi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The words people say to us can really break us or make us so this wise girls couldn't make good decisions because of the fear that was planted by the words of people around her...we need God, desperately, because the devil has many tricks. thank you for sharing your story Arinda

  • @nassangacatherine2506
    @nassangacatherine2506 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for sharing am learning something ❤❤

    • @BahatiHilda
      @BahatiHilda  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome

  • @rabeccanakasote2101
    @rabeccanakasote2101 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Am from tiktok

  • @macosandra602
    @macosandra602 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    From tick tok direct to here

  • @KebirungiRobinbah
    @KebirungiRobinbah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beeñ through something similar to this but God is faithful 😂 we go through somethings to learn and help people going through the same stuff we went through

  • @ainomugishachrispower7508
    @ainomugishachrispower7508 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    We don't need to judge people. Coz we are all going through alot

    • @natukundagrace4903
      @natukundagrace4903 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True. Don't just judge a person

    • @majoriebasiima645
      @majoriebasiima645 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You judge someone and God puts you exactly in that place them you remain speechless

  • @nabawanukagorreth2981
    @nabawanukagorreth2981 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your story
    Coach Hilda i will share mine too

    • @BahatiHilda
      @BahatiHilda  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Send me a WhatsApp 0757117117

  • @AgnesDorothyAkello
    @AgnesDorothyAkello 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Will some of even get 😢
    This real life stories hurt n increase my phobia for marriage 😢
    Bless 🙏 women ooooh God

  • @KEMIGISHAJULIET-o7f
    @KEMIGISHAJULIET-o7f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    From TikTok to here