Hey darlings! This video has helped SO MANY of you and I'm so happy! I made another one regarding CASUAL kawaii fashion. I hope you find it as helpful as this one!👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾 th-cam.com/video/8CnTQpAeKNg/w-d-xo.html
@@xigdnst2723 I have a very broad musical taste! Anything from Broadway Musicals, to samba, salsa, rnb, jazz, disco, kawaii future bass.... I love it all!
Hello lovely! I felt the same. It's hard when you're my age to find people who are into kawaii fashion, and particularly those who are as EXTRA as I am. I'm 31, so most people my age where I live are NOTHING LIKE ME. That being said, you have to just OWN your fashion sense. If this is what you like then darling you go for it!! Then you will attract the right people to you! People will start to admire you for your confidence and your beautiful outfits that you're putting together! Good luck and keep me posted on your j fashion journey!
"Life is far to depressing...." I agree with you 120%!!!! Color makes my world go round. Leave all that depressing stuff behind. And your double bow is everyyyyythiiiinggg. How are you going to top that??
I've always loved this style but am so nervous going all out for different reasons. I think I meant try to start sneaking small pieces and then maybe one day I'll go all out. Great tips and your attitude has gotten me a little bit more confidence
I actually started with my hair. It took me aaages to wear pastel hair without dark roots cos I thought I'd look silly. Confidence is half of the outfit! As long as you are CONFIDENT THAT YOU LOOK NICE... the outside world just has to accept that YOU think you look fabulous. That's all that matters! Do you gurl!
I mean this in the best possible way; I love the fact you're not a stereotypical kawaii girl! There's nothing wrong with being ^that but it's so quiet and dainty, I've always worried that I wouldn't be able to pull off something like fairy kei because I'm a bit on the "louder" side - so you've given me that extra little boost of confidence and shown me I don't have to try and put on this dainty mask that I *really* don't do well 😂 Please don't take what I've said the wrong way, I dig the way you are :D
Darling. If you're having to put on a mask...you're not being yourself. If you're loud and proud...BE THAT!!! Your clothes are a way of expressing yourself... you should never have to pretend to be something you're not. Not everyone who is cute....is QUIET. Remember that!! Thank you for the love!!!
Thank you for mentioning feeling uncomfortable wearing this style if you’re black or not very young. I definitely went through that, but I got over it. I’m 44 and black. I can’t please everyone so I might as well please myself. I love this style. It’s color therapy for me! And I love your idea of re-purposing. You look fabulous! ❤️ Now I can kawaii-fy (totally a word) my usual hippie/boho clothes using these tips! Thx.
This makes me happy as a black girl. I want to wear this style I'm starting uni in September. I want to get pastel purple box braids and wear them in two big buns hehe
You NEED to be following my gurl @pixistics on Instagram... queen of pastel box braids... will get them made for you real quick! I'm going to be doing a video on her soon. Perfect for starting you on your kawaii journey!!! Good luck at uni! Xx
@Pink Girl WHAT!!! Listen, pastels pop on skin that isn't pale, and blend with skin that is. So whether you're poppin', or blendin', you better ROCK IT!!!!
@Pink Girl You're more than welcome. I'm ten years older than you and I'm still rocking it my dear. No reason why you can't. At the end of the day, they are CLOTHES. However you choose to coordinate them is up to YOU! Just be happy ok!? 💖💜💙
Ever since I was little I wanted to be a harajuku girl soo bad so now I realized I can start slowly and not go with a big boom all at once so I'm starting 😂😁
Even though i'm into the Yami Kawaii/Guro Kawaii fashion this video is still really helpful for coordinates. Making your own jewlery is really fun too, I don't make the necklace chains or anything myself but i do make my own Choker and Necklace charms.
@@AyeshaShaSha Well over in Japan mental health is seen as a weakness or seen as a bad thing so no one talks about it, so people suffering with mental illnesses just keep it to themselves, they also have a very high suicide rate because of that. So to try and bring it out in the open and to try and to get people to care about it an artist named Bisuko and a girl named Kuua Oyasumi wear the fashion, they advocate for mental health and it was created as a way for people to express their issues without actually speaking about it. Basically they say that just because someone is dressed in all pastels or whatever JFashion that person wears doesn't mean their life is happy and perfect so they're trying to shed light on mental health and make it normalized which in the USA mental health is glamorized and romanticized a lot, and a lot of people think that they can't talk about their issues because they're seen as fake. Depression and Anxiety are pretty accepted but there's so many other mental health issues that are just brushed off and seen as fake or people say that others with those illnesses are just doing it for attention. We need to normalize it everywhere especially Japan and the USA(Where im from). Guro Kawaii is pretty much creepy cute but to the extreme and extra gory
@@thegamingwolfe1038 Thank you for that indepth explanation! I always thought the prints with the syringes and plasters and stuff were so cute but I didn't know they had a deeper meaning. Thank you for shedding light on that and yes I agree! It needs to be normalised everywhere!
These looks are MAD cute and i love these tips!! Im known for being extra myself. As far as the skin color thing, youre absolutely right! Everyone should be allowed to wear what makes them feel good and comfortable, and i personally think that pastel fashion on dark skinned people is GOOORGEOUS and makes the pastels pop so much!!! Thank you for the video ❤❤
I use to think the same thing because I'm black as well but I was like who cares I wear what I want to if they don't like it just wave an say hello with a smile and walk off like you own the place😊😘be yourself it's fashion just like everything else well done Sha Sha love every outfit 😍💖💖💖💖💖
Yes! I've been fairy kei for about 3 years now and I LOVE IT ( in my 30's). The first few times I dressed in this style, there wasn't a name for it either. At japan expo and comic con people would ask me what cosplay I was and I was like this is just "me"😜😜😜
Omgosh I'm here crying a little bit now after all the amazing self-reflect tips you gave in between the styling tips. I never even considered that me dressing how I wanted would inspire others to do the same EVEN THOUGH my own spark to look into "extra-ifying" (now also a word) my wardrobe was inspired by a friend of mine a few years ago who dresses super extra goth. To think I could spread joy like that to other people by just putting on cute clothes is really helpful in getting over my own hesitations. You're lovely and your energy is basically everything I aspire to be, thanks for sharing your advice!! ✨💖
I definitely felt the part about being a black woman and dressing this way! I love my pastel colors and color coordinating but sometimes I do like to go the gothic/gothic Lolita route hehe ☺️
I like pastel goth, decora, and goth. Right now I'm just trying to find how plan out my coordinates and mix in my love of bright saturated colors and cute animal prints with dark spooky stuff.
You know you need to check out my friend Rainbow Brandee on youtube.. she is the same as you! Loves goth, pastel goth, bright colours and mixes them together really well! She'd be good inspiration for you. If you have any questions on planning outfits feel free to ask!
I love fairy kei alot and it's like my second fashion. But surprisingly I'm in LOVE with Lolita, there luckily aren't too many rules to the Lolita fashion. All you need are petticoats, blouses, skirts and dresses! But it can be alot more expensive than fairy kei so I keep my fairy kei style too
Hey loves! I really hope you enjoy this video, thanks so much for your patience! For more kawaii videos check these out here: th-cam.com/play/PLZBklFhBobPCXEEnL6mhgZvP7xA5LBxgI.html
Ohemgee this is hands down my favorite video by you! And gurl, I am obsessed with your giant resin pieces so that's really saying something. I love your personality and I think it really shows in this video! 💞💞 have a super kawaii day 💞💞💞
Omg you are a LOVE! Thank you for being you and I'm here for this fashion at 59 goin on 60! I'm gonna start out slow and I'm gonna spread the joy because you are so right it spreads joy and brings smiles! 😘❤
as someone whos incredibly shy and an anxious person, it's definitely possible to wear fashion like this! i dont have many pieces because of money, but wearing this has given me SUCH a confidence boost because i feel more like myself so its definitely possible if you arent very confident
I love the video! I'm always nervous wearing kawaii clothes/style since I'm a small young looking woman (I'm 1,52 meter and 28 years old) People most often already think I'm very young and when I dress kawaii it tends to get worse.
Darling what people thing REALLY doesn't matter. I literally just did a post about this on my Instagram actually, you really need to just embrace what you love and WHERE IT REGARDLESS because you don't wanna regret it later in life. While you are into the fashion, just ROCK IT. IT'S JUST....CLOTHES. Fabulous ones at that!!!
I live for your channel! you inspiring me I think I wanna make a B-Gyaru channel....I'm black in the US but I have always loved black girls intersection with anime and fashion and kawaii and goth and metal and hip-hop etc etc I love the exaggerated cuteness of fairy kei and decora and gyaru and mixing with hip-hop culture. favorite inspirations are Barbie, Lisa Frank, Hello Kitty, Kimora Lee Simmons/Baby Phat, Nicki Minaj, Lovely Mimi, Cardi, B, Asian Da Brat, Doja Cat etc etc etc
Listen to how passionately you talk about this! GO FOR IT! Make the channel! I don't see many (if any) black girls into Gyaru fashion! There's a gap in the market! Go for it and I wish you the best!! And thank you!
Thank you so much for the video. You gave me so many good ideas. I usually like to dress in lolita but I love to travel... and lolita clothes take a lot of room and can be really uncomfortable on a 17h bus ride or on a long flight. So when I travel, I usually just wear black jeans and oversized T-shirts... and I feel quite sad doing so. I think fairy kei can be an amazing alternative to lolita so I can travel comfortably and still feel 'me' with all the bows and cute clothes and accessories.
" I feel quite sad doing so" .... You know I can really relate to that. Sometimes I can genuinely feel a mood shift when I'm wearing darker casual clothes. If it's something slinky and nice cos I'm going out on a date that's different, but if it's just...your normal run of the mill clothes, I just don't feel as fabulous. So I totally get you there! Fairy kei is great though because you can dress it up or down, and still be damn CUTE!!!!!
So glad I found your channel. I've never seen another woman closer to my age (and also a mom!) Who also enjoys this kind of fashion. I love what you had to say about older people enjoying this style.
I think your fabulous. As soon as I saw you I said I want to dress like this. Then I discovered I already do,I’m on the lower end of it but I love it. I bought some pink and lavender tutu’s and your giving me permission to wear them out. Love you and love your style. You go girl!!
I'm glad the augorithm brought me to this video, your personality is just lovely!! I've been getting into decora recently, and I'm totally on board with turning 'random' things into accessories x) the possibilities are endless when you're creative and got some superglue!
I love your style. I love the colors and I love your energy. You can see how much you love your style. I also love the harajuku street style with all the different berets and colors! Keep making yourself happy!
How can I?! I've seen so many men (whether they are born male or identify as male) who turn it ooouuutttt with this fashion! It's all so inspiring, it's just clothes at the end of the day, but I just love seeing how people put their coords together, no matter what gender!
I just found your channel and i love it !! I love the whole message of love yourself and Brightening peoples day by being positive and dressing fun and cute . I am 22 and a mother and i always felt like I could never dress like this because people would think it was childish . but I think that just because your grown up dosent mean you have to lose that sense of fun and wonder .you inspire me so much . ps . you are super pretty !! 💕☺
Thank you so much!! Listen you're not gonna be a young mama for ever. Use your youth while you got it! Your child will be happy to see you in all the bright colours, mine is!!!
I have always liked and loved harajuku fashion from Japan my fave harajuku fashions are decora, fairykei, and Lolita :) but the fashion I've really been into lately is decora :)
I told my husband I love vicariously through you lol. I feel like the look wouldn’t look right without make up and I don’t like wearing makeup. And I am SO gun shy about wigs. I have 3 sitting in my AliExpress cart lol
BUY THEM! If you wanna live your life through me you need to buy them hahahaha! And as long as your brows are done and a little lippy and mascara you're good! 😂😂😂
My FAVORITE style is fairy kei! I love it soooooooooo much! I love big bows and I can agree I always try to make cute things like for ex: toys, collectibles, small random cute junk...etc I try to wear it! I think the more the merrier 😉! Not only that but pastels have always been my jam!
my style has always been kinda dark, gothy and rocker girl but i have been mixing more pastel and bright colours into my outfits and im turning more and more into pastel goth and i finally feel like myself :) also im 27 and i dont really care when people think im a teenager because of my style haha great tip video, subbed immediatly :3 also you make resin pieces and im starting that art as well :3
Welcome to the ShaShaSquad Claudia!!! YES GURL. Live your best pastel goth life!!! Honestly some of the stuff I wear is ridiculously over the top...and I know that...the key is to OWN it. NO APOLOGIES!!! At the end of the day...it's JUST CLOTHES. Fashion is subjective... everyone will have an opinion, what matters most is what YOU think! Always remember that!!!
I love your fairy kei style!! Gives magical girl aswell x I'm 28, hippy from childhood who started dressing decora and love kawaii and other alt fashions, hope this brings others confidence and joy 🎉 Love from west london
You just got a very happy new subscriber! Love you’re encouragement about wearing the fashion you like, no matter who you are ! It really inspired me to not care what anyone thinks. Just wear you’re clothes with confidence . It’s not hurting anyone so why worry!😊God bless . THANKS!
I can't express how happy this video and your channel makes me! I've always been into kawaii fashion but didn't have the confidence to do it. Seeing this has inspired me to get myself to dressing the way I want too !! Thank you, You are stunning !! :)
Omg!!! I want to dress kawaii and I’m trying to start and I’m SOOOOOO happy that I found you! I love the fact that you’re confident with dressing cute and that you’re black and that you aren’t skinny as hell. You’re a huge inspiration!
I looove lolita, pastel and goth style! I also love E-girl's style I wanna dress all pink and girly everyday but my wardrobe is 99% black and 1% pink and don't have a lot of pink cutesy clothes :((
@@arieschoi707 welcome to the Sha Sha Squad!!! And you can mix pink with black just fine! Maybe get some hair accessories to match? And a cute pink bag?
I know this is old but thank you so much for this video! I am a male and have also been into goth fashion for over a decade, I haven't worn a single color outside of white, black, and grey for that whole time. I collect and style dolls and many of them are pastels and "kawaii" style and slowly over time it influenced me to want to dress that way... but I had no clue how! I'm not used to coordinating colors and makeup and outfits because I have always lived by throwing two black garments together and putting on cheap black eyeliner and calling it a day XD Looking cute (and maybe even a little feminine as I like some of the tutus and jewelry and things) is a whole new world for me and you just made getting into it so much easier and less intimidating! I totally love your style and your channel, you will now totally be my go to for inspiration
2 years later and I've found this comment... it made me smile so much! I hope you're still enjoying your fashion journey and I'm so glad to have helped!
i love the lamb/ram shirt. it reminds me of animal crossing and space. and its vv calming. you're energetic and hilarious. im still learning my fashion style but so far i love the cozycore style. its lots of oversized and soft textures thanks for everything!
Ayesha: LIGHT COLORED PASTELS ADJKGF me, a sweet lolita: y e s (ok but like i love your energy and im so happy to see all these people being inspired!!! work it, girl!!!)
My fave fashion style is yumi kawaii and decora however I have short bursts of other styles when I'm in the mood. Thank you for your video!! It's so hard to make things!! And I totally agree you can dress however you want!!! People do alot over Black people in Harajuku. I'm Black and my friends got treated mean in other countries, also there is alot of in community shaming both inside and outside of the community. I'm bougie and I'm a Leo. I just had a birthday. I can't force people to like me but I can make myself happy through fashion. 💗
Happy belated birthday!! Do what you like love. Honestly people shouldn't be judged by the colour of their skin ANYWAY and especially when it comes to what they wanna WEAR!!! DO YOUUUUUU
@@AyeshaShaSha watching your videos really helps me not be insecure, and I really really love it like a lot I just ordered a whole bunch of kawaii stuff and all that but thanks to you you helped
These are all so adorable. I just wish it was easier to find clothes in my size. Thankfully I can find some disney shirts in my size. So one of my favs is to dress disney, with handmade minnie mouse ears.
Ayesha Sha Sha! I'm just always too hot and they are still too small for me anyways. I'm a big girl and hold the majority of my weight in my stomach. So finding shirts usually isn't a problem but I can't find pants or leggings that fit. Part of why I always wear skirts.
I watched 1 minute and already fell in love with your amazing style and kindness! Thanks a lot for all the tips, they helped me a lot ^^ Keep up the good work, your videos are really fun to watch :)
Love the super adorable Kawaii Fashion Haul video! 😊 You look so adorable in all your outfits 😍 But if I had to only chose one mines who be the gorgeous pastel blue one 💙✨
My favorite fashion is decora. I just love to wear a lot jewelries. It was always like that but with different styles. Nowadays I don't wear much jewelries and save it to my "decora days". After a long day my body needs some rest XD
@@AyeshaShaSha yepp that's me uwu I love facepainting but I rarely have the time to do it. But I have some fun coords and planning more. I love to make my look in different themes. Like using only one or two colors, or having food related themes (I made popcorn themed decora a few months ago XD)
I found this video when I think it was only a few months old? I didn’t really know what I wanted to wear and for awhile I was convinced I wanted to wear Fairy kei for awhile! Although I don’t wear fairy kei (I’m into ott sweet lolita ^^) but my friend is getting into fairy kei and I’m going to send her this because it was rather helpful!
Hey darlings! This video has helped SO MANY of you and I'm so happy! I made another one regarding CASUAL kawaii fashion. I hope you find it as helpful as this one!👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾
th-cam.com/video/8CnTQpAeKNg/w-d-xo.html
What songs do you listen to? Please tell me, i really want to know.
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@@xigdnst2723 I have a very broad musical taste! Anything from Broadway Musicals, to samba, salsa, rnb, jazz, disco, kawaii future bass.... I love it all!
@@AyeshaShaSha Thank you so much! 🥰🥺👉🏻👈🏻♥️
I wish I met someone irl who dressed like this it would Realy encourage me
Hello lovely! I felt the same. It's hard when you're my age to find people who are into kawaii fashion, and particularly those who are as EXTRA as I am. I'm 31, so most people my age where I live are NOTHING LIKE ME. That being said, you have to just OWN your fashion sense. If this is what you like then darling you go for it!! Then you will attract the right people to you! People will start to admire you for your confidence and your beautiful outfits that you're putting together! Good luck and keep me posted on your j fashion journey!
Then I will be that girl💚 I live in a VERY VERY conservative town in the bible belt so I'm also nervous..but you know what..IMA DO IT
@@stalker9395 DO IT GUURRLLLL!!
@@AyeshaShaSha THANKS 💙💜❤💚✨
Same :(
Ayesha: match colours!
Me, a decora baby: cries rainbow tears
Hahaha!!! That's fine too!!!
@@AyeshaShaSha the video was pretty helpful, but that part made me giggle a bit.
@@louiserules hahaha! I'm glad!
hahah, the same thing happened to me! ^^
Hahaha! 😅🤣😅
"Life is far to depressing...." I agree with you 120%!!!! Color makes my world go round. Leave all that depressing stuff behind. And your double bow is everyyyyythiiiinggg. How are you going to top that??
Hahahaha triple bow?! 😂😂😂😂😂 When I'm in my little bubble of colour I feel at peace! We get fed so much negativity, it's my way of escapism!
I've always loved this style but am so nervous going all out for different reasons. I think I meant try to start sneaking small pieces and then maybe one day I'll go all out. Great tips and your attitude has gotten me a little bit more confidence
I actually started with my hair. It took me aaages to wear pastel hair without dark roots cos I thought I'd look silly. Confidence is half of the outfit! As long as you are CONFIDENT THAT YOU LOOK NICE... the outside world just has to accept that YOU think you look fabulous. That's all that matters! Do you gurl!
Same because all my friends are more into vsco fashion and they tease me saying I dress like a 5 year old so I have to do it really sutley😕(;´༎ຶٹ༎ຶ`)
Same
i_like_nightcore_69 thoose are not real friends you need to get friends who bring you up make you laugh and keep you happy
those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
I mean this in the best possible way; I love the fact you're not a stereotypical kawaii girl! There's nothing wrong with being ^that but it's so quiet and dainty, I've always worried that I wouldn't be able to pull off something like fairy kei because I'm a bit on the "louder" side - so you've given me that extra little boost of confidence and shown me I don't have to try and put on this dainty mask that I *really* don't do well 😂
Please don't take what I've said the wrong way, I dig the way you are :D
Darling. If you're having to put on a mask...you're not being yourself. If you're loud and proud...BE THAT!!! Your clothes are a way of expressing yourself... you should never have to pretend to be something you're not. Not everyone who is cute....is QUIET. Remember that!! Thank you for the love!!!
Thank you for mentioning feeling uncomfortable wearing this style if you’re black or not very young. I definitely went through that, but I got over it. I’m 44 and black. I can’t please everyone so I might as well please myself. I love this style. It’s color therapy for me! And I love your idea of re-purposing.
You look fabulous! ❤️
Now I can kawaii-fy (totally a word) my usual hippie/boho clothes using these tips! Thx.
I hear you sister. Now go KAWAII-IFY YOURSELF!!!
I'm not even into this fashion style (and I came here because I saw you onamino) but I stayed as I fell for your personality and the way you talk.
Jamy that is so sweet of you! Thank you so much! As I said these tips can apply to ANY fashion! 💖💜💙
This makes me happy as a black girl. I want to wear this style I'm starting uni in September. I want to get pastel purple box braids and wear them in two big buns hehe
You NEED to be following my gurl @pixistics on Instagram... queen of pastel box braids... will get them made for you real quick! I'm going to be doing a video on her soon. Perfect for starting you on your kawaii journey!!! Good luck at uni! Xx
@Pink Girl WHAT!!! Listen, pastels pop on skin that isn't pale, and blend with skin that is. So whether you're poppin', or blendin', you better ROCK IT!!!!
@Pink Girl You're more than welcome. I'm ten years older than you and I'm still rocking it my dear. No reason why you can't. At the end of the day, they are CLOTHES. However you choose to coordinate them is up to YOU! Just be happy ok!? 💖💜💙
@@AyeshaShaSha THANK YOU SO MUCH KWEEN
@Pink Girl YOU WOULD FIT IT AND AWW THANK U 🥺🥺💓💞💓💓
Ever since I was little I wanted to be a harajuku girl soo bad so now I realized I can start slowly and not go with a big boom all at once so I'm starting 😂😁
You can BOOM pretty quickly haha! You start small then BOOM you are an ACTUAL rainbow. You've been WARNED!!!
i can relate to the tshirt that says please dont take any photos without my permision... i love it.
It's so good!!
Even though i'm into the Yami Kawaii/Guro Kawaii fashion this video is still really helpful for coordinates. Making your own jewlery is really fun too, I don't make the necklace chains or anything myself but i do make my own Choker and Necklace charms.
That's awesome you make your own stuff! Could you explain to us what Yami Kawaii/ Guro Kawaii Fashion is? X
@@AyeshaShaSha Well over in Japan mental health is seen as a weakness or seen as a bad thing so no one talks about it, so people suffering with mental illnesses just keep it to themselves, they also have a very high suicide rate because of that. So to try and bring it out in the open and to try and to get people to care about it an artist named Bisuko and a girl named Kuua Oyasumi wear the fashion, they advocate for mental health and it was created as a way for people to express their issues without actually speaking about it. Basically they say that just because someone is dressed in all pastels or whatever JFashion that person wears doesn't mean their life is happy and perfect so they're trying to shed light on mental health and make it normalized which in the USA mental health is glamorized and romanticized a lot, and a lot of people think that they can't talk about their issues because they're seen as fake. Depression and Anxiety are pretty accepted but there's so many other mental health issues that are just brushed off and seen as fake or people say that others with those illnesses are just doing it for attention. We need to normalize it everywhere especially Japan and the USA(Where im from). Guro Kawaii is pretty much creepy cute but to the extreme and extra gory
@@thegamingwolfe1038 Thank you for that indepth explanation! I always thought the prints with the syringes and plasters and stuff were so cute but I didn't know they had a deeper meaning. Thank you for shedding light on that and yes I agree! It needs to be normalised everywhere!
@@AyeshaShaSha Yeah no problem. The more people know about it the better
These looks are MAD cute and i love these tips!! Im known for being extra myself. As far as the skin color thing, youre absolutely right! Everyone should be allowed to wear what makes them feel good and comfortable, and i personally think that pastel fashion on dark skinned people is GOOORGEOUS and makes the pastels pop so much!!! Thank you for the video ❤❤
You are so welcome lovely!! I'm glad you enjoyed it!!!
Kawaii pastel goth is probably my favorite fashion style
I'm getting into the pastel goth style!! It's cute!
I use to think the same thing because I'm black as well but I was like who cares I wear what I want to if they don't like it just wave an say hello with a smile and walk off like you own the place😊😘be yourself it's fashion just like everything else well done Sha Sha love every outfit 😍💖💖💖💖💖
It's true gurl... Some will stop and stare, might as well give them something nice to look at!
@@AyeshaShaSha that's right 😄
never seen a black girl in kawaii and NOT squealed like an excited puppy.
Hahaha!!
How is this a race problem? Everyone should be loving what we've been giving. You're beautiful no matter what they say. Everyone in pink!
Yes! I've been fairy kei for about 3 years now and I LOVE IT ( in my 30's). The first few times I dressed in this style, there wasn't a name for it either. At japan expo and comic con people would ask me what cosplay I was and I was like this is just "me"😜😜😜
Yeessss! You better rock it!!
Omgosh I'm here crying a little bit now after all the amazing self-reflect tips you gave in between the styling tips. I never even considered that me dressing how I wanted would inspire others to do the same EVEN THOUGH my own spark to look into "extra-ifying" (now also a word) my wardrobe was inspired by a friend of mine a few years ago who dresses super extra goth. To think I could spread joy like that to other people by just putting on cute clothes is really helpful in getting over my own hesitations. You're lovely and your energy is basically everything I aspire to be, thanks for sharing your advice!! ✨💖
This made me so happy to read... Share your extrafyingness (also a word 😅) with the world! XxX
I’m only a kid but this style makes me so happy! I would love to dress like that! And I think I am going to!!’
Do it!!!!
Same!! I'm just worried about sizes ;w;
I definitely felt the part about being a black woman and dressing this way! I love my pastel colors and color coordinating but sometimes I do like to go the gothic/gothic Lolita route hehe ☺️
Dress how ever you want lovely! You're born to be different!
I like pastel goth, decora, and goth. Right now I'm just trying to find how plan out my coordinates and mix in my love of bright saturated colors and cute animal prints with dark spooky stuff.
You know you need to check out my friend Rainbow Brandee on youtube.. she is the same as you! Loves goth, pastel goth, bright colours and mixes them together really well! She'd be good inspiration for you. If you have any questions on planning outfits feel free to ask!
Im brown and I was little hesitant about decora but seeing more dark skinned decoras it really inspires me
This make sme so appy to se.. you get out there and do yo thanngg!
@@AyeshaShaSha thank you soo much 💓
Good honest advice 💖 also these outfits are so cute!! The all lavender one is my fav ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks so much!
I don't really have a favorite style but I like mixing my darks with my pastels with very comfy clothes
I'm quite into pastel with black too!
Mickey same I pretty much like everystyle lol
I love fairy kei alot and it's like my second fashion. But surprisingly I'm in LOVE with Lolita, there luckily aren't too many rules to the Lolita fashion. All you need are petticoats, blouses, skirts and dresses! But it can be alot more expensive than fairy kei so I keep my fairy kei style too
Lolita can get SOOOOO expensive! I love me some fairy kei!
Hey loves! I really hope you enjoy this video, thanks so much for your patience! For more kawaii videos check these out here: th-cam.com/play/PLZBklFhBobPCXEEnL6mhgZvP7xA5LBxgI.html
Ohemgee this is hands down my favorite video by you! And gurl, I am obsessed with your giant resin pieces so that's really saying something. I love your personality and I think it really shows in this video! 💞💞 have a super kawaii day 💞💞💞
Gurl you need to check out my video of me turning an ashtray into a necklace 😂😂😂😂now THAT is huge hahaha! Thank you so much for the love!!!
@@AyeshaShaSha That's my other favorite!!! 💞💞💞
@@XxAmethystRaynexX aww yeeyyy!
@@AyeshaShaSha 💞💞💞
for the sheep outfit my fav accessory for the bag is the backpack one.
Omg you are a LOVE! Thank you for being you and I'm here for this fashion at 59 goin on 60! I'm gonna start out slow and I'm gonna spread the joy because you are so right it spreads joy and brings smiles! 😘❤
This made me smile so much, thank you for sharing and GO YOU for doing this at 60!!! You go get em!!!
as someone whos incredibly shy and an anxious person, it's definitely possible to wear fashion like this! i dont have many pieces because of money, but wearing this has given me SUCH a confidence boost because i feel more like myself
so its definitely possible if you arent very confident
Yes yes yes!! Thank you for sharing!!
I love the video!
I'm always nervous wearing kawaii clothes/style since I'm a small young looking woman (I'm 1,52 meter and 28 years old) People most often already think I'm very young and when I dress kawaii it tends to get worse.
Darling what people thing REALLY doesn't matter. I literally just did a post about this on my Instagram actually, you really need to just embrace what you love and WHERE IT REGARDLESS because you don't wanna regret it later in life. While you are into the fashion, just ROCK IT. IT'S JUST....CLOTHES. Fabulous ones at that!!!
I live for your channel! you inspiring me I think I wanna make a B-Gyaru channel....I'm black in the US but I have always loved black girls intersection with anime and fashion and kawaii and goth and metal and hip-hop etc etc I love the exaggerated cuteness of fairy kei and decora and gyaru and mixing with hip-hop culture. favorite inspirations are Barbie, Lisa Frank, Hello Kitty, Kimora Lee Simmons/Baby Phat, Nicki Minaj, Lovely Mimi, Cardi, B, Asian Da Brat, Doja Cat etc etc etc
Listen to how passionately you talk about this! GO FOR IT! Make the channel! I don't see many (if any) black girls into Gyaru fashion! There's a gap in the market! Go for it and I wish you the best!! And thank you!
Yes kawaiify is a word,my favorite word ✨✨✨
ABSOLUTELY!
Thank you so much for the video. You gave me so many good ideas. I usually like to dress in lolita but I love to travel... and lolita clothes take a lot of room and can be really uncomfortable on a 17h bus ride or on a long flight. So when I travel, I usually just wear black jeans and oversized T-shirts... and I feel quite sad doing so. I think fairy kei can be an amazing alternative to lolita so I can travel comfortably and still feel 'me' with all the bows and cute clothes and accessories.
" I feel quite sad doing so" .... You know I can really relate to that. Sometimes I can genuinely feel a mood shift when I'm wearing darker casual clothes. If it's something slinky and nice cos I'm going out on a date that's different, but if it's just...your normal run of the mill clothes, I just don't feel as fabulous. So I totally get you there! Fairy kei is great though because you can dress it up or down, and still be damn CUTE!!!!!
So glad I found your channel. I've never seen another woman closer to my age (and also a mom!) Who also enjoys this kind of fashion. I love what you had to say about older people enjoying this style.
It's so hard to meet people like us!! Welcome to the squad!!
I think your fabulous. As soon as I saw you I said I want to dress like this. Then I discovered I already do,I’m on the lower end of it but I love it. I bought some pink and lavender tutu’s and your giving me permission to wear them out. Love you and love your style. You go girl!!
You don't need my or ANYONE else's permission darling. You just need to wear what makes YOU happy. Go get em guurrlll!
@@AyeshaShaSha Thank you sweetie.
Shoutout to all the fairy kei grandmas out there 👍👍
That will be me in 20 years 🤣🤣
You look like a candy shop come to life haha! Your so cool! I love the hair and eyeshadow! Everything blends beautifully!
Hahaha! I love that description!
I love you and your channel!!! I love seeing black and brown people like me into other things besides the boring basics. Keep being yourself ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜✌🏽
Thank you so much!! It's a relief when you find someone who looks like you into the same stuff isn't it?
that lilac bag is soo cute! Glad you said that guys can like this fashion too :)
Absolutely!!!
I'm glad the augorithm brought me to this video, your personality is just lovely!! I've been getting into decora recently, and I'm totally on board with turning 'random' things into accessories x) the possibilities are endless when you're creative and got some superglue!
Aawww I'm so glad you like this! Yes embrace that creativity!!
omg i havent seen many kawaii people of color like meeeeeee finally TY
Heelloooo!
I love the vibes she gives. She’s cuteeee
Why thank you!
Ayesha Sha Sha! Hopefully one day I’ll be brave enough to wear Fairy Kei too ^-^
@@marinstephanie649 you can start totally casual!!
Purple and teal are my favorite colors
I love your style. I love the colors and I love your energy. You can see how much you love your style. I also love the harajuku street style with all the different berets and colors! Keep making yourself happy!
I love it all!! I just love colour!!
That adorable sheep shirt OMG!!! I just bought it. Hahaha! We're twinsies now.
YESSSS! So glad you got it cos her store is closing down while she moves to Japan! Twinsiiieess!
@@AyeshaShaSha Ooooh!!! Wow! I know someone moving to Japan this month. Everybody's moving to Japan! lol
@@SpikyBrandee I know! It's the place to be!
Thanks for not forgetting us dudes!
How can I?! I've seen so many men (whether they are born male or identify as male) who turn it ooouuutttt with this fashion! It's all so inspiring, it's just clothes at the end of the day, but I just love seeing how people put their coords together, no matter what gender!
I just found your channel and i love it !! I love the whole message of love yourself and Brightening peoples day by being positive and dressing fun and cute . I am 22 and a mother and i always felt like I could never dress like this because people would think it was childish . but I think that just because your grown up dosent mean you have to lose that sense of fun and wonder .you inspire me so much .
ps . you are super pretty !! 💕☺
Thank you so much!! Listen you're not gonna be a young mama for ever. Use your youth while you got it! Your child will be happy to see you in all the bright colours, mine is!!!
I have always liked and loved harajuku fashion from Japan my fave harajuku fashions are decora, fairykei, and Lolita :) but the fashion I've really been into lately is decora :)
Decora is so much fun!!!!
I really like the first one 😀
Me too!
the big pink wig is so cute
I love it!
You helped me so much #kawaii 🍒🍓🍭🌼🌸❤🦄🥡
You're so welcome!
Kidcore and cottage core! I love them so much
Both are so cute!
I told my husband I love vicariously through you lol. I feel like the look wouldn’t look right without make up and I don’t like wearing makeup. And I am SO gun shy about wigs. I have 3 sitting in my AliExpress cart lol
BUY THEM! If you wanna live your life through me you need to buy them hahahaha! And as long as your brows are done and a little lippy and mascara you're good! 😂😂😂
My FAVORITE style is fairy kei! I love it soooooooooo much! I love big bows and I can agree I always try to make cute things like for ex: toys, collectibles, small random cute junk...etc I try to wear it! I think the more the merrier 😉! Not only that but pastels have always been my jam!
It's all about being original! I love wearing toys hahaha!
I've only ever seen one person dressed kawaii and safe to say I was amazed o3o
There are some AMAZING kawaii dressers out there!!
my style has always been kinda dark, gothy and rocker girl but i have been mixing more pastel and bright colours into my outfits and im turning more and more into pastel goth and i finally feel like myself :) also im 27 and i dont really care when people think im a teenager because of my style haha great tip video, subbed immediatly :3 also you make resin pieces and im starting that art as well :3
Welcome to the ShaShaSquad Claudia!!! YES GURL. Live your best pastel goth life!!! Honestly some of the stuff I wear is ridiculously over the top...and I know that...the key is to OWN it. NO APOLOGIES!!! At the end of the day...it's JUST CLOTHES. Fashion is subjective... everyone will have an opinion, what matters most is what YOU think! Always remember that!!!
I love your fairy kei style!! Gives magical girl aswell x
I'm 28, hippy from childhood who started dressing decora and love kawaii and other alt fashions, hope this brings others confidence and joy 🎉
Love from west london
@artsleep8586 aawww thank you so much!! I fully believe I'm a magical girl haha! Glad that you're comfortable wearing whatever makes you happy!!!✨️💞💫
You just got a very happy new subscriber! Love you’re encouragement about wearing the fashion you like, no matter who you are ! It really inspired me to not care what anyone thinks. Just wear you’re clothes with confidence . It’s not hurting anyone so why worry!😊God bless . THANKS!
You are most welcome!!!
I love your energy! You are so encouraging which is sooo important to people who are new.
I'm so glad! Thank you!
I can't express how happy this video and your channel makes me! I've always been into kawaii fashion but didn't have the confidence to do it. Seeing this has inspired me to get myself to dressing the way I want too !! Thank you, You are stunning !! :)
Bless you! That's so nice of you, and I'm glad I've helped you in some way!!!
Favorite fashion style, I'm not really sre what to call you it? Like party/fairy-kei but with 80s/90s influences
That's cool! Sounds fun!
Black ppl look stunning in fairy key! Pastels colours enhance darker skintones and it's sooo cute
I really think it suits us definitely! But I did question myself at first!!
The lavender outfit is so you super cute
Thank you!
U ARE A FAIRY KEI QUEEN 💖💖💖
Thank youuuu!
Ayesha Sha Sha! Of course!! 💖💖🌸
Omg!!! I want to dress kawaii and I’m trying to start and I’m SOOOOOO happy that I found you! I love the fact that you’re confident with dressing cute and that you’re black and that you aren’t skinny as hell. You’re a huge inspiration!
Hahaha!@ I'm glad you find me inspiring!!
Yay!!! Of course!!! I had some reservations about dressing kawaii because I’m not skinny and I’m black too but I think I’m gonna try to do it now.
@@ceejay9919 yyeeessssa
THIS VIDEO WAS SO POSITIVE AND SWEET IT MADE ME TEAR UP WTFFF
Aawwwww I'm so glad it touched your heart!!
I looove lolita, pastel and goth style! I also love E-girl's style
I wanna dress all pink and girly everyday but my wardrobe is 99% black and 1% pink and don't have a lot of pink cutesy clothes :((
Also I love your personality and your look! You got a new subscriber💕💖
@@arieschoi707 welcome to the Sha Sha Squad!!! And you can mix pink with black just fine! Maybe get some hair accessories to match? And a cute pink bag?
I know this is old but thank you so much for this video! I am a male and have also been into goth fashion for over a decade, I haven't worn a single color outside of white, black, and grey for that whole time. I collect and style dolls and many of them are pastels and "kawaii" style and slowly over time it influenced me to want to dress that way... but I had no clue how! I'm not used to coordinating colors and makeup and outfits because I have always lived by throwing two black garments together and putting on cheap black eyeliner and calling it a day XD
Looking cute (and maybe even a little feminine as I like some of the tutus and jewelry and things) is a whole new world for me and you just made getting into it so much easier and less intimidating! I totally love your style and your channel, you will now totally be my go to for inspiration
2 years later and I've found this comment... it made me smile so much! I hope you're still enjoying your fashion journey and I'm so glad to have helped!
i love the lamb/ram shirt. it reminds me of animal crossing and space. and its vv calming. you're energetic and hilarious. im still learning my fashion style but so far i love the cozycore style. its lots of oversized and soft textures
thanks for everything!
Ooohh cozycore sounds wonderful!! I've never heard of it! Need to research! Thanks for the love!!
Ayesha: LIGHT COLORED PASTELS ADJKGF
me, a sweet lolita: y e s
(ok but like i love your energy and im so happy to see all these people being inspired!!! work it, girl!!!)
It makes me happy seeing that too!
I recently started getting into Decora Kei, so that's my favorite at the moment!
I love it! Decora is SO fun!
Your username though... "I will eat your parents..." 😂😂😂😂😂
You are absolutely amazing, THANK U , for your words, world needs more people like you my dear, thank u sweetheart
You are so welcome!!
I love Pixielocks party kei but I also love mahou Kei and fairy kei
Did Pixie invent party kei then? I first heard about it through her... Maybe I should invent ShaSha Kei haha!
Great advice and amazing video. Your presenting and editing skills are on point, as per usual.
Awwww thank you babyyy xxx
My main alt fashion style is sweet and classic lolita but I would love to try fairy Kei cause I love pastel colors and the kawaii aesthetic. 😄
I really would love to try sweet lolita one day...
This just came up in my recommended and you are so adorable!! I love your style
I'm so glad!! Thank youuuu!!
My fave fashion style is yumi kawaii and decora however I have short bursts of other styles when I'm in the mood. Thank you for your video!! It's so hard to make things!! And I totally agree you can dress however you want!!! People do alot over Black people in Harajuku. I'm Black and my friends got treated mean in other countries, also there is alot of in community shaming both inside and outside of the community. I'm bougie and I'm a Leo. I just had a birthday. I can't force people to like me but I can make myself happy through fashion. 💗
Happy belated birthday!! Do what you like love. Honestly people shouldn't be judged by the colour of their skin ANYWAY and especially when it comes to what they wanna WEAR!!! DO YOUUUUUU
@@AyeshaShaSha Thank you!! I totally agree!!! It's too much going on in the world esp when it isn't hurting others!! ( usually)
@@nonbinarybeauty exactly!!!
for the introduction: YES. YES. YES. AND YES.
Hahaha!!😂😂
Thank you ❤ I’m a Sweet Lolita and starting to dabble in Fairy Kei ❤
You're so welcome! So glad you like this and enjoy your fairy kei journey!
What a fantastic video babe 🥰😍🥰😍, totally in love with all of them ❤❤❤
Thanks so much!
I'm trying out kawaii and I'm a big fan
Good! And how are you finding it?
@@AyeshaShaSha watching your videos really helps me not be insecure, and I really really love it like a lot I just ordered a whole bunch of kawaii stuff and all that but thanks to you you helped
@@kissmestupid4875 awwwww I'm so GLAD!!!!!!! Go get em guuurrrllll!
@@AyeshaShaSha thank you so much also where can I find some of that stuff
@@kissmestupid4875 I shop on ebay and amazon a lot!
So cute kawaii style !
Teehee! 😍
These are all so adorable. I just wish it was easier to find clothes in my size. Thankfully I can find some disney shirts in my size. So one of my favs is to dress disney, with handmade minnie mouse ears.
You know Disney PJs make GREAT outfits! And they're usually in like every size! Stock up gurlll!
Ayesha Sha Sha! I'm just always too hot and they are still too small for me anyways. I'm a big girl and hold the majority of my weight in my stomach. So finding shirts usually isn't a problem but I can't find pants or leggings that fit. Part of why I always wear skirts.
I subscribed right after the intro. Your personality and colourful style is really what I need right now
Aawwww thank you!!
i love kawaii beacause its sopretty and pastel light colors
I know right!
I'm actually a decora Kei girl but this still really helped thanks
You're so welcome!!
oh my gosh your energy made me so happy!! this video was super helpful, love you!
You are so welcome!!!!
I'm new to J fashion and getting into Manhera and Yami kawaii but your videos make me so excited for when I can wear super extra coordinates 🥺💕
Yesss! Live your extra life!
I love it!!! Thanks for this 💖💖💖💖
You're so welcome! Glad I could help!
Love that last look btw ^w^
Thank you so much!
You are gorgeous in all the clothes and it’s a great vid too - thanks!
Thank YOU! 😍😍
I watched 1 minute and already fell in love with your amazing style and kindness! Thanks a lot for all the tips, they helped me a lot ^^ Keep up the good work, your videos are really fun to watch :)
You are so welcome and that was really kind of you to say!
Thx for this beautiful video and your encouraging words, that's just what I need!!
You are more than welcome darling x
I'M JUST IN LOVE WITH YOU! the positive vibes are off the charts x
Hahaha! Thank youuuuu
That pink ensemble is a L👁️👁️K 💕
Mmmmmhhhhmmmm! 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Love the super adorable Kawaii Fashion Haul video! 😊 You look so adorable in all your outfits 😍 But if I had to only chose one mines who be the gorgeous pastel blue one 💙✨
That's a nice casual one!
Ayesha Sha Sha! 😊💕🌸
You look soo awesome 😍 I really love your wigs! 😊
Thanks guurrlll!
My favorite fashion is decora. I just love to wear a lot jewelries. It was always like that but with different styles. Nowadays I don't wear much jewelries and save it to my "decora days". After a long day my body needs some rest XD
If that's you in your profile pic you are so creative!!! Love it!! And yes me too with the needing to rest thing! Decora is so much fun!!!
@@AyeshaShaSha yepp that's me uwu I love facepainting but I rarely have the time to do it. But I have some fun coords and planning more. I love to make my look in different themes. Like using only one or two colors, or having food related themes (I made popcorn themed decora a few months ago XD)
@@CTGrell oh I'd love to see more!!! Do you have Instagram?
@@AyeshaShaSha Yes. It's with the same name: ctgrell
Omg i love u 🥺💕you got a new sub
Thank you!!
I love fairy kei and lolita fashion
I love those both!!
I found this video when I think it was only a few months old? I didn’t really know what I wanted to wear and for awhile I was convinced I wanted to wear Fairy kei for awhile! Although I don’t wear fairy kei (I’m into ott sweet lolita ^^) but my friend is getting into fairy kei and I’m going to send her this because it was rather helpful!
I'm so glad you found it helpful!! Thanks for sharing!