Start chanting Om kleem krishnaya namh for 30 min in mrng or night daily ...see the effect nd search for it u will get many sucess stories...i even did this when i was soo depressed krishna helped me .....ask forgiveness for your past mistakes nd do mantra soo peacefully...slowly no counting just join hands nd serve it to krishna.....give water affairmation to your father ( search for it)
@@optimisticguy-g3y dear please read the comments slowly nd carefully....u will get it One more thing ( water affairmation) technique is very scientific technique search for it in TH-cam you will learn the process....after that do mantra chanting ( om kleem krishnaya namah) search for it too...about benefits nd even sucess stories are there
Mai koi social media use nhi karta hu 😊bas yt mera addiction tha jisse bachne ke liye maine recharge karna band kar diya😅 aur study videos ko papa ka hotspot lekar download kar leta hu😊 Ab mai acche se padh pa rha hu Radhe Radhe 🙏🙏
I am from bd and my 12th board exm is going on...the speech you have given is absolutely right and it fits on me....Fear is always there...And to deal with it you have to be fearless cause fear is just an emotion only..You have to go beyond anger,fear,lust,greed...Grabing fear is not the solution rather it makes you weaker more and more rather overcoming fear is be wisest choice..
@@athavurrazzak6982turn off watch history and search history, then shorts wont be recommended or appear unless we search for it. Give it a try dude,so that u can save lot of time and protect ur mental health.
Hare krishna sir ,i lost my father during covid ,i have health issues and dealing with anxiety , my mother has health issues . Fear of failing exams bother me alot. apart from these i dont have any distractions.🙏🙏
this is a life story vent i guess .i have had never ending issues i was born in a very abusive household i watched suicide attempts of my parents i grew up between domestic violence , i didn't have a normal childhood no playing no toys broken limbs etc there was no escape it was like being locked in a jail. my only escape was studying and i did it till lockdown during that time i had become a teen i realized what my parents are people who do not talk at all in the same house, i used to self harm just at the age of 13 i hated myself as i thought i am the reason i continued it for a long time and my parents saw it i was again villainized asked to jump off a cliff, my guitar something i loved was locked in the store room idk why makes 0 sense . i remember once when i was in 10th grade parents did not talk at all for 10 months and i would study whole day to escape my reality my parents had stolen everything that i liked music , art i used be a sketch artist too . my mother she had ckd and hence she is on dialysis for the past 5 years and my dad is an alcohol addict and 60 yr old while mom is 40 , my dad has an ex wife and a daughter from her though he troubled them too and they never saw him again lucky ones . my dad emotionally abuses all of us , gaslights his children and he is a rich man but his family doesn't ask for anything because i don't feel like he is a dad . in October 2020 i got to know his reality he left my mom to die in a gov institution for covid she was on dialysis and i had covid too our father did not seem to care much and the sister of mine who did not have covid she had the worst time too . somebody we know got mom out of that place in some hours . my dad could afford an icu but he did not he is a dumb selfish man who should've never been married or have children .somehow my house welcomes big arguments just a night before any exam specially boards i still scored 95 . but at the end of 10th something happened that killed the last bit of me , my little sister ran away she did not come back from school and i remember following the cameras through school , looking for her on footpaths she took nothing no money even just clothes and she did not know where to go just not home , so my dad he is useless except for his money so my mom who is a ckd patient had to run to apartments it was January me and my older sister we remember being at a police station and we actually found my sis around 10pm and i was waiting for my parents near a temple in sainik farm delhi ( a very green area with just villas that's why it gets lonely in the dark , i was almost mistaken as a prostitute and i was just 15 . we found her the worst part was my little sister who i adored i was the biggest catalyst in her demise due to my own issues i would initiate drama in the house back then i was already back at self harming in nov but it reached different levels now this incident took place right before my preboard . i used to maintain a diary and act like i am a different body and a separate mind and how my mind is abusing (self harming ) my body because it deserves it i stopped around march . 11th started now i `was actually dead myself not just my parents or anyone i had died . 11th started i did not study i had too many health issues i would abuse my meds as i took them at wrong time school coaching i would sleep through them because of how i was taking my neuro meds which require stable sleep i had to take dummy school and i did better for a month then there was a war somewhere and i got invested to escape obviously . dec 2023 to march 2024 i do not know what happened where i was etc . i had to regain consciousness i was in 12th grade now and i was into spirituality now i had this attraction to maa kali , lord shiva maa tara and i meditated to heal focusing on my childhood . i had this interest in occult since long back and i could see and feel entities now its very clear . i have reached certain levels now where i can feel positive energy around vibrations rush through my body. i am attached to maa kali in unexplainable way to the point tears run down my face when i think or meditate concerning her same with lord shiva they have helped me realize my past but yes my family did not change they are still the same its like my devotion is of no use here i am stuck and you are right my biggest reason to want to crack neet is to escape this house these people the thing is i have only realized and not acted upon i feel helpless i have visits with the neurologist a psychiatrist once but i was criticized so i didnt see him again i black out alot i have developed eye disorders , i have panick attacks but i still think if not me who else is eligible to work this out ,i have in mind if draupadi wasn't stripped there would have been no war and no new beginning . i talk to shiva , maa and krishna alot because i am aware there isn't any other . i used to be silent now i fight back . i do not study much i feel like my friends think i am some very smart human as i read religious scriptures , i know occult , i am emotionally smart and because of my dissociative personality in class i am a topper at home i do not study so nobody knows the reality of my marks it is not like i lie . nobody asks me even my parents or anyone i just look so mysterious and smart . my friends know me as the prettiest, quietest ,occultist ,rich girl but my reality is twisted i only have people i know actually and no friend . this was a vent i had never vented to youtube or anyone . i will make my way anyway i cannot accept loose
I was going to ignore this long comment but when i read the first line after that i couldn't stop this is EXACTLY the story of my life ditto same to same I have faced this since childhood and now i am this mysterious smart successfull pretty girl that everyone thinks but no one knows how messed up i am on the inside. I have EXACT same life story as yours only one minor change i never did self harm or thought about it and my father did not leave my mother to die this situation never happened other than that same to same story I am glad that we can relate
The more you suffer , the stronger u will become. Prioritize yourself that's it. Don't be rude to others but learn to be selfish at some points. Unhappiness is more common than happiness. Everybody is fucked up in reality. It's just opposite of what internet feeds is by showing other's successful life.
bhaiya meri life me distraction to nahi h , mai social media bhi use nahi karti hu bas laptop h mere pass , but jab padhne baithi hu to man karta h ki bas jo video aa rahi h wo dekh lu bas padhne ka bahot man karta h but padh q nahi paati hu , mai ek banking aspirant hu ye mera second attempt hoga . jisko bhi ye problem h plz like karo jisse ki bhaiya ispe ek video bana paai plzz bhaiya😥😥😥
Then u should use old methods, laptop bhi hta do, or sirf books se pdhai kro or han hr subject ki sirf ek book. Isse apka schedule b bna rhega or dhyan b nhi bhtkega. Jb ye laptops or phone nhi the log tb bhi selection lete the..
I too facing this problem 😢 my problem is loneliness 😢 due to which I can't feel happiness in life 😭 That's why I have using my phones for entertainment purpose continuously from 8 months 😢 Due to which I can't able to make focus on studies 😢💔 My career is in danger but I can't able to solve this problem 😞
Anita ji same things happened to me 3 months ago bcz I have, laptop, tablet along with mobile... & Also I don't have any social account but when I open yt regarding my doubts i randomly click on any video watching for a long time after that I realise I came to solve my doubts... Then I applied some methods to tackle this problem. Step 1 - I Create a gmail account separately for study, search only study videos. Not any type of video for entertainment I used a another gmail account. Step 2 - use 1 device only for study purposes, I used a laptop only for study purposes not for any type of entertainment, Step 3 - daily meditate at least 15 minutes, it help a lot in your life, the main thing it gives you clarity of thought, Now I am free from this, Have a great day... Anita ji😊
@@shivajibhadouria no bro this is not an excuse 🙄 Actually my family has shifted to a new wired place that is my dad's village where I don't have any friend and nothing to feel like happy 😭 Actually I have made every possible effort in making friends but this Is not seeing possible for me 😔 I stared to feel depressed nowadays 💔😖 you can't feel my pain 😢
Yes bhiyaa so true ❤i have score 660 marks in neet in first drop and maine bhi ye realise kia ki jab hum khush hote h tab jyada ache se pdhai pe focus kr paate hain
Radhe kriahna bhaiya.. 🌸 The same things are happening with me my family is suffering so much financially like loans, brothers collage fees, family issues, health issues & being the elder child of parents who just graduated inspite of trying I'm not getting way to suppoert my family, aiming to UPSC alongside... Sometimes I feel like "this shall too pass" Right now I have to study harder for my exam & future & I do that but all of sudden every end of the day I got hit by the realization that I should give up all my dreams to support my family & I tried to get a job but I couldn't.. Feeling the same way as you said my dreams is becoming my need, inspite of knowing that I can do..but I'm feeling like I won't due to external factor without any social media, peers, & other distarction ... It feels like a karma for sin sometimes..can't able to figure out way ahead.. What to do what not to do..... I'm feeling like dieing in between not giving up on , keep trying & just leave find job whatever, but couldn't.....
@@prateetisingh2675 We continue to do what everyone will do in this situation. But when we depend on God he makes us do things which sets a greater example for people who know us. You can quietly see everything happening in the house and keep preparing for your exam. And you can catch up some work to earn and support. It's on you how much strength is in you. My advise is you can start some tuitions
Bar bar exams me... Failure dekhne k baad ek drrr sa beth jata hai.. Aur na pdd pate fr... Na.. Focus kr pate h.. Please guide us ibps k exams start ho gye... Hai...jai shree ram 😍🙏
bhai main issue : bad environment, either at home or wherever the student is staying. It is difficult to focus with constant disturbance. 50% + ppl ki yehi problem hai. And jaha tak issue hai mobile ka, woh toh actually khud ki problem hai.
@@Examtales Bhaiya distraction, mobile addiction these are common har kisi ko hai ajkal. But please make a video for those students who have huge Financial issues in their life and that leads to fear of failure and affecting focus when trying to sit for studies. Kindly provide some good solutions to fight with this issue.
I was good student and was also good at extra circular my only weakness was maths, for that I was pressurized and humiliated, I improved maths temporarily but was not able to keep it up..my parents never encouraged me rather I got beaten up..I grew up as a low confident person...later my mom went into depression due to family reasons and my brother was diagnosed with bipolar, they both become verbally abusive, later on my brother became violent and started beating me. When I tried to resist ,my parents emotionally blackmailed me to hush for the sake of family. Somehow I completed my graduation and started preparations, believing results will change my life situations and so I got too attached to results and failed ,meanwhile the situation of my home worsened,..I kept on failing until one day ...I decided that I WON'T GET AFFECTED by any worse situation and gave exam with calm mind.....fortunately I got chance to write mains.......I am still trying to look forward and live my life...but really not getting attached to final results..
My main reason for my failure in academics and competitive exam was HEALTH ISSUES ( ULCERATIVE COLITIS AUTOIMMUNE DISORDER leading to many other things) and I was incapable to deal with Stress and study Backlog and Loneliness leading into T.V SERIALS ADDICTION ( ESCAPISM) and INSTABILITY of house settlements and Frustration and mental health issues of mother Thus terribly failed in competitive exam still trying to improve and your videos are helping lots of people like me I Thank you from bottom of my heart and may RadhaKrishna bless you may you always grow spiritualy and also grow in life. Grateful for your videos 🙏
I also batteling with autoimmune disease psoriasis all over body sometimes feel i don’t want to live sometime feel kuch kr ke dikhana hai pta Nhi kaise hoga you r not alone so just keep you study up
@@maheshsandeveni-u9k Excuse me, can you help to understand what he was saying in these video. Im a sounth indian. Not familiar with hindi. 🙂 can you explain in english.
thank you for the video ... im from Manipur...my house is burnt n destroy...my family is scattered...im living in different states with unknown people and different language...i thought im weak in studies but now i realised i was average in my past...if only I can settle my life rn i will achieve success in future
bhaiya padte time mind me overthinking hoti h faltu ke topics ko lekr aur bhaiya me roj meditation bhi krta hu fir bhi please make video on this topic please its my humble request @exam Tales (The Exam of Life)
I have two issues.... 1. Unstable family environment.. sometimes all gud like hum sath sath h and sometimes you guess I don't have words ... 2. I have a fear of being a housewife and being dependent on anyone for money .. So if you can address these problems.. it will be of great help.. Thank you 😊
I scored more than 80 while in 10th but got that over flown so did my 11th twice because in first attempt my maths and physics were lacking but I saved physics any how but at that time I was introduced to another chapter of life names ADEM which in just 2 more years became Multiple sclerosis,the decision of choosing mechanical enginnering was influenced by my maternal uncle ,and some other family members I had no Idea of the extent of the power that was to be put up and the uni through which I did my graduation was like just shoving me with grades and telling me just to pass , we did study things but my soul was lacking I didn't study good enough and I graduated during covid , I did had chance to go to merchant navy but recruiter told me that I was in no condition since I am the only male , I had been through many phases but I am trying my hard to survive and win in this phase too , I dearly need the job because I have give most of my time for this ,going to private now seems a lot more difficult than it was then so I am trying my level best
I am jee aspirant but i am surrounded with bad childhood memories, trauma, overthinking, addiction and self doubt. That's why i can't focus. Only 5 months left for jee mains preparation. Please tell me guys what should i do i seriously need your help💔💔💔
Dude just focus on study...apne aap ko free mat choro...aur suffle krke padho 3eeno subjects ko...aur ye sab problems imaginary hai....jese hi tum pen utha kr padhne lagoge ye sari problem vanish ho jaygi...❤
It depends whether you have done syllabus lectures or you are starting from start ... If you are starting from start then do 2 lec in a day only fro about 4. To 5 Days with questions practice of 20 ques only that's it ... Study for about 3 4 hr only then slowly shirt you lectures to 3 and questions to 30 ... You will realise you are actually able to focus ... Just make small goals .. and if you are not able to do 2 lectures in a day then start with only 1 lec
Bhaiya aap sahi kah rhe ho kuch control nhi ho pa rha study par focus krein to health issues khade ho jate hain un par control krein to financial issues aur family fights yhi sb cycle continue chlti rhti hai .
fear,,,,, fear,,,,, fear ,,,, lead to overthinking and distraction like sexual thoughts and multiple failure in neet,... age is passing ,..career is in total dark.. so this is the problem
Thank you dost mere sath bhi yhi h Mughe bchpn se health issues bhut Jada rhte h jaise bachpn se hi asthma.12 sal ke hone pr serious allergies hr chij me problem like digestive problems alot off hair fall skin issues extra and sone pe suhaga financial problem bhi bchpn se hi sath sath chl rhi h pr in sb ke bavjood ab Jake 24 sal ki umr msi stable ho payi Mai smgh payo ki tone se kux nhi hoga jo problems h unse niptne ke do raste h ya to suicide kr lo ya fir ldo Suicide try Kiya pr vo. Hi fail ho gya isliye ab sirf apne kam pr dhyan de rhe h smgh chuke h ki rone se dipression me Jane se sirf. Mera hi nuksan h Atleast Mai vo to kru jo mere hatho me h jo mai kr skti ab bs Mai vhi kr rhi hu aesa nhi ki sb ky thik ho gya h bs sb mera dimag sthir ho gya ab jaise koi frk hi nhi pdta h jindgi me kux bhi axa ya bura hone se jaise mamooli bat si lgne lgi h ab ye sari problems
Thank you for being sensible about some real problems, that we aspirants actually face, there are some unsaid sufferings that are not easy to be said in words.. मेरे ग़मो की बात न करो वो ज़ख्म से भी ज़्यादा गहरे हैं।
Problems -/ Bhaiya phone se distracted tha pur 9th or 10th but still managed to get (90%+ in boards) 9th 10th me socha tha ki 11th me phone use nahi karunga or laptop le lunga ya coaching ke pas room lelunga JAB 11TH me aya to dono ki plans fail ho gaye kyuki dono expensive the , so I myself managed to gain all the will to refuse distraction Pura bal lagane ke baad 1-2 hafte me mera distraction bilkul Kam ho gaya 0 tak a gaya tha But than I realised phone or TH-cam is not the real problem, the real problem was my mind was weak at focusing kyuki distraction free hone ke baad bhi productivity bas thodi si badhi ! Ye josh 1 week Tak raha but I was frustrated and exhausted kyuki koi faida dikha nahi distraction free hone ka , after that I week I started getting distracted again Like 100% of time was being wasted in TH-cam again, but ab bhi har nahi mani or library join Kia ( it was affordable) library me again phone ka distraction 0 ho gaya tha but productivity nahi badhi so after seeing no benifits I left it This was the most horrible period I had ever gone through, me itna frustrate ho gaya ki pen uthane ka maan bhi nahi kar raha tha , so me and father decided to take a break and visit haridwar for relaxation, but again usse bhi kuch nahi hua 😢 from then till now I have not tried any new way to improve, ab lag raha ha ki will weak hi gaya hai , my parents are not able to understand my situation and are always shouting at me and demotivating me that I am lazy or not hardworking or whatever Which is kind of obvious as they have paid 500000 for my preparation from 9th to 12th ( currently I am in 11th ) /dummy school my fees I actually greater than his annual income, basically they don't trust me that I am hardworking or I going to make it ,now I am having every second night in tears, actually ab me thoda arrogant bhi ban gaya hu kyuki unki daat sunne ki adad si ho gayi hai and I know ki unki baat dil par lunga to preparation kharab hi hogi 10 din me phase test hai adha phase bhi prepared nahi hai or fir bhi me pura din yt videos or porn dekta rehta hun ( actually my family has a 1 bhk in delhi to wo ek room mera hai jaha me door lock karke " padhta hun " Kuch smj nahi a raha ab to lag raha hai ki sab routine sa ho gaya hai subha uthte hi phone chalana and then pura din waste karna , raat me papa ko fake questions pe tick laga kar dikhana ki mene bahut kam kiya hai ( bcz I don't want those scoldings )😢 and then test ke results par rona Plz help kya karu , 🙏😭
Comment no -2 / Bhaiya ek or cheez : apki story or @DrDarshanPatel-AIIMS ki story sun ke mujhe ab lagne laga hai ki meditation solution to hai par me meditation ke liye bhi nahi Beth pa raha kyuki usme bhi will lagti hai or agar mere was will power hoti to me directly padhai hi nahi kar leta ? Apki or unki story me common ye hai ki dono hi pehle weak the and ek time me depression me the both tried suicide attempts,but than both met a spiritual guru , practiced meditation and now are successful, Mujhe lagne laga hai ki mere life me bhi jab bada dhakka lagega to will badegi and me ye sab kar paunga ! App ise kaise dekhte ho .......?
@@Air1jeeAdv2026 Bhai pehele tu porn dekh na chod or tu kahin na kahin overthinking kar raha hai apni future ko lekar family ko lekar padhai ya job ko lekar Porn chod uske baad har ek problem ki solution apne app tere samne aa jayegaa Dekh mein iss situation se gujar chhuka hoon bade bhai ke hisab se bol raha hoon
Comment no- 3 / Wait , ek aur thought 💭 aya Abhi mene 2nd comment me kaha ki "meditation ke liye bhi nahi Beth pa raha kyuki usme bhi will lagti hai or agar mere was will power hoti to me directly padhai hi nahi kar leta ? " But than 1st comment me ye bhi kaha hai ki " in the initial few weeks of 11th I had I myself managed to gain all the will to refuse distraction Pura bal lagane ke baad 1-2 hafte me mera distraction bilkul Kam ho gaya 0 tak a gaya tha " I am now able to connect dots 🌟😮 To basically pehle to mujhe phone ka distraction 0 kar dena chahiye ( I know me ye kar sakta hun kyuki mene pehle ye ek bar kia hai ( as mentioned above) Isse productivity bhale hi na badhe but clarity zarur milegi kyuki mene ek obstacle eliminate kar diya hoga , I will now be able to see my goal more clearly kyuki pehle me phone pe Sara blame dal raha tha Now, I know problem khatam nahi Hui hogi , I will still have a weak and less focused mind , so now I will start doing things which will help me evolve my mind like wow method over Olympiad type problems and meditation, chain of thoughts ye sari cheeze 😮
Comment no- 4 / Agar mene Jo socha hai wo sachi hai To bhi ek problem hai For step 2 I need will power ( I know I can get that ) but I still need motivation ,support and love Which I know I will not get from anyone as my parents already don't trust me my social life is also horrible I don't have true friends I only have 2 they are also like classmates only I am literally crying right now !
Aapne jo bola wahi problem mera saath the exact situation I am facing..But The way you encourage us through videos and give pratical examples and the struggle you have done to achieve that provide us the hope within us .. I request to do such videos every time that will help us achieve something big in our life..
पढाई एक प्रकार की तपस्या है जो सिर्फ एकांत मे ही संभव है, भले ही तुम्हारे पास संसाधनों की कमी है लेकिन अगर तुम्हारा दिमाग एकाग्र है तो तुम अपना लक्ष्य हासिल कर सकते हो अन्यथा नही होगा, मेरे साथ यही हुआ है मै हर दो तीन महीने बाद अपने प्लान से भटक जाता हूँ क्योकि मेरा मन एक जगह नही टिकता कभी CGL कभी UPSC और कभी PRIVATE JOB.
Bhai mujhme procrastination ki bahut aadat hai har saal ye soch ke nikal jata hai ki next year kar lunga... Plzz procrastination ko kaise deal kare .uspe video banaiye..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
U r right bhaiya, once during a major exam in class 12th, it so happened that my family decided to go out for a trip for few days n could only return 4 days be4 exam, i was worried but still the trip was refreshing i was happier than ever, returned back n just studied n didnt think bout wht could happen, wht of my marks r bad. Then after exam results came in n it turned out i topped the class n on every subject 😅(i literally had forgotten bout the results let alone whether i passed or not, i just had a strong believe on myself tht bhai sab thik hi hoga). But during neet and other competitive exams, watching my parents stress bout me and their financial struggles, it got me stressed and overthinking whether ill pass or not and started binge watching yt. And i failed. And atm life isnt stable at all. Now that ive a proof that it was all dependent on that one mindset, I'll make sure to not get to tht path again. THANKS for making this eye opener of a vid
Hare Krishna 🙏🏼🤍, bhaiya. I appreciate your words about the differences between those who excel academically and those of us who face family issues, childhood trauma, and abusive household problems. Some people may not understand that we are not just living our lives, but rather, we are surviving. This sets us apart from those who lead a more conventional life.
Bade Bhai mai Night me 12 hours kam karta hu Din me 1st year ke liye collage jata hu Or subah 1.30 ghanta or sham me 1.30 se 2 ghante daily math's padhta hu Or social media par whatsapp or youtube ke alawa kuch nhi chalata Lekin meri ek aadat kharab hai ki me jab bhi ghar par rahta hu to me padhai me time nhi de pata or idhar udhar ki video dekhne lag jata hu koi rah do bade bhai please taki me faltu ka time waste na karu *जय श्री राम 🙏*
Sir aap ko pichhale 6 months se follow kar rha hu and 4 years se preperetion kar rha hu pae one pre nikla h Sir economical problem bachpan se h Kabhi kabhi to form fill karne ka fee nhi hote rhta h sir 🙏🙏🙏 sir es par ek video banaye study continue rakhe ya chhor de
Thank you brother for the great reminder that there's no end of problems, we can never be freed from problems, but we can face them with great confidence.
Your words are true my bro.. same situation i have faced in my life during my competitive preparation.. Due to family problems & stress i couldn't achieve my goal..
Sir one of my friend is preparing for upsc from last 5 years , last year her preparation is going good but suddenly from last December her parents started looking for a boy for her to marry ... From last December she is completely out of focus .. she feels unsecure every time hence this year too she failed in the exam ... She do over thinking all the time about future insecurity how she will manage her career as well as family life.... Earlier her focus was much strong that she can complete one book of any subject in just 3 days .... she is graduated .... She feels very low as no one supports her ... Everyone from her family make her feel very low every time by their words....now she is very puzzled she wants to leave upsc and pursue bEd .... I have seen a confident girl losing her dreams , feeling confused all the time she is completely out of focus now.... She wants to do upsc but because of pressure on her she is losing herself ..... Everyone make her feel she is a burden on them... Sir plz suggest how She will overcome all this ....
You are a good friend, a rarity these days. I am also in a near similar situation as your friend. Please try to offer as much emotional support as you can. She must actively search for other options in her field and not loose hope 🤞
@@indian4670 Once a Monk was somehow framed of wrong doing by someone in monastery. The news spread. All the people in the monastery became angry with him. The Management punished him to go out of monastery and live outside for sometime. As he moved outside of the monastery, he went to a very famous God realised saint who used to live near that place. The Monk was crying, said I left my family for this monastery and I'm crying not because they ousted me but because I've been framed wrongly. The saint pulled his head towards his chest and quietly said into his ears. My son you left your family for this and now they all are against you. Now you and God are alone. I bless you. That Monk became so happy and later become a God realised saint
@@crimsonlyyours Once a Monk was somehow framed of wrong doing by someone in monastery. The news spread. All the people in the monastery became angry with him. The Management punished him to go out of monastery and live outside for sometime. As he moved outside of the monastery, he went to a very famous God realised saint who used to live near that place. The Monk was crying, said I left my family for this and I'm crying because I've been framed wrongly. The saint pulled his head towards his chest and quietly said into his ears. My son you left your family for this and now they all are against you. Now you and God are alone. I bless you. That Monk became so happy and later become a God realised saint
I don't really think that this topper ke life mein koi problem nahi hote. Unka bhi har waqt focus high nahi hota. Jab focus jyada nahi hota, woh log tab bhi padhte hai aur better focus karne ki koshish karte hai jab ki doosra koi bachcha usi waqt social media pe distract hone lagta hai.
Hare Krishna Prabhu ji! This was an amazing video. Hope it inspires many students from financially unstable and other unstable backgrounds. Hare Krishna!
I have asked krishna by iterating my situation and here it is, he is answering me through you. I am really really grateful that i am following you. Hare krishna❤ Har Har Mahadev 📿.
Meri ek hi problem hai ki kab padhu din me raat me.kyuki jab din me padhne baithti hu to nind bahut jyada aati h aur jab raat ko padhne chahti hu to 3 hour hi padh pati hu uske headache hone lagta hai fir pure din nind aati h 😢. Mujhe kaise bhi 2025 me job chahiye
I had this situation in the past. And I tried simple trick - sleep at 10pm or maximum at 10.30pm, and tried to get maximum sleep I could...jab bhi aankh khulti fir sone ki kosis krta tha....after 4-5 days my unusual sleeping cycles had gone and I started to rise early in the morning...avoided mobile uses till 11am, and MAGIC happened😊
Thankyou bhaiya ,this is something different. Mujhe problems pta he ye bhi pta he its just maya to make us learn something with every obstacle during the journey and kafi problems ke solution pe mane kaam kiya bhi he but its always less 😞. Main problem to yahi he ki ssc journey was not my first choice but now i love to study still consistency nhi aati. My worst nightmare is ki is prep me zyada saal na chale jae in addition kabhi kabhi family ki ya reatives ki hi demotivating and toxic baaton ki wajah se emotional stability chali jati he it takes time to come back to the track than , aapko bhi pta he ek limit tak hi ignore hota he after that everything feels disturbing and fir we feel like hell . I tried so many times to wake up early, to study and meditate in calm environment to lead myself but whenever i wake up it feels like its hard to face the race everyday so can't continue for more than 2-3 days 😔😔 please address the issue as these are the only things i am not able to restart.
Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna hare hare hare ram hare ram ram ram hare hare thank you so much 🙏 Thank you so much universe 🙏 ✨️ thank you so much shri Krishna ❤❤❤❤
Sahi kah rhe hai aap bhaiya, problem aur distraction mil kar mujhe barbad karne lagi hai. Mai nhi kar pa rhi deal in sab se ek kadam aage badhao to problems teen kadam piche khinch lete hai
trauma, broken childhood, self-doubt, overthinking, bad decision making, anger towards my close ones, the loop of negative thinking, constant criticism.........
Thank you bhaiya padhai me man na lgna or padhai naa karne ka reason denaa aaj ke time me bahut se students ki problem hai Bhaiya aapse ek request hai ek esi video baniye jissse bacho ko thoda regret ho ki unhone kese apne kimti time ko kho diya hai Or vo kya badlav kare apni life jisse vo problems se deal karte huye khud ko exams ke liye ready kar le .
Bhaiya solution to btao Aapne apne aap ko strong kaise bnaya And hum khud ko fearless kaise bnay . M to chanting b krti hu BG b pdhti hu But fr b results ke bare me to mind me aa hi jata h .
@@soniyakumari5275 Do not read BG because some saintly person told you to do so. It will not help you much. Read Bhagwad Gita Chant lord's name to realise that it is the ultimate Goal of life. And the material pursuit is endless, painful and a complete waste
Achha lagta hai aap jese logo ko dekh kar jo khud bhi jeevan me aage badh rahe hai aur doosron ke jeevan ko bhi sudhar rahe hai ,.. Radhekrishna ji aap par apna ashirwad banaye rakhe 😊❤
@1:05 min only #ultra_intelligent🔥🔥 people can talk like this😊😊❤❤👍👍👌👌 Normal/Average/Below Average people: everyone has problems.. even #all the toppers have😂😂 #Only poor/lower n middle classed people work hard or study 📖😅😅 because they have to change their situation (from😢😢to😁😁)
i remember my family has abandoned us and we had to leave home in that one night. i had to spend three days in a temple and that same night i had periods and cramps too. we had to stay more than a year in one room but my god krishna listen all pain, our situation became okey now we got a house building this year and living again. slowly slowly i am also trying to go back in my studies. lord krishna is helping me a lot for healing from truama. because of his grace i could go ayodhya, kashi and vrindavan this year. i never got a chance from my childhood to go outside cause of my strict old cousins but now i can go my own. hare krishna♥
Bhaiya ek mediation pr vdo bana dijiye, overthinking is the major problem , pta nhi pdhte time v mind m thoughts chlte hi rehte h . Productivity ko kaise increase kr skte h. how to meditate ?
Distraction , mobile , self doubt , procastination , lack of focus , overthinking , addiction , trauma , bad childhood memories ...
@@Quite896 Or kuchh 🤣
Us bro us 🫂
So true 😢
Right bro
Gf
Overthinking is a biggest problem
its not a problem. its normal. problem is when you think but dont take action.
Laziness and lack of focus. Habit of procrastination
Same here bro
Same kal karunga kal karunga karke kuch nahi karta 😢
Kisi ke ps solution ho tho bta do yr
@@ManjushavobbinaKaam karne se pehle dimag ko bolo ki baa 10 mins hi padhai krni hai ese shote target achieve Karo fir confidence ayega
It's only procrastination bro it means postpone, use and
Secret to success is not having fear of failure
Chup gyan mat pel isiki wajah se mera college selection nhi hua😢
He is right work hard without fear
Father health issue, no job , i am 30 yet not married, anxiety, feeling lonely ,worried about future, stuck in life.
This is My life story
Start chanting Om kleem krishnaya namh for 30 min in mrng or night daily ...see the effect nd search for it u will get many sucess stories...i even did this when i was soo depressed krishna helped me .....ask forgiveness for your past mistakes nd do mantra soo peacefully...slowly no counting just join hands nd serve it to krishna.....give water affairmation to your father ( search for it)
@@Queen11766 tell me in detail
@@optimisticguy-g3y dear please read the comments slowly nd carefully....u will get it
One more thing ( water affairmation) technique is very scientific technique search for it in TH-cam you will learn the process....after that do mantra chanting ( om kleem krishnaya namah) search for it too...about benefits nd even sucess stories are there
Bhai padhaie chhor business suru 10 15, crore mama fir ladkiyon ki line rahega tere Ghar k pass....
Mai koi social media use nhi karta hu 😊bas yt mera addiction tha jisse bachne ke liye maine recharge karna band kar diya😅 aur study videos ko papa ka hotspot lekar download kar leta hu😊 Ab mai acche se padh pa rha hu
Radhe Radhe 🙏🙏
Bohot badiya
Radhe Radhe 🙏🏾
Bhai aap legend ho....
😂 no recharge no distractions
By the way what u do for refreshing yourself after studing
@@sagartrivedi2816 work on your hobby i do painting
200% true hai isi karan se log padhai pe focus nahi kar pate hai
Multiple times failure by little margin in banking exam aprx 6 yrs , financial problem, now preparing for banking and cgl simultaneously 😢
I am from bd and my 12th board exm is going on...the speech you have given is absolutely right and it fits on me....Fear is always there...And to deal with it you have to be fearless cause fear is just an emotion only..You have to go beyond anger,fear,lust,greed...Grabing fear is not the solution rather it makes you weaker more and more rather overcoming fear is be wisest choice..
I suggest you to come to India and settle here .
TH-cam is my addiction . Even when I keep my phone out of reach . I tend to use TH-cam in my laptop which I have to use for my studies
Same here
same here
Yeah curse on shorts 😭😭
@@athavurrazzak6982turn off watch history and search history, then shorts wont be recommended or appear unless we search for it. Give it a try dude,so that u can save lot of time and protect ur mental health.
Same here
Hare krishna sir ,i lost my father during covid ,i have health issues and dealing with anxiety , my mother has health issues . Fear of failing exams bother me alot. apart from these i dont have any distractions.🙏🙏
Use this as a catalyst
Hello
Can i talk to u
@@Sandhya30June hello
Hello
Hare Krishna Prabhu ji❤🙏.
Hare Krishna 🙏🏾
Hare Krishna🌺❤
@@anshugoswami9798 Hare Krishna Prabhu 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 kaise ho aap
@@Examtales Badhiya prabhu ji😊.
@@ExamtalesHare Krishna Prabhu ji ❤❤
this is a life story vent i guess .i have had never ending issues i was born in a very abusive household i watched suicide attempts of my parents i grew up between domestic violence , i didn't have a normal childhood no playing no toys broken limbs etc there was no escape it was like being locked in a jail. my only escape was studying and i did it till lockdown during that time i had become a teen i realized what my parents are people who do not talk at all in the same house, i used to self harm just at the age of 13 i hated myself as i thought i am the reason i continued it for a long time and my parents saw it i was again villainized asked to jump off a cliff, my guitar something i loved was locked in the store room idk why makes 0 sense . i remember once when i was in 10th grade parents did not talk at all for 10 months and i would study whole day to escape my reality my parents had stolen everything that i liked music , art i used be a sketch artist too . my mother she had ckd and hence she is on dialysis for the past 5 years and my dad is an alcohol addict and 60 yr old while mom is 40 , my dad has an ex wife and a daughter from her though he troubled them too and they never saw him again lucky ones . my dad emotionally abuses all of us , gaslights his children and he is a rich man but his family doesn't ask for anything because i don't feel like he is a dad . in October 2020 i got to know his reality he left my mom to die in a gov institution for covid she was on dialysis and i had covid too our father did not seem to care much and the sister of mine who did not have covid she had the worst time too . somebody we know got mom out of that place in some hours . my dad could afford an icu but he did not he is a dumb selfish man who should've never been married or have children .somehow my house welcomes big arguments just a night before any exam specially boards i still scored 95 . but at the end of 10th something happened that killed the last bit of me , my little sister ran away she did not come back from school and i remember following the cameras through school , looking for her on footpaths she took nothing no money even just clothes and she did not know where to go just not home , so my dad he is useless except for his money so my mom who is a ckd patient had to run to apartments it was January me and my older sister we remember being at a police station and we actually found my sis around 10pm and i was waiting for my parents near a temple in sainik farm delhi ( a very green area with just villas that's why it gets lonely in the dark , i was almost mistaken as a prostitute and i was just 15 . we found her the worst part was my little sister who i adored i was the biggest catalyst in her demise due to my own issues i would initiate drama in the house back then i was already back at self harming in nov but it reached different levels now this incident took place right before my preboard . i used to maintain a diary and act like i am a different body and a separate mind and how my mind is abusing (self harming ) my body because it deserves it i stopped around march . 11th started now i `was actually dead myself not just my parents or anyone i had died . 11th started i did not study i had too many health issues i would abuse my meds as i took them at wrong time school coaching i would sleep through them because of how i was taking my neuro meds which require stable sleep i had to take dummy school and i did better for a month then there was a war somewhere and i got invested to escape obviously . dec 2023 to march 2024 i do not know what happened where i was etc . i had to regain consciousness i was in 12th grade now and i was into spirituality now i had this attraction to maa kali , lord shiva maa tara and i meditated to heal focusing on my childhood . i had this interest in occult since long back and i could see and feel entities now its very clear . i have reached certain levels now where i can feel positive energy around vibrations rush through my body. i am attached to maa kali in unexplainable way to the point tears run down my face when i think or meditate concerning her same with lord shiva they have helped me realize my past but yes my family did not change they are still the same its like my devotion is of no use here i am stuck and you are right my biggest reason to want to crack neet is to escape this house these people the thing is i have only realized and not acted upon i feel helpless i have visits with the neurologist a psychiatrist once but i was criticized so i didnt see him again i black out alot i have developed eye disorders , i have panick attacks but i still think if not me who else is eligible to work this out ,i have in mind if draupadi wasn't stripped there would have been no war and no new beginning . i talk to shiva , maa and krishna alot because i am aware there isn't any other . i used to be silent now i fight back . i do not study much i feel like my friends think i am some very smart human as i read religious scriptures , i know occult , i am emotionally smart and because of my dissociative personality in class i am a topper at home i do not study so nobody knows the reality of my marks it is not like i lie . nobody asks me even my parents or anyone i just look so mysterious and smart . my friends know me as the prettiest, quietest ,occultist ,rich girl but my reality is twisted i only have people i know actually and no friend . this was a vent i had never vented to youtube or anyone . i will make my way anyway i cannot accept loose
I was going to ignore this long comment but when i read the first line after that i couldn't stop this is EXACTLY the story of my life ditto same to same I have faced this since childhood and now i am this mysterious smart successfull pretty girl that everyone thinks but no one knows how messed up i am on the inside. I have EXACT same life story as yours only one minor change i never did self harm or thought about it and my father did not leave my mother to die this situation never happened other than that same to same story I am glad that we can relate
The more you suffer , the stronger u will become.
Prioritize yourself that's it. Don't be rude to others but learn to be selfish at some points.
Unhappiness is more common than happiness. Everybody is fucked up in reality. It's just opposite of what internet feeds is by showing other's successful life.
Have a hug bestiee 🫂
be strong sister,life is full of problems,no one is happy except vairagi(asceticist)
Believe!! i know it's hard but things will get better.
bhaiya meri life me distraction to nahi h , mai social media bhi use nahi karti hu bas laptop h mere pass , but jab padhne baithi hu to man karta h ki bas jo video aa rahi h wo dekh lu bas padhne ka bahot man karta h but padh q nahi paati hu , mai ek banking aspirant hu ye mera second attempt hoga . jisko bhi ye problem h plz like karo jisse ki bhaiya ispe ek video bana paai plzz bhaiya😥😥😥
Then u should use old methods, laptop bhi hta do, or sirf books se pdhai kro or han hr subject ki sirf ek book. Isse apka schedule b bna rhega or dhyan b nhi bhtkega. Jb ye laptops or phone nhi the log tb bhi selection lete the..
@@shivajibhadouria ya i totally agree with you , i will try this method, thank you
I too facing this problem 😢 my problem is loneliness 😢 due to which I can't feel happiness in life 😭
That's why I have using my phones for entertainment purpose continuously from 8 months 😢
Due to which I can't able to make focus on studies 😢💔
My career is in danger but I can't able to solve this problem 😞
Anita ji same things happened to me 3 months ago bcz I have, laptop, tablet along with mobile... & Also I don't have any social account but when I open yt regarding my doubts i randomly click on any video watching for a long time after that I realise I came to solve my doubts... Then I applied some methods to tackle this problem.
Step 1 - I Create a gmail account separately for study, search only study videos. Not any type of video for entertainment I used a another gmail account.
Step 2 - use 1 device only for study purposes, I used a laptop only for study purposes not for any type of entertainment,
Step 3 - daily meditate at least 15 minutes, it help a lot in your life, the main thing it gives you clarity of thought,
Now I am free from this,
Have a great day... Anita ji😊
@@shivajibhadouria no bro this is not an excuse 🙄
Actually my family has shifted to a new wired place that is my dad's village where I don't have any friend and nothing to feel like happy 😭
Actually I have made every possible effort in making friends but this Is not seeing possible for me 😔
I stared to feel depressed nowadays 💔😖 you can't feel my pain 😢
Hello ..
Please make a detail video on wow method visualisation step by step and also on mantra meditation
Bilkul
A follow along video? Great idea.
Hare krishna prabhuji🙏
Hari bol .....❤❤❤thank you so much.. You are incredible.
Bhaiya its a humble request plz make video on 'Fear of Failure'.
Yes bhiyaa so true ❤i have score 660 marks in neet in first drop and maine bhi ye realise kia ki jab hum khush hote h tab jyada ache se pdhai pe focus kr paate hain
Radhe kriahna bhaiya.. 🌸
The same things are happening with me my family is suffering so much financially like loans, brothers collage fees, family issues, health issues & being the elder child of parents who just graduated inspite of trying I'm not getting way to suppoert my family, aiming to UPSC alongside... Sometimes I feel like "this shall too pass" Right now I have to study harder for my exam & future & I do that but all of sudden every end of the day I got hit by the realization that I should give up all my dreams to support my family & I tried to get a job but I couldn't.. Feeling the same way as you said my dreams is becoming my need, inspite of knowing that I can do..but I'm feeling like I won't due to external factor without any social media, peers, & other distarction ...
It feels like a karma for sin sometimes..can't able to figure out way ahead.. What to do what not to do..... I'm feeling like dieing in between not giving up on , keep trying & just leave find job whatever, but couldn't.....
@@prateetisingh2675 We continue to do what everyone will do in this situation. But when we depend on God he makes us do things which sets a greater example for people who know us.
You can quietly see everything happening in the house and keep preparing for your exam. And you can catch up some work to earn and support.
It's on you how much strength is in you.
My advise is you can start some tuitions
Bar bar exams me... Failure dekhne k baad ek drrr sa beth jata hai.. Aur na pdd pate fr... Na.. Focus kr pate h.. Please guide us ibps k exams start ho gye... Hai...jai shree ram 😍🙏
Self Introspection Will Surely Guide You Sister
Khud ko examine kro, agr target ke pass marks aa rhe hn to thoda or focus kro or agr cutoff ke aas pass bhi nhi ho to chhod do
Or ek break le kr starting se start kro, past ka kuch nhi sb hta do, ache se focus kro, jo past mn gltiyan ki vo krne se bacho result 100% milega
डेको भाई अगर माने ऑनलाइन कोर्स ले कर पढ़ाई की फिर मैं फैल हो गया तो दुबारा कोर्स लेकर नोर्स बना कर पढ़ाई क्रू pls रिप्लाई@@shivajibhadouria
bhai main issue : bad environment, either at home or wherever the student is staying. It is difficult to focus with constant disturbance. 50% + ppl ki yehi problem hai.
And jaha tak issue hai mobile ka, woh toh actually khud ki problem hai.
Hare krishna hare krishna krishna krishna hare hare❤🙏🏻💐
Hare Krishna 🙏🏾
@@ritika_nagar Hare Krishna Ritika 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@Examtales Bhaiya distraction, mobile addiction these are common har kisi ko hai ajkal.
But please make a video for those students who have huge Financial issues in their life and that leads to fear of failure and affecting focus when trying to sit for studies.
Kindly provide some good solutions to fight with this issue.
I was good student and was also good at extra circular my only weakness was maths, for that I was pressurized and humiliated, I improved maths temporarily but was not able to keep it up..my parents never encouraged me rather I got beaten up..I grew up as a low confident person...later my mom went into depression due to family reasons and my brother was diagnosed with bipolar, they both become verbally abusive, later on my brother became violent and started beating me. When I tried to resist ,my parents emotionally blackmailed me to hush for the sake of family. Somehow I completed my graduation and started preparations, believing results will change my life situations and so I got too attached to results and failed ,meanwhile the situation of my home worsened,..I kept on failing until one day ...I decided that I WON'T GET AFFECTED by any worse situation and gave exam with calm mind.....fortunately I got chance to write mains.......I am still trying to look forward and live my life...but really not getting attached to final results..
My main reason for my failure in academics and competitive exam was HEALTH ISSUES ( ULCERATIVE COLITIS AUTOIMMUNE DISORDER leading to many other things) and I was incapable to deal with Stress and study Backlog and Loneliness leading into T.V SERIALS ADDICTION ( ESCAPISM) and INSTABILITY of house settlements and Frustration and mental health issues of mother Thus terribly failed in competitive exam still trying to improve and your videos are helping lots of people like me I Thank you from bottom of my heart and may RadhaKrishna bless you may you always grow spiritualy and also grow in life. Grateful for your videos 🙏
I also batteling with autoimmune disease psoriasis all over body sometimes feel i don’t want to live sometime feel kuch kr ke dikhana hai pta Nhi kaise hoga you r not alone so just keep you study up
Iam also having ulercitve collities iam facing too much stress and anxiety this is main cause for iam not getting the job
@@maheshsandeveni-u9k Excuse me, can you help to understand what he was saying in these video. Im a sounth indian. Not familiar with hindi. 🙂 can you explain in english.
@@DhritiSamanta19 Can you mail me?
@@Examtales sure sir
thank you for the video ... im from Manipur...my house is burnt n destroy...my family is scattered...im living in different states with unknown people and different language...i thought im weak in studies but now i realised i was average in my past...if only I can settle my life rn i will achieve success in future
Family problem. I live with them. Can't go anywhere.
Metoo
Same 😢
The show must go on.....
Please keep on such videos. ❤
bhaiya padte time mind me overthinking hoti h faltu ke topics ko lekr aur bhaiya me roj meditation bhi krta hu fir bhi please make video on this topic please its my humble request @exam Tales (The Exam of Life)
I have two issues....
1. Unstable family environment.. sometimes all gud like hum sath sath h and sometimes you guess I don't have words ...
2. I have a fear of being a housewife and being dependent on anyone for money ..
So if you can address these problems.. it will be of great help..
Thank you 😊
Thankyou bhaiya ❤❤❤
Mai lonely feel karta hu, dophar me aur jyada, I feel like I'm in bondage
Kuch accha nahi lagta, koi friends nahi bache, 🥺
Chant kro bhagwan pass mein rahenge
I scored more than 80 while in 10th but got that over flown so did my 11th twice because in first attempt my maths and physics were lacking but I saved physics any how but at that time I was introduced to another chapter of life names ADEM which in just 2 more years became Multiple sclerosis,the decision of choosing mechanical enginnering was influenced by my maternal uncle ,and some other family members I had no Idea of the extent of the power that was to be put up and the uni through which I did my graduation was like just shoving me with grades and telling me just to pass , we did study things but my soul was lacking I didn't study good enough and I graduated during covid , I did had chance to go to merchant navy but recruiter told me that I was in no condition since I am the only male , I had been through many phases but I am trying my hard to survive and win in this phase too , I dearly need the job because I have give most of my time for this ,going to private now seems a lot more difficult than it was then so I am trying my level best
All the best bhai 👍.
I suffer from health issues with week finance 😢
Ye video ka topic ekdum sahi tha, Relate hua meri life problems se .. bs Detail me batao bhaiya, so that we can implement 🙏
I am jee aspirant but i am surrounded with bad childhood memories, trauma, overthinking, addiction and self doubt. That's why i can't focus. Only 5 months left for jee mains preparation. Please tell me guys what should i do i seriously need your help💔💔💔
Dude just focus on study...apne aap ko free mat choro...aur suffle krke padho 3eeno subjects ko...aur ye sab problems imaginary hai....jese hi tum pen utha kr padhne lagoge ye sari problem vanish ho jaygi...❤
@@Scoolboy-tm8fs tnx brother I'll follow your advice 🙏🏻🙏🏻
It depends whether you have done syllabus lectures or you are starting from start ... If you are starting from start then do 2 lec in a day only fro about 4. To 5 Days with questions practice of 20 ques only that's it ... Study for about 3 4 hr only then slowly shirt you lectures to 3 and questions to 30 ... You will realise you are actually able to focus ... Just make small goals .. and if you are not able to do 2 lectures in a day then start with only 1 lec
keep a counselor/therapist to talk to
@@bloodxeros5009 mail me. Write "Google Meet 453". I'll arrange a Google meet
Bhaiya aap sahi kah rhe ho kuch control nhi ho pa rha study par focus krein to health issues khade ho jate hain un par control krein to financial issues aur family fights yhi sb cycle continue chlti rhti hai .
fear,,,,, fear,,,,, fear ,,,, lead to overthinking and distraction like sexual thoughts and multiple failure in neet,... age is passing ,..career is in total dark.. so this is the problem
Chant Hare Krishna mahamantra and join Iskcon youth forum I was facing the same problem 1 year back .
Thank you dost mere sath bhi yhi h
Mughe bchpn se health issues bhut Jada rhte h jaise bachpn se hi asthma.12 sal ke hone pr serious allergies hr chij me problem like digestive problems alot off hair fall skin issues extra and sone pe suhaga financial problem bhi bchpn se hi sath sath chl rhi h pr in sb ke bavjood ab Jake 24 sal ki umr msi stable ho payi Mai smgh payo ki tone se kux nhi hoga jo problems h unse niptne ke do raste h ya to suicide kr lo ya fir ldo
Suicide try Kiya pr vo. Hi fail ho gya isliye ab sirf apne kam pr dhyan de rhe h smgh chuke h ki rone se dipression me Jane se sirf. Mera hi nuksan h
Atleast Mai vo to kru jo mere hatho me h jo mai kr skti ab bs Mai vhi kr rhi hu aesa nhi ki sb ky thik ho gya h bs sb mera dimag sthir ho gya ab jaise koi frk hi nhi pdta h jindgi me kux bhi axa ya bura hone se jaise mamooli bat si lgne lgi h ab ye sari problems
kaffi time se etni smjhdaari ki baate nhi mili sunne ko.. thank you so much.. i got more confidence!!!!!!
@@avnisahariya How do you feel right now? Do you feel Good? Do you want any help?
Bro i need your help
Thank you for being sensible about some real problems, that we aspirants actually face, there are some unsaid sufferings that are not easy to be said in words..
मेरे ग़मो की बात न करो
वो ज़ख्म से भी ज़्यादा गहरे हैं।
Problems -/
Bhaiya phone se distracted tha pur 9th or 10th but still managed to get (90%+ in boards)
9th 10th me socha tha ki 11th me phone use nahi karunga or laptop le lunga ya coaching ke pas room lelunga
JAB 11TH me aya to dono ki plans fail ho gaye kyuki dono expensive the , so I myself managed to gain all the will to refuse distraction
Pura bal lagane ke baad 1-2 hafte me mera distraction bilkul Kam ho gaya 0 tak a gaya tha
But than I realised phone or TH-cam is not the real problem, the real problem was my mind was weak at focusing kyuki distraction free hone ke baad bhi productivity bas thodi si badhi !
Ye josh 1 week Tak raha but I was frustrated and exhausted kyuki koi faida dikha nahi distraction free hone ka , after that I week I started getting distracted again
Like 100% of time was being wasted in TH-cam again, but ab bhi har nahi mani or library join Kia ( it was affordable) library me again phone ka distraction 0 ho gaya tha but productivity nahi badhi so after seeing no benifits I left it
This was the most horrible period I had ever gone through, me itna frustrate ho gaya ki pen uthane ka maan bhi nahi kar raha tha , so me and father decided to take a break and visit haridwar for relaxation, but again usse bhi kuch nahi hua 😢 from then till now I have not tried any new way to improve, ab lag raha ha ki will weak hi gaya hai , my parents are not able to understand my situation and are always shouting at me and demotivating me that I am lazy or not hardworking or whatever
Which is kind of obvious as they have paid 500000 for my preparation from 9th to 12th ( currently I am in 11th ) /dummy school my fees I actually greater than his annual income, basically they don't trust me that I am hardworking or I going to make it ,now I am having every second night in tears, actually ab me thoda arrogant bhi ban gaya hu kyuki unki daat sunne ki adad si ho gayi hai and I know ki unki baat dil par lunga to preparation kharab hi hogi
10 din me phase test hai adha phase bhi prepared nahi hai or fir bhi me pura din yt videos or porn dekta rehta hun ( actually my family has a 1 bhk in delhi to wo ek room mera hai jaha me door lock karke " padhta hun "
Kuch smj nahi a raha ab to lag raha hai ki sab routine sa ho gaya hai subha uthte hi phone chalana and then pura din waste karna , raat me papa ko fake questions pe tick laga kar dikhana ki mene bahut kam kiya hai ( bcz I don't want those scoldings )😢 and then test ke results par rona
Plz help kya karu , 🙏😭
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Bhaiya ek or cheez : apki story or @DrDarshanPatel-AIIMS ki story sun ke mujhe ab lagne laga hai ki meditation solution to hai par me meditation ke liye bhi nahi Beth pa raha kyuki usme bhi will lagti hai or agar mere was will power hoti to me directly padhai hi nahi kar leta ? Apki or unki story me common ye hai ki dono hi pehle weak the and ek time me depression me the both tried suicide attempts,but than both met a spiritual guru , practiced meditation and now are successful,
Mujhe lagne laga hai ki mere life me bhi jab bada dhakka lagega to will badegi and me ye sab kar paunga !
App ise kaise dekhte ho .......?
Bhai I have a solution for it
Because the situation you are facing right now.
I have overcome ( lit bit )
@@Air1jeeAdv2026 Bhai pehele tu porn dekh na chod or tu kahin na kahin overthinking kar raha hai apni future ko lekar family ko lekar padhai ya job ko lekar
Porn chod uske baad har ek problem ki solution apne app tere samne aa jayegaa
Dekh mein iss situation se gujar chhuka hoon bade bhai ke hisab se bol raha hoon
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Wait , ek aur thought 💭 aya
Abhi mene 2nd comment me kaha ki "meditation ke liye bhi nahi Beth pa raha kyuki usme bhi will lagti hai or agar mere was will power hoti to me directly padhai hi nahi kar leta ? " But than 1st comment me ye bhi kaha hai ki " in the initial few weeks of 11th I had I myself managed to gain all the will to refuse distraction
Pura bal lagane ke baad 1-2 hafte me mera distraction bilkul Kam ho gaya 0 tak a gaya tha "
I am now able to connect dots 🌟😮
To basically pehle to mujhe phone ka distraction 0 kar dena chahiye ( I know me ye kar sakta hun kyuki mene pehle ye ek bar kia hai ( as mentioned above)
Isse productivity bhale hi na badhe but clarity zarur milegi kyuki mene ek obstacle eliminate kar diya hoga , I will now be able to see my goal more clearly kyuki pehle me phone pe Sara blame dal raha tha
Now,
I know problem khatam nahi Hui hogi , I will still have a weak and less focused mind , so now I will start doing things which will help me evolve my mind like wow method over Olympiad type problems and meditation, chain of thoughts ye sari cheeze 😮
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Agar mene Jo socha hai wo sachi hai
To bhi ek problem hai
For step 2 I need will power ( I know I can get that ) but I still need motivation ,support and love
Which I know I will not get from anyone as my parents already don't trust me
my social life is also horrible I don't have true friends I only have 2 they are also like classmates only
I am literally crying right now !
Aapne jo bola wahi problem mera saath the exact situation I am facing..But The way you encourage us through videos and give pratical examples and the struggle you have done to achieve that provide us the hope within us .. I request to do such videos every time that will help us achieve something big in our life..
Bhaiya....ekdum ekdum ekdum satik bole ye baat....1:50
Ekdum ekdum ekdum bilkul sateek baat....
Thank you Prabhu ji Hare Krishna ❤
I can't even explain here what is going with me. 🙂
Whatever is going on with you, i hope your this phase gets away soon, and i pray Krishna for your happiness and success, hare Krishna 🙏
@sandeep.never.gives.up.015 now i don't believe on anyone. Not even on krishna
पढाई एक प्रकार की तपस्या है जो सिर्फ एकांत मे ही संभव है, भले ही तुम्हारे पास संसाधनों की कमी है लेकिन अगर तुम्हारा दिमाग एकाग्र है तो तुम अपना लक्ष्य हासिल कर सकते हो अन्यथा नही होगा, मेरे साथ यही हुआ है मै हर दो तीन महीने बाद अपने प्लान से भटक जाता हूँ क्योकि मेरा मन एक जगह नही टिकता कभी CGL कभी UPSC और कभी PRIVATE JOB.
Bhai mujhme procrastination ki bahut aadat hai har saal ye soch ke nikal jata hai ki next year kar lunga...
Plzz procrastination ko kaise deal kare .uspe video banaiye..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
A much-needed video for all aspirants from middle-class families.
Hare Krishna 🙏🏼
U r right bhaiya, once during a major exam in class 12th, it so happened that my family decided to go out for a trip for few days n could only return 4 days be4 exam, i was worried but still the trip was refreshing i was happier than ever, returned back n just studied n didnt think bout wht could happen, wht of my marks r bad. Then after exam results came in n it turned out i topped the class n on every subject 😅(i literally had forgotten bout the results let alone whether i passed or not, i just had a strong believe on myself tht bhai sab thik hi hoga). But during neet and other competitive exams, watching my parents stress bout me and their financial struggles, it got me stressed and overthinking whether ill pass or not and started binge watching yt. And i failed. And atm life isnt stable at all.
Now that ive a proof that it was all dependent on that one mindset, I'll make sure to not get to tht path again. THANKS for making this eye opener of a vid
boys attraction, day dreaming and lack of focus are the major things which are stopping me from becoming what I want to become
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂 .. hatsooff to your honesty
😂😂😂
Hare Krishna 🙏🏼🤍, bhaiya. I appreciate your words about the differences between those who excel academically and those of us who face family issues, childhood trauma, and abusive household problems. Some people may not understand that we are not just living our lives, but rather, we are surviving. This sets us apart from those who lead a more conventional life.
Bade Bhai mai
Night me 12 hours kam karta hu
Din me 1st year ke liye collage jata hu
Or subah 1.30 ghanta or sham me 1.30 se 2 ghante daily math's padhta hu
Or social media par whatsapp or youtube ke alawa kuch nhi chalata
Lekin meri ek aadat kharab hai ki me jab bhi ghar par rahta hu to me padhai me time nhi de pata or idhar udhar ki video dekhne lag jata hu koi rah do bade bhai please taki me faltu ka time waste na karu
*जय श्री राम 🙏*
@@rohanrathore1448 agr jyada negative impact pd rha h to mobile ko drop krdo. Chota phone rkhlo or puri tarah books pr nirbhar ho jaao
Social Media Distraction, Lack of Focus, Bad old Memories, Overthinking, Lack of Focus, Self Doubt
Sir aap ko pichhale 6 months se follow kar rha hu and 4 years se preperetion kar rha hu pae one pre nikla h
Sir economical problem bachpan se h
Kabhi kabhi to form fill karne ka fee nhi hote rhta h sir 🙏🙏🙏 sir es par ek video banaye study continue rakhe ya chhor de
Koi badi responsibility nhi hai to private me shuru kr sakte ho
@@sharvan4104 mei smjh skta hu. Ye puri tarah aap pr nirbhar krta h ki aap kya krskte h.
Aapka video se mera padhai mai bahut achha improve hua hai
thanks❤
Me yaad nahi kar pata kuch bhaiya kya karu me ? Jab bhi padai karne bhetteta hu , toe mann padai se bhagta h metal pain , aalas , nind wagera aata h !
Thank you brother for the great reminder that there's no end of problems, we can never be freed from problems, but we can face them with great confidence.
Health Issues, Nervousness , Financial problem and Lack of focus
Your words are true my bro.. same situation i have faced in my life during my competitive preparation.. Due to family problems & stress i couldn't achieve my goal..
Sir one of my friend is preparing for upsc from last 5 years , last year her preparation is going good but suddenly from last December her parents started looking for
a boy for her to marry ... From last December she is completely out of focus .. she feels unsecure every time hence this year too she failed in the exam ... She do over thinking all the time about future insecurity how she will manage her career as well as family life.... Earlier her focus was much strong that she can complete one book of any subject in just 3 days .... she is graduated .... She feels very low as no one supports her ... Everyone from her family make her feel very low every time by their words....now she is very puzzled she wants to leave upsc and pursue bEd .... I have seen a confident girl losing her dreams , feeling confused all the time she is completely out of focus now.... She wants to do upsc but because of pressure on her she is losing herself ..... Everyone make her feel she is a burden on them... Sir plz suggest how She will overcome all this ....
You are a good friend, a rarity these days. I am also in a near similar situation as your friend. Please try to offer as much emotional support as you can. She must actively search for other options in her field and not loose hope 🤞
@@indian4670 Once a Monk was somehow framed of wrong doing by someone in monastery. The news spread. All the people in the monastery became angry with him. The Management punished him to go out of monastery and live outside for sometime. As he moved outside of the monastery, he went to a very famous God realised saint who used to live near that place. The Monk was crying, said I left my family for this monastery and I'm crying not because they ousted me but because I've been framed wrongly.
The saint pulled his head towards his chest and quietly said into his ears. My son you left your family for this and now they all are against you.
Now you and God are alone. I bless you. That Monk became so happy and later become a God realised saint
@@crimsonlyyours Once a Monk was somehow framed of wrong doing by someone in monastery. The news spread. All the people in the monastery became angry with him. The Management punished him to go out of monastery and live outside for sometime. As he moved outside of the monastery, he went to a very famous God realised saint who used to live near that place. The Monk was crying, said I left my family for this and I'm crying because I've been framed wrongly.
The saint pulled his head towards his chest and quietly said into his ears. My son you left your family for this and now they all are against you.
Now you and God are alone. I bless you. That Monk became so happy and later become a God realised saint
Thanks brother your videos help me a lot in studies
Thank you❤
I don't really think that this topper ke life mein koi problem nahi hote. Unka bhi har waqt focus high nahi hota. Jab focus jyada nahi hota, woh log tab bhi padhte hai aur better focus karne ki koshish karte hai jab ki doosra koi bachcha usi waqt social media pe distract hone lagta hai.
Hare Krishna Prabhu ji! This was an amazing video. Hope it inspires many students from financially unstable and other unstable backgrounds. Hare Krishna!
Porn addiction
Ekdam bhai😢, chorna bahot mushkil h
Me ta chod dia bhai...😊ab mst chl rha a zindegi😊@@fungsukwangdu5795
Bhai daily hilana pad raha hai kya??😢@@fungsukwangdu5795
My mind is very powerful and i will use it in a way to fullfill all my parents dreams🎉
Bhaiya masturbation nahi chhut rahi h. Plz help 🥺
Bhai jaap karo
I'll be discussing about it soon
Premanand maharaj ❤❤❤ ji ko follow karo bhai
Bramhacharya par ek video banaiye...
@@1yadav6002 kartaa hu bro
I have asked krishna by iterating my situation and here it is, he is answering me through you. I am really really grateful that i am following you.
Hare krishna❤
Har Har Mahadev 📿.
Meri ek hi problem hai ki kab padhu din me raat me.kyuki jab din me padhne baithti hu to nind bahut jyada aati h aur jab raat ko padhne chahti hu to 3 hour hi padh pati hu uske headache hone lagta hai fir pure din nind aati h 😢.
Mujhe kaise bhi 2025 me job chahiye
I had this situation in the past.
And I tried simple trick - sleep at 10pm or maximum at 10.30pm, and tried to get maximum sleep I could...jab bhi aankh khulti fir sone ki kosis krta tha....after 4-5 days my unusual sleeping cycles had gone and I started to rise early in the morning...avoided mobile uses till 11am, and MAGIC happened😊
@@SazaarGaming ok ,I will Try It
@@SazaarGaming what's magic happened to you?
@@aloneonuniverse I mean no disrespect but it is a thing to find out yourself.......if I explain you will not get the feel...😊
Bilkul sahi kaha dar ki wajah se performance par asar padta hai
0:17 Hain??? Kaisi apmanjanak baat kr raha hai ye ladka......😂
Thankyou bhaiya ,this is something different. Mujhe problems pta he ye bhi pta he its just maya to make us learn something with every obstacle during the journey and kafi problems ke solution pe mane kaam kiya bhi he but its always less 😞. Main problem to yahi he ki ssc journey was not my first choice but now i love to study still consistency nhi aati. My worst nightmare is ki is prep me zyada saal na chale jae in addition kabhi kabhi family ki ya reatives ki hi demotivating and toxic baaton ki wajah se emotional stability chali jati he it takes time to come back to the track than , aapko bhi pta he ek limit tak hi ignore hota he after that everything feels disturbing and fir we feel like hell .
I tried so many times to wake up early, to study and meditate in calm environment to lead myself but whenever i wake up it feels like its hard to face the race everyday so can't continue for more than 2-3 days 😔😔 please address the issue as these are the only things i am not able to restart.
Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna hare hare hare ram hare ram ram ram hare hare thank you so much 🙏 Thank you so much universe 🙏 ✨️ thank you so much shri Krishna ❤❤❤❤
Sahi kah rhe hai aap bhaiya, problem aur distraction mil kar mujhe barbad karne lagi hai. Mai nhi kar pa rhi deal in sab se ek kadam aage badhao to problems teen kadam piche khinch lete hai
Thank you bhaiyaaa❤
Radhekrishn🙏
Jai shree radhe krishna bhaiya,you are right Maine bhi feel kiya h ki most of the time hm kisi chij ko nhi kr pate h uska Karan hi dr hota h
trauma, broken childhood, self-doubt, overthinking, bad decision making, anger towards my close ones, the loop of negative thinking, constant criticism.........
Thankyou so much for guiding in right direction 👍👍👍👍👍👍
Thank you bhaiya padhai me man na lgna or padhai naa karne ka reason denaa aaj ke time me bahut se students ki problem hai
Bhaiya aapse ek request hai ek esi video baniye jissse bacho ko thoda regret ho ki unhone kese apne kimti time ko kho diya hai
Or vo kya badlav kare apni life jisse vo problems se deal karte huye khud ko exams ke liye ready kar le .
Mera biggest reason hai failure ka dependency on other procrastination of work apne bare me dusro se salah lena.
Awesome. Too much maturity in very young age
Hare Krishna prabhuji
Hare Krishna 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@ExamtalesBhaiya apse bat ho skti h kya
Plzzz bhaiya kha aap se connect ho skte h
@@AbhishekKumar-ob7hl aap email kr skte ho
@@komalyadav5774 mail id kha se milegi
@@Examtales apse bat krni h plzz bhaiya
Jabardast bhai we want more vedios on this topic
even problems may come but not letting them to overtake myself
Bhaiya solution to btao
Aapne apne aap ko strong kaise bnaya
And hum khud ko fearless kaise bnay . M to chanting b krti hu BG b pdhti hu
But fr b results ke bare me to mind me aa hi jata h .
@@soniyakumari5275 Do not read BG because some saintly person told you to do so. It will not help you much.
Read Bhagwad Gita
Chant lord's name to realise that it is the ultimate Goal of life. And the material pursuit is endless, painful and a complete waste
Hare Krishna prabhuji❤❤ aap bilkul 💯💯💯 shi bole weak padhai koi nhi hota hai...bas mehnat krne ki zarurat aur with bhakti....
Achha lagta hai aap jese logo ko dekh kar jo khud bhi jeevan me aage badh rahe hai aur doosron ke jeevan ko bhi sudhar rahe hai ,.. Radhekrishna ji aap par apna ashirwad banaye rakhe 😊❤
@1:05 min only #ultra_intelligent🔥🔥 people can talk like this😊😊❤❤👍👍👌👌
Normal/Average/Below Average people: everyone has problems.. even #all the toppers have😂😂 #Only poor/lower n middle classed people work hard or study 📖😅😅 because they have to change their situation (from😢😢to😁😁)
Bro spitting thruth, u have deep thoughts man ❤
1:48 going through same condition and not even able to focus on study simple tasks and this leading to frustration and depression 😭
Same here
Thanku prabhu ji ❤😊
Self doubt, overthinking, insecurities, lack of confidence, communication skil,fear of rejection,need to earn money in a early age
Thank you prabhuji .
Mujhe meri question ke answer mil gya .
Ye sab ek process he to climb beyond
"Just Trust The Process"
Work hard brothers
i remember my family has abandoned us and we had to leave home in that one night. i had to spend three days in a temple and that same night i had periods and cramps too. we had to stay more than a year in one room but my god krishna listen all pain, our situation became okey now we got a house building this year and living again. slowly slowly i am also trying to go back in my studies. lord krishna is helping me a lot for healing from truama. because of his grace i could go ayodhya, kashi and vrindavan this year. i never got a chance from my childhood to go outside cause of my strict old cousins but now i can go my own. hare krishna♥
Very important observation. Thank you
Bhaiya ek mediation pr vdo bana dijiye, overthinking is the major problem , pta nhi pdhte time v mind m thoughts chlte hi rehte h . Productivity ko kaise increase kr skte h.
how to meditate ?
Bhaiya jitna thanks bolu...utna Kam h.....boht boht boht dhanyawad....ye cheez boht pehle mere dimag me aaya tha but fir dhyaan se nikal gya tha...but abhi aapne bataya to wapas dhyaan aagya....jaisa aapne bataya bilkul bilkul bilkul waisa hi h.....mai kya kya batau...
Negative thinking making myself insecure by my own thoughts and some other factors are also there sir . Hope you guide you little .
@@AshmitaMalhotra-pw7xc what factors
low self esteem 😞
Financial issues k baare me sochne lgti hu padhte tym...... family k problems.....Bhai k issues.......aapne baat bilkul sahi kahi h