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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 พ.ค. 2024
- AITA for ignoring our daughter’s inconvenient boundary?
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Get her a foldable washing line. She can use that, and anything on the family washing line is in danger of being touched/moved.
Problem solved
Pithy, but incomplete. Part of the issue would also be clothes left in the washer or dryer as well. If the family is to respect the so-called boundary, but the daughter has a habit of leaving clothes in either of these machines for long periods, then the second clothes line solves nothing. The daughter has to actually be there to put the clothes onto the second clothes line. Are we also supposed to get a second washer and a second dryer too? That's a possible solution too, but it sounds damn expensive lol.
NTA but I think I understand where the daughter was coming from. She probably picked up both the concerns about her clothing and rules of use while sharing communal facilities at university.
This style of parenting sucks. Not only should they have set her straight on her stupid boundaries when it comes to wash facilities, they just posted this on Reddit, knowing the comments would obviously say "NTA, and stop being so lenient on your spoiled child," just so they could show their daughter, instead of communicating that themselves.
Agreed. This is an all around sad situation.
Yta. Shouldn't ignore boundaries. Just resolve the conflict another way.
You clearly aren't thinking this through lol. As the one commenter said towards the end of the video, boundaries only apply to what you put around yourself. The moment your "boundaries" are actually interfering with somebody else, that isn't a boundary anymore. The boundary of "don't touch my clothes" only applies to the extent that it doesn't massively interfere with the rest of her family's ability to wash their clothes. If I kick my ball over the fence and it land's in the neighbors yard, I can't tell them "don't touch that, it's mine, respect my boundaries!!!" and leave it there for the entire day. That's just littering, and the neighbor's right to control what happens within his property overrides your so-called "boundary". If you want people to respect your boundaries, make sure those boundaries don't block other people's ability to get work done. That's just how it is. And finally your "just resolve the conflict another way" is so pathetically useless to say that I want to mock you for even uttering it. How dare you say such a thing unless you can actually provide a better alternative! Go on, I dare you, how would *you* take care of a situation like this? Just let the daughter completely monopolize the resources intended for an entire family just to avoid hurting her feel-feels? My god.
so her "boundries" just give her the right to dictate the lives of others? good luck with that outside of your own home. if she wants boundries either get your own place, go to a laundrymat or just stay with your fucking laundry, dont block the machines for days on end