the ULTIMATE GUIDE to becoming THAT girl || tips to glow up your lifestyle! *this will motivate you*

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  • @HeyitsAnnabellee
    @HeyitsAnnabellee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4135

    Fernanda is LITERALLY *THAT GIRL* 🤩

    • @evadelatorreg.6
      @evadelatorreg.6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She is !!!!

    • @rominamariaca4080
      @rominamariaca4080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes, she's the best 🥰✨✨

    • @hopemyles3950
      @hopemyles3950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      why did i say the same thing

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel, contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

    • @kelseysvlogs8160
      @kelseysvlogs8160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr!

  • @NadyaOlivares
    @NadyaOlivares 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3964

    I’ve been trying to follow “that girl” lifestyle! To me, it’s all about becoming healthier physically & mentally ✨

    • @salmazahrah9622
      @salmazahrah9622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I am too, and the mental side is really refreshing!

    • @aneciiasmith6592
      @aneciiasmith6592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me too 😊

    • @sadaf3490
      @sadaf3490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm not "that" girl :(

    • @alesia6752
      @alesia6752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@fernandaraamirez omg hi fernanda I know you probably won’t see this but your videos really help me be the best version of myself both mentally and physically. You’ve really helped me get out through a very hard time and I just wanted to thank you

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel, contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

  • @maskitmati
    @maskitmati 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5877

    this video is so cute

  • @lucieheriche481
    @lucieheriche481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3124

    If being "that girl" is called toxic just think how the "college mentally" is, where you romanticize not having enough sleep, crying yourself to sleep and anxiety (idk if you see what i'm talking about but i have seen that type of behavior around social media, like someone say "Oh you had 8 hours of sleep, i only had 2" and then you start feeling guilty because you slept well, when it's actually the BASE of a healthy life). I don't think being "that girl" has to be about meditating or waking up early, just about nourishing our body and soul and not romanticizing being depressed and anxious. (sorry for my poor english, it's not my first language :/

    • @mahamjavaid6064
      @mahamjavaid6064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      Never in my life have i resonated more with a comment! You’re so right👏🏻

    • @safak6596
      @safak6596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      yep, very true

    • @minfires7572
      @minfires7572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Well said!! May I ask what ur first language is?

    • @jessrobertson9804
      @jessrobertson9804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Totally agree, people romanticize unhealthy living and demonize healthy living these days which is so crazy/

    • @aaminah3922
      @aaminah3922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Just wanted to say your English was perfect! 💖

  • @ishalmahmud4174
    @ishalmahmud4174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2594

    Step 1 sleep schedule
    Step 2 mental health
    Step 3 fitness
    Step 4 nutrition
    Step 5 self care/pamper routine
    Step 6 keeping a clean environment
    Step 7 spirit, soul, mind (meditation)
    Step 8 social life

    • @user-du4vh
      @user-du4vh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Omg tysmmmm!

    • @sturn-wf7xd
      @sturn-wf7xd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      And repeat…every single day lol

    • @lilstarzgurlz
      @lilstarzgurlz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How long does this take if I work 12 hrs

    • @antonianusser5365
      @antonianusser5365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lol well I’m not depressed but I’m definitely not happy

    • @rose-bz7zj
      @rose-bz7zj 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      THANK YOU

  • @hopeyouburn1893
    @hopeyouburn1893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6511

    to be “that girl” you should simply be the best version of yourself.

  • @salmazahrah9622
    @salmazahrah9622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5293

    If we’re being honest Fernanda is already “that girl”

    • @fatmadomngos1154
      @fatmadomngos1154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Fr

    • @OliviaaDaisy
      @OliviaaDaisy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      ya ahah cuz everyone’s becoming pintrests girls to motivs eachother

    • @OliviaaDaisy
      @OliviaaDaisy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      motivate

    • @marchis108
      @marchis108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      YEEES and she doesn't brag about it thats why i like her so much

    • @avarae
      @avarae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      agreed!

  • @lopa5881
    @lopa5881 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1270

    i feel like those ppl that say that this trend is “toxic” have NO idea that this is what most mentally ill people SHOULD do, i have ocd and honestly i’ve been doing this routine since i was like 15?? because when you’re not in the best space mentally you NEED to make the effort to use mindfulness, exercise so you free serotonin and meditate so you don’t get stuck in your head.doing this for SO long and romanticizing every aspect of my life has done WONDERS for my mental health and overall happiness🌸💘💛🥑🧘🏽‍♀️

    • @helenabarreto2840
      @helenabarreto2840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      For real, every therapist advise u to have this type of routine

    • @milktea2740
      @milktea2740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      The reason people find it toxic is because it values aesthetics over actual mental health and physical health improvement. It doesn't show the hard work and effort put in to actually improve yourself but instead put aesthetic photos. In addition, it centred around skinny rich white girls and has zero diversity making those who aren't that feel excluded or not worth enough to be that girl. Zoeunlimited actually has a good video about this that explains it better than I can.

    • @ola2091
      @ola2091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      i don't think its toxic like the idea, but for me for example (I have bpd and im in bipolar disorder spectrum also ed) and for me its very all or nothing. so after a month of living like this I was actually dying. but I still think this routine can be helpful for some people as you said.

    • @hopkinsvonrabbitarius8233
      @hopkinsvonrabbitarius8233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@milktea2740 underrated comment as much as this "trend" inspires me there is sommat so fake and off-putting about it you CAN NOT simply loose a bunch of weight by eating avacado on brown bread and going to the gym there is more to it then that

    • @chloe.stewart
      @chloe.stewart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Litterally! And the thing is u dont have to do everything on here. I've been diagnosed with depression and anorexia and the last 2 weeks I've been doing these routines that fit me, wake up have water, 2minures breathing exercise, 10min yoga and then I sit and eat breakfast then I have 15 mins chill before leaving for work. Where as in the past I lay in bed, got ready didnt eat anything and left for work. It's been therapeutic in a way just having time to myself and keep myself occupied instead of sitting there tired and stressing about life and work.

  • @miapileggi7330
    @miapileggi7330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1952

    fernanda: “cleaning your room helps”
    me: “okay” *gets up and rearranges entire room*

    • @shalommathewos
      @shalommathewos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      This comment made me get up and clean my room
      Cause I realized how lazy I was and how everyone just take actions so thanks @Mia pileggi 🤍

    • @silent_midnights6285
      @silent_midnights6285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes me too!

    • @sylviacpearl
      @sylviacpearl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      and then it gets all messy and i lose the motivation and just take a nap💀

    • @chrisgestalis3563
      @chrisgestalis3563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hm Marie Kondo?

    • @iguniaigunia8488
      @iguniaigunia8488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I tried to clean my room and I gave up when I fell off from the stairs.

  • @Mikasa333-x7t
    @Mikasa333-x7t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1404

    Tbh people will call literally anything “toxic” at this point

    • @kaeleenmichelle
      @kaeleenmichelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      Agreed. The internet should’ve never learned that word 😭

    • @_Intanrasyidah_
      @_Intanrasyidah_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      so true

    • @stupidcupcake8066
      @stupidcupcake8066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@kaeleenmichelle i agree

    • @KamBB-gu3pv
      @KamBB-gu3pv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      It’s just insecurity

    • @andrea-4402
      @andrea-4402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      The concept was necessary at one point but now is being overused

  • @UniceLiu
    @UniceLiu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +665

    let’s be honest, fernanda is that girl, she’s so productive and aesthetic !

  • @AnhTran-cq6kp
    @AnhTran-cq6kp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +555

    she is literally living her best life I ASPIRE TO BE HER

    • @vanessaophelia9437
      @vanessaophelia9437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      me too!!

    • @milenamichaowicz1667
      @milenamichaowicz1667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      literally same

    • @milenamichaowicz1667
      @milenamichaowicz1667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      anyone wanna hype each others ig? mines @michalowiczmilena

    • @AnhTran-cq6kp
      @AnhTran-cq6kp 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@milenamichaowicz1667 mine is @laineyy.n!

    • @gogurletc8170
      @gogurletc8170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She is amazing ,aspire to be you !! It's okay to take some good habits from people and incorporate it in your daily routine but you can't be anyone but yourself young ladies...I'm glad I didn't grow up in the social media days I can't imagine the pain/pressure you young girls under 30 have to deal with to try to fit in ...I say find your lane and stay in it!!!! Each one of us is unique in our own way so embrace yourself, no one can be you better then you .....To being you🎊🎉🎊♥️

  • @afnanalhussainawi270
    @afnanalhussainawi270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    i LOVE how she took something that is being so frowned upon and made it positive. i remember once on her channel she said that she tries her best to make her channel positive and it really is💕

  • @manonrevolte4210
    @manonrevolte4210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    i love how you make "that girl" seem so healthy and comforting! So many people hate on "that girl" for simply trying to make their life better and romanticize it all because life is difficult. Just let them live

  • @IberogastM
    @IberogastM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    I used to live in a very unhealthy way. Suddenly I decided to be THAT girl and now, 3 months later, I lost 9kg, workout and eat healthier. I cook all my meals my own and my mental health has gotten 10 times better. You can do it too!

    • @digitaldrea
      @digitaldrea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But I don’t have a fridge

    • @digitaldrea
      @digitaldrea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or s stove just a microwave any tips

    • @Nonoayat
      @Nonoayat 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Which TH-camr routine did u watch ?

    • @IberogastM
      @IberogastM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Nonoayat I didn't watch any routines, I made my own. That way it was perfectly cut for me and I was able to stick to it. I'm not too hard on myself. You can do it too!

    • @IberogastM
      @IberogastM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@digitaldrea You can buy very cheap portable stove tops either at a shop or at a fleemarket. There you can also buy a cheap pan or pot. But more important is a fridge. That way you can precook for a few days or mealprep. If you can't afford a fridge though, cook with the stuff you bought at the supermarket right away.
      Otherwise idk man, look up your microvave model and see what you can cook with it. Good luck! 🍀

  • @meredithkling7760
    @meredithkling7760 3 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    I love how she didn’t just do the transformation but she gave tips and made sure we knew that it isn’t important to be “that” girl but that it’s more important to reach our personal goals. Thanks fernanda!! Love you and your channel. You’re so motivational and entertaining!!

  • @elainekim2704
    @elainekim2704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    honestly for the “that girl” trend has motivated me so much and i can see a difference in my mood and my health. just make realistic standards for yourself. i loved this video great way to organize the ways of becoming a better person and taking care of yourself

    • @meditationcenterforhealing2122
      @meditationcenterforhealing2122 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/users/shortsHZssXZGaX3o?feature=share

    • @ers8828
      @ers8828 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello everyone, I hope you all are doing great!
      I have worked as a personal trainer since 2019 and now I have started my youtube channel as I want to help more and more people achieving their goals.
      I do mostly home workouts and all the exercises that I post are proven and their results are very pleasing.
      I would appreciate a lot your support by subscribing and maybe you will find something that may help you as well.....

    • @Judy_moody1
      @Judy_moody1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

  • @softberry8952
    @softberry8952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    Honestly, I’ve always dreamed of being that girl. Fernanda has shown me how to actually accomplish it!

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel,postinf content like this soon contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

    • @softberry8952
      @softberry8952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lolastevens4067 subscribed :)

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@softberry8952 ty

    • @urfavoritealice
      @urfavoritealice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that girl is literally you but just healthier thriving etc that girl isn't someone else it's within you

    • @packnetadaija
      @packnetadaija 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same!

  • @rebeccavinci8175
    @rebeccavinci8175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Keeping your room tidy can be difficult. Trust me, i know. Here's my weekly schedule to keep it always clean!
    Monday: tidy up, pick up trash, empty and clean trash cans
    Tuesday: dust
    Wednesday: clean windows and mirrors
    Thurday: change bed sheets (trust me it's so important)
    Friday: bonus! Clean a drawer or your shoes, makeup brushes, anything you want. Or just rest
    Saturday: sweep
    Sunday: mop
    Also I do my bed every morning using a lint roller on the matress and the pillows (you'll be surprised by how much stuff lives in your bed)
    and I open the windows to let fresh air come in.
    Hope it was helpful 😘

  • @sofiaortizgarcia3578
    @sofiaortizgarcia3578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yesss, finally a person that doesn’t think this is a toxic trend. For me “that girl” is being the best version of u.

  • @Kaleigh.Morgan
    @Kaleigh.Morgan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    Can we just appreciate how good her editing is like - I could never 😌🤚🏾

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel, contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

    • @Kaleigh.Morgan
      @Kaleigh.Morgan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lolastevens4067 sorry I don’t really take interest in your content so I won’t be subscribe but keep going 🙂

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Kaleigh.Morgan im going to content like her, i havent posted yet in i week i am

    • @Kaleigh.Morgan
      @Kaleigh.Morgan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lolastevens4067 I’m sorry I won’t be subbing I really don’t know what your videos look like and I don’t want to be subscribe to someone who videos I won’t watch

    • @thedarknessherself3454
      @thedarknessherself3454 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fr tho 😌

  • @nex_9646
    @nex_9646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    Her: "step 2 metal health"
    Me: "welp. guess my chances are shot"

    • @horrorhahn
      @horrorhahn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hey I convinced my parents I need therapy and they really care. Your situation may be different but I can say you that being open about it in front of my parents is easier than I expected it to be. I wish you all the best

    • @emmaf.5853
      @emmaf.5853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@horrorhahn im so proud of you

  • @liz_484
    @liz_484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I love her vids/content and her personality overall, I clicked on this so fast

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel,postinf content like this soon contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

  • @tara.abboud
    @tara.abboud 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    time stamps!!
    step 1- sleep schedule 2:49
    step 2- mental health 3:16
    step 3- fitness 4:48
    step 4- nutrition & cooking 5:36
    step 5- self care/pamper routine 8:01
    step 6- keeping a clean environnement 9:19
    step 7- take care of your soul & mind 10:30
    step 8- prioritize your social life 13:52

  • @rosyria7518
    @rosyria7518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    I feel like 'that girl' is just a girl living at her best and has her life together. How can that be toxic?

    • @chaiboix
      @chaiboix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      because the media shows you have to do *THIS* to be *THAT GIRL*

    • @annajamal781
      @annajamal781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yhh

    • @abrarsunset
      @abrarsunset 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just post my Becoming that girl if you want go cheek it.
      th-cam.com/video/BnL--l1BinE/w-d-xo.html

    • @devilinbluejeansxx8925
      @devilinbluejeansxx8925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      because it‘s not achievable for people with full time jobs/children/illness etc.
      f.e. I can’t wake up at 5am every day to be productive, as I come home from work at 11pm. so the whole „wake up early to be productive“ thing is just not possible for me personally.

    • @kimduh6144
      @kimduh6144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@devilinbluejeansxx8925 so because YOU cant do it it’s automatically toxic

  • @anna-zk5pv
    @anna-zk5pv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    fernanda makes me feel so comfortable in my own body. i used to be insecure abt myself and ever since ive watched fernanda, i feel so comfortable with who i am, what i have, and everything abt me. i just want to thank u for for comforting me and never quit yt bc ur soooooo good at this and ur so pretty

  • @ladyreveriee
    @ladyreveriee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    *The first step on glowing up is to love and accept yourself.*

    • @xrovie0001
      @xrovie0001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw ty! I needed thisss

  • @NoorAli-zw2ig
    @NoorAli-zw2ig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She literally cleared up everything about that girl and her vibe really makes me feel good 🥰

  • @somyasharma11
    @somyasharma11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Fernanda is literally so nice and i love how she keeps everything so real.

  • @sehersings2543
    @sehersings2543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    THAT GIRL showing us how to be THAT GIRL YES PLEASEEE
    Also,
    You don’t have to be ‘ that girl ‘ it’s just being a better version of yourself. I know you might feel pressure to be like everyone else, but remember that being ‘ that girl ‘ doesn’t mean you have to be like someone else, just living a lifestyle that is better for you

    • @sam_sa09
      @sam_sa09 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly ! No two ppl are the same. There are a lot of routine and each one of us is her own 'that girl' through a routine that she found perfect for herself. Ofc we don't all have to have the same routine, or wake up at 5 and sleep at 9. Whatever works for you, do it, as long as it brings you closer to your goals ❤️

    • @abrarsunset
      @abrarsunset 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just post my Becoming that girl if you want go cheek it.
      th-cam.com/video/BnL--l1BinE/w-d-xo.html

    • @meditationcenterforhealing2122
      @meditationcenterforhealing2122 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/users/shortsHZssXZGaX3o?feature=share

    • @ers8828
      @ers8828 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello everyone, I hope you all are doing great!
      I have worked as a personal trainer since 2019 and now I have started my youtube channel as I want to help more and more people achieving their goals.
      I do mostly home workouts and all the exercises that I post are proven and their results are very pleasing.
      I would appreciate a lot your support by subscribing and maybe you will find something that may help you as well.....

  • @Kaleigh.Morgan
    @Kaleigh.Morgan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Can we just appreciate how good her stylee is like - 😌🤚🏾

  • @lexiravina7686
    @lexiravina7686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    1. Consistent Sleep
    2. Mental Health
    3. Fitness
    4. Nutrition and Cooking
    5. Self Care/ Pamper Routine
    6. Keeping a Clean Environment
    7. Take Care of your Soul and Mind
    8. Prioritize your Social Life

  • @lunanajahi7761
    @lunanajahi7761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Fernanda is literally my inspiration she is so aesthetic like she s the bsf we all need and want no wonder she grew so fast

  • @eunomia9075
    @eunomia9075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I love how Fernanda make sure we don't get insecure 'bout anything she does productive (or trendy things in general)
    she's literally THAT GIRL

  • @gardenialiu
    @gardenialiu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    ahh i can’t be the only one obsessed w her!!

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel,postinf content like this soon contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

  • @sehersings2543
    @sehersings2543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    FERNANDA UR LITERALLY THE BEST SHE’S A QUEEN SHE SETS SUCH NICE GOALS AND DOESN’T EXPECT US TO BE LIKE HER I LOVE HER SHE MAKES ME FEEL SO CONFIDENT AHHH ILY FERNANDA IF YOU SEE THIS

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel,postinf content like this soon contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

    • @sehersings2543
      @sehersings2543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lolastevens4067 ofc! I will def. check it out!

    • @sehersings2543
      @sehersings2543 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lolastevens4067 wow! I loved the videos!

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sehersings2543 ahhhhh ttyyyyyy sm ❣️btw the content i have right now id bad and wont post like that, im gonna post really good content like this gir;

    • @sehersings2543
      @sehersings2543 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lolastevens4067 yeah! I think you’re editing was great! I have a TH-cam channel myself (lol ) it’s not that good hahaha

  • @islamagic6539
    @islamagic6539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been looking at the comments and seeing lots of people with O.C.D because I have really bad O.C.D and I feel like I'm not lonely when people talk about it and videos like this inspire me so much! :D

  • @Leah-ip7hj
    @Leah-ip7hj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm literally obsessed w your channel

  • @akilahjosephxo
    @akilahjosephxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Fernanda is like the definition of “that girl “ in her own way

  • @HeyitsAnnabellee
    @HeyitsAnnabellee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Okay but her editing gets better every video 😩💗

  • @wihkn
    @wihkn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    fernanda is THAT GIRL naturally 😭

  • @beatrixhalfvarson3936
    @beatrixhalfvarson3936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how respectful she is about the whole “that girl” idea.

  • @alysharenata1376
    @alysharenata1376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love how she's so humble, she literally giving the positive vibes

  • @HeyitsAnnabellee
    @HeyitsAnnabellee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I literally aspire to have fernanda’s lifestyle 🤩

  • @vujadinovicn7924
    @vujadinovicn7924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    fernenda is such an aesthetic person i love her sm

  • @auroravial3856
    @auroravial3856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    U decide what is ur "that girl" and u try to become her. For me its having a better lifestyle, eating healthy, exersicing, studing, doing skincare, look pretty and doing what i like!! Its basically being the best vercion of urself

  • @sam_sa09
    @sam_sa09 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    That girl trend is by far one of the best trends I've seen, why? Because I've seen tons of girls encouraging and motivating each other through TikTok, Instagram, TH-cam etc. Being 'that girl' is all about being the kind of girl you always wanted to be, and I'm sure that we all would love to be the best versions of ourselves, when you can nourish, love, and build yourself from scratch then why not do it? What could feel better than accomplishing your goals? I for one had a horrible time in my first uni year this past year because I couldn't love or care for myself, and it affected every aspect of my life whether it be sleeping, eating, studying, etc. I had goals and I didn't achieve them , and nothing felt worse to me than that, I had a year and I didn't move one single inch from where I stood before that year. And while yes, many of these tiktoks have a kind of wrong way of going about this: aesthetic drinks and food, having an ipad, tons and tons of stationary and even a room to yourself, which are all stuff that isn't accessible to all of us, but make that your motivation!! Make it your goal to obtain the things you want but don't look at these products as a tool for success.

  • @kalinka2869
    @kalinka2869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I clicked on this girl’s Chanel months ago because she seemed like “that girl” and it’s hela motivating so it’s not toxic it’s keeping me going❤️❤️

  • @beyza2536
    @beyza2536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Girl, you never have to worry about your videos making anyone feel bad about themselves. You have such a positive and non-toxic look on these healthy and productive habits. Also, loving how you edit your videos. Such a fun and uplifting channel!

  • @kleinerkobold1917
    @kleinerkobold1917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I literally just accidentally let my phone fall into the toilet and have to put it in rice for the next 72 hours. So I was looking for productive things I can do and use the opportunity of not being distracted by my phone. Girl I needed this video, thank you and pray for my phone haha

    • @leaitani864
      @leaitani864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg😅I hope your phone is till okay

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel,postinf content like this soon contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

    • @kleinerkobold1917
      @kleinerkobold1917 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@leaitani864 thank you haha

    • @tara_madigan
      @tara_madigan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Laughing at this story but also feeling bad for you, hope your phone is okay x

    • @kleinerkobold1917
      @kleinerkobold1917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tara_madigan hahah thank you yes my phone is okay it was laying in rice for two days haha

  • @mrduckie2104
    @mrduckie2104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girll your room in the morning is such a vibeee

  • @annacohen-farrugia1786
    @annacohen-farrugia1786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ily, as someone with ADHD, I can’t watch a lot of videos without speeding up because they speak too slowly and don’t get to the point. This was descriptive but still straight to the point and engaging. Amazing! Thank you!

  • @cheerscassidy1055
    @cheerscassidy1055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this video is RIGHT ON TIME. i just finished my school year, and have been looking for a way to unlock the best version of myself. fernanda has been a HUGE HELP. she’s so motivational :)

  • @MirelleKristine
    @MirelleKristine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    loved the little disclaimer at the beginning! u are definitely a huge inspo for me and my channel :)

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel,postinf content like this soon contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

  • @maryyymacleod
    @maryyymacleod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Let’s be honest I’m laying here thinking I’ll get of my bed and be it. LMAO

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel,postinf content like this soon contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

    • @roselinastar5225
      @roselinastar5225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do it, girl😗 Just do it😉😄

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@roselinastar5225 hi I’m going to be posting soon like this content could you subscribe? It would mean so much 💗

    • @brianakremin9898
      @brianakremin9898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s the best self care gurl. You’re already a step closer. 🥰

    • @maryyymacleod
      @maryyymacleod 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brianakremin9898 ahahah ur too sweeettttt lyy

  • @justmaja1179
    @justmaja1179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This inspired me so much, I'm young and worry about my health and how I act all the time not realising that I'm still a kid. Seeing you being like this makes me have hopes for the future.

  • @MoonlightLover77
    @MoonlightLover77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just came back to rewatch this video and realized she hit 1M on it ! I’m so happy for her😭😭😭❤️

  • @heidirose09
    @heidirose09 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the way that you share your views on 'that girl' unproblematically and also try and help everyone be the best version of themselves or 'that girl' :]

  • @francescadarby3462
    @francescadarby3462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a really great, positive, non judgmental video. I really appreciate the way you say that achieving "that" girl status is more about being the best person you can be and ultimately learning that self-care is the top priority. Also, I love your style, your hair, your room and you are very charismatic and how you speak you sound very educated.

  • @valentinal.d.1882
    @valentinal.d.1882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    2:50: sleep schedule
    4:49: fitness
    5:36: nutrition and cooking
    8:01: self care/pamper routine
    9:19: keeping a clean environment
    10:31: take care of your soul and mind
    13:52: prioritize your social life

  • @shaiajade698
    @shaiajade698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    fernanda’s videos are so aesthetic omggg

  • @Fae_Winter
    @Fae_Winter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’d say the best thing I’ve done for myself to be “that girl” is developing habits where whenever I use something in my place, I make sure I put it back. It’s been a huge help with keeping everything tidy, organized, and clean. ✨

  • @TISETSOTJIE
    @TISETSOTJIE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love this...she’s kinda showing us a way to become that girl since she’s already that girl ❤️🥰

  • @DanixLex
    @DanixLex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Fernanda really is the gift that keeps on giving and this video is absolutely perfect

  • @sav3923
    @sav3923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yessss I’ve been waiting for this!!! I have been working really hard to become productive over the summer and I have been doing so much better by doing activities like lots of skincare, going to the gym, reading, etc. thanks so much for the help Fernanda! 💛

  • @LBaileyxox
    @LBaileyxox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love that you take pictures & put it in the video 🤍

  • @thatkidduaa
    @thatkidduaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    it's not toxic, it seriously brings abundant serenity to self once you try to create the level 10 life you truly want!!!!!!

  • @georgiaw1312
    @georgiaw1312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for emphasising the idea of being the best version of YOU and not someone on social media. That's such an important message, so thank you! PLUS, you're so sweet! You just gained a new subscriber! :)

  • @sarayu1336
    @sarayu1336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    girl u did this so well and explained it in a positive way. i just wanna thank you

  • @caitlinadalton
    @caitlinadalton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really appreciate this because it’s so inclusive in addition shows you already have a healthy mindset. Love how relatable this was

  • @sofiacoppola444
    @sofiacoppola444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    can we just appreciate how kind, sweet, and motivating Fernanda is? she literally takes time out of HER day to help, motivate, and entertain us! i love her so much and she always motivates me to workout, take care of my self instead of just sitting in my bed for the whole day! she always makes me happy, when i’m sad or mad, or any negative emotion i always watch her videos cause they make me smile, and make me motivated to get up and stop assuming everyone on youtube, tiktok, instagram, etc have a “perfect life” and if they really do have a great life, they work for it, they don’t just sit their and out of no where become “that” girl! if Fernanda sees this i will freak out (not asking her to HAVE to notice me or whatever i just am a really big fan and i’ve been binging all her videos)

  • @user-dl5ip1xr7p
    @user-dl5ip1xr7p 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've done this trend for the past 1 month consistently and it works. I find it really helps me and I'm more of a ''well rounded'' person. I incorporated all good things.

  • @anabananza
    @anabananza 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just got finished having a mental breakdown, and while that was, I realized I should try and be ty best version of me, and i immediately ran to ur acc bc I knew you had awesome advice and tips. I love your videos and you 💗

  • @sinchanap9456
    @sinchanap9456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love how she explained what that girl means

  • @arkinipde5586
    @arkinipde5586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This trend is so much healthier and make people feel better about themselves . Be productive is the key for that girl 🥺🌈

  • @lavenderplays6851
    @lavenderplays6851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This girl, she is so thoughtful I love all her vids she is inspiring

  • @nazlcanozen56
    @nazlcanozen56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gurl that skin is glowing

  • @Poppy-kx2wb
    @Poppy-kx2wb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I tried being the best version of myself also known as "that girl" for a month and it has changed my life. If you're trying to achieve this goal, make sure to always give yourself lazy days once in a while so you don't drain yourself.

  • @gardenialiu
    @gardenialiu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    she’s gorgeousss

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel,postinf content like this soon contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

    • @user-xl3uf7ie8y
      @user-xl3uf7ie8y 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg your pretty🥺

  • @zoekaras415
    @zoekaras415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    pov. this isn't ur first time watching this vid

    • @k-poppersofficial1413
      @k-poppersofficial1413 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      it's my 16th!

    • @kennabutaesthetic
      @kennabutaesthetic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      lol

    • @Isabel-on7qq
      @Isabel-on7qq 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LITERALLY

    • @vlogsbymaggie
      @vlogsbymaggie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nahhh it ain’t a POV it’s real 😭😭🎀🫧💎😍🦋🏝️💋

  • @chaturayerneni3074
    @chaturayerneni3074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    she's everything plus ✨awesome editing skills ✨

  • @cloudiii_595
    @cloudiii_595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is inspiring me, before I was so unproductive that I didn’t even have enough time for my own yt, now I found out that doing these simple things can help me get all the time in the world, ur amazing :D

    • @cloudiii_595
      @cloudiii_595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I litteraly wake up at 5:20 now lol

  • @chaimabch3629
    @chaimabch3629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I appreciate your honesty

  • @zeldelacruz1710
    @zeldelacruz1710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I hope that one day, I finally get my life together and be that girl who is strong independent, healthy and most important of all, free and happy.

  • @hancro
    @hancro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m so late on this trend 🙄 all aboard the late train 🚂 thank you for making this! I absolutely loooooooove your editing, super inspiring !! I also really love your bedding ❣️

  • @celinemarika9092
    @celinemarika9092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your mom must be so proud of u.❤️

  • @oshean3775
    @oshean3775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    NOT SURE WHY BUT HER VOICE IS REALLY SATISFYING

  • @Idk-rk6wc
    @Idk-rk6wc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Being “that girl” isn’t toxic it’s just you finding the better version of yourself

  • @skylaxoxo221
    @skylaxoxo221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I’m currently rlly trying to get my life together and start to romanticise my life a bit more x this is huge motivation for me thanks so much ❤️

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel,postinf content like this soon contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

  • @Catherinexo
    @Catherinexo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    i literally have been trying to get my life together

    • @iamnyarko
      @iamnyarko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      WE ARE ROOTING FOR YOU BEAUTIFUL ❤️🥺

    • @skylaxoxo221
      @skylaxoxo221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We r rooting for u ,, you go girl !!

    • @lolastevens4067
      @lolastevens4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hi, i have just started posting on my youtube channel,postinf content like this soon contact that she makes, could you subscibe? it would mean so much to me, btw i liked your comment 💌

    • @hi-kt8jj
      @hi-kt8jj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same girl, we got this :D

    • @Catherinexo
      @Catherinexo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hi-kt8jj We dooo

  • @kadencepena4146
    @kadencepena4146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't know who it's toxic to but what I can say is that having this image in my head of the best version of myself actually motivates me because I suffer with depression and thinking about the best version of myself actually helps me get up out of bed so it could have a positive and negative affect

  • @ΆνναΜοσχοπούλου-ζ7ρ
    @ΆνναΜοσχοπούλου-ζ7ρ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely loved that video it is the best one i have seen from that kind of "that girl" vids, it motivated me and you literally explain everything PERFECT like i feel you are in my mind or something

  • @justhannah6257
    @justhannah6257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You‘re seriously motivating, I literally started mapping out the person I want to aim to become

  • @skymary8962
    @skymary8962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    fernanda has been 'that girl' for so long!

  • @akilahjosephxo
    @akilahjosephxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    NOO BECUSE YOU EXPLAINED THE DEFINITION SO WELL !!

  • @alexandrablazevska-coe6477
    @alexandrablazevska-coe6477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl can I just say you are so naturally beautiful !!😭😭Thanks for this video

  • @eva.burr_
    @eva.burr_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I absolutely LOVE Fernanda. She is so positive and productive, but also realizes that not everyone is. I love how motivated she is and I wish I could be that motivated.

  • @rachelgrogan9437
    @rachelgrogan9437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    wait i literally just realized that this was posted an hour ago FERNANDA I LOVE YOU!!! 💖

    • @rachelgrogan9437
      @rachelgrogan9437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@fernandaraamirez no ilysm!! i'm actually crying i can't believe you replied you're like my literal inspiration to be myself and this video is gonna help me sm!!

  • @jagyaaseni
    @jagyaaseni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I saw your birthday vlogs and my impression was "oh she has a perfect life." And because we don't get to see you talk in those vlogs I just assumed that you were one of those rich and snobby girls. But in this video I actually heard you talk and I'm so sorry for what I thought earlier. You're such an amaaaazing person, so considerate!
    Subscribed 💗