I dont think winter was wrong at all in the argument with her boo, if you don’t wanna be called babygirl then you shouldnt be gossiping as a man in the first place🤣 i think winter shouldve said “thats not very ladylike of you” 💀
Your convo at 10:00 about raising kids and realizing you have to make sure they’re morally sound, healthy, up on game, etc…. YES. That’s the hardest part. Especially making sure they’re social and won’t get bullied and everything. But you know why having kids REALLY sucks? MEN DONT HAVE THESE THOUGHTS. Allllll of this stress is on the mom. All of it. Dad thinks he just has to provide money and change a diaper every once in a while. All of this as well as cooking, cleaning, medical appts, milestones, friends, holidays, birthdays, etc. it all sounds so fun and romantic, until you’re really in the thick of things and realize that your partner doesn’t give a damn that you’re drowning and struggling. They say “just tell me what to do.” NO! I don’t have all the answers!! I’m trying to figure it out too!! HELP ME!! But men these days don’t see any of these burdens as their responsibility. And that’s why soooooo many families don’t stay together. The resentment that builds when you’re a mom struggling with postpartum, plus all of the things listed above, and NOT having a helpful partner is guaranteed. Like it really sucks. No one warns you about it, but this is the exact thing that is breaking up so many marriages and families.
Girl yes!! I am pregnant now.. I just turned 33 years old, four days ago on DEC 23rd... and I am 33 weeks and 5 days preggo (Due Feb 10th).. But girl I am so happy I didn't get pregnant in my 20s because I was a complete wreck basically my whole 20s ! lol.. Now, I am way more mentally and emotionally capable of raising a child!
Girl I'm 28, with an 8 yr old and i truly wouldn't change a thing, he was the best thing to ever happen to me because Lord knows I would've been on drugs, drugged, or in prison. I had my share of acting "grown" when I was younger and having him saved me. And he's like my little best friend and still having a younger mindset it's fun to play with him and teach him things I wish I would've been taught. ❤
Thank yall so much for uploading a video this week! A lot of podcasts are taking breaks so im so excited for this video 💕😊 i love you winter!! I love you chy!! 😘😘😘😘
I swear, I think just like Winter when it comes to kids-it makes me anxious as hell, lol. Especially when I’m feeling awful, I’m like, Wait, so if I were a mom right now, you’re telling me I’d have to take care of a whole human in this condition? Nope, couldn’t be me!
I think winter is ready to settle down and be a mom and wife ..it’s crazy but it’s fun don’t over think it just over think the person your having kids with 😂❤
I’m 34 with a 3 year old and your right being a mom is hella hard I wasn’t prepared but it’s the most gratifying thing when you teach your kid something or they say they love you and give you a hug. When it’s your own kid it’s a loot different than seeing other people parenting their kids. I still have my days it’s not easy at all. Also if I could go back I would have talked with my husband about how we planned to discipline and teach/raise our daughter because that is an issue now we gotta keep working on, can be a lot of drama
Winter on having babies “I might be the one to abandon my baby” and Chy on men calling women b*tches: “you might slap me iono” 😂😂😂😂😂 I am cryingggg. I love ya 💓💓
I love gifting!!!! the smallest gifts mean a lot too. I got my neighbor/bestie's (we became besties from moving next to each other) son a gift card to wingstop and he jumped into my arms. he's always begging us for wingstop when we are trying to turn up on a Tuesday😆 that's my boo and I love him. Holidays are for lovers. loving ppl
100% agree with Winter about the Leeana stuff. That’s girl is in school to get her masters. I happened to watch their TH-cam and she’s super sweet and loving. The judgment on these girls is awful!
Its not hard guys. It’ll come about out of love. Your love for that child or man will be so strong that it’ll bring it out of you. So tender so soft. Is the only way i can explain it. @10:31
Girl we were all in the same boat as far as kids goes, until I found out I was pregnant in june this year, at 32 years old, and I've never been pregnant before... No I was so not ready, I wanted to wait at least another year before trying. But here I am, 33 weeks pregnant, due Feb 10th.. And I'm like damn it doesn't matter if I'm ready or not, this baby is coming!! lol
If your SO doesn’t get you a gift for Christmasssssssss that’s definitely a 🚩 bc it doesn’t have to be anything expensive or outrageous.. a hand written card and a small gift will not make or break someone tf
I say the same thing at 30. Both the selfishness of giving up my time & being uncertain I could raise them to the best of my ability. But the fact that we are even concerned about that lets me know it’s one of those things that when it happens we’ll adapt. God will lead the way if it’s meant to happen.
How ironic my NOW ex didn’t get me nothing for my bday ORRRRRRRRRRRRR CHRISTMAS ! Broke up with his ass ON CHRISTMAS. My bday was the 21st and still didn’t get me shit for Christmas????? Oh, CUT TF OFF! I got a story to tell lol absolutely insane
YOU WERE NOT PROJECTING 🤣🤣🤣!!!! TF!!!! this was something that was personal that you go thru that women go thru and he doesn't understand. How tf would he understand you?? yay are so crazy tail😆
I always say not to have kids just for the baby phase! It only lasts for a moment, so have kids knowing that it's a lifelong commitment and that you’re raising a person, lol. Being a “Good” parent is not for the weak; it requires constant resilience and hard work.
Honestly I can relate about the kid thing, that’s why I love listening to yall I can relate so much… especially the god son part … LIKE GIRL I ain’t even a good god mother what makes me think… 😂😭
Happy Holidays girlies! Loved this episode and I would’ve def watched on Christmas Day lol. Also Shoutout to Winter for speaking up even if it caused an argument. I hope he apologized for the sexist comments because truthfully how men talk about women exposes a lot about them…misogyny isn’t cute
I love love love Aquarius who birthdays are close to mine ! 😭 Jan 29 chyyyy I always tell my boyf you’re my Aquarius twin we act so alike lmaooo love you
Yall thanksgiving is always on the 4th Thursday! 😭😭😭😭
Lmfao
I thought I was the only one who caught that lol
I dont think winter was wrong at all in the argument with her boo, if you don’t wanna be called babygirl then you shouldnt be gossiping as a man in the first place🤣 i think winter shouldve said “thats not very ladylike of you” 💀
I swear every episode somehow chy always bringing up Beyoncé 😂😂😂
& let’s not forget her defending pedo Jayz for 2 whole episodes. She said a 13 year old minor was pushing it.
Girl if you released Christmas morning , I would’ve watched it while opening 😂 enjoy ur holidays tho!
Girl you and I both !!❤😂😂😂
I actually did keep checking to see if y’all posted on Christmas. I even re watched last weeks episodes to make up for it.
No fr me too 😂
Hahaha same
LMFAOOO SAME
Fr not she called us out 😭😭😭
Your convo at 10:00 about raising kids and realizing you have to make sure they’re morally sound, healthy, up on game, etc…. YES. That’s the hardest part. Especially making sure they’re social and won’t get bullied and everything. But you know why having kids REALLY sucks? MEN DONT HAVE THESE THOUGHTS. Allllll of this stress is on the mom. All of it. Dad thinks he just has to provide money and change a diaper every once in a while. All of this as well as cooking, cleaning, medical appts, milestones, friends, holidays, birthdays, etc.
it all sounds so fun and romantic, until you’re really in the thick of things and realize that your partner doesn’t give a damn that you’re drowning and struggling. They say “just tell me what to do.” NO! I don’t have all the answers!! I’m trying to figure it out too!! HELP ME!! But men these days don’t see any of these burdens as their responsibility. And that’s why soooooo many families don’t stay together. The resentment that builds when you’re a mom struggling with postpartum, plus all of the things listed above, and NOT having a helpful partner is guaranteed. Like it really sucks. No one warns you about it, but this is the exact thing that is breaking up so many marriages and families.
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I’m grateful to have been raised by a dad that did worry about these things.
@@baddieandabook I love that for you. That’s why I know there’s still hope out there for us to find good men
Whewwww you said THAT FOR ALL OF US! It's so true!
Wow you took the words out my mouth
Winter, you will be a good mother and it’s obvious. I didn’t have my first until I was 31. Some of us just have to wait until we are a little older
Girl yes!! I am pregnant now.. I just turned 33 years old, four days ago on DEC 23rd... and I am 33 weeks and 5 days preggo (Due Feb 10th).. But girl I am so happy I didn't get pregnant in my 20s because I was a complete wreck basically my whole 20s ! lol.. Now, I am way more mentally and emotionally capable of raising a child!
Is the background bugging out or is it only me?
It's bugginnn
I hateeee it the pink one is way better
Bugging ! I thought I was trippin girl
Perhaps it’s the lights in studio
Your irritating I didn’t notice until you said something 🖕😭😭
As a Capricorn l felt that winter -fighting the urge to just never see/speak to someone again and being done lol
Girl I'm 28, with an 8 yr old and i truly wouldn't change a thing, he was the best thing to ever happen to me because Lord knows I would've been on drugs, drugged, or in prison. I had my share of acting "grown" when I was younger and having him saved me. And he's like my little best friend and still having a younger mindset it's fun to play with him and teach him things I wish I would've been taught. ❤
Don’t ever do that burping thing again
Not chy singing, please by Sabrina Carpenter and thinking it’s espresso lol 🤣 love y’all❤
Thanksgiving is on a Thursday lol
Thank yall so much for uploading a video this week! A lot of podcasts are taking breaks so im so excited for this video 💕😊 i love you winter!! I love you chy!! 😘😘😘😘
🤍🤍🤍
the way i will stop what im doing to watch yall
Matt Damon Chy not Leonardo DiCaprio LMAOO, these actors gon do you everytime 😭
I’m crying lmfao yea him 💀💀
I swear, I think just like Winter when it comes to kids-it makes me anxious as hell, lol. Especially when I’m feeling awful, I’m like, Wait, so if I were a mom right now, you’re telling me I’d have to take care of a whole human in this condition? Nope, couldn’t be me!
“Espresso; please, please, please” “oh yeah” lmaooo y’all funny
I think winter is ready to settle down and be a mom and wife ..it’s crazy but it’s fun don’t over think it just over think the person your having kids with 😂❤
I’m 34 with a 3 year old and your right being a mom is hella hard I wasn’t prepared but it’s the most gratifying thing when you teach your kid something or they say they love you and give you a hug. When it’s your own kid it’s a loot different than seeing other people parenting their kids. I still have my days it’s not easy at all. Also if I could go back I would have talked with my husband about how we planned to discipline and teach/raise our daughter because that is an issue now we gotta keep working on, can be a lot of drama
Ugh I love chy hair more and more. It gives face card😍
Lol us Canadians be having thanksgiving in October and then waiting for Americans to play catch up😭
Winter on having babies “I might be the one to abandon my baby” and Chy on men calling women b*tches: “you might slap me iono” 😂😂😂😂😂 I am cryingggg. I love ya 💓💓
Love yall family amen amen amen 🙏
People now listen to music to critique and not actually just vibe and enjoy the art. I was sooo bored & this episode saved me 😩♥️
LMFAOOOOOOO the sprite game was funny af omfg it got me kicking my feet rolling around in my bed
I’ve been watch the podcast during my 3am newborn/breastfeeding session! Thanks for helping me stay awake.
Yall would both be great mothers 🥰
I love gifting!!!! the smallest gifts mean a lot too. I got my neighbor/bestie's (we became besties from moving next to each other) son a gift card to wingstop and he jumped into my arms. he's always begging us for wingstop when we are trying to turn up on a Tuesday😆 that's my boo and I love him. Holidays are for lovers. loving ppl
Ash Trevino is HORRIBLE! I saw clips of her defending Chris Watts! She was saying she wanted to write to him!!! HORRIBLE!!!!!
Us capricorns hate a add this one gift as both lol 44:13 😂
one thing ab winter .. she’s gna let it known she’s friends with celebrities 😂 like omg girl
Where do we send the advices ?
Girl, I be looking forward to it! Literally was checking all day on Christmas 😂
Me too! Pop the balloon or find love dropped an episode on Christmas. I watched it 😊
Bring back the light background I don’t like the black one! 🩵🩵🩵
100% agree with Winter about the Leeana stuff. That’s girl is in school to get her masters. I happened to watch their TH-cam and she’s super sweet and loving. The judgment on these girls is awful!
Its not hard guys. It’ll come about out of love. Your love for that child or man will be so strong that it’ll bring it out of you. So tender so soft. Is the only way i can explain it. @10:31
Girl we were all in the same boat as far as kids goes, until I found out I was pregnant in june this year, at 32 years old, and I've never been pregnant before... No I was so not ready, I wanted to wait at least another year before trying. But here I am, 33 weeks pregnant, due Feb 10th.. And I'm like damn it doesn't matter if I'm ready or not, this baby is coming!! lol
God bless you and your little one!!
New years is Also on a Wednesday! Thanks Giving was on a Thursday though.. Winter said it was on a Wednesday 😝
I feel the same!!! What is there to say about Beyoncé! she IS the blueprint!!!!
Like Chris brown, love him but his music starting to sound the same 😕
you just have to know ppl to give gifts
I expect the podcast on any holiday, I was refreshing! Don’t do this again to me. Lol.
I love yall ! I be wanting to chime in on the conversation as if I’m in the room😂 yall vibe is dope af!
The black flicking is distracting 🥲
You need to listen to RAYE. New artist of our generation. She is passionate about MUSIC not hits. She’s bringing music back
Winter is my twin man, when I read her book I was literally watching my own movie through her book
from the bottom of my heart motherhood isn't for everyone
When y’all busted out with the lion King jingle I about choked on my hot pocket LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If your SO doesn’t get you a gift for Christmasssssssss that’s definitely a 🚩 bc it doesn’t have to be anything expensive or outrageous.. a hand written card and a small gift will not make or break someone tf
sorry guys i hate the watch and read segment 😔💓
Delete this comment before winter sees it.
Thank you for saving me from boredom. 🤍
😂😂😂
forreal tho lmao it’s been hella dry here on youtube 😭😂
Literally was at work so bored 😂😂
No lies told!!
Yk!!!
i’m so happy somebody don’t give a damn about christmas just like me 😭
I HATE Christmas and I’m married with 3 kids! I be so depressed waiting for this stupid ass greedy holiday to pass!
Chy got me weak asf 😭 she got so serious but deadass we gotta stop allowing that sassy shit
At least you’re self aware about having children Winter! It takes a real woman to say I’m not ready to be a mother some parts aren’t easy
I say the same thing at 30. Both the selfishness of giving up my time & being uncertain I could raise them to the best of my ability. But the fact that we are even concerned about that lets me know it’s one of those things that when it happens we’ll adapt. God will lead the way if it’s meant to happen.
Thisss! 👏🏽
I couldn't get past Angelina Jolies terrible lip synching in her new movie. It was giving JLO lips in Selena
I woke up on Christmas and was hoping to see the podcast 😅. I was hoping to have something to watch whilst I was cooking in the kitchen 😂
Chy so she gave you Louis Vuitton and you gave her a Stanley 😂
My god daughter is the only one that gets gifts lmfao
This past week has been so boring! No good pods & the regular scheduled programs are on hyatis for 2 weeks. So, thank you for posting this week.
No she didn't want a necklace she's not that kind of child Lol you have to know ppl to give a gift
You have to wait until they turn into preteens/teenagers. Then they’ll appreciate it 😂
I’m glad to see you smiling winter ❤️ last time I saw a video from you was
about this injured nerve situation
Happy Holidays to both you and Chy!
How ironic my NOW ex didn’t get me nothing for my bday ORRRRRRRRRRRRR CHRISTMAS ! Broke up with his ass ON CHRISTMAS. My bday was the 21st and still didn’t get me shit for Christmas????? Oh, CUT TF OFF! I got a story to tell lol absolutely insane
Wait I’m loving a Friday upload 😍
I definitely do remember wintrr lives in 2020/2021 with black box of wine lmao she made me want to try it during COVID lol
If she say Thanksgiving on a Wednesday, that’s when it was 🤷🏾♂️
😂 get off my Baby!!! We all know what she was trying to say !!
YOU WERE NOT PROJECTING 🤣🤣🤣!!!! TF!!!! this was something that was personal that you go thru that women go thru and he doesn't understand. How tf would he understand you?? yay are so crazy tail😆
Omg the Leena in the young thug story is the same Leena from Tazs Angels 😮 that’s craaaazy
I’m sorry but Travis girl for sure embarrassed him at this point and I hate that the whole situation stole his shine.
I always say not to have kids just for the baby phase! It only lasts for a moment, so have kids knowing that it's a lifelong commitment and that you’re raising a person, lol. Being a “Good” parent is not for the weak; it requires constant resilience and hard work.
I was looking on Xmas too I was like these two may just pop out in the matching Xmas jammies with a pod for us 😂❤
Y'all should bring Tana Mongeau and Brooke Schofield on here. I think it would be a good conversation and a learning opportunity 🥰
No thank you!
Wintrrr I went on your page and wrote the nasty message looking for y’all but deleted it….next time I won’t 🌚😂 love y’all, happy holidays!
Thanks giving is always on a Thursday lmaooo 🥲🩷
You right Winter. I would have made the whole family watch you ladies 😂
It’s the “ Dom got money this year idk what’s going on “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
We do anticipate episodes every week!
Honestly I can relate about the kid thing, that’s why I love listening to yall I can relate so much… especially the god son part … LIKE GIRL I ain’t even a good god mother what makes me think… 😂😭
thank god y'all posted everyone wanna take a break this week lmao
Yeah I was definitely in my living on Christmas waiting for my weekly podcastsss 😂😂😂
I was definitely refreshing Wednesday to see if yall posted😂
Amen Chy, sassy men gotta go
I actually did open TH-cam to see if yall posted but I ain’t mad at cha
37:27 the face she made 🤣
Happy Holidays girlies! Loved this episode and I would’ve def watched on Christmas Day lol. Also Shoutout to Winter for speaking up even if it caused an argument. I hope he apologized for the sexist comments because truthfully how men talk about women exposes a lot about them…misogyny isn’t cute
Helleeuurr ladies I’ve been waitinggg 🤗
I was literally re watching all the behind the likes ….. hahah yayyyyy a new one 😅❤❤❤❤❤
I love love love Aquarius who birthdays are close to mine ! 😭 Jan 29 chyyyy I always tell my boyf you’re my Aquarius twin we act so alike lmaooo love you
Fellow Aquarius queen here! Feb 14🥹💕
Chy I literally watch the stuff yall recommend. lol.
@42:40 y’all know Winter good at getting, holding and returning a man gift 😂
Nah I was waiting for this vid mad af😂
Hey winter happy holidays 🥰🥰💗💗
🎶 THATS YOU QQQQQ🎶 I love winter Lmao
i feel the same way about this girl comment 100% 😭 cheating ass men suck when u love them 💔 gotta let em go
Happy Holidays ladies! My favorite pod girlies ❤❤. And chy you are not wrong about the django soundtrack 🔥🔥😭
Nahhh cuz I was waiting on Christmas for this episode 🤣
57:03 you like to clock it ! 😂
@9:34
Abandoning your child at grandmas is crazy Winter 😭😂 and I 100%.
My mother will do very well LMAO
Chy need do something with that hair 😭😂🫶🏻
Chy haircut is giving grown & sexy !!