Tones and I, with only 19 years old started to be one of the best singer of our generation! At 26 years old, She still offered something new with: 0% drugs 0% sex 0% insults 100% pure talent Thank you for existing 🙏
@@user-zk9dx9oh2d A friend said in an interview that he/she meet her in 2014 when she was 19 years old. so when you do the math she is 26 now and on the 14th of May she is getting 27 years old
Tones and I, with only 19 years old is one of the best singer of our generation! She offered something new with: 0% drugs 0% sex 0% insults 100% pure talent Thank you for existing 🙏
@@kambengmeoww4901 And? Mozart was 5 years old, Michael Jackson was with Jackson five, doesnt matter the age, you can have such a good talent and be considered as one of the best!
You don't need to be the golden child if they can't see good in you that's their problem the only approval you'll ever need is your own stay strong you got this You don't need their approval see the good in yourself abusive parents suck whether it's physical or emotional abuse
Don't try to be the golden child. Just try to not give up. The day will come when you are free and you gather your friends around you who love you and appreciate you.
Its really strange that people *who are blood* can never understand you but a *random stranger* can instantly connect with you and support you. This tells us that family is where your heart is understood. ✨💛
this hits different when your the child that "always starts arguments for no reason" "cry over nothing" "ruins every family day out" "can never be trusted" "never respects anyone just because. We dONt respEct Her/him" "a joke" y'all ever heard these before? well yh, me too. edit: hey, I see a lot of people have similar stories and feel that everyone in the family is against them, well your not alone. I know that isnt a good thing but know people out there are counting on you to be here I and many other people are SO proud that you are still getting through this, and im sorry we have to go through such treatment. at this point im just happy with myself if nobody else is, we love you and we're proud of you :)
I act like a joke and my parents roll their eyes. I get serious when ppl mess with my family tho. I snapped at a kid 'cause he said my little bro sounded like a sim.
The meaning of this video is so deep. The child conjured up an imaginary friend to cope with what he was going through but when she wasn't there he was alone and afraid and went through it on his own😟I love you tones❤
Girl....you truly are the deepest waters...you aren't singing words, you're touching the deepest parts of people's souls simply because you feel. ETERNAL RESPECT
I hate when adults brush away a child's problems by dismissing them and invalidating them in comparison to their own. This is especially heartbreaking when it's the child's own parents doing the dismissing. I just want to scream at them "How could you? Your child has feelings too! They're human too! They need you to be there for them! Even if it might seem like their problems are minuscule to you, from their prospective they are huge obstacles and your attitude is going to hurt your relationship with them in the long run."
@@Cometsarecool I do too sometimes. I also have trouble with celebrating my accomplishments because I don't know if they'd be "enough" to my parents...it's a mindset from childhood that has carried over.
@@Bean-kh9cu aww I'm sorry you feel like that 🥺 ~hugs~ It's a different case with me. I'm the eldest child yet they favor my younger twin sisters. I hope we get to a better place and be happier 🤗❤️
@@bonniebunny1632 I'm glad you're doing much better now and it's a brave thing to do to move out. I wish I had the courage to do that too. Please stay safe and take care ❤️
The boy's house is a hell to him because of his parents. They don't understand his feelings / spend time with him. All they do his hurt him. All his happiness is his imaginary friend. And finally he think his house is a hell. And when he leaves the house he thought will his parents understand him in future but all he saw is never. So he leave the home alone with his imaginary friend.
Me too. My father hates me. The part about being at my door. His favourite daughter had a psychosis he had a kidney removed and he ended up here. Once my sister was well again, I stopped existing again.
Omg am I the only one? When she says “And to every single person here that doubts me, telling me that they could live without me” That hits me so different😭😭😭
To my parents I was the problem while my sister was quiet and the good kid. I had anger issues, threw fits, depression, and always made me feel horrible for my mental state even when I tried my best to control my emotions. But it's hard when your parents tell it to your face that you're a problem and that you were crazy in the head and a problem for them. In my 30s it still hurts me how I was when I was a child and the things my parents said to my face bluntly but it feels wrong to say outloud I don't blame them yet wish they showed me more love instead of anger. This song makes me cry everytime
I feel this song on a personal level. I'm a twin. My sister was straight A student...so I was always the "bad one". SO many of us probably feel this way. But for a twin...people always ask "Whos the good one and whos the bad one?" I've heard it my whole life...because no matter how good you are, when your twin is a Straight A student...you're automatically "the bad one"
And they compare you with your twin and telling you "YoU shOuLD Be LikE hEr " without caring about how you feel or why you act like you do. Basically my life
Am a twin as well and ppl keep telling me to be like my twin sister...and it hurts...like they dont want me to be myself...and they keep asking which one is the bad and good one and it always anger me sometimes she even gets more attention
when i first listened to this song for the first time, i bursted out in tears because i felt like i was the only one having struggles with family and how once i do something good no one is happy for me or just ignores it.. this is the only song that is depressing yet heart lifting and gives me confidence. and i don’t have much of that. if i ever got to meet the singer.. man i was legit praise her and tell her how much she has helped me with this song! 🙏
This is the song that made me finaly realise that my parents were abusive. When ever I saw other people stories of their parents, I couldn't relate to them, but with this song It feels like it was made for me.
Shes got better songs than this one. Try "happy all the time" or "hey ya" (outkast cover). I know she ain't going to be a one hit wonder, shes just too good and has a unique voice.
This song is great! It perfectly depicts a toxic relationship between a parent and their child, though there is another part of this that I feel should be said: Not only is this type of relationship bad for the 'scape goat' kid, it is bad for the 'golden' kid as well. The 'golden' child (most of the time) in these sorts of families are spoiled and are treated like royalty by the parents, creating a bad example for the child. The child grows up thinking that they can get anything they want by throwing a tantrum, because thats how it worked for them growing up. They as well have a chance, depending on if the child grew up doing practically 0 chores, of having a lot of difficulty taking care of themselves when they grow up (not knowing how to cook, clean, do laundry, ect.). Thus, of when these 'golden' children get out into the world as young adults, they will have the biggest culture shock of their life that the world does not revolve around them and that nobody cares if they trow a fit or not, they will just get angry. In summary, this sort of "'scape goat', 'golden' child" mentality is bad for both children stuck with the parents, the only difference being the type of negative affect of it (depending on which kid you're talking about).
This video speaks to the complexities of childhood and family dynamics, the trauma of disconnect, and the fierce warrior that emerges from the ashes. This song is nothing short of an absolute fu*king masterpiece!! 🙌🎵💖
Thinking of all the bad child, The designated family 'scapegoat' kid in lockdown raised by a narcissist parent... like Gabri elfernandez refers to a family member who takes the blame for difficulties in the family. Scapegoating is a form of bullying. Scapegoats are repeatedly subjected to belittling, humiliation, abandonment, betrayal and outright hatred by family members, who make them the 'bad guy'.May 17, 2019 glynissherwood.com › 12-ste...
it is stressful every time your parents tell you how little you have been as good as you should be and then when "you are used to it" they tell you that you never listen and that these are only constructive criticisms but they do not know how much it hurts to be told that every day that you are not worth enough
this song hits different when you're the last child of the family, constantly being compared with your siblings, having your opinion being completely ignored because you're 'too young too understand', being blamed for every conflict that is happening in your family, everyone telling you what to do every single time and they get mad if you don't do it because they 'know the best', people can't understand my struggles because "oh, you're the last kid. you must be spoiled, and having the greatest life!" it's hard to live a day knowing that your family is better off without you.
Ik right I’m always being compared to my siblings and friends and when I do a little bad thing they just hit me and my brother always snitches on me the only sibling I get along with is my big sister and when my brother does something they just let it slide but for me they hit me
Abusive families will usually have at least one golden child and one scapegoat child. The scapegoat child is the one that denounces the abusive parent, and the golden child is the child that acts as a proxy abuser for the abusive parent. That is why having an abusive older sibling can be as damaging as having an abusive parent: the sibling is really just a proxy for the parent. A "bad child" is really just an example of a narcissist parent making sure that their children never present a united front against them
Me and my brother seem to both be the scapegoats in some way, he’s kinda the golden child in a way also, he’s older then me and will threaten to throw me down the stairs and has attempted it, my parents used to be extremely verbally abusive but not as much (but they still are)
Thats not entirely true. Thats how the relationship CAN turn out, but it doesn't have to. I know two young adults that are golden child (brother) and scapegoat (younger sister), but while the brother already mostly tried to protect his sister from their mother while they were younger he started to see through the dynamic as a teen and called his mother out on it. He even broke off ties to her for a couple of months. They are back in contact, but he won't take shit from her towards his sister while he's around. His sister on the other hand has a very ambivalent relationship with the mother. Sometimes she sees the abuse for what it is and sometimes she internalises it again. She never stopped craving for her mothers approval unfortunately.
And invisible child, Like the one that gets away, no contact. No looking back. I was a scapegoat, still am but my mom is this song my older sister and my older brother is if that’s OK.
I'm the oldest and I'm the scapegoat. Little sister was golden child and has now continued our mother's abuse cycle against me. The rest of the family kisses her butt and jumps when she snaps her fingers. I've been no contact since I ran away at 16. I'm 45 now.
I'm a 47-year-old Mexican man and I'm bumping this song as loud as I can on my semi truck driving down the road it just catchy there's something about it I can't stop listening to it.
Damn this kid plays well. You see that smile, is the smile of someone who suffers. Idk if he suffers irl, but damn under the small tent I felt that smile. The smile of someone who don't want to be a burden and no matter what this person do, it's someone who keep being tell off and rejected.
This song hits different when you're the child who desperately tries to be perfect but still gets criticized and picked apart. One mistake and you're lacking 😔 it's so exhausting
That's just what it is to be "the genius" of your family, you could have average intelligence but due to either the people who surround you or just your parents, the expectations for you are so much higher. I stopped caring which is why I'm no longer afraid to do new things, or petrified of failure. But these methods of parenting eventually led me to childhood depression and social anxiety. Hope you either are getting past or have gotten past these problems, they do really suck.
Shout out to rage and soad and Linkin Park and Korn and orgy and tones & I and britney and ,,, they put up w/ my music tastes & never say a damn word 🤗👊
Hits different When familiar with bad child role or term 'scapegoat' refers to a family member who takes the blame for difficulties in the family. Scapegoating is a form of bullying. Scapegoats are repeatedly subjected to belittling, humiliation, abandonment, betrayal and outright hatred by family members, who make them the 'bad guy'.May 17, 2019 glynissherwood.com › 12-ste...
Same, all 3 of my siblings are valedictorians in their own respective schools, on both high school and Elementary, while I'm just a regular student. Nothing special. I also hate the fact that I've always been compared to them😓
I cannot believe this song appeared in my Spotify today after something really difficult happened with family, that has forever changed our dynamic. This song is keeping me sane right now, yet breaking my heart.
This one hits the feels so hard. I'm glad the generation growing up now is going to have songs and people like this to know that they're never alone and that a Weird Mind is a beautiful thing that's not to be wasted.
My family always said I was the bad child Throwin' me away into the bad pile All my life been puttin' on a fake smile Sittin' on my own, feel like I'm exiled Feelin' like I always do the wrong things Tellin' all their friends that I'm the bad kid Now I'm on my own, I lost my magic Dealin' with your bullshit now I'm over it And you took a part of me Left me with the memories, oh We were never a family Now you're standin' in front of my door-or-or Like none of this happened at all-all-all I guess I'm always gonna be the bad child I guess I'm always gonna be the mad child 'Cause you will never understand my weird mind My weird mind And to every single person here that doubts me Tellin' me that they could live without me 'Cause they will never understand my weird mind My weird mind I've never really been the one to reach out Actin' like my life was squeaky clean now Like everythin' I do is just a letdown Feelin' like I always do the wrong things Tellin' all their friends that I'm the bad kid Now I'm on my own, I lost my magic Dealin' with your bullshit now I'm over it And you took a part of me Left me with the memories, oh We were never a family Now you're standin' in front of my door-or-or Like none of this happened at all-all-all I guess I'm always gonna be the bad child I guess I'm always gonna be the mad child 'Cause you will never understand my weird mind My weird mind And to every single person here that doubts me Tellin' me that they could live without me 'Cause they will never understand my weird mind My weird mind They say I've lost my mind They I'll never find it I think they're kind of right In fact, I kind of like it They say I've lost my mind They I'll never find it I think they're kind of right I guess I'm always gonna be the bad child I guess I'm always gonna be the mad child 'Cause you will never understand my weird mind My weird mind And to every single person here that doubts me Tellin' me that they could live without me 'Cause they will never understand my weird mind My weird mind My family always said I was the bad child
As a woman with ADHD in a ongoing custody battle to get my daughter back from my family’s iron fist... this song was made for me! It’s been going on repeat for 24 hours! Finally an artist who understands branding culture ❤️ Thank you
I have certain you will have your daughter back, afterall...just because you have ADHD doesnt mean that you're not able to take care of your own child, i'm sure you will reach this victory... (i'm Brazilian and i also have ADHD and dyslexia)
I only just heard this song recently, but I've never heard another song that do perfectly talks about my childhood. Literally with every single word I can picture different parts of my childhood, all the different things my family did, said (she could probably make a while music video for this song based off of just these memories). I have never understood why I was singled out by my parents, grandparents, sisters, aunts, uncles, and cousins. I'm 44 now, and still don't understand. I want her to know how much this song means to me. I don't understand how she wrote this so perfectly without having actually lived it, but I think that means even more to me, because never have I met someone who hasn't lived it yet understands so well. I wish I could hug her, but I would probably cry. I can't put in to words just what this song means to me, what it makes me feel, only that I feel heard and validated.
god, this literally made me cry when i first listened to it. Being the black sheep under a narcissistic parent hurts. especially since they will pick on the child who they cant understand. For me, being on the spectrum made me the target
Only child of a narcissistic mother. If you don't reflect all the things they want to be themselves, you're the scape goat. So the times where I reflected "good parenting" I was golden child, Every other time, I was scape goat. It's all abuse though. Being praised for being the vicarious lived through version is terrible too. I have since realizing in my early twenties just what my mother is, I went no contact after many instances of reaffirmation to how she had no actual empathy for anyone. I also later got diagnosed with ADHD and Autism. I hope you are doing okay. NPD and NPD parents are an issue that just doesn't get enough coverage and help. Let alone abusive and dismissive parents in general.
"Feeling like I always do the wrong things" hits hard for me, like i always get blamed for stupid crap and my dad gets mad at me alot. its not happening alot anymore but i went from being the youngest to being a middle child and ngl you get used to being spoiled? like it sounds bad but now i get ignored and all my problems are just because of pUbErTy while my little brother is crying because he cant play on the ps4 when he played for 5 hours already and someone else wants to play. honestly tho ive been vibing with this song everyday. thank you for making an amazing song Tones.
Lyrics 🙈 My family always said I was the bad child Throwin' me away into the bad pile All my life been puttin' on a fake smile Sittin' on my own, feel like I'm exiled Feelin' like I always do the wrong things Tellin' all their friends that I'm the bad kid Now I'm on my own, I lost my magic Dealin' with your bullshit now I'm over it And you took a part of me Left me with the memories, oh We were never a family Now you're standin' in front of my door-or-or Like none of this happened at all-all-all I guess I'm always gonna be the bad child I guess I'm always gonna be the mad child 'Cause you will never understand my weird mind My weird mind And to every single person here that doubts me Tellin' me that they could live without me 'Cause they will never understand my weird mind My weird mind I've never really been the one to reach out Actin' like my life was squeaky clean now Like everythin' I do is just a letdown Feelin' like I always do the wrong things Tellin' all their friends that I'm the bad kid Now I'm on my own, I lost my magic Dealin' with your bullshit now I'm over it And you took a part of me Left me with the memories, oh We were never a family Now you're standin' in front of my door-or-or Like none of this happened at all-all-all I guess I'm always gonna be the bad child I guess I'm always gonna be the mad child 'Cause you will never understand my weird mind My weird mind And to every single person here that doubts me Tellin' me that they could live without me 'Cause they will never understand my weird mind My weird mind They say I've lost my mind They I'll never find it I think they're kind of right In fact, I kind of like it They say I've lost my mind They I'll never find it I think they're kind of right I guess I'm always gonna be the bad child I guess I'm always gonna be the mad child 'Cause you will never understand my weird mind My weird mind And to every single person here that doubts me Tellin' me that they could live without me 'Cause they will never understand my weird mind My weird mind My family always said I was the bad child Thanks for so much likes, omg 🙏🏻❤️🙈
💯. I’m 41 I still go through them same feelings Tuff life Love u all Be kind to urself and others Love starts from within, starting the roller coaster one again Had to press the reset button 😢
Sylwuska i literary just watched the video for the first time and for some reason i wanted to cry when watching it and in the end of the video a tear fell off
This song perfectly describes my relationship with my family, and then with most others as well. Because when you grow up being told you're bad, weird, and that they could do without you, you carry that trauma on your shoulders out into the world. That attracts people (predators, really) looking for someone vulnerable. Which then makes more bad things happen to you. And common (effed up bs) "wisdom" is everyone can't be wrong. If you keep running into problems with people, well, maybe it's you. 🙄 Then rumors and judgment swirl and grow and next thing you know, everyone thinks you're "bad". You start to believe there is something deeply wrong with you. That you're nothing but a problem. That you maybe should, well...you know. 😔 Thankfully, I have numerous therapists, and I'm working very hard to fight that effed up mindset. But it's very, very difficult. One day at a time, I'll get there.
I've always been the bad kid even tho my brother had a lot of problems like: car accidents / drunk all the time / in a circle of vicious friends / smoking. I was the kid with good grades and continuing in college.. Not drinking smoking or do bad stuff. We both were respectful to our family but i was the one who shouts the loudest to my parents and he was calm. This is the thing that delimited us, so i'm the black sheep in this family. This is my fav song now.
@WinterGirl omg just hang in there, you are awesome i know it. My brother is the same, i just can t stay there and shut my mouth when i know i'm right. Have a nice day, and be powerful 💋
“Guess ima gonna always be the bad child” and “Cause they won’t understand my weird mind” Hits me hard my family wouldn’t understand me for being different from them
Eu me identifico muito com essa música, quando eu era criança passava por muitas humilhações e metade da família me achava uma criança problemática; esse vídeo me emocionou de uma forma que não sei explicar😢
Remember the lord left his 99 sheep to find his one sheep that was missing! I pray for everyone dealing with something unpleasant and feeling unwanted just know your loved.. you can get thru this!! #WIT
@@rebeccagarcia1457 The 99 are the sheep that don't leave, and because this is just metaphor, they're the sheep that remain until shepherd returns. Can also be compared to the prodigal son story, where one son ran away and gambled himself into poverty then returned home expecting/willing to be a servant and instead was greeted with a celebration/the finest of everything. His brother was the 99 that never left and already has what he needs.
SUCCESS IS THE BEST REVENGE-- BUT remember .... no matter how successful a person is, that doesn’t equal happiness. SO.....ULTIMATELY,,,STRIVE for happiness & u will be a success!!✌️
OMG just heard this song for the 1st time and it just hit me. This song is me and how I've felt my whole life. I'm the bad child, the black sheep. Never understood. This song made me cry. Thank you Tones and I for understanding me and making the kind of music that hits your soul.
This song really reminds me of my mom. As a child my mom was always the one working and doing all the chores while her sister didn't do anying and bullied my mom. My mom's parents were always on the side of her sister. I'm really glad that my mom raised me for who I am today and didn't treat me like she was treated Love for mom ❤ Edit: Thank you guys for all the nice comments. I love you ❤
@@juliocarrero6995 Parents who hit their children in any way show their child that they (the parent) have no control over their emotions and that the child should simply obey out of fear, not out of understanding and choice, until the day that they can take out their emotions on someone smaller than them. This is the major 2002 study by Gershoff that traced spanking and other physical punishments in children to greater childhood delinquencies and mental health issues: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3768154/#:~:text=In%20a%20series%20of%20meta,abused%20(Gershoff%2C%202002)
This describes my life completely. And im not trying to be one of those fake depressed kids; in fact, im not depressed at all. Its just that I try to be good but nothing works.
I wish this song explodes like "Dance Monkey" did so people can keep appreciating talent instead of the same type of songs over over again... Songs with messages and meanings >>>>>>>>>> Songs that are just catchy
I love this song so much! I love that there is a visual video I can relate so much to this song Anyways much love and Stay safe everyone who probably isn't reading this ❤
@@joni5243 no her old friend he ran away and she never saw him since, hopefully she gets to reunite with him since she is famous now he can find her easier. 😢
I've never felt a song more in my life. It's kind of nice to know I wasn't alone, it wasn't just me. EDIT: swear I'm going to write something everytime I listen to this. Thanking you from Geelong, VIC!!!
This song is deeper than the Mariana Trench (I hope I spelled that right). One like on this song is one bit of hope for the kids that are relatable to this song.
I am guessing this represents her family and her brother? If so this is really sad. Gives off some Harry Potter vibes. Edit: I listened to Jimmy again and I think this song is about a friend who's parents fought a lot or didnt like him so he ran away. Jimmy could have also been a brother and tones didnt want to say and acted like he was a friend in the Jimmy song. These are all possibilities. Pls comment what you think I really think tones is trying to tell us something!!! Edit: another theory is that Johnny from Johnny Runs Away is in love Jimmy and Jimmy may love him back. So both there parents may be angry about this so Johnny runs away and Jimmy either runs away or is sent away because tones mentioned that she never saw Jimmy again.
this is so relatable because i feel like the "odd one" in my family. i feel different and i feel like i'll never be accepted, or never interest them, even though i'm older now and 18 years old
Poonam Bisht I don’t care. The lyrics aren’t bad, it’s just very disgustingly sung. The voice physically hurts my ears. She sounds like Alvin and the chipmunks primate mutant that gargled cactus covered in sandpaper, and never learned how pronounce words like a normal person. And no. It’s not her accent. She does that on purpose and think it sounds cool.
You know an Artist is serious about his/her own creation if the same song gets a new, better, more quality video, just to give viewers an even more stunning experience of it.
You must be an angel to consider this song for your sister Because everytime I try to fight for my equality, both my sisters just bombard on me saying 'our lifes been difficult too' My younger sister go to the extent of saying 'Do you know how much I have suffered bcz of you' When all I wanted from my parents was equality, they would just won't let me get through with my part of words. I might not be a class topper like them but I am still a human!
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“And to every single person here that doubts me, telling me that they could live without me” hits hard
She proofed them wrong. Now they would like to get a piece of her cake. Lol
To be over ist- and a Superstar full of wisedom.
@Mr RED at least she doesn't use auto tune like a lot of popular singers
I love her
hits me too
Tones and I, with only 19 years old started to be one of the best singer of our generation! At 26 years old, She still offered something new with:
0% drugs
0% sex
0% insults
100% pure talent
Thank you for existing 🙏
She sings from her heart and wasn't created by a record company. I hope she never looses what she has.
She is actually 26 years old ;)
yah
Wait how is she 26? When I search for her age the results always say she is 19
@@user-zk9dx9oh2d A friend said in an interview that he/she meet her in 2014 when she was 19 years old. so when you do the math she is 26 now and on the 14th of May she is getting 27 years old
Tones and I, with only 19 years old is one of the best singer of our generation! She offered something new with:
0% drugs
0% sex
0% insults
100% pure talent
Thank you for existing 🙏
j'aime tes chansons
She's just 19 years old
@@kambengmeoww4901 And? Mozart was 5 years old, Michael Jackson was with Jackson five, doesnt matter the age, you can have such a good talent and be considered as one of the best!
@@jdcrob8499 i mean she's didn't take the drug because she's only 19 years old
@@kambengmeoww4901 she almost 27
This hits super hard when you try so hard to be "golden child" but everyone always seems disappointed in you no matter what you do
I completely understand this!
You don't need to be the golden child if they can't see good in you that's their problem the only approval you'll ever need is your own stay strong you got this
You don't need their approval see the good in yourself abusive parents suck whether it's physical or emotional abuse
Don't try to be the golden child. Just try to not give up. The day will come when you are free and you gather your friends around you who love you and appreciate you.
True man
Why try to be something your not? Be yourself dude and own it!
Its really strange that people *who are blood* can never understand you but a *random stranger* can instantly connect with you and support you. This tells us that family is where your heart is understood. ✨💛
you just said that they can never understand -
@@lynnok3688what they meant was that family is wherever you find understanding ,very often not among blood relatives . Can totally relate
Sorry yall got a bad family. No one is tighter than blood. Yes you can have friends that are like family but yall aren’t raised like it should be.
❤😂😅😊😢🎉
You can hear she's singing from her heart this song isn't just music it's feeling
this hits different when your the child that
"always starts arguments for no reason"
"cry over nothing"
"ruins every family day out"
"can never be trusted"
"never respects anyone just because. We dONt respEct Her/him"
"a joke"
y'all ever heard these before? well yh, me too.
edit: hey, I see a lot of people have similar stories and feel that everyone in the family is against them, well your not alone. I know that isnt a good thing but know people out there are counting on you to be here I and many other people are SO proud that you are still getting through this, and im sorry we have to go through such treatment. at this point im just happy with myself if nobody else is, we love you and we're proud of you :)
sameee gurllll
True
Jo
Ouch in the feels
I act like a joke and my parents roll their eyes. I get serious when ppl mess with my family tho. I snapped at a kid 'cause he said my little bro sounded like a sim.
The meaning of this video is so deep. The child conjured up an imaginary friend to cope with what he was going through but when she wasn't there he was alone and afraid and went through it on his own😟I love you tones❤
I honestly thought it was his sister
Girl....you truly are the deepest waters...you aren't singing words, you're touching the deepest parts of people's souls simply because you feel.
ETERNAL RESPECT
Yeh the part of my soul that makes me cry because this music is so bad
@@mcronaldburger6747 you bad
@@mcronaldburger6747 THIS SONG IS NOT BAD YOUR PROBABLY THE BAD CHILD
I hate when adults brush away a child's problems by dismissing them and invalidating them in comparison to their own. This is especially heartbreaking when it's the child's own parents doing the dismissing. I just want to scream at them "How could you? Your child has feelings too! They're human too! They need you to be there for them! Even if it might seem like their problems are minuscule to you, from their prospective they are huge obstacles and your attitude is going to hurt your relationship with them in the long run."
I have trouble validating my feelings because stuff like this.
@@Cometsarecool I do too sometimes. I also have trouble with celebrating my accomplishments because I don't know if they'd be "enough" to my parents...it's a mindset from childhood that has carried over.
I feel like my parents don't even see my accomplishments, they just see all my mistakes..
That’s not nice
Fatima Melek same like I try and they don’t see that they see oh u messed up
As I'm listening to this, I can't help but cry.. It just hits differently when they always treat you as the bad child 😢💔
Sometimes i feel like my parents love my older sister more, and i’m just... Left in the dark....
Yeah ik I am my parents main target I moved out asap because of them I was never enough for them now I am doing much better
@@Bean-kh9cu aww I'm sorry you feel like that 🥺 ~hugs~
It's a different case with me. I'm the eldest child yet they favor my younger twin sisters. I hope we get to a better place and be happier 🤗❤️
@@bonniebunny1632 I'm glad you're doing much better now and it's a brave thing to do to move out. I wish I had the courage to do that too. Please stay safe and take care ❤️
@@Bean-kh9cu same
The boy's house is a hell to him because of his parents. They don't understand his feelings / spend time with him. All they do his hurt him. All his happiness is his imaginary friend. And finally he think his house is a hell. And when he leaves the house he thought will his parents understand him in future but all he saw is never. So he leave the home alone with his imaginary friend.
Thank you for this 😊
THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU HELPED ME SO GOOD (I was very confused lol)
Po Ade poitu padi Ade
Poi sollama
my sister always hits me and 2 peoplE in my family just passed i always get yelled at but my dad and mom are sweet
She's belting out that chorus from her heart, you can hear it in her voice.
Si :)
She IS my spirit animal...
lame
Te amo
😥😢😢😥
“ all my life put on a fake smile “ That hits hard ngl....
Yea..
No it's true! 🙃
Yeah I always fake a smile if I’m not cuz I don’t really smile sooo Ye
What does ngl stand for? Sorry, I’m pretty stupid.
Sunset Angel not gonna lie
I lost it on, " now m on my own, I lost my magic."
This song is literally the story of my life.
Wow....xD
I feel kinda bad
Me too.
My father hates me.
The part about being at my door.
His favourite daughter had a psychosis he had a kidney removed and he ended up here.
Once my sister was well again, I stopped existing again.
icecream will never lose its magic
My life same with this song,when i was kid,i try to kill myself.
37 and still a bad child. I love you girl, you always touch my soul❤
You can hear how she feels everything she says...
Yes! I can hear the pain
Mhm
@Alexthegamer 930 jbnf
Agreed
Definitely! 👌🏿 ♥️ ❤️ 💕 💋 💖
Omg am I the only one?
When she says
“And to every single person here that doubts me, telling me that they could live without me”
That hits me so different😭😭😭
MorelXXlegend no,you’re not.l felt that too.My mom literally takes her anger off of her onto me when something bad happens to her.😔
yah , this brought me tears
MorelXXlegend omg sameeeee
Everyone Well Live Like Thats In His One Day In He Life
واي فاي same
2020: Bad Child
2019: Bad Guy
2018: Bad Boy
2012: Bad Girl
Bernhard Wippel 2009: Bad Romance
2016:Bad word
Bad blood
Bad Breath
Bad liar
To my parents I was the problem while my sister was quiet and the good kid. I had anger issues, threw fits, depression, and always made me feel horrible for my mental state even when I tried my best to control my emotions. But it's hard when your parents tell it to your face that you're a problem and that you were crazy in the head and a problem for them. In my 30s it still hurts me how I was when I was a child and the things my parents said to my face bluntly but it feels wrong to say outloud I don't blame them yet wish they showed me more love instead of anger. This song makes me cry everytime
I feel this song on a personal level. I'm a twin. My sister was straight A student...so I was always the "bad one". SO many of us probably feel this way. But for a twin...people always ask "Whos the good one and whos the bad one?" I've heard it my whole life...because no matter how good you are, when your twin is a Straight A student...you're automatically "the bad one"
so true, I'm a twin as well. Being compared by other people because you're a twin is the worst.
Yeah I’m a twin, I have a brother we have always been compared in every aspect its the worst
I hardly see my siblings but when I was with them, I was the 'good' kid.
My brother didn't do his homework, I never see my other 2 brothers though.
And they compare you with your twin and telling you "YoU shOuLD Be LikE hEr " without caring about how you feel or why you act like you do. Basically my life
Am a twin as well and ppl keep telling me to be like my twin sister...and it hurts...like they dont want me to be myself...and they keep asking which one is the bad and good one and it always anger me sometimes she even gets more attention
when i first listened to this song for the first time, i bursted out in tears because i felt like i was the only one having struggles with family and how once i do something good no one is happy for me or just ignores it.. this is the only song that is depressing yet heart lifting and gives me confidence. and i don’t have much of that. if i ever got to meet the singer.. man i was legit praise her and tell her how much she has helped me with this song! 🙏
It’s a heart warming story and song
Same bro
This is the song that made me finaly realise that my parents were abusive. When ever I saw other people stories of their parents, I couldn't relate to them, but with this song It feels like it was made for me.
Always love yourself no matter what anyone thinks. Family is the first ones to stab is in the back. Living well irrates them beyond belief
I hope people appreciate this song as much as Dance Monkey, she's too talented to be just a one hit wonder.
PalmurcioWorld true💯💯♥️🙌🏼
Shes got better songs than this one. Try "happy all the time" or "hey ya" (outkast cover). I know she ain't going to be a one hit wonder, shes just too good and has a unique voice.
I appreciate it more
almost a million views ! :)
I heard a few parts in that song that reminded me of Dance Monkey so maybe she’s appealing to people through it? Idk. Just something I noticed
This song is great! It perfectly depicts a toxic relationship between a parent and their child, though there is another part of this that I feel should be said:
Not only is this type of relationship bad for the 'scape goat' kid, it is bad for the 'golden' kid as well. The 'golden' child (most of the time) in these sorts of families are spoiled and are treated like royalty by the parents, creating a bad example for the child. The child grows up thinking that they can get anything they want by throwing a tantrum, because thats how it worked for them growing up. They as well have a chance, depending on if the child grew up doing practically 0 chores, of having a lot of difficulty taking care of themselves when they grow up (not knowing how to cook, clean, do laundry, ect.). Thus, of when these 'golden' children get out into the world as young adults, they will have the biggest culture shock of their life that the world does not revolve around them and that nobody cares if they trow a fit or not, they will just get angry.
In summary, this sort of "'scape goat', 'golden' child" mentality is bad for both children stuck with the parents, the only difference being the type of negative affect of it (depending on which kid you're talking about).
I hope her and Sia make a song together, they both have such unique voices
Yes, yes, and absolutely freaking YES!!
Damn that would be amazing
And they can because they’re both Aussie and I think that they can’t because of COVID-19...........🤔🤔🤔🤔
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This song gives me a lump in my throat & a tear in my eye..It hurts to be the 'bad child'
Michele Plouffe it definitely hurts. I cried after hearing the first few lyrics. It was like someone understood me.
Definitely agree😭
And not juste hurts🙀
This video speaks to the complexities of childhood and family dynamics, the trauma of disconnect, and the fierce warrior that emerges from the ashes. This song is nothing short of an absolute fu*king masterpiece!! 🙌🎵💖
Thinking of all the bad child, The designated family 'scapegoat' kid in lockdown raised by a narcissist parent... like Gabri elfernandez refers to a family member who takes the blame for difficulties in the family. Scapegoating is a form of bullying. Scapegoats are repeatedly subjected to belittling, humiliation, abandonment, betrayal and outright hatred by family members, who make them the 'bad guy'.May 17, 2019
glynissherwood.com › 12-ste...
I'm glad you didn't give up on music after dance monkey, you have a lot of talent and seem like a genuine person the world needs.
it is stressful every time your parents tell you how little you have been as good as you should be and then when "you are used to it" they tell you that you never listen and that these are only constructive criticisms but they do not know how much it hurts to be told that every day that you are not worth enough
so sad
This isn't constructive criticism at all
this song hits different when you're the last child of the family, constantly being compared with your siblings, having your opinion being completely ignored because you're 'too young too understand', being blamed for every conflict that is happening in your family, everyone telling you what to do every single time and they get mad if you don't do it because they 'know the best', people can't understand my struggles because "oh, you're the last kid. you must be spoiled, and having the greatest life!"
it's hard to live a day knowing that your family is better off without you.
You're not alone and you're unique no one should feel this way. YOU'VE GOT THIS.💕💕
My was opposite
Story of my entire life right there.
Nabila Aulia Rahmah I know right!? I’m always compared to them! I’m the bad one I get! They don’t need to say it everyday!
Ik right I’m always being compared to my siblings and friends and when I do a little bad thing they just hit me and my brother always snitches on me the only sibling I get along with is my big sister and when my brother does something they just let it slide but for me they hit me
Abusive families will usually have at least one golden child and one scapegoat child. The scapegoat child is the one that denounces the abusive parent, and the golden child is the child that acts as a proxy abuser for the abusive parent. That is why having an abusive older sibling can be as damaging as having an abusive parent: the sibling is really just a proxy for the parent. A "bad child" is really just an example of a narcissist parent making sure that their children never present a united front against them
Me and my brother seem to both be the scapegoats in some way, he’s kinda the golden child in a way also, he’s older then me and will threaten to throw me down the stairs and has attempted it, my parents used to be extremely verbally abusive but not as much (but they still are)
Thats not entirely true. Thats how the relationship CAN turn out, but it doesn't have to.
I know two young adults that are golden child (brother) and scapegoat (younger sister), but while the brother already mostly tried to protect his sister from their mother while they were younger he started to see through the dynamic as a teen and called his mother out on it. He even broke off ties to her for a couple of months. They are back in contact, but he won't take shit from her towards his sister while he's around.
His sister on the other hand has a very ambivalent relationship with the mother. Sometimes she sees the abuse for what it is and sometimes she internalises it again. She never stopped craving for her mothers approval unfortunately.
And invisible child, Like the one that gets away, no contact. No looking back. I was a scapegoat, still am but my mom is this song my older sister and my older brother is if that’s OK.
But is the oldest child a victim too ?
I'm the oldest and I'm the scapegoat. Little sister was golden child and has now continued our mother's abuse cycle against me. The rest of the family kisses her butt and jumps when she snaps her fingers. I've been no contact since I ran away at 16. I'm 45 now.
I'm a 47-year-old Mexican man and I'm bumping this song as loud as I can on my semi truck driving down the road it just catchy there's something about it I can't stop listening to it.
Больной чтоли? 🗿
You understand it, that’s why.
Yo tambien compa 😮😝
Damn this kid plays well. You see that smile, is the smile of someone who suffers. Idk if he suffers irl, but damn under the small tent I felt that smile. The smile of someone who don't want to be a burden and no matter what this person do, it's someone who keep being tell off and rejected.
Annika Whiteley I know him too.
This song hits different when you're the child who desperately tries to be perfect but still gets criticized and picked apart. One mistake and you're lacking 😔 it's so exhausting
yeah... it feels like your childhood is robbed from you. You cant afford to do something stupid and learn from your mistakes. its dehumanising
💔🥺
True..
yes
That's just what it is to be "the genius" of your family, you could have average intelligence but due to either the people who surround you or just your parents, the expectations for you are so much higher. I stopped caring which is why I'm no longer afraid to do new things, or petrified of failure. But these methods of parenting eventually led me to childhood depression and social anxiety. Hope you either are getting past or have gotten past these problems, they do really suck.
Some people should remember that sometimes "imaginary friends" are more real than your "real friends"
Shout out to rage and soad and Linkin Park and Korn and orgy and tones & I and britney and ,,, they put up w/ my music tastes & never say a damn word 🤗👊
*Remembers imaginary boyfriend from 6 years ago*
That is very true.
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@@blobfishhhh XD I THOUGHT I ONLY DID THAT!
For me this girl is the number 1! This voice is stunning me everytime again and again!
“We were never a family”
“I guess I always gonna be the mad child”
“They say I lost my mind”
..this is representing me..
This song hits different when you are the black sheep in the family.
Hits different When familiar with bad child role or term 'scapegoat' refers to a family member who takes the blame for difficulties in the family. Scapegoating is a form of bullying. Scapegoats are repeatedly subjected to belittling, humiliation, abandonment, betrayal and outright hatred by family members, who make them the 'bad guy'.May 17, 2019
glynissherwood.com › 12-ste...
True 😔💔
Same, all 3 of my siblings are valedictorians in their own respective schools, on both high school and Elementary, while I'm just a regular student. Nothing special. I also hate the fact that I've always been compared to them😓
Hahaah True
Im so... Yes this hit me a lot
I think she will emulate Adele's success. Her music is honest and unique! I'd love to get a chance to sing with her!!
Yes, she'll do so .Sooner or later cause I believe in her
Your second comment i liked today
I don’t think so, this song is too much like dance monkey, she needs to know she’s got more ideas than one catchy riff...
They make different genres. Why comparing her to Adele? Just because they're both fat?
@@burrodharakiri6596 well to be fair there are a few a "little thicker" female singer with Power voices like this that had great songs
I cannot believe this song appeared in my Spotify today after something really difficult happened with family, that has forever changed our dynamic. This song is keeping me sane right now, yet breaking my heart.
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The lyrics hits different when youre the “bad child”
Hsjshs Bsnsjsj yep it does
Absolutely
Yeah... ;c
I wasnt too good or too bad but I know some kids for a reason they are the "bad child" most of the time its not their fault ... nice song
@@oliwia7320 yep 100% im 33 n this hits hard
I've never related to any song more than this. It's like you're singing my heart out as well.
TONES AND I solo necesito un exito 🍃y ahora es una profesional en esto me encantan sus músicas 👌
"We were never a family"
That hits hard
who's crying silently while listening to this song? this so relatable
Yesh me ;w; since my life relates tp this u.u👌
Me
OMG ME!!!
It’s the predicting stuff for me
Me cause when I was younger my parents treated me like a I’m a brat
Está Canción merece el mismo éxito que Dance Monkey, al igual que Never Seen the Rain y Johnny Run Away. Todas Hermosas😍
Si verdad todos ablan inglis está bonita la cansion
Total
Si. Merece ser exitosa
This one hits the feels so hard.
I'm glad the generation growing up now is going to have songs and people like this to know that they're never alone and that a Weird Mind is a beautiful thing that's not to be wasted.
Ikr I have a weird mind
I Sing when I'm in de Shower-
*CUZ THEY'LL NEVER UNDERSTAND MAH WEIRD MIND~!*
What hits hard is when you are the one in the family that calls the crap and the lies out
My family always said I was the bad child
Throwin' me away into the bad pile
All my life been puttin' on a fake smile
Sittin' on my own, feel like I'm exiled
Feelin' like I always do the wrong things
Tellin' all their friends that I'm the bad kid
Now I'm on my own, I lost my magic
Dealin' with your bullshit now I'm over it
And you took a part of me
Left me with the memories, oh
We were never a family
Now you're standin' in front of my door-or-or
Like none of this happened at all-all-all
I guess I'm always gonna be the bad child
I guess I'm always gonna be the mad child
'Cause you will never understand my weird mind
My weird mind
And to every single person here that doubts me
Tellin' me that they could live without me
'Cause they will never understand my weird mind
My weird mind
I've never really been the one to reach out
Actin' like my life was squeaky clean now
Like everythin' I do is just a letdown
Feelin' like I always do the wrong things
Tellin' all their friends that I'm the bad kid
Now I'm on my own, I lost my magic
Dealin' with your bullshit now I'm over it
And you took a part of me
Left me with the memories, oh
We were never a family
Now you're standin' in front of my door-or-or
Like none of this happened at all-all-all
I guess I'm always gonna be the bad child
I guess I'm always gonna be the mad child
'Cause you will never understand my weird mind
My weird mind
And to every single person here that doubts me
Tellin' me that they could live without me
'Cause they will never understand my weird mind
My weird mind
They say I've lost my mind
They I'll never find it
I think they're kind of right
In fact, I kind of like it
They say I've lost my mind
They I'll never find it
I think they're kind of right
I guess I'm always gonna be the bad child
I guess I'm always gonna be the mad child
'Cause you will never understand my weird mind
My weird mind
And to every single person here that doubts me
Tellin' me that they could live without me
'Cause they will never understand my weird mind
My weird mind
My family always said I was the bad child
Lukas thank you for the lyrics 😅😅
Wow that's dedication
Thank you🙏🙌👍❤👌
I thought you were telling us your story for a sec-
This lyrics it's truly what i felt bih 😭
I'm Japanese. Her husky voice is cool and addictive!
I'm a filipino
I’m Russian
I am asian :)
This song is loved over the border♡
Usa
As a woman with ADHD in a ongoing custody battle to get my daughter back from my family’s iron fist... this song was made for me! It’s been going on repeat for 24 hours! Finally an artist who understands branding culture ❤️ Thank you
@Eddie vapes for life! I've stoped taking the pills and gonna stay off them.. They totally ruined my life
@@solveigstaal3796 did u get her back ?
same.. serious. it's deep
@@solveigstaal3796update? I'm so sorry, that's an indescribable pain. I hope you've been reunited, for you & your daughter's sake 🥺🙏🏻❤
I have certain you will have your daughter back, afterall...just because you have ADHD doesnt mean that you're not able to take care of your own child, i'm sure you will reach this victory... (i'm Brazilian and i also have ADHD and dyslexia)
I only just heard this song recently, but I've never heard another song that do perfectly talks about my childhood. Literally with every single word I can picture different parts of my childhood, all the different things my family did, said (she could probably make a while music video for this song based off of just these memories). I have never understood why I was singled out by my parents, grandparents, sisters, aunts, uncles, and cousins. I'm 44 now, and still don't understand.
I want her to know how much this song means to me. I don't understand how she wrote this so perfectly without having actually lived it, but I think that means even more to me, because never have I met someone who hasn't lived it yet understands so well. I wish I could hug her, but I would probably cry. I can't put in to words just what this song means to me, what it makes me feel, only that I feel heard and validated.
god, this literally made me cry when i first listened to it. Being the black sheep under a narcissistic parent hurts. especially since they will pick on the child who they cant understand. For me, being on the spectrum made me the target
Same
Das
Only child of a narcissistic mother.
If you don't reflect all the things they want to be themselves, you're the scape goat. So the times where I reflected "good parenting" I was golden child, Every other time, I was scape goat.
It's all abuse though. Being praised for being the vicarious lived through version is terrible too.
I have since realizing in my early twenties just what my mother is, I went no contact after many instances of reaffirmation to how she had no actual empathy for anyone.
I also later got diagnosed with ADHD and Autism.
I hope you are doing okay. NPD and NPD parents are an issue that just doesn't get enough coverage and help. Let alone abusive and dismissive parents in general.
I have grandparents who don’t care about me and they bully me for no reason...
I'm so sorry that you were abused and you know that you a beautiful person and your family wasn't there for you
"Feeling like I always do the wrong things" hits hard for me, like i always get blamed for stupid crap and my dad gets mad at me alot. its not happening alot anymore but i went from being the youngest to being a middle child and ngl you get used to being spoiled? like it sounds bad but now i get ignored and all my problems are just because of pUbErTy while my little brother is crying because he cant play on the ps4 when he played for 5 hours already and someone else wants to play. honestly tho ive been vibing with this song everyday. thank you for making an amazing song Tones.
Lyrics 🙈
My family always said I was the bad child
Throwin' me away into the bad pile
All my life been puttin' on a fake smile
Sittin' on my own, feel like I'm exiled
Feelin' like I always do the wrong things
Tellin' all their friends that I'm the bad kid
Now I'm on my own, I lost my magic
Dealin' with your bullshit now I'm over it
And you took a part of me
Left me with the memories, oh
We were never a family
Now you're standin' in front of my door-or-or
Like none of this happened at all-all-all
I guess I'm always gonna be the bad child
I guess I'm always gonna be the mad child
'Cause you will never understand my weird mind
My weird mind
And to every single person here that doubts me
Tellin' me that they could live without me
'Cause they will never understand my weird mind
My weird mind
I've never really been the one to reach out
Actin' like my life was squeaky clean now
Like everythin' I do is just a letdown
Feelin' like I always do the wrong things
Tellin' all their friends that I'm the bad kid
Now I'm on my own, I lost my magic
Dealin' with your bullshit now I'm over it
And you took a part of me
Left me with the memories, oh
We were never a family
Now you're standin' in front of my door-or-or
Like none of this happened at all-all-all
I guess I'm always gonna be the bad child
I guess I'm always gonna be the mad child
'Cause you will never understand my weird mind
My weird mind
And to every single person here that doubts me
Tellin' me that they could live without me
'Cause they will never understand my weird mind
My weird mind
They say I've lost my mind
They I'll never find it
I think they're kind of right
In fact, I kind of like it
They say I've lost my mind
They I'll never find it
I think they're kind of right
I guess I'm always gonna be the bad child
I guess I'm always gonna be the mad child
'Cause you will never understand my weird mind
My weird mind
And to every single person here that doubts me
Tellin' me that they could live without me
'Cause they will never understand my weird mind
My weird mind
My family always said I was the bad child
Thanks for so much likes, omg 🙏🏻❤️🙈
Thanks:) this comment deserve more likes!!
Thank you ♡
I'm trying to copy it. It won't let me
I look for this comment
Damn, i ruined the 200.
This song makes me cry and I can relate to it and it really hits me hard a lot of times as a kid I always felt like I had to put on a fake smile.😢
💯. I’m 41 I still go through them same feelings
Tuff life
Love u all
Be kind to urself and others
Love starts from within, starting the roller coaster one again
Had to press the reset button 😢
Yes
I let U a comment
💯💯
I don't know why, but when i listen this song i really want to cry
Sylwuska i literary just watched the video for the first time and for some reason i wanted to cry when watching it and in the end of the video a tear fell off
Gives me the same feeling
Sylwuska it’s that kind of song 💔 peace and blessings
0:18 feeling like I always do the wrong things ~then the music in between is the best part for me Idk why!
She took singing in cursive to levels even Halsey cant comprehend
This song perfectly describes my relationship with my family, and then with most others as well. Because when you grow up being told you're bad, weird, and that they could do without you, you carry that trauma on your shoulders out into the world.
That attracts people (predators, really) looking for someone vulnerable.
Which then makes more bad things happen to you.
And common (effed up bs) "wisdom" is everyone can't be wrong. If you keep running into problems with people, well, maybe it's you. 🙄
Then rumors and judgment swirl and grow and next thing you know, everyone thinks you're "bad".
You start to believe there is something deeply wrong with you. That you're nothing but a problem. That you maybe should, well...you know. 😔
Thankfully, I have numerous therapists, and I'm working very hard to fight that effed up mindset. But it's very, very difficult. One day at a time, I'll get there.
I've always been the bad kid even tho my brother had a lot of problems like: car accidents / drunk all the time / in a circle of vicious friends / smoking. I was the kid with good grades and continuing in college.. Not drinking smoking or do bad stuff. We both were respectful to our family but i was the one who shouts the loudest to my parents and he was calm. This is the thing that delimited us, so i'm the black sheep in this family.
This is my fav song now.
@WinterGirl omg just hang in there, you are awesome i know it. My brother is the same, i just can t stay there and shut my mouth when i know i'm right. Have a nice day, and be powerful 💋
“Guess ima gonna always be the bad child” and
“Cause they won’t understand my weird mind”
Hits me hard my family wouldn’t understand me for being different from them
ADHD? I have it... It's fun sometimes but it can be difficult...
I relate to this song in a depressional level.
Kyeot シシ angel I feel you❤️
Me too
@@poparttrump6822 82
😃
same
Eu me identifico muito com essa música, quando eu era criança passava por muitas humilhações e metade da família me achava uma criança problemática; esse vídeo me emocionou de uma forma que não sei explicar😢
Remember the lord left his 99 sheep to find his one sheep that was missing! I pray for everyone dealing with something unpleasant and feeling unwanted just know your loved.. you can get thru this!! #WIT
No one ever asks what will happen to the 99 he left to find that 1 sheep? What if he looses the 99 for that 1.
That one sheep was MrSuicideSheep lol
@@rebeccagarcia1457 The 99 are the sheep that don't leave, and because this is just metaphor, they're the sheep that remain until shepherd returns. Can also be compared to the prodigal son story, where one son ran away and gambled himself into poverty then returned home expecting/willing to be a servant and instead was greeted with a celebration/the finest of everything. His brother was the 99 that never left and already has what he needs.
@@shunooze91 IMMATURE
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This is just a place for us black sheep to gether and chill while listening to amazing music
Uwu
@@ZeeMoneyMillionaire njjhjjjjjjj
damm right
Baaa hold hands through it 🖐
Yea
"you took apart of me"
"We were never a family"
Hah..yup
@Estrella Hanthorn I'm fine, don't really care for anything, bit otherwise fine
Samee
@The Football Tree I'm doing fine. Everyday I grow more mad, but I'm fine
SUCCESS IS THE BEST REVENGE-- BUT remember .... no matter how successful a person is, that doesn’t equal happiness. SO.....ULTIMATELY,,,STRIVE for happiness & u will be a success!!✌️
My parents too sometimes pressurises me for something which kinda leads me to thinking bad about meh self -.-
OMG just heard this song for the 1st time and it just hit me. This song is me and how I've felt my whole life. I'm the bad child, the black sheep. Never understood. This song made me cry. Thank you Tones and I for understanding me and making the kind of music that hits your soul.
This song really reminds me of my mom. As a child my mom was always the one working and doing all the chores while her sister didn't do anying and bullied my mom. My mom's parents were always on the side of her sister. I'm really glad that my mom raised me for who I am today and didn't treat me like she was treated
Love for mom ❤
Edit: Thank you guys for all the nice comments. I love you ❤
My mom left me. Im one girl in the family with 3 brothers and of course my dad.
That’s my family now but am planning to run away
Sounds like your mom was Cinderella and your aunts were the step sisters, sad
Your parents spank u not because they hate you, Because they don’t want you to be a bad child
@@juliocarrero6995
Parents who hit their children in any way show their child that they (the parent) have no control over their emotions and that the child should simply obey out of fear, not out of understanding and choice, until the day that they can take out their emotions on someone smaller than them.
This is the major 2002 study by Gershoff that traced spanking and other physical punishments in children to greater childhood delinquencies and mental health issues: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3768154/#:~:text=In%20a%20series%20of%20meta,abused%20(Gershoff%2C%202002)
This describes my life completely. And im not trying to be one of those fake depressed kids; in fact, im not depressed at all. Its just that I try to be good but nothing works.
There will come a time when these people in your life will no longer be able to control you. Freedom is around the corner. Hang in there.
Keep strong your time will come!
Be strong
You would relate so much to my closest friend :-)
"You would never understand my weird mind"
I felt that
Lol, same
Me also.
Me with my mental disorders yooo 🤪🤪
Me too
Me too, deeply
I don't even have words, this song just grabs the heart.
I wish this song explodes like "Dance Monkey" did so people can keep appreciating talent instead of the same type of songs over over again... Songs with messages and meanings >>>>>>>>>> Songs that are just catchy
I wish as well because it's a beautiful and powerful song
Agreed
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I love this song so much!
I love that there is a visual video
I can relate so much to this song
Anyways much love and Stay safe everyone who probably isn't reading this ❤
Hola?._.
@@cartacarta2153 hola 🤣
Hablas español??0_0
@@cartacarta2153 Si se español y tambien Ingles ;^;
En definitiva no me lo esperaba
The characters are Jimmy and Young Tones. Man, i love that her life remains a thread throughout her songs.
Jamie O. I noticed that too. Feel like each song will be a puzzle piece & we’re getting glimpses into her life a song at a time 💗
So is that her brother?
www.songfacts.com/facts/tones-and-i/jimmy this will explain who Jimmy is
@@joni5243 no her old friend he ran away and she never saw him since, hopefully she gets to reunite with him since she is famous now he can find her easier. 😢
@@tiktokhater707 what is a lie?
I've never felt a song more in my life.
It's kind of nice to know I wasn't alone, it wasn't just me.
EDIT: swear I'm going to write something everytime I listen to this.
Thanking you from Geelong, VIC!!!
*" 'Couse they will never understand my weird mind "*
Oh my Goddd I relate to that soo much!!
Like they say every mind is a world
this hits different when youre autistic under a narcissistic parent.
Amen
This hits when you were always called the wicked/bad child
This song is deeper than the Mariana Trench (I hope I spelled that right). One like on this song is one bit of hope for the kids that are relatable to this song.
Such a raw and amazing voice, wish she released more content and got an album! Someone needs to sign here!
SHE HAS AN ALBUM COMING OUT VERY SOON.
Hi
I am guessing this represents her family and her brother? If so this is really sad. Gives off some Harry Potter vibes.
Edit: I listened to Jimmy again and I think this song is about a friend who's parents fought a lot or didnt like him so he ran away. Jimmy could have also been a brother and tones didnt want to say and acted like he was a friend in the Jimmy song. These are all possibilities. Pls comment what you think I really think tones is trying to tell us something!!!
Edit: another theory is that Johnny from Johnny Runs Away is in love Jimmy and Jimmy may love him back. So both there parents may be angry about this so Johnny runs away and Jimmy either runs away or is sent away because tones mentioned that she never saw Jimmy again.
I think its Jimmy or Johnny who run away
The young boy is Jimmy
Please😊 rate the clip for the song🎶 TONES AND I - DANCE MONKEY 👉th-cam.com/video/wVgCyi72mCM/w-d-xo.html
@@zaz28 I thought that Johnny was because in his song they say "he was a young boy who liked playing at the park"
@@west_0129 at the end it says Jimmy (in the credits)
I never have related to a song so much in my life.......
Ow, the edge
Same
me to
Thats what my parents told im so relatable in a situation like this
I 1000% feel this
This song hits different, my family has abused me for a long time. I’m setting myself free now ❤️
My family also abuse me over for short reasons
I have so much respect for that.
❤
@Afro PuffDee Don't say that the fuck😃
I'm so proud of you, you deserve to be free. They don't get to treat you like shit because theyre feeling it❤️❤️
Tones and I such a talented amazing incredible person
this is so relatable because i feel like the "odd one" in my family. i feel different and i feel like i'll never be accepted, or never interest them, even though i'm older now and 18 years old
There are a lot of songs that give the same message, but damn does this hit different...
"We were never a family"
Hit me hard. I am sick of being treated like the bad child.
@@chxcomilk8331 awww, thanks
I never understood why this song wasn't as popular as dance monkey...
Tones and I
YOU HAVE THE BEST VOICE
AND CREATIVITY
Best voice? It’s autotuned AF. Anyone with ear can realize that. I like to have music that doesn’t sound like high pitched ear penetration.
@@-12Sided it's ain't auto tuned listen to her in a concert or in a live show you'll get to know her
Poonam Bisht I don’t care. The lyrics aren’t bad, it’s just very disgustingly sung. The voice physically hurts my ears. She sounds like Alvin and the chipmunks primate mutant that gargled cactus covered in sandpaper, and never learned how pronounce words like a normal person. And no. It’s not her accent. She does that on purpose and think it sounds cool.
Finally there´s some quality music in this world.
You know an Artist is serious about his/her own creation if the same song gets a new, better, more quality video, just to give viewers an even more stunning experience of it.
This is everything I've wanted to say to my family and peers so thank you for having the voice of people who can't
BAD CHILD LIVE FOR THE FIRST TIME
WATCH ❤
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Who else’s quarantine has just become way better because of this song !
Seamus Keena mine!!!!!
Ash Harmon awesome !!!
@@MrWiiSeamus I'm cringing
Me
Me
All the children of narcissistic parents felt this one.
Oh absolutey. Hits me hard😔
Yep.
Yes 🙏🙏 its scarey, the video reminds me of me and my brother
I'm 30 and this song took me back to my childhood pretty hard, she is bloody amazing.
I'm 17 nd I'm gacing this right now
*Goosebumps.*
It's sad that his only friend is unreal
I just stumbled across this for the first time.❤
My sister doesn’t like Tones and I’s voice, but I feel like this song is so relatable to her.
I love her voice, its unique... some singers use programs to sound like that but she's original
Qué?
You must be an angel to consider this song for your sister
Because everytime I try to fight for my equality, both my sisters just bombard on me saying
'our lifes been difficult too'
My younger sister go to the extent of saying
'Do you know how much I have suffered bcz of you'
When all I wanted from my parents was equality, they would just won't let me get through with my part of words.
I might not be a class topper like them but I am still a human!
Jahnabi M Oh wow ok
Like a Bad child, your sister to fell she want don't.
video 100%
understand 50%
singing 100%
A very fun song
This song describes me in my life situation right now, I just never knew how to put it in these words, well done 😁
wow I am SOOOO impressed with this young lady. WHAT A TALENT AND VOICE!