I’m 2 min in but I wanted to share something! When you said “it was honestly made for you,” it reminded me of a very intense meditation I had not too long after my breakup. I was a wreck, I was extremely emotional with no signs of feeling better after months. In that specific moment, I was feeling so sad over my ex moving on so quickly, but over some specific thing he said. I decided to meditate to stop the tears from streaming, and I lost track of time. I remember hearing a voice in my head that said “can’t you see that this was perfectly crafted for you? can’t you see how this situation was created to bring this exact emotion out of you? can’t you see how you’re expanding, how this is YOURS, how this is beautiful?” The voice didn’t feel like it was coming from myself, like it was coming from someone who cares about me or maybe my higher self. After that thought, I realized just how silly the situation I was upset about was. It was so detailed and perfect, and I know it would not have affected anyone the way it did me, it would not have triggered anyone else the same way because it was MADE for ME. Since then, I seemed to have let go of the heartbreak and the past relationship at an exponential rate!
Melaylay Hey your words inspired me so much... I am in a very complicated situation right now haha 😅 is there any way to get in touch with you? I would love to talk to you if you’re up for that. I would love to have a spiritual friend to talk to. ❤️ I hope that’s not weird to ask 😅
Anna egb it’s not weird at all 🥺 i would love some spiritual friends too!! My insta is the same username as here @ Melaylay :) you can message me there 💓💓💓💓
This is so beautiful!! I started meditating 3days ago and I started crying for the first time earlier today during meditation.So many emotions...It was out of this world🙏💞
I listened to this last night. I got a call from my person at 4 in the morning begging to come to my house. I said no and now I’m the one with the power again. I can’t thank u enough this stuff works. ❤❤
My ex broke up with me 2 months ago because he wanted to be with someone else and until now he didn't talk to me again, me in the other hand I've suffered a lot of pain and heartache and feelings of being not good enough and to be honest I'm still going through them but I realised there is no other way out the only way is to go through it and feel every emotion it will hurt less day by day, my goal is self-love I wanna find myself and love myself before I think of loving anyone else, I hope anyone that is going through the same thing I'm going through to heal sooner than later sending you so much love and light❤️
Key points 1. Its no longer their job to make you feel better 2. This is not happening to you , its happening for you 3. If you put the energy back on yourself , they will likely want you back (not that them coming back is the focus here) 4. What can you do to become a better person 5. Something is being reflected back to you , explore it
Me and my ex boyfriend broke up 5 months ago and i was heartbroken. He was my first serious partner and i have so much love for him as he has for me, but his commitment issues got to him at a certain point and he had to end it. I was devastated. I took a week off from any gatherings or hangouts and cried till i couldn't cry anymore. I let myself steep in those flashbacks, i read old text messages, i went through our songs and photos. I let myself feel the pain, so i could start seeing situation more clearly. And then, with my intentions set, i went on a journey to find myself. My relationship was great, but like i once told him, "you bring out the worst in me" which he really did. All of the attachment issues, lack of confidence and self respect, being avoidant and dishonest, all of the qualities surfaced as i tried to navigate my way through my first relationship. In those 5 months i have completely changed as a person and become the version of myself i strived to be in the beginning of 2019. Every time i think about where i was not so long ago and where i am now i get all teary-eyed cause this can't be real, right? Well wrong. I conquered my compulsive lying habits, i conquered the art block, i realized just how powerful and amazing and awesome i really am! I started meditating daily and hyping myself up, my art is thriving and people around me notice my growth too. I have never felt better about feeling bad, cause now, i know that every time i feel pain, at the end of the day after a little bit of journaling, i find out more about myself and the roots of my feelings. I'm still not over that person, but i don't just sit and wait for him anymore. I work hard on myself and my craft every day. I love me, and you should too.
Mari Darjania I love this so much!!! I relate on every single level! My past relationship definitely mirrored parts of myself that needed healing, and I’m much more myself than ever. Even started taking photos and painting for the first time in years! 💓💓
I love this!!! I still sometimes don't understand why we change so negatively like that and all these issues come up...Why is it that I'm so happy with him but yet so miserable bc I have trust issues etc. But then when I was single...I smiled a lot, I could be with myself and enjoy my time alone but once I got in a relationship...why couldn't I be that same bubbly person but instead, constantly negative.
@@nikkitran2745 i guess it's about self analysis and introspection. Really getting to the core of the problem so you can then let go. Healthy partnership won't make you feel so unsafe, after you honor your issues and let them go. Hope you have an amazing day love!
here’s my story of how i manifested my best relationship so far :) half a year ago i was dating this guy whom i thought to be meant for me on the long run. he’s completely different than the previous boys i’ve dated (ethnicity, his respect for me, our understanding+ respect for each other, maturity etc). that made me think that our relationship would last more than all my precious ones (i was stuck in a one month karmic cycle it was weird) during our relationship i was going through an awakening and was feeling super great about life. but he ended up breaking up with me 2 weeks into the relationship while i was on a trip. i decided that, even tho i felt hurt and a bit disillusioned, it was what the universe had in store for me and i should trust the universe and let him go. i told him we could still be friends and i shifted my focus back on myself. as i did, he tried to get back with me and was basically begging to... i told him i wanted to just be friends and i waited for something that made me feel better. because i didn’t want to settle for anything less anymore. when we met again weeks after the breakup, i still had major feelings for him, but i told myself it was just a part of my ego bc he’s what felt comfortable and so i held myself back and waited. a few weeks later he went back to his own country and i started hanging out with his best friend. we started getting along really well and there was just a huggeee spark. the whole thing morally felt a bit wrong but everything else felt right. we decided at the end to be together and trust that it will work out. it did and now it has been the best relationship i hv ever had. we learn so much from each other and am growing together. it reflects so much of my state and where i am. there is a lot of trust and balance. and most importantly, i have broken my 1 month cycle :) 4 months in and strong :)
I totally agree with meditation, started meditating 4 weeks before my break up, 1 week before my breakup i actually dreamt of the breakup. Yes im gutted, yes i still love him, but i really appreciate the break up right now as i realised i missed me more. I lost my way. So we stayed friends and i am now letting him go and working on myself. I have started to work on my confidence by taking my self out to the cinema on my own, doing something i love. Giving myself time and i have lots of other plans to do on my own. This alone is helping my depression and anxiety. I am going to get my old confident self back and raise my vibrations more than ever. He will be back but only when the time is right. The universe will take care of that. I believe. Continue to share the love leeor. Xxx
To anyone working through a broken heart, what helped me was 1) practicing the feeling of real unconditional love, particularly to the person that “broke” your heart 2) recognize that a broken heart is just you viewing the situation in complete opposition to your inner being (higher self) 3) zoom out from the situation, look at the situation in relationship to your whole life, the whole world, the whole universe. Be patient and kind with yourself ❤️
9:10 reminds me of something I wrote I thought I might share. "my heart had to be broken open so it could grow larger a space to hold even more love as love is infinite and immeasurable perhaps my heart will have to be broken a million times over to be able to contain it all" thank you y mucho amor!
i didnt want this video to end.. you're words are so comforting & re-assuring. were all in this together we all experience similar emotions and you make it easy to not shy away from them when we feel them or judge ourselves for the thing we feel. ITs what the human experience is about..
I really don't UNDERSTAND how you post exactly when I need it, it's almost miraculous. I am going through a break up and watching your videos always help. Much much love. ♡
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Leeor, Im littarly crying right now. My ex and I just broke up this week after being with each other for almost four years, I've been watching all your other TH-cam videos for guidance. This is perfect timing. I am truly grateful thank you, thank you✨🙏
I also feel this being divine timing that Leeor uploaded this now, as my ex( weird to use that word) and I just broke up also for the past 8-9 days ( we were away in Bali together when this happened) and we’ve also been together for almost 5 years. And lived together. We got back to our hometown 2 days ago and yesterday he left home and we separated. And it hurts and I’m scared as it’s something new. But I know this is happening for me. And for him to. So I’m trying to hold on to the knowledge of this being the right thing
mekhi morgan it simply hurts to separate from this person you’ve talked to every single day without fail for almost 5 years, that you’ve spent almost every single day with for that long. Feels like losing a limb
My ex broke up with me 4 months ago, I was so destroyed, I didnt think I could continue life without him, but I took one day at a time and now Im stronger than ever. Ive learned so much about myself after the breakup, Ive learned that Im so strong and I can survive anything. Today Im single and happier than Ive ever been. So if you are going through a bad time, believe me Ive been in your shoes. I promise you things will get better, they will even get more than better, you will thrive, I guarantee that. And always remember " A mans rejection is Gods protection."
I love your channel! 🥰 I just want to quickly share my experience. I broke up with my ex because he cheated on me while I was pregnant and I have never felt so low and broken in my life. Being hormonal seem to have made it very difficult to meditate and get grounded. I was depressed, had low self esteem, and would cry myself to sleep almost every night. In all that I was searching for some positivity because I knew deep down that I can’t stay in this low vibe. So I stopped following certain pages on social media as well as take multiple breaks from social media, I stopped stalking my ex on social media and blocked him so I wouldn’t see how “happy” he seemed without me. And I indulged myself in watching all of these spiritual uplifting videos on TH-cam and started meditating more. It’s been almost 4 months since the initial breakup and I’ve never felt better. I realized what he did had nothing to do with me and that was a lesson he needed to learn. I’ve learned how to control my emotions better and communicate what I need in a more effective way. I also was able to realize some childhood trauma i needed to heal from that I didn’t know I had. As much as going through that experience hurt, it helped me grow in my spiritual journey, find peace within myself, and I am a better person because of it. I’m still growing and learning but if that situation didn’t happen, I wouldn’t be the person I am today. I also realized one of my purposes in life and have a business venture I’m working on. I pray whoever is going through breakups and dealing with heartache that you find peace and just know that it really does get better! ☺️💕
I'm going through a breakup and I heard recently Rejection is Protection! And its really helped me! Thank you Leeor this video is perfect and exactly what I've been trying to do and my Ex tried to get back with me but the time apart made me realize he wasn't meant to stay in my life.
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I broke up with my boyfriend at the end of March and I just knew I needed time to work on myself and I knew I couldn’t if I was in a relationship because I’m someone who pours 20000% into the relationship (which is one of the reasons I needed self healing). We just recently got back together again after having our own separate journeys and we feel stronger than ever
Oh Leeor, the truth in your words is beyond. Just a year ago I experienced the hardest breakup I believe I ever will go through. The amount of pain was unimaginable but in short, that pain brought me here. I asked for a sign before the breakup and the universe delivered to me the very next day. I have never been closer to God, this Universe or my angels than I am right now. The most dreadful pain brought me to clarity, to my awakening. I had no idea of such, I just knew something within and around me was changing. Since that very day of the breakup, my life has never been the same, it changed, I changed. The change was beyond me, the shift was upon me. The most beautiful thing I have witnessed to this day. If I could offer any words to a broken heart, it is to feel. Feel every bit of what your heart is feeling. Know you are about to experience beauty far passed your wildest imagination. I was absolutely broken and thought I'd never feel complete again. Today, I can say I am absolutely in love with the being that I am, this journey has been amazingly beautiful. I would go through that breakup a million times only to be where I am this very moment. Smile, so much more that is meant for you is ahead. xo.
I'm struggling to move on from my first love/soulmate since 3 years now, give or take.. I needed some real advice for real, and you are it! Leeor I'm so thankful for you
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So much has changed in my life since I took back the power my husband had over me; and ever since I’ve been working on self love. I started the beginning of the pandemic and my husband and I are still married for 23 years and he treats me so much better now. I will continue focusing on myself, while still treating him the way he deserves.
I don't understand how the timing of this worked out as perfectly as it did, but I am so glad it did. I'm going through a breakup, it'll be a week since come tomorrow and up until a couple hours ago I really thought I was losing my mind. I realized that I was grasping at any little thing to figure out "why" it happened, why it happened so soon, if it was the right thing to do, if we had made a mistake breaking up. This is the first breakup where I felt SO many emotions coming through me all at once; frustration, sadness, confusion, an overall feeling of being lost. I truly felt like I was going crazy. Your video really just opened my eyes to something I've been feeling amongst all these other emotions, and made me realize that I AM supposed to go through these emotions, there IS a reason for this whether I see it right now or not, this did happen for MY better go and his.I just came from your "putting yourself first" video from November and now I can honestly say, that the Universe is telling me something, the Universe is showing me that these things needed to happen because my transformation, my manifestation into the person I am meant to be is coming. I am still sad and working through the motions and allowing myself to feel what I feel, but you're right. As the days go by, my chest begins to feel a little lighter, the tears start to dry from my eyes, the knots in my stomach are starting to loosen up, slowly, but surely nevertheless. Thank you Leeor, I am happy that I saw this video when I did, and to everyone else out there going through the same thing, you're not alone, WE are going and GROWING through this. I will be okay and so will you
This year my biggest crush ever rejected me. What hurt the most is that I put my all into manifesting him and completely felt lost when it didn’t turn out the way i imagined. Now, more than half a year later I understand why it had to happen like this. I had to work on my limiting beliefs about love and men, heal trauma, break generational curses, learn to love myself and see my worth. I truly believe I have a soul contract with this person. He taught me so much about love, myself, the Law of Attraction and without him rejecting me I wouldn’t be where I am now. I’m so thankful 🙏🏻 and by now I know that we can be together and meet again some day in the future ❤️
Yeag, I like seeing it as an opportunity for evolving when things break... I like looking at it as a BREAKING to the INCREASE. Plus, I imagine and feel that Divine Purpose is always in the works. 🙏👁⭐ If anyone else is reading this comment, May everything that looks like a breakdown reveal itself to be a breakthrough! 💎
My boyfriend and I broke up days after my birthday on November. It left me devastated. But I am actually quick in healing. I got to realize quickly how it's not just his fault why we broke up. I was actually becoming very toxic. Without this process, I never would've fully reflect back on the things that I did. I could've taken him for granted up until now. This video is really helpful. I got to shift my perspective and now I'm more open.
Thank you for these comforting words; the journey to self discovery is an emotional roller coaster, and sometimes the pain runs deep. But, it is like going through the fire so one can cleanse and the feel a beautiful light shining brighter in one’s heart so that it can be shared and celebrated.
I think one of the best things I've learnt is everyone is doing the best they can and you cant force someone to evolve at your pace and its all happening in divine timing FOR YOU
So I really felt like sharing this. All the tips that you gave in this video were what I have been doing by and large. For someone who wonders whether these tips work or not. They do work. Here is some of my top most favourite: 1) Talk to your most closest friends, a therapist and a neutral friend (sometimes it may lead to some drama if that person reveals this conversation to your ex but it helps you see things from their point of view too) 2) Everytime you feel overwhelmed, take a sheet of paper and write down your emotions, read them after and then throw them away to let go 3) Gratitude Journal and meditation everyday, every other day, every week etc 4) Cut contact. Block if you need to. Don't take it as something you do to get back at/with them. Do it as blocking out the source of negative energies to hibernate enough to heal yourself. Lastly, there still might be times where you experience the pain. Don't think like "Why am I still sad?". It's okay. You're still in the process like Leeor said. Hang in there! :')
ive just gone through a break up with someone i still believe and have a feeling inside will be my life partner. he said he just wants to be alone at this stage in life, at first like you said, i thought whats wrong with him, i gave him everything. but now even though it was painful, ive learned to let him go and do what he needs to do to feel good. i know that one day we can come back and be even better than before. sometimes a breakup is necessary like you said to realize these faults or something deep within ourselves.
“Your story can help someone immensely, so please share it.” If you go to Leeor’s last videos about heartache and working through pain, somewhere in the sea of comments is a broken version of myself, completely lost and confused after such a painful breakup. It took me about 8 months to get to where I am now. I am a completely different person, and I fully understand what a gift that breakup was. I have fallen in love with life in a more meaningful way, and have fallen in love with myself for what may be the first time in my life. Colors are more vibrant and something as simple as wind hitting my face as I step out of my house is all it takes to move me to tears of gratitude. I was not at my fullest potential with my ex, it was as though SO MUCH was waiting to be born through me! I still feel sad some days, and knowing he is with another girl can still cause a little sting, but I would never want to be in that relationship again! I would not give up a SECOND of the things I’ve learned for a lifetime with him. I even used to have such terrible stomach problems, I was constantly in pain and it affected every area of my life! That slowly went away as I let go of him, and I understand it was anxiety or a gut feeling I was ignoring! If anybody is reading this, all I can say is to TRUST the process, trust that it really is a gift, be open to the possibility that this is the BEST CASE SCENARIO! 🌱🌱🌟🌟💓💓 (this is coming from someone who was in a very emotionally abusive 3 year relationship with someone I loved DEEPLY, who was my best friend before any of it started. I believed he was my twin flame, I believed he was going to be the man I would marry)
I have just now gone through this phase it's been a two months and i really thought that m gone die by that pain can't handle it more but listen you beautiful soul " Trust me when you start seeing your worth you stop giving fuck about it" when this all was happening i just keep saying that "Everything happens for a good reason and that reason will reveal soon i trust my god" I'll only say that if you are suffering please let emotions flow if you want to cry cry want to laugh laugh want to sleep all the sleep just don't rush over anything just give yourself more time and love stop being harsh on self saying that might me your mistake NO ITS NOT they didn't left you god removed them from your life that is only truth also stay strong anyone need to talk you can reply to this comment i would be so happy to help you 😊❤️
Just had a friendship breakup and was wondering what am I supposed to do now. I asked and universe to give me an answer and here it is. Today itself 😍. Tysm universe for hearing and helping me out. Glad to be a part of baby elephant🐘
Sometimes I feel like the pain we experience post breakup is actually just from unresolved childhood attachment trauma/issues. I know for a fact that the pain a breakup triggers in me comes from that. I love what you're saying about pain being a part of life _sometimes_. I however, feel there has been so much pain in my life, too much pain to even bear/comprehend, that I am so tired now of feeling it again and again. I think for some, not accepting or fearing pain comes from this. Having had a difficult life, and so on. It's not easy being a person with mental illness (stemming from childhood trauma) trying to practice my spiritual beliefs, because everyone in this community seems so happy-go-lucky and calm about life, like they've figured it all out. The last time I was broken up with, all of the pain that came up was so incredibly intense and there was so much of it, that I just wanted to die. I was unstable for sure. I know this stems from codependency, among other things. I've been working on myself slowly since then and am hopefully more stable now, but still hurting. I'm just wondering... when will all of this pain be worth it. When will I become this calm, wise and generally easy-going person who can handle life's hurdles? I know I evolved massively after the breakup because my mind/consciousness shifted to higher realities. But I'm still struggling every day. Still ruminating about the breakup, and my entire life really. I still feel sorta stuck. I struggle with trusting people. This work is so great, I get overwhelmed and hopeless. Yes, sometimes life gives us painful experiences. And sometimes it feels like all life has to offer is lesson after lesson through pain. I hope in writing this, that someone resonates and can relate with my experience, that is very colored by my negativity (as I am very well aware). I don't want to be negative since it's not exactly "high-vibe", but I also don't want to hide it. It's okay to be miserable and feel unlucky in life sometimes. I wish we all get to a place where having hope and trusting the Universe will be easy for us.
I have been thinking about this person since we broke up years ago. I thought we were gonna be together and he let go of me. I was angry,, that led me to be thinking about him for years. I don't regret the time that I wasn't being true to myself.. And to be quite honest I'm not even close to being ready for anything else... Point is there was a time throughout the years that I really thought I couldn't be happy alone... Or I knew I could be happy alone I just didn't want to be alone.... now I am content with isolation, beginning my healing process.. Currently I still have thoughts of him... I'm not the best at articulating myself but I'm the only me there is. I just hope we all can find Peace & Love within ourselves to avoid this pain and heartache in the future
This resonates so much, the biggest heartbreak I had, was also one of the biggest blessings in my life. I became more loving, more open, allowed myself to be more secure in myself, and also be more vulnerable and allowing to the help, love and care of others. In a way I integrated more smaller parts of me and created more solid structures. It is a beautiful process! beautiful! There's beauty in every single aspect of life, including pain! And I cried, I mourned, I suffered, but I also felt so small and vulnerable, and I loved it. I loved seeing these parts of myself, accepting, allowing them loving them. Today I know myself so much more, my love for me is rooted in how much I trust myself and know that I'm always there to do the best for me. I know it is not an easy process, and in the beginning, I dread feeling my pain, but believe me, sit with it, listen to it. I used to say I felt like I was dying, and I was. a part of me was, I mourned her death, I mourned it, and I allowed it. And today I truly feel like I am a butterfly, like I went through a metamorphosis. It took me time, it took me silence and space. I had to talk, let it out, often, and in the midst, I learned that we can't rush healing. Healing happens at healings pace. And that's how it becomes really solid. I welcome you in your pain with compassion and true understanding. I know that pain in your chest. Welcome it, allow it, she deserves to speak, she wants to speak so allow it, and learn the beautiful things she has to tell you. Be compassionate, use affirmations, journal walk, talk, breathe, sleep, cry, yell, do whatever you need. You deserve to be felt, you deserve to take up space, you deserve to be heard
TRUST IN IT it really does get better!!!! 5 years ago I was suffering in a relationship, after finally ending it I felt like I couldn't live anymore. I had lost all hope, all awareness of who I am. Well here we are now :) Blooming, thriving, living a beautiful life full of love!!!
Leeor, I just woke up by jet lag in the home my recently no longer boyfriend and I live(d) in the bed we shared, alone. As soon as my mind woke up I tried repeating to myself “ I’m ok I’m ok I’m ok I’m ok” and not let the sadness overcome me. But thoughts of hurt and hard realities over powered me. I felt the feelings a shed a few tears and decided to open TH-cam to distract myself and the first video that shows up in my screen is this. Just another reminder of how this is the right thing for me and I will be okay. Such divine timing. A message to show me this is the right path And try to focus on this perspective. Thank you for being such a light. Ps. While I was going through the hardest days of this break up during my time away in Bali with him, I would find myself clicking on your videos to have mental and emotional breaks and feel your contagious high vibrations and give me hope Thank you
Dearest Leeor! I need to tell you this! Two days ago, on Sunday night I was talking to my helper and he got a new blue tin and as I was reaching for it in total excitement I've just realised YOU have totally COME THROUGH!!! I was talking about lots of things and on leaving he was just saying all will be fine just remember to keep your vibes up high! I was and am blown away I told him now you are also a carrier of the Crystalline Diamond Light Codes....... This was so exhilarating! Thank You So Much!!! 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
I broke up with my BF 2 weeks ago. He mentally drained me. It was changing me for the worst. I had to walk away. I’ve cried. I’ve felt the pain. But I’m ready to move forward. I’m ready to grow and transform. I’m ready to learn from this experience. This video came at the most perfect time. 💛✨
I am in disbelief right now.. wow. my girlfriend of 2 years and I just broke up last night and this morning I started journaling to ask for guidance through this time and I’m literally half way through journaling and this video notification popped up up on my phone.. THANK YOU
I look back at my ex and I’s relationship and how I felt when it ended in 2019 and then lastly in 2020 and I see a hugggeeee difference in how I feel, how I know myself, how proud of myself I am, how confident I am, how loved I am by myself, how much I’ve accomplished, and how much stronger I am from rising up out of that heartbreak I never thought I’d have to endure. This ending taught me so much about myself and what I’m made of because I had to go deep deep within to heal myself so I can be okay and keep moving forward. It wasn’t a fast or easy journey and we should all know that healing isn’t linear some days you’ll just need to cry when you thought you were okay about the situation. That’s perfectly normal and okay. You’ll be okay. I promise you will. Start doing new things that you love. It helped me a lot to get into new activities like writing poetry and taking photos at the park alongside the water. It helped me to create solace and connect with what wanted to connect with me but also to get my emotions out on the page and feel supported by nature simultaneously. No matter what, just do things that you love when you have the energy to. It will get easier to live as you heal. Let your tears fall always as they come. If your mind is busy about it just start writing something. I did this one activity where I wrote out all the terrible things my ex said to me that made me feel different about myself on a page in little word bubbles. And on another page I wrote out all the nice things my other loved ones had said to me in word bubbles. It felt so good to get out the awful things because they didn’t ever belong to me and to write down all the things that did 🥰🙏🏻✨ if you want to do this I recommend burning the awful things after. It hits different when you burn in I’m not entirely sure why. Just know you are meant to be exactly where you are because you are receiving everything you need to become the person you are becoming. Just keep doing all those things you love, create a self care routine that makes you feel cute and cared for, and find some new music you love. I promise you’ll feel better in time. This won’t be so heavy forever. It’s been a little over a year since my ex and I spoke and I don’t look at her Instagram anymore or anything. I found it’s easy to clear her from my mind, and step into my power if I don’t. I spoke to her in my mind and I know she could hear me and I said you left me, I never deserved that. You chose someone else. You abandoned me. You can never replace me. I get it if this was what you thought was best but you’ve lost Me. I felt an energy switch after I stepped into my power and I saw her face get red in my mind. Don’t ever chase anyone who’s not already choosing you. You are amazing in every way that you exist. You have everything you need inside of you. Never look back to someone who disrespected you on the way out as if you were nothing to leave. Even if it was an ego trip or a defense mechanism. It wasn’t what you deserved. They don’t deserve the space in your mind y’all. Step into your power. Know your worth. You got thisssss
I am about to cry. I’m about to cry so bad because this is literally all I needed. This was my sign, my message, my desire. Thank u sm Leeor for always being so open and real and helping us ❤️❤️💘 my heart is so full and alive rn. Ugh I love you!
I watched a lot of your videos, but I haven’t seen this one. This video showed up on my suggestions at the right time. Thanks for making this video. ❤️
Totally needed this right now, after three years my partner unexpectedly called it quits, we live together so it made things more difficult and honestly we have always been best friends in our relationship so at first I was angry as I felt abandoned. This all made so much sense to me I’ll be working on myself the hardest now 🪐💜
Being the one that broke up with my ex made me view this video differently. But I too have gotten my heart broken. But in this instance, it was still nice to hear this because even for the person doing the breaking up it's not always easy. I had been lying to myself about being happy and feeling loved in the relationship so I had to proceed with self-love in my heart and do what I know I needed to do. Him and his friends are trying to shame me and guilt trip me but I know staying in that relationship wouldn't have been helping either of us. As for all of you dealing with heartache, I feel for you and you are not alone. Just remember this too shall pass.
This video truly helped me on my way to healing. I came back to it after about a month or so and it’s unimaginable how much better I’m getting everyday. I feel empowered, perfect and peace. Thank you Leeor for being who you are. You are the one who taught be all about LoA. I am much obliged to you. Be blessed, always!
Writing this while with tear filled eyes! Thanks babe for all the words. I was so hard on myself. Thanks for making me feel important and special. I always feel that i'm loved, and when I get someone loving me I will so hard on them that I crave and dominant over them (just to ensure the love that they show isn't lost) I lost my dad at the early age, may this is what is making me get attached to never seen love when it pops from someone. And soon they get busy along their life which keeps me devastated. Learning to progress in self love. Soon will get over this. Love and peace to all those who are craving for it. You are not alone
What a light you are Leeor. You are so gifted and we are all so lucky that YOU did the work, and that YOU were brave enough to embrace your gifts and share them with us. Love and light 🦋
I separated from my childrens father earlier this year. I was hurt and expected him to make me feel better. As time went on, and all the lies come out I actually wasnt surprised, everything just clicked. Because untill then I thought there was something wrong with me. But now I realise that what had happened was a reflection of him and his troubles. There was a cycle that was repeating and getting louder each time we had words/discussion about our relationship and I fully believe things were happening to make me realise he was not meant for me at this moment in time. The months that followed I put more time into myself, did things that I wanted to do with my new 'freedom', I am no longer dependent on another person to make me feel happy. I am the only one that can do this. Its all a lesson, I was meant to be on my own to find myself again and to grow as a person. To learn to love myself before I can love another. We are all independent and have our own journey in this life. I fully believe what is meant to be will be. Watching this video just made things that more clearer ❤️
I am glad you made this video!!5 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up,and everyone told me to move on,you're much better etc...none of that helped my situation,all I wanted to do is sit and feel the pain and understand it..Today I havent still recovered from all the pain,but I am definitely grateful that I sat with my feelings and took time to understand them..
If you feel like you’re less of yourself when you’re with someone then you know something is wrong. I have an adoring father who put me on a pedestal but the downside is that there’s not a lot of room to move on that pedestal and I was always afraid of disappointing him and other men. When I got into relationships I tried to be perfect. That never worked. I always felt so free once I had broken up with someone. It takes time and reflection to grow from that and be able to be yourself with a partner.
I had someone who i began falling for and i genuinely felt so much for him. He was and still is my first ever true heartbreak. He allowed my heart to feel such a deep and wonderful connection to someone. It only lasted a couple months but to me, its quality over quantity. Its been almost two years and i still feel this connection to him. We see each other and sometimes interact in our program, which is soon coming to an end, and sometimes i find myself so sad, not because he hurt me, but because i miss him and i miss those feelings i was able to feel being with someone i connected with so well. I know from experience working on myself and putting energy into myself allows things to come to me and want me. However i feel this energy and the feelings i still hold for him are holding me back from allowing another guy, who could possibly give me so much more than this guy had, in. I hope to and will come back in good time and share that i’ve been free of any sadness related to him and that i’ve allowed the universe to pair me with a man i feel even more for ✨
I haven't gone through any bad breakups but this has been really helpful with me getting up the courage to allow myself to give my all to a relationship if that makes sense? I'm always so guarded, but I don't want to be anymore and don't feel like the way I've been is serving me in any way, especially when I've started feeling differently towards a friend and actually allowing myself to when before I would immediately pump the breaks because I assumed it would ruin the friendship, but hey, maybe it's time to be brave
You can also be the one to end it but don’t want too. As in my case the relationship wasn’t healthy and needed to end but I didn’t want it to. Definitely a lot of repeated hurt, It was time for me to get back to feeling good rather than bad. still sad and miss her though 😞
Everything in life that we endure is serving purpose as a vehicle to an expanded version of ourselves. Everything, good and bad, Our soul has called it in, in order to find our true and relieve ourselves from that suffering. we learn each time. be open to receiving more gifts. Positive and negative as they are always serving purpose. I went through the heart-wrenching break up at the beginning of the year, I felt abandoned and so lost. The rejection, brought me closer to myself, I used to cry myself to sleep every night and slowly it just stopped. I started loving myself, and now I am honestly transformed! IF this is you right now, I promise you will get through it! Refocus your attention onto yourself and you will grow more than you will ever know.
I went through such a heartbreak a few weeks ago, I wish I saw this video when I was at my lowest! So true, meditation helped me a lot and self-affirmations
“miracles are simply a shift in perspective” ! 🌟
Melissa Mascorro from a guys perspective this was very insightful. Thanks for sharing
I’m 2 min in but I wanted to share something! When you said “it was honestly made for you,” it reminded me of a very intense meditation I had not too long after my breakup. I was a wreck, I was extremely emotional with no signs of feeling better after months. In that specific moment, I was feeling so sad over my ex moving on so quickly, but over some specific thing he said. I decided to meditate to stop the tears from streaming, and I lost track of time. I remember hearing a voice in my head that said “can’t you see that this was perfectly crafted for you? can’t you see how this situation was created to bring this exact emotion out of you? can’t you see how you’re expanding, how this is YOURS, how this is beautiful?” The voice didn’t feel like it was coming from myself, like it was coming from someone who cares about me or maybe my higher self. After that thought, I realized just how silly the situation I was upset about was. It was so detailed and perfect, and I know it would not have affected anyone the way it did me, it would not have triggered anyone else the same way because it was MADE for ME. Since then, I seemed to have let go of the heartbreak and the past relationship at an exponential rate!
Wow this is amazing thank you so much for sharing your story 💚
Melaylay Hey your words inspired me so much... I am in a very complicated situation right now haha 😅 is there any way to get in touch with you? I would love to talk to you if you’re up for that. I would love to have a spiritual friend to talk to. ❤️ I hope that’s not weird to ask 😅
i love this so much wow
Anna egb it’s not weird at all 🥺 i would love some spiritual friends too!! My insta is the same username as here @ Melaylay :) you can message me there 💓💓💓💓
This is so beautiful!! I started meditating 3days ago and I started crying for the first time earlier today during meditation.So many emotions...It was out of this world🙏💞
Late-girlfriend passed away last year, I finally transcended , and really know that she is always with me , much more than always in my heart.
Much love to you ♥️
That's beautiful
I listened to this last night. I got a call from my person at 4 in the morning begging to come to my house. I said no and now I’m the one with the power again. I can’t thank u enough this stuff works. ❤❤
My ex broke up with me 2 months ago because he wanted to be with someone else and until now he didn't talk to me again, me in the other hand I've suffered a lot of pain and heartache and feelings of being not good enough and to be honest I'm still going through them but I realised there is no other way out the only way is to go through it and feel every emotion it will hurt less day by day, my goal is self-love I wanna find myself and love myself before I think of loving anyone else, I hope anyone that is going through the same thing I'm going through to heal sooner than later sending you so much love and light❤️
@Hollie Schaefer you are welcome 😊
Yoo Jin do people get there?
@Nicky's Art Channel thank u so so much you made my day ❤️✨
Yes, it all starts with self love! I'm sending blessings to you:)
Hi i am also dealing with same situation so for u its been a year would u like to share some advice please
Key points
1. Its no longer their job to make you feel better
2. This is not happening to you , its happening for you
3. If you put the energy back on yourself , they will likely want you back (not that them coming back is the focus here)
4. What can you do to become a better person
5. Something is being reflected back to you , explore it
Me and my ex boyfriend broke up 5 months ago and i was heartbroken. He was my first serious partner and i have so much love for him as he has for me, but his commitment issues got to him at a certain point and he had to end it. I was devastated. I took a week off from any gatherings or hangouts and cried till i couldn't cry anymore. I let myself steep in those flashbacks, i read old text messages, i went through our songs and photos. I let myself feel the pain, so i could start seeing situation more clearly. And then, with my intentions set, i went on a journey to find myself. My relationship was great, but like i once told him, "you bring out the worst in me" which he really did. All of the attachment issues, lack of confidence and self respect, being avoidant and dishonest, all of the qualities surfaced as i tried to navigate my way through my first relationship. In those 5 months i have completely changed as a person and become the version of myself i strived to be in the beginning of 2019. Every time i think about where i was not so long ago and where i am now i get all teary-eyed cause this can't be real, right? Well wrong. I conquered my compulsive lying habits, i conquered the art block, i realized just how powerful and amazing and awesome i really am! I started meditating daily and hyping myself up, my art is thriving and people around me notice my growth too. I have never felt better about feeling bad, cause now, i know that every time i feel pain, at the end of the day after a little bit of journaling, i find out more about myself and the roots of my feelings.
I'm still not over that person, but i don't just sit and wait for him anymore. I work hard on myself and my craft every day. I love me, and you should too.
Mari Darjania I love this so much!!! I relate on every single level! My past relationship definitely mirrored parts of myself that needed healing, and I’m much more myself than ever. Even started taking photos and painting for the first time in years! 💓💓
I love this!!! I still sometimes don't understand why we change so negatively like that and all these issues come up...Why is it that I'm so happy with him but yet so miserable bc I have trust issues etc. But then when I was single...I smiled a lot, I could be with myself and enjoy my time alone but once I got in a relationship...why couldn't I be that same bubbly person but instead, constantly negative.
@@nikkitran2745 i guess it's about self analysis and introspection. Really getting to the core of the problem so you can then let go. Healthy partnership won't make you feel so unsafe, after you honor your issues and let them go. Hope you have an amazing day love!
@@maridarjania8015 awww thank you so much!!! 🥺❤
here’s my story of how i manifested my best relationship so far :)
half a year ago i was dating this guy whom i thought to be meant for me on the long run. he’s completely different than the previous boys i’ve dated (ethnicity, his respect for me, our understanding+ respect for each other, maturity etc). that made me think that our relationship would last more than all my precious ones (i was stuck in a one month karmic cycle it was weird) during our relationship i was going through an awakening and was feeling super great about life. but he ended up breaking up with me 2 weeks into the relationship while i was on a trip.
i decided that, even tho i felt hurt and a bit disillusioned, it was what the universe had in store for me and i should trust the universe and let him go. i told him we could still be friends and i shifted my focus back on myself.
as i did, he tried to get back with me and was basically begging to... i told him i wanted to just be friends and i waited for something that made me feel better. because i didn’t want to settle for anything less anymore.
when we met again weeks after the breakup, i still had major feelings for him, but i told myself it was just a part of my ego bc he’s what felt comfortable and so i held myself back and waited.
a few weeks later he went back to his own country and i started hanging out with his best friend. we started getting along really well and there was just a huggeee spark. the whole thing morally felt a bit wrong but everything else felt right. we decided at the end to be together and trust that it will work out.
it did and now it has been the best relationship i hv ever had. we learn so much from each other and am growing together. it reflects so much of my state and where i am. there is a lot of trust and balance. and most importantly, i have broken my 1 month cycle :) 4 months in and strong :)
“We don’t learn through mediocrity” beautiful 👌🏼
I totally agree with meditation, started meditating 4 weeks before my break up, 1 week before my breakup i actually dreamt of the breakup. Yes im gutted, yes i still love him, but i really appreciate the break up right now as i realised i missed me more. I lost my way. So we stayed friends and i am now letting him go and working on myself. I have started to work on my confidence by taking my self out to the cinema on my own, doing something i love. Giving myself time and i have lots of other plans to do on my own. This alone is helping my depression and anxiety. I am going to get my old confident self back and raise my vibrations more than ever. He will be back but only when the time is right. The universe will take care of that. I believe. Continue to share the love leeor. Xxx
"i realised i missed me more"
this hit close to home
@@a.b.9830 its time to make ourselves number 1.
sending so much love your way 💓💓💓 “I missed me more” struck a cord
@@melissamascorro9682 Thankyou. Sending love back to you. 💌
Relate.
To anyone working through a broken heart, what helped me was 1) practicing the feeling of real unconditional love, particularly to the person that “broke” your heart 2) recognize that a broken heart is just you viewing the situation in complete opposition to your inner being (higher self) 3) zoom out from the situation, look at the situation in relationship to your whole life, the whole world, the whole universe.
Be patient and kind with yourself ❤️
TIMING PERFECT AS USUAL
9:10 reminds me of something I wrote I thought I might share.
"my heart had to be broken open
so it could grow larger
a space to hold even more love
as love is infinite and immeasurable
perhaps my heart will have to be broken a million times over
to be able to contain it all"
thank you y mucho amor!
nenia120 this made me tear up. This is so beautiful thank you 💕
@@maeokae 💖💖💖
This is actually a very comforting piece. Thank you for sharing.
@@donleykay8526 💛💛💛
This is so good, thank you ❤
i didnt want this video to end.. you're words are so comforting & re-assuring. were all in this together we all experience similar emotions and you make it easy to not shy away from them when we feel them or judge ourselves for the thing we feel. ITs what the human experience is about..
I really don't UNDERSTAND how you post exactly when I need it, it's almost miraculous. I am going through a break up and watching your videos always help.
Much much love. ♡
I know a very good spell caster in Africa he is a very smart and nice coach, he can help you with your relationship. here is his WhatsApp number:
+ 2 3 4 8 1 5 1 7 4 1 1 5 8. He works very fast.
Same here
Leeor, Im littarly crying right now. My ex and I just broke up this week after being with each other for almost four years, I've been watching all your other TH-cam videos for guidance. This is perfect timing. I am truly grateful thank you, thank you✨🙏
mekhi morgan best of luck, love!
Sending love from the baby elephants 🐘:)
I also feel this being divine timing that Leeor uploaded this now, as my ex( weird to use that word) and I just broke up also for the past 8-9 days ( we were away in Bali together when this happened) and we’ve also been together for almost 5 years. And lived together. We got back to our hometown 2 days ago and yesterday he left home and we separated. And it hurts and I’m scared as it’s something new. But I know this is happening for me. And for him to. So I’m trying to hold on to the knowledge of this being the right thing
mekhi morgan it simply hurts to separate from this person you’ve talked to every single day without fail for almost 5 years, that you’ve spent almost every single day with for that long. Feels like losing a limb
I hope you find every day getting easier I’m sending you love and healing vibes
My ex broke up with me 4 months ago, I was so destroyed, I didnt think I could continue life without him, but I took one day at a time and now Im stronger than ever. Ive learned so much about myself after the breakup, Ive learned that Im so strong and I can survive anything. Today Im single and happier than Ive ever been. So if you are going through a bad time, believe me Ive been in your shoes. I promise you things will get better, they will even get more than better, you will thrive, I guarantee that. And always remember " A mans rejection is Gods protection."
Seriously ..I had a breakup 2 hours ago. And 1 hour ago this was posted
I love your channel! 🥰
I just want to quickly share my experience. I broke up with my ex because he cheated on me while I was pregnant and I have never felt so low and broken in my life. Being hormonal seem to have made it very difficult to meditate and get grounded. I was depressed, had low self esteem, and would cry myself to sleep almost every night. In all that I was searching for some positivity because I knew deep down that I can’t stay in this low vibe. So I stopped following certain pages on social media as well as take multiple breaks from social media, I stopped stalking my ex on social media and blocked him so I wouldn’t see how “happy” he seemed without me. And I indulged myself in watching all of these spiritual uplifting videos on TH-cam and started meditating more. It’s been almost 4 months since the initial breakup and I’ve never felt better. I realized what he did had nothing to do with me and that was a lesson he needed to learn. I’ve learned how to control my emotions better and communicate what I need in a more effective way. I also was able to realize some childhood trauma i needed to heal from that I didn’t know I had. As much as going through that experience hurt, it helped me grow in my spiritual journey, find peace within myself, and I am a better person because of it. I’m still growing and learning but if that situation didn’t happen, I wouldn’t be the person I am today. I also realized one of my purposes in life and have a business venture I’m working on. I pray whoever is going through breakups and dealing with heartache that you find peace and just know that it really does get better! ☺️💕
I'm going through a breakup and I heard recently Rejection is Protection! And its really helped me! Thank you Leeor this video is perfect and exactly what I've been trying to do and my Ex tried to get back with me but the time apart made me realize he wasn't meant to stay in my life.
I know a very good spell caster in Africa he is a very smart and nice coach, he can help you with your relationship. here is his WhatsApp number:
+ 2 3 4 8 1 5 1 7 4 1 1 5 8. He works very fast.
I broke up with my boyfriend at the end of March and I just knew I needed time to work on myself and I knew I couldn’t if I was in a relationship because I’m someone who pours 20000% into the relationship (which is one of the reasons I needed self healing). We just recently got back together again after having our own separate journeys and we feel stronger than ever
Oh Leeor, the truth in your words is beyond. Just a year ago I experienced the hardest breakup I believe I ever will go through. The amount of pain was unimaginable but in short, that pain brought me here. I asked for a sign before the breakup and the universe delivered to me the very next day. I have never been closer to God, this Universe or my angels than I am right now. The most dreadful pain brought me to clarity, to my awakening. I had no idea of such, I just knew something within and around me was changing. Since that very day of the breakup, my life has never been the same, it changed, I changed. The change was beyond me, the shift was upon me. The most beautiful thing I have witnessed to this day. If I could offer any words to a broken heart, it is to feel. Feel every bit of what your heart is feeling. Know you are about to experience beauty far passed your wildest imagination. I was absolutely broken and thought I'd never feel complete again. Today, I can say I am absolutely in love with the being that I am, this journey has been amazingly beautiful. I would go through that breakup a million times only to be where I am this very moment. Smile, so much more that is meant for you is ahead. xo.
I'm struggling to move on from my first love/soulmate since 3 years now, give or take.. I needed some real advice for real, and you are it! Leeor I'm so thankful for you
Me too, we shall overcome..its painful. But time heals everything.
Im in the same situation😭
Damn it’s been a year for me this gives me no hope I wanna get over it already wahhh
I know a very good spell caster in Africa he is a very smart and nice coach, he can help you with your relationship. here is his WhatsApp number:
+ 2 3 4 8 1 5 1 7 4 1 1 5 8. He works very fast.
@@iuliatolea3948 this is gonna get over soon, fingerscrossed 😭
So much has changed in my life since I took back the power my husband had over me; and ever since I’ve been working on self love. I started the beginning of the pandemic and my husband and I are still married for 23 years and he treats me so much better now. I will continue focusing on myself, while still treating him the way he deserves.
My ex just text me 10 mins ago after a really draining 4 years. Glad this video popped up.
I don't understand how the timing of this worked out as perfectly as it did, but I am so glad it did. I'm going through a breakup, it'll be a week since come tomorrow and up until a couple hours ago I really thought I was losing my mind. I realized that I was grasping at any little thing to figure out "why" it happened, why it happened so soon, if it was the right thing to do, if we had made a mistake breaking up. This is the first breakup where I felt SO many emotions coming through me all at once; frustration, sadness, confusion, an overall feeling of being lost. I truly felt like I was going crazy. Your video really just opened my eyes to something I've been feeling amongst all these other emotions, and made me realize that I AM supposed to go through these emotions, there IS a reason for this whether I see it right now or not, this did happen for MY better go and his.I just came from your "putting yourself first" video from November and now I can honestly say, that the Universe is telling me something, the Universe is showing me that these things needed to happen because my transformation, my manifestation into the person I am meant to be is coming. I am still sad and working through the motions and allowing myself to feel what I feel, but you're right. As the days go by, my chest begins to feel a little lighter, the tears start to dry from my eyes, the knots in my stomach are starting to loosen up, slowly, but surely nevertheless. Thank you Leeor, I am happy that I saw this video when I did, and to everyone else out there going through the same thing, you're not alone, WE are going and GROWING through this. I will be okay and so will you
it’s been 6 months since my breakup and i workout everyday and started manifesting my dream self. just ate a healthy breakfast
This got randomly recommended to me thank you 🙏🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼
This year my biggest crush ever rejected me. What hurt the most is that I put my all into manifesting him and completely felt lost when it didn’t turn out the way i imagined. Now, more than half a year later I understand why it had to happen like this. I had to work on my limiting beliefs about love and men, heal trauma, break generational curses, learn to love myself and see my worth. I truly believe I have a soul contract with this person. He taught me so much about love, myself, the Law of Attraction and without him rejecting me I wouldn’t be where I am now. I’m so thankful 🙏🏻 and by now I know that we can be together and meet again some day in the future ❤️
Yeag, I like seeing it as an opportunity for evolving when things break... I like looking at it as a BREAKING to the INCREASE. Plus, I imagine and feel that Divine Purpose is always in the works. 🙏👁⭐ If anyone else is reading this comment, May everything that looks like a breakdown reveal itself to be a breakthrough! 💎
My boyfriend and I broke up days after my birthday on November. It left me devastated. But I am actually quick in healing. I got to realize quickly how it's not just his fault why we broke up. I was actually becoming very toxic. Without this process, I never would've fully reflect back on the things that I did. I could've taken him for granted up until now. This video is really helpful. I got to shift my perspective and now I'm more open.
Please dive deeper into this. I still feel knots in my stomach and heart about it. Thanx Leeor.
I cried through this entire video. I needed this. ❤
I felt her words..i did all what she said without realizing...ik i am in the right path
I needed this, especially after going through some rough friendship breakups recently!! I can't wait to hear your advice
Thank you for these comforting words; the journey to self discovery is an emotional roller coaster, and sometimes the pain runs deep. But, it is like going through the fire so one can cleanse and the feel a beautiful light shining brighter in one’s heart so that it can be shared and celebrated.
No matter what it is that you're going through, you have the strength to overcome it, you are wonderful, beautiful and special ♡
I think one of the best things I've learnt is everyone is doing the best they can and you cant force someone to evolve at your pace and its all happening in divine timing FOR YOU
I am in the process right now, so I will return back in a few months with my story of victory.
So I really felt like sharing this. All the tips that you gave in this video were what I have been doing by and large. For someone who wonders whether these tips work or not. They do work. Here is some of my top most favourite:
1) Talk to your most closest friends, a therapist and a neutral friend (sometimes it may lead to some drama if that person reveals this conversation to your ex but it helps you see things from their point of view too)
2) Everytime you feel overwhelmed, take a sheet of paper and write down your emotions, read them after and then throw them away to let go
3) Gratitude Journal and meditation everyday, every other day, every week etc
4) Cut contact. Block if you need to. Don't take it as something you do to get back at/with them. Do it as blocking out the source of negative energies to hibernate enough to heal yourself.
Lastly, there still might be times where you experience the pain. Don't think like "Why am I still sad?". It's okay. You're still in the process like Leeor said.
Hang in there! :')
ive just gone through a break up with someone i still believe and have a feeling inside will be my life partner. he said he just wants to be alone at this stage in life, at first like you said, i thought whats wrong with him, i gave him everything. but now even though it was painful, ive learned to let him go and do what he needs to do to feel good. i know that one day we can come back and be even better than before. sometimes a breakup is necessary like you said to realize these faults or something deep within ourselves.
sb wow our situation sounds identical.
Same Here, eaxct Same Situation
@@caligirl1408 what does it meaaaan
@@leahwolfe1325 lmao we just have t keep going
“Your story can help someone immensely, so please share it.” If you go to Leeor’s last videos about heartache and working through pain, somewhere in the sea of comments is a broken version of myself, completely lost and confused after such a painful breakup. It took me about 8 months to get to where I am now. I am a completely different person, and I fully understand what a gift that breakup was. I have fallen in love with life in a more meaningful way, and have fallen in love with myself for what may be the first time in my life. Colors are more vibrant and something as simple as wind hitting my face as I step out of my house is all it takes to move me to tears of gratitude. I was not at my fullest potential with my ex, it was as though SO MUCH was waiting to be born through me! I still feel sad some days, and knowing he is with another girl can still cause a little sting, but I would never want to be in that relationship again! I would not give up a SECOND of the things I’ve learned for a lifetime with him. I even used to have such terrible stomach problems, I was constantly in pain and it affected every area of my life! That slowly went away as I let go of him, and I understand it was anxiety or a gut feeling I was ignoring! If anybody is reading this, all I can say is to TRUST the process, trust that it really is a gift, be open to the possibility that this is the BEST CASE SCENARIO! 🌱🌱🌟🌟💓💓 (this is coming from someone who was in a very emotionally abusive 3 year relationship with someone I loved DEEPLY, who was my best friend before any of it started. I believed he was my twin flame, I believed he was going to be the man I would marry)
I have just now gone through this phase it's been a two months and i really thought that m gone die by that pain can't handle it more but listen you beautiful soul " Trust me when you start seeing your worth you stop giving fuck about it" when this all was happening i just keep saying that "Everything happens for a good reason and that reason will reveal soon i trust my god" I'll only say that if you are suffering please let emotions flow if you want to cry cry want to laugh laugh want to sleep all the sleep just don't rush over anything just give yourself more time and love stop being harsh on self saying that might me your mistake NO ITS NOT they didn't left you god removed them from your life that is only truth also stay strong anyone need to talk you can reply to this comment i would be so happy to help you 😊❤️
Just had a friendship breakup and was wondering what am I supposed to do now. I asked and universe to give me an answer and here it is. Today itself 😍. Tysm universe for hearing and helping me out. Glad to be a part of baby elephant🐘
I always come back to this video when I’m heartbroken..
Perfect timing most us needed this 💯
"Everything happens for you, not to you..." beautiful!
Sometimes I feel like the pain we experience post breakup is actually just from unresolved childhood attachment trauma/issues. I know for a fact that the pain a breakup triggers in me comes from that.
I love what you're saying about pain being a part of life _sometimes_. I however, feel there has been so much pain in my life, too much pain to even bear/comprehend, that I am so tired now of feeling it again and again. I think for some, not accepting or fearing pain comes from this. Having had a difficult life, and so on. It's not easy being a person with mental illness (stemming from childhood trauma) trying to practice my spiritual beliefs, because everyone in this community seems so happy-go-lucky and calm about life, like they've figured it all out. The last time I was broken up with, all of the pain that came up was so incredibly intense and there was so much of it, that I just wanted to die. I was unstable for sure. I know this stems from codependency, among other things. I've been working on myself slowly since then and am hopefully more stable now, but still hurting. I'm just wondering... when will all of this pain be worth it. When will I become this calm, wise and generally easy-going person who can handle life's hurdles? I know I evolved massively after the breakup because my mind/consciousness shifted to higher realities. But I'm still struggling every day. Still ruminating about the breakup, and my entire life really. I still feel sorta stuck. I struggle with trusting people. This work is so great, I get overwhelmed and hopeless. Yes, sometimes life gives us painful experiences. And sometimes it feels like all life has to offer is lesson after lesson through pain.
I hope in writing this, that someone resonates and can relate with my experience, that is very colored by my negativity (as I am very well aware). I don't want to be negative since it's not exactly "high-vibe", but I also don't want to hide it. It's okay to be miserable and feel unlucky in life sometimes. I wish we all get to a place where having hope and trusting the Universe will be easy for us.
The video was lovely, btw. You're lovely. I just started following your channel and I find your videos to be so helpful and calming. Thank you.
I have been thinking about this person since we broke up years ago. I thought we were gonna be together and he let go of me. I was angry,, that led me to be thinking about him for years. I don't regret the time that I wasn't being true to myself.. And to be quite honest I'm not even close to being ready for anything else... Point is there was a time throughout the years that I really thought I couldn't be happy alone...
Or I knew I could be happy alone I just didn't want to be alone.... now I am content with isolation, beginning my healing process.. Currently I still have thoughts of him... I'm not the best at articulating myself but I'm the only me there is. I just hope we all can find Peace & Love within ourselves to avoid this pain and heartache in the future
This resonates so much, the biggest heartbreak I had, was also one of the biggest blessings in my life. I became more loving, more open, allowed myself to be more secure in myself, and also be more vulnerable and allowing to the help, love and care of others. In a way I integrated more smaller parts of me and created more solid structures. It is a beautiful process! beautiful! There's beauty in every single aspect of life, including pain! And I cried, I mourned, I suffered, but I also felt so small and vulnerable, and I loved it. I loved seeing these parts of myself, accepting, allowing them loving them. Today I know myself so much more, my love for me is rooted in how much I trust myself and know that I'm always there to do the best for me.
I know it is not an easy process, and in the beginning, I dread feeling my pain, but believe me, sit with it, listen to it. I used to say I felt like I was dying, and I was. a part of me was, I mourned her death, I mourned it, and I allowed it. And today I truly feel like I am a butterfly, like I went through a metamorphosis. It took me time, it took me silence and space. I had to talk, let it out, often, and in the midst, I learned that we can't rush healing. Healing happens at healings pace. And that's how it becomes really solid.
I welcome you in your pain with compassion and true understanding. I know that pain in your chest. Welcome it, allow it, she deserves to speak, she wants to speak so allow it, and learn the beautiful things she has to tell you.
Be compassionate, use affirmations, journal walk, talk, breathe, sleep, cry, yell, do whatever you need. You deserve to be felt, you deserve to take up space, you deserve to be heard
This video was so beautiful.Thank you.
TRUST IN IT
it really does get better!!!!
5 years ago I was suffering in a relationship, after finally ending it I felt like I couldn't live anymore. I had lost all hope, all awareness of who I am.
Well here we are now :) Blooming, thriving, living a beautiful life full of love!!!
Leeor, I just woke up by jet lag in the home my recently no longer boyfriend and I live(d) in the bed we shared, alone. As soon as my mind woke up I tried repeating to myself “ I’m ok I’m ok I’m ok I’m ok” and not let the sadness overcome me. But thoughts of hurt and hard realities over powered me. I felt the feelings a shed a few tears and decided to open TH-cam to distract myself and the first video that shows up in my screen is this.
Just another reminder of how this is the right thing for me and I will be okay.
Such divine timing. A message to show me this is the right path
And try to focus on this perspective.
Thank you for being such a light.
Ps. While I was going through the hardest days of this break up during my time away in Bali with him, I would find myself clicking on your videos to have mental and emotional breaks and feel your contagious high vibrations and give me hope
Thank you
So much Positivity in this video♥️🙏🏻
Sooo much wisdom in this video Leeor, even beyond the topic of break ups!
Translates my soul every single time..
‘Just want the other person to complete themselves.’ *glass shatters* felt that
Dearest Leeor! I need to tell you this! Two days ago, on Sunday night I was talking to my helper and he got a new blue tin and as I was reaching for it in total excitement I've just realised YOU have totally COME THROUGH!!!
I was talking about lots of things and on leaving he was just saying all will be fine just remember to keep your vibes up high! I was and am blown away I told him now you are also a carrier of the Crystalline Diamond Light Codes....... This was so exhilarating! Thank You So Much!!! 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
I broke up with my BF 2 weeks ago. He mentally drained me. It was changing me for the worst. I had to walk away. I’ve cried. I’ve felt the pain. But I’m ready to move forward. I’m ready to grow and transform. I’m ready to learn from this experience. This video came at the most perfect time. 💛✨
This lady is beauty inside out❤
From all your videos this is the best one.
Thanks Leeor my Light ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Thank you, Leeor! Grateful this validation. 🌷
I am in disbelief right now.. wow. my girlfriend of 2 years and I just broke up last night and this morning I started journaling to ask for guidance through this time and I’m literally half way through journaling and this video notification popped up up on my phone.. THANK YOU
I look back at my ex and I’s relationship and how I felt when it ended in 2019 and then lastly in 2020 and I see a hugggeeee difference in how I feel, how I know myself, how proud of myself I am, how confident I am, how loved I am by myself, how much I’ve accomplished, and how much stronger I am from rising up out of that heartbreak I never thought I’d have to endure. This ending taught me so much about myself and what I’m made of because I had to go deep deep within to heal myself so I can be okay and keep moving forward. It wasn’t a fast or easy journey and we should all know that healing isn’t linear some days you’ll just need to cry when you thought you were okay about the situation. That’s perfectly normal and okay. You’ll be okay. I promise you will. Start doing new things that you love. It helped me a lot to get into new activities like writing poetry and taking photos at the park alongside the water. It helped me to create solace and connect with what wanted to connect with me but also to get my emotions out on the page and feel supported by nature simultaneously. No matter what, just do things that you love when you have the energy to. It will get easier to live as you heal. Let your tears fall always as they come. If your mind is busy about it just start writing something. I did this one activity where I wrote out all the terrible things my ex said to me that made me feel different about myself on a page in little word bubbles. And on another page I wrote out all the nice things my other loved ones had said to me in word bubbles. It felt so good to get out the awful things because they didn’t ever belong to me and to write down all the things that did 🥰🙏🏻✨ if you want to do this I recommend burning the awful things after. It hits different when you burn in I’m not entirely sure why.
Just know you are meant to be exactly where you are because you are receiving everything you need to become the person you are becoming. Just keep doing all those things you love, create a self care routine that makes you feel cute and cared for, and find some new music you love. I promise you’ll feel better in time. This won’t be so heavy forever. It’s been a little over a year since my ex and I spoke and I don’t look at her Instagram anymore or anything. I found it’s easy to clear her from my mind, and step into my power if I don’t. I spoke to her in my mind and I know she could hear me and I said you left me, I never deserved that. You chose someone else. You abandoned me. You can never replace me. I get it if this was what you thought was best but you’ve lost Me.
I felt an energy switch after I stepped into my power and I saw her face get red in my mind. Don’t ever chase anyone who’s not already choosing you. You are amazing in every way that you exist. You have everything you need inside of you. Never look back to someone who disrespected you on the way out as if you were nothing to leave. Even if it was an ego trip or a defense mechanism. It wasn’t what you deserved. They don’t deserve the space in your mind y’all. Step into your power. Know your worth. You got thisssss
This truth is exactly what my soul needs right now. Thank you so much
I am about to cry. I’m about to cry so bad because this is literally all I needed. This was my sign, my message, my desire. Thank u sm Leeor for always being so open and real and helping us ❤️❤️💘 my heart is so full and alive rn. Ugh I love you!
Am glad I found this video. Thank you so much ❤️😊 !
You are so beautiful inside & out ❤️✨
She really is ♥️ we all are
Ok this is such a good video
I’m not going through a breakup, but I wish this vid was available 2years ago lol. Love you Leeor, you have helped me with my spiritual journey
I watched a lot of your videos, but I haven’t seen this one. This video showed up on my suggestions at the right time.
Thanks for making this video. ❤️
Totally needed this right now, after three years my partner unexpectedly called it quits, we live together so it made things more difficult and honestly we have always been best friends in our relationship so at first I was angry as I felt abandoned. This all made so much sense to me I’ll be working on myself the hardest now 🪐💜
Being the one that broke up with my ex made me view this video differently. But I too have gotten my heart broken. But in this instance, it was still nice to hear this because even for the person doing the breaking up it's not always easy. I had been lying to myself about being happy and feeling loved in the relationship so I had to proceed with self-love in my heart and do what I know I needed to do. Him and his friends are trying to shame me and guilt trip me but I know staying in that relationship wouldn't have been helping either of us. As for all of you dealing with heartache, I feel for you and you are not alone. Just remember this too shall pass.
This video truly helped me on my way to healing. I came back to it after about a month or so and it’s unimaginable how much better I’m getting everyday. I feel empowered, perfect and peace. Thank you Leeor for being who you are. You are the one who taught be all about LoA. I am much obliged to you. Be blessed, always!
Writing this while with tear filled eyes! Thanks babe for all the words. I was so hard on myself. Thanks for making me feel important and special. I always feel that i'm loved, and when I get someone loving me I will so hard on them that I crave and dominant over them (just to ensure the love that they show isn't lost) I lost my dad at the early age, may this is what is making me get attached to never seen love when it pops from someone. And soon they get busy along their life which keeps me devastated. Learning to progress in self love. Soon will get over this. Love and peace to all those who are craving for it. You are not alone
What a light you are Leeor. You are so gifted and we are all so lucky that YOU did the work, and that YOU were brave enough to embrace your gifts and share them with us. Love and light 🦋
this video is so beautiful and meaningful
Leeor, this is one of your best videos. I'm not even going through a break up, but this is just always the head space and way to live with.
Thanks for the wise advices 🙏😍
You are an angel 😇❤️
❤❤❤❤❤ I love u thanks for the message
I have so much appreciation for Your knowledge! ❤️🙏🏻 Blessings to You!
I separated from my childrens father earlier this year. I was hurt and expected him to make me feel better. As time went on, and all the lies come out I actually wasnt surprised, everything just clicked. Because untill then I thought there was something wrong with me. But now I realise that what had happened was a reflection of him and his troubles. There was a cycle that was repeating and getting louder each time we had words/discussion about our relationship and I fully believe things were happening to make me realise he was not meant for me at this moment in time. The months that followed I put more time into myself, did things that I wanted to do with my new 'freedom', I am no longer dependent on another person to make me feel happy. I am the only one that can do this. Its all a lesson, I was meant to be on my own to find myself again and to grow as a person. To learn to love myself before I can love another. We are all independent and have our own journey in this life. I fully believe what is meant to be will be. Watching this video just made things that more clearer ❤️
Thank you girl ❤😊
I am glad you made this video!!5 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up,and everyone told me to move on,you're much better etc...none of that helped my situation,all I wanted to do is sit and feel the pain and understand it..Today I havent still recovered from all the pain,but I am definitely grateful that I sat with my feelings and took time to understand them..
If you feel like you’re less of yourself when you’re with someone then you know something is wrong. I have an adoring father who put me on a pedestal but the downside is that there’s not a lot of room to move on that pedestal and I was always afraid of disappointing him and other men. When I got into relationships I tried to be perfect. That never worked. I always felt so free once I had broken up with someone. It takes time and reflection to grow from that and be able to be yourself with a partner.
Thank you for the kind words❤️
I had someone who i began falling for and i genuinely felt so much for him. He was and still is my first ever true heartbreak. He allowed my heart to feel such a deep and wonderful connection to someone. It only lasted a couple months but to me, its quality over quantity. Its been almost two years and i still feel this connection to him. We see each other and sometimes interact in our program, which is soon coming to an end, and sometimes i find myself so sad, not because he hurt me, but because i miss him and i miss those feelings i was able to feel being with someone i connected with so well. I know from experience working on myself and putting energy into myself allows things to come to me and want me. However i feel this energy and the feelings i still hold for him are holding me back from allowing another guy, who could possibly give me so much more than this guy had, in. I hope to and will come back in good time and share that i’ve been free of any sadness related to him and that i’ve allowed the universe to pair me with a man i feel even more for ✨
the timing is perfect!
I haven't gone through any bad breakups but this has been really helpful with me getting up the courage to allow myself to give my all to a relationship if that makes sense? I'm always so guarded, but I don't want to be anymore and don't feel like the way I've been is serving me in any way, especially when I've started feeling differently towards a friend and actually allowing myself to when before I would immediately pump the breaks because I assumed it would ruin the friendship, but hey, maybe it's time to be brave
You can also be the one to end it but don’t want too. As in my case the relationship wasn’t healthy and needed to end but I didn’t want it to. Definitely a lot of repeated hurt, It was time for me to get back to feeling good rather than bad. still sad and miss her though 😞
you are the gift
I really needed this video your words are so soothing
Everything in life that we endure is serving purpose as a vehicle to an expanded version of ourselves. Everything, good and bad, Our soul has called it in, in order to find our true and relieve ourselves from that suffering. we learn each time. be open to receiving more gifts. Positive and negative as they are always serving purpose. I went through the heart-wrenching break up at the beginning of the year, I felt abandoned and so lost. The rejection, brought me closer to myself, I used to cry myself to sleep every night and slowly it just stopped. I started loving myself, and now I am honestly transformed! IF this is you right now, I promise you will get through it! Refocus your attention onto yourself and you will grow more than you will ever know.
Make a video on how to keep ur emotions on check 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Perfect timing as usual!!
I went through such a heartbreak a few weeks ago, I wish I saw this video when I was at my lowest! So true, meditation helped me a lot and self-affirmations
thanks for your light
such an amazing video as always leeor!!