Moving on your own can be scary! I moved to NYC with no job and not knowing anyone 11 years ago and I honestly hated it for the first year. But I eventually forced myself to go exploring every weekend, I joined some volunteer groups, and made friends through work, and it got a lot easier. I grew to love it. But I will say the first year was *awful*. I'm moving to Seattle next month and know a total of two people, so it'll basically be the same thing, where I'll really have to put myself out there again. But knowing I've done it before, I know I can do it again. And so can you! Even if it's not in Seattle! 😊
It was nice listening to your perspective. Although I moved to Seattle some months before Covid. For a period after Covid I wanted to move back home cuz I didn’t really like Seattle but then I started making more meaningful friends…meeting other black folks is still a challenge but now I like Seattle. With all that said, I still see myself moving back home eventually but not because I don’t like Seattle but because I want to be close to family 🙌🏿. Thank you for your insight!!!!
omg i feel like such a turd but I'm at 18min ish mark rn and and "deep for no reason" !!!!? pls, that was just what i needed to hear. You are pouring strength into me rn. thank you
Love the insights you gave! Im currently in SF thinking about Seattle when I graduate, I was in the same boat when it came to no fam or friends nearby. But Ive met some great ppl and you'll find your people too. Can't wait to see your channel grow!
SF is amazing! Yeah, Washington is beautiful! & I’ve really enjoyed the small businesses I’ve found here in Seattle. Thank you :) I think with the pandemic, I just had a harder time getting out there and meeting people but I definitely look forward to doing that when I travel again!
ok now I'm crying ..... irl. "what you chase will run" thank you so much for sharing. i mean everything you're talking about now relates all the way back to the ouroborous of how i came to your video in the first place. thanks, beautiful.
Subscribing because I’m also planning a move to Seattle and just watching your video feels like talking to a friend. 🤗 Hope you settle in nicely, it’s definitely important to just take your time to get used to everything.
Side note: We have a lot of parallels in our journey. I also feel what you’re feeling right now in Seattle where I feel I’m living and it’s hard to not have those 4 steps ahead. 😭 Also I love making snail mail, that’s why I did when I first moved out of my home state just to keep myself creative and connected.
Thank you so much! That really means a lot! 🥺 I hope your move is going well. Yeah, I can definitely say it takes a moment to settle in. & Yes! It’s really hard planning for your future right now. & Awww that’s good to hear! We could be pen pals!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, especially since it's through the lens of a fellow black woman. Living on your own is no joke when you don't have any pillars of support physically there. Other than that, I admire your will power to step into the unknown 🫶 I'm planning on moving there in about a year's time & have been researching on what the vibe feels like long term. I've visited there once for about a week or so in 2021 summer and absolutely loved it. The true test is when I actually get there 🫠
Thank you so much for your comment! Yes! Of course, every places has its pros and cons. At the end of the day, it’s about deciding what you want and need from the city that you’re living in and Seattle does check a lot of great boxes! Please feel free to reach out if you have any more questions or just want to chat!
Also it's so valid to be upset about an item. It especially resonated with me and makes sense for that time in your experience where you were feeling really UP... and then like, Wow, what a harsh wake up call. It's like you were tested that day you got your package stolen.
Oh man, I'm so sorry Seattle didn't really work out for you and I'm REALLY sorry that some a-hole stole your stuff! I hope you find your place in the world and find happiness! 💌💕
I juuuust got here 3 weeks ago let’s get coffee haha. No but really bumble bff is actually my way of making friends and finding people with the same passions as me. Wanting to sign up for sports soon!
Hey there! I loved your video and specifically part 3 about your experience moving here. I moved here in August and definitely feel what you said about being able to do it in all aspects but missing being able to do things with people on your off days etc. Sometimes I just feels weird to get bubble tea alone for example 😅 anyways hang in there! I really love it here and I’m having faith I’ll adjust more.
Thank you! Yes, I feel like there will always be an adjustment period when you go somewhere! I just didn’t realize how long it would be or how I would change during it! Haha but yeah, that adjustment period usually comes to an end! I’m sure you will settle in just fine :)
I’m from Seattle but visited Santa Monica and fell in love with it. If I had the funds I would definately consider moving there, there’s so much to do!
Hi Sabria :) I just found your videos and I just wanted to say I love your energy and the way you talk. Right now, I’m also moving states and seeing your videos has been so helpful. I can’t wait to see more of your journey. I hope you are doing good and sending you good vibes 🤍
Hello Lisbet! Thank you, that genuinely means so much! I’m really glad I’ve been able to be of some help during your move. I know firsthand how stressful and daunting moving can be. Thank you, I hope you are doing well and I’m sending you positive energy!! ❤️
Hey I just moved to Seattle a month ago and I only had 3months to do my research because I already had a job lined up. Since I’ve been here I do love the vibe and I’m such an introvert so it works for me but I also love the weather (shocking) I am an explorer so I don’t mind doing things solo but my experience has not been terrible. Good luck to you in your next chapter…
I can definitely relate to the process of a speedy move! I’m an introvert as well so I’ve really enjoyed having my own space for the first time. I’m glad you’ve had a good experience! Seattle is beautiful and I hope to come back to visit. I just don’t think it’s where I’m supposed to be right now. Thank you!
I am relocating there in a few weeks. My job🍎🍏 is near the South lake union area. I did not a realize that you could get good places in Seattle for $1200. I was under the impression that I would have to pay $1800+ for a good one bedroom.
I honestly think the timing I got my apartment helped! I got it in the middle of the pandemic and at that time, I think the prices were lower than they are now.
Thanks for the insight!!! Love the feedback. Very helpful. I was wondering if you could share some feedback on the overall cost of living in Seattle?? Is it expensive??
Yeah! Since I don’t have my car, I usually take the bus so I don’t have any calculations in regards to gas and stuff like that. I do use the bus often and the ticket I get is $2.75 one way so depending on whether I walk or not I pay that twice. I try to walk more though. Then as far as restaurants, they can be a bit pricey in my opinion but nothing extreme. I’ve heard a lot of people say Seattle is expensive and I really think most cities can be! I think also it depends what you are looking for. I get paid $18.69 to $20.69 an hour (usually 40 hours a week) and I just needed a comfortable studio for just myself so I’m paying somewhere around $1,180 give or take a month for rent and utilities for a 420 square foot studio. Then on top of that is groceries and my other personal expenses but that’s about it if we are talking about essentials. Compared to how much I would pay back home in Sacramento, personally I’m really grateful for what I can afford here right now.
I'm from NYC but thinking about moving to Seattle to be closer to family, almost a little opposite of your situation. So hard though because I feel my east coast sensibilities get lost every time I go over there lol
Hi, Sabria! I am actually teaching in South Korea right now, and before you make that major move, speak with those who love it here, those who don’t like it here, people of color and those who are indifferent. I only say that because the things you are experiencing in Seattle will be amplified even more in another country like South Korea. You want to hear all sides before that type of decision is made. Blessings to you on your journey!
@@sabriatiana You’re welcome! My experience has had its shares of highs and lows, and part of that is because I am a foreigner in a homogeneous country. I’ve dealt with racism, and I’ve also felt embraced. It depends on location and to whom you interact. I live in what is considered a city by Korea’s standards but to an American it would be rural. I would say prepare to be challenged by some of your idiosyncrasies because it’s not about if, it’s when. Overall, I don’t regret moving here and experiencing another culture.
Super helpful! I moved to TN last year and then moved back home to Northern Ca and now I really want to move to Seattle. I will say I’m shocked at the cost of your apartment, I guess I’m looking in all the wrong areas because everything I’m finding is 2k+ Definitely want an apartment tour! 🙌🏼
Still watching the video 😅 and just got to the Sacramento part! Im from Sac too! I definitely still say Sac and I use to say Cali but then I notice I say California now that I’m older. But I think that’s just because I’m like an old lady now 🤣
Yes! Seattle really is beautiful! I think I got my apartment at a good time because I looked on my complex’s website and the prices have definitely gone up since I moved here!
Hey I'm just curious did you have a job where you transffered or did you just save up a bunch and go? and if so how long did it take for you to find a job? thanks!
Yeah! So, prior to moving, I was offered a job at the Space Needle! I had saved up enough to move and get an apartment and everything so I moved to Seattle a few weeks after I was offered the job. Honestly it took me quite a few months to land that job. I applied to several places everywhere!
I visited Seattle just to see what it would it be like if I moved out there the first few days my buddies who are in the military and are stationed in Washington came down for the Seahawks and Kraken game and some clubbing and it was great but when they left I definitely felt lonely for my last few days. Have you thought about joining a club or social group?
Honestly, I have thought about putting myself out there more. I did try meeting up with new people when I first got here but it didn’t work out. I grew close to my coworkers but that’s about it. As far as clubs and stuff, I wasn’t really sure where to start and now it almost feels like it’s too late!
I’ll be back post March, due to me not being a fan of the cold which slightly explains why I keep prolonging my return haha but overall my biggest worries is finding a job that don’t requires a vaccine despite the state is mandated at this point; nevertheless your videos are ultimately insightful.
Honestly I’ve only gone to one for my braids. There’s this app called StyleSeat it showcases a lot of black hairstylists and it was how I found the woman who did my braids! I feel like there’s always a need for black hairstylists though at least wherever I’ve gone.
So glad you are allowing yourself to mature.You have to start somewhere so why not there.I would like to suggest that you wear some Matt lipstick to cover blemishes and for a more put together look.❤
Moving on your own can be scary! I moved to NYC with no job and not knowing anyone 11 years ago and I honestly hated it for the first year. But I eventually forced myself to go exploring every weekend, I joined some volunteer groups, and made friends through work, and it got a lot easier. I grew to love it. But I will say the first year was *awful*.
I'm moving to Seattle next month and know a total of two people, so it'll basically be the same thing, where I'll really have to put myself out there again. But knowing I've done it before, I know I can do it again. And so can you! Even if it's not in Seattle! 😊
Thank you, I really needed those words of encouragement! 🥰 I hope you have an amazing move to Seattle!
@@sabriatiana You just have to do what's right for you!
It was nice listening to your perspective. Although I moved to Seattle some months before Covid. For a period after Covid I wanted to move back home cuz I didn’t really like Seattle but then I started making more meaningful friends…meeting other black folks is still a challenge but now I like Seattle. With all that said, I still see myself moving back home eventually but not because I don’t like Seattle but because I want to be close to family 🙌🏿. Thank you for your insight!!!!
I know what you mean! Thank you for your comment, I appreciate it! :)
I moved to Seattle during covid from the north east and it’s hard… I don’t plan on staying in Seattle long term
omg i feel like such a turd but I'm at 18min ish mark rn and and "deep for no reason" !!!!? pls, that was just what i needed to hear. You are pouring strength into me rn. thank you
Love the insights you gave! Im currently in SF thinking about Seattle when I graduate, I was in the same boat when it came to no fam or friends nearby. But Ive met some great ppl and you'll find your people too. Can't wait to see your channel grow!
SF is amazing! Yeah, Washington is beautiful! & I’ve really enjoyed the small businesses I’ve found here in Seattle. Thank you :) I think with the pandemic, I just had a harder time getting out there and meeting people but I definitely look forward to doing that when I travel again!
ok now I'm crying ..... irl. "what you chase will run" thank you so much for sharing. i mean everything you're talking about now relates all the way back to the ouroborous of how i came to your video in the first place. thanks, beautiful.
Subscribing because I’m also planning a move to Seattle and just watching your video feels like talking to a friend. 🤗 Hope you settle in nicely, it’s definitely important to just take your time to get used to everything.
Side note: We have a lot of parallels in our journey. I also feel what you’re feeling right now in Seattle where I feel I’m living and it’s hard to not have those 4 steps ahead. 😭 Also I love making snail mail, that’s why I did when I first moved out of my home state just to keep myself creative and connected.
Thank you so much! That really means a lot! 🥺 I hope your move is going well. Yeah, I can definitely say it takes a moment to settle in. & Yes! It’s really hard planning for your future right now. & Awww that’s good to hear! We could be pen pals!
Also, subscribed to you as well! 💕
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, especially since it's through the lens of a fellow black woman. Living on your own is no joke when you don't have any pillars of support physically there. Other than that, I admire your will power to step into the unknown 🫶 I'm planning on moving there in about a year's time & have been researching on what the vibe feels like long term. I've visited there once for about a week or so in 2021 summer and absolutely loved it. The true test is when I actually get there 🫠
Thank you so much for your comment! Yes! Of course, every places has its pros and cons. At the end of the day, it’s about deciding what you want and need from the city that you’re living in and Seattle does check a lot of great boxes! Please feel free to reach out if you have any more questions or just want to chat!
Also it's so valid to be upset about an item. It especially resonated with me and makes sense for that time in your experience where you were feeling really UP... and then like, Wow, what a harsh wake up call. It's like you were tested that day you got your package stolen.
Yes, 100%!
Yes apartment tour please!!!! Such a great info. Thank you thank you!!! Making it a goal to move to Seatless within 5 years!💪🙌🏻
Thank you!! Just posted my apartment tour! 👏🏾👏🏾 & yes you got this!
Lol, I had a totally different experience when I moved to Seattle by myself, but so far it's been really good. Great Vlog 👍
How was yours different?
Oh man, I'm so sorry Seattle didn't really work out for you and I'm REALLY sorry that some a-hole stole your stuff! I hope you find your place in the world and find happiness! 💌💕
Thank you! I definitely don’t regret my time here in Seattle! I have learned a lot and met great people! I really appreciate your comment 💗
I juuuust got here 3 weeks ago let’s get coffee haha. No but really bumble bff is actually my way of making friends and finding people with the same passions as me. Wanting to sign up for sports soon!
Yes, let’s!
Hey there! I loved your video and specifically part 3 about your experience moving here. I moved here in August and definitely feel what you said about being able to do it in all aspects but missing being able to do things with people on your off days etc.
Sometimes I just feels weird to get bubble tea alone for example 😅
anyways hang in there! I really love it here and I’m having faith I’ll adjust more.
Thank you! Yes, I feel like there will always be an adjustment period when you go somewhere! I just didn’t realize how long it would be or how I would change during it! Haha but yeah, that adjustment period usually comes to an end! I’m sure you will settle in just fine :)
I’m from Seattle but visited Santa Monica and fell in love with it. If I had the funds I would definately consider moving there, there’s so much to do!
Hang in there girl! I'm about to do the same moving to seattle knowing no one 🥺😭
I’m back in Sac for right now but my time in Seattle was amazing! You’ll do great!
Hi Sabria :) I just found your videos and I just wanted to say I love your energy and the way you talk. Right now, I’m also moving states and seeing your videos has been so helpful. I can’t wait to see more of your journey. I hope you are doing good and sending you good vibes 🤍
Hello Lisbet! Thank you, that genuinely means so much! I’m really glad I’ve been able to be of some help during your move. I know firsthand how stressful and daunting moving can be. Thank you, I hope you are doing well and I’m sending you positive energy!! ❤️
I just moved here from Dallas! Thanks for sharing your experience
I wanna move from Dallas to Seattle do you like it?
@@keswicdavis-riley8785 I love it so far!
@@thejasonmoss I plan on being there by June.
@@keswicdavis-riley8785 I'm moving from Dallas to Seattle in August. Did you move already? How is it?
i moved from texas to SEATTLE and its beatiful here texas is ugly boring and looks getto
Hey I just moved to Seattle a month ago and I only had 3months to do my research because I already had a job lined up. Since I’ve been here I do love the vibe and I’m such an introvert so it works for me but I also love the weather (shocking) I am an explorer so I don’t mind doing things solo but my experience has not been terrible. Good luck to you in your next chapter…
I can definitely relate to the process of a speedy move! I’m an introvert as well so I’ve really enjoyed having my own space for the first time. I’m glad you’ve had a good experience! Seattle is beautiful and I hope to come back to visit. I just don’t think it’s where I’m supposed to be right now. Thank you!
Can’t wait to move to there was supposed to move there last year but had to push it my bacc cuz Of new job
Hiii! I’m in the seattle area too 😄
I am relocating there in a few weeks. My job🍎🍏 is near the South lake union area. I did not a realize that you could get good places in Seattle for $1200. I was under the impression that I would have to pay $1800+ for a good one bedroom.
I honestly think the timing I got my apartment helped! I got it in the middle of the pandemic and at that time, I think the prices were lower than they are now.
@@sabriatiana I will be moving there soon, I am black where do the black people live at?
@@CoNVertibleJay they’re more south in the Tacoma/Lakewood area
Thanks for the insight!!! Love the feedback. Very helpful. I was wondering if you could share some feedback on the overall cost of living in Seattle?? Is it expensive??
Yeah! Since I don’t have my car, I usually take the bus so I don’t have any calculations in regards to gas and stuff like that. I do use the bus often and the ticket I get is $2.75 one way so depending on whether I walk or not I pay that twice. I try to walk more though. Then as far as restaurants, they can be a bit pricey in my opinion but nothing extreme. I’ve heard a lot of people say Seattle is expensive and I really think most cities can be! I think also it depends what you are looking for. I get paid $18.69 to $20.69 an hour (usually 40 hours a week) and I just needed a comfortable studio for just myself so I’m paying somewhere around $1,180 give or take a month for rent and utilities for a 420 square foot studio. Then on top of that is groceries and my other personal expenses but that’s about it if we are talking about essentials. Compared to how much I would pay back home in Sacramento, personally I’m really grateful for what I can afford here right now.
I'm from NYC but thinking about moving to Seattle to be closer to family, almost a little opposite of your situation. So hard though because I feel my east coast sensibilities get lost every time I go over there lol
Haha I know what you mean! I felt the same about the West coast when I moved to the East.
Hi, Sabria! I am actually teaching in South Korea right now, and before you make that major move, speak with those who love it here, those who don’t like it here, people of color and those who are indifferent. I only say that because the things you are experiencing in Seattle will be amplified even more in another country like South Korea. You want to hear all sides before that type of decision is made. Blessings to you on your journey!
Thank you so much! Yes, I definitely need to more research. How would you say your experience there has been so far if you don’t mind me asking?
@@sabriatiana You’re welcome! My experience has had its shares of highs and lows, and part of that is because I am a foreigner in a homogeneous country. I’ve dealt with racism, and I’ve also felt embraced. It depends on location and to whom you interact. I live in what is considered a city by Korea’s standards but to an American it would be rural. I would say prepare to be challenged by some of your idiosyncrasies because it’s not about if, it’s when. Overall, I don’t regret moving here and experiencing another culture.
Super helpful! I moved to TN last year and then moved back home to Northern Ca and now I really want to move to Seattle. I will say I’m shocked at the cost of your apartment, I guess I’m looking in all the wrong areas because everything I’m finding is 2k+ Definitely want an apartment tour! 🙌🏼
Still watching the video 😅 and just got to the Sacramento part! Im from Sac too! I definitely still say Sac and I use to say Cali but then I notice I say California now that I’m older. But I think that’s just because I’m like an old lady now 🤣
Yes! Seattle really is beautiful! I think I got my apartment at a good time because I looked on my complex’s website and the prices have definitely gone up since I moved here!
Sac just comes naturally! No, you’re not old haha I think a lot of people say California too! I find myself saying it more sometimes 😂
Welcome to Seatown!!
Thank you!
It would be cool if you can do an apartment tour
For sure! I have it filmed, just have to edit and upload! :)
thank yu 4 this, bless yu
I most definitely want an apartment tour
I have it posted!
@@sabriatiana ouu okay thanks for letting me know
Born and raised in SoCal and myself and everyone I know always says California. Subscribed.
Thank you!
Hey I'm just curious did you have a job where you transffered or did you just save up a bunch and go? and if so how long did it take for you to find a job? thanks!
Yeah! So, prior to moving, I was offered a job at the Space Needle! I had saved up enough to move and get an apartment and everything so I moved to Seattle a few weeks after I was offered the job. Honestly it took me quite a few months to land that job. I applied to several places everywhere!
@@sabriatiana oh okay cool! thanks for the response :)
Thank you❤
That rent sounds cheap!! I like that. Is it within biking distance to UW?
From where I live, it’s about a 20-30 minute bike ride I believe! The link takes you right to it as well. It’s really convenient!
I visited Seattle just to see what it would it be like if I moved out there the first few days my buddies who are in the military and are stationed in Washington came down for the Seahawks and Kraken game and some clubbing and it was great but when they left I definitely felt lonely for my last few days. Have you thought about joining a club or social group?
Honestly, I have thought about putting myself out there more. I did try meeting up with new people when I first got here but it didn’t work out. I grew close to my coworkers but that’s about it. As far as clubs and stuff, I wasn’t really sure where to start and now it almost feels like it’s too late!
@@sabriatiana yeah I feel you if you do go out clubbing Rhino Room and Xtadium (expensive) were good 👍🏾
Hey I got a job in WA. How did you find your apartment so cheap?
I think it was just timing! When I was moving May 2021, the prices were relatively low.
I’ll be back post March, due to me not being a fan of the cold which slightly explains why I keep prolonging my return haha but overall my biggest worries is finding a job that don’t requires a vaccine despite the state is mandated at this point; nevertheless your videos are ultimately insightful.
omg ur from VA!! I'm from PA/DE.💫✨💫✨✨🙏🤸
I’m actually from Sacramento! I did live in VA & PA though!
Are u still in Seattle
No, I returned to California two years ago
I’m here, let’s hang out ❤️
Coffee?
Absolutely 🥰
How is the Hair Business, for Black Hairstylists! I'm a Hairstylist thinking about moving to Seattle.
Honestly I’ve only gone to one for my braids. There’s this app called StyleSeat it showcases a lot of black hairstylists and it was how I found the woman who did my braids! I feel like there’s always a need for black hairstylists though at least wherever I’ve gone.
Let’s do lunch!😉
I’m so sorry ur clothing got stolen !!!!
Thanks! Yeah, it was a rocky start!
Are you still at this apartment? Are you able to give us the deets yet? :)
I am no longer there! It’s called Beryl Apartments! It’s on Pike Street! It was a wonderful experience!
I definitely don't say CALI lol love you!
Haha yeah I seem to be in the minority 😅 love yooou
apartment tour?
Yeees!
I'm from CA and always say California or SoCal but not Cali lol
So glad you are allowing yourself to mature.You have to start somewhere so why not there.I would like to suggest that you wear some Matt lipstick to cover blemishes and for a more put together look.❤
I’m moving out there next month. We should grab a bite.
I will probably be gone by then actually! I’m moving back to Sac for a little bit
born and raised in LA i say california. cali sounds cringe but also i really don’t mind/care either or.
Don’t go to downtown Seattle,