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- An Inferiority Complex is a psychological phenomenon characterized by an individual's persistent feelings of inadequacy, self-doubt, and a belief that they are inherently inferior to others. This often results in low self-esteem, anxiety, and can hinder personal and professional growth. Are You Suffering From Inferiority Complex? Watch this video to find out.
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Growing up with Low self esteem, you’ll be in your head so much and think you’re never good enough.
True
Yup
:( Sadly, this is relatable. This happens even when one feels good about accomplishments and then gets bombarded with thoughts of inferiority in a split second with our thoughts saying, "You're kidding yourself. You don't deserve this..."
@@Psych2go I’m still going through it with how I feel aimless in purpose and that I’m struggling in the dating department. But I haven’t given up. I’m hoping that by writing this book, I may have found my calling.
i have low self esteem bc i couldnt get better no matter how much i practice something. Im still not good at anything & thats why i really hate anyone whos better than me or those with natural talent (really despise these lazy nutjobs)
They got perfection upon birth & dont have to do shit while i got shit on by bad genetics & bad luck which meant i couldn’t improve at anything, i really should be everyones superior rn if life was fair
"Comparison is not a tool to measure your worth as a person. It simply tells you where you can improve" Well said
And most of the times you can’t get there in the blink of an eye, sometimes you just don’t need what they have but you still compare yourself.
@@TheLastEgg08exactly, you don't need to be someone else
yeah i do that but i end up seeing how much ive been done a disservice by life, i should be leagues better than everyone, i put in so much more time to get better than everyone else has yet i might as well just say i dont improve, i regress after a short time of seeing improvement. While everyone else is better & they did nothing to even deserve being better, this is why i hate them. I really hate the ones with natural talent they disgust me, their just perfect upon birth & thats not fair
@@Thelostmcmotorcycleclub relatable. I often feel defective because of this
Does it measure your worth in a life and death situation?
I got bullied as a kid, at least until I messed a couple of dudes up. But even though I've done all these cool things with my life, and have a ton of viable skills, I still struggle a lot with this. Especially in dating. Like nothing I do will ever be good enough. This is helpful, thanks.
Why do you think you particularly struggle with inferiority complex when it comes to dating?
Ugh lol
It would take a novel to answer that question
Dont worry about your dating life, you have infinitely better chances with women, than i ever will.
Bro idk, I mean I can think of a million reasons why I'm single.
1. Violence doesn't bother me. I can literally see a corpse and be ok with it.
2. I'm an ass hole, especially towards flat earthers and people who think Hitler was intelligent
3. I'm ugly and broke rn
4. To much trauma
5. I'm fucking psychotic, the voices never shut up and I'm medication resistant
6. I'll go strait thug on someone for messing with my life.iterally just got out of a situation that I put a psychopathic man child in his place.
7. I'm 5'8" and 150lb soaking wet, and I'm not scared of anyone. I'll take an ass beating over cowering in fear
8. All of my teeth are fake. I'm 33 and have no teeth.
9. No qualms with shooting someone for breaking in. I'm cold like that.
10. I say things that piss people off, usually they are true. If not, I'm probably trying to piss them off. Especially when we go into the "That's the sound your mom makes when..." territory
11. I have the sense if humor of a 14 yo boy and am a complete degenerate
12. Know way to much about LSD
12 reasons why I'm single and always will be. Hail Stan 🤘
Growing up with an abusive father was a real life nightmare! Even my big brother would try to force me into doing the jobs our father specifically wanted him to do, also he would sometimes bully me just for the fun of it. My step sister was much worse. When I first started going to school, all the other kids harassed bullied me constantly every day and there was noting I could do about it! If I did anything to defend myself I always ended up in trouble for it even if I was doing the same thing they were doing to me! Yet the others are never in trouble for it! My only explanation was that they did it to me first, why are they not in trouble? I was beat up by them on numerous occasions and nothing was done about it! I started thinking School was a place that parents sent their bad kids. I would ask my mother what was it I did to deserve being sent there and she would say she sent me there to be educated. She never could understand what was happening to me. My father though what ever was happening to me I deserved it. There was nothing else I could do but just let it happen and just take it.
I'm sorry to hear this 😔 you never, EVER deserved all that mistreatment!
One of my slaves [marketed] to you as a father was harmful? Are you kept as a slave now?
My father used to, but not any more. That was back in the 70s and 80s. My parents were divorced and my father got custody and things got worse from there. he remarried and the step mother was just as bad if not worse. the step sister was worse than my brother. she would harass me for hours non stop and she was allowed to get away with it! She got me for all kinds of trouble! I was being blamed for things I never did and was called a liar! I was kept from school for years! My mother never knew this was happening until someone was able to get word to her about what was happening and was able to help me out of there. I graduated from GED class, went to college and had a few jobs. I have my own home and car and doing well on my own. My father, step mother and step sister are now dead. I never shedded a tear for either of them. I'm happy now knowing they'll never bother me ever again. @@bunk95
@@wayneheidlebaugh9915I’m glad that your doing well, Wayne. I hope those abusive sacks of shits are rotting in hell where they belong and that your school bullies get their karma.
my cat is on my chest
Aww! That is lovely!
That means he loves you.
Lol, I experienced that kind of thing. I was in bed when I called my mom's friend's cat. He jumped on me, purred and stared at me before turning me into a human pillow😂
I should ask “why” but I believe I already know…
Awww
Unfortunately, if your inferiority is based on constant failure, you need a path that leads to success...if you cannot find that path then regardless of how your mind works, you'll still feel and act inferior....
I mean, is it really just a complex if it’s actually true?
You're gonna make me cry 😭
@@CROninja666 Nooo
tangible proof that you have the complex:
@@inactive.5680 erm technically its actually intangible because digital text is not a physical thing
@@inactive.5680 Maybe… who knows really
Over thinking your place in society is more of a problem. Everyone is + or - . Its the judging. Life is not a scoreboard. Its a bubble to fill up with experience. Your experience is important. You are the best you ever made.
yeah people say that until I start showing slight dysfunctions from the abuse I've suffered from... Then all of a sudden my experience doesn't exist, it's a failure, blah blah blah
@@jeffreychandler8418 those are not "disfunctions of yours " those are history of you. If society isn't concerned with your history. It's doomed to repeat itself. Your history is more important than ever imagined. I'm sorry for your pain. But I beg of you to enlighten others. So it does not repeat.
Much love and respect to you and anyone with an untold history that needs to be learned
@@msboon6078 I try, they don't care unfortunately. Doesn't matter how much I speak about what it's like to be an abused man by a woman. at the end of the day everyone refuses to learn from it.
@@jeffreychandler8418 everyone -1 I will listen
As far as I can remember, I always struggled with inferiority complex and I still do. And it's so tiring. Even when you think it's over, it's always there. 😪
You struggle with fiction? Not being forced to use specific fiction?
I can relate to this. My school environment from 2-8 was negative and having strict parents. That's a pretty bad combination. Now that I'm a little older I've been teaching and learning from these videos about life lessons to help me. I didn't have the best self-esteem because I was always constantly put down and overlooked because of my meekness but now I realized I had a jealous and toxic environment. I learned tolove me.💕
I always feel inferior because no matter how hard i try, how much efforts i put into my work, there is always someone who can do it better.
I've had an inferiority complex pretty much since I was a young kid. Getting picked on by classmates and siblings likely contributed to that as well as criticism from peers, teachers, etc.. At school I was a terrible athlete and didn't know how to make friends, so I just accepted that I was the "outcast"' at my school and knew from Day 1 of high school that no girl would ever want to go to prom with me. The scars still affect me to this day, and while I've made some strides in my life, I still have a very fragile self-esteem
As a person who's been suffering this for a year and a half, ever since I started interacting with more talented artists my age online and having to be stuck at boarding school with a few toxic people taking 3/4s of the year all together and of which has ruined my self esteem as an artist but thankfully improving on it, i've gotta pysch2go, this vid has been long overdue
I learned that I have Avoidant personality disorder (Avpd) last year and I've been able to improve so much since then!
Knowing that I have an inferiority complex as a part of my Avpd helps me rationalize my thoughts and challenge negative notions towards myself!
What I'm trying to say is I really appreciate the work that y'all put into these videos! Making psychology known to people is excellent and it's exactly what helped me to realize that what I was experiencing was beyond what I could handle and that I should get help!
Would you mind sharing what Avpd is? I'm genuinely curious and would love to learn more about it :]
@@silentlion_zer0562 Yeah! Avpd is a cluster C personality disorder (meaning it is one of the anxiety based ones). Avoidant personality disorder is characterized by inferiority complex, debilitating anxiety (especially in social scenarios), desire to be around other people and strong desire to be liked and wanted while also feeling the opposite (like, feeling unwanted or unliked).
Of course, this changes from person to person, but this is what Avpd is like for me. Another part of it is fear of social situations that we're uncertain if we'll be liked or not. Like, walking into a situation that could be embarrassing, everyone dislikes that, but avoidants will do anything to get away from that situation.
Oh, another thing for me at least (and it seems pretty common to others I've talked to) is excessive fantasizing of different scenarios, one of the big ones being abandoning everyone so that we have total control over our surroundings and that nobody can hurt us if they aren't there in the first place.
I hope this helps, and please remember that this is just my personal experience and that it could easily be different for other people with Avpd.
@Wanderer24 thank you for sharing! This was really informative, and it's nice to learn :] hopefully everything's going well for you
@@silentlion_zer0562 Yeah, I'm on meds and plenty of therapy, so I'm actually doing pretty well
So many of us, if not all, have been conditioned from childhood to be anxious about other peoples' expectations, worries, and demands. It's almost like we can trace all of our worries and anxious thoughts back to other people teaching us to give them priority in the mind. Books like "30 Days to Reduce Anxiety" by Harper Daniels and other mindfulness related books can be good for detaching from the conditioned thoughts. I just try my best not to condition other people or enable their conditioning any further. We need to be so much nicer to ourselves and kinder.
I refuse to accept that I’m not useless.
Also my cat is laying on the floor and purring
Hold on how does your comment say its a month old the video was posted less than 30 minutes ago-?
@@nebulaticbee It could be a reupload or some people just have early access
@@no.8969 Oh okay-
@@nebulaticbeethe video is unlisted i think & they somehow got the link to it
@@Thelostmcmotorcycleclub Oh okay thank you
Is this built-in with social anxiety disorder? Sure feels like it
Some research does suggest that there's a strong correlation between inferiority complex, fear of negative evaluation, and social anxiety!
I think social anxiety can be caused by other problems as well, like attachement disorder or lacking basic safety through trauma or complex post traumatic stress disorder.
Be well
A fictional thing?
@johndiversey8646 why the actual hell would you say that
@@smartalecl4 All his comments are trolling. Pay him no mind and he'll cease to exist.
Thank you Psych2go for affirming my symptoms of inferiority complex.
Going to keep this short. I am 32M and I live with my parents and have 3 permanent disabilities: hydrocephalus, mild cerebral palsy and, mild left hemiplegia. The 4 main things I can't do, sports (one wrong move or contact and I'm on my back or out like a light), tie knots/my shoes (no tie laces have been a god send), write well (I grew up, with technology so typing is my main way), and driving. Self-confidence on top of my body and the area I live in is not great to learn to drive since no one does the speed limit. All this makes me a hardcore homebody. I've tried remote work, but unfortunately I couldn't get my mind to swap from home to work so I need to commute. Moving with my family in 2021 has been the hardest for me. Train is now 6 miles away along a highway instead of the 2 miles in the city and things like Uber don't run in this part of the city robbing me of the independence I had for years.
now to the topics, comparison: Yes I have compared myself to even my own family mainly my brother. No health problems, can drive, played sports, and even finished college (I dropped out).
Bullying/finanical insecreuties: In school I was bullied but not due to my disabilities. Nope that came from my mother who for almost my entire working life has told me to get a real job despite having all my bills paid and I'm content with the money I make even though its a dead end job for minimum wage. This stings more since I am at the point where I am commuting as much as I am actually working for the day. My father sympathizes with me since he was in the same position when I was born.
Plan is to move out this next year and start my own life. Thanks to all who have read this, it was really difficult to put this down for others to see.
You're doing a great job. You write well, so that's plus 😀. Keep grinding. It feels really hard but that becomes its own reward. Take care and thanks for sharing. (PS I reckon your Mum is unaware of the negative impact on your psyche. She's probably very badly communicating her desire for you to succeed.)
@@JDWDMC Well this is typed not handwritten, cerebral palsy is fine motor control like writing/penmanship.
Now my first job I was a year or 2 in. We kept workpapers that we wrote notes on, in our client files. My coworker called my parents who were clients of mine to ask them for more information as their file was being reviewed (per firm policy).
At the end of the conversation they asked my mother if I never took a penmanship class (my coworkers were older/elderly). She said "no, what did he never tell you he has CP?" "Oh that explains why we can't read his writing."
She is all for backing me with my disabilities and willing for me to succeed. But basically telling me that my 6 years in college and almost 8 years in my chosen profession that, I should just move on.
I guess you can call it being rebellious but you want me to go flip burgers or something like that and throw away 1 and a half decades of work and study for maybe more pay. NOPE I am happy with what I am doing.
I will say i did speak with my mother about this recently and she doesn't remember ever doing that. so gaslighting ensues and further down I go with depression which has other reasons then what I just shared. eariler.
Good luck! It can be extra frustrating when they say they can't remember something that had hurt you deeply... 😬 keep on chugging, find what works for you that's healthy and go for it! Good luck!
You [marketed] yourself with fiction often? Care to explain how the fiction [markets] you?
I always feel worse and dumber than those around me, sometimes it feels like everyone's got it figured out but me.
Adolescence can be quite a challenging time during one's upbringing. It's an interesting point that parents may play a role in their child feeling inferior not just through abuse, but also through too much parental surveillance. It gives the impression that the child is unable to do something on their own.
I can relate to "too much parental surveillance". I think parents, out of love, may end up putting too many limitations on their children which can affect them negatively a lot down the line.
This is a super important topic to talk about. I think you guys totally should make another episode about this if you can? I never heard about such a thing before, but I think I struggled with this all my childhood and teen-hood. I think I still feel defects of this, but kinda less I think.
Thanks for bringing this to attention. What next should we cover about it?
My self esteem has always been low. But it has not helped that my entire life, everyone around me has refused to believe I have the mental capacity to understand anything that isn’t extremely simple. At this point, I feel like I’m shoved into having an inferior complex from others with a superiority complex.
You have the potential to grow and develop beyond any inferiority complex.❤
Yep! That's me! I only see flaws. When someone compliments something I do, I usually wonder what they need from me to be this nice to me. So yeah. My brain doesn't let me be happy, bah!
Maaan the timing with the Chandler Bing example.... :(( Matthew Perry has passed away one day ago.
Timestamps
1). What is inferioring complex 0:37
2). What causes an inferiority complex 2:46
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thanks for the help! :)
@@Psych2go not a problem happy to help
having gone through something similar to this (still sort of am?), and naturally responding with repetitive "nice"-ness, it's a good thing to see a different view on the whole situation. Thanks again Psych2Go!
The financial hardships one hit home :,)) couldn’t have related more
I feel like i can never grow out of it no matter how hard I try
Your videos really helpede understand what i am going through
I suffer from inferiority complex and depression but I cant reach out to a therapist cause am still a teen living in my parents house
Growing up in a home where I am constantly emotionally abused and from the time i was little my parents would always fight and I am constantly compared to others and no matter how much i do its nothing to themWhereas my sister is 22 but am always compared to what she did at my age . I am constantly put down in every way possible. I now suffer from depression since I have left primary and moved on to islamic education i barely have the friends I have known that always complemented me and always made me feel loved. Even though i havent ever told about it they would always make me luagh and smile but in my new school i hardly have friends and i feel lonely . And I am always told that am lazy at home because i don't have the energy to do anything and I dont have any motivation. i am also expected to cook at the age of 14 since my sister learnt a few thinsg at that age . At school I come out at the top of my class and still they never care . After long day when i come back from school i am expected not to get any form of rest .My weaknesses are always used to put me down . I should never feel pretty and valued cause then it's pride 😢 I always felt ugly but my friends made me realize that i was actually pretty and whenever I say that my friends told me i look like this actress they put me down . While every boy in my class liked me .
Do i have pride if i think i am pretty
What can I do ? 😭😭😭😔
i always grew up playing basketball with older kids, they always told me i sucked but when i played around my age group , people told me i was exceptional or above average at least. I was never confident and when i got older, i got kicked off the team and i quit basketball for good. Im still learning how to be normal around people my age without feeling like i suck
Am I a pathetic loser? I'm 27, still live at home, having never moved out. I have never had a girlfriend or a date, and I don't even have a driver's license. I have both a learning disability and ASD, and sometimes I say unfiltered things or act weird in social moments. I assume my ASD makes me "less normal." I don't have too many friends now that I've graduated from college and most of my friends have left town. My coworkers all seem to fit in; I usually stand out. I often feel like a misfit at work. They don't seem to want to include me in on the fun. I guess I can be weird and annoying socially. I wonder if they're better off without me. What's funny is they say you should always be yourself, but that's a fallacy, isn't it? I graduated high school at TWENTY, having been kept back in preschool (speech delay) and homeschooled. I even graduated at a small charter school instead of the superior public high school my younger sister is at. I'm jealous of her; she's stronger than I would've been...and about to be a senior when I was a sophomore her age. I seem slow and helpless and do better with a guide than by myself (my boss basically said that to my face).A disabled man who doesn't match standards, yes, but a failure too?
Dunno how your doing 7 months later but it’s Never too late to be a great ,everyones definition of a loser or success is different hope your in a better place now bro
@@kyubbi1017 If I didn't know any better, I'd say your comment implies I'm low-quality and not up there. "It's never too late to be great," "Hope you're in a better place." MAybe you should clarify what you really meant
I had always been the number 1 artist in primary school growing up. As i grew older, I had to deal with many mental illness and stress. Now I'm in middle school and i notice there are people my age who draw better than me. I started to always compare myself to others and make myself feel not enough.
I just recently discovered that I have a extremely bad inferiority complex. I often say horrible things about myself, call myself an idiot, think everyone is smarter than me, feel I have no purpose, am unable to accept compliments etc.
What is the difference between an inferiority complex and simply knowing you are inferior to those around you?
Good question.
Or its just the truth
Growing up, I was told that I had no chance of being famous, rich, or be good looking. Sadly it is all completely true, I can't even be a normal guy with friends, I am always held back from doing things because I am poor. I am fine with not being famous, I never wanted it and never thought about it, because dreaming is for people hlwho have hope, which I don't have.
Thank you for this video 😊
No doubt about it. I've been going to school for 10 years with this. And I was completely drained after those 10 years that I decided to quit highschool cause my suicidal fantasies were heavier then ever. Good thing my mom was compassionate. I think I would've killed myself if she dissowned or something. Or go and live with my dad but that's almost the same as a bullet in my head...
Well... Better to know these things later in life then never.
Seja positivo, a vida é da cor que pintamos!
@@leomaia1998 Bem dito amigo! Vou a um show do Alestorm daqui a algumas semanas. Hora de colocar um pouco de cor na minha vida novamente.
It's a great relief that your mother has been understanding and supportive during these challenging times.Your life has value, and there's hope for a brighter future.
I think I do but it’s because unfortunately I am inferior to most people and I can prove it, there’s literally no silver lining to me, every little thing about me is just worse 😎😩😫
Watching you always helps me make myself better day by day since 3 years ago❤ I hope you keep making vids forever
i am being bullied in school because of how my voice sounds everyone.. well not everyone would mock me but a lot of people will and will just say "im just kidding chill" not knowing it hurts my feelings but i just kept quiet. and this video helped me to love myself for who i am thank you❤
I thought this would help. Now I feel called out and feel worse than before…
It doesn't matter what I have on someone, whether it be that I'm in far better shape physically, financially or whatever. I still somehow feel threatened by how interesting and experienced they are in comparison. Being around friends while they tell amazing stories while I sit in silence is unsettling. I refuse to be the person who tries to over compensate (like someone with little man syndrome) so I will just listen politely, and it's not like any of it even matters to anyone, but it's way more difficult than it should be.
Actually yes I am, thank you for asking.
Just today I felt embarrassed because I had to go to the dentist office with my mom. A 23 year old man goes in, does not have an income, does not have governmental-financial support, and isn't knowledgeable about nearly anything asked. I was asked if I had a care-giver. I didn't know. Because I live at home. So she assumed I did, called my mom over, only for me to realize/remember that NO, she is not my care-giver... in fact, I am legally hers. I tried sorting this out, but it only got worse because the lady at the desk refused to believe it. The whole time giving me dirty looks, but also outright saying I wasn't competent to provide for myself, so therefor I she must be my care-giver and we're just confused. Even though that wasn't the case. Except, I can't even blame her, because I'm a broke, jobless, not going to college, unknowledgeable, burden to my family and generally everyone who knows me. I have nothing to offer anyone, and can't fully provide for myself. :(
Sending positivity!
It's good to know what plagued my social interactions as a child, and I'm gonna assume that my arrogant brother and cousin where part of those reasons, because how they used to treat me for being young.
I used to have this and now i have a superiority complex
Rip Matthew Perry
Relatable video though
My financial situation is the lead cause of my inferiority complex... Everything I have tried to earn an income has been failing😢.This had has led to my social withdrawal ,low self-esteem and inability to date cz honestly in this day and age it's not easy to find a guy who can date a jobless/financially unstable lady.Have looked for a job/income source for a very long time now.I don't know what else to do😢
I leave everything in God's hands.
Man it fucking suck so bad. Having to see people who used to be my friends living their best lives doing so well in school, and feeling like everybody in the friend group is taking sides when I see them online having the best time without me. I want out so bad I hate having this in my life it has really set me back.
2:57 this explains a lot ;-;
I was criticised for my appearance from the age of 4 and also Bullied by my classmate in school and teacher tooo.I have always been bellow average student. I am also not good in any other activities. After that i always feel inferior and feel as a useless. Not just end i am also socially awkward. I have got no quality. I am a teenager for now hope i will recover from the USELESS tag😅
so relatable 😢
Those small drawings are so cute 🥰❤
all I heard was "you feel inferior because you are"
The title was merely enough to convince me that I have that kind of thing.
Idk if this relates or not but to me i always so insecure about myself it's like i look at good things about others but see only negative about myself this thing really makes compare myself automatically even though i don't want that! It's just inferiority can really hurt mentally like it have become tough for me now even to be happy with my friends because i feel like im faking myself or who i am :( .
Thanks for sharing ❤
I had an inferiority complex all mi life
788 crore people are here in our plannet, how can I be worth it?
I have no reason to have become this way, so I'm just inherently inferior. I will only have a negative effect on people around me and I don't enjoy being either. So ending it is the logical answer
I just got diagnosed with inferiority complex 😢
I've had to accept that I don't just have a kind of time blindness but emotional blindness also. Learning how to spot positive emotions usually takes a back seat to finding out who's safe through attentional bias. If I look like an arrogant prick it's likely because I'm already trying to makeup for it.
I don't like that inferiority complex could easily be just another overused meaningless term instead of describing rejection sensitivitive dysphoria or emotional flashbacks from mental abuse.
Things from fiction are only used as a lie outside of fiction….
Thank you for the video
You had to come in with this, your timing is a little too good sometimes
I journal, but tbh I’m not sure it helps sometimes... i still do it
Idk what does inferiority mean but i always feel numb after talking to my dad about things in life, Does anyone else get this feeling??
Yeeaaaah! Inferiority complex due to being bullied and mentally abusive parents let's goooo
I also have a hero complex. It's a fun combo really
I was abused by my father for 30 years. He made me feel sub human. I'm 48 and have complex ptsd. I feel inferior to everybody, its devastating. My trauma is so bad I can't remember a lot of my past and I feel as if I have no future. I'm on disability for overwhelming anxiety. It just seems as if there is no end to this.
Try a self improvement journey.
Try a self improvement journey.
Chandler Bing😢 may Mathew Perry rest in peace!
I feel so infirior to everyone that I cant even tell my friends and family how insecure i am
Financial insecurities are worse 😢
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When I was a teenager one of my uncles told me that I had an inferiority complex. That explained a lot to me. It is still true today. I will soon be 77 years old. I always think everyone else is superior to me. There were times at work when I yielded to others even when I knew they were wrong and I was right. I can’t recall a specific incident now.
It makes me push away from my closest friends because I think I’m not funny enough or talkative enough and it makes me think no one likes me and this has been happening with my family 2 because I feel not smart enough
I’m not good enough to have an inferiority complex. 🤷🏽♂️
I'm Scandinavian.. My people practically invented the concept.. Actually I think the russians beat us to it but still
Thank you very much :)
I have this too, sometimes I think all disorder of mental related to anxiety lol
I was undiagnosed in my early years. I learned math the hard way and some concepts I've never gotten to understand.
I’ve only ever heard of superiority complex, not an inferiority complex. I think I have an inferiority complex…
My parents didn't seem like they were overly suspicious of me growing up, but definitely I can see how it might be considered abusive/neglectful. XD
MGS1 Liquid Snake should be a prime example: "You got all the old man's dominant genes. I got all the flawed, recessive genes."
Every problem in this life is arisen by first 18 years of life 😢
I’d be suffering from all the disorders
Hi phyc2go i have a personal favour question . Is it realy worth showing ur feeling to someone that dont understand ur feelings.? Please answer
Suffering? No. Recovering? _Oh, yes!_ 😊
I think I have a sort inferiority complex, I mean everyone has of some sort but I am writing this down for myself here so that I can actually express my feelings, in fact I was kinda thinking about it when I saw this video notification. I feel kinda "not tough enough" to express it to an actual person or with my actual name so I use this account. Plus tbh I don't have anyone to have this talk anymore, I have never felt more alone in my life. Earlier I had this loneliness feeling when I was in high school but then I didn't have anyone to talk to so I didn't expect anything, but right now the loneliness has increased because this time I have ears to listen to but they are just not available or either I just don't wanna talk about this.
The thing is I really do like someone and she def likes me back and I know her from way way back, I have dated girls but never really went a step further with them, never got that vibe. With her it just hits different, time passes by, chemistry is good and she understands me in a way, I want to be understood. I was not able to explain to my previous relations but it's just something so we hit off. I want to have a family with her down the line in the future, I really really do
but
The thing which always makes me feel small in my eyes is her rich background, the place I belong to, the place she comes from, worlds apart, from the culture I come, the man has to be the better provider in the eyes of society and I won't say I am doing bs or sit unemployed, in fact I am right now in such a position where I would say I actually am able to buy whatever I once dreamt as a child. So many dreams of mine now live as a lifestyle with me, but to love her is to know the difference in my dreams of the future and her already existing lifestyle which makes me feel I am never enough, never would be, how would I reach that place? how would I convince her family? how would I prove myself as a worthy man? does only this define my worth? what if I am not able to? would I be worthless? questions like this have destroyed my sanity. A person looking at me of my age would appreciate me, even my family has thrice the average things the average population have in my country. whatever I have, I have in abundance but still never enough feeling never fades away.
I explain to myself that I am only 22 but then again, shit I am already 22?
God my present has been destroyed.
Gratidão torna suficiente aquilo que temos. Olhe para tudo que vc tem e não pelo o que não tem! E siga adiante para conquistar as coisas que deseja sem uma pressa sobrehumana.
Who the hell can afford therapy?
Your voice ❤️
What about constantly feeling like youre not doing enough? Ive been dealing with that most of my life but these days had been hard
What do You say to people who let's Their insecurity complex define them?
📢I love this channel ✨💮📢
Just seeing the title of this video and I'm like this is me 😭
You have the potential to work through this and improve your self-esteem.❤
@@onnie1036 thanks 😊❤️
I suffer from this
do you have any tips to move on from heartbreak?
oh i do!
I'm just ugly
Hey psy2go, I would very much love to talk with you guys about something that is destroying me at the moment and I really need some advice 😢
boutta send this to my older brother, he slaps me everyday and gets pissed off when i dont react lmao
Is it still inferiority complex if its the truth
Could any Amazing person recommended some psychology books to read (BTW I am Indian)🙏
I would say Jung is really good, but can be difficult. His book "man and his symbols" is the only one he wrote for laypersons, so that might be a place to start. Also his books "the ego and the unconscious", and "the unconscious" are good. Richard P. Bentall has written two books called "doctoring the mind" and "madness explained" that are worthwhile. Lastly, although not psychology Alan Watts "the way of zen" is brillant.