Ask Ganjiswag #38 | Junaid Akram
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ก.ค. 2024
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The views and opinions expressed in this video are not professional advice but opinions based on my personal experience and limited knowledge. Recognizing a problem is the first step towards solving it hence I'm making sure I'm available to hear people out. Thank you.
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00:00-02:20 - Intro
02:21-18:29 - Pakistani American serving in the US Army.
18:30-29:07 - Waqt se pehlay mature hogaya hoon.
29:08-50:27 - 25 yo girl from US still living under a curfew.
50:28-01:05:30 - Husband checked my phone on suhaag raath and caught messages.
01:05:31-01:14:15 - Controlling mother in law.
01:14:15-01:28:59 - Hate engineering, my life status and everything.
01:29:00-01:31:27 - Appreciation Email.
01:31:28-01:34:23 - Ending credits and outro.
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Finally I see Indians and Pakistanis talking sensible things in comments rather than fighting 👍
Aisi jaghon py sensible log hi aaty hain bro, baqi to aik dusray ko Facebook comments mai neecha daikha rhy hoty.
Yeah, I'm also very glad to read these comments 👍
India and pakistan should be like brothers because alot of things are similar in us and we are neighbours
@@cricS09 👍
because only mature people see him
Married girl in UK
This insta man can be your husband checking on you, I would say block any guy who is trying to be friendly out of nowhere.
The word is infidelity
@@madihafatima2144 well I am not encouraging anyone to be good at cheating on their spouse, just saying that if their partner is so shakki then they should be extra careful with such things. I agree with Junaid Akram that this does count as cheating.
Bro you are right it might be true but agr aesa huta tu her husband would have broken the ice till now and inko bta chuka huta k mein he hun and she would also mentioned this in her email because she mentioned that I am chatting with him for many days now so should I carry forward or stop chatting with him.
@Ablah So you mean only block out of the fear that he could be husband and she will be caught? I think she should block by realizing whatever she is doing is wrong and unfair to her husband not only because of the fear of getting caught.
@@syedossama9539 I'm actually very disappointed how a lot of people here are talking trash about the husband when he has every right to be suspicious of her. If you didn't delete your love messages on your wedding night then I'm sorry she's still in love with her bf and not genuine.
I love Junaid's tone while explaining that kid who's mom has cancer.
All prayers are for you CANADA WALY BACHAY ❤️❤️❤️
For girl living in Europe limited by his husband.
Sister if we look from your end the story is quite heartbreaking because trust is the building block of any relationship and being judged on the first night of your life is heart aching . And we all are sorry for your situation. The thing is a person needs someone to hear him and thats it .
**Solution**
I personally suggest you to learn some online skills , the market is full of it and start working /earning from it . That will be 100000 times better than what you are doing right now plus your husband will have no issue . By working online you will have a chance to interact with many new people that will appreciate your nature and etc . So yeah focus on it.
Thanks !
Regards : Abdul Rehman
Speaking of wedding I say one must not got married for the sake of getting married. I rather be single and happy than married and miserable. Just saying.
I legit clean my house watching this podcasts. Learning as I scrub the floor 😂
Same😩
Haha!! Same situation here! 🙃
Haha
Sameeeee😭😭
Same ☺️ to make my every moment useful.
" Only dead fishes go with the flow" what a quote man.
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Seeing there is so much negativity and issues in our society, people really need someone who would listen to them. Such a great initiative, Kudos to you Junaid bhai. Wish Pakistan had more influencers like you. Keep up the great work. May Allah bless you even more.
You motivated me so well Junaid Bhai I'm glad I'm your subscriber THANK YOU SOOO MUCHHH
Keep motivating us Sir! May Allah Bless You
To a housewife who is almost imprisoned by her husband....
I would recommend u to stop talking to that guy on insta, because it is a great risk it can risk ur marriage... don't do any more mistakes u have already done a terrible mistake by not deleting the messages from ur ex...
Sir i love ur podcasts! When i listen to content like this, i feel like my wisdom is being broaden day by day alhamdulilah! Ur podcasts are thought provoking
Also agree with your assessment of person age 24. I found i didnt want my career path after studying from nust in engineering. Took steps and at age 30 now i have clear direction and next 10 years of plan set
last question sey aik quote yad aya “the past can’t hurt you not unless you let it”
“The only the thing you can do with past is learn from it”
always love hearing you
i listen to your shows as podcasts and yes, i have subscribed :)
Junaid Bhai... You are my Guru... You are blunt and funny like me... I love you Bro... kindly keep guiding us...
Junaid bhai, you are great human. May Allah bless you with lots happiness and ease your difficulties. Ameen
Thanks!
Sach me parents dating k liye maan jate hain meri saas ka kahna hai ladke toh ghumayenge hi galti ladkiyo ki hai ladko ko woh fasati hain..par shadi arranged hi hogi gf chahe jitni bana lo
Chaa gaye boss
Ye wali episode bhot zabardast the Junaid bhai
Love you
Your old viewer
Apne 24 sall me directions nazar ni ate wali bato ne bhot chezan sikhade r clear krde
Bhai enjoy and love watching ur content mashaAllah
Last question is the best part, what a motivational thoughts
To the girl from the US, I live in the us and I've just realized how blessed I am with my parents. I am so sorry to hear what you're going through and it sounds like fucking hell. My advice to you is just to get an apt 8 hrs away from your parents and leave them. They aren't your parents. And the guy your dating, leave him you're in your prime 25 age, don't waste your time with that guy. Leave him and find someone else.
Ramadan Mubarak Ganjiswag! Love all of your videos!
MashaAllah.
To the USA wali Divorced girl: please leave your parents and bf. You are independent. Just focus on your career. Imagine your fate if you have been in Pakistan or any south Asian country. Use the opportunity of being in a country that gives the best opportunities to beginners. Your bf is using you. Ethnicity or caste isn't the matter. If he does care for you he would have helped you in your tough time and wouldn't make excuses.
Girl from Uk:
I am also living in Uk I don’t even have kids. Stay at home none to talk whole day. Me and my husband we both don’t have any friends. But every day I call my mum and my sisters. And I searched and found my school and college friends and talk to them once in a month. Your husband is right in every sense. People send me requests and msg me but I always blocked them.
Well clearly she is not satisfied with her husband and wants to risk her marriage for that cheap guy from pakistan who have this weird fetish for married women.
You're love man 🙏🏻♥️
Thanks for uploading❤️❤️ keep these ask episodes coming 😊 always waiting for them🤤 aur hafty main 2/3 upload to dy humain 😂😂😂 I know aap bohat busy hain these days assuming from your insta stories but we love #askganjiawag 😍 more power & love to you ❣️
perfect time to upload is waqt mai kam karne bethta hn or ye sunta hn zbardast maza ajata hai .. thanks junaid bhai
my mom has thought the exact thing that mr.swag stated that " dont waste your time, energy, and money on things you can't change"
past being one of them
Yaasss..im always waiting for long videos. They r so enlightening and i listen to them doing other tasks
I love these podcasts so much. If possible, Sir, please do upload more frequently as ramdhan is here, I would like to listen to these while working instead of the usual music I do, thanks.
25 Year old girl from USA:
First of all you are a queen 👑
Move out and get a break from that boy and may be he feels more attached to you and realise that you are the best and about your studies you could get online clasees and may be go on a vection and explore new things like a mountainous region because may be connecting with the nature could help you feel relaxed. Change your name and hair so if your parents do search for you they dont find you and i hope you get out from this bad situation
Almost all men age 18-25 who are U.S. citizens or are immigrants living in the U.S. are required to be registered with Selective Service. U.S. law calls for citizens to register within 30 days of turning 18 and immigrants to register
1:06:30 on point! A lot of people do that and manipulate situations to make the other person feel guilty
It's called gaslighting.
Masooda Bawli, made my day 🤣
" Mai lightona walay say kh kar lagwalon Brown families don't give a shit about their daughters"
This made me laugh and feel emotional at the same time
Just came to like will watch later
Ap jese log kaha milty hy : )
Me 2
Not everything you watch with family- and if you want to then don’t complain- he is the only guy who talks real.
Well said Ganjay Bhai.
Spotify ka link kaam nahi kar raha aur spotify ka search ma bhi name nahi a raha hai
Plzz make video for parents so that we can show that video and tell them things that we can't ✌🏻 say .big love sir
Ramzan Mubarak Sir 🖤
So many prayers for U ♥️
When will you collaborated with your wife again? I want "ask ganjiswag ft my wife" series againnnnnnnnnn
MASHALLAH Junaid Bhai keep going you are doing good
Hamara Bhai Hamara Bhai Junaid Bhai Junaid Bhai
What an amazing end credits placement and overall look. So professional 👏
Love You Brother❤❤❤
For first question analysis it was excellent. Literally cuty** awam hai apni. Small minds.
Daily life lesson we will listen and change own self before anything happening
To the Pakistani American Soldier:
Rangers lead the way !! Love and respect to Pakistani American ranger officer
Rangers lead the way??
Kaise??
Kia Okhada hai kisi ka Abhi Tak?
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@@minamohabbatforlovefriends9189 read military history. Pakistan army ki bat nhi kr rha jo har jang mei ulti lait jati h hathyar phenk k. LOL
It's blatant gunnah, he will be part of murdering and killing innocent civilians!
Assalamu alaikum junaid Bhai aap Boht hi Acha tarah moralize karte hai.
Great 😅✌️✌️
amazing
For the question at 50:28 There is a Hadith of our beloved Prophet PBUH.
Nawas bin Saman (RA) se rewayat hai k meney Nabi Pak SAW se Gunah k barey mein pucha to Ap SAW ne Fermaya:
"Gunnah wohi hai jo tumharey dill mein khatkey, or tumhey pasand na ho k logo ko iski itlah ho" Sahih Muslim (2553)
I think this Hadith best fits every scenario whenever you are caught between two stools, and it gives you the answer, whether you like it or not.
May this Hadith finds the woman who asked the question. Junaid bhai plz pin this comment at least, so she could return to the right path. May Allah bless everyone with the best. May He ease all you troubles and give ur heart peace it has always been craving for❤️.
Watching junaids video is my therapy ♥️❤️
Regarding 1st question. Pakistan Army gives priority if you are from interior Sindh, Baluchistan or Fata. I doubt this guy must have failed in initials or ISSB and blaming it to quota system. Also things are not making up he was raised in USA then how he applied in Pakistan army as a foreign national or if he was raised in Pakistan how he got the "Presidential Award" that are given in USA schools !!
also, non cirizens cannot be commissioned as officers in US Armed forces.
looks farce.
Presidential awards are given to outstanding individuals regardless of their nationality.
@lucas his point is. You can't join Pakistan army being a US citizen. It's a poor written story he made it up. He studied in US and appeared in initial, baki sab nai to English ma to fail hona hi tha.. there is a very low possibility that he would've cleared initials.
@lucas the person wrote that heis a commissioned officer in US Army, you can enlistin the US Armed Forces as an NCO (as we call them in sub continent armies of pak and india), basically a private not an officer with a rank of 2nd Lieutenant.
@@asifmehmood5398 I know, but I made this comment about Pakistani School. There they don't have any "Presidential Awards " in schools (in case that guy schooling was in Pakistan)
For the 25 years old girl.
Sister,
Move out from this toxic house.Your mother and stepfather have conceived your personality in bad way.Rent or Get an apartment and focus on your own life.USA is a huge country.Leave the guy who is confused and doesn't care about your life.May Allah guide and helps you with your life.'
For the girl with “ Toxic family”. You need to move on and get rid of this dude. Hes going to keep you around until his mother finds him a virgin in Pakistan. Girl cut your losses and get over it. You ll be glad you did in few years.
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I don’t know but i am finding few stories are one sided where the writer portrays themselves as a victim . Especially in case of that toxic parents girl and married girl in UK. My opinion and suggestions would be completely different as I have been living in UK and know few parents whose daughters got divorces and they(parents) are sick of them and want to get rid of them . The kids think that they are right while the whole world can see wrong in them except their few friends.
They are not kids. They are adults hence they can make their life decisions wheather its right or not. We should learn to accept decisions of others
so blessed i feel to have brown parents who have let me make choices on my own
When Junaid said ap aur hum is problem k barey m. Soch bhi nahi saktay... It's not true I know living in karachi and how it feels living in a jail.... Damn hell.... I feel her..... But I can totally relate I m living in a jail here
PUBG khela karo, mast time pass hai
"assume that you're a third person and think that you're responsible for him/her" HARD-HITTING
56:00 , block that man, you can be friend with me. how was the day, is very small thing,u should leave him. befriend with any girl. it will be good.
Pakistani American serving in the US Army
In the US if youre a US citizen or a Permanent Resident (Green card holder) and youre a male from 17 to 23 , you are obligated to serve in the US army if called upon.
Exactly I second that
It's called selective service and every resident in that age and gender group has to sign that.
Quota system is only in civil system/jobs, there’s no quota system in Pakistan army
GOOD
Yar jo log serious hota hain real relationship k liye un ko log serious leta nahi and jo serious nahi hota un ko log serious leta hain.😂😂
#Fact
Sahi bhai 😒😞
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Let me add information about the Electric Car Parking free in Oslo. Yes Junaid bhai its was parking free in oslo city but not anymore. But yes parking fee for electric car is much cheaper than other Petrol and Diesel cars. Yes parking fee and Toll was free for electric car when newly electric cars were introduced just to encourage people to buy more but now each year the Parking fee and Toll ( Bompenger in Norwegain ) increasing.
patreon walon ke liye uncensored version daalden traffic tales ka :)
Han to patreons walo ki family nhi hoti ?
50:28 caught on first night 😒
And again talking to some one she isn't a pro you she will get caught.
Mene like krdeyaaa hai me phir ata ho
Full concentrate se sunongaaa❤
US Army guy- Absolutely correct! I had to register myself in Selective Service once I turned 18. US can call you for combat or any crisis mgmt. You have to take oath and pledge yoh will serve US soil. “Land of the brave, home of the free”. MA Junaid Bhai your knowledge is vast!
Junaid Bhai I am a big fan.i watch your every video, even sometimes 2 to 3 times.this 25 yr old girl from US ,I guess it is not even a problem or rather you can say not a problem to send it over to you .we all face problems and moments in life where we can't decide.this girl only has to take good decisions in her life.sometimes I feel we over think too much and you should also demotivate your viewers on this behavior.stop crying over everything.instead try solving it at your own and consultation of your good friends(if need any)
for the second person
Everything in Moderation in Moderation, including Moderation
53:12 even in those films, the wife or the husband ward off that person who tries to get too intimate with her or him and the sole reason why they avert such a precipitous situation is because either of them share that fidelity and love with the other.
Spectacular comparison on 1:9:00😂
Awesome project 👍
I can relate with the girl with toxic family!!!
Conscription in the US was abolished after the Vietnam war.
But if you have enlisted (high school kids very often mistakingly fill out the form as army comes to high schools to recruit regularly), you may have wanted to go in to cook or for some other professional opportunity, but can be called and sent to Iraq (thanks to Bush Jr.).
Girl from USA has so similar story , If she wanna hangout I live in USA too. I would love to have a chat with her
Where in USA ?
Bhai timeline main kuch mistake hai question 6 thy shayad liken 4 show ho rahy
Please add English subtitles in #askganjiswag videos !!
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yrr abhi tak 100k nahi huwe he deserve millions subs...
To American/Pakistani sister: You can find your own place and break up with your boyfriend. You are better off living alone and being with limited number of friends you trust instead of being in toxic relationships. You can seek counseling while doing what you enjoy doing in life.
This is solid advice.
1. Kick the boyfriend to the curb
2. Move out into an apartment with a roommate if possible (reduces the financial burden a bit).
3. Get into therapy.
Seedhi baat hay bhai gaaliyon ki wajah say boht say log apki videos dekhna bhi chahay tau bhi nahi dekh sakta. Bachon ko sometimes gaaliyon ki wajah say forward ni kar saktay
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بہت ہی عمدہ 😃
Yes ! Its called Selective Services 5 Years of service…
Junaid bhai says look for validation within yourself and then always asks his cameraman/editor: "Kyun bhai? Mein sahi hoon na? Aisa hi hai na?" Jokes aside great work keep it up!
Federal government can still call us for selective service in United States although they normally don’t
FYI your 'audio channels' links do not work
To the women who has no friends and lives in UK, you live in the UK, not Pakistan and if you've been living through that shithole for 7 years, I would highly recommend that you get a divorce or separate from that guy, it's never too late. Im only saying that because it's the UK, not Pakistan. You can find a 10x times better than that guy. It's not worth it because when your son grows up and finds this out he's going to hate your husband and tell you that why did you live in this misery. It's not worth it in the long run for you or your son.
Uk married girl :
Talk to your husband k ye kb tk qaid chly ge I am a human being , badlna ha khud ko ya nahi and give him a chance . Set boundary that you will not follow me else I will leave. In parallel , rather than talking to some random guy invest time in learning how to be financially independent as you mentioned that you are allowed to take online courses . So that if he breaks boundary to ap leave krny qabil ho .
Shadi ka ek alag series start kardu bhai
Bhai, Patreon link is broken
What you said it’s true