5 Marriage Red Flags My Clients Wish They Knew Sooner (Before Disaster)…

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  • @habibrahim88
    @habibrahim88 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    You pretty much described 90% of the young people on earth .

    • @AbuZak14
      @AbuZak14 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      😂

    • @Abdur-Rahman862
      @Abdur-Rahman862 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Who raised them?

  • @Sarah.G_2
    @Sarah.G_2 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    It’s best if a girl wears little to no makeup when meeting a potential spouse for the first time, so that she doesn’t deceive him and he knows who he’s getting involved with.

    • @Anonymous_56789
      @Anonymous_56789 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I’m pretty sure it’s haram to wear makeup in front of non mahram suitors anyways

    • @Sarah.G_2
      @Sarah.G_2 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Anonymous_56789 It is. But some women find it extremely difficult to not wear makeup at all so I’m saying it’s better if you at least try to wear very little makeup so the guy can see how you really look like. This comment was for women who haven’t reached that level of religiosity where they stop wearing makeup completely.

  • @alm_alb
    @alm_alb 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Makeup is deception. Agreed.
    May Allah make us honest with ourselves.

  • @OmarElghamry1
    @OmarElghamry1 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    One of the things that women should look out for, and I am sorry to say that, is porn addiction. Many Muslim men struggle with this to cope with being single, and they think they could stop it after marriage, but it is not always the case, and they get disappointment with real life experiences. I hope the sheikh could address this issue, I don't if someone could ask about that.

  • @Anonymous_56789
    @Anonymous_56789 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Our Prophet ﷺ said “Whoever recites Ayatul Kursi immediately after each prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entering Paradise except death."
    Dont forget to recite Ayatul kursi before sleep Our Prophet ﷺ said, When you go to your bed, recite Ayatul Kursi and you will be protected by Allah, and no devil will come near you until morning (5010) Narrated by al-Bukhari
    Take screenshot and share to earn reward (it allows you to copy and paste easily), and spread this message to also earn rewards by directing others towards good In’Sha’Allah, maybe Allah could make this a means to grant us Jannaht Ul Firdaus Ameen

  • @Hopeful168
    @Hopeful168 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Highly active on social media ( say 200 followers or so)
    Does he follow women , likes their pics, even if hijab pics
    Obsession with ur status, passport, vacations , how money can be spent
    Dad's wealth, Asking if u inheriting anything
    Talking badly to their parents and doesn't do what parent says
    Too much focus on their appearance, almost facking the actual look , almost taking a selfie etc, looks at himself in the mirror
    Too much career oriented women , mission and adventure -- masculine trait , she may totally compromise on family life , no balance etc
    Lack of mission, drive for doing stuff for World is a red flag in man laid back attitude ki job and earn and fine , NOOO .
    Women want mission oriented men

    • @mhersi2dude
      @mhersi2dude 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for the list jazakhallah khair

  • @priusa8113
    @priusa8113 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Alhamdulilah both my husband and I dislike makeup so I don’t even own it! ❤

  • @bl4ckx977
    @bl4ckx977 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I want to be dora the Explorer hahaha

  • @yasminenazarine1629
    @yasminenazarine1629 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Passport, green card, money 💰🙏

  • @alanab5735
    @alanab5735 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    These greencard snatchers/scammers are awful. I can see why these men become very cynical. In my personal experience with family, friends, and acquaintances, I have only seen men being greencard scammers/snatchers, so my views are a bit biased. It's strange to me that a woman doesn't eventually fall in love with a man who takes care of her like these men did and these women just bailed. How does a person fake loving someone for so long. These are r*ve*ge worthy scenarios NGL. " See ya loser."

    • @taimurahmad
      @taimurahmad 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Quite the opposite. It's mostly wmn
      A wmn story got famous when she got her husband ki@$^led and fled with her boyfriend she had bfr marriage. She was from Muslim country. She stole his money and only married for grene card. Police arrested her and I think she was exe"c"uted.

  • @sweet_cupcak
    @sweet_cupcak 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What does he mean with my clients tho? What does he do ?!

  • @adnane627
    @adnane627 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Would you recommend a man to divorce, if he is married a few months, has not yet consumated and not yet given his wedding, but already did nikkah a few months ago, when he starts seeing red flags. Or would you advice to try and fix.

  • @FolkeBernadotte2
    @FolkeBernadotte2 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have to disagree on the mission driven women. Many of that kind once they get married they slowdown & even stop their volunteer, philanthropist, Dawa,… etc. Sometimes they marry a man from the same field who shares the same mission. Apparently it’s more successful than many other marriages.

  • @alanab5735
    @alanab5735 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Advise men to bring some micellar water or Neutragena towlette wipes to wipe off the woman's makeup at marriage meetings.
    I think it's good to let a man see you at your worst at first, so he is wowed at your best. Maybe meet potentials at the hospital? Mental institution? Look homeless and disheveled first meeting. Then be dolled up next neeting. Third time, be casual. He'll think you are three different people.

    • @mhersi2dude
      @mhersi2dude 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Lol what did i just read

  • @jawwad1189
    @jawwad1189 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am the second commentor and i get a trophy 🏆

    • @avishkarmothilal7697
      @avishkarmothilal7697 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      🥈

    • @jawwad1189
      @jawwad1189 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @avishkarmothilal7697 thanks you

    • @jawwad1189
      @jawwad1189 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@avishkarmothilal7697 thank you

    • @taimurahmad
      @taimurahmad 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sister from Yemen wad here before you. She is always 1st....

    • @jawwad1189
      @jawwad1189 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@taimurahmad yeah I know I have to find away to get here faster

  • @amar3719
    @amar3719 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Red flag if you want to have nice, decent job and normal life instead of fake pretending motivated lion xD wtf

  • @julianagfernan
    @julianagfernan 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Did he at 6:40 actually say that it's not ok for "ugly" women to beautify themselves with make up? How can he judge who is too ugly for make up? Lol, I didn't know there was a beauty score restriction on foundation and lipstick.

    • @aazimsheikh6030
      @aazimsheikh6030 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      If you listen to 10 seconds beyond the timestamp that you posted, he clearly says that many women "put on makeup, and the difference between the makeup and reality is huge and a deception".
      I don't think anyone that properly understands this message thinks that he's saying "if you're ugly you can't wear makeup" since at the end of the day beauty is subjective and in the eye of the beholder
      But what he is saying is that some women will intentionally use makeup to hide their original face, change their blemishes contours etc and look like someone they're not, then when they wash their face their husband sees someone totally different. That's the deception he is saying to avoid

    • @Sarah.G_2
      @Sarah.G_2 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It’s best if a woman wears little to no makeup when meeting a potential spouse for the first time, so that she doesn’t deceive him and he knows who he’s getting involved with.

    • @alm_alb
      @alm_alb 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So you call women ugly unless they wear makeup?
      Think about it. He’s actually more accepting of women than women are accepting of themselves.

    • @Anonymous_56789
      @Anonymous_56789 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Haram for you to wear makeup in front of non mahrams and even the suitor who’s still a non mahram .

    • @EE-kt8sh
      @EE-kt8sh 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Learn to listen, your life would improve

  • @SamiraDaughterofYemen
    @SamiraDaughterofYemen 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    My appeal to every Muslim, my brother or sister, the owner of the channel, I know that it is not my right to comment on your channel, but God is my witness that our circumstances are harsh and forced me to do this. Please forgive me. My brother, there is still a brotherhood of faith. I asked you for a bag of flour. My brother, we women cannot go out among men. There is still a woman with you. My brother, God has honored you. You are men. We are women. We cannot go out or work like you. My brother, where is the brotherhood of faith in your hearts? We are women. There is no brotherhood, no mercy, no compassion, no humanity. And give good tidings to the patient. It is the greatest hope while waiting for what we want. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' How many times I called and talked and tried hard, but no one responded. Oh man, we are with you. My mother ordered us food from the restaurant. More and today. My mother left. Crying. She said, Why are you crying, my mother? She said, My daughter, I ask. God, that I may be honored by death. She said, Why, my mother. She cursed us. She said, "My daughter, today the restaurant owner insulted me. I said, 'Why?' I said, 'How can I be better than people?' I ask God, my daughter. May God gather me. With death alone, a gathering that is better than this humiliation and this humiliation. It is true. I am saying this. It diminishes my value and respect. But, man. I swear to God that I did not say this. I kiss your boots. I am so hungry that my conscience no longer allows me to let you go and ask us for food. I kiss your boots, man, and I ask you by God Almighty and in the Book of God, man, I kiss your boots, man. He has caused us harm, my brother, so that we can buy a kilo of flour and pay the rent. My brother, have mercy on us. He who is in the show will have mercy on you, He who is in the sky. My brother, this is my WhatsApp number: 00967717591071. Whoever can help us, message me on WhatsApp. We will send him the full name. He will transfer us as much as he can. May Allah reward you. Allah knows that my family and I, our house rent is 15 thousand Yemeni riyals per month, and now we owe 45 thousand for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of those people who do not have mercy. By Allah, my brother, he comes every day and humiliates us and talks about us and wants to throw us out of the house and into the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. We will have until the end of the week, and if we pay him, he will swear by Allah that he will throw us out into the street without mercy. See my situation for yourselves. I ask you by Allah, the Living, the Eternal, to help me. By Allah, the Almighty, even at night we cannot sleep from fear. We do not have mattresses or blankets to warm ourselves from the cold. Everything is flooded from the rain, and we have no one but Allah and then you. My brothers, I kiss your boots, don’t turn me away empty-handed. Help us with whatever you can. Is it acceptable to you that we live in this place? We are girls and we have no one. Our father died in a car accident. Consider us your daughters and your honor, and help me with whatever you can. May God reward you with good =>[[}>] ^][;&&&//&..,~~~♡♡~~~♡~~♡~•~•••••~•(・|.}]◤)~♡~♡~;l.i.i.i¡¡.i.i.l.|-.»◇◇.........

    • @J_Atsak
      @J_Atsak 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh shut up, fake account

  • @Fatima-c4d7i
    @Fatima-c4d7i 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My appeal to every Muslim, my brother or sister, the owner of the channel, I know that it is not my right to comment on your channel, but God is my witness that our circumstances are harsh and forced me to do this. Please forgive me. My brother, there is still a brotherhood of faith. I asked you for a bag of flour. My brother, we women cannot go out among men. There is still a woman with you. My brother, God has honored you. You are men. We are women. We cannot go out or work like you. My brother, where is the brotherhood of faith in your hearts? We are women. There is no brotherhood, no mercy, no compassion, no humanity. And give good tidings to the patient. It is the greatest hope while waiting for what we want. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' How many times I called and talked and tried hard, but no one responded. Oh man, we are with you. My mother ordered us food from the restaurant. More and today. My mother left. Crying. She said, Why are you crying, my mother? She said, My daughter, I ask. God, that I may be honored by death. She said, Why, my mother. She cursed us. She said, "My daughter, today the restaurant owner insulted me. I said, 'Why?' I said, 'How can I be better than people?' I ask God, my daughter. May God gather me. With death alone, a gathering that is better than this humiliation and this humiliation. It is true. I am saying this. It diminishes my value and respect. But, man. I swear to God that I did not say this. I kiss your boots. I am so hungry that my conscience no longer allows me to let you go and ask us for food. I kiss your boots, man, and I ask you by God Almighty and in the Book of God, man, I kiss your boots, man. He has caused us harm, my brother, so that we can buy a kilo of flour and pay the rent. My brother, have mercy on us. He who is in the show will have mercy on you, He who is in the sky. My brother, this is my WhatsApp number: +𝟵𝟲𝟳𝟳𝟭𝟳𝟴𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟵. Whoever can help us, message me on WhatsApp. We will send him the full name. He will transfer us as much as he can. May Allah reward you. Allah knows that my family and I, our house rent is 20 thousand Yemeni riyals per month, and now we owe 60 thousand for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of those people who do not have mercy. By Allah, my brother, he comes every day and humiliates us and talks about us and wants to throw us out of the house and into the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. We will have until the end of the week, and if we pay him, he will swear by Allah that he will throw us out into the street without mercy. See my situation for yourselves. I ask you by Allah, the Living, the Eternal, to help me. By Allah, the Almighty, even at night we cannot sleep from fear. We do not have mattresses or blankets to warm ourselves from the cold. Everything is flooded from the rain, and we have no one but Allah and then you. My brothers, I kiss your boots, don’t turn me away empty-handed. Help us with whatever you can. Is it acceptable to you that we live in this place? We are girls and we have no one. Our father died in a car accident. Consider us your daughters and your honor, and help me with whatever you can. May God reward you with good =>[[}>] ^][;;&&;;&%😭💔😭😭&;;&😭💔💔&&&//&..,~~~♡♡~~~♡~~♡~•~•••••~•(・|.}]◤)~♡~♡~;l.i.i.i¡¡.i.i.l.ii||`،-.»◇◇~~،،،.،،،،،،-,|;....................-.........,...........................

  • @sihamali-j3w
    @sihamali-j3w 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My appeal to every Muslim, my brother or sister, the owner of the channel, I know that it is not my right to comment on your channel, but God is my witness that our circumstances are harsh and forced me to do this. Please forgive me. My brother, there is still a brotherhood of faith. I asked you for a bag of flour. My brother, we women cannot go out among men. There is still a woman with you. My brother, God has honored you. You are men. We are women. We cannot go out or work like you. My brother, where is the brotherhood of faith in your hearts? We are women. There is no brotherhood, no mercy, no compassion, no humanity. And give good tidings to the patient. It is the greatest hope while waiting for what we want. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' How many times I called and talked and tried hard, but no one responded. Oh man, we are with you. My mother ordered us food from the restaurant. More and today. My mother left. Crying. She said, Why are you crying, my mother? She said, My daughter, I ask. God, that I may be honored by death. She said, Why, my mother. She cursed us. She said, "My daughter, today the restaurant owner insulted me. I said, 'Why?' I said, 'How can I be better than people?' I ask God, my daughter. May God gather me. With death alone, a gathering that is better than this humiliation and this humiliation. It is true. I am saying this. It diminishes my value and respect. But, man. I swear to God that I did not say this. I kiss your boots. I am so hungry that my conscience no longer allows me to let you go and ask us for food. I kiss your boots, man, and I ask you by God Almighty and in the Book of God, man, I kiss your boots, man. He has caused us harm, my brother, so that we can buy a kilo of flour and pay the rent. My brother, have mercy on us. He who is in the show will have mercy on you, He who is in the sky. My brother, this is my WhatsApp number: 00967712414748 . Whoever can help us, message me on WhatsApp. We will send him the full name. He will transfer us as much as he can. May Allah reward you. Allah knows that my family and I, our house rent is 15 thousand Yemeni riyals per month, and now we owe 45 thousand for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of those people who do not have mercy. By Allah, my brother, he comes every day and humiliates us and talks about us and wants to throw us out of the house and into the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. We will have until the end of the week, and if we pay him, he will swear by Allah that he will throw us out into the street without mercy. See my situation for yourselves. I ask you by Allah, the Living, the Eternal, to help me. By Allah, the Almighty, even at night we cannot sleep from fear. We do not have mattresses or blankets to warm ourselves from the cold. Everything is flooded from the rain, and we have no one but Allah and then you. My brothers, I kiss your boots, don’t turn me away empty-handed. Help us with whatever you can. Is it acceptable to you that we live in this place? We are girls and we have no one. Our father died in a car accident. Consider us your daughters and your honor, and help me with whatever you can. May God reward you with good =>[[}>] ^][/*&;;&;&&;•̥·-`.`.`.`.`.•.,¸-•.,¸°꒰·̮ •̥·°`.`.`… nn…...............l ...... ……… .j… ,,,………i ..i. ...i....l,.. ,....i....i......jl. .. ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i,,,,,____