So evidently he probably was doing just as he said he probably was in her life a little enough for her to have that type of bond in my opinion probably all she knew as her daddy where was the military man at and her mother...🤔
That’s not the point. Dude went all those years thinking he was the daddy and did nothing. Said he did this and that but paid nothing. He shouldn’t have lied like he was this present parent
He doesn't owe him an apology. This grown man admitted he thought she was his her ENTIRE LIFE and did NOTHING to help raise her! That's a dead beat dad all day everyday. He could have taken a DNA test from CVS or paid for one 40 years ago. He deserves no sympathy!
JM: "You're not the father. Have a good day." Bangs gavel. Nah, nah! You need to apologize to this man you, GOON! Greg read him down without even understanding the full story when the girl CLEARLY indicated that his support and listening ear was quite enough. So worried about money allllllll the time. As a "potential" father, this man maintained his lane. She seemed appreciative at least.
I mean because it’s not enough that’s the point. And you can’t be in a child’s life halfway and keep them at arms distance their entire life don’t just enough just in case you aren’t the biological father. You either in or you out. And where’s the mother
@@cushe83 That mom was the cause of all of this telling that girl multiple men were her dad . She’s deceased . The man wasn’t sure he should have gotten a paternity test years ago that’s where he’s wrong. Imagine how used he’d would have felt had he paid all that child support and this wasn’t his daughter that’s not right.
Judge Mathis be on these men when they don’t take care of their children. This is really a sad case! The defendant needs some counseling . She was abandoned by both of her parents! It’s said that the plaintiff is not her Father. Prayers for all parties.🙏🏽
Now Judge Mathis! I know that was hard, but damn, your not the father have a good day? I have been a critical care nurse for over 30 years. There have been times when I have been completely devastated, for a tragedy that has occurred in one one of my patients lives! However, I can hold it togather long enough to put my emotions to the side, and continue to help them, knowing it’s their hurt that is greater. Judge if you can’t take it stop doing it! He looked real crazy on this one.
He was a dead beat dad. If you thought a child was yours for the first 14 years of their life you wouldn't provide for that child??? That's horrible. He could have found out 40 years ago...
he was a complete deadbeat. He didn't contribute at all to her life and barely even saw her when he thought he was a dad. Im glad he got embarrassed cheap ass man
Would’ve been different if he came on here saying he never thought he was the father but he was trying to make himself look like dad of the year without paying a dime
The hardest episode i had to watch. All she there breaking down judge mathis kept going in on him. He so crude. Being a father aint just about money. God damn😢
@@lavidaloca2344 Money makes a differnce but the fact she called him daddy and hugged him tightly after finding out he is not her father proves your point 1000% wrong.
First JM was wrong for the way he bashed this man. And Second, her mommy was low down and dirty for lying to her and leaving this world with out helping her know who her daddy really is. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I disagree. The plaintiff testified that he believed the defendant was his daughter. All of these years, he has knowingly allowed his daughter to go through life without his financial support. She even calls him "Daddy". He finds it acceptable to treat his "daughter" in a way that most wouldn't treat a stranger.
This woman needs some serious emotional help for her own sake! Between her mother going back and forth on who her damn father is, and the "father" she was intermittently in contact with... she seems to have some major issues that should be addressed and resolved for HER quality of life. Smh, sad all the way around. Her outburst at the end was heartbreaking, at her age she should know the other 50% of her DNA!
Jm has said it on old shows that his dad wasn't there for him, and he didn't know what he would do to him if he ever saw him... so every man that comes to the show that hasnt paid child support IS HIS FATHER that's why he is so judgemental towards them. He was coercing the defendant to say that she needed money...smh
@@janaes922that’s true but he wasn’t even the father. If Judge is gonna go hard on these men he needs to secretly read the results beforehand so he knows his words are justified. He talkin to that man like that and thats not even his child. I dnt care if he THOUGHT he was the dad. He didn’t KNOW. Plus he was there for her in every way except financially. That seemed good enough for her especially since it was even certain that he was her dad.
JM beraded, shaded, made a fool of that man the entire time for him NOT to be the father and not a word of sorry or some type of attriction expressed to him. He scurried out of that court room faster than roaches when they turn that light on docta. Linda must've been on her daily 4 hour AM walks that he hates.
@@jplaya2023 nah…mom died ….should have been got a dna test….respectable real men….who believe they’re the father don’t allow themselves to be pushed away or delay finding out the truth. Stop trying to absolve the man for being a dead beat when the thought he was the father 🤦🏾♂️
This was mean & cruel treatment of the young lady. JM should've read paternity test results before embarrassing this man about not paying. Then, he delivered the results of paternity in a cold way because he was disgusted by the alleged father's lack of financial support, but it devastated the young woman.
God I pray to you for healing for the defendant. She’s so hurt that she’s apologizing when she did nothing wrong. Lord please mend her broken heart. Amen 🙏
This shows how often Judges form an opinion within the first few minutes. Right or wrong, man was active in her life for nothing. She broke down and cried at the end obviously what he gave was worth more than a dollar.
JM will make you wanna curse him out and throw hands on him. He jumped the gun so quick on this man without giving him the benefit of the doubt. This young lady didn’t have any issues with the relationship she had with the assumed father and then turns out that he wasn’t the father. All that bashing JM did was for nothing and he ended the case without an apology just horrible horrible horrible. JM needs to check himself and take a chill pill 💊
I totally agree, I was listening to the case as I was driving home. He was making me mad, I like watching this but sometimes JM does to much!! I hope he felt like a fool after this case
Mathis, is on something, my grandad, at 93, whilst we sit here and watch, say Mathis is very emotional and taking his own anger out of the litigants..... Why is it that Mathis trying to degrade and berate individuals/litigants. The plaintiff, at least spend time, listen, talk, advised. For many dads are NOT there at all. GIVE THE MAN some sort of credit that he spend time and love her, even when he failed at the financial part of her, the defendants, growing up. Look at the end result. He IS NOT THE FATHER. I believed he knew, but loved her anyway and be there. Should have let it go and just continue with thr semi relationship as father and daughter; for the defendant's mother is no longer living to say who or whom is her daddy.
Although I really like uncle JMmathis if they are canceling him they could use this episode alone to use as great reasoning and motive. I wouldn’t fight it! Insensitive , rude and haughty nature. He should have offered the young lady counseling and the dad an open apology. Btw I know it was negative before the Judge came out. She would have took on his biological makeup in some way shape form of fashion. 🙏🏽❤️ praying for them..
Now Judge Mathis you owe him an apology😩That’s why the man acted and responded the way he did🥺He probably knew all along he wasn’t her dad but hoped that she was😔I’m so sorry you guys and I hope she finds her dad❤️.
No need for Judge Mathis to apologize if the plaintiff came in claiming he was the father and thought he was so ALL her life...yet he never did anything to support her financially. Judge Mathis has nothing to apologize for.
I pray that this young woman gets therapy and be able to heal from all of the traumas she’s been through while growing up without her parents. I’m wondering if the military dad is doing anything for her 🤔. She could really use some of those benefits right now.
Judge Mathis knock that ish off. How can he give financial assistance if she was thinking she had another father? You know he didn't mean they were together from 1 to 14. He said they tried to start a relationship when she was 14. He believed he was her father since she was born. You know that man words was mixed up. Hell even I peeped that. 🙄🙄😒😒😒
Then if he truly believed she was his, why didn't he contribute 🤔 he even came around to ask for her Uncle? The plaintiff knew she wasn't his deep down, that's why he didn't.
I think Judge Mathis went WAY too hard on him. I understand going in on him because he never provided tangible support but all that was unnecessary. I think JM was so abrupt at the end because he was hurt too.
Don’t like how he would not even give the man credit for being in her life and being there for her smh money can only do so much. Time and relationship are way more valuable
@chriswash12 Toothpaste cost Toilet tissue cost Sheets and blankets cost Shoes cost Clothes cost Transportation(bus, Uber, gas) Water to shower/bathe, cost Anywho's I think you understand what I'm saying. Children/Mini humans COST and no matter how much time you spend or lend your ear to listen, it does not pay for their livelihood.
@@lavidaloca2344 this is what I know. The government assist with all of that. Cash aid and food aid. We pay taxes in order to provide it. So does that dad. However the government can’t provide a involved father. I agree that it’s important to financially help and support but in the system are country provides it’s more important to be there and raise your child the best you can. The mom was not there either she was raised by her relatives
Judge was dead wrong in this case. He let his inflated ego take over and didn't even apologize for the blatant disrespect. Judge is always talking about knowing the streets but is so out of touch with reality.
How the hell you trying to put this on this man. Her Mother was a trifling human being stringing 3 men along and not knowing who's the daddy. This the mama fault, ain't got shit to do with this man. Damn will women ever take accountability for they fuked up trifling ways. Naw just blame the man... smdh
@@god-issekhmet7118 Watch your mouth talking to me. It takes two, if he been there like he claim he was, he also could've gotten a DNA test. Are you slow? or you just don't know what it means to be a parent? both parents were irresponsible and caused that woman pain
@@god-issekhmet7118 She wasn't ONLY blaming the mother; she stated that both parties should have gotten a DNA test. Because she stated BOTH of the parties should have gotten it, she was not stating that ONLY THE MEN should take responsibility and not the WOMEN. Because if BOTH took a DNA test, considering how he behaved like he thought she was his child before the man knew she was not his child, to prove his assumptions, the man should have gotten a DNA test before he came to court. The mother should have gotten one as well since she has the child and would be the one with the most doubts. The mom had access to all the potential fathers of her child.
JM kept slamming the plaintiff even when she said over and over she thought another man was her father until age 14 which was the exact same age the plaintiff showed up regularly. There was way more story to be told but it never came out. And the way JM bounced out on her at the end was terrible. SMH
U can always tell when JM is having a bad day, he was more mad about the money than she was, it’s unfortunate how the results came out I feel for the daughter
Why is it that Mathis trying to degrade and berate individuals/litigants. Mathis, needs to apologize expeditiously to the plaintiff. Not right. For the end result of the DNA say otherwise and the defendant still called him daddy and breaking down bawling her eyes out Her mother is the one who kept her away and lied. Now has passed away and no truth to who is the real biological father Sad sad sad. But at least she still has the plaintiff to call daddy and continue talking to and we can tell he has been there for her; every which way, except financially. Many times all a child wants is love and to be listened to whilst spending quality time together.
Why apologize??? He came on there talking like he was daddy of the year but got exposed as a deadbeat. Judge even gave him a chance to correct himself after. All he had to do was tell the truth
@@sweettexastee the judge tried so hard to pry simple answers out of them and both of them were being weird about every question like there’s something deeper to this case
@@JazzyJeffRealTalk Yeeessss! The long awkward silence after the questions were asked was very telling. Also, for him to tell one story and her to tell a completely different story was beyond me because why would either of them have to lie about something so simple.
Both of them seem extremely confused. This is why it's important to find (if you have questions) who your kids father is. This is a bunch of mess that could be avoided.
@VaWilliams1996 lol nah not it at all. I was making a joke as it pertained to what Rodney stated. Didn't want to veer from his statement that's it. There are other comments that are right there where you are.
Judge had no right to make either of them feel bad about the child support issue...maybe he sent money to the mom, children are often left out about what goes on with the parents....there was some type of relationship the man came in stating ",,my daughter" and her tears at the end speaks to some type of relationship....it is a myth that truck drivers make a bunch of money.....they also have enormous expenses to run the truck often times they literally live in those trucks because of the truck is not moving they are not making money.
Just message is not always about financial stability from my father. It’s about that father being there for their child I will choose to have my father in my life rather than just receiving money from him.
Nope! No apologies needed by JM. Because the plaintiff thought he was the father. But didnt do DNA years ago. So child support agency wouldn't come after him. JM was angry with him . Because he lied about spending time with her. Blessings to her. She looks lost. Has no mother and doesn't know her father.
Right but how does a man "know" he's the father of a child, not be in her life for all those years, never support her financially and wait until she's grown to get a DNA test? Something felt very strange about this case!
Well he said he knew he was so that's what JM ran with. That's all anybody can do is run with the information given until the test. He can't look at the test before there storyline to figure out why there here. JM wasn't WRONG the man said I knew she was mines since birth so what can you do if a man says that 👀
yeah I'm not giving the dude a pass for being musty as hell as a father when he thought he might be. I'm saying the judge could have at least acknowledged that he was never obligated to assist after he found out. He definitely would have been a deadbeat if he was the father but the reality is he wasn't.
Every man does not need to get a paternity test depending on the life he lives and the life of the woman(women) he deals with. Why put yourself in this type of position? Everyone is not immoral and indiscreet.
@@sereneamani1713 Every man does since any person will lie under certain circumstances. Men now think they are dad to kids who were never theirs. A smart man will be safe and not sorry.
Neither plaintiff nor defendant expressed themselves well. After paternity results were read, the way the defendant broke down saying "I'm sorry daddy" was quite strange. Something is really weird about this case. Something's missing.
He needs to stop talking crazy to people. She may not have remembered that young. She isn't his daughter, why would he take care of her if he wasn't allowed to have a relationship.
Her mama was probably collecting cs 💰 from other man in the military whose most likely Not 🚫 bio father either. I believe he was trying to spare potential daughters feelings and/or embarrassment from her mothers transgressions & behaviors. Some of these women out here playing major games, only allowed to be a part of their offspring life when its convenient for them only benefits mother using children as pawns for leverage.
Judge Mathis wasn’t fair to this man. She stated her mom wasn’t her provider and also told her about someone else. Obviously she is the reason for the confusion. He was harsh to him. And money is definitely important but he did try
JM im not with you on this one. He could have atleast apologized for blasting the man out. When he wasn’t even the biological father. Mother’s please let be honest with our children if you are uncertain. So that they won’t end up on here like this.
I don’t blame the judge for being so quick with this one. She seemed like she was struggling to form complete thoughts. And the man just stood there stammering. No need to drag on a case where the litigants can barely answer questions.
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The money must don’t mean shit to her because she still called him daddy and cried on his shoulder
She knew he wasnt the father. They look NOTHING alike at all
The mother dead now 😮
So evidently he probably was doing just as he said he probably was in her life a little enough for her to have that type of bond in my opinion probably all she knew as her daddy where was the military man at and her mother...🤔
She's a grown ass woman she doesn't need any money.
@@jplaya2023 since when you have to look like someone to be their child? 🤷🏽♀️
Judge MATHIS gave the plaintiff a hard time about being a dead beat dad, even though he turns out he not the father.
Absolutely True...He deserves a Apology from Everyone Including Judge Mathis Immediately 😁
That’s not the point. Dude went all those years thinking he was the daddy and did nothing. Said he did this and that but paid nothing. He shouldn’t have lied like he was this present parent
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He owe that man an apology
He doesn't owe him an apology. This grown man admitted he thought she was his her ENTIRE LIFE and did NOTHING to help raise her! That's a dead beat dad all day everyday. He could have taken a DNA test from CVS or paid for one 40 years ago. He deserves no sympathy!
I think JM got up outta there so fast because he was embarrassed he dogged that man out when he didn't even turn out to be the father.
Even though he assumed he was her Father he never contributed financially to her ...that is awful.
@@mrshappilymarried1 how? so he could end up here and having paid thousands of dollars for a child that aint his?
@@usmcmikeco0651 wouldn't a grown man that doesn't want to pay for a child get a DNA test? CVS sells them all day...
Right
EXACTLY! Talked to that man like he was a pun-bish. Onionhead as
JM: "You're not the father. Have a good day."
Bangs gavel.
Nah, nah! You need to apologize to this man you, GOON! Greg read him down without even understanding the full story when the girl CLEARLY indicated that his support and listening ear was quite enough. So worried about money allllllll the time. As a "potential" father, this man maintained his lane. She seemed appreciative at least.
Exactly
I agreed
I mean because it’s not enough that’s the point. And you can’t be in a child’s life halfway and keep them at arms distance their entire life don’t just enough just in case you aren’t the biological father. You either in or you out. And where’s the mother
@@cushe83 That mom was the cause of all of this telling that girl multiple men were her dad . She’s deceased . The man wasn’t sure he should have gotten a paternity test years ago that’s where he’s wrong. Imagine how used he’d would have felt had he paid all that child support and this wasn’t his daughter that’s not right.
@@cushe83 All thse games start with the I don't give a mothers. Don't even know who the fahter is. Straight up abuse.
I really feel the largest amount of sympathy for this defendant. Very sad and unfortunate story.
Hey Adrian!🎉
Every other day you have compassion on a woman 🤔
Heartbreaking indeed 😢💔
@@Proverbspsalms You are getting to know the many sides of Adrian. A great psychological study.
@@sereneamani1713 honestly
Judge jumped out the window fast just for that type of result. He should’ve apologized for his attitude
Judge Mathis be doing too much
@@freereign911 facts!!
Exactly! He did all that and he not even the father
He was hoping to be the dead beat father. Judge Mantis was right for his words. Shame to all dead beat father.
He was hoping to be the dead beat father. Judge Mantis was right for his words. Shame to all dead beat father.
Judge Mathis be on these men when they don’t take care of their children. This is really a sad case! The defendant needs some counseling . She was abandoned by both of her parents! It’s said that the plaintiff is not her Father. Prayers for all parties.🙏🏽
He wasn't the childs father and he was acting like the was a deadbeat on the Maury show.
Now Judge Mathis! I know that was hard, but damn, your not the father have a good day? I have been a critical care nurse for over 30 years. There have been times when I have been completely devastated, for a tragedy that has occurred in one one of my patients lives! However, I can hold it togather long enough to put my emotions to the side, and continue to help them, knowing it’s their hurt that is greater. Judge if you can’t take it stop doing it! He looked real crazy on this one.
He gets yelled at for being a Dead Beat Dad when he really wasn’t one to begin with. OMG!
Well he said he knew he was the father since birth n if he knew that or thought that he was a straight bum as a supposed father.
He was a dead beat dad. If you thought a child was yours for the first 14 years of their life you wouldn't provide for that child??? That's horrible. He could have found out 40 years ago...
he was a complete deadbeat. He didn't contribute at all to her life and barely even saw her when he thought he was a dad. Im glad he got embarrassed cheap ass man
Would’ve been different if he came on here saying he never thought he was the father but he was trying to make himself look like dad of the year without paying a dime
He deserved to be yelled at. He was pretending to be a good father, he is nothing but another deadbeat.
The hardest episode i had to watch. All she there breaking down judge mathis kept going in on him. He so crude. Being a father aint just about money. God damn😢
Lol, humans need money to survive, it is about the money
@La Vida Loca Money is a social construct at the end of the day.
@@lavidaloca2344 Money makes a differnce but the fact she called him daddy and hugged him tightly after finding out he is not her father proves your point 1000% wrong.
I knew he was not the father absolutely zero resemblance
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She could look like her Mama? Alot of people don't look like their father 😳
O% resemblance
If he was a fan of JM before, he's definitely not now lol smh. I feel bad for the defendant though, hope she finds peace soon 🙏🏾
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I feel so sorry for the daughter. May God bless and keep her in Jesus name 🙏🏾
First JM was wrong for the way he bashed this man. And Second, her mommy was low down and dirty for lying to her and leaving this world with out helping her know who her daddy really is. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
OMG the accuracy!
I agree. Definitely hard to watch! There were 2 people that made this sweet young lady.
She told him the military man was her farther tho.
Exactly! He pissed me off with that. He was just being an idiot. He should have walked out.
I disagree. The plaintiff testified that he believed the defendant was his daughter. All of these years, he has knowingly allowed his daughter to go through life without his financial support. She even calls him "Daddy". He finds it acceptable to treat his "daughter" in a way that most wouldn't treat a stranger.
He delivered those results rather harshly. Despite the young woman’s feelings. Bad form
Feelings? She came to court to find out and she did. How do you nicely say. You are not the father
If she’s not concerned about the money; why is JM…. We get it!
This woman needs some serious emotional help for her own sake! Between her mother going back and forth on who her damn father is, and the "father" she was intermittently in contact with... she seems to have some major issues that should be addressed and resolved for HER quality of life. Smh, sad all the way around. Her outburst at the end was heartbreaking, at her age she should know the other 50% of her DNA!
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I agree. Just looking and listening to her, she seems defeated.
The Judge exited out of the courtroom real fast after bashing this guy and finding out he is not the father. The guy took it and didn't flinch. Lol
Exactly
I mean man did think that he was the father and didn’t take care of her.
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JM definitely needed to comfort this young lady and to the plaintiff.
The mother got away Scott free by playing this man saying he is then he’s not.
Well she's in Glory so she couldn't defend her actions
She looks absolutely 💯 Nothing like him . + judge Mathis didn't have to treat him like that .
He waited too long to take a paternity test. She was raised by her Auntie and Uncle. He should have taken more control earlier in this situation.
@@jplaya2023 that b!tch aint in glory she probably burning. Y'all think everybody go to heaven lol
@@C.B.2024 JM is an ultra simp. I'd never take a case against a woman to him 😂
No judge can beat judge Lake were paternity cases are concerned. She’s patient, polite and caring for people
He the wrong judge for this case😂
Judge Mathis owe dude an apology. He acted like the plaintiff baby mama
Jm has said it on old shows that his dad wasn't there for him, and he didn't know what he would do to him if he ever saw him... so every man that comes to the show that hasnt paid child support IS HIS FATHER that's why he is so judgemental towards them. He was coercing the defendant to say that she needed money...smh
@janaes I understand that but he takes it too far sometimes... he went in on this man for NOTHING and he wasn't even the father.
@@janaes922that’s true but he wasn’t even the father. If Judge is gonna go hard on these men he needs to secretly read the results beforehand so he knows his words are justified. He talkin to that man like that and thats not even his child. I dnt care if he THOUGHT he was the dad. He didn’t KNOW. Plus he was there for her in every way except financially. That seemed good enough for her especially since it was even certain that he was her dad.
Mom's was out there
back in the day! 💃🏿
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JM beraded, shaded, made a fool of that man the entire time for him NOT to be the father and not a word of sorry or some type of attriction expressed to him. He scurried out of that court room faster than roaches when they turn that light on docta. Linda must've been on her daily 4 hour AM walks that he hates.
Nah, man made a fool out of himself….believing you the father and don’t even help out deserve some level of shame. 🤦🏾♂️
JM didn’t owe that man anything that man thought he was the father or a possibility that he was and didn’t financially do anything the whole time
@@esils Thats on the mother.
@@derrickjohnson3656 in the end the man did right. He atleast sought answers. Wheres the other "father"
@@jplaya2023 nah…mom died ….should have been got a dna test….respectable real men….who believe they’re the father don’t allow themselves to be pushed away or delay finding out the truth. Stop trying to absolve the man for being a dead beat when the thought he was the father 🤦🏾♂️
This was mean & cruel treatment of the young lady. JM should've read paternity test results before embarrassing this man about not paying. Then, he delivered the results of paternity in a cold way because he was disgusted by the alleged father's lack of financial support, but it devastated the young woman.
I agree
Well he came into court saying he was her father so he assumed that verbal beat down. Never said he was unsure he was the father
No, that man devastated her. JM was just mad at the lies..
JM was doing entirely too much in the episode. I mean GEESH you proved your point. Let it go already. He’s so bitter and angry sometimes.
God I pray to you for healing for the defendant. She’s so hurt that she’s apologizing when she did nothing wrong. Lord please mend her broken heart. Amen 🙏
This shows how often Judges form an opinion within the first few minutes. Right or wrong, man was active in her life for nothing. She broke down and cried at the end obviously what he gave was worth more than a dollar.
No apology for bashing that man and turns out he isn't the father and at least spent time with the child...... wow JM!
JM will make you wanna curse him out and throw hands on him. He jumped the gun so quick on this man without giving him the benefit of the doubt. This young lady didn’t have any issues with the relationship she had with the assumed father and then turns out that he wasn’t the father. All that bashing JM did was for nothing and he ended the case without an apology just horrible horrible horrible. JM needs to check himself and take a chill pill 💊
Real spill.
Exactly
Bless you. You are so right. Whats sad is its not the 1st time he has been wrong or hypocritical. He acted like a "crackhead" during this case.
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I totally agree, I was listening to the case as I was driving home. He was making me mad, I like watching this but sometimes JM does to much!! I hope he felt like a fool after this case
Mathis, is on something, my grandad, at 93, whilst we sit here and watch, say Mathis is very emotional and taking his own anger out of the litigants.....
Why is it that Mathis trying to degrade and berate individuals/litigants.
The plaintiff, at least spend time, listen, talk, advised.
For many dads are NOT there at all. GIVE THE MAN some sort of credit that he spend time and love her, even when he failed at the financial part of her, the defendants, growing up.
Look at the end result. He IS NOT THE FATHER. I believed he knew, but loved her anyway and be there. Should have let it go and just continue with thr semi relationship as father and daughter; for the defendant's mother is no longer living to say who or whom is her daddy.
Although I really like uncle JMmathis if they are canceling him they could use this episode alone to use as great reasoning and motive. I wouldn’t fight it! Insensitive , rude and haughty nature. He should have offered the young lady counseling and the dad an open apology. Btw I know it was negative before the Judge came out. She would have took on his biological makeup in some way shape form of fashion. 🙏🏽❤️ praying for them..
Judge Mathis was on bs...all that smoke and couldn't apologize...but we get it...👎🏾
Now Judge Mathis you owe him an apology😩That’s why the man acted and responded the way he did🥺He probably knew all along he wasn’t her dad but hoped that she was😔I’m so sorry you guys and I hope she finds her dad❤️.
Right he was being an idiot
that’s no excuse. if he was gonna be a dad, he shouldn’t have been half a dad. he could’ve gotten the test years ago.
No need for Judge Mathis to apologize if the plaintiff came in claiming he was the father and thought he was so ALL her life...yet he never did anything to support her financially. Judge Mathis has nothing to apologize for.
He's in the Army or was
@@gemini-yu6gf he wasn't going to get half a refund tho
I pray that this young woman gets therapy and be able to heal from all of the traumas she’s been through while growing up without her parents. I’m wondering if the military dad is doing anything for her 🤔. She could really use some of those benefits right now.
You can tell that she really didn't want to say anything bad about the man, but JM kept on pushing and eggin' her own just to make his point.
Judge Mathis knock that ish off. How can he give financial assistance if she was thinking she had another father? You know he didn't mean they were together from 1 to 14. He said they tried to start a relationship when she was 14. He believed he was her father since she was born. You know that man words was mixed up. Hell even I peeped that. 🙄🙄😒😒😒
Then if he truly believed she was his, why didn't he contribute 🤔 he even came around to ask for her Uncle? The plaintiff knew she wasn't his deep down, that's why he didn't.
This is horrible. He owes him an apology. Period.
Sure does.
Absolutely hate when adults put their children in a position to be confused about their paternity even through adulthood. 😠
I think Judge Mathis went WAY too hard on him. I understand going in on him because he never provided tangible support but all that was unnecessary. I think JM was so abrupt at the end because he was hurt too.
Sure being hard on the man.. before knowing the results😮
Don’t like how he would not even give the man credit for being in her life and being there for her smh money can only do so much. Time and relationship are way more valuable
A child cannot eat from "Time and relationship" 🙄
@@lavidaloca2344 does she look like she missed meals. Food was obviously never a issue.
@chriswash12
Toothpaste cost
Toilet tissue cost
Sheets and blankets cost
Shoes cost
Clothes cost
Transportation(bus, Uber, gas)
Water to shower/bathe, cost
Anywho's I think you understand what I'm saying. Children/Mini humans COST and no matter how much time you spend or lend your ear to listen, it does not pay for their livelihood.
@@lavidaloca2344 this is what I know. The government assist with all of that. Cash aid and food aid. We pay taxes in order to provide it. So does that dad. However the government can’t provide a involved father. I agree that it’s important to financially help and support but in the system are country provides it’s more important to be there and raise your child the best you can. The mom was not there either she was raised by her relatives
Judge was dead wrong in this case. He let his inflated ego take over and didn't even apologize for the blatant disrespect. Judge is always talking about knowing the streets but is so out of touch with reality.
This could've been avoided if you and the mother would've stepped up and got a dna test early on. Playing with this woman's emotions.
How the hell you trying to put this on this man. Her Mother was a trifling human being stringing 3 men along and not knowing who's the daddy. This the mama fault, ain't got shit to do with this man. Damn will women ever take accountability for they fuked up trifling ways. Naw just blame the man... smdh
@@god-issekhmet7118 Watch your mouth talking to me. It takes two, if he been there like he claim he was, he also could've gotten a DNA test. Are you slow? or you just don't know what it means to be a parent? both parents were irresponsible and caused that woman pain
@@god-issekhmet7118 She wasn't ONLY blaming the mother; she stated that both parties should have gotten a DNA test.
Because she stated BOTH of the parties should have gotten it, she was not stating that ONLY THE MEN should take responsibility and not the WOMEN.
Because if BOTH took a DNA test, considering how he behaved like he thought she was his child before the man knew she was not his child, to prove his assumptions, the man should have gotten a DNA test before he came to court.
The mother should have gotten one as well since she has the child and would be the one with the most doubts. The mom had access to all the potential fathers of her child.
yo honor was dragging and snapping on that man he wasnt even the father, what a bully
How would she know if she's an infant..and no money doesn't mean men don't love the kids..judge quick to anger
JM kept slamming the plaintiff even when she said over and over she thought another man was her father until age 14 which was the exact same age the plaintiff showed up regularly. There was way more story to be told but it never came out. And the way JM bounced out on her at the end was terrible. SMH
U can always tell when JM is having a bad day, he was more mad about the money than she was, it’s unfortunate how the results came out I feel for the daughter
Why did Judge run out like that?? Looking very cowardly.
Judge Mathis really has a smooth way of delivering these paternity results 👍
A mess 😂
This is one of the saddest cases. Prayers for her.
Why is it that Mathis trying to degrade and berate individuals/litigants.
Mathis, needs to apologize expeditiously to the plaintiff. Not right. For the end result of the DNA say otherwise and the defendant still called him daddy and breaking down bawling her eyes out
Her mother is the one who kept her away and lied. Now has passed away and no truth to who is the real biological father
Sad sad sad.
But at least she still has the plaintiff to call daddy and continue talking to and we can tell he has been there for her; every which way, except financially. Many times all a child wants is love and to be listened to whilst spending quality time together.
The Judge Should've Apologized To That Man. 🤔
I agree
Nope. He was a dead beat dad her entire life. Buying a stereo system but not providing BASIC NEEDS to a daughter he was convinced was his.
Why apologize??? He came on there talking like he was daddy of the year but got exposed as a deadbeat. Judge even gave him a chance to correct himself after. All he had to do was tell the truth
The plaintiff looks like Judge Joe Brown. 😊
and Jesse Jackson
with a touch of Jesse Jackson
@@rondaallen7211 yep 😂😂😂😂😂
@@linequeenpublishing okay yep!😂😂😂
That was a very weird case, and both of them seem off
My thoughts exactly! I was looking for this comment! Something felt so strange about the whole thing!
@@sweettexastee the judge tried so hard to pry simple answers out of them and both of them were being weird about every question like there’s something deeper to this case
@@JazzyJeffRealTalk Yeeessss! The long awkward silence after the questions were asked was very telling. Also, for him to tell one story and her to tell a completely different story was beyond me because why would either of them have to lie about something so simple.
JM is clowning…
Mathis got up out of there😂😂
Both of them seem extremely confused. This is why it's important to find (if you have questions) who your kids father is. This is a bunch of mess that could be avoided.
Yeah if her mama wasn't a trifling individual this could have been avoided.
@@god-issekhmet7118 true.
Medical assistants always either say they are in nursing school or medical school😂😂😂
Just horrible! 😢😢😢
Lmao judge Mathis foul as hell
I feel like I want to hug her. 💓
Judge got that man feeling like a sorry s.o.b.
lol he is lol... but I get your point
@@linequeenpublishing he’s not the father. What about the dead mammy? She’s innocent, she’s not a sob?
@@Proverbspsalms I was replying to what Rodney said. Nothing more nothing less.
@@linequeenpublishing yeah that’s what I thought. Never hold a woman accountable. Nice deflection Marcia-
@VaWilliams1996 lol nah not it at all. I was making a joke as it pertained to what Rodney stated. Didn't want to veer from his statement that's it. There are other comments that are right there where you are.
The way she broke down hurt my heart 😢
Judge had no right to make either of them feel bad about the child support issue...maybe he sent money to the mom, children are often left out about what goes on with the parents....there was some type of relationship the man came in stating ",,my daughter" and her tears at the end speaks to some type of relationship....it is a myth that truck drivers make a bunch of money.....they also have enormous expenses to run the truck often times they literally live in those trucks because of the truck is not moving they are not making money.
I would agree with you but the plaintiff admitted he did not financially support her.
My heart goes out to this young lady I pray she holds her head high and goes far in life and be the best person she can be🙏🏾👑
Mathis be sounding like the “CRACKHEAD” sometimes
😂😂😂😂😂definitely!
Just message is not always about financial stability from my father. It’s about that father being there for their child I will choose to have my father in my life rather than just receiving money from him.
Judge Mathis was very cold thru this case... sheesh
All JM think about is MONEY - since you so worried about it, write her a check JM 😒😒😒😒😂.
Nope! No apologies needed by JM. Because the plaintiff thought he was the father. But didnt do DNA years ago. So child support agency wouldn't come after him. JM was angry with him . Because he lied about spending time with her. Blessings to her. She looks lost. Has no mother and doesn't know her father.
Spent the whole time berating this dude and he's not even the father....
Right but how does a man "know" he's the father of a child, not be in her life for all those years, never support her financially and wait until she's grown to get a DNA test? Something felt very strange about this case!
Well he said he knew he was so that's what JM ran with. That's all anybody can do is run with the information given until the test. He can't look at the test before there storyline to figure out why there here. JM wasn't WRONG the man said I knew she was mines since birth so what can you do if a man says that 👀
yeah I'm not giving the dude a pass for being musty as hell as a father when he thought he might be. I'm saying the judge could have at least acknowledged that he was never obligated to assist after he found out. He definitely would have been a deadbeat if he was the father but the reality is he wasn't.
Judge Mathis owe that man an apology
JM be extra blunt and ruthless when he reveal paternity results
🤣🤣🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤣🤣🤣 the mama man her mama bogus
Every man needs to get a paternity test for each child he claims!
Every man does not need to get a paternity test depending on the life he lives and the life of the woman(women) he deals with. Why put yourself in this type of position? Everyone is not immoral and indiscreet.
@@sereneamani1713 Every man does since any person will lie under certain circumstances. Men now think they are dad to kids who were never theirs. A smart man will be safe and not sorry.
@@psychicesp I still disagree. A smart man will be moral and wise. Like attracts like - liars and cheaters often attract liars and cheaters.
The way he delivered that was terrible 😅🤦🏽♀️ instead of apologizing to the man for coming at him he just got up and got outta there…😅😅😆
Neither plaintiff nor defendant expressed themselves well. After paternity results were read, the way the defendant broke down saying "I'm sorry daddy" was quite strange. Something is really weird about this case. Something's missing.
Jesse definitely got off the hook for this one..😂😅
Not Jesse😂🤣I was thinking the same thing when I first saw him!
He needs to stop talking crazy to people. She may not have remembered that young. She isn't his daughter, why would he take care of her if he wasn't allowed to have a relationship.
Her mama was probably collecting cs 💰 from other man in the military whose most likely Not 🚫 bio father either. I believe he was trying to spare potential daughters feelings and/or embarrassment from her mothers transgressions & behaviors. Some of these women out here playing major games, only allowed to be a part of their offspring life when its convenient for them only benefits mother using children as pawns for leverage.
Damn JM was on homeboy like a dirty shirt on this case. That was a verbal assault. Sheesh 😲
judge be on one!
JM finna cuss him out already😂
JM is a hellova jerk. His arrogance in telling him he wasn’t the further with no remorse in how he demeaned him is disgusting.
No wonder they cancelled this show! Mathis is unhinged and arrogant!
It’s the shade showing his 80k Rollie.
The plaintiff looks like a cross between Jesse Jackson and Judge Joe Brown.
Judge Mathis wasn’t fair to this man. She stated her mom wasn’t her provider and also told her about someone else. Obviously she is the reason for the confusion. He was harsh to him. And money is definitely important but he did try
He is a good father to her whether, or not she is her biological child some parents want hardly do anything, for their children I praise him.
Dammmm jesse jackson aint the daddy
😂🤣😅
Some days the judge be on one 😢
JM im not with you on this one. He could have atleast apologized for blasting the man out. When he wasn’t even the biological father. Mother’s please let be honest with our children if you are uncertain. So that they won’t end up on here like this.
Mathis is hating because Mr. Calvin is fine fine🤤
Mathis was on his neck
He still thought he was the father and did absolutely nothing for her. ! Stop sayin u her dad and not helping her!
I don’t blame the judge for being so quick with this one. She seemed like she was struggling to form complete thoughts. And the man just stood there stammering. No need to drag on a case where the litigants can barely answer questions.