Ok... Initially I wanted to write know Urself and invest ur time in being beautiful and healthy u.. But I remembered Rose's line and just couldn't stop myself :D :p
Not gonna lie, my confidence has skyrocketed these last few months and it's a lot down to you guys and Shannon & Cammie! I've been doing things that even a couple months ago I would never of even dreamed of doing, and when I'm doing them i still can't get over the fact that I'm actually doing it and not being scared! The 4 of you have helped me accept who I am and be okay with whatever the rest of the world thinks! I admire you so much and thank you for giving me so much confidence in myself 😘
The confidence was always within you and you alone made the decision to bring it out of yourself. You were able to use some external advice to improve yourself, which makes YOU awesome! :)
with the whole "don't judge other people" thing, there's a kind of mental exercise i sometimes do when i'm walking down a street or whatever where i pick out at least one nice thing about the people around me. stuff like "they're wearing a nice colour shirt" or "i like their hair" idk. i've found that it helps if you're feeling a bit anxious and want to focus on something, and it also makes you feel a bit more positive!! x loved the video x
Yeah that is a really good idea! I also like to turn to Rose and tell her all the things I like about people like "I LOVE that girls hair" but I always say it loud enough so hopefully they'll hear! xxx
when I saw that you uploaded a new video my heart jumped with excitement and I rejoiced, this is how much your videos affect me and I believe I am speaking on behalf of everyone watching them. You truly are a treasure, and your invincible love is what inspires me the most and gives me enough confidence to always believe that love conquers all and love is all we need in order to know the true value of life.
Confidence takes time for most. I'm 2 weeks away from being 39 and I just came out as a lesbian this summer. It took me 20+ yrs to have the confidence, where as my daughter who is just about 13yrs old has SO much confidence it amazes me everyday. She was born with only 1 hand and somehow I think that helps her self confidence because she has to be strong so she doesn't get bullied. She is very popular in school but also hangs out with all of the "different" kids. I gain a little more confidence everyday! Love you guys and thanks for this video and your humor as well!! 🏳️🌈
Wow that's incredible! Well congrats for coming out! Perhaps you are meant to have this amazing daughter so you can inspire and teach each other! What an interesting and amazing story! xxx
This video is genuinely super helpful. As someone who has struggled a lot with anxiety and self doubt, hearing advice from confident people usually doesn't help - sort of an 'easier said than done' type thing - but the advice you guys gave is actually really good and useful. Thank you :) xx
How to become more confident: Take tips from Rose and Rosie, I did, and now I've learned that it's okay to hate myself and it's okay to love myself, it's all natural and that the key to happiness is the outlook you have on life. Rosie you taught me to be positive and uplifting to others as well as myself, and now I take every day as it comes. Thank you xx
I know this is an older video, but I had to say something. 9:13 -42: I think it's so important that Rosie got/[gets] angry with Rose when Rose read her diary. It gets brought up by them in a lot of videos, and Rosie always takes a firm stance and reminds Rose how inappropriate and unacceptable it was of her to read her diary without her knowledge or permission. It is so unacceptable to invade someone's privacy like that (she even read her Facebook messages, too). That's controlling behavior that can escalate into abuse. The violated party can have decreasing privacy and freedom within that relationship. I'm not saying Rose is or ever was abusive, and I realize they've moved past it as a couple, but I just wanted to applaud Rosie for sticking to her guns in that situation and constantly restating how wrong Rose's actions were. So many women underreact to that type of an offense. Rosie's firm boundaries and sense of self-respect are one of the reasons I love her and find her an excellent role model for women and bisexuals. And just to reiterate... I frickin' love Rose too. I know they've moved past it. I don't mean any offense.
okay i've come back to add another comment because this video is honestly so so true. i usually have very similar confidence to rose, but this is really important to me rn because just yesterday my partner moved a long way away and we are used to being everywhere together, so having confidence on our own and not letting the loneliness get to us (trying to be okay in being alone instead of lonely) is really a new thing. thank you for the newly inspired confidence, both of you ❤️
I totally agree with you guys. If you try to be one with yourself, be kind, enjoy life and have respect for everyone. Everything sort of falls into place and the confidence shines through automatically. Thanks for being wonderful people x
I feel like not comparing yourself to others is the most difficult yet most important step. I don't think I'll ever be able to completely overcome comparing myself to others, but as I've started to do it less and have started to create my own style with fashion/makeup etc I've definitely noticed an increase in my confidence!
You two made some excellent points on this video. I read somewhere it's a good idea to make sure you give at least a few genuine compliments to people you cross throughout your day. Like Rosie said, its just nice to spread the love and make people feel good about themselves. No, we don't get along with everybody. In fact, I kept thinking about a lady at work whilst watching this video. I am at the point where just seeing her gives me bad feelings. So when I run into her tomorrow, I am going to think of positive and genuine things that I like about her. Maybe it's time to try and stop focusing on the bad in people, and reinforcing the good.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 So true! I've actually been like that with a few people, just the diea of them has annoyed me! But then if you are nice to them and look at them in a different way, you actually wonder what you disliked about them in the first place! You can deffo change so much with a positive mindset! xx
I totally agree with pushing your boundaries! A huge part of loving yourself is going out of your comfort zone. like if you're not confident in your body, wear a crop top or shorts or a bralette, and I promise you'll feel so liberated !!
How to be more confident: 1) Know what you're doing. If you are afraid of failure, learn how to do it right. 2) Know what to say. If you are afraid of saying something stupid, make sure you get your facts right. 3) Know your abilities. If you are afraid of not being able to do something, try to do it anyway. You may surprise yourself and succeed. Remember, knowledge is power and the more empowered you are, the more confident you'll be.
I've been told many times in my life that i'm allowed to hate myself and have bad times but I've never been told that I'm allowed to love myself. Thank you guys so much for that, I needed it.
This is part of why you two make such good role models - you give such wise & articulate advice. I love your positive approach to life & you always make me smile.
Hellooo! My tip for being confidence is not caring what others think doing something for yourself and being comfortable in your skin, I can relate to everything in this video and that's the kinda impact I wanna inspire on others too, I use to be shy as fuck and use to worry and now I'm me, I live for what I wanna do because you have one fucking shot at life and you gotta live it for you no matter what! Love you guys nice to see people on here talk and give advice on this stuff :) x
it really comforts me seeing how real you are about your relationship, not only just telling us like the good. It makes me remember that not everything will always be perfect nd people make mistakes but its nice to see even in those mistakes if you're confident in like your relationship for example, everything can work out and just by being confident in that, a lot of things can fall into place
I think your best two points in this video are: 1. Being confident is the coping with the idea that not everyone is going to love you. 2. Letting people around you know what you like about them creates a very positive supportive atmosphere. I don't quite agree that if you hate someone it's necessarily a reflection of your traits but I think it's definitely a time for a self assessment on why that person rubs you the wrong way and how you could extend your tolerance and acceptance of people who are different than you. I think when you consider that others grew up in different households with possibly different values you become calmer, and more understanding, and the word 'hate' is slowly leaving your vocabulary. All in all.. Confidence is definitely something that has its ups and downs and the key is to just be, and live, and surround yourself with people who will love you for everything in your sack ;) This makes me reevaluate my confidence which is important once in a while!
I also believe confidence comes from accepting your past mistakes. Just like Rose said using the example of saying some not so great things on a panel, sometimes we screw up and that can make us feel shitty. But if we accept that we have made a mistake and recognise that that's completely normal, we can then move on and learn from it. Always use your mistakes as a learning tool instead of dwelling on them! Also, I am a bit of an insecure person when it comes to people approaching me on the street, so this summer I did some volunteer work helping tourists and it really helped me improve my english and communication skills, and I am a lot less frightened of people asking me for directions. I have learned that it completely fine to tell someone that you just don't know how to help them, but when you can, that makes you feel quite rewarded! A have also made a mid-year resolution to start answering all the calls I get. Gotta get rid of that phonecall anxiety. I love you, Rs. Keep it up.
I have to say, when I'm losing confidence this video still helps a lot. Even if it's just an hour, a day, a week, or month of shit...this and the rest of your content always do the job. Eternally grateful to both of you.
The evil laugh thing at the beginning made me think of that bit on friends where Phoebe is telling Joey to do the evil laugh because of some plan they concocted and Joey's laugh sounds like "ho ho ho" and Phoebe is like "It's not santa's plan"
One thing that's made me so much more confident is actually watching your guys' videos and just seeing you be yourselves. Seeing you be so genuine and honest is so refreshing. It reminds me that being yourself is so much more fun than pretending to be someone you're not and makes me feel better about myself. Gives me hope for my future. 😌 also Rosie your hair looks so great!!
"You need to be tested until you realize how much you can actually cope with." Really, really beautiful & inspiring words Rose, thank you. And thanks for this amazing vid Rosie! 💕
That Keri Hilson throwback though! I literally performed that whole song (...rap included) to my whole class in Year 8.😷 Thanks for bringing that memory back! 😙
This is a super Real Talk, Rosie. One confidence builder I suggest for your very good list: relax, recharge, and get a new perspective. Don't rush into things or try to force them, no matter how good you reckon they are or will be.
My confidence has boosted astronomically since watching you guys. My confidence within myself and the way I present myself has changed for the better, and because of this I've learnt to be accepting of myself in everything that I do and everything that I am. So thank you so much Rosie and Rose!!!! xxx
I am so guilty of copying Roses moves to appear more confident even before I watched this, I'm a little sorry making a smug face and looking away when you said something ridiculous makes you look like .. you are in control of the silliness? I don't know, it's really hard to explain! (Also, hard to explain since I'm not a native English speaker sorry)
Needed this video today! I work in the hospitality industry, front of house, and you have to deal with a lot of people that you really wish you didn't have to quite a lot (don't get me wrong, there as some fantastic customers out there too!) But sometimes, customers can be very critical and it is difficult not to take their criticism personally. I learned it the hard way, but for anyone else who works in the same industry, or has to deal with customers/ colleagues that get them down, my advice is remember they are only a tiny part of your life, they are not important to you in the grand scheme of things, and the only opinions that matter are your own, and those of the people you care about. Love Rosie's message about having a positive outlook, will definitely be taking that on board! Love you guys xx
this year has been one of the best since i've started not care what people think of my, they either like me for or they don't. This used to bother me but now i couldn't less which has made more confident and more posative
I have been having issues at my work. From feeling low on confidence to criticism..this has helped me change my perspective so much and also the way I look at the people I work with. . Thank you so much Rose & Rosie. ☺❤
This is good timing for me as I find usually I'm a confident person but I've been at a job for the last few months that I hadn't done before and where I don't seem to gel very well with the team and it's hard not to take it personally and go back every time with your head held high. So nice to hear some advice and reminders about how to keep your confidence. Love you guys, you're the best!
I've been going through a lot recently and I know everyone does all the time but you always seem to make a video that ends up helping me at that time. It's no wonder why you two ladies are so many peoples idols. You two are truly lovely ladies and thank you for being you and helping me be me!
Lord Gabe Newell Well that's not good. You have to be your own person. Don't take other people's opinions or personality. You'll end up an empty husk with an identity crisis.
Rosie and Rose are just absolutely lovely people! I've learned a lot from this video and whenever someone needs help, I'll direct them to this video! and rose's facial expressions are so cute!
The title reminded me something: Everyday is pay day Swipe my card, then I do the nae nae You're talking to a lady I want a Kanye-ye not a Ray J So that's a no no I'm a Maybach and you's a Volvo This convo beat like Dre I already know whatchu tryna say You say that you a baller And I see you tryna holla But that ain't how I was brought up Next Working for my money 'Cause that's what my momma taught me So yo ass betta show me some respect Boss Michelle Obama Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas Boss Michelle Obama Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas Boss Michelle Obama Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas Boss Michelle Obama Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-T That's me, I'm confident Don't want yo complimments Use common sense I'm on my Michelle Obama Shhhh Shut your mouth Boy I think you know who run this house I ain't thirsty for no bae cuz I already know watchu tryna say You say that you a baller And I see you tryna holla But that ain't how I was brought up Next Working for my money 'Cause that's what my momma taught me So yo ass betta show me some respect Boss Michelle Obama Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas Boss Michelle Obama Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas Boss Michelle Obama Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas Boss Michelle Obama Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas I pledge allegiance to my independent girls in here Ooh Baby So if you're with us, come on let me hear you say Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah You say that you a baller And I see you tryna holla But that ain't how I was brought up Next Working for my money 'Cause that's what my momma taught me So yo ass betta show me some respect Boss Michelle Obama Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas Boss Michelle Obama Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas Boss Michelle Obama Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas Boss Michelle Obama Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
This video made me feel a little bit better about feeling rejected this past weekend. I asked this really cool comic-reading girl if she wanted to hang out, and even though I didn't necessarily mean it as a date, she immediately shut me down. I never ask that of strangers and I almost felt like crying and so ashamed.. my BPD and social anxiety feul that internal loathing but I can't help feeling like I'm being punished for being silly enough to try. then today I tried to approach this musician after a set. They were very nice but got distracted mid conversation. she said she'd be back but after her side conversation she completely walked past me.. I felt so awkward I just slipped out of the venue without saying goodbye. Idk, I suppose the only solution is to keep trying.. but it does help ice the burn a bit to hear my favorite youtubers be so genuine about the topic of confidence. thanks guys, I needed it.
I used to be absolutely terrified of planes and flying, but now I love it. Over this year and last year I was lucky enough to go on loads of holidays, and all together I had to take 10 flights - with another 8 to go the rest of this year and next. I used to be scared of taking off but one time I looked out of the window and saw all the amazing views, and that totally boosted my confidence with flying. It sounds so stupid but if you really struggle, just pretend the turbulence is a rollercoaster, or something exciting. Hope this helped x
Tbh I'm not confident at all even if sometimes I fake it. BUT I never go around and put other people down, so let's stop with the "oh they're just insecure that's why they're insulting you". I mean, some of them probably are, but some people are just mean, they're both confident and mean. And sometimes people are NOT confident but are actually nice and don't feel the need to put others down. Js lol.
I think you're totally right but I also think people feel the need to be mean to others to feel better about themselves and maybe have no problem with confidence but other issues in their life's.
when you talk about like "oh my instagram doesn't look as nice as theirs or whatever" well ok I totally feel that way ALL the time, but sometimes it actually inspires me to have a better instagram or like when I see youtubers like you and rose I'm like "wow I will never be as amazing as you" and it discouraging but it also is inspiring and it's like no that's my goal and I can reach it. So yeah, sometimes it really makes my confidence lower to compare myself but it also sometimes makes me feel more confident and inspired.
I've been in a pretty bad mood these past couple of days with starting university and all. I've been worried about my own confidence and feeling very small in a big university, but watching this video made me realize that I have to trust and believe in myself. Also to spread joy and happiness to others
totally truth Rosie!! Life is a mirror, and every time we recognize us with the person we have in front of us! love you so much guys! i follow you since the beginning! you both are two beautiful souls growing together! hugs cuties!!
I think a lot of confidence is to do with a 'fake it 'til you make it' mentality, it's what I've done recently. I put on a confident front and act like I'm confident, that way people are less likely to think that I'm feeling insecure about a certain situation. I've also tried to push myself out of my comfort zone and with that I've gained confidence (mostly socially) with more experiences ☺️
You rarely see Rose being serious, this was really nice and helpful guys!!! I've always struggled with an inferiority complex and this opened my eyes about certain things
You two are the best. All joking aside ($3 Million USD offer), you two have have amazing personalities, are charismatic, intelligent and super fun. Please never change ;-)
this is so true!! i don't understand everything bc english isn't my first language but you're so right! and being okay with yourself accept your flaws and working on yourself every day makes you more confident! i wasn't okay with myself but as soon as i accepted myself for the person i am i gained more confidences. just be the person YOU want to be and everything will being much easier and you don't give a shit what other people say! greets from vienna/austria
Don't even think you both understand how much videos like this can help us, we'll at least me for sure anyway!! I find confidence soooo hard to deal with and I know for a fact when I'm feeling confident I feel like I should be less confident incase people are judging me but I'm done thinking like that, I am me and if people don't like me for me then they can go and fuck themselves. Thank you both for helping me understand this and so much more too! Truly love u both a lottttt!!! X
I've watched and read lots of content about confidence but I think its the first time someone brought to my attention that if you critisize people about little things then you are going to think that people will do the same to you! So you shouldnt do it, that is a very unique and helpful tip! Way to go Rosie and Rose! Love these RealTalks maybe you could do one about different ways you can approach someone you like? Cant wait for the holiday vlog since im from Greece, very excited to see what you liked from my country! Lots of love x
When someone told me they hated me I said, "I can say with certainty I hate myself more so that's not even an insult." I don't think that's confidence but I've learned to wipe off insults cuz my worst critic is myself and the only person I need to make happy is myself. If I'm the best me, other people will enjoy my company. I learned a lot in high school but that's the biggest lesson I've learned.
YOU guys are awesome! I have noticed first hand the positivity you spread across the Internet. It's so important to do with all the trolls out there. You guys have liked a few of our tweets and we felt so flattered that you clearly aren't solely focused inward at your own awesomeness but that you support others in your community as well. Thank you so much for being two down-to-earth individuals!!
I’m so happy with this video and your tips, because I’m not a very confidence person. I never trust myself and belife in myself. Even now when I’m writting this I’m not confidend about myself. I’m very afraid that i do or write anything wrong and that people are going to hate and unlike me beacause of that. But I’m really going to use your tips! I’m feeling more confidend about myself when I started watching your videos. I’m so happy with you in my life! I love you so much!! Just for who you are and i hope you girls will never change!💕😘😍
i confess im crying, and im so sensitive right now that im high, im so happy i decided to be a boobie and let this ladys to be my role models... THANKYOU
Barbara La Malquerida I've had awful anxiety for 10 years. Always thought it would go away by the time I was in my 20's but nope. You have to find your own ways of dealing with that shit. For me, its embracing all the dark thoughts, being alone, a small dose of marijuana, and being creatively active.
Thank you so much for this video!! Seriously! Confidence is something I seriously struggle with and I honestly have no self confidence. Never have. Getting bullied in school, and just not liking the way I look. And not liking the way I look. I'm always the first one to slag myself off or put myself down, do it before someone else does it too me 😐
Okay so I never normally comment on a video but I just really needed to say that as someone who is terrified of flying it is so comforting to know that Rose has still been to so many places and is successful with that fear. You made me feel a little better about my own fear and that's really awesome so thank you!
I feel like confidence is believing in yourself and your convictions and standing firm with them. It's so hard to love yourself but only you can be in charge of how you want your life to go, you charter your own destiny and wasting time trying to hate yourself is so exhausting.
this is one of the best real talk you guys have. I am really having doubts about what I am capable of because of all the pressure and stress i am facing right now and I am starting to fear of failure. thank you for this reminder. I love you two! so much love from the Philippines. ❤❤❤
At the moment, my confidence level is like a roller coaster. There are times when I just doubt on myself and when I don't. I'm always afraid of what other people think of me. Although, watching this boosted my confidence and gave me a positive mind set, so thank you to both of you guys. More of this kind of content would be much appreciated! ^^
¿Sabes? Si se te dificulta entenderle a los ingleses, podrías escucharlas diciendo una palabra y luego imitar su voz y hacer su acento. Quiero decir... Imitar su voz nasal, o algo así. Me funcionó en algo, cuando quiero hablar con mi voz, no puedo fingir el acento, pero cuando finjo la voz parecido a la de Rose o Rosie es más fácil y como practiqué la dicción como sus voces, se escucha mejor ajaja Mientras más dices las palabras más las escuchas y así recuerdas más los sonidos de las sílabas, así podrías entenderles un poquitito más. Bueno, eso me sirvió de algo. Ya no estoy tan perdida. Al principio no le entendía mucho a Rosie ajaja
I think that personally, my confidence has come from excepting my flaws for what they are and how they make me special in my own way, and by also making sure that I remind myself that the people around me shouldn't govern my opinion of me. Especially for people in High school when a lot of the time you're trying to fit in and you care a lot more about what people think, it's important to remember that the people that may make you feel insecure really don't matter in your life. In four years your both gonna move on with your lives and probably never see the person or people again, so I encourage not to worry! This doesn't mean put them down, or think worse of them, it just means, as Rosie said, show compassion, and also remember that their opinion of you wont and shouldn't shape who you'll grow into or become. Also I think that self confidence is more attractive to people. If someone's confident enough to be who they are and rock it, then I and most people aren't focusing on how weird they are, I usually tend to admire that they are just confident enough not to care about what I or anyone else thinks. It's all about how you see and love yourself. You won't just learn how to be confident in a day though, it takes time and a lot of mental practice to go from not liking yourself to loving yourself, but you can get there, and once you do its so much nicer!
If anyone needs any extra confidence you can find it in my eye.
Lol 😂😂😂
Thank you for that amazing advice!! 😂
ew can i eat it?
Smooth Rose smooth
..haha..thanks rose..😂
"Confidence is not will they like me, confidence is I'll be fine if they don't" - favorite quote, I love you Rosie 💗
I think a better way to be confident is to know yourself. Cuz when u know Urself it's only u who u r answerable for.. To.. For.
Ok... Initially I wanted to write know Urself and invest ur time in being beautiful and healthy u.. But I remembered Rose's line and just couldn't stop myself :D :p
Ahahahaha I also wanted to write it down ahahaha😂😂😂
I was looking for this comment , yes!
#Roseswisewords
Not gonna lie, my confidence has skyrocketed these last few months and it's a lot down to you guys and Shannon & Cammie! I've been doing things that even a couple months ago I would never of even dreamed of doing, and when I'm doing them i still can't get over the fact that I'm actually doing it and not being scared! The 4 of you have helped me accept who I am and be okay with whatever the rest of the world thinks! I admire you so much and thank you for giving me so much confidence in myself 😘
That's amazing!!!!!!!! xxxx
Love you 😘
thank you
The confidence was always within you and you alone made the decision to bring it out of yourself. You were able to use some external advice to improve yourself, which makes YOU awesome! :)
This has been true for me too!! I can't thank you guys enough. Much love from the Philippines. Love you both
i'm going to try to love myself as hard as i can - i know it would make rose and rosie proud
It will!!!!! xxx
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Yes!!
I love myself real hard aaalllll niigghhttt loooonngg
with the whole "don't judge other people" thing, there's a kind of mental exercise i sometimes do when i'm walking down a street or whatever where i pick out at least one nice thing about the people around me. stuff like "they're wearing a nice colour shirt" or "i like their hair" idk. i've found that it helps if you're feeling a bit anxious and want to focus on something, and it also makes you feel a bit more positive!! x loved the video x
Yeah that is a really good idea! I also like to turn to Rose and tell her all the things I like about people like "I LOVE that girls hair" but I always say it loud enough so hopefully they'll hear! xxx
that's so cool, and i bet it makes the people feel a lot better about themselves!!! xxx
Hey, that's actually pretty cool. Positive judging. Never even thought of that before. Which is kind of sad, actually. I'll have to try it.
Rosie omg your hair I can't I'm in love
ikr her hair is ♥♥♥
Ik she's Gorgeous 😍😍😍
i see u like the great cate as well 💞
Aside from being funny you ladies are wicked smart. That's why I love hearing you discuss these types of topics. Great insight.
Awww thanks so much Phil!!! xxxxxx
I love that Rose's "fake talking" sounds just like a sims character
rosie should be a public speaker honestly gosh this made me feel all warm and fuzzy, thank you for being so lovely
when I saw that you uploaded a new video my heart jumped with excitement and I rejoiced, this is how much your videos affect me and I believe I am speaking on behalf of everyone watching them. You truly are a treasure, and your invincible love is what inspires me the most and gives me enough confidence to always believe that love conquers all and love is all we need in order to know the true value of life.
Confidence takes time for most. I'm 2 weeks away from being 39 and I just came out as a lesbian this summer. It took me 20+ yrs to have the confidence, where as my daughter who is just about 13yrs old has SO much confidence it amazes me everyday. She was born with only 1 hand and somehow I think that helps her self confidence because she has to be strong so she doesn't get bullied. She is very popular in school but also hangs out with all of the "different" kids. I gain a little more confidence everyday! Love you guys and thanks for this video and your humor as well!! 🏳️🌈
Wow that's incredible! Well congrats for coming out! Perhaps you are meant to have this amazing daughter so you can inspire and teach each other! What an interesting and amazing story! xxx
TheRoxetera Thank you! This gives me even more confidence! Love you guys ❤️
This video is genuinely super helpful. As someone who has struggled a lot with anxiety and self doubt, hearing advice from confident people usually doesn't help - sort of an 'easier said than done' type thing - but the advice you guys gave is actually really good and useful. Thank you :) xx
How to become more confident: Take tips from Rose and Rosie, I did, and now I've learned that it's okay to hate myself and it's okay to love myself, it's all natural and that the key to happiness is the outlook you have on life. Rosie you taught me to be positive and uplifting to others as well as myself, and now I take every day as it comes. Thank you xx
I know this is an older video, but I had to say something.
9:13 -42: I think it's so important that Rosie got/[gets] angry with Rose when Rose read her diary. It gets brought up by them in a lot of videos, and Rosie always takes a firm stance and reminds Rose how inappropriate and unacceptable it was of her to read her diary without her knowledge or permission.
It is so unacceptable to invade someone's privacy like that (she even read her Facebook messages, too). That's controlling behavior that can escalate into abuse. The violated party can have decreasing privacy and freedom within that relationship. I'm not saying Rose is or ever was abusive, and I realize they've moved past it as a couple, but I just wanted to applaud Rosie for sticking to her guns in that situation and constantly restating how wrong Rose's actions were. So many women underreact to that type of an offense.
Rosie's firm boundaries and sense of self-respect are one of the reasons I love her and find her an excellent role model for women and bisexuals.
And just to reiterate... I frickin' love Rose too. I know they've moved past it. I don't mean any offense.
Yes, as much as I adore them it bothers me that I feel like Rose in fact is controlling type of person.
okay i've come back to add another comment because this video is honestly so so true. i usually have very similar confidence to rose, but this is really important to me rn because just yesterday my partner moved a long way away and we are used to being everywhere together, so having confidence on our own and not letting the loneliness get to us (trying to be okay in being alone instead of lonely) is really a new thing. thank you for the newly inspired confidence, both of you ❤️
Rosie is your hair lighter or are you more tan after holiday? Looking amazing xx
Both! xxx
I totally agree with you guys. If you try to be one with yourself, be kind, enjoy life and have respect for everyone. Everything sort of falls into place and the confidence shines through automatically.
Thanks for being wonderful people x
C O N F I D E N T THATS ME IM CONFIDENT
SHUT YOUR MOUTH BOY I THINK YOU KNOW WHO RUNS THIS HOUSE
I think you made a mistake with the lyrics
Aw well
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YOUSAYTHATYOUABALLERANDISEEYOUTRYNAHOLLABUTITAIN'THOWIWASBROUGHTUP
I feel like not comparing yourself to others is the most difficult yet most important step.
I don't think I'll ever be able to completely overcome comparing myself to others, but as I've started to do it less and have started to create my own style with fashion/makeup etc I've definitely noticed an increase in my confidence!
You two made some excellent points on this video. I read somewhere it's a good idea to make sure you give at least a few genuine compliments to people you cross throughout your day. Like Rosie said, its just nice to spread the love and make people feel good about themselves. No, we don't get along with everybody. In fact, I kept thinking about a lady at work whilst watching this video. I am at the point where just seeing her gives me bad feelings. So when I run into her tomorrow, I am going to think of positive and genuine things that I like about her. Maybe it's time to try and stop focusing on the bad in people, and reinforcing the good.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 So true! I've actually been like that with a few people, just the diea of them has annoyed me! But then if you are nice to them and look at them in a different way, you actually wonder what you disliked about them in the first place! You can deffo change so much with a positive mindset! xx
I totally agree with pushing your boundaries! A huge part of loving yourself is going out of your comfort zone.
like if you're not confident in your body, wear a crop top or shorts or a bralette, and I promise you'll feel so liberated !!
How to be more confident: 1) Know what you're doing. If you are afraid of failure, learn how to do it right. 2) Know what to say. If you are afraid of saying something stupid, make sure you get your facts right. 3) Know your abilities. If you are afraid of not being able to do something, try to do it anyway. You may surprise yourself and succeed. Remember, knowledge is power and the more empowered you are, the more confident you'll be.
I've been told many times in my life that i'm allowed to hate myself and have bad times but I've never been told that I'm allowed to love myself. Thank you guys so much for that, I needed it.
Loving Rose's 'Mr' mug 😂
And Rosie's sorry, didn't see it at the start was too busy getting excited about a new video 😂
This is part of why you two make such good role models - you give such wise & articulate advice. I love your positive approach to life & you always make me smile.
i've always liked Rosie because of her humble lovely manner
i've always liked Rose for that laugh though
Hellooo! My tip for being confidence is not caring what others think doing something for yourself and being comfortable in your skin, I can relate to everything in this video and that's the kinda impact I wanna inspire on others too, I use to be shy as fuck and use to worry and now I'm me, I live for what I wanna do because you have one fucking shot at life and you gotta live it for you no matter what! Love you guys nice to see people on here talk and give advice on this stuff :) x
rosie, you always say to us the best tips, i cant believe how amazing you are
Thanks! xxx
it really comforts me seeing how real you are about your relationship, not only just telling us like the good. It makes me remember that not everything will always be perfect nd people make mistakes but its nice to see even in those mistakes if you're confident in like your relationship for example, everything can work out and just by being confident in that, a lot of things can fall into place
Rose about your fear of flying, I read once that you have a better chance of dying from the food on an airplane than in an actual crash.
WELL NOW PLANES ARE DOUBLY AS THREATENING TO ME HAHAHAHAHA
I think your best two points in this video are:
1. Being confident is the coping with the idea that not everyone is going to love you.
2. Letting people around you know what you like about them creates a very positive supportive atmosphere.
I don't quite agree that if you hate someone it's necessarily a reflection of your traits but I think it's definitely a time for a self assessment on why that person rubs you the wrong way and how you could extend your tolerance and acceptance of people who are different than you. I think when you consider that others grew up in different households with possibly different values you become calmer, and more understanding, and the word 'hate' is slowly leaving your vocabulary.
All in all.. Confidence is definitely something that has its ups and downs and the key is to just be, and live, and surround yourself with people who will love you for everything in your sack ;)
This makes me reevaluate my confidence which is important once in a while!
first thing i do when i click a rose and rosie video is like it. love you guys my #1 OTP💕
Same I agree with your whole comment lol
Sameeeee❤️❤️
I also believe confidence comes from accepting your past mistakes. Just like Rose said using the example of saying some not so great things on a panel, sometimes we screw up and that can make us feel shitty. But if we accept that we have made a mistake and recognise that that's completely normal, we can then move on and learn from it. Always use your mistakes as a learning tool instead of dwelling on them!
Also, I am a bit of an insecure person when it comes to people approaching me on the street, so this summer I did some volunteer work helping tourists and it really helped me improve my english and communication skills, and I am a lot less frightened of people asking me for directions. I have learned that it completely fine to tell someone that you just don't know how to help them, but when you can, that makes you feel quite rewarded!
A have also made a mid-year resolution to start answering all the calls I get. Gotta get rid of that phonecall anxiety.
I love you, Rs. Keep it up.
This is now my go to video for when I feel bad about myself :) thankyou guys, almost LOVE these real talks! :)
I have to say, when I'm losing confidence this video still helps a lot. Even if it's just an hour, a day, a week, or month of shit...this and the rest of your content always do the job. Eternally grateful to both of you.
The evil laugh thing at the beginning made me think of that bit on friends where Phoebe is telling Joey to do the evil laugh because of some plan they concocted and Joey's laugh sounds like "ho ho ho" and Phoebe is like "It's not santa's plan"
One thing that's made me so much more confident is actually watching your guys' videos and just seeing you be yourselves. Seeing you be so genuine and honest is so refreshing. It reminds me that being yourself is so much more fun than pretending to be someone you're not and makes me feel better about myself. Gives me hope for my future. 😌
also Rosie your hair looks so great!!
ROSIE! OMG THE SUSHI SHIRT OMG I BOUGHT THIS YESTERDAY IM FREAKING OUT RN I GOT THE SAME SHIRT GOSH
Also please make a haul with Cammie's stuff xD
WHERE DID YOU GET IT? I want it so much
Celaena TheMagic Seems like a strange thing to freak out about.
'give yourself permission to tell yourself how great you are' is such a great quote! And something everybody should do
8:42 When you know yourself... 😂😂😂
Also, great video! It helped a lot! ☺
"You need to be tested until you realize how much you can actually cope with."
Really, really beautiful & inspiring words Rose, thank you. And thanks for this amazing vid Rosie! 💕
That Keri Hilson throwback though!
I literally performed that whole song (...rap included) to my whole class in Year 8.😷 Thanks for bringing that memory back! 😙
This is a super Real Talk, Rosie. One confidence builder I suggest for your very good list: relax, recharge, and get a new perspective. Don't rush into things or try to force them, no matter how good you reckon they are or will be.
Rose'se smile at 7:07 makes my day when I watch this. Is just so flawless and cute and everything amazing there is... =)
My confidence has boosted astronomically since watching you guys. My confidence within myself and the way I present myself has changed for the better, and because of this I've learnt to be accepting of myself in everything that I do and everything that I am. So thank you so much Rosie and Rose!!!! xxx
I am so guilty of copying Roses moves to appear more confident even before I watched this, I'm a little sorry
making a smug face and looking away when you said something ridiculous makes you look like .. you are in control of the silliness? I don't know, it's really hard to explain! (Also, hard to explain since I'm not a native English speaker sorry)
Needed this video today! I work in the hospitality industry, front of house, and you have to deal with a lot of people that you really wish you didn't have to quite a lot (don't get me wrong, there as some fantastic customers out there too!) But sometimes, customers can be very critical and it is difficult not to take their criticism personally. I learned it the hard way, but for anyone else who works in the same industry, or has to deal with customers/ colleagues that get them down, my advice is remember they are only a tiny part of your life, they are not important to you in the grand scheme of things, and the only opinions that matter are your own, and those of the people you care about. Love Rosie's message about having a positive outlook, will definitely be taking that on board! Love you guys xx
I always struggle with confidence this should help as well as being funny.
I hope so! xxx
this year has been one of the best since i've started not care what people think of my, they either like me for or they don't. This used to bother me but now i couldn't less which has made more confident and more posative
Rosie your features have matured so much over the years that you are super gorgeous looking !!
I have been having issues at my work. From feeling low on confidence to criticism..this has helped me change my perspective so much and also the way I look at the people I work with. . Thank you so much
Rose & Rosie. ☺❤
That was possibly the longest minute of my life😂😂😂
Same
This is good timing for me as I find usually I'm a confident person but I've been at a job for the last few months that I hadn't done before and where I don't seem to gel very well with the team and it's hard not to take it personally and go back every time with your head held high. So nice to hear some advice and reminders about how to keep your confidence. Love you guys, you're the best!
Who's the guest on Rosie's channel? She's all right.
I've been going through a lot recently and I know everyone does all the time but you always seem to make a video that ends up helping me at that time. It's no wonder why you two ladies are so many peoples idols. You two are truly lovely ladies and thank you for being you and helping me be me!
My confidence has increased loads since when I started watching you. I think I may just my copying your guys personalities :)
Also PhD stands for doctor on philosophy. I know it's the wrong way around but what can I say. I don't make the rules
Lord Gabe Newell Well that's not good. You have to be your own person. Don't take other people's opinions or personality. You'll end up an empty husk with an identity crisis.
Rosie and Rose are just absolutely lovely people! I've learned a lot from this video and whenever someone needs help, I'll direct them to this video! and rose's facial expressions are so cute!
The title reminded me something:
Everyday is pay day
Swipe my card, then I do the nae nae
You're talking to a lady
I want a Kanye-ye not a Ray J
So that's a no no
I'm a Maybach and you's a Volvo
This convo beat like Dre
I already know whatchu tryna say
You say that you a baller
And I see you tryna holla
But that ain't how I was brought up
Next
Working for my money
'Cause that's what my momma taught me
So yo ass betta show me some respect
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-T
That's me, I'm confident
Don't want yo complimments
Use common sense
I'm on my Michelle Obama
Shhhh Shut your mouth
Boy I think you know who run this house
I ain't thirsty for no bae cuz I already know watchu tryna say
You say that you a baller
And I see you tryna holla
But that ain't how I was brought up
Next
Working for my money
'Cause that's what my momma taught me
So yo ass betta show me some respect
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
I pledge allegiance to my independent girls in here
Ooh Baby
So if you're with us, come on let me hear you say
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
You say that you a baller
And I see you tryna holla
But that ain't how I was brought up
Next
Working for my money
'Cause that's what my momma taught me
So yo ass betta show me some respect
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
Boss Michelle Obama
Purse so heavy gettin' Oprah dollas
This video made me feel a little bit better about feeling rejected this past weekend.
I asked this really cool comic-reading girl if she wanted to hang out, and even though I didn't necessarily mean it as a date, she immediately shut me down. I never ask that of strangers and I almost felt like crying and so ashamed.. my BPD and social anxiety feul that internal loathing but I can't help feeling like I'm being punished for being silly enough to try. then today I tried to approach this musician after a set. They were very nice but got distracted mid conversation. she said she'd be back but after her side conversation she completely walked past me.. I felt so awkward I just slipped out of the venue without saying goodbye.
Idk, I suppose the only solution is to keep trying.. but it does help ice the burn a bit to hear my favorite youtubers be so genuine about the topic of confidence. thanks guys, I needed it.
Thank you so much for this #realtalk! Many people need this one. And also, welcome back to TH-cam! I miss you both loads!
We missed being here!!! xxx
I used to be absolutely terrified of planes and flying, but now I love it. Over this year and last year I was lucky enough to go on loads of holidays, and all together I had to take 10 flights - with another 8 to go the rest of this year and next. I used to be scared of taking off but one time I looked out of the window and saw all the amazing views, and that totally boosted my confidence with flying. It sounds so stupid but if you really struggle, just pretend the turbulence is a rollercoaster, or something exciting. Hope this helped x
Tbh I'm not confident at all even if sometimes I fake it. BUT I never go around and put other people down, so let's stop with the "oh they're just insecure that's why they're insulting you". I mean, some of them probably are, but some people are just mean, they're both confident and mean. And sometimes people are NOT confident but are actually nice and don't feel the need to put others down. Js lol.
I think you're totally right but I also think people feel the need to be mean to others to feel better about themselves and maybe have no problem with confidence but other issues in their life's.
True.
"Give yourself permission to tell yourself how great you are" - beautiful and powerful words of wisdom. 💜💜💜
you guys look absolutely adorable
also that evil laugh tho 😂 had me pissing
Absolutely love you two and what you have to say. You make such a positive impact on EVERYTHING.
Awwww. Comment and liked before watching the vids 😂😂
Same
when you talk about like "oh my instagram doesn't look as nice as theirs or whatever" well ok I totally feel that way ALL the time, but sometimes it actually inspires me to have a better instagram or like when I see youtubers like you and rose I'm like "wow I will never be as amazing as you" and it discouraging but it also is inspiring and it's like no that's my goal and I can reach it. So yeah, sometimes it really makes my confidence lower to compare myself but it also sometimes makes me feel more confident and inspired.
does rose ever get asked to just sit in the back of other people's videos and provide in-depth commentary using just her expression
I would love to watch a video or two of that
I've been in a pretty bad mood these past couple of days with starting university and all. I've been worried about my own confidence and feeling very small in a big university, but watching this video made me realize that I have to trust and believe in myself. Also to spread joy and happiness to others
Rose didn't mention fifth harmony! She deserves a medal.
totally truth Rosie!! Life is a mirror, and every time we recognize us with the person we have in front of us!
love you so much guys! i follow you since the beginning! you both are two beautiful souls growing together! hugs cuties!!
I was just laughing so hard that i choked on my own phlegm
omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think a lot of confidence is to do with a 'fake it 'til you make it' mentality, it's what I've done recently. I put on a confident front and act like I'm confident, that way people are less likely to think that I'm feeling insecure about a certain situation. I've also tried to push myself out of my comfort zone and with that I've gained confidence (mostly socially) with more experiences ☺️
Yeah i Hope my Girlfriend and i will get more confident with our Vlogs.. so thanks for the tipps ❤️😄
Aww you guys are so Cute 👭
Agree :3
You rarely see Rose being serious, this was really nice and helpful guys!!! I've always struggled with an inferiority complex and this opened my eyes about certain things
You two are the best. All joking aside ($3 Million USD offer), you two have have amazing personalities, are charismatic, intelligent and super fun. Please never change ;-)
this is so true!!
i don't understand everything bc english isn't my first language but you're so right!
and being okay with yourself accept your flaws and working on yourself every day makes you more confident!
i wasn't okay with myself but as soon as i accepted myself for the person i am i gained more confidences. just be the person YOU want to be and everything will being much easier and you don't give a shit what other people say!
greets from vienna/austria
Ooooo Rose I see that highlighter girl, you sparklin' ✨
Don't even think you both understand how much videos like this can help us, we'll at least me for sure anyway!! I find confidence soooo hard to deal with and I know for a fact when I'm feeling confident I feel like I should be less confident incase people are judging me but I'm done thinking like that, I am me and if people don't like me for me then they can go and fuck themselves. Thank you both for helping me understand this and so much more too! Truly love u both a lottttt!!! X
rosie, where'd you get your shirt? it's super cute!!
I've watched and read lots of content about confidence but I think its the first time someone brought to my attention that if you critisize people about little things then you are going to think that people will do the same to you! So you shouldnt do it, that is a very unique and helpful tip! Way to go Rosie and Rose! Love these RealTalks maybe you could do one about different ways you can approach someone you like? Cant wait for the holiday vlog since im from Greece, very excited to see what you liked from my country! Lots of love x
love the mugs XD
i also love the sushi shirt
If two women marry each other, then why don't they drink out of Mrs. mugs?
a fan gave it to them I think it's just a joke
From memory they ordered Mrs. mugs but the order got stuffed up :p
When someone told me they hated me I said, "I can say with certainty I hate myself more so that's not even an insult." I don't think that's confidence but I've learned to wipe off insults cuz my worst critic is myself and the only person I need to make happy is myself. If I'm the best me, other people will enjoy my company. I learned a lot in high school but that's the biggest lesson I've learned.
I had a bad haircut once and the HD from a VERY BIG chain said "you can wear a hat". Confidence rock bottom.
WOW that's fucking terrible!!!!!!!!! I would have written SO MANY bad reviews!
word of mouth worked and I still tell the story
YOU guys are awesome! I have noticed first hand the positivity you spread across the Internet. It's so important to do with all the trolls out there. You guys have liked a few of our tweets and we felt so flattered that you clearly aren't solely focused inward at your own awesomeness but that you support others in your community as well. Thank you so much for being two down-to-earth individuals!!
yey
clexa trash forever!!!
trikru is everywhere😏😏
clexaaaaaaaaa!
I’m so happy with this video and your tips, because I’m not a very confidence person. I never trust myself and belife in myself. Even now when I’m writting this I’m not confidend about myself. I’m very afraid that i do or write anything wrong and that people are going to hate and unlike me beacause of that. But I’m really going to use your tips! I’m feeling more confidend about myself when I started watching your videos. I’m so happy with you in my life! I love you so much!! Just for who you are and i hope you girls will never change!💕😘😍
i confess im crying, and im so sensitive right now that im high, im so happy i decided to be a boobie and let this ladys to be my role models... THANKYOU
some day i`ll beat this stupid anxiety
Barbara La Malquerida I've had awful anxiety for 10 years. Always thought it would go away by the time I was in my 20's but nope. You have to find your own ways of dealing with that shit. For me, its embracing all the dark thoughts, being alone, a small dose of marijuana, and being creatively active.
Thank you so much for this video!! Seriously! Confidence is something I seriously struggle with and I honestly have no self confidence. Never have. Getting bullied in school, and just not liking the way I look. And not liking the way I look. I'm always the first one to slag myself off or put myself down, do it before someone else does it too me 😐
How was Kefalonia girls? Glad to see y'all back again :D
btw Rosie I love your sushi shirt
Okay so I never normally comment on a video but I just really needed to say that as someone who is terrified of flying it is so comforting to know that Rose has still been to so many places and is successful with that fear. You made me feel a little better about my own fear and that's really awesome so thank you!
Do the video with Cammie's stuff!! go for it, I personally allow it
I feel like confidence is believing in yourself and your convictions and standing firm with them. It's so hard to love yourself but only you can be in charge of how you want your life to go, you charter your own destiny and wasting time trying to hate yourself is so exhausting.
I like this guest star... you should get her back sometime 😂
this is one of the best real talk you guys have. I am really having doubts about what I am capable of because of all the pressure and stress i am facing right now and I am starting to fear of failure. thank you for this reminder. I love you two! so much love from the Philippines. ❤❤❤
I love how this already has over 100 views.
1k now 😂😂😂😂
3k now 😂
4k now 😂💕
5k now 😂😂😂
15k now lmao
At the moment, my confidence level is like a roller coaster. There are times when I just doubt on myself and when I don't. I'm always afraid of what other people think of me. Although, watching this boosted my confidence and gave me a positive mind set, so thank you to both of you guys. More of this kind of content would be much appreciated! ^^
Cuando no entiendes ni mierda, pero aún así ves el vídeo 😂😍
somos 2! xD
Siempre pensando como suenan los ingleses a españoles :-D y hola! Yo hago lo mismo para los videos en español :D:D lo siento si no me entiendes
¿Sabes? Si se te dificulta entenderle a los ingleses, podrías escucharlas diciendo una palabra y luego imitar su voz y hacer su acento. Quiero decir... Imitar su voz nasal, o algo así. Me funcionó en algo, cuando quiero hablar con mi voz, no puedo fingir el acento, pero cuando finjo la voz parecido a la de Rose o Rosie es más fácil y como practiqué la dicción como sus voces, se escucha mejor ajaja Mientras más dices las palabras más las escuchas y así recuerdas más los sonidos de las sílabas, así podrías entenderles un poquitito más. Bueno, eso me sirvió de algo. Ya no estoy tan perdida. Al principio no le entendía mucho a Rosie ajaja
jajajaja.. cuesta mucho entenderlas... pero bueno el intento y la emocion d ver sus videos lo compensa...
Somos 3 xD... Pero MeEncantan... Amo A Rose
I think that personally, my confidence has come from excepting my flaws for what they are and how they make me special in my own way, and by also making sure that I remind myself that the people around me shouldn't govern my opinion of me. Especially for people in High school when a lot of the time you're trying to fit in and you care a lot more about what people think, it's important to remember that the people that may make you feel insecure really don't matter in your life. In four years your both gonna move on with your lives and probably never see the person or people again, so I encourage not to worry! This doesn't mean put them down, or think worse of them, it just means, as Rosie said, show compassion, and also remember that their opinion of you wont and shouldn't shape who you'll grow into or become.
Also I think that self confidence is more attractive to people. If someone's confident enough to be who they are and rock it, then I and most people aren't focusing on how weird they are, I usually tend to admire that they are just confident enough not to care about what I or anyone else thinks. It's all about how you see and love yourself. You won't just learn how to be confident in a day though, it takes time and a lot of mental practice to go from not liking yourself to loving yourself, but you can get there, and once you do its so much nicer!