Unfortunately,I don’t think that will happen. They seem to be the type that think they are entitled to what they desire so their son and his wife will always in their mind are the ones who have wronged them
Not likely because user's never learn!!!They believe that there will always be a Handy used for them when they need to use the used it would not even occur to them that that wouldn't be the case!!!
Sounds like he let it happen cause the family thought Mark as the eldest kid should do everything. Now it's cost him dearly because he didn't stop at least himself & his wife from being moochers.
@@Icyangel10 paying for your parents to go on holiday is one thing (if you invited them) but for the whole family to want to go and you pay is ridiculous. ESPECIALLY after they were told you * ≈≈ saved up ≈≈* for a half year and only had enough for you 3. Being the😮 €ldest (or having more money) has nothing to do with family trips.🎻 Greedy people always try to find excuses as to why ¥ou should should be responsible. Grow up you ,😡.
Any is a master at manipulation , guilt tripping , and intimidation - a trate learned from Marks parents . Glad Mark was man enough for standing his ground and cutting ties with them
Yeah, that is a creepy family dynamic. A sister stalks her brother and his family so that she, her husband, and their parents can use what they know against their own son. Not only is that crazy behavior but it is very unsettling.
Mark is right about one thing there is definitely something wrong with Amy and her family, they are just a brunch of cheapskate’s. Mark is an absolutely genius coming up this plan and Amy got what she deserves for being a cheapskate.
In what universe can 5 people rock up to a very expensive hotel, tell them that X is paying for everything, and then go to a really expensive restaurant and do the same thing?! And don't hotels take a credit card up front on arrival if you haven't already paid for your room in advance? At the very least the hotel would look up the name given and tell them up front that X is not staying there and the game would be up anyway. And the whole situation is so spiteful, vindictive and entitled in the first place. Shows that you give an inch and they take a mile. You can't even say yes once, or you'll be doing it forever.
Well, they need to do something to make things look more dramatic. A story where inlaws go to a hotel and pay for themselves just isn't dramatic enough. These over the top stories are more annoying than funny to me because of the lack of reality in them.
I'm gonna cut ties with the kind of sister in law who takes advantage of her family member at all if Amy wants to go vacation with her brother and sister in law then she should have a real job at all instead of relaying on other people's money at all.❤😅
I would of also not posted anything about the trip until after we were already home from the trip. Mark is the true hero for standing up for his family. His plan was genius! 😮😮😮
agreed but did they visit mil mentioned and op accidentally said something. it seemed like they were trying to keep secret any way till op said she may have accidentally told the mil
They use outdated values in these to create the drama. Just like women should stay home and be housewives, daughter in laws should do everything the mother in law tells her, the older sibling has to get married before the younger one, etc.
Ik my family relied on the oldest but she was finally able to escape the house it was the duty of the second daughter to take over duties even though they were the youngest. I'm assuming and not trying to offend anyone just from experience but.when you grow up with boomer parents you have to deal with old traditions til you can find a way to leave home and grow with today's society
Why do these people always eat the most expensive things on the menu? When someone is nice enough to treat me, I don't go overboard. Also I feel obligated to contribute at least part of the tip.
"What's the difference between 3 people and 8 people?” "It's going to be pretty much the same price even with 8 people." I was playing a game on full screen, but I had to pause and rewind just to make sure that I wasn't imagining things. Has Amy learned any math in her life or something?
Yeah. For once I agree with my step dad. You marry your SPOUSE not the whole family. What you and your spouse do or don't do is NONE OF THE FAMILY'S BUSINESS!
My mom and I call my SIL because my brother 1, doesn't answer anyone's calls except his wife and kids 2, when he does answer he never remembers anything. It's easier and she actually got sick of missing stuff/being late and just told us to call her.
This reminds me of growing up and living near relatives. Soon as they heard my family would plan a vacation, relatives intervened to say why did we need it and if they could come to make it a huge family thing. Funny is the fact that when we did the same in return, we had to respect that they wanted to keep it to themselves and yet called us selfish for not inviting them. OR that we suddenly owed them money. The last vacation was going to Sea World. We were packed and ready to go then mom tells us to get out of the car, etc that she got into a huge fight with my grandpa who harassed her for the money we borrowed (and were gradually paying back). She ended up throwing what money we saved in his face, and course they ended up using the money to take a small trip few towns over, big family event, and guess what family wasn't invited... yup. Us. 😁 ever since then, any vacation, whether it was a small rendezvous to the beach for a few days (it was a 45-minute drive), we'd constantly get asked why did we need it? I'm glad I cut them out of my life but damn that affected me to this day.
Even if the they did a big family vacation, SIL wouldn’t be content bc every time they’d do something, they’ll want to another thing and never be satisfied. Then SIL wants to be upset bc OP talked to her husband, of course she’s going to discuss this w/ her spouse.
There is a big flaw in a lot of these stories… first of all you have to put a credit card down to book a room.. second they run a credit check to make sure the credit card has enough on it to cover bill… sooo this whole showing up and someone else paying just doesn’t work no one would allow her to book a room without a way to pay for it…
I remember one time me, and my parents went to a casino. Stayed at a hotel for the 2 days we were there. Used my card to pay and a good month later I realized they never took the money to pay for our stay. That was a good decade ago.
@@lisacartwright2402 Hello, I am the manager of the Casino Hotel in and have realised you are that family. Please remit me $3,248.28 (inc interest). You can DM me for the casino account details. Otherwise my lawyers, Runne, Grabbit and Sue will be in touch.
Might have something to do with the people making these stories not figuring stuff out along with not actually living in the US despite making the stories try to take place in America
What is this "you are going on a vacation so you are supposed to invite your entire extended family" thing? Is it pure entitlement for the story or a real thing for some people?
We have this problem with my MiL. She chose to live with my SiL and be a free nanny for their kids. We had to pay a lot on child care costs and got no help from family. However when it comes to vacations she is so jealous that she doesn’t get to go with us. We stopped telling her when we were going places because she would always come up with some crisis while we were gone and bother us during our rest time. The kids had to learn long ago to not mention things to her.
Posting that you’re going on vacation is a good way to get robbed. Cheapskate SILs aren’t the only people you have to worry about stalking your social media.
That is so true. I question the sanity of people posting while on vacation, even with a security system that is still asking for trouble. Post after the fact is better
I still can't believe how people from the same family can have such different characters and approach to life and other people. It's just amazing when Mark turned out to be a loving and caring man, looking through the prism of his family - a dissolved and insolent sister, and his own mother and father even worse... It is said that a smart guy will never learn to count with people until he is outsmarted himself: )
Different characters from the same family? Absolutely. I have two sisters. The older one, if she hated your guts and wanted to dance on your grave, BUT you went to her and said, "I need to leave town for a while, can you look after this $50,000 cash for me?" Because you expressed trust in her, she would take the money and care for it, returning it to you when you came back a year later. The younger one, she would be spending your money before you were wheels-up at the airport, and would deny taking it from you when your returned home a week later.
"I can't believe we are getting all this stuff for free." Yeah you can't believe it because it isn't true. Geez. Can you imagine a world where you can check into a hotel or go to a restaurant and say "Oh this person who isn't present will be paying. Just trust us." Who the heck thinks stuff like that would work?
LOL Deserves that toxic family to have to pay for themselves. That was a smart plan to give out false info about where they were going. It did prove that they would try to join their vacation and make OP and her husband pay. Moving apartments was extra good ideal as well. Mark was right on with that call.
maybe if the in-laws were not so difficult they might be invited more often on family events...especially Mark 's sister....they wanted to go and have Mark pay everything....moochers...
Who thinks like this? I've never met people that expect the adult child to pay for everyone to go on trips. Everyone plans their own and pays their own. I have no obligation to take any of my siblings and their families on trips nor do they have that obligation to me . ridiculous and shameful. Stop being a leech on your children and siblings.😡
This story reminds me of my dad's life He's the eldest son in the family And pays for almost everything even though on paper the expenses are to be shared with his younger siblings 😑
Amy, if you and your family want to go on a “beach vacation” then book it yourself and pay for it yourself! What a bunch of leeches! Hah, a trap! Or rather a diversion. Well at least Mark has Cara’s back. So, how did Amy make a reservation without a credit card in the first place? That’s the first thing they ask for when you check in. Boy, Mark and Cara sure moved apartments quickly!
I have a sister like that, and my mother's sister was the same. I remember the one time my sister had just casher her income tax refund cheque and was sitting on the couch with the money in her hands. Her hands were shaking as she said over and over, "I need to spend this. What should I spend it on?" It's like having money and not getting it spent was painful.
ANYBODY SHOULD BE INVITED ??? IS HER OWN FAMILY !!!! NOT FREELOADING & PANHANDLING !!! BROKE IN-LAWS !!!! HAVE IN-LAWS EVER TREATED YOU & FAMILY ???? ON ANY VACATIONS !!! THEIR TREAT !!!! NEVER EVER !!!! SEE YOU AS A SOFT. SCARY !!! ATM
Entitled, lying sister got what she deserved. As for the rest of the family, they were manipulated by her lies this time. Still cutting ties with them was for the best right now I hope the sister learned her lesson about assuming and lying when it comes to who pays their bills.
“Just pay for our vacation and we will be content!” Never negotiate with terrorists. And never give in to manipulative behavior (ie prove you like us!). You will never prove it, they will demand more and you will be miserable. Btw- why isn’t Amy having this conversation with her brother instead of his wife? 🤔 Edit: Mark’s the boss! His plan worked perfectly. I’m glad they got away from his toxic family. When they start threatening you, it’s time to cut ties.
Having been on many family vacations, never once did ever anyone else decide along at tag along our expense. And we never planned to tag along on theirs, either. Not talking expensive. We don't do expensive. It's bad enough with inexpensive, and people mooching off you in petty ways.
That's what I was thinking. Let them go, thinking they are "onto you" but instead move during that time. Then after you've moved and blocked them, go on your vacay.
$2000. ???????? DAMN !!!! IN-LAWS HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO RESPECT 4 HER !!!! NONE WHATSOEVER !!!!! TREATING HER LIKE A DUMMY DOORMAT !!!!! ALWAYS PLOTTING WAYS 2 DRAIN THEIR SAVINGS !!!! JEALOUS OF HER LOVING BEAUTIFUL FAMILY !!
😈😏Have feeling greatparents or other family member got some message how was on Mark's side in first place before his adulthood , not so surprised if Sister and Her Parents with Nephew in law except great Daughter/great niece got scolding/Discipline on family meeting/Party for let both Op and Mark Paying every meal and more, Both Op and Mark have no-contact with them in first place.
Who are these people that say these things? Every story has the SAME THING!!! Same entitled people that say the stupidest things that I have ever heard
Amy is laying it on thick with the manipulation tactics. My tolerance level for this kind of thing is rather non-existent thanks to an abusive and manipulative sibling. Maybe it's because of this person that I can recognise the manipulative language that Amy is using...
I can't believe Amy thought she could get away with trying to use some excuse to the hotel, given what I'm aware of she likely sounded like a little kid making excuses/lies to get her brother in trouble & think she the lying child wouldn't get in trouble. Obviously she's an adult that's been using her brother for far to long & the hotel isn't letting this shit slide. I wonder if OP & Mark have enough evidence to sue Amy for stalking or at the very least due to how childish she's been scare her into thinking they can sue her for stalking so even though they cut ties & blocked her she can't go snooping for a way in/get around the blocking? Also the fact Amy's husband supposedly had enough money* to pay yet did nothing about it before. I'm guessing despite having the money he's a cheapskate like his wife/in-laws or was just more than willing to let the guy everyone in the family turns to for money/help do shit. The only reason Mark was even doing that up to this point was cause as the eldest child/son in the family his shitty family decided he does everything for them, he only put up with it until now was because he had trouble getting rid of them & this incident was the perfect timing/way to plan an escape after vacation. *It never mentioned any issues let alone anything else about this past him paying it so I'm guessing he could afford it without going into debt or something let alone the fact it never mentions if his bank account is in the red thanks to this or whatever. I'm guessing he had enough to pay but it's not exactly in the budget to do that again given OP's comment on how she & Mark don't have that much money either.
Reading a family member's (whose account you are following) Instagram posts isn't really stalking, though. I mean, having your posts read is WHY you post them. It's the entire point of posting on Instagram, having those posts read.
No. You are not an immediate family member and we are not obligated to bring you anywhere with us especially if you want to force us to pay for it. Thank you for understanding and changing your ways, if you do want to be even the smallest part of this family. Otherwise go home to my brother and stay there as you are useless to us if you don't help out with costs and necessary luggage hauling and ect.
In Dear Abby, the MIL was always dropping in on her son and DIL. The DIL shouted, "MIL if you ever want grandchildren, you've got to let us have some alone time!"
“NO” is such a useful word. Nothing needs to be added to that.
I'm glad Mark stood up for his wife, I hope his horrible family learned their lesson from this experience
Unfortunately,I don’t think that will happen. They seem to be the type that think they are entitled to what they desire so their son and his wife will always in their mind are the ones who have wronged them
@@carolbielas3519 I think you’re right
Not likely because user's never learn!!!They believe that there will always be a Handy used for them when they need to use the used it would not even occur to them that that wouldn't be the case!!!
Amy: Mommy is really mad at you….. wah wah get the baby a bottle …
So her husband had the money to pay but was willing to mooch off his BIL. What a man. I am glad they tricked the family and cut ties.
Sounds like a perfect match for amy lol
My god this woman has a cheek it's not up to op to pay for them all she just a nasty little B😮
Never😮
Sounds like he let it happen cause the family thought Mark as the eldest kid should do everything. Now it's cost him dearly because he didn't stop at least himself & his wife from being moochers.
@@Icyangel10 paying for your parents to go on holiday is one thing (if you invited them) but for the whole family to want to go and you pay is ridiculous. ESPECIALLY after they were told you
* ≈≈ saved up ≈≈*
for a half year and only had enough for you 3.
Being the😮 €ldest (or having more money) has nothing to do with family trips.🎻 Greedy people always try to find excuses as to why ¥ou should should be responsible. Grow up you ,😡.
I really love Mark's shiny backbone and that he's not a wimpy mama's boy! Great story! 👍👍
Cara and Mark really got over on their freeloading family. I love it when a plan comes together!
A family vacation doesn't always mean the entire family. Most of the time it's just the parents and their children.
What Amy wants us an extended family vacation. We do those by coordinating the itinerary but pay rooms etc. separately.
Yeah, well, if you think someone else is paying...
The nuclear family gets some nuclear revenge! ⚛️
Any is a master at manipulation , guilt tripping , and intimidation - a trate learned from Marks parents .
Glad Mark was man enough for standing his ground and cutting ties with them
Yeah, that is a creepy family dynamic. A sister stalks her brother and his family so that she, her husband, and their parents can use what they know against their own son. Not only is that crazy behavior but it is very unsettling.
Narcissists 👋🇨🇦
Ah, clever of Mark to use the power of social media perfectly to trick his mooching family.
Amy is not exactly the brightest bulb in the pack. Which explains how she has easily fallen for Mark's trap.
A huge factor is hubris.
Mark is right about one thing there is definitely something wrong with Amy and her family, they are just a brunch of cheapskate’s. Mark is an absolutely genius coming up this plan and Amy got what she deserves for being a cheapskate.
😂
Yay Mark! A husband who finally stood up for his wife. ❤
"When squeezing in goes wrong!" LOLOL!!!
In what universe can 5 people rock up to a very expensive hotel, tell them that X is paying for everything, and then go to a really expensive restaurant and do the same thing?! And don't hotels take a credit card up front on arrival if you haven't already paid for your room in advance? At the very least the hotel would look up the name given and tell them up front that X is not staying there and the game would be up anyway.
And the whole situation is so spiteful, vindictive and entitled in the first place. Shows that you give an inch and they take a mile. You can't even say yes once, or you'll be doing it forever.
In the universe of these text stories, it happens quite often lol
Well, they need to do something to make things look more dramatic.
A story where inlaws go to a hotel and pay for themselves just isn't dramatic enough.
These over the top stories are more annoying than funny to me because of the lack of reality in them.
I noticed the plot hole regarding the hotel as they do require a credit card on file for incidentals.
@@KCohere33 in the universe of reality it happens a LOT 😣
If it's the hotel restaurant, they'll let you charge it to your room. But you do need a credit card.
“A beach vacation is the perfect opportunity to prove that you care about us!”
“Oh, then I guess I don’t care then.”
I'm gonna cut ties with the kind of sister in law who takes advantage of her family member at all if Amy wants to go vacation with her brother and sister in law then she should have a real job at all instead of relaying on other people's money at all.❤😅
They better teach their daughter what "No Contact" means and to never allow Dad's side of the family to latch hold of her.
I would of also not posted anything about the trip until after we were already home from the trip. Mark is the true hero for standing up for his family. His plan was genius! 😮😮😮
agreed but did they visit mil mentioned and op accidentally said something. it seemed like they were trying to keep secret any way till op said she may have accidentally told the mil
No is a complete sentence!! But this was good too💜
Why is it the duty of the oldest child to do every thing .
I asked that question all the time while my mom was alive.
They use outdated values in these to create the drama. Just like women should stay home and be housewives, daughter in laws should do everything the mother in law tells her, the older sibling has to get married before the younger one, etc.
In my family is the oldest daughter.
Ik my family relied on the oldest but she was finally able to escape the house it was the duty of the second daughter to take over duties even though they were the youngest. I'm assuming and not trying to offend anyone just from experience but.when you grow up with boomer parents you have to deal with old traditions til you can find a way to leave home and grow with today's society
Why do these people always eat the most expensive things on the menu? When someone is nice enough to treat me, I don't go overboard. Also I feel obligated to contribute at least part of the tip.
Entitlement and selfishness.
That's because you're a decent human being.
Who needs enemies when you have family like that? SMH
Amy: If you don't do this, I'll tell everyone that you hate us!
Cara: Exactly! Have fun sponging off someone else! Bye!
- The End -
Mark is a great husband!
"What's the difference between 3 people and 8 people?”
"It's going to be pretty much the same price even with 8 people."
I was playing a game on full screen, but I had to pause and rewind just to make sure that I wasn't imagining things. Has Amy learned any math in her life or something?
Yeah. For once I agree with my step dad. You marry your SPOUSE not the whole family. What you and your spouse do or don't do is NONE OF THE FAMILY'S BUSINESS!
Another one calling the in-law instead of actual family member.
My mom and I call my SIL because my brother 1, doesn't answer anyone's calls except his wife and kids 2, when he does answer he never remembers anything. It's easier and she actually got sick of missing stuff/being late and just told us to call her.
The actual FM would have told them to piss off, ending the story far too quickly for their tastes. However, if they did some decent writing...😂
This reminds me of growing up and living near relatives. Soon as they heard my family would plan a vacation, relatives intervened to say why did we need it and if they could come to make it a huge family thing. Funny is the fact that when we did the same in return, we had to respect that they wanted to keep it to themselves and yet called us selfish for not inviting them. OR that we suddenly owed them money. The last vacation was going to Sea World. We were packed and ready to go then mom tells us to get out of the car, etc that she got into a huge fight with my grandpa who harassed her for the money we borrowed (and were gradually paying back). She ended up throwing what money we saved in his face, and course they ended up using the money to take a small trip few towns over, big family event, and guess what family wasn't invited... yup. Us. 😁 ever since then, any vacation, whether it was a small rendezvous to the beach for a few days (it was a 45-minute drive), we'd constantly get asked why did we need it? I'm glad I cut them out of my life but damn that affected me to this day.
Aren't EXTENDED FAMILIES such a JOY TO BEHOLD ?
Even if the they did a big family vacation, SIL wouldn’t be content bc every time they’d do something, they’ll want to another thing and never be satisfied.
Then SIL wants to be upset bc OP talked to her husband, of course she’s going to discuss this w/ her spouse.
There is a big flaw in a lot of these stories… first of all you have to put a credit card down to book a room.. second they run a credit check to make sure the credit card has enough on it to cover bill… sooo this whole showing up and someone else paying just doesn’t work no one would allow her to book a room without a way to pay for it…
I remember one time me, and my parents went to a casino. Stayed at a hotel for the 2 days we were there. Used my card to pay and a good month later I realized they never took the money to pay for our stay. That was a good decade ago.
@@lisacartwright2402 Hello, I am the manager of the Casino Hotel in and have realised you are that family. Please remit me $3,248.28 (inc interest). You can DM me for the casino account details. Otherwise my lawyers, Runne, Grabbit and Sue will be in touch.
It does work in the minds of the teenage girls that write these stories.
Might have something to do with the people making these stories not figuring stuff out along with not actually living in the US despite making the stories try to take place in America
You just have to have a card number down. Every place doesn’t actually run the card until you get there.
What is this "you are going on a vacation so you are supposed to invite your entire extended family" thing?
Is it pure entitlement for the story or a real thing for some people?
It's a real thing for some people.
Mark is awesome and petty I love it 😂😂
Sticking his family for a $2000 that *they* willingly incurred is not "petty" at all.
We have this problem with my MiL. She chose to live with my SiL and be a free nanny for their kids. We had to pay a lot on child care costs and got no help from family. However when it comes to vacations she is so jealous that she doesn’t get to go with us. We stopped telling her when we were going places because she would always come up with some crisis while we were gone and bother us during our rest time. The kids had to learn long ago to not mention things to her.
Posting that you’re going on vacation is a good way to get robbed. Cheapskate SILs aren’t the only people you have to worry about stalking your social media.
That is so true. I question the sanity of people posting while on vacation, even with a security system that is still asking for trouble. Post after the fact is better
I still can't believe how people from the same family can have such different characters and approach to life and other people. It's just amazing when Mark turned out to be a loving and caring man, looking through the prism of his family - a dissolved and insolent sister, and his own mother and father even worse...
It is said that a smart guy will never learn to count with people until he is outsmarted himself: )
Different characters from the same family? Absolutely.
I have two sisters.
The older one, if she hated your guts and wanted to dance on your grave, BUT you went to her and said, "I need to leave town for a while, can you look after this $50,000 cash for me?"
Because you expressed trust in her, she would take the money and care for it, returning it to you when you came back a year later.
The younger one, she would be spending your money before you were wheels-up at the airport, and would deny taking it from you when your returned home a week later.
"I can't believe we are getting all this stuff for free." Yeah you can't believe it because it isn't true. Geez. Can you imagine a world where you can check into a hotel or go to a restaurant and say "Oh this person who isn't present will be paying. Just trust us." Who the heck thinks stuff like that would work?
I am afraid after a lifetime of having people mooch off me. I would just say F*** off and pay for yourself
Morning everyone, sil and her family got just deserts. 😆
I would have blocked her the moment she trotted out the emotional blackmail.
Excellent storyline... The Voice actors are also EXCELLENT... I recognize the voices from other storylines which are enjoyable because for them...
Why can't she take her parents And her own family to the beach...cheap much, or just all the time!😮
Mark is the real mvp ❤
Just because you make plans to go on a vacation with your family doesn’t mean you need to invite the ENTIRE family!
LOL Deserves that toxic family to have to pay for themselves. That was a smart plan to give out false info about where they were going. It did prove that they would try to join their vacation and make OP and her husband pay. Moving apartments was extra good ideal as well. Mark was right on with that call.
Amy acts like a 5yr old. “I’m telling my mom on you!”
You reserve it . . . .YOU pay for it. . . .end of story.
Awesome to see Mark is supporting his wife instead of siding with his sister and parents!
I was proud of Mark! He thinks like I do. :D When someone tried to take advantage of me, I used that to MY benefit. ;) That's how you do it. :D
maybe if the in-laws were not so difficult they might be invited more often on family events...especially Mark 's sister....they wanted to go and have Mark pay everything....moochers...
OH NOOO! She's gonna tell mommy on her! WHATEVER SHALL SHE DOOO?!
Good revenge story.
Who thinks like this? I've never met people that expect the adult child to pay for everyone to go on trips. Everyone plans their own and pays their own. I have no obligation to take any of my siblings and their families on trips nor do they have that obligation to me . ridiculous and shameful. Stop being a leech on your children and siblings.😡
Mark is really a GOAT ❤❤
Thank you for the new acronym!😊
Within the first minute, she should have told the SIL to pound sand and then block her. lol
I had a feeling that Mark and his family were at a different place, from where the rest of them were.
There's a simple word, NO. No discussion, no explanation, just NO.
This story reminds me of my dad's life
He's the eldest son in the family
And pays for almost everything even though on paper the expenses are to be shared with his younger siblings 😑
Ive had gf with family like this. They didnt like me cuz I didnt but into this vs. Told them how it was an what the deal is no negotions
Amy, if you and your family want to go on a “beach vacation” then book it yourself and pay for it yourself! What a bunch of leeches! Hah, a trap! Or rather a diversion. Well at least Mark has Cara’s back. So, how did Amy make a reservation without a credit card in the first place? That’s the first thing they ask for when you check in. Boy, Mark and Cara sure moved apartments quickly!
The sister and law seems to think that just because a family member has money she's entitled to spend it.
I have a sister like that, and my mother's sister was the same.
I remember the one time my sister had just casher her income tax refund cheque and was sitting on the couch with the money in her hands. Her hands were shaking as she said over and over, "I need to spend this. What should I spend it on?"
It's like having money and not getting it spent was painful.
ANYBODY SHOULD BE INVITED ??? IS HER OWN FAMILY !!!! NOT FREELOADING & PANHANDLING !!! BROKE IN-LAWS !!!! HAVE IN-LAWS EVER TREATED YOU & FAMILY ???? ON ANY VACATIONS !!! THEIR TREAT !!!! NEVER EVER !!!! SEE YOU AS A SOFT. SCARY !!! ATM
Just glad that in these stories that it's only one side the family that are being leeches.
Champagne and caviar taste with tap water budget!
You know what, we have decided to cancel our vacation, so you go on vacation by yourselves!!!!
Entitled, lying sister got what she deserved. As for the rest of the family, they were manipulated by her lies this time. Still cutting ties with them was for the best right now I hope the sister learned her lesson about assuming and lying when it comes to who pays their bills.
No guys need to move far away and change your mobile numbers. Does this woman want to cut ties with her husband's family?
Why can't they pay themselves?
They are broke.
@@straightblackgirl Or just greedy pigs.😊
“Just pay for our vacation and we will be content!”
Never negotiate with terrorists. And never give in to manipulative behavior (ie prove you like us!). You will never prove it, they will demand more and you will be miserable.
Btw- why isn’t Amy having this conversation with her brother instead of his wife? 🤔
Edit: Mark’s the boss! His plan worked perfectly. I’m glad they got away from his toxic family. When they start threatening you, it’s time to cut ties.
Having been on many family vacations, never once did ever anyone else decide along at tag along our expense. And we never planned to tag along on theirs, either. Not talking expensive. We don't do expensive. It's bad enough with inexpensive, and people mooching off you in petty ways.
Good morning from Iowa, where the cleaning is done and it's gonna rain. The dandelions are up and the honey bees are busy.
Don't go on vacay and move that weekend while they are away
That's what I was thinking. Let them go, thinking they are "onto you" but instead move during that time. Then after you've moved and blocked them, go on your vacay.
GO Mark what a amazing husband if i spell it right.
Hubby rocks 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
$2000. ???????? DAMN !!!! IN-LAWS HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO RESPECT 4 HER !!!! NONE WHATSOEVER !!!!! TREATING HER LIKE A DUMMY DOORMAT !!!!! ALWAYS PLOTTING WAYS 2 DRAIN THEIR SAVINGS !!!! JEALOUS OF HER LOVING BEAUTIFUL FAMILY !!
Doormat AND ATM! If they had hooked up, the drain would have opened on full.
YAYYYYYY MARK!!
5:27 Cara and Mark are gonna hate Amy and her family either way... -_-
Waaah, waaah, waaah! I’m going to tell my mommy 😒😒😤🔥🔥🔥
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I'm glad you and your husband got free of a family of leeches
Ah yes. The decoy destination. ahahahaha
And moving to a new residence on the sly. Epic.
Tell the mom that you'll pay for her, but not for SIL and her family.
Good morning from rainy Ontario Canada 🇨🇦
Some family they had a lot of nerve inviting themselves and expect somebody to pay for them the whole time . karma is, something else
😈😏Have feeling greatparents or other family member got some message how was on Mark's side in first place before his adulthood , not so surprised if Sister and Her Parents with Nephew in law except great Daughter/great niece got scolding/Discipline on family meeting/Party for let both Op and Mark Paying every meal and more, Both Op and Mark have no-contact with them in first place.
Finally a story where the husband is on the same page as his wife and against his family. I just finished this story and it had me Lmao 😂
Who are these people that say these things? Every story has the SAME THING!!! Same entitled people that say the stupidest things that I have ever heard
Amy is laying it on thick with the manipulation tactics. My tolerance level for this kind of thing is rather non-existent thanks to an abusive and manipulative sibling. Maybe it's because of this person that I can recognise the manipulative language that Amy is using...
I can't believe Amy thought she could get away with trying to use some excuse to the hotel, given what I'm aware of she likely sounded like a little kid making excuses/lies to get her brother in trouble & think she the lying child wouldn't get in trouble. Obviously she's an adult that's been using her brother for far to long & the hotel isn't letting this shit slide. I wonder if OP & Mark have enough evidence to sue Amy for stalking or at the very least due to how childish she's been scare her into thinking they can sue her for stalking so even though they cut ties & blocked her she can't go snooping for a way in/get around the blocking?
Also the fact Amy's husband supposedly had enough money* to pay yet did nothing about it before. I'm guessing despite having the money he's a cheapskate like his wife/in-laws or was just more than willing to let the guy everyone in the family turns to for money/help do shit. The only reason Mark was even doing that up to this point was cause as the eldest child/son in the family his shitty family decided he does everything for them, he only put up with it until now was because he had trouble getting rid of them & this incident was the perfect timing/way to plan an escape after vacation.
*It never mentioned any issues let alone anything else about this past him paying it so I'm guessing he could afford it without going into debt or something let alone the fact it never mentions if his bank account is in the red thanks to this or whatever. I'm guessing he had enough to pay but it's not exactly in the budget to do that again given OP's comment on how she & Mark don't have that much money either.
There's no difference between 3 and 8! Hmmmm. I'm no math whiz, but.....
I can't even begin to explain how much just listening to this irritated me... 😂
Reading a family member's (whose account you are following) Instagram posts isn't really stalking, though.
I mean, having your posts read is WHY you post them. It's the entire point of posting on Instagram, having those posts read.
Once I moved out of my father's house, I was emancipated and expected everyone to pay their own way.
No. You are not an immediate family member and we are not obligated to bring you anywhere with us especially if you want to force us to pay for it. Thank you for understanding and changing your ways, if you do want to be even the smallest part of this family. Otherwise go home to my brother and stay there as you are useless to us if you don't help out with costs and necessary luggage hauling and ect.
Happy Thursday Everyone from Tacoma Washington!( Stay Safe )
Live dangerously
This topic gets weirder, a family who thinks the world owe them a living, that is one entitled family.
No one says "expensive course dinner". Maybe expensive 5-course dinner or multi-course dinner. Who translates these?
People who aren't Americans, though they pretend to be.
😂😂😂 mark is a genius 😂😂😂
It’s amazing how some people don’t understand the word NO and get pissed off once they finally understand.
In Dear Abby, the MIL was always dropping in on her son and DIL. The DIL shouted, "MIL if you ever want grandchildren, you've got to let us have some alone time!"
They only sorry when caught and when things don't go their way.