@@charlespulliamjr6531 I think they likely meant more that it’s the simple things like those that can make a huge difference. The sentiment is still correct, obviously add and subtract anything you want from the equation, everyone has different wants and needs. For some, it really is that simple though. My Gran and Mum are living proof of that, happy with the tiniest of things like that and they really can’t ask for much more. I strive to be like that, but I’m just simply not that type of person.
We all deserve a Soft Life 🙌🏽 I only exert my energy in what serves me and not glorifying my problems. Life is short to spend it stressed and overwhelmed. There will always be some kind of problems/difficulty but let’s refuse to be consumed by it. A positive mindset breeds positive results 🙌🏽
The idea of a soft life is not one I am entirely opposed to, but I frown upon its consumerist manifestations. One should not have to buy a life of ease and nor should it be Instagram worthy. It shouldn’t be limited to indulging oneself but encompass what Lynx Sainte-Marie calls a “community care practice and politic.” It should ensure that others too can experience comfort and peace in their lives which enables a continuous sharing of softness.
@@jonjones6583 That's one way to describe socialism. In the case of the USSR, they resorted to suppressing those who disagreed with socialism, resulting in the deaths of 10 million individuals in pursuit of their utopian ideals. Interestingly, the deceased no longer had to worry about the simple act of breathing, which can indeed be quite taxing. Access to oxygen is a critical concern, with some believing that only 'The People,' whether in the form of pure democracy or the proletariat, should collectively decide who qualifies. Those deemed 'wrong thinkers' are to be removed and eliminated, justified on moral grounds. Morality is determined by the group, as there are no absolutes due to the absence of a higher authority. This marks a departure from phallogocentrism.
I've been seeking this kind of life for the past 7 years and had no name for it... I just had a vision of a tiny home in nature, healthy eating, a big dog, a guitar, tons of books and a cozy nook! Soft life sums it up perfectly 💗
As a Christian, I really enjoyed this video. My husband and I take a weekly sabbath to rest together. We usually go running, read the Bible together, take our dog to the dog park, and have date night. And only do chores that we enjoy. I think we all need regular rest. Thanks for the tips and reminder 💕💕💕
God made a new covenant with America, not like the covenant with Israel. Jeremiah 31:31. read it. God has a chosen One. Malachi 3and Malachi 4:4@@katesolis756
Thisss. even gotta be super careful who and what you are watching on TH-cam. it can cause you to have a negative mindset if you are listening to negative people.
I forgot these goals while being a mom with yogi children at home for 35 years. I made my kids and home the focus and forget about my well being. I gave up exercise for 35 years and now at 65 at am finally focusing to get into better physical condition. These are very doable I didn’t think about my own well-being.
im a 29 year old male and for the past year ive been consuming content entirely about grit, determination, harshness of the world and being better. This just showed up for me i have no idea why but damn is it different for men and women..
I'm a woman and the stuff you mentioned is way more like what I see everyday, this is like seeing a whole other side of the internet i didn't know existed. I think this is probably meant to appeal to the niche of rich housewives.
you have such a special way of things! I love hearing what you have to say just the way you want to say it~ your videos always seem to put me in a soft feminine flow state- thank you 🤍
It's saddening to see some people in this comment section really think all of life is about suffering til you die. Are you not aware that you have the power to actually live a life you love?
Yeah let's not say this is about femininity, this mindset is unrealistic and unappealing regardless. By all means notice and appreciate the little things, but a life of ease and comfort isn't possible without struggle from someone. I'd rather aspire to be someone who's strong enough to give and recieve support in that struggle. Share the load and make the world better.
Thank you Urania, that was the video I just needed. Thank you for reminding me of all this points. Your examples are also very welcomed and helpful. Take care. 😘
This was recommended to me by TH-cam. I've only heard a little but living a soft life sounds like a way to make you utterly unprepared for tradgedy, and tragedy always comes to us all. "What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger" is the opposite sentiment and a stupid one to, you can get shot and heal but still be paralyzed from the waist down. Soldiers who come back from war alive with bad ptsd aren’t stronger. But this lifestyle seems to be for women only, if men aren’t go getter they won't ever get her. She needs a man who works hard so that she can live soft.
was looking for this kind of comment. Video got recommended to me aswell and this feels the kind of life you can live when you have waaay too much priviledges and don't need to fight for what you have
Wow it was a great video, I enjoyed watching you and I agree with you on all points. I do practice daily some points but I have to think about the others because I think that having a soft life is the key for a happy life. Thank you so much dear elegant lady
Hello .I m a person that s very sensitive to energy but I love your vibe .Looking forward to let go of ressistance and need to control everything. Thank you
I’m here from a post on 21 Ninety and in after reading and thinking does something like this border on toxic positivity…. And how mentally keep on constant reminder to be aware of the difference but I get it.
Really enjoyed these important steps that can help us all to live a soft life. I look forward to when you discuss the aspect of rejecting struggle love in order to live a softer life.
Greetings from Norway🌷 I have just subscribed to your channel. I don’t subscribe to many because they don’t give me much but I find your channel is so giving and interesting. Ii have always lived a good life with many things you advocate but having met so much negativity recently it is so nice to listen to your soothing voice and be reminded of where I should be. Thank you. Have a lovely day🧡
Thank you for this video. This is my first time listening to you. You gave some very helpful tips. I am going to use some of these tips to help me relax and live a softer life.
I appreciate the points made in this video and would love Level Up Journey to do a video on Levelling Up one's Environment. I could use some organization tips that align with tranquil surroundings.
Sometimes it's hard to say positive when you're constantly in a negative lifestyle- I'm currently going through group and psychological therapies and while they help, one of my therapists has a negative attitude-at least right now - and it causes me a great deal of stress and I feel worst going than I do going in - like I feel in church .I'm trying to get help and clarity to have a healthy, soft life , but , negative things has weighed me down because I try so hard to try to live positively, but, I get more defensive when people are constantly critiquing and saying something negative and disrespectful. But , lately , my attitude is like , " Whatever, " not in a negative way, it just means that I'm tired of the negativity and rudeness and hatefulness and disrespectful comments and only going to concentrate on how I feel about myself and how I act towards myself better and healthier - and the only opinion that counts is mine and mine only and stop caring or worrying about what others say and leave the negativity to the haters .
"Baby you think you can make me a snack" Me: no, im not in the position to do that right now 😂 I need to start saying no to my kids to my hubby to EVERYBODY😂😂
In my opinion this is some sexist content, and completely goes against feminism. You're convincing yourself and others that you're fragile, soft individuals and this is not a desirable life for most women. I am a man, and i'd be glad to have women reactions to this. before considering us as women or men, i think we should consider ourselves as human beings and think about what it implies. What's our role in a community, in nature, what purpose do we serve? This video completly misses the essence of what's life and how to be happy. I think true happiness is made through progress and 'self developpment' has to be related with struggling, making misstakes, improve and keep trying to archieve new goals. All of this is emotionally demanding for sure, you'll sometimes feel down, are gonna need to fight, sometimes against others, sometimes against yourself, and happiness will come when you'll be able to witness the progress you made in life. 'After the rain comes the sunshine' implies the existence of rain.
I like women that can stand for themselves and that are capable to do stuff that's actually useful in real life. Skilled women. Not those who need a man to sustain on. A real relationship is based on sharing and MUTUAL support. I completely missed the part in this video when she explains how to deal with your basic vital needs.
Please advise me, how to tell someone to not curse in my presence? I have a colleague that I really like talk to, but she swears a lot and I hate it. I don't know how to tell her to stop doing that
IDK how to get them to stop. But, if they swear using G**D*** close your eyes & bow your head. When they continue to speak look up & say "Oh! I thought you were praying."
How about respecting those who live hard lives Those who keep your soft lives from collapsing... Those who can't quit their 9 to 5 and do freelance work from the beach Or whom can't provide for their families via social media content Truck drivers Farmers Waiting staff Grocery workers Fast food chain workers Cleaners Builders/labourers Mechanics Taxi/ride share Railroad staff Police Firefighters Hospital workers Teachers
yes, thanks for this. Essential jobs aren't compatible with this soft life BS and this movement is kinda scaring me. Just shows how priviledged some ppl are. also, idk about the person talking about 'masculine energy' but before thinking about our gender, i think we should consider what bein a Human is and what it implies. A lot of women are essential workers aswell and can't have this kind of 'soft life' because they have actual responsabilities and need to understand how the real world works to take the best decisions. Life is not easy, it's a rollercoaster and true hapiness can only make sense if you compare the moment to the ones when you were struggling
You do not have to be wealthy. Maintain clean organized home. Take care of yourself. That's it.
Dont gotta be wealthy I agree but theres still more too it than that
@@charlespulliamjr6531 I think they likely meant more that it’s the simple things like those that can make a huge difference. The sentiment is still correct, obviously add and subtract anything you want from the equation, everyone has different wants and needs. For some, it really is that simple though. My Gran and Mum are living proof of that, happy with the tiniest of things like that and they really can’t ask for much more. I strive to be like that, but I’m just simply not that type of person.
yes you do. money ruins my life
Na run ya bag up lil bro
yes u do
We all deserve a Soft Life 🙌🏽 I only exert my energy in what serves me and not glorifying my problems. Life is short to spend it stressed and overwhelmed. There will always be some kind of problems/difficulty but let’s refuse to be consumed by it. A positive mindset breeds positive results 🙌🏽
Love that! Cheers to the soft life 🥂❤️
Yes girl 👏 💕
The idea of a soft life is not one I am entirely opposed to, but I frown upon its consumerist manifestations. One should not have to buy a life of ease and nor should it be Instagram worthy. It shouldn’t be limited to indulging oneself but encompass what Lynx Sainte-Marie calls a “community care practice and politic.” It should ensure that others too can experience comfort and peace in their lives which enables a continuous sharing of softness.
@@jonjones6583 That's one way to describe socialism. In the case of the USSR, they resorted to suppressing those who disagreed with socialism, resulting in the deaths of 10 million individuals in pursuit of their utopian ideals. Interestingly, the deceased no longer had to worry about the simple act of breathing, which can indeed be quite taxing. Access to oxygen is a critical concern, with some believing that only 'The People,' whether in the form of pure democracy or the proletariat, should collectively decide who qualifies. Those deemed 'wrong thinkers' are to be removed and eliminated, justified on moral grounds. Morality is determined by the group, as there are no absolutes due to the absence of a higher authority. This marks a departure from phallogocentrism.
Ah yes, let's sip our trash juice wine as the world falls apart and we live our "soft lives"...
I've been seeking this kind of life for the past 7 years and had no name for it... I just had a vision of a tiny home in nature, healthy eating, a big dog, a guitar, tons of books and a cozy nook! Soft life sums it up perfectly 💗
As a Christian, I really enjoyed this video. My husband and I take a weekly sabbath to rest together. We usually go running, read the Bible together, take our dog to the dog park, and have date night. And only do chores that we enjoy. I think we all need regular rest. Thanks for the tips and reminder 💕💕💕
Jeremiah 17:19-25, keep the Sabbath day holy, do no work, we prepare in advance for the Sabbath
God made a new covenant with America, not like the covenant with Israel. Jeremiah 31:31. read it. God has a chosen One. Malachi 3and Malachi 4:4@@katesolis756
Jesus didn't work on the Sabbath, He prayed for the sick on the Sabbath. Read Jeremiah 17:19-20 forbidding no work. You didn't read it. @@katesolis756
A great way to block out negativity is to not watch the evening news.
Thisss. even gotta be super careful who and what you are watching on TH-cam. it can cause you to have a negative mindset if you are listening to negative people.
After 3 children I’ve lost my soft femininity 💔 thank you for this! I want to start implementing these 😔
I was literally thinking this just 2 hours ago while driving my kids to their skate lessons
You look beautiful with that color. It matches with the soft component you are portraying! Thank you for these wonderful tips.
Soft life is for every woman. Married or single. I love it. It's our nature to be soft.
Not true, stop generalizing women.
It’s for men too
@@jokerpilled2535no Bruhh dooo nott be soft as a dude
@@mrsauce9307 why not? Just relax and enjoy life.
@@prawngravy18why can't that be general? Its also general that all humans breath air!
I forgot these goals while being a mom with yogi children at home for 35 years. I made my kids and home the focus and forget about my well being. I gave up exercise for 35 years and now at 65 at am finally focusing to get into better physical condition. These are very doable I didn’t think about my own well-being.
✨ You looked like you have been beamed down to teach us mere mortals how to live a soft life ✨ such feminine grace and poise
This comment made my day. Thank you! 💕💕
U look phenomenal Urania. The blouse is just elegant 😍 awesome video as usual. I love detoxing n living in the moment 👌
That is very kind, thank you! 💕🌷
Elegance, beauty and grace, radiates from you, shining like a Gem 💎
Femininity is soft life, healthy lifestyle.
Thank you Urania you have inspired me alot.
Watching this as an unemployed man who lives in a trailer like sooo true
im a 29 year old male and for the past year ive been consuming content entirely about grit, determination, harshness of the world and being better. This just showed up for me i have no idea why but damn is it different for men and women..
This is the first comment that actually comes from the real fucking world
I'm a woman and the stuff you mentioned is way more like what I see everyday, this is like seeing a whole other side of the internet i didn't know existed. I think this is probably meant to appeal to the niche of rich housewives.
for someone to live a soft life, someone else has to live a hard one dealing with all of lifes bs.
@@thisissparta535Thats what I’m saying. This niche content can create a bubble and I’m pretty sure that’s what’s happening here.
you have such a special way of things! I love hearing what you have to say just the way you want to say it~ your videos always seem to put me in a soft feminine flow state- thank you 🤍
It's saddening to see some people in this comment section really think all of life is about suffering til you die. Are you not aware that you have the power to actually live a life you love?
Yeah let's not say this is about femininity, this mindset is unrealistic and unappealing regardless. By all means notice and appreciate the little things, but a life of ease and comfort isn't possible without struggle from someone. I'd rather aspire to be someone who's strong enough to give and recieve support in that struggle. Share the load and make the world better.
I like your top. It suits you well !
Thank you for the beautiful soft life reminders
Thank you Urania, that was the video I just needed. Thank you for reminding me of all this points. Your examples are also very welcomed and helpful. Take care. 😘
Beautiful. Thank you💐💐💐
Video should be called 'how to avoid responsabilities and excape reality when you're super rich'
That blouse is beautiful on you!
Been enjoying my soft life, no lie.
This was recommended to me by TH-cam. I've only heard a little but living a soft life sounds like a way to make you utterly unprepared for tradgedy, and tragedy always comes to us all. "What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger" is the opposite sentiment and a stupid one to, you can get shot and heal but still be paralyzed from the waist down. Soldiers who come back from war alive with bad ptsd aren’t stronger.
But this lifestyle seems to be for women only, if men aren’t go getter they won't ever get her. She needs a man who works hard so that she can live soft.
was looking for this kind of comment. Video got recommended to me aswell and this feels the kind of life you can live when you have waaay too much priviledges and don't need to fight for what you have
The softer your life is, the rougher the people around you live theirs.
Wow it was a great video, I enjoyed watching you and I agree with you on all points. I do practice daily some points but I have to think about the others because I think that having a soft life is the key for a happy life. Thank you so much dear elegant lady
I am always in love with your/her hair. I can't seem to get this simple classic look.
I’m happy I clicked on this video! I’m just realizing that I do it if these things already and got new ideas to try.
You are doing great! 🙌🏾🌷
What a beautiful list of things to do to live a soft life. Something I shall aspire to 💖
Happy Sunday , Urania. Stay beautiful 🌸🤍🎀👒☀️💐💕🛍
Thank you Maricel. I’m wishing you a lovely new week. 💕🌷
👍👍👍👍great !!!
Thank you so much 😊 for sharing this was so helpful 💐
This has to be my favorite video ♥ wow yes and yes to everything.
My dear, you look stunning and lovely. Pink really suits you.
Such wonderful ways for living, some are new ideas and others validation. Thank you! 💕💕💕
Great tips!👍💎😊 Well said! 💪👏🙏🤓
lovely look Urania, pink suits you!💞👏 Sending love from Barbados!❤🇧🇧
Best soft life video I've come across!! Thank You well said!!!
Hello .I m a person that s very sensitive to energy but I love your vibe .Looking forward to let go of ressistance and need to control everything. Thank you
Ur skin, make up and hair is so beautiful!!!
Girl, that skin is glaaaaaaaaawing
Whaha thank you ✨❤️
The Soft Life - what a beautiful way approach. Thank you, Urania, this is a wonderful reminder with great examples.
Elegance, beauty and grace, radiates from you, shining like a Gem . Elegance, beauty and grace, radiates from you, shining like a Gem .
Y’all!
I’m here for soft life TH-cam university is gold 👌🏿.
Glad to me part of the soft life TH-cam university ahah. I hope you have been doing well. ❤️🌹
Thanks for great tips..u are amazing 💖
Theres some genuinely good advice for anybody in here
I am new to your channel, and I love all your videos. Very positive and good vibes 😎
I totally agree 💯 with everything spoken.
I’m here from a post on 21 Ninety and in after reading and thinking does something like this border on toxic positivity…. And how mentally keep on constant reminder to be aware of the difference but I get it.
Hello
very interesting video
Thank u
Thank you beautiful 😊 ❤️cheers to a soft,lovey, healthy, happy life for all woman 🥂
These are really great tips, I’m definitely saving this and subbing ❤
This is a great video and exactly what I needed to hear! Thanks :)
Everybody deserves 👏 this type of life.
Really enjoyed these important steps that can help us all to live a soft life. I look forward to when you discuss the aspect of rejecting struggle love in order to live a softer life.
Wow what a great to start the morning by listening to such a positive and informative advice Thank You
I really LOVED this video and fully believe in this life. Thank you Gourgeous!
Amazing video! I adore your videos, they`re very useful and just awesome! Keep it up, you have our support! Greetings from Bulgaria.
Thank you for this advice. I had a question, How do you protect yourself from negative people you must interact with on a weekly basis?
This is one of my faves! I ❤️ you Urania!
Greetings from Norway🌷 I have just subscribed to your channel. I don’t subscribe to many because they don’t give me much but I find your channel is so giving and interesting. Ii have always lived a good life with many things you advocate but having met so much negativity recently it is so nice to listen to your soothing voice and be reminded of where I should be. Thank you. Have a lovely day🧡
Urania you look amazing, such a beautiful shine on you✨
This video came at the most perfect time but I can’t pick up where your accent is from it’s sounds so familiar I’m curious where are you from ?
Hello gorgeous, what an amazing blouse it looks gorgeous on you! What is the brand? Pink is your color💕😘
Thank you! I got it from Zara last year. 💕
This top on you 😻😻😻 you look amazing 💖💖💖
I absolutely enjoyed this video
Hello! I’m so glad that I came across your videos! You’re amazing! Thank you so much 💖
That is so kind, thank you! 💞
@@Myfemmedaily You’re welcome!
Thank you!🌸🤍🌸 Great tips!
Thank you for this video. This is my first time listening to you. You gave some very helpful tips. I am going to use some of these tips to help me relax and live a softer life.
I appreciate the points made in this video and would love Level Up Journey to do a video on Levelling Up one's Environment. I could use some organization tips that align with tranquil surroundings.
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Sometimes it's hard to say positive when you're constantly in a negative lifestyle- I'm currently going through group and psychological therapies and while they help, one of my therapists has a negative attitude-at least right now - and it causes me a great deal of stress and I feel worst going than I do going in - like I feel in church .I'm trying to get help and clarity to have a healthy, soft life , but , negative things has weighed me down because I try so hard to try to live positively, but, I get more defensive when people are constantly critiquing and saying something negative and disrespectful. But , lately , my attitude is like , " Whatever, " not in a negative way, it just means that I'm tired of the negativity and rudeness and hatefulness and disrespectful comments and only going to concentrate on how I feel about myself and how I act towards myself better and healthier - and the only opinion that counts is mine and mine only and stop caring or worrying about what others say and leave the negativity to the haters .
It helps to find something positive, maybe not about the person, but the situation.... 🌸
Hello! First time viewing your content - new subscriber 🌸🌷🌸
I love this
"Baby you think you can make me a snack"
Me: no, im not in the position to do that right now 😂
I need to start saying no to my kids to my hubby to EVERYBODY😂😂
So nice advices darling ❤❤❤❤❤sending love from Oxford
To the men who are watching this: this does not apply to you, you need to go die in glorious battle
its ok i put missing father posters all over the town we will find him
YUP
Wonderful thought!
So helpful🥺🥺 thank you for this
Thank you for this video! 💕
응원합니다~^^
-사랑해요-
알람했어요~^^
How to live a soft life as a new mom & full time working 😂.
Thank you ❤️ great video
Thank you so much!
I love your flowers in every video.❤️
This video is to chill for me. Im use to chaos and noise i cant sit 13minutes through a chill voice lol
Thank u bless you
amazing video
Delicious food is my type of soft life
Love this ❤
I’ve never heard of a soft life
In my opinion this is some sexist content, and completely goes against feminism. You're convincing yourself and others that you're fragile, soft individuals and this is not a desirable life for most women. I am a man, and i'd be glad to have women reactions to this. before considering us as women or men, i think we should consider ourselves as human beings and think about what it implies. What's our role in a community, in nature, what purpose do we serve? This video completly misses the essence of what's life and how to be happy. I think true happiness is made through progress and 'self developpment' has to be related with struggling, making misstakes, improve and keep trying to archieve new goals. All of this is emotionally demanding for sure, you'll sometimes feel down, are gonna need to fight, sometimes against others, sometimes against yourself, and happiness will come when you'll be able to witness the progress you made in life. 'After the rain comes the sunshine' implies the existence of rain.
I like women that can stand for themselves and that are capable to do stuff that's actually useful in real life. Skilled women. Not those who need a man to sustain on. A real relationship is based on sharing and MUTUAL support. I completely missed the part in this video when she explains how to deal with your basic vital needs.
💙💙💙
AWESOME.....❤❤
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Please advise me, how to tell someone to not curse in my presence? I have a colleague that I really like talk to, but she swears a lot and I hate it. I don't know how to tell her to stop doing that
IDK how to get them to stop. But, if they swear using G**D*** close your eyes & bow your head. When they continue to speak look up & say "Oh! I thought you were praying."
@@angelicamendoza2806 I laughed at this one lol 😂
Where is this lady from… she sounds like the ppl that are on the customer service lines. Can never pin point t
I love your accent!
♥️🎀🌷💋🙏🏾
How about respecting those who live hard lives
Those who keep your soft lives from collapsing... Those who can't quit their 9 to 5 and do freelance work from the beach
Or whom can't provide for their families via social media content
Truck drivers
Farmers
Waiting staff
Grocery workers
Fast food chain workers
Cleaners
Builders/labourers
Mechanics
Taxi/ride share
Railroad staff
Police
Firefighters
Hospital workers
Teachers
@L Nur what is "masculine energy"?
@L Nur what is the difference between masculine and feminine?
yes, thanks for this. Essential jobs aren't compatible with this soft life BS and this movement is kinda scaring me. Just shows how priviledged some ppl are. also, idk about the person talking about 'masculine energy' but before thinking about our gender, i think we should consider what bein a Human is and what it implies. A lot of women are essential workers aswell and can't have this kind of 'soft life' because they have actual responsabilities and need to understand how the real world works to take the best decisions. Life is not easy, it's a rollercoaster and true hapiness can only make sense if you compare the moment to the ones when you were struggling
@@florentdumas2944 they have their soft lives because those who have hard lives come home and watch their videos
@@florentdumas2944 not everybody can be the ceo lol
Likewise, the whole world can’t aspire for “soft lives”
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