Japanese Man Who Married Hatsune Miku
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This Guy: I just got bullied because i loved Vocaloid (Miku)
Me: Well... *"It is going to happen again!!! 😈"*
Bro loves anime girls
The fact that he finds more joy in a fictional character than real people says a lot about how bad this man has been treated. That’s so sad, and sadly I think many others are in the same boat. He seems like such a nice and friendly guy. I’m glad he got out of that dark place and that Miku was able to help him out of it!
@SYMX2468 wtf ?
@@awakensaitama.2839 And yet, he decided to find peace and comfort in a fictional character instead and people still 💩 on him for it.
This is what happens when you decide to run instead of fight.
When you choose to be a coward instead of facing your fears
If he was in the US he would have turned gay or trans or some other letter of that queer alphabet
I'm thinking about doing the same thing I'm going to actually marry a anime character
@@Omnihilo
...because he's being a coward ; just like you
It's not sad he married a hologram. The sad thing is how people mistreated him so he refused to marry a real person :(
That’s what I’m talking about!!
@Just A Turtle,
I am sad for him on the day he wakes up and realizes his life is a lie.
Did this marriage cost money?
@@ProJanitor this doll costs.. less than the Indian wedding 💍
There are men all over the world that are moving in this direction with humanoids (life-like sex dolls with the combination of an android-speaking robot). Give it about 50-100 years and we'll start to see a huge swath of these kinds of stories.
This marriage was his way to cope with being depressed and bullied it helped him get through it
it is a way to run away from dealing with his problems. its weak behavior. japanese men have indeed fallen far. the amazing warrior poets japan used to produce are turning in their graves seeing this weak nonsense
@@bigmikeobama5314 Weak behaviors are giving in to your desires to harm yourself and other people. He chooses whatever makes him happy. You do not live his life so do not judge. DO NOT FORCE your Values on anyone who you bearly know
@@bigmikeobama5314 trust me lots of japanese men partake in masculine activities. just see how good they are performing in sports. lots of traditional arts are also practiced... it feels like japan is a land of niche. you can find almost every type of hobbies. its kind of overwhelming. unfortunately this person chose the worst type of hobby in his lifestyle. and since outside world only think of japan as "anime land" they think all japanese men are like this. but thats not remotely true. what he needed was a good therapist to help him resolve his trauma
@@bigmikeobama5314 L opinion
@@bigmikeobama5314 You mean like how your America has turned into a cancel and woke culture? I'm thankful AF Asia isn't like the West.
I follow him on twitter and read his tweets, he's a kind man. I find his story and every interviews very inspiring. He had a sad past that left him broken and hurting, but he picked himself back up with the help of his wife. Since he's not hurting anyone by marrying Hatsune Miku, I personally think he is more deserving of respect and that he is more of a man than bad people who would abuse or cheat on their partners.
It's sad that he was bullied enough to be so traumatized, but I'm glad he found his own happiness despite all that. He even encourages people who would love to marry fictional characters not to be afraid and to embrace their love for them. Wishing him and people like him all the best. ❤️
He is hurting himself.
Living in delusion is not a good solution to self-hatred.
It is similar to the trans shit, they hate themselves so much the only thing left to do is change their entire physiology.
It is closely related mental illness cause by self-hatred.
The sad state of mental health services in Japan is partly to blame for this.
But he could have worked through it...
Instead, he is now most likely never going getting to resolve his trauma, and find a real life partner.
This guy now resigns himself to a life of never ending loneliness with people like you cheering him on for it.
Nobody wants to live in a fake delusional state, and he knows somewhere that is what he is doing.
But he thinks that is all that is possible for him, thanks to not only bullies that traumatized him but people that pretend that this is fine, it is not.
He is going to die, never knowing what it was like to be loved by a partner, to love someone.
And you want to celebrate this?
It is potentially even more cruel than his bullies, because it is far more sinister when it comes disguised as support.
It is not supportive, lying to people to placate their delusions is not kind it is deeply cruel.
His story interested me a lot. I was bullied at school because i felt (and i fall ) in love just with fictional characters. I believed of having some mental illness because of that. I believed of being the only person feeling this kind to emotion. But after found others like me on the Internet and saw this guy now i feel of being a normal person and i am more in peace with myself 😊.
Fictiosexuality is really underrated and misunderstood. It deserves more analysis and attention.
I'm Interested to know how you get kids in this situation without cheating on ur partner, very interested
@@xxgg3407 I watched this interview, i think without skipping, I don't think it having kids was mentioned. evens so, kids aren't always the goal of every couple or individual
Hello from US.
I am 52 years old.
Mr. Kondo is happy and that's all that matters. As long as he doesn't hurt anyone, it's his life.
We have no right to criticize the lives of others. More worrisome are the problems of bullying at school or at work, and the increase in suicides in Japan.
Mans found his happiness despite the world treating him like trash about it. Mad respect
What is fbi doing here
But. Shes 16 years old... (according to the internet)
nothing is technically canon, that’s why many people love her because she can be interpreted anyway they like!
@@findtheeggsftetutorials4050
She was 16 years when she was born (2007)
@@xxgg3407 oh alr
He found someone to hold on to during tough times, and this saved him. It's just fair he wants to keep Miku nearby all the time. He seems such a nice guy. Great interview, Takashii-san
This a “something” not a “someone”
Why is that emoji man holding a carrot
@@Adrenachrome_Gumdrops Since it is not Someone and it is Something, a Carrot is Appropriate. I guess, he got bored by holding the carrot and needed holding the doll...
@@Adrenachrome_Gumdrops it took me a moment but it's actually a thumbs up
@@DmmyV No. I'm pretty sure it's a guy holding a carrot. 🥕 "👍" is a thumbs up.
When my daughter was little she carried a stuffed toy dog with her every place. It made her feel connected and grounded in unfamiliar situations. It helped her feel safe. It seems like this is what this man is also doing...after being bullied for so long, he's created his own friend to carry with him in tough moments. It might be easier to love his 2d being because she will never hurt him. He said it saved his life, so he must have had suicidal thoughts in the past, and that is awful & sad.
What needs to be fixed is the culture of adult bullying in the work place. No one should feel alone like that man did.
This. It says more about the society a person lives in than it does about them, that they get to that point in their mental health where their only hope is in a fictional character. Sadly Japan still doesn't have a good track record of dealing with mental illnesses, I've heard it's much more stigmatised and swept under the rug over there :/
He has a life sized doll of this character in his bed. She wears a wedding ring. Do you understand what he is doing to this doll in his private time? Note she is modelled on a young girl. Also note, Japan is leading the way in s*x dolls and robots who are all modelled on young girls and women. This man hasn't just "married" a 2D hologram, he has 3D versions. Interesting that Takashii didn't highlight or question this point.
@@KL-kn4lz and your problem is what exactly? How is this guy affecting you? He isn't breaking any laws. Just your standards.
@@barry_esmail Re-read my comment. My "problem" is quite clear. And yes, my standards are the safety of girls and women. Which include the objection of men using replicas of young girls to live out their fantasies.
@@KL-kn4lz but you do realize that each country has its culture, laws and standards and your country standards and your standards doesn't need to be followed by each country in the world. If you find some stuff wrong that they see ok, their culture as well have stuff they find wrong with your culture that you see are ok. Not everyone has to abide by someone's culture and standards. That's the beauty of different cultures and countries. (Case in point, marriage between relatives, age of consent, alcohol, prostitution, gun law, religious views, etc... )
IM PROUD OF HIM FOR FINDING WHAT MAKES HIM HAPPY THATS ALL THAT MATTERS
He seems a lot more happy and fullfilled than a lot of real couples are.
in his head for now, but trust me he will regret this a day he realize
I mean yeah but it's better that testing if fall damage@@Chupa_hunt
I’m actually watching this and wondering how any decent person can dislike this guy, he seems like a really down to earth confident person who isn’t afraid to express what he truly likes, and there’s a massive shortage of people like that in the world.
Most of them are jelous that he found a way other than suicide. At least I guess. I don't think normal humans would say out loud if they hate someone.
@@laszlonagy02 great answer
It's simple, to most people, this is weird behavior.
Even if he's happy and not harming anyone, there's some jerks out there who hate him because he's simply doing something that, in our current modern standards, is considered weird and even depressing, humans are extremely judgemental no matter how much we preach about acceptance.
@@johnb.d It's probably jealousy. He is happy and the people who hate him for it can't find anything to cure their depression. So they survive the day by making mean comments under a video like that. But later or sooner they will snap.
Maybe because he's different from ither japenis, in japan the different one will be hammered down
A lot of things were hurting his heart. He could have become a very dark person and started hurting others. But he didn't. He stayed strong and found his happiness. It may not be everyone's ideal marriage but it's his. If he's happy with her I say good for him.
Great job with the interview. You were very considerate. Love to you for that. 💖⚘
Well said!
Well by how japanise married life is that hologram wife isnt that bad or weird
I think your comment express a good opinion about this case, there are people that tortures other people for they stupid religions, so, why he cant do what he feel?
You have a great vision of things miss
@@IIIIIIIIIIIIIII Thank you
He's harming nobody and doing everything he can to have a happier life. There's no reason not to support that.
Best wishes to him and Miku
Also, this is gonna be an unusual parallel but as a doctor, I appreciated how non-judgemental you were when you were interviewing him.
Patients come to me with all sorts of stories. Embarrassing stories, dark stories, and many things they wouldn’t tell anyone else.
Whilst someone else’s world may be externally inconsistent from your own, you have to realise as a doctor and as a human that there is an internal logic and consistency within the context of that person’s whole life. Just like this gentleman, on the outside, the initial impression may be “what, he married Hatsune Miku?!” - but just asking him, it made total sense in his world. It’s hard to be judgmental to people when you bring yourself to think, “if I had the same set of circumstances and I was just wired a little differently, I would be exactly the same.”
It genuinely means a lot to the people who you accept non-judgementally, to be heard like that.
Yup
This guy gets it. I really think that people need to realize that everyone was born very similar to each other and the person they are now is mostly decided through their circumstances throughout their life. Every choice they make is dictated by very small factors.
As a doctor, how do you feel about him setting the example of living in a delusion to the children in his classes? Do you see any negative consequences of this type of example being set, or do you believe the children will simply laugh and move on?
I wont judge them unless they are forcing their identities on me, and attack me using it
@@Surai00 You're coming off as more pessimistic than I normally am, and seeing as you don't know me personally so let's just say that's saying something.
This was a very interesting interview Takashii. At first when I watched this interview I felt sad for this man because I thought how could he possibly have a emotional connection but after watching the entire interview I realize that he doesn’t need anyone to feel sad for him because he is happy with the choices he has made and feels very confident in that and all I can do is respect that.
Agreed! I remember first hearing about this guy and thinking it was both hilarious and sad, but now I respect his choices and think it was quite immature of me to write him off so quickly. More people can learn from him and learn to live their life without regards to how people may view them, assuming they aren't causing harm to others
Even though all the hate and mistreating he has been getting I still think it's very interesting and brave to do something like this. He could do all this in secrecy and just enjoy his life in private but openly welcomes everyone to see how he lives his life. I really appriciate you giving us some insight Takashii :)
Being a misogynist isn't brave. I'm glad he's being called out for his behaviour. The man needs serious help. And everyone supporting and cheering him needs to understand that women and girls aren't objects to use however and whenever men please
@@KL-kn4lz I agree that what he is doing is something I would never do, and its absurd in many ways. But if you watch videos about you understand that he is not in need of help, rather this is in a way how he wants to live his life. Nobody can control that except himself. And don't you think that's kind of simple minded thinking what you're saying? that he is using this relationship as a means to "do as he pleases with women" and "objectifying women"? He is clearly doing it because he loves a fictional character, only taking it to the extremes.
@@MyActualThoughts The toy is a replica of a young girl. Shame on you
Dude being open and loud about your mental illness isn't BRAVE...What is wrong with the world? We've just decided that everything is A-Okay, you want to marry a doll? Sure go ahead! No problem here!...This guy needs serious mental help but he's never going to get it when so many people are like "Yass queeen!!!"
@@Subxenox15 Of course not, that's not what I meant... I don't support marriages like this, not something I would ever recommend. What I think is interesting and why I thought he was "brave" was because he does openly announce this kind of marriage, "openly". Never did I say it was okay 😂
This was really wholesome. I’m glad he can smile so genuinely now and have gotten out of that dark place. It was also very cute when you acknowledged Miku and said hi in the beginning and thank you at the end 🥹 You’re a wonderful person Takashi for being so respectful and kind in your interviews! His students were also very sweet!
how this is wholesome ? This is sad and ridiculous
@@masterbowler1630 I mean sorta, but it doesn't affect us and Bros having fun and living his life, and is happy so let the mf do what he wants to do. It's sad that he was pushed to such limits by bullying and stuff that he had to marry a 2d character. I mean it would be much better for his mental health if he found someone that isn't a perfect cutesy version of him dreams to love, but i guess he's happy so...
I'm very happy for you Takashii. Your channel has grown and your interviewing skills have improved greatly. Looking forward to seeing more! Be safe.
Just wanted to say I really appreciated how you greeted Miku-san as well! It probably was a very different kind of interview compared to the ones you usually do but you did great!
In the past, I used to think it was absurd that someone would marry a 2D character, but over the years, following Akihito-san, I realized that It was stupid of me to judge him just for doing what makes him happy, and besides, I understood him even more when I found comfort in other anime characters and how getting attached to characters in a healthy way helps us deal with different problems.
Personally, I no longer find what Akihito-san did weird or absurd, in fact, I even admire him for his courage in following what made him happy, without caring about society's opinion, I admire him a lot and I really see in this interview how good a person he is. I hope, like him, that the next generations will be more accepting of people who live for their hobbies, especially when they are not hurting anyone.
Serious respect to this guy for speaking out. I'm glad he's found some happiness despite how the world has treated him.
I follow this man on Instagram and I absolutely love his collection and photos he takes of Miku. I actually collect Miku merchandise too, I get judged for it sometimes but it makes me happy and honestly it’s no one’s business.
Don't you feel ashamed to collect merchandise of another man's wife?
@@customsongmaker 💀
Hatsume miku 是 卡通人物 是 游戏里
Hatsume miku 真的没有存在的
@@customsongmaker That's a fun comment, and in the video he addressed that really well: _"I married my personal Hatsune Miku. Hatsune Miku's core is her software, and when you install it you have to use a serial number, and there are no repeats of these serial numbers. If you have Hatsune Miku at home, then that's your Hatsune Miku, not mine."_ 5:07
@@Dirk_Strider I changed the serial number on mine so I can bang his wife
Omg how did you find him?! It's amazing that he agreed to let you interview him.
We had a mutual friend that’s how!
@@takashiifromjapan wow the world really is a small place
@@takashiifromjapan my man has connections
It could mean on the contrary according to me that he does not feel any shame so he feels at ease to speak about openly.
If he does feel sort of shame, he may have confidence enough not to hide himself and is able to speak about his struggles.
He could find a solution towards his lonelyness and keep him in the movement of life as his feelings could meet some exchange.
@@Zero-qn8mk his connections go as far as yakuza
This reminds me so much of the film „HER“ starring Joaquin Phoenix. Like how he described talking to her over gatebox, how she helped him through depression and just overall. I immediately associated the interview with the film. Very interesting!
Wow that’s true, I love that film.
But if your wife’s voice is Scarlet Johansson then you wouldn’t complain lol
@@takashiifromjapan Takashii you have good taste 😭😭😭
I love this movie. I own it on bluray and have seen it a few times. This guy's story also reminded me of that movie. It also reminds me a bit of the manga series, Absolute Boyfriend, but in his case, it's Absolute Wife. 😅
This guy took the word Waifu to a whole new level and I'm happy for him.
😂😂😂😂
bro's committed
@@EyeofSilver bro’s committed
@@WilliamHarris2023 bro's committed
@@notevencalm bro’s mirroring
Ladies look out you got competition
Wow, hilarious
B!tches come and go bro,but dolls will stay
@@Theduviya 😂
So do guys with Hatake Kakashi
🤣🤣🤣
I'm just happy that he's chill and passionate enough to be here telling us he's story
I had so many questions about this type of marriage. Some like, how did it work? and considerings its a 2D character that doesn't have a set personality, how do you fall in love? and etc.
This answers it, and it's so fascinating too! I wish him only happiness.
Thank you so much for this video!
When I first read about his story, rather than feeling weird about him marrying I was rather angry at the people who bullied and mistreated him. It was like why? Why would they do such things to another person? What is so great about bullying others? It's fortunate that throughout those horrible experiences, he found something that lit his life and not chooses the easy way out
@SYMX2468 bro go touch some grass lmao
@SYMX2468 Nice, deleting your comments 😂
@SYMX2468 I doubt that bud. I still see racist comments in other threads on this video older than yours and you never said anything that bad to warrant it to be deleted/reported but it did make question your sanity for a bit
@SYMX2468 I'm proud of you bud. Now go to the local hospital and get that checked out. Once you're okay dinner is on me.
"And not chooses the easy way out"
🤓🤓
That's one helluva man, God bless him.
It takes alot of courage to not wallow in self pity and depression. But instead be a responsible, decent, human being. He's already stronger than most people.
I will admit, when I saw the title, I did laugh a little then almost immediately understood and accepted it when he started talking about his past. I'm glad, he seems very happy now!
This interview was one of the best since I started following you on TH-cam Takashii. 🤗 I like how bold the interviewer is, I am not sure if he is just being honne, but his words seams so sincere and he even he kept looking to you during the whole thing, which is rare for Japanese people to do. 🤔 I know for myself how rejection and bullying can hurt and I am glad to see here how this man could find a way to heal from it. Let’s all be kind and helpful to each other peeps!
Regardless of what I think of this kind of marriage, I really like how this guy thinks. The way he feels about people making fun of him is impressive
He seems like such a genuinely sweet, good-natured man. It's sad about the way he's been treated and what he's suffered, to the point where the only place he found hope is in a fictional character. I'm glad he's found acceptance from at least some people in his life 💙
He seems like a really kind guy. How can people be so evil.
People evil? What did they do?
@@wassimhounain7924 idk
I think you are wilfully forgetting that we are glorified chimps, ready to holocaust and or eat eachother when we need to.
@@wassimhounain7924L Ratio for you 😂
It's a pretty sad factor that others will bully people. Sometimes it's a cycle of hatred and they choose sort of their outlet of frustration on an innocent person.
For the people who won't watch the whole video and make fun about this guy. He's fully aware that it's a character, that is not real and that has no feelings.
He's married to her because he needed someone, which he never got, making him look for anything that could help him, and he found it with Miku, a friend that wouldn't say mean things to him, wouldn't judge him nor would leave him.
I personally understand all he says because I don't like the majority of flesh-and-blood people nowadays. It's so hard to find someone who isn't fake. Doing something like this sounds a thousand times better than having to deal with a real relationship (to me).
I have never been hurt; I'm not saying this because of revenge. I'm just saying it because that's how I see things from my experience socializing.
i agree with you, society full of rude and judgmental people it's better to be attached to 2d characters at this point!
You can always find real, genuine and supportive people. It's easy no way in Hell but it's better than to just keep running away from your problems and nurturing your escapism.
A.i waifus won't be better and might be worse. Think Alexa as a wife.
It's like when people are in a bad situation and need help, then they turn to religion, but this guy marry a hologram instead, I don't see any difference.
@@matheuss886 if people are supportive then they will be just fine with this guy's decision and support him, instead of judging him, labeling him, and lecturing him on what his life is supposed to be.
Love this guy! Not hurting anyone by marrying his Hatsune Miku… If that’s what makes him happy then we should be happy for him… ❤
wtf dude Miku was supposed to marry MEEEEEEE! Ah well, there's plenty of Mikus in the sea. Good on him for not caring what people think. he was bullied and somehow was still strong enough to marry a virtual girl, that takes guts to do and stand up for and i dont wanna hear otherwise.
Sidenote: I feel this man. ive not gone a day in roughly 12 years that hasnt been filled with some kind of anxiety or sadness, and Miku unironically has been a small but shining light in my life. its honestly the reason i clicked on the video lol, love my Miku, shes helped me through a lot with her music and games. Kudos to this man, sincerely.
thank you for doing this interview, they seem very nice, i hope to hear more about them and their lifes someday
I noticed...he is one of the happies people I have ever seen in any of your interviews. He seems very self assured now. So, I guess this lifestyle is working for him!
It’s interesting to think about where AI might be going in terms of relationships. Why struggle with the disagreements and misunderstandings of real relationships when you can have an AI who has no needs, and who treats you with kindness?
Agreed, but other women will think otherwise because of their inferiority
@@seelexvelliona5045woman might start using AI the same way.
@@seelexvelliona5045woman might start using AI the same way.
@@yumeko1993 and I don't see a problem with people having relationships with inanimate objects, honestly once they aren't hurting anymore then it's fine for women to have AI hosbandos
As someone who has been helped by the entity that is Miku during my darkest times, I can relate. Maybe not to the point of marriage, but it is what it is.
Glad he found his happiness and people should just shut it and let it go.
Jesus loves you all, He died on the Cross then rose again to save us from sin, He is Lord Please repent and get right with Him before its too late.
If Miku helped you so much, why did she marry another man?
@@customsongmakerif ur mom loved u so much why did she marry another man?
@@riel0144 That was in the past, before I met her
@@riel0144lmao
He can except that marriage
But he can't reject reality
This is true
This was one of the most interesting by far. Makes me more aware of how the world has changed and even so I'm still curious about Japan and its culture. Enlightening
This is sad. The saddest part is that there was no person for him to lean on to the point he found it superficially within a fictional character. There are many ways people could've helped, and reached out to him but none did. What this man needs is genuine love and affection, and it's true for everyone.
Well having no one to lean on is part of being a man. It's something many women cannot relate to. That is the experience of the majority of men. A man has to stand up on his own two feet and achieve something in his life first in order to be noticed by others. That is the life of being a man.
@@sleepyhead6468 As much as I agree with you on that, a proper parent figure and upbringing is necessary to frame such an attitude to a person. And many families sadly lack that
There is a stigma that every lonely man is single because he's a horrible person, but many good people end up alone, so he created his own solution to the best of his ability.
I support him! he is happy with her and its not hurting anyone.
By the end of the vid i felt sad, how much truth is behind his words about those who can't be socially accepted due to their "abnormal" personality, and the only thing they can do is just wait for society to change a little bit so they can be included as normal people. But until that happens, they have to hide behind formal clothes, makeup or stuff so they can fit in :/
This is an amazing interview, thanks lots Takashii san ✨
Akihiko is such a nice guy, we once had a random conversation on Twitter cuz I found and article about him in one of my schoolbooks which wasn’t very accurate and was kind of making fun of him, I posted it online and we had a bit of a conversation. Very nice guy.
We all should give respect to the person who created this character cause he saved someone's life
No.
He DON'T save mine.
He create problems because people now have an addicted.
He must reserve shame and blame
@@Mikichan85lol ur thinking is stupid tf know the story of him and comment on it
@@Mikichan85 Learn the difference between "someone" and "everyone" before you make a fool of yourself.
@@Cybertech134 that's NOT the problem.
This guy ISN'T saved from a stupid robot/hologram...
So, before to offend others, READ
@@Mikichan85 Learn to speak proper English before telling others to read it.
This was such a good interview, and Akihiko Kondo seems like a lovely man! Thank you for making videos that bring attention to issues such as this, it's always very interesting to see the people involved's perspective and you are always really great at responding to them in non-judgemental ways that make them feel comfortable sharing.
Dude is living in 3023.
Very special interview. I sincerely feel sorry for that man. I believe that if he married a hologram it was because of past traumas such as being unfairly bullied at work and constantly being rejected by women. However he deserves respect like all human beings but the greatest wish I can give him is to open his eyes and meet a real person to love. Thanks for sharing this video! 🙂✌️
80% of people don't marry their dream guy/girl, they settle! This of course is accompanied by some trauma!!! do you feel sad for all of them?
In modern world (both men &women are labor force),if women still expecting all men to be the sole provider financially for families,then she must be disrespected as well
Unless she married to rich guy and both parties are happy with the role they played
Same
The amount of times people ask me “have you got a boyfriend yet?” as if love is the only way to be truly happy. I get enough judgement just because I want to stay single forever, let alone the pity and judgement this guy must get for following what he knows will make him happy. Honestly I’m proud of this guy for following his heart, so many people fear being judged and settle for relationships just because being alone would be “embarrassing”. And I’m sure many people have secret imaginary relationships but this guy really got married to Miku openly, in public as if to say “I don’t care about being judged, I’m doing what I know will bring me happiness and nobody’s judgement or pity will stop me” like good for him
@@calsdraws6096 Hi there I am single too, would you like to chat sometime?! seriously
Seems Miku accepts Kondo-san for who he is without judgement. Who would not want that? He's not hurting anyone, let's celebrate his happiness!
She cannot accept him, she is a doll, objects do not have feelings, it's his fantasy. It's sad seeing a human being looking for affection from an object.
@@angelesvarella1461 Its more sad that he only had the chatbot to be there for him. If it gives him happiness and doesn't affect you, then what is wrong with it?
@@spiritchi24 I wish he could be really happy and find a good human being to give him love and real interaction, That's all.
@@angelesvarella1461
Well it looks like actual humans failed him.
I think people need to do better, not him.
@@SoySauce9 I know, although we can find a lot of horrible human beings, still have some that it worth to meet. We just need to have our eyes open. Hope one day he will find a real love.
She is just Resting their MENACINGLY 👁️👄👁️
It's sad that bullying happens at work, and not just at school. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP FINDING ENTERTAINMENT IN HURTING OTHER PEOPLE 😡
The intense mental pressure from his workplace must have messed up his mind.
Look how happy he telling his story ❤️
The amount of supportive comments here is revealing - this guy was given a raw deal in the real dating world, but he found a way out of it by sheer creativity and courage. I wish him lots of happiness with Miku.
This was just so wholesome. Happy for him.
Takashiii- I watch your interviews all of the time. I really appreciated how you were so kind and thoughtful of this interviewee. You have given me additional perspective that I didn't have before- which I think is your intent :) I wish your interviewee all of the luck and joy the world has to offer! Thank you Takashii!
I feel as if this was the right choice for him. It doesn't appear like he truly had someone to love who loved him back no matter what. Now..he does. It may come off as weird,a little sad & unusual, but he's happy ...so,I'm happy for him.
Jesus loves you all, He died on the Cross then rose again to save us from sin, He is Lord Please repent and get right with Him before its too late.
Who does he truly have to love him back?
while i feel for this man whole heartedly and his struggles with mental health. This is by no means a resolution or healthy response to the trauma that he’s dealing with. he deserves love and to get the help he needs but i’m surprised by everyone’s reactions reaction to this being so positive.
So many people are hurting in this world, even some of those people hurt others. Everyone cannot be helped, but this man decided to do this to help himself. I think that is why people are reacting positively to this. There's no point getting upset about it.
What a man deserves has little if anything to do with what a man gets, and the mental health industry barely even exists in Japan, so it's either this or a lifetime of rejection.
When I see this gentleman with his wife, I simply see that.
Life is strange and it will only continue to be as strange as it is understandable.
I'm glad that he's happy and that despite the hard times life has put him through, he has come out as a kind, courteous and ultimately loving man.
Really - what more does one need from a generally good person?
Thank you for conducting this interview and thanks to Kondo-san for being open about his love. :)
I don't understand why no one relates this to the anime/ manga Chiobits. It seems a bit the same. If he is happy living this way them I'm happy for them. He still has a somewhat of a normal life. Socializing, working, and enjoying his family. I am just sad that he won't have his own children to pass down his DNA. He seems like a wonderful person.
You do know that many folks, including myself, have pet animals that are substitutes for human relationships. That is to say, we love and care for our pets, we talk to them, we cherish them, etc., etc. Perhaps you can see the connection...
Someone said it! I was reminded of that as well
@@leochen887 obviously
Do you really think that this man could care about his descendants?
@Oscar Peña absolutely....but he also has other conflicting feelings. Maybe he will be able to adopt....but I doubt they would let him adopt in Japan.
This is just unbelievable but amazing at the same time 😯✨
This is tragic
Damn I want to get in this guys head on how to marry an anime character. Sounds interesting AF.
Look up Fictosexuality! It's quite interesting
This is insanely sad and everyone in these comments is enabling delusion
Love these interviews Takashii! Thanks for providing us with such interesting and insightul interviews!
he seems pretty happy, that's better than a 'normal' person that's depressed and ends up committing suicide
the way he lights up when he talks about her is adorable
People laugh at him for being weird marrying a hologram, but no one think about real people are so untrustworthy to him to a point that he refuse to marry a real person. It is pretty sad
Akihiko-san is so relatable, throughout my life the only ones who actually were by my side are my favorite fictional characters, most people were so mean to me and I went through horrible things.
Now have been with my fictional boyfriend for years, I wish I could officially marry him like how Akihiko-san did with miku, but unfortunately, I'm crushed under the reality that most humans are gross and horrible, they probably won't let me live in peace if I do such a thing.
Nowadays I like spending most of my time alone, for I accepted the fact that real humans can't be befriended, I learned how to interact with them if I needed something but that's as far as it goes, I don't want any sort of relationship with them.
Akihiko-san, my intuition tells me you are a kind person, maybe if we had different circumstances and we were both in Japan, we might have become friends?
Regardless, I think you are do brave, me and Satoshi (my fictional boyfriend) wish you happiness from the button of our hearts.
I don’t know what else to say other than I agree whole heartedly and know exactly what you two are feeling. I feel like there are a lot more of us out there, but we’re such shut-ins (for very good reason) that it’s hard to tell. Personally, if I could marry a fictional character it would be L Lawliet. He and my stuffed animals have been with me through it all, it’s hard to put into words the impact they’ve had on my life and the invaluable comfort they’ve given me in this horrible world. Wishing you and Satoshi well. 🖤✌️
Jesus loves you all,He died on the Cross then rose again to save us from sin, He is Lord, Please repent and get right with Him before its too late.
@@sonic-t8j Oh thank goodness, I very much would prefer going to hell. Also, TheraminTrees. ✌️
What a great guy! I support him, and his love!
He seems like such a sweet guy, it doesn't matter that he is living a little differently than most people, we all have our own things that make us happy, and our own things that help us cope, so as long as they aren't hurting anyone then we shouldn't bully or tear anyone down for this kind of thing. Especially given that a lot of the time real people being cruel is what may have caused them to become attached to something fictional or something that is different to the norm, that goes for most of these kinds of things. People are just too judgemental, if someone is a kind person and likes something that isn't hurting anyone then leave them be and let them be happy.
a 40 year old person married a fictional character when she was 10 and always says "your soo cute" to a feelingless doll
One of the most beautiful couples I've ever seen. 💗
When he said that his heart doesn't feel that heart fluttering feeling after seeing a beautiful woman, I feel like I am too becoming numb towards those kind of feelings, hope so this guy stays happy for the rest of his life, he is so polite and confident
Hatsune is a top tier waifu. Respect
still 16
@@notpsychopath and? do you not live in the country where a 55 year old black man can identify himself as a 16 year old female asian lesbian and the democrats tell society that it’s socially acceptable?
Adult miku extra top tier popopopipo
Honestly, this is pretty sad to watch. He seems like a kind, well-spoken man, so I don't know what led him astray to marry an imaginary girlfriend. Still, I'm glad you showed him kindness. We sure need more of that in this world.
@4:00 He said he never dated a human woman because he was rejected every single time. That is so heartbreaking.
I just worry that he will continue to actively dismiss people who show him kindness because of his commitment to an imaginary character. Would he "divorce" Miku for a real woman?
@@Amins88 Of course he would. But things like this don't happen in real life. talking from experience here
No we don't need this he is just trying to escape his depression.we don't even know if he really got bullied we are allowing too much of things these days I don't want this shit in my country
@@wassimhounain7924 I’d rather see people marrying anime characters to “escape their depression” than enacting mass violence, which is commonplace in the US.
As much as I morally disagree, it's good to know he found a non-destructive means of finding happiness
this guy is from the future as he chose a partner that does not have an expiry date. forever young and beautiful.
Stereotypes : WTF did this guy did. True Weebs : Marrying a waifu is always better than marrying a wrong woman.
as long as you don't want kids, it is 100% better
Honestly he's happy, his mental health improved and he found love. He's doing better than a lot of people. He's not hurting anyone. Glad to see he's doing well
He's a steady income source for the government while other, more fortunate people receive an abundance of the love and attention he always wanted.
@@theforgot3n1 you okay?
Take your meds bro
I think his mental health is going to take a serious hit the longer this goes on.
This is the second time I've heard of someone marrying an anime character irl. The previous one I heard about was back in 2009 when that one guy married their Nintendo DS. To each their own.
Bullying someone into loneliness and making them feel like there is nothing on their side but fiction. Truly a tragedy.
The thing that catches my attention the most though, is that as loneliness grows within the Japanese population, so does the idol market, and stuff of the sort. It's all about trying to fill a void without having to go through the "trouble" of making real human connections: idols or 2D characters won't disagree with you, abandon you, hurt you.
Such a behavior can be explained by how isolated people can be, I understand that much and I am not judgemental of individuals who go through that kind of pain, and the consequences of such solitude.
Why did he have to marry a character who is 16 years old though? Weird, but that's a whole different issue.
But anyway, the problem at hand, to me, is that this society abuses the ones perceived as "different" or "weak", and then there's this whole fantasy of 'unconditional love' within money's reach. They sell comfort, the idea that you can go without human affection.
I'm just rambling now, but I can't help but find this phenomenon very fascinating, especially in the notorious case of Japan.
Years ago I heard about this man in our local news and it was too strange that it stick in my mind for years. After becoming an adult, I realised his point. I plan to follow his footsteps 😅
good on you!
so based, bro is living my dream
life is on expert difficulty these days and there's no payoff
i can't imagine loving someone in this generation, it's all just so disgusting..
Just say you get zero girls
@@m66kan not the point, little man try to get a functional relationship then talk
@@Kuusuna Not a man, so nice try. Anyways, that doesn't change the fact that you get ZERO girls!
@@m66kanas a female, shut up
This guy brought simping to a whole new level
Man I'm telling u 😒😂🤣
I think he feel tired w real people, so just meet another creature that can make him feel peace. ✌✌
Atleast he’s coping with his trauma in pain in a way that is not harming others. So many people easily become abusers and hurt other people
I am glad he’s found something to help him cope. There is no right or wrong way to cope with trauma. As long as what you’re doing is not actively harming yourself or someone else
He is sick. Need help. Help him Japan!
He just needs to return to the path of endless rejection. That's what will make him happier.
As Long as Hes Happy I dont See a Problem
I feel like you can genuinely see how much he cares about this 2D character. It’s honestly better than becoming an incel or something like that. It seems healthier too.
Whatever he has going on is working for him and truly makes him happy. The relationship he’s built is real to him and honestly he has my respect.
Nothing but love for him and his wife
As long as you are happy my man and you dont hurt others people feelings, nothing is wrong with that. You might be different but being different is not bad or something, its just the people around us who made us change for our own view with the world. Keep on living and enjoy your life!
Looking at new technologies like chat GPT, We are not far away from this being common. He’s just ahead of his time!
Hopefully, no.
So this is the goofy shit people find so captivating instead of working to rid the evil chaotic deafening plague that is microsuction
Takashii is the Japanese Andrew Callahan from Channel 5.
Extremely interesting channel keep it up man ❤ Greetings from someone that's never been to Japan