@@tv-21 nah because if someone kept commenting that n anything I buy or spend my money on 24/7 I’d respond the same. The rude b**** is the friend who’s constantly judging op
Seriously! This OP is quite entitled. If she likes her less then do not be her friend. 🤨 Quite a stupid story. These people need some sort of validation.
No what’s stupid is the people that think it’s okay to constantly judge and call out people just because they’re more fortunate than you. And the fact that the person your trash talking is someone your close to is even more messed. Was op a little yeah but were they wrong no if you wanna constantly judge or talk bad about someone your close too then yeah be prepared for the consequences.
Some people try to look past certain flaws, things eventually do spill over. People aren’t perfect but disliking someone because they constantly judge you for a service that you can afford is 10000x weirder
I understand it from both sides. I agree w if you can afford it and dont want to pay for it ok. If the friend thinks it's overpriced, I get that. The pushing of "it's so overpriced," again and again and not getting the hint and keep pressing it is annoying, but to say you're poor is rude and entitled.
How is that entitlement? Do you know what that means? She’s not entitled for pointing out the friend is poor when she’s constantly judging her. The friend was in OP’s finances first
@@niyaakbar1098I don’t think the other person was trying to come off like that. Both sides are reasonable. I wouldn’t pay for that but others might disagree. I like to save money 😁
For a students in school and working? A laundry program sounds awesome! If you can afford it, I bet having someone doing that task for you just helps take a load off so you can focus on school & work. She’s probably just jealous lol.
Yeah and when you have someone close to you constantly judging every single time they see you who wouldn’t be upset. It’s just a human thing to do it doesn’t make op entitled or selfish . It makes them human
Yeah self what OP don’t see not everyone have the money I see both sides still how OP saying it not seeing other person view on money I know & understand what is like not having much money because got think not every family comes with money or not work like students some not all that’s my opinion
surprised how many people are mad at OP. yes, what they said to the friend is uncalled for, op probly wanted to shut the friend up but worded it poorly which imo...not everyone is quick witted to come up with sth sassy but not rude/condescending. but the friend honestly asked for it by kept provoking OP with the same thing over n over. op should've just said that she can afford it and want to be in it so the friend can shut up and just stay out of the program if she has different opinion, rather than bringing up abt status, but well...one way or the other, the way to deal with it might end up hurtful anyway since nowadays people feel the need to have the last word and that they're the right one so it most likely won't end well either way. and the friend in a way was also putting down people who use the program, if yall catch that. so they're not much different from each other, maybe a good match even. lol.
Yes OP is spoiled but also, she’s kind of right. The friend is judging her for doing something that takes one thing off of her plate during uni. She can afford it so why wouldn’t she do it? I would. It’s unhinged of the friend to continuously comment on it. After the first time saying she wouldn’t then she should’ve dropped it altogether. She’s obviously jealous and hates that she’s broke when her friend isn’t. Calling someone poor can be a huge problem if they are because it’s basically rubbing their unprivileged upbringing in their face - something they had no control over. So both are right and both are wrong.
Rude, yes, wrong, no. It's not fair for your friend to keep bringing it up that its stupid and too expensive. However, you handled it in a rude way. If you were kind about it instead of coming at this from a self-righteous angle, then you probably would've been just fine. It's reasonable to have these conversations, but you might try telling her something like, "hey, it really bothers me that you complain about the service so much. I really like the service because it makes my life easier and helps me out. I get that it isn't your preference. And to each their own. But i would really like for you to stop bringing it up with me because it is really bothering me." This doesnt insult her, it just asks her to stop doing something that doesnt work for you both. I.e. stop hating on something you like. Calling her poor, even if it is true and i kind of doubt that she is really actually poor, is just a tacktless insult. It drives a wedge between you and gives neither of you anything productive to build on. Go apologize to her. Tell her you were in the wrong for insulting her. And explain your perspective, nicely. Ask her to help you out by not bringing up the laundry service. Go make peace. This is part of growing up.
« why should I do something I don’t like when I can pay someone else to do it for me ? » BECAUSE LIFE ! BECAUSE SAVING MONEY ! You think everyone likes doing chores, cooking, WORKING ?! No ! But when it comes to saving money, you do it. Sure it seems like you waste time, but when you can afford it, be glad that you can instead of considering paying services is normal. The friend seems like much more aware of the price of life than OP is.
By telling her she is poor like that it shows to her that you see her as below you but I understand that you said it out of frustration. She might feel like you are keeping her around to feel better sbout yourself while in reality you were trying to be her friend. She ruined it for herself with those comments. She need to bare with it because the world doesn't accomodate winy people.
For what? For telling the facts ? It’s op’s money , she can do whatever with it. If someone brings up the topic repeatedly even after I said stop, I would lash out like Op did. So ntg wrong with op !
Really depends on how much the laundry service is if the laundry services an extra 500 to 800 dollars a semester I'd probably go for it but if it's over a thousand nope
I understand both sides … but instead of feeding into it and calling out someones economic status wouldn’t it be much more productive to just ask them to stop pressing the issue. The way it was handled comes across a bit entitled.
To me it doesn’t when you have someone constantly judging everything about you is horrible. And when it’s someone you considered a friend it hurts even worse because friends are the ones that’s supposed to stick by you and be on your side. Not constantly judging and nit pick at any and everything you do.
You didn't need call her poor. But she dose not need have this werid obsession with this . Honestly both of you need a reality check , you can afford that great many people cant. She cant afford it great she needs move on do her own laundry.
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Oh shut up 🙄 what an unnecessary story to even think about. Deal with it
Op is a rude bee-ach
@@tv-21 op only brought it up because her roommate is annoying.
@@tv-21 nah because if someone kept commenting that n anything I buy or spend my money on 24/7 I’d respond the same. The rude b**** is the friend who’s constantly judging op
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@@tv-21how are they rude when the friend was always being judgey? I’m sure she’ll learn to stfu when it’s not her money being spent
Seriously! This OP is quite entitled. If she likes her less then do not be her friend. 🤨 Quite a stupid story. These people need some sort of validation.
No what’s stupid is the people that think it’s okay to constantly judge and call out people just because they’re more fortunate than you. And the fact that the person your trash talking is someone your close to is even more messed. Was op a little yeah but were they wrong no if you wanna constantly judge or talk bad about someone your close too then yeah be prepared for the consequences.
Entitled for what? 😂
Some people try to look past certain flaws, things eventually do spill over. People aren’t perfect but disliking someone because they constantly judge you for a service that you can afford is 10000x weirder
I understand it from both sides. I agree w if you can afford it and dont want to pay for it ok. If the friend thinks it's overpriced, I get that.
The pushing of "it's so overpriced," again and again and not getting the hint and keep pressing it is annoying, but to say you're poor is rude and entitled.
How is that entitlement? Do you know what that means? She’s not entitled for pointing out the friend is poor when she’s constantly judging her. The friend was in OP’s finances first
@@niyaakbar1098I don’t think the other person was trying to come off like that. Both sides are reasonable. I wouldn’t pay for that but others might disagree. I like to save money 😁
Agreed. She got what she was constantly giving and couldn’t handle it when she got it back 🤷
Has op at least tried to tell the friend to shut up about the laundry? If so it’s understandable
For a students in school and working? A laundry program sounds awesome! If you can afford it, I bet having someone doing that task for you just helps take a load off so you can focus on school & work. She’s probably just jealous lol.
She definitely sounds jealous lol
Just because she annoys you doesn’t mean you have to insult her. (She took it as an insult)
Yeah and when you have someone close to you constantly judging every single time they see you who wouldn’t be upset. It’s just a human thing to do it doesn’t make op entitled or selfish
. It makes them human
I wish I did not have to do laundry. I was fortunate enough to avoid doing it till I was 18 or 19! Sounds like ops friend is jealous 😂
I don’t see any issue. Sometimes the truth hurts
Yeah self what OP don’t see not everyone have the money I see both sides still how OP saying it not seeing other person view on money I know & understand what is like not having much money because got think not every family comes with money or not work like students some not all that’s my opinion
Finally people with a brain has entered this comment section. Thank you both 🙏
I mean, she doesn’t need to keep bringing up something so silly, however, you can’t control how other people act, you can control how you respond. I
Not everyone has that kind of self restraint. Should we yeah but is everyone capable of it no
It obviously took OP a while to respond like this. They didn’t call her poor the first time
surprised how many people are mad at OP. yes, what they said to the friend is uncalled for, op probly wanted to shut the friend up but worded it poorly which imo...not everyone is quick witted to come up with sth sassy but not rude/condescending. but the friend honestly asked for it by kept provoking OP with the same thing over n over. op should've just said that she can afford it and want to be in it so the friend can shut up and just stay out of the program if she has different opinion, rather than bringing up abt status, but well...one way or the other, the way to deal with it might end up hurtful anyway since nowadays people feel the need to have the last word and that they're the right one so it most likely won't end well either way. and the friend in a way was also putting down people who use the program, if yall catch that. so they're not much different from each other, maybe a good match even. lol.
Yes OP is spoiled but also, she’s kind of right. The friend is judging her for doing something that takes one thing off of her plate during uni. She can afford it so why wouldn’t she do it? I would.
It’s unhinged of the friend to continuously comment on it. After the first time saying she wouldn’t then she should’ve dropped it altogether. She’s obviously jealous and hates that she’s broke when her friend isn’t.
Calling someone poor can be a huge problem if they are because it’s basically rubbing their unprivileged upbringing in their face - something they had no control over. So both are right and both are wrong.
No, but maybe she should see if she could work at the Laundry. so she can get it to.
Rude, yes, wrong, no. It's not fair for your friend to keep bringing it up that its stupid and too expensive. However, you handled it in a rude way.
If you were kind about it instead of coming at this from a self-righteous angle, then you probably would've been just fine.
It's reasonable to have these conversations, but you might try telling her something like, "hey, it really bothers me that you complain about the service so much. I really like the service because it makes my life easier and helps me out. I get that it isn't your preference. And to each their own. But i would really like for you to stop bringing it up with me because it is really bothering me."
This doesnt insult her, it just asks her to stop doing something that doesnt work for you both. I.e. stop hating on something you like.
Calling her poor, even if it is true and i kind of doubt that she is really actually poor, is just a tacktless insult.
It drives a wedge between you and gives neither of you anything productive to build on.
Go apologize to her. Tell her you were in the wrong for insulting her. And explain your perspective, nicely. Ask her to help you out by not bringing up the laundry service. Go make peace. This is part of growing up.
« why should I do something I don’t like when I can pay someone else to do it for me ? » BECAUSE LIFE ! BECAUSE SAVING MONEY !
You think everyone likes doing chores, cooking, WORKING ?! No ! But when it comes to saving money, you do it. Sure it seems like you waste time, but when you can afford it, be glad that you can instead of considering paying services is normal.
The friend seems like much more aware of the price of life than OP is.
She’s not your friend if she acts that way. Drop her
By telling her she is poor like that it shows to her that you see her as below you but I understand that you said it out of frustration. She might feel like you are keeping her around to feel better sbout yourself while in reality you were trying to be her friend. She ruined it for herself with those comments.
She need to bare with it because the world doesn't accomodate winy people.
Thats the difference between so.eone using daddys money and someone using a student loan
You didn't go out of your way to call her poor, it was a response to her constantly trying to shame you for something that isn't her concern so NTA
How rude is the OP!
How rude is op’s so called friend
For what? For telling the facts ? It’s op’s money , she can do whatever with it. If someone brings up the topic repeatedly even after I said stop, I would lash out like Op did. So ntg wrong with op !
Really depends on how much the laundry service is if the laundry services an extra 500 to 800 dollars a semester I'd probably go for it but if it's over a thousand nope
U could have called her a miser instead of poor. Poor is rude!
That girl must be very lonely to still be friends wirh you after such a searing comment.
Most likely she is poor as well her parent's have money.😂
I just read this one yesterday
I understand both sides … but instead of feeding into it and calling out someones economic status wouldn’t it be much more productive to just ask them to stop pressing the issue. The way it was handled comes across a bit entitled.
To me it doesn’t when you have someone constantly judging everything about you is horrible. And when it’s someone you considered a friend it hurts even worse because friends are the ones that’s supposed to stick by you and be on your side. Not constantly judging and nit pick at any and everything you do.
You didn't need call her poor. But she dose not need have this werid obsession with this . Honestly both of you need a reality check , you can afford that great many people cant. She cant afford it great she needs move on do her own laundry.
No you are not. She is being hateful she is a red flag
yall are both annoying omg how can you even claim to be friends
Lol rich entitled yt girl i bet lol
She is annoying, avoid her
Just shat up, bee-ach! So unnecessary. No need to be rude about it.
@@tv-21 you know commenting on someones wealth and how they choose to spend said wealth is rude right.
Yes, her friend is very rude and needs to shut up
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@@Nevertoleave I think they were talking about the OP