I Paid For Grindr Xtra For A Month. Was It Worth It?

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  • @kikiland6485
    @kikiland6485 7 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    I don't live in US. I don't use Grindr. I'm not gay. I'm not male. But I still watched this video. :)

  • @jadonce2126
    @jadonce2126 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    If you focus on his glasses his hands turn green

    • @filmyhit9731
      @filmyhit9731 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jadoncé hello

    • @CrunchySounds
      @CrunchySounds 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jadoncé underrated comment 😂😂

    • @NA-xp2cr
      @NA-xp2cr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ?

  • @HYPERxSONICxFANx2012
    @HYPERxSONICxFANx2012 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Most of the stuff on Grindr Xtra should be free

  • @CreativeC13
    @CreativeC13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    It always weirds me out when Buzzfeed people get their own channel, and they are like, actual humans. I honestly love Chris's personality and smile. Keep up the good work Chris!

  • @DementisVenustas
    @DementisVenustas 7 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    It’s such bullshit that they make you PAY for notifications. Come on Grindr, if every other app in the world of apps can give you notifications from the jump, so can you. 🙄 What a money sink.

    • @mochixplants
      @mochixplants 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      but the free grindr had notifications like 11 months ago when i had it last. Did they take them away?

    • @roberthardy5171
      @roberthardy5171 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      free grindr has never had notifications

    • @bobbob5029
      @bobbob5029 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It used to have a free trial of Extra for a month for new accounts. I think they got rid of it when people started abusing it .

    • @mochixplants
      @mochixplants 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      hmmm maybe it was an Australian thing cause i know all my friends at the time also had free notifications and we still had the option to purchase Xtra to see more guys and the extra filters etc. This was right after they updated the UI to the same as Xtra and not that old orange themed UI the free version had i'm pretty sure. Also wasn't a new account.

  • @MallRattBabyFat
    @MallRattBabyFat 7 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I've never used Grindr in my life, and honestly... to be honest... I'm super intimidated by it lol

    • @ChrisLam
      @ChrisLam  7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Matthew Castillo don't do it. Save yourselffff

    • @organicdinosaur5259
      @organicdinosaur5259 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The first message I got was a pic of a guy's ass o_o

    • @MallRattBabyFat
      @MallRattBabyFat 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah.. lovely.

    • @sagearbor3697
      @sagearbor3697 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Matthew Castillo trust me, grindr can only raise your confidence level hahah

    • @chrischoy9
      @chrischoy9 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OrganicDinosaur I got a pic of a guy's bumhole... no hi no nothing.

  • @vivusloh
    @vivusloh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I refuse to pay for Grindr just for notification

  • @easy2335
    @easy2335 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I'm sitting here like "why am I watching this, I'm a straight girl" 😂
    But I just love you too much. You're amazing, your videos never fail to cheer me up ♥️

    • @ChrisLam
      @ChrisLam  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      easy2335 please keep watching!! Haha

    • @CreativeC13
      @CreativeC13 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      same here :)

    • @sy_fy
      @sy_fy 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same. Lol you’re just super entertaining

  • @johndavid4007
    @johndavid4007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Grindr is always updating to its newest version, but has anyone else noticed this? I paid or one month too, and then decided to top - but even after I stopped paying, I still kept getting the notifications. I don't know if that's because the newer version includes them (for free), or there was a bug in the system that allowed that feature to carry over even after you'd cancelled your subscription. Anyway, the notifications are one of the best parts definitely.

  • @neptune11ful
    @neptune11ful 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    i don’t use grindr but i appreciate this solid review

  • @HelloMyNamelsBanana
    @HelloMyNamelsBanana 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Those glasses are so cute XD

  • @gerardoacevedo5603
    @gerardoacevedo5603 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Grindr is too expensive for the jerk guys you'll end up talking to. At least here in Houston

    • @puritychalice
      @puritychalice 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Boston too.

    • @mafiaplayer1000
      @mafiaplayer1000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gerardo Acevedo same in new jersey!!

    • @j.mtz.3492
      @j.mtz.3492 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Especially here in LA nothing but bullshit ass guys

    • @adrianbass5560
      @adrianbass5560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      the guy of my dreams dropped a lot of hints one night... I messaged him on Grindr after we got along so well, he deleted me!! JERK MUCH?

  • @shanesadventures6044
    @shanesadventures6044 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I was so shook when he said he wouldn’t meet up with someone who’s 10 miles away... like LA problems😂😭
    That’d be amazing for me

  • @ahhhlvin
    @ahhhlvin 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That analogy with the airplane table was so on point

    • @ChrisLam
      @ChrisLam  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alvin Kuang Thanks! I'm trying haha.

  • @xchi6581
    @xchi6581 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You didn't mention that read receipts! That's honestly what made me get it because know I know if I'm being left on read so I know if the guy is interested

  • @Muhreeoh
    @Muhreeoh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love your new glasses lol

    • @ChrisLam
      @ChrisLam  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mario Pizarro they are non prescription lol. But thanks!!

  • @Nicoratboy
    @Nicoratboy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think the big thing about dating is driving/knowing how to drive and I don't know how to do

  • @peri3094
    @peri3094 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your Kawinji poster ❤️
    ...and Korrasami.
    And Lapis. Good taste

  • @vashappeninjas
    @vashappeninjas 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve always adored u!! so glad you did your own channel and I found it :)

  • @elinakhaneeva458
    @elinakhaneeva458 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Are these new glasses, Chris? They look so cute! :)

  • @TheZakana
    @TheZakana 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice review! I hated when Grindr time away notifications for free accounts. That was dumb.

  • @gamalierperez-torres5908
    @gamalierperez-torres5908 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your grindr stories !!!! I thought I was the only one having wierd experiences on grindr, but looks like we all go through the same shit 😅

  • @jacobsutherland2481
    @jacobsutherland2481 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love those glasses! I'm gonna try grindr (again), but I feel like it will be equally as daunting in college as it was in illinois.

    • @ChrisLam
      @ChrisLam  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it will be. who knows tho it'll prob be better than LA

    • @jacobsutherland2481
      @jacobsutherland2481 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welp, it's just as scary here in san diego.

  • @rens835
    @rens835 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Notifications is an Xtra feature?? I got notifications for like a day and never again after that, but I never paid anything.

  • @portugalgamermanel3404
    @portugalgamermanel3404 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So sorry for your experience. I didn't find any good man in the app either recently. I prefer keep with old good f buddies and contacts, even it won't go anywhere :) gay life is not it 😂

  • @UhDUUUHlol
    @UhDUUUHlol 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    good lord dude, get coated lenses on those glasses, the reflections are killing me XD

  • @saintescapism
    @saintescapism 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "10 miles away is too far" *cries*

  • @gabrielortiz2849
    @gabrielortiz2849 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow...this video has a lot of comments! His first video I see and so just based on this video...yes I appreciate the glasses in a "retro" sort of way, but appreciated more his looks in the insert he did with the shotout and wearing no glasses. Most of all I appreciated the honesty and openness and thought maybe people were going to throw shade but he got good comments... although I do agree with someone who said something about his 10 mile rule. I used to live in Houston and the airport was 25 miles away, and I flew often, so that was my limit, which I thought for L.A. it would have to be a "minimum"....lol!

  • @acenull0
    @acenull0 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lmaoo paying for Grindr doesn’t make the MEN better. So true my god

  • @Scorpiotide
    @Scorpiotide 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my. Boy the glasses are cute but you look actually very good without glasses!

  • @hyewonderfull
    @hyewonderfull 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was useful tbh! Thank you! 😍😍

  • @hecpr2001
    @hecpr2001 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely agree with your Grindr review!

  • @kingizengar
    @kingizengar 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Oddly enough I actually met my husband using extra 😂😂😂

    • @ChrisLam
      @ChrisLam  7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Gadriel Izengar anomaly.

    • @kingizengar
      @kingizengar 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yea. I've been told i a "One in a Zillion" case lmao. Not sure if there's a zillion men how like men but yea.

    • @bradendrake7913
      @bradendrake7913 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I met my husband on adam4adam. Bahahahaha

    • @ayorkii
      @ayorkii 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why would it be odd? It’s a place for men who like men to meet men.

  • @WayneOfLife
    @WayneOfLife 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would love to see you stream games on twitch. Let me know when you're streaming :)

  • @gabrielbernal2660
    @gabrielbernal2660 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    At the risk of sounding generic and what not, I find you adorable. This video is all kinds of yes. As Grindr stories go, if I were back home (in LA), I would want to message you if I saw you, but too damn shy to do that haha. By the way, are you a Virgo (asking as a Virgo)? Anyways I enjoyed this clip and will watching others. Cheers or whatever is hip to say these days. ;)

  • @cedricksamaniego9146
    @cedricksamaniego9146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Grindr is great for traveling and you should never expect love to fall into place because it will happen in it's own time.
    Just 2 hookups in that month but you live in LA🤔

  • @RenlinkMorales
    @RenlinkMorales 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey i love your videos

  • @ScottOhl
    @ScottOhl 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Chris, I want to thank you for your advice, I just downloaded life360

  • @TheUnBelieber
    @TheUnBelieber 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    late comment but i love your glasses!

  • @selwinscottsdejesus5951
    @selwinscottsdejesus5951 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where did you get your eyeglasses?

  • @alexandras484
    @alexandras484 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Drinking game: Take a shot every time he says "men"

  • @auriejohnson968
    @auriejohnson968 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    At 1:59 do you mean you get notifications outside the app?! That's bs that you'd have to pay for that.

    • @ChrisLam
      @ChrisLam  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      that's exactly what I'm saying

  • @millenniumfantasy6503
    @millenniumfantasy6503 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel you sis! Though when I'm on Grindr I sometimes get lucky and sweep the yard. But even then most guys you talk to will end up being flakes! It's all worth a midnight snacc though.

  • @trevsinc96
    @trevsinc96 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    most relevant video I've seen maybe ever

  • @nestorcaicedojr.3376
    @nestorcaicedojr.3376 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The true struggle in finding satisfaction is either they live far and catfish profiles..🙄🙄

  • @marvinsmith1204
    @marvinsmith1204 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What kind of glasses are those

  • @ichriscarlson
    @ichriscarlson 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is even more annoying is that notifications is free in some countries like the UK but in the US you have to paid

  • @aolbeto
    @aolbeto 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A Grindr membership is the last thing i would pay for, more about the same shit. If you don't have something good to offer there you're just wasting your time, and no, neither do love nor honesty count as good.

  • @occams
    @occams 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what's chris's twitch url??

    • @ChrisLam
      @ChrisLam  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      diana cavendish onewingedwannabe!

  • @kiteckful
    @kiteckful 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    are u wearing lenses on this video?

  • @rodimousa9503
    @rodimousa9503 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    How i can cancel XTRA on Grinder please?

  • @rickmora1977
    @rickmora1977 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    mate i hate to tell ya this the APP is more for hooking up rather than dating!!!! You probably wild have more chances of meeting potential partners by going out to bars \ house parties. Perhaps initiate conversaton.... all the best:)

    • @ChrisLam
      @ChrisLam  7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ah. So you're one of the people I mentioned in my previous video about Grindr messages translated. The type that feel compelled to teach me about Grindr like I'm that stupid.

    • @rickmora1977
      @rickmora1977 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mate not at all.. you're not stupid... we simply need to explore all avenues to meet our potential partner. But we seem to all have the same experiences with Grindr.... we all need to get out there and mingle more:) I'm sure we're all bound to find the one in the right time:)

    • @mjm3091
      @mjm3091 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rick M lol you missed what he said so much.

  • @kingizengar
    @kingizengar 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    What's your streaming name for twitch? So I can follow you.

    • @ChrisLam
      @ChrisLam  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gadriel Izengar onewingedwannabe. Thanks!!

  • @escupetube
    @escupetube 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just entered the 7 days free trial and I am curious about it

  • @jjcline3295
    @jjcline3295 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg i kept tilting my screen because of the glare on your glasses

  • @manuelmontalvo1311
    @manuelmontalvo1311 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got decline??? My card is showing unavailable it does that all the time??? Jaja

  • @alistaircooke1156
    @alistaircooke1156 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The only guys I meet on Grindr are guys passing near town. I near a major freeway.

  • @Taric25
    @Taric25 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait, wait, two people in the entire month in LA? Holy, shit, it must suck to be him.

  • @johndaloser
    @johndaloser 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice legend of Korra Wallpaper.

  • @joshuasanchez140
    @joshuasanchez140 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    good job!

  • @archerlangfield8189
    @archerlangfield8189 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    So I still can't understand how they make us pay to search tops or bottoms...like wtf

  • @LucasFernandez-fk8se
    @LucasFernandez-fk8se 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are u that guy from buzzfeed?

  • @diavalmoon
    @diavalmoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What age r u looking for

  • @heinuchung8680
    @heinuchung8680 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Grindr is a popular sex site mostly . People are there to hook up . I would put more time into dating and less time into hook ups. Dating is more time consuming

  • @bobbob5029
    @bobbob5029 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They need to implement read receipts. As it's nearly impossible to see if they have seen it and are not interested or haven't seen it at all. More people had ideas here www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/6pvvum/how_would_you_redesign_grindr/

    • @ChrisLam
      @ChrisLam  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      agreed but they will make it paid for too tho

  • @jasmensmith4432
    @jasmensmith4432 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    10 miles is too far? Do you have a car

  • @KaiDecadence
    @KaiDecadence 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's pretty sucky lol I was considering giving it a try but if that's all it does than it so isn't worth it. And you're totally right, the features should be there from the get-go for a standard experience. If they wanted to make money from it, they should've instead, done something like limited amount of photos you can upload or something like that. I dunno, I just think it's shitty how they paywall basic features lol

  • @kevinrock500
    @kevinrock500 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Dadddy

  • @firespawn0006
    @firespawn0006 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Xtra is only good when u traveling. Then i would recommend getting it

  • @roberthardy5171
    @roberthardy5171 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    so cute ur sex life should be super active

  • @tierraconyers3309
    @tierraconyers3309 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chris! You changed you TH-cam name!

  • @DDHop
    @DDHop 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    why do he keep saying that he had to pay to get notification ........I have notification and I'm not paying

  • @rohitnikalje9007
    @rohitnikalje9007 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I meet 10 guys in a month without use grindr extra

  • @kalenfay9819
    @kalenfay9819 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    the Legend of Korra Background tho

  • @WolframRaies
    @WolframRaies 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Look at the camera, not the mini screen.

  • @masifali4020
    @masifali4020 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    im so glad u dont have to pay for grindr notifications any more xD

  • @jaderodrigues9381
    @jaderodrigues9381 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wtf? I get notifications on the free version??

  • @oakpkdude
    @oakpkdude 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is your age range?

    • @ChrisLam
      @ChrisLam  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      22-32.

    • @aslscott78
      @aslscott78 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      oakpkdude he wants tops

  • @chillndylan15
    @chillndylan15 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get notifications?? And i have Grindr for free??

  • @dealofnight2027
    @dealofnight2027 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    oh yeah.. you never really think about the other end, if they have they also paid for it or not

  • @SkyChaserCom
    @SkyChaserCom 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not worth it, the only good thing is ability to refine searches and more guys show up on the grid. The racism and bigotry on there was apalling so I left it (I like Asians and see no one likes them based on their profiles, but WHEN I messaged Asians I was ignored / blocked)! There's just too many fakes, weirdos, and hypocrites on there.

  • @larrylandmin9826
    @larrylandmin9826 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    KORRA AND ASAMI YASSSSS

  • @siranfo7229
    @siranfo7229 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love korra and asami in the back!

  • @immortalkdude8721
    @immortalkdude8721 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I did grindr i slept with many whites, middle Eastern, mix raced

  • @venomouscat6593
    @venomouscat6593 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think Grindr is an awesome idea but it isn't for me,it would only make my anxiety worse more than ever.

  • @gregoryv000
    @gregoryv000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think you could also stand up against grindr and the hook up culture or simply use your life and time for a better purpose, let's say... like be a role model for young gays!? or just anything but promoting this shit
    gays complain about grindr and their shit sex life but don't do anything against it.
    ( and no i don't mean working out everyday 3 times in the gym to impove your sex life)

  • @randombowlofoatmeal1523
    @randombowlofoatmeal1523 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    dang I wish I could date Chris lol

    • @oenrob98000
      @oenrob98000 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sor why couldn't you?

    • @aslscott78
      @aslscott78 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      aeiou he’s a sissy bottom

  • @sophiayamagughi
    @sophiayamagughi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought grindr was a gay sex app? Not really dating-

  • @essence174
    @essence174 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    My coworker saw our boss, who is married, on grinder!! Awkward!!

  • @martinrees6364
    @martinrees6364 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just want out

  • @Nanananaheyhey1
    @Nanananaheyhey1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol, I don't use grindr anymore and I'm honestly having more sex because of it. Also you're cute af without glasses

  • @CHRISTIANHUGO1
    @CHRISTIANHUGO1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    2 people in a month?????? i know some people that meet 2 people in an hour lol

    • @yoeldp4710
      @yoeldp4710 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There's a lot racial preferences on Grindr

  • @valeriesanchez3074
    @valeriesanchez3074 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I used it to buy some weed lol

  • @wyattu22
    @wyattu22 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's so attractive... I don't understand how someone like him doesn't get dates on the reg... it makes me sad he has to resort to grindr to get something ... even though I do the same lol

    • @MetteMeers
      @MetteMeers 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wyatt Underwood he kind of isn't...

  • @yourmajesty8913
    @yourmajesty8913 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Over 10 miles is too much? I have to travel to the country nextdoor to find decent D 😂

  • @manuelmontalvo1311
    @manuelmontalvo1311 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just use it because I'm transfopbic I like the trans women there so

  • @spreadlove8624
    @spreadlove8624 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If you're an Asian it's best if you do crossdressing. Asian men are not as popular among western gay community. I used to have my profile as a boy and I don't get many responses. Since I started crossdressing I couldn't keep up with the amount of people messaging me. It would be worth it if you're into that. If you're not then you shouldn't. If you're looking for love then you'll have to think about how they'll react to you without makeup. You would make an exotic women with makeup and a wig. You have nice thick lips 😋😋😂😂💖💖

    • @edwink1467
      @edwink1467 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jacinda Lacroix Why try to be someone you are not tho? Just so you can get with “western men?” I mean if you are really into cross dressing, then good for you. But don’t try to change yourself to please others.

    • @spreadlove8624
      @spreadlove8624 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      johnnyXXX I love crossdressing. I just never had the courage to. Now I have the excuse and the courage to do so, which is perfect. And I agree, you should never be who you are not. That's what I said in my initial comment. Only do it if you're into it. Also I don't just look for western men. I like all men but depends on the person.

    • @tazerraze8697
      @tazerraze8697 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're not lying . You're sexy as hell. Asian men be looking cute crossdressed.

  • @danuelfrancisfetizanan1793
    @danuelfrancisfetizanan1793 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't concentrate with the video all I saw was Korra ans Asami

  • @bygnahzdivad
    @bygnahzdivad 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    n = Number of guys that Chris has access to on Grindr
    As n -> infinity, Chris's realization -> guys on Grindr are trash
    ROOOOOOOOFLLLLLLLLLL

    • @edwink1467
      @edwink1467 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      David Zhang The joke isn’t funny, but the fact that you are an asian talking about math makes this comment pure gold. Lol

  • @ChanceBerryman
    @ChanceBerryman 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would have paid for a better haircut and a gym membership if I was you no shade

    • @calebj8134
      @calebj8134 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fuck you asshole! Get your ugly azz out of here and leave him alone