A In it’s simplest form the game of spades is won by winning a series of rounds “books”. The most “powerful” cards in the deck are the spades ♠️. He was basically saying just because you weren’t given all the benefits of say being born into a rich family or being given opportunities others were given doesn’t mean you can’t find a way to find a way to succeed. Just because you didn’t get a deck full of spades doesn’t mean you can’t beat the opposition. Because you were poor doesn’t mean you can’t become rich. Because it rained yesterday doesn’t mean it can’t be sunny tomorrow. Hopefully that helped lol 😂
Witnessing Kev have several “aahHa” moments was special. Stevon was patient, a great listener, funny, friendly and informative! Watched this twice live already :)
It is so funny Kevin fired his previous therapist about 4 times during this conversation. Sorry to that therapist. She should have had sports and black references.
Big facts...she is outa there. He got some keys 🔑 to his own prisons in this therapy session...ahem...’call’ and I look forward for seeing him uplevel even more. Therapy and coaching are so healing...
Phenomenal episode! When the therapist said “at least give yourself credit for being crafty enough to hide that you don’t have the skills” I was like well I’ll be! He’s saying give credit where credit is due...regardless. So uplifting, I needed.
When @stevonlewismft came to SD and was breaking this down to the youth, I was in the room listening and contemplating my own life like, "Stay out of my head! You don't know me while you're up here knowing me!" This is good stuff!
This was GREAT!!! And Stevon is blinding me with truth and his smile. Lol SN: I wanna see Kev do a 'worst case scenario' type of movie. It would be hilarious because so many of us think this way.
I hope y'all have him come back. He was such an interesting guest! I never realized how much imposter syndrome has affected my life decisions. Thank y'all!
Omg I’m a therapist getting my clinical hours and I wrestle with this 🥺 imposter syndrome is real and I’m confident in many things but when my inner bully roses it is very difficult to overcome
I am thoroughly enjoying this episode!! I find it interesting how one of Kevin's love languages is words of affirmation however he does not like to take compliments or appreciation from his friends (45:05)
sonriendo33 could be BECAUSE he suffers from imposter syndrome that he has a hard time with that? It would make sense. He needs those words of affirmation to confirm how his loved ones feel, but he’s afraid of not living up to it
That👏🏾Was👏🏾In👏🏾Cred👏🏾Ibleeeeee !!! Wowww, I needed all 95 minutes and 37 seconds of this episode!!! Excellent! Thank you Melissa, Kev, & Stevon... cracking open the laptop now to work on my creative project BELIEVING I’m a creative & not an imposter!!! ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
I have been following this podcast from the very beginning. Every episode has been so impactful. But this one hit very differently. This as been the best love hour episode to date. Thank you for this amazing platform.
This was absolutely great. Stevon was a great guest choice. The part that got me was, the message we say to ourselves the brain believes. Whew!! You had me running around the church with that.🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️ We hold ourselves back with how we speak to ourselves. I would never speak to anyone else the way I sometimes speak to myself. I think I need to ponder the things I have learned over a glass of wine 🍷 thank you!!!!
I was today years old when I found out that I have impostor syndrome! I've ALWAYS HAD THIS FEELING! I thought it was just me. I know this episode was supposed to be for men only but I got my ear to the door. I needed this! Thanks Kev and Steve. BRING HIM BACK!
I missed the first 5 minutes because I came to the live late. Can’t wait to watch the part I missed and rewatch the rest. Best episode ever Melissa. Great guest.
That possibility and probability reframe and that your brain does not know the difference when you're "playing small" was ALL I needed to hear today! And I had to clap at Kev's Skills Share transition. Nice job sirs!!
Wow! Stevon is amazing. So great to see a black male therapist that is down to earth and can connect with people. Kev’s current therapist... as good is she is... sorry to that woman, because Kev is now completely sold on Stevon!
first of all HE DON'T KNOW MY LIFE!!!! Sir!!!! I ain't even finished with the video yet and he is TOTALLY snatching my edges and getting me and my life in order. Give me all my edges back SIR!!! (Sucks teeth) keep talking man
@@stevonlewis7913 I saw the look on your face. Po Thang. Lol i kept thinking, i wonder if kev and liss tell the guests how they just integrate the ads. Cuz you were steady still nodding your head like you were into it. 🤣
I was laughing and doing good, then he hit that reminder at the end “ If you are the room, THEN you are in the room FOR A REASON.” I’m like 😭😭😭. Whew! Thank you KevOnStage.
Man! This got me thinking about my own impostor syndrome and times I've stopped myself from doing some things. Thank you, Kev, for being so open for your fans.
This pod was all in my business. I discovered that I suffer, hard, from imposter syndrome. Everything he said it home like crazy, too bad my therapist is on maternity leave, ughhh
Wow! Just wow! Thank you both for this. I learned the term “imposter syndrome” about two months ago. From there I watched every video I could find on the subject. Nothing and I mean nothing has come close to this video. Kev, you and your lovely wife are literally changing lives.
I subscribed just off the relatability and info of this vid. Then realized i need to check out the other content due to the fact that this is Mrskevonstage and not big head kev. Powerful msg i needed to hear this.
Excellent Show Fellas! Truly Proud of the content and discussion in this episode. As a Black Male Therapist Stevon you did and amazing job. Kev I truly admire your vulnerability and honesty in the episode and yes its time to release your former therapist and hire Stevon. Much love fellas!
This video made more of an impact that Kev or Melissa may ever know. This quarantine has caused me to lose a lot and I was really spiraling. Watching this encouraged me to seek out therapy and I can say it has been a huge help. Things are still rough, but I just wanted to say thank you for this video!! This information was priceless
This was THE BEST conversation thing that I’ve heard anywhere in a LONG time!!! It was so rich and hilarious all at the same time. This WHOLE episode was a highlight. Great content and good job Liss with the setup 👌🏾😉
Wow! I accomplish goals, and then I'm already in planning mode for the next goal to accomplish. Great reminder to just slow down and celebrate the blessings and victories! ✊
I pay for the Patreon, but I usually only watch on TH-cam. I don't pay to watch, I pay because I appreciate the clean content and I want KevOnStage studios to be successful. Most of your patrons probably feel the same way.
“The hand you were dealt may not be full of spades but that don’t mean you can’t win books” 🔥🔥🔥🔥 get him back for another episode
I spit hot fire! In my Dylon voice
YES!!!!!
RonL 314 anyone care to explain? ☺️ I want to get the FULL RICHNESS of everything he is saying - dayum
A In it’s simplest form the game of spades is won by winning a series of rounds “books”. The most “powerful” cards in the deck are the spades ♠️. He was basically saying just because you weren’t given all the benefits of say being born into a rich family or being given opportunities others were given doesn’t mean you can’t find a way to find a way to succeed. Just because you didn’t get a deck full of spades doesn’t mean you can’t beat the opposition. Because you were poor doesn’t mean you can’t become rich. Because it rained yesterday doesn’t mean it can’t be sunny tomorrow. Hopefully that helped lol 😂
Witnessing Kev have several “aahHa” moments was special. Stevon was patient, a great listener, funny, friendly and informative! Watched this twice live already :)
Back for a rewatch. It's so nice
Got my whole life snatched up in an hour and 35 minutes... I’ve played myself for 20 years🤦🏾♀️
It is so funny Kevin fired his previous therapist about 4 times during this conversation. Sorry to that therapist. She should have had sports and black references.
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Shayla 😂😂
🔥 1:01:01Kev’s old therapist got fired on her day off. 🔥
Reggie Lee LOL!!! Did tho’!
Facts!!!! 🤣🤣
Yea 🤣 starting at min 36 sealled at 1:01:01
🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Kev’s therapist- sorry to that woman.
💀💀💀
I just want to take a moment to express appreciation for Stevon's beard. 😍
Kevin’s therapist got two more sessions with him to prove that she can bring these nuggets like Stevon did 😂😂
LMAO
Yessss... he is good!!! So many GEMS!!
Big facts...she is outa there. He got some keys 🔑 to his own prisons in this therapy session...ahem...’call’ and I look forward for seeing him uplevel even more. Therapy and coaching are so healing...
I know this says “For Men Only” but um...this lady here...my goodness! I NEEDED THIS!!! My goodness! ❤️❤️❤️
Udoro Gatewood me too! This was so helpful!
Same!
Rewatch gang AND Still sooooooo good
When Kev hit him with that Skill Share ad, he wasn’t ready the blank stare had me on the ground 😂🤣😂🤣
I must say that was a smooth transition.
Eboniece Bright and it’s so awkward 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Eboniece Bright Kev & Melissa are masters of transitioning from content to commercial ads
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I so thought the same! 😂
Phenomenal episode! When the therapist said “at least give yourself credit for being crafty enough to hide that you don’t have the skills” I was like well I’ll be! He’s saying give credit where credit is due...regardless. So uplifting, I needed.
That part!!!!!!!
Liss set you all the way up. Love her!
This was soooooo good! Can you put Do and Tahir with the doctor next!!!???
SingPray Luv this would be 🔥🥇🥊
Great idea
When @stevonlewismft came to SD and was breaking this down to the youth, I was in the room listening and contemplating my own life like, "Stay out of my head! You don't know me while you're up here knowing me!" This is good stuff!
My Dude! At the HADE event?!
@@stevonlewis7913 Indeed! May heve to book you for some telesessions soon.
KevOnStage + StevOnTherapy = Me getting my ENTIRE LIFE! 😂😂😂😭😭😭
Thank you so much for recommending this to Kev! Seeing a black therapist in action is rare and exciting at the same time! This really helped me!
This was GREAT!!! And Stevon is blinding me with truth and his smile. Lol
SN: I wanna see Kev do a 'worst case scenario' type of movie. It would be hilarious because so many of us think this way.
herFLYness79 great idea
Yes!! Great movie idea!
I watched it in patreon and this needs to be added in at least once every other month or so. Our brothers need more talk like this!❤❤❤👊🏾
Felicia Starks I totally agree. More men need to hear this
I hope y'all have him come back. He was such an interesting guest! I never realized how much imposter syndrome has affected my life decisions. Thank y'all!
Omg I’m a therapist getting my clinical hours and I wrestle with this 🥺 imposter syndrome is real and I’m confident in many things but when my inner bully roses it is very difficult to overcome
Jennifer D you can do it girl!!! 👑👑
You got this Cuzzin!
Kyle Brandon thank you love you
I am thoroughly enjoying this episode!! I find it interesting how one of Kevin's love languages is words of affirmation however he does not like to take compliments or appreciation from his friends (45:05)
Awweesome observation !!💕💞💕
sonriendo33 could be BECAUSE he suffers from imposter syndrome that he has a hard time with that? It would make sense. He needs those words of affirmation to confirm how his loved ones feel, but he’s afraid of not living up to it
Or is it false humility?!? 🤷🏽♀️
That's good
Kev’s old therapist has 24 hours to respond 😂
I know this isn't for women, but I am listening... Don't @ me. LOL 💜
Tiffany Thompson Me too. Lol, and loving it.
Same sis & enjoying every second
I'm loving it too. Seeing men in a vulnerable state is really refreshing. And I'm learning alot as well.
Tiffany Thompson I glad to see the sisters are tuned in to this. Men just want to be heard & the things we go through
That👏🏾Was👏🏾In👏🏾Cred👏🏾Ibleeeeee !!! Wowww, I needed all 95 minutes and 37 seconds of this episode!!! Excellent! Thank you Melissa, Kev, & Stevon... cracking open the laptop now to work on my creative project BELIEVING I’m a creative & not an imposter!!! ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
My man got really nice teeth
Smile is on mega watt!
B20by20 DAp dental goals
and a great beard
I’m a woman but still enjoyed & related to this on a really deep level
tinaamariee😘 that’s good to hear. Sometimes I wish our sisters would be more concerned about the things we go through as black men
The iPhone analogy took me out. Jaw dropped
I have been following this podcast from the very beginning. Every episode has been so impactful. But this one hit very differently. This as been the best love hour episode to date. Thank you for this amazing platform.
This was absolutely great. Stevon was a great guest choice. The part that got me was, the message we say to ourselves the brain believes. Whew!! You had me running around the church with that.🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️ We hold ourselves back with how we speak to ourselves. I would never speak to anyone else the way I sometimes speak to myself. I think I need to ponder the things I have learned over a glass of wine
🍷 thank you!!!!
Stevon’s smile is like SUNSHINE, and this episode was awesome!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
He's speaking into my entire life....and he has an AMAZING smile!!! This is disrespectful!
We, as humans, are negative bias. We instinctively look for what’s wrong, in an attempt to fix or for shear curiosity. This is a great conversation.
Ty Green for sure. I need this
This episode is AMAZING!!! I hope you are able to have Stevon back for more episodes!!
I was today years old when I found out that I have impostor syndrome! I've ALWAYS HAD THIS FEELING! I thought it was just me. I know this episode was supposed to be for men only but I got my ear to the door. I needed this! Thanks Kev and Steve. BRING HIM BACK!
😭😭😭
I missed the first 5 minutes because I came to the live late. Can’t wait to watch the part I missed and rewatch the rest. Best episode ever Melissa. Great guest.
He has a beautiful smile.
Never heard of imposter syndrome until I earned my Dr and opened a business...whew chile!
Experiencing this now fresh out of grad school 😩😩 Lord help Lolll
Sooo Lis setup a live therapy session for Kev 😂😂😂. This was great❤️
I'M SOOO HYPE FOR THIS EPISODE!! Stevon got my whole life together on the livestream!
That possibility and probability reframe and that your brain does not know the difference when you're "playing small" was ALL I needed to hear today!
And I had to clap at Kev's Skills Share transition. Nice job sirs!!
At 1:00 this man is amazing!!!!!!!!!! I'm a woman and my husband will be looking at this!
Wow! Stevon is amazing. So great to see a black male therapist that is down to earth and can connect with people. Kev’s current therapist... as good is she is... sorry to that woman, because Kev is now completely sold on Stevon!
Kev just asking “for a friend” 😩😂😂😂💛
Let's not skip over the fact that those Ad Transitions were FIRE!
This is so beautiful two black men talking about mental health and healing
I just got dragged for the past hour and a half and I loved every second !! One of my favorite Love Hour episodes even though I missed Liss
I think you found your brother in spirit! Great chemistry between you two!
😶 left my mouth on the night stand to listen to this attentively im all👂🏾👀👂🏾
Thank you Melissa for being MAGICAL and setting your husband up for greatness!! I have learned so much!!!!! This has totally BLESSED me!!!
Maaaaan, this was good! And Kev’s high pitch “Oh hooo yeeeeeah!” Trips me out EVERY TIME!
You know good and well we women listened to this KEV! We are noisy, and we want more information for our relationship goals. :)
Kevin we women are just good at Jedi mind tricking. Melissa set you up in the best way. This was a great episode.
This was so good in the live that I'm here to watch it AGAIN ❤️
Stevon gathered us all the way together! 🥵😫
Every time Kev go to an aid, I want to say HE WASN'T READY! Poor Steve
Shut up and keep on talkin!!!!! This was a goooooood episode! Stevon came for my whole life!!!
I cannot express how much this topic needed to be covered in MY life! I feel seen (and a little exposed) but am super appreciative!
Omg I have this! I have officially diagnosed myself 😭
😫😫😫😫. I'm sorry! LOL
This was the most helpful love hour ever tho! Thanks!
Necessity is the mother of all inventions and all creativity! PERIOD!
first of all HE DON'T KNOW MY LIFE!!!! Sir!!!! I ain't even finished with the video yet and he is TOTALLY snatching my edges and getting me and my life in order.
Give me all my edges back SIR!!! (Sucks teeth) keep talking man
Lyrq * girl I was like excuse me sir who allowed you in my brain
H-I-L-A-R-I-O-U-S!
The for 'men only' should definitely be removed as this is for EVERYBODY! Got me in my feelings on a Friday :)
This is hands down in my top 5 LH. This was amazing!!!
Kev is elite with transitioning into ads
Those first couple, Steveon wasnt ready... I dont think it sunk in lol
Yeah I didn't know WTF was going on LMAO!
@@stevonlewis7913 I saw the look on your face. Po Thang. Lol i kept thinking, i wonder if kev and liss tell the guests how they just integrate the ads. Cuz you were steady still nodding your head like you were into it. 🤣
I wish it was safe for us all to "feel naked". We could free ourselves of the battles in our minds💚
I was laughing and doing good, then he hit that reminder at the end “ If you are the room, THEN you are in the room FOR A REASON.” I’m like 😭😭😭. Whew! Thank you KevOnStage.
Literally the “disease of more!” It’s never gonna be enough. Thanks to J.Cole🤴🏾
Man! This got me thinking about my own impostor syndrome and times I've stopped myself from doing some things. Thank you, Kev, for being so open for your fans.
I love Kev & Melissa. You all are really out here with us, helping us! I wanna bust out and cry and smile at the same time! Good food!
Spiritledpoetess this podcast has helped my marriage in so many ways
This guy is an incredible listener!
This pod was all in my business. I discovered that I suffer, hard, from imposter syndrome. Everything he said it home like crazy, too bad my therapist is on maternity leave, ughhh
Kev, Thanks for letting us watch your personal therapy session 💜😁
Awesome!!! Bring Stevon back for another topic.
I'm loving Kevin's excitement
When Kevin starts hiding behind his hands and shrinking you've hit a nerve.
A @Kevonstage quarterly man talk (update) is super necessary for the culture. Huge fan of @LoveHour bi-weekly content, keep it comin 🗝
Wow! Just wow! Thank you both for this. I learned the term “imposter syndrome” about two months ago. From there I watched every video I could find on the subject. Nothing and I mean nothing has come close to this video. Kev, you and your lovely wife are literally changing lives.
This is the best episode! Watched it on the live and watched it again today. Please have him back!
I subscribed just off the relatability and info of this vid. Then realized i need to check out the other content due to the fact that this is Mrskevonstage and not big head kev. Powerful msg i needed to hear this.
Fantastic episode! Stevon was all in the personals in the live. Sooo good!
This episode is an instant classic to be played daily.
Excellent Show Fellas! Truly Proud of the content and discussion in this episode. As a Black Male Therapist Stevon you did and amazing job. Kev I truly admire your vulnerability and honesty in the episode and yes its time to release your former therapist and hire Stevon. Much love fellas!
That was a tough whooping we just saw Kev take! Lol
Stevon was speaking undisputed facts every time!
Maaaaaaaan he is so good looking to me! 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Omg his smile, his skin, his mind! Whew😍ok I ain’t saying nothing else. ❤️
This was really good Liss. Worth watching twice!!
Should be required education.
This video made more of an impact that Kev or Melissa may ever know. This quarantine has caused me to lose a lot and I was really spiraling. Watching this encouraged me to seek out therapy and I can say it has been a huge help. Things are still rough, but I just wanted to say thank you for this video!! This information was priceless
Great wrap-up, Kev! We have the ability to empower our friends and kids with this knowledge! Thank you, Stevon!
This was THE BEST conversation thing that I’ve heard anywhere in a LONG time!!! It was so rich and hilarious all at the same time. This WHOLE episode was a highlight. Great content and good job Liss with the setup 👌🏾😉
Even though this episode was probably for men I’ve learned a lot. This was a great episode; very filling! Thanks Liss and Kev!
Paris Capri this episode was right on time for me!
Wow! I accomplish goals, and then I'm already in planning mode for the next goal to accomplish. Great reminder to just slow down and celebrate the blessings and victories! ✊
Greetings family, hoping everyone is well. Sooooooo this is a real thing; woe. I’m listening hard! 💆🏾♀️
Great episode Kevin, here is an idea teach people how to do interviews
I pay for the Patreon, but I usually only watch on TH-cam. I don't pay to watch, I pay because I appreciate the clean content and I want KevOnStage studios to be successful. Most of your patrons probably feel the same way.
Jess Newton I need to support them. They are my favorite podcasters
This episode is an adulting must! Life skills👏
Hey boos hey I’m so ready to watch this episode again ❤️❤️❤️
1:13:07 Stevon was FULLY unprepared for how dramatic Kevin is. I love it.
Thank you for letting us sit in on your therapy session.
This right here is life changing 🙌🏾✊🏾
Empress Ezra it is! Definitely helped me out
I would love to see more episodes with Stephon. He touched on a few things for me.
This spoke to me on so many levels💪🏾 great episode♥️
This was so good! ❤️❤️ Gave a lot insight on my husband thoughts and mine.
The connection/enlightenment for you sir (Kev) was refreshing to witness. 🙏🏾