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Partner left. How to deal with the void? || Acharya Prashant, at DTU (2023)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.พ. 2023
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    Video Information: 23.12.22, DTU, Delhi
    Context:
    ~ What is the right way to deal with the void?
    ~ How to not be hurt?
    ~ What to do when loved ones leave?
    ~ How to overcome a heartbreak?
    ~ How to move on in life?
    ~ How to not be lonely?
    ~ What is the right thing to do?
    ~ Why do we get attracted to the same person?
    ~ What happened to your high school sweetheart?
    ~ How to not be attached?
    Music Credits: Milind Date
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    #acharyaprashant #heartbreak #void #loneliness

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  • @AcharyaPrashant
    @AcharyaPrashant  ปีที่แล้ว +14

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  • @abheekbansal9744
    @abheekbansal9744 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I liked the way the person asked the question. He was fumbling but still managed to ask what he wanted to without the fear of being judged by others or the urgency of the situation. He took his own time and I learned something from him today.

    • @niharikaagr78
      @niharikaagr78 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes and that was because he really wants to get out of it now, he doesn't want to play a victim anymore, he wants to move ahead and he had trust that this person could be the best to give the right advice

  • @sonalibhattacharya1558
    @sonalibhattacharya1558 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    We get attracted to the one with the same level of conciousness as ours. Raise your game to outgrow the one you desire. If there is something you want to stick to, stick to the truth or a greater purpose in life.

    • @achilles_3139
      @achilles_3139 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nobody,tells how to raise the level of your consciousness.

    • @vamshiakena
      @vamshiakena ปีที่แล้ว

      @@achilles_3139 he said many times, may be you don't understood!!

    • @NitinYadav-bs2sw
      @NitinYadav-bs2sw ปีที่แล้ว

      @@achilles_3139 gain more and more knowledge by reading good books, travelling

    • @achilles_3139
      @achilles_3139 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vamshiakena what he said though?

    • @meltherecafe2394
      @meltherecafe2394 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said. Sukta.

  • @joyetahazra2864
    @joyetahazra2864 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    The purpose of life is elevation of consciousness.

  • @gurushanthaiahms2121
    @gurushanthaiahms2121 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    We don't get attracted to everyone .We get attracted to similar level consciousness.
    To forget someone who left you,elevate your consciousness ,then s/he no longer haunts you through memory.
    Example: We don't get attracted to Hollywood actress we don't even feel jealous Bec we know inside that they are above our range.
    Similarly we don't get jealous of people who are below our range.
    Hence increase the level of your game then that person is no longer troublesome to you!!!

    • @kartik-tc6xw
      @kartik-tc6xw ปีที่แล้ว

      How do we increase that though ?

    • @gurushanthaiahms2121
      @gurushanthaiahms2121 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Elevating your consciousness means : work upon your faultlines,workupon your goal,don't have any free time.
      Free time is where you are getting knocked out .Be extremely occupied with your aim.Along with that daily listen to acharya ji .Slowly you will heal yourself .
      Follow wim Hof method if you want it has healing effect on body and mind.

    • @mrsjaneeyree7148
      @mrsjaneeyree7148 ปีที่แล้ว

      What are the some examples of we dont get jealous of people below our range like hollywood actress and miss world in above our range?

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Growing out of your partner might be a sign of maturity and it also might be a sign of compassion.
    Often in the name of love we just impose ourselves on someone who was unfortunate enough to once say yes to us.

  • @joyetahazra2864
    @joyetahazra2864 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Best advice ever!!!
    Literally eye opening... blessed to have you AP 🙏

  • @joyetahazra2864
    @joyetahazra2864 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Gratitude Guruji ❤️🙏

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Sometimes I feel so overwhelmed and grateful that I have an access of this level of wisdom. I am grateful for this grace....🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
    And I feel pity on who doesn't understand this.

    • @NitinYadav-bs2sw
      @NitinYadav-bs2sw ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha same. They don't even want to understand

    • @achilles_3139
      @achilles_3139 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey can you please tell how we actually elevate consciousness?

    • @abhigyan3476
      @abhigyan3476 ปีที่แล้ว

      But how do we elevate consciousness?

    • @nehaatwal1462
      @nehaatwal1462 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@achilles_3139 Reading Good books, scriptures, by working upon yourself, not indulge yourself in people, acts that decline your conscious level.

    • @achilles_3139
      @achilles_3139 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nehaatwal1462 basically removing unwanted parts of yours,right ?
      Thanks for helping.

  • @shubhamkundu9969
    @shubhamkundu9969 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One of the best listening sessions for teenagers and youth who are having same problem of sticking with memories related to break up or being incapable of wiping out someone from memory.
    Indeed helpful .
    Gratitude Achariya ji.

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This man is sharing this great wisdom to the youth. People will not get benefit from it, rather than they will start fighting on whether the word Acharya is appropriate for him or not.
    I find it a bit ridiculous sometimes. I didn't even care that he uses acharya in his videos, when I found his videos. I felt sad that why I was so late to find him. That's it.

  • @jayantchouhan9981
    @jayantchouhan9981 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    We often feel a void and suffering when we break up our relationship with someone, time passes and if you are still lingering on that person only shows that you haven't grown as a person, it may be for a reason that you two guys broke up, in order to grow to pursue your self interests,remembering the past and dwelling on it shows that you are still on the same consciousness level that you were prior.

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    If you really have love for someone, you make the sky available to them, you let them fly free. Is that not an expression of love?
    ❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The ones you like at one level of maturity in life are just not the ones you will like at another level of maturity in life and that's an auspicious sign. That simply means that you are outgrowing the world.

  • @daraiusdubash
    @daraiusdubash ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You get attracted to someone who is almost at the same level of consciousness as you are. We all have a particular mental range. The one you feel attracted towards has to lie towards that range.
    If that fellow is far below your station, you will not feel attracted. If that fellow is far above that station, you will not feel attracted.
    If someone is far superior to you, you don't even feel envious. Do you see this?
    As long as that person is within your range of acceptability, you will keep cultivating the hope that one day you will have that person for yourself.
    I'm not talking of pulling the other person down, I'm talking of putting the other one up.
    The one's you like at one level of maturity in life are just not the ones you will like in another level of maturity in life. And that's an auspicious sign. That simply means that you are outgrowing the world.
    Often in the name of love, we just impose ourselves on someone who was unfortunate enough to say yes to us.
    If you really have love for someone, you make the sky available for them.
    If you have to stick, stick to greatness, stick to the Truth, stick to a wonderful purpose. Don't stick to a mere girl. Set her free.

  • @neversettledown5171
    @neversettledown5171 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow...Just Crystal Clear.Very lucky to have Acharyaji.

  • @krapeshgawle
    @krapeshgawle ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you sir for bringing this deep knowledge of Vedant to our lives so we can get solutions to our problems 🙏

  • @anilsahu3725
    @anilsahu3725 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Gratitude Master ✨🙌🙏

  • @paraprem
    @paraprem ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gratitude Acharya ji🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😇

  • @Anurodh_80
    @Anurodh_80 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Acharya ji you are a saviour 🙇🏻‍♂️🙏🏻

  • @kunalroy232
    @kunalroy232 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Acharya ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 you are magical . Can't hear anything about love having such innocent expression from anybody in this world except you .. We are indebted to you and your Love Sir 🙏🙏

  • @Vivechyanityam01
    @Vivechyanityam01 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are making it easier for the younger brothers and sisters...lovely sir🙏🏻

  • @saurav_advait
    @saurav_advait ปีที่แล้ว +13

    🔆You don't get attracted to everyone. You get attracted to someone who is almost at the same level of consciousness as you are.
    🔆Often in the name of love, we just impose ourselves on someone who was unfortunate enough to once say 'yes' to us.
    🔆If you really have love for someone, you make the sky available to them, you let them fly free. Is that not the expression of love? Or is clinginess an expression of love?
    🔆If you have to stick, stick to greatness, stick to truth, stick to a wonderful purpose.

    • @abhigyan3476
      @abhigyan3476 ปีที่แล้ว

      But How do we increase it ?

  • @AbhishekKumar-nd4tp
    @AbhishekKumar-nd4tp ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mai pahale avharya ji ko hindi me sunta tha but ab mujhe apna spoken english improve krna h interview ke liye isliye ab mai acharya ji ko english me sunta hun😊

  • @komalmourya5260
    @komalmourya5260 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou so much sir for this wonderful and great knowledge 🙏🏻
    Thankyou so much for showing us the right direction and taking us to enlightenment ❤

  • @rupaliart4185
    @rupaliart4185 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Purpose of life should be achieve something great and doing your own responsibility in a perfect way, not by running after love. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you, thank you so much sir for this wonderful wisdom you delivered to us...
    And I apologize if ever I have shown this kind of foolishness to anybody.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
    Gratitude ❤️

  • @sedhakiran8790
    @sedhakiran8790 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙏🏻🙏🏻 bht bht pranaam acharya ji

  • @suvoranjanbanerjee4808
    @suvoranjanbanerjee4808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video totally changed my perspective in this.
    Shwetabh bhaai ne sahi kaha tha, you're truly amazing sir..❤️🙏

  • @SikhaSingh98
    @SikhaSingh98 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks sir 😌

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    11:35, leave her alone, she has a life to live....

  • @NitinYadav-bs2sw
    @NitinYadav-bs2sw ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you acharya ji❤️

  • @vijaytagupta1353
    @vijaytagupta1353 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As always hitting the bull's eye. Thanku so much aacharya ji...

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    10:30, The one who appears attractive to you today, why do you take it as a mandate to be with him even 10 years later.
    What is the need to be so sticky to each other. Or are you welded?

  • @divinejudgement17
    @divinejudgement17 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10:30-10:40 bcz its love sir ....

  • @RichaChauhandreams
    @RichaChauhandreams ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow , another brilliant explanation to the mundane problems of the world 🙏❤️

  • @priyasingh31
    @priyasingh31 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Never seen such a scientific explanation nd very damn truth sir❤

  • @asr1736
    @asr1736 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice. Thank you Acharya ji 🙏

  • @divyadsahney8498
    @divyadsahney8498 ปีที่แล้ว

    Acharya Sir you are simply amazing 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @soniaarora2851
    @soniaarora2851 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Start doing Gurbani it fills all void

  • @gurushanthaiahms2121
    @gurushanthaiahms2121 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waav!

  • @salonishukla6180
    @salonishukla6180 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ☺👌👌Thanks for this awesome lesson sir

    • @sourabh3584
      @sourabh3584 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hey I've seen you somewhere!

  • @VedantRajdeep
    @VedantRajdeep ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The more you realize the fact of your slavery, the more you'll fight for your freedom.
    ~ AP Ji

  • @varindersingh6860
    @varindersingh6860 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stick to truth..👏👌

  • @ayushsharma5640
    @ayushsharma5640 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Acharya ji

  • @thedebapriyakar
    @thedebapriyakar ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Quick comment, it hurts to see AP Sir standing while answerring questions.

  • @kkomalgurnaani6257
    @kkomalgurnaani6257 ปีที่แล้ว

    Meditation will certainly help… bcoz then you understand your power .. your divine self .. N it will remind you "Tat tvam asi"

  • @sujatasrangan258
    @sujatasrangan258 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow So beautifully said Thank you sir 🙏

  • @sanjaypimoli9233
    @sanjaypimoli9233 ปีที่แล้ว

    Same problem.. thank you acharya ji

  • @saloni1sood
    @saloni1sood ปีที่แล้ว

    "ideally you should be outgrowing your likes and desires very rapidly"

  • @Charu25-i5z
    @Charu25-i5z 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Resonated so much

  • @arjavjain25
    @arjavjain25 ปีที่แล้ว

    needed this

  • @kendra3577
    @kendra3577 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have mixed feelings about this. While I do agree to some extent, I dream of finding a partner I can spend my life with and build a family with. I want to find someone to commit to growing together with. The way this is spoken about makes it seem like that is not possible or realistic which is sad to me. This seems like a very cynical view on marriage

  • @princekumaryadav1932
    @princekumaryadav1932 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤️

  • @arpittiwari7471
    @arpittiwari7471 ปีที่แล้ว

    very nice

  • @Motojacku77
    @Motojacku77 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @shaxpx
    @shaxpx ปีที่แล้ว

    this is epic

  • @sachinpandey8929
    @sachinpandey8929 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    12:30, she was internally drunk. Probably yes😛😛

  • @sulavregmi1963
    @sulavregmi1963 ปีที่แล้ว

    👌

  • @Pooja77797
    @Pooja77797 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @gautamsanatani4620
    @gautamsanatani4620 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @gautamsanatani4620
    @gautamsanatani4620 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @DEEPAKCHAUHAN-zc5eo
    @DEEPAKCHAUHAN-zc5eo ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️🙏❤️

  • @sagardc4
    @sagardc4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had exactly the same problem....

  • @mollysinha
    @mollysinha ปีที่แล้ว

    👌👍🙏🇮🇳

  • @RupaKumari-zz4ji
    @RupaKumari-zz4ji ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏

  • @saraswatishukla2719
    @saraswatishukla2719 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🙏💐💐

  • @rakeshupadhyay4746
    @rakeshupadhyay4746 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🌷🙏🌷🙏

  • @divinejudgement17
    @divinejudgement17 ปีที่แล้ว

    It was love not attraction , from my side

  • @divinejudgement17
    @divinejudgement17 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just accept the fact bro and move on

  • @SwapnilshelkeInfinety
    @SwapnilshelkeInfinety ปีที่แล้ว +1

    01/03/23

  • @robertleto9356
    @robertleto9356 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel attracted toward above my range like some hollywood actress or miss world but not think about relationship or dating bcoz its impossible but often attracted toward below my range like some uneducated,doesnt know anything but good looking beautiful girls can someone explain why?

  • @kishantiwari2555
    @kishantiwari2555 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️🪔🙏🙇🏻

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The purpose of life is elevation of consciousness.