Yeej muaj ib cov muam thiab niam pog zoo kiag li zaj neej neeg no. Cov niag muam thiab niam pog zoo li no mam ntxim ntxub tshaj. Hom ib cov txiv neeg los yeej ruam ruam li niag thaub no thiab. Stay away, go away and never look back! Cia lawv cov nus muag mam li rov qab sib yuav lawv xwm es lawv niam thias li zoo siab.
Yog kawg. But yog nws tus txiv hlub nws tiag thiab ua tau txiv, nws yeej tsis k nws niam thiab nws cov muam lawv. Niag txiv los yeej ruam thiab ua tsis tau txiv thiab es nws allows nws niam nws cov muam control nws lub neej.
Another great story about a strong, independent housewife who left her cheating husband and moved on with her life! Bravo to all the women who stand on their ground.....
Story of my life. These sisters and mothers want to control their brothers/sons so much, might as well just marry their brothers/sons. No need to marry outsiders. They dont understand that no matter what, they're not the ones taking care of their brothers/sons. And if these so called men are dumb enough to listen and allow their family to disrespect their wife, I hope they end up like this man. But I applaud you sister. Focus on yourself. Let them hate and fall behind in life while you continue to succeed! The best revenge is success👏
Thanks for sharing your story! What a nightmare family you married into! I’m glad you found happiness. Your ex-husband was not a smart man, only a boy who still tries to please his mother’s approval. The audacity of your sil is unbelievable! Zoo kawg uas koj dim tsev niag neeg phem ntawd lawm os!
Nyob teb chaws mekas no tseem muaj tej co neeg thiab niam pog txiv yawg phem li tej lau thaum ub thiab. Tseem muaj tej tug txiv ruam2 es mloog tej laus thaum ub thiab los.
Yuav tau tsev hmoob niam pog txiv yawg tsis nyiam ces tej muam tej kwv tij yeej tsis nyiam. Lawv yeej txw lawv tus tub tham hluas nkauj...yog luag tus tub tsis hlub koj ces uas tus ua nyab ces lawv ua ib pab tsim koj kom koj nyob tsis taus. Luag yeej txv kom koj lub neej paus vim luag yeej xav kom koj tawm mus.
I like the point of the story but too much repeating of how much your ex-in-laws regret losing you. We got the point that you got haters and karma is getting them. Never know what will happen tomorrow so be humble even if you are in a better position today. ✌️
Be grateful you've learned this lesson early on. People like your ex and his family are trash. I don't understand why too many people don't just focus and keep their eyes on the prize.
Sis! Your monster in-law like to talk trash about you why don't you call her out like i sent your second husband back are you happy now? Make sure there are people's around 😂😂😂
Stop listening to gossip and two face people. Stop being a Karen and being entitled. Those people are selfish, self-centered, narcissist, jealousy, envious. Haters....Live your life for you.
Welcome To The Marriage Of The Hmong Life!! This Is Normal To Be Married Mostly To A Hmong Family But OMG, I'd Be Scare With This! So Sad To Have Been Treated Poorly!! Karma, I Believe ...
OMFG, sister, just divorce him and put him on child support. Don't know why you didn't take it to your parents and relatives. Instead, you kept it to yourself. You do not need that despicable family. Consider yourself lucky you and your children got away from that demon family.
Sister aws txoj kev ko kuv tau taug kiag lawm tsam no mas lawv npam hyav kawg os! Kuv los twb raug ev lub npe nyiag nyiaj ib yam tabsis lawv mas khib khib tshaj plaws…!!
There were always two sides of storylines When listening to your side sounds is too! good and the other side was all bad but if you’re done nothing wrong why the whole family would treated you that bad? Matter of fact we as humans being when we are reached the maturity level people would mindfully of other business!! Plus Know your value & rights, how you consider yourself to the family business as well!! Some peoples just married to the man but never actually put the whole effort into blending the family as a whole!!
You won't understand until you get into one. I believe her. She may not be perfect, but she did her best and they used every way to tarnish her. Every good person has a limit and can do bad things and make mistakes too and when those ppl hate you they will always look for those mistakes to ruin you as the nyab and overlook every good thing you have ever done for them. Most Hmong ppl are stupid and will only judge and hate base on what they hear from others and never give that person a chance to shine. First hand victim and witness here....
You won’t know til you’re in the shoe. I’m currently going through it my man hasn’t cheated but his mom did tell him to divorce me one time. All the shit they put me through I don’t even know why I’m still married to the “boy”
What hell..El cheaters married hmoob men cheated and married another woman.... however, wives get even and start dating, men still get jealous and want them back😊 ?? What the big FF ??
Sister, let that family talk since they are so jealous of you, that's why they have to talk trash about you. It's ok. You are the winner due to you getting out of that stupid family.
Sister, kuv pab koj dislike your ex mother-in-law. My mother-in-law wants my husband to ua cuav vauv for my brother-in-law which I disagree. I don't know why my mother-in-law think my brother-in-law is unable to date girl on his own and demand I let my husband do it for the brother-in-law. I love my mother-in-law but I start to lose respect for her.
If it’s less than $500.00 he shouldn’t consult his wife. Because it will just make him Look like wearing dress and as a sister in law you need to understand the circumstances of the relationship of the siblings. You may not have a good relationship with your siblings but for anyone outside of your own you need to understand their bonding.
It's not about the amount of money, it's all about the manners and respect you give out when you're in need and if the money is coming from someone you don't even respect enough to ask properly and only want your siblings to secretly do it for you since you hate their spouse, you're not getting a single penny. Just saying in general for anyone who falls into this scenario.
@@chaivxiong103 disagreed, nothing is important than having a good relationship with your in Laws. Money comes and goes but the healthy relationship is what remains.
@@cindyvang9215 nothing is worth than having a good relationship with one’s in laws. As long as one’s alive money can earn but relationships can’t replenish once it’s broken
Regardless of money or what.... ask both parties. Because I had that crap done to me. And I was upset because I'm clueless all the time. I'm not mad at giving money or anything for anyone to borrow. If your spouse respect you.... he will include you or tell his family "oh let us talk about it we will answer ya back." Once you are married, you are 1 not 2.
I'm sorry. If my kids grandma speak so badly of me, my kids would stop seeing them. No matter what, keep it within the adults. My MIL and SILs are so what similar to yours. They constantly ask for money too. We only give it to them if it's necessary. My husband used to give it and then wonder how he gonna pay bills next month. I was mad. I finally told him straight up "if you don't have the funds. Say no. If you know you can give a little, give a little. Not the full amount that they ask for" No one is paying your bills, but you and your husband. Your husband loves his family too much to the point where it destroyed his life.
Yeej muaj tiag. Yeej muaj cov muam thiab niam pog zoo li no.
Yeej muaj ib cov muam thiab niam pog zoo kiag li zaj neej neeg no. Cov niag muam thiab niam pog zoo li no mam ntxim ntxub tshaj. Hom ib cov txiv neeg los yeej ruam ruam li niag thaub no thiab. Stay away, go away and never look back! Cia lawv cov nus muag mam li rov qab sib yuav lawv xwm es lawv niam thias li zoo siab.
Yog tus nus twg tsis mloog lawv lus ces lawv txiav kiag lawm xwb. So sad.
Yog kawg. But yog nws tus txiv hlub nws tiag thiab ua tau txiv, nws yeej tsis k nws niam thiab nws cov muam lawv. Niag txiv los yeej ruam thiab ua tsis tau txiv thiab es nws allows nws niam nws cov muam control nws lub neej.
Thank you for your story I can relate so much. Evil MIL in the process of destroying me with false rumors
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Hais zoo kawg
Kuj kom tub yuav niam pog hos kom txiv yawg yuav ntxhais ces tsis muaj chaw sib ceg li.
Koj ua tsis taus niam koj thiaj mag niam pog thiab cov muam muab koj luam, kuv yog koj ces muab niam pog roj kib niam pog nqaij mas nkig zoo tshaj plaws.
Another great story about a strong, independent housewife who left her cheating husband and moved on with her life! Bravo to all the women who stand on their ground.....
Your ex and his divorced brothers should all just marry their mother & sister since these are the only two females they listen to.
Vuagca yuav zoo kiag li kuv thiab os kuv tu siab hai tia kuv txoj neej neeg zoo no thiab os 😂😂😂😂😂
Koj mas ua yog kawg li lawm os niam hluas rau siab ntso koj lub hom phiaj kom koj yeej kiag cov niag dab ntxwg nyoog ntawd nawb mog
Story of my life. These sisters and mothers want to control their brothers/sons so much, might as well just marry their brothers/sons. No need to marry outsiders. They dont understand that no matter what, they're not the ones taking care of their brothers/sons. And if these so called men are dumb enough to listen and allow their family to disrespect their wife, I hope they end up like this man. But I applaud you sister. Focus on yourself. Let them hate and fall behind in life while you continue to succeed! The best revenge is success👏
😂 my mil got mad when I told her and my husband to just be together since she wants to run our life like it’s hers and he takes her side vs mines
Ua tsaug ntau ntau niamtij kj li neej neeg
Hai tau zoo tsaj li os
yog li kj hai lawm o tus khib yus ces yeej tsis txog twg li o
Zoo hlub, is that you? 😂😂 jk jk
Cov niam pog zoo li no ntxim tau cov nyab siab phem tsim txom nws kom kawg nws thiaj nyob tau. Koj niag txiv ruam los tsis sawm tau poj niam zoo thiab os. Kav tsij khiav ntawm nws mus, tsuab child support rau nws them tib si. Txhob ntshai nws kiag kav tsij ua ntawv tiv thaiv yus xwb. Cov neeg phem no khib koj thiab taug xaiv cem yus rau luag tej xwb tsis txhob khes kiag.
People love to say negative to others. Do ur best for ur life.
Cas kj zaj neej neeg yuav thooj kv lub neej tam sim no ua luaj li os
Koj tus niam pog no ces cia kom tsis muaj chaw tuag ntshe zoo dua.
tu niam tsev kj haibyog law
We just use😊 QQ
Ha ha ha . What a good story.
Thanks for sharing your story! What a nightmare family you married into! I’m glad you found happiness. Your ex-husband was not a smart man, only a boy who still tries to please his mother’s approval. The audacity of your sil is unbelievable!
Zoo kawg uas koj dim tsev niag neeg phem ntawd lawm os!
Exactly!
Yog kawg
👍👍👍👍👍
Thank you for the lecture....
I think no one here knows that, at least that's what it seems like.
Can’t help these txiv dev n the mil is too much this how we guy feel with these mil evil witch😂🤣
😂_😂ๆ
Nej cov neej neeg no ces tog twg lo yeej phem ib yam os thiaj tawm lo sib rhuav. nyias fus nyias kwj tse xwb
Nyob teb chaws mekas no tseem muaj tej co neeg thiab niam pog txiv yawg phem li tej lau thaum ub thiab. Tseem muaj tej tug txiv ruam2 es mloog tej laus thaum ub thiab los.
Yuav tau tsev hmoob niam pog txiv yawg tsis nyiam ces tej muam tej kwv tij yeej tsis nyiam. Lawv yeej txw lawv tus tub tham hluas nkauj...yog luag tus tub tsis hlub koj ces uas tus ua nyab ces lawv ua ib pab tsim koj kom koj nyob tsis taus. Luag yeej txv kom koj lub neej paus vim luag yeej xav kom koj tawm mus.
I like the point of the story but too much repeating of how much your ex-in-laws regret losing you. We got the point that you got haters and karma is getting them. Never know what will happen tomorrow so be humble even if you are in a better position today. ✌️
Be grateful you've learned this lesson early on. People like your ex and his family are trash. I don't understand why too many people don't just focus and keep their eyes on the prize.
Why is that the mil feel like she sleeping with her son in law or daughter in law lol🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Thaub npwb no cov muam thiab cov tsevneeg rov sib noj😂qab qab laiv yom
Cov tub mloog2 niam pog txiv yawg hais ces twb mag haus lawv cov kua ob ceg tag lawm naw…
Yogma yeej muaj cov niag muam thiaj niam pog phem2 li no kawg os kuv niag ce twb 4 tug poj niam rau kuv lawm lo lawv tseem tias kuv phem xb os lawm cov niag nus ce nrauj poj txhua tug li thiaj tiag
Sister cov niam pog zoo li koj ces muab xav pov tim tsev laus xwb mas yog cem yus sab npaum li koj hais nas thiab cia nws niag tub rau nws yuav xwb 😮
Good for her… she deserves that 👍👍👍👍..will done sister good job
Sis! Your monster in-law like to talk trash about you why don't you call her out like i sent your second husband back are you happy now? Make sure there are people's around 😂😂😂
Stop listening to gossip and two face people. Stop being a Karen and being entitled. Those people are selfish, self-centered, narcissist, jealousy, envious. Haters....Live your life for you.
Welcome To The Marriage Of The Hmong Life!! This Is Normal To Be Married Mostly To A Hmong Family But OMG, I'd Be Scare With This! So Sad To Have Been Treated Poorly!! Karma, I Believe ...
Peb xav hnov koj tu niam pog hais nws sab tuaj
Yog li koj hais lawm os me Viv ncaus raug leej twg nws thiaj paub os
ข้อเสียของคนม้งคือ (ส่วนมาก) พี่น้องมีความอิจฉาริษยา พ่อแม่สั่งสอนลูกให้ไม่ให้เกียรติลูกสะใภ้ ไม่รู้จักเห็นคนอื่นได้ดีแล้วดูเขาเป็นแบบอย่างที่ดีต่อๆไป มีแต่อิจฉา เอาไปนินทาลับหลัง แล้วเมื่อไหร่ม้งเราจะได้ดีคะ
Yus tsis tau ua phem ces lawv xya npe tsis ntev lawv poob ntsag
OMFG, sister, just divorce him and put him on child support. Don't know why you didn't take it to your parents and relatives. Instead, you kept it to yourself. You do not need that despicable family. Consider yourself lucky you and your children got away from that demon family.
Sister aws txoj kev ko kuv tau taug kiag lawm tsam no mas lawv npam hyav kawg os! Kuv los twb raug ev lub npe nyiag nyiaj ib yam tabsis lawv mas khib khib tshaj plaws…!!
I don't believe this story until I heard both side stories.
Satisfying story. MIL from Hell, you were lucky to get out.
Sound like these Yang sisters and their evil mother I know of 😂😂
koj hom yuav niam pog thiab cov muam lawv niag txiv yau las as, ces lawv ham tsis khib thiab ntxub koj 😅
Hmm, sounds like your husband’s family doesn’t love him.
I have to hear both sides
It’s yalls fault for not setting boundaries. No, wealthy people have feelings and emotions too lol
There were always two sides of storylines When listening to your side sounds is too! good and the other side was all bad but if you’re done nothing wrong why the whole family would treated you that bad? Matter of fact we as humans being when we are reached the maturity level people would mindfully of other business!! Plus Know your value & rights, how you consider yourself to the family business as well!! Some peoples just married to the man but never actually put the whole effort into blending the family as a whole!!
You won't understand until you get into one. I believe her. She may not be perfect, but she did her best and they used every way to tarnish her. Every good person has a limit and can do bad things and make mistakes too and when those ppl hate you they will always look for those mistakes to ruin you as the nyab and overlook every good thing you have ever done for them. Most Hmong ppl are stupid and will only judge and hate base on what they hear from others and never give that person a chance to shine. First hand victim and witness here....
You won’t know til you’re in the shoe. I’m currently going through it my man hasn’t cheated but his mom did tell him to divorce me one time. All the shit they put me through I don’t even know why I’m still married to the “boy”
Oooooh. I have a feeling the SIL will need to respond. Lol
This pair sound like the family from hell. (MIL & SIL) 😂.
Your x- mother in-law just like mine too. Cov niam pog zoo li no cia xa rau tsev laus xwb thiaj haum.
😂😂😂👍👍👍
What hell..El cheaters married hmoob men cheated and married another woman.... however, wives get even and start dating, men still get jealous and want them back😊 ?? What the big FF ??
Jokes on them. You have the last laugh.
Sister, let that family talk since they are so jealous of you, that's why they have to talk trash about you. It's ok. You are the winner due to you getting out of that stupid family.
Sister, kuv pab koj dislike your ex mother-in-law. My mother-in-law wants my husband to ua cuav vauv for my brother-in-law which I disagree. I don't know why my mother-in-law think my brother-in-law is unable to date girl on his own and demand I let my husband do it for the brother-in-law. I love my mother-in-law but I start to lose respect for her.
If it’s less than $500.00 he shouldn’t consult his wife. Because it will just make him
Look like wearing dress and as a sister in law you need to understand the circumstances of the relationship of the siblings. You may not have a good relationship with your siblings but for anyone outside of your own you need to understand their bonding.
It's not about the amount of money, it's all about the manners and respect you give out when you're in need and if the money is coming from someone you don't even respect enough to ask properly and only want your siblings to secretly do it for you since you hate their spouse, you're not getting a single penny. Just saying in general for anyone who falls into this scenario.
Idfc if 1 penny or $500, his money is my money. If the sil wants money, she better ask me
@@chaivxiong103 disagreed, nothing is important than having a good relationship with your in
Laws. Money comes and goes but the healthy relationship is what remains.
@@cindyvang9215 nothing is worth than having a good relationship with one’s in laws. As long as one’s alive money can earn but relationships can’t replenish once it’s broken
Regardless of money or what.... ask both parties. Because I had that crap done to me. And I was upset because I'm clueless all the time. I'm not mad at giving money or anything for anyone to borrow. If your spouse respect you.... he will include you or tell his family "oh let us talk about it we will answer ya back." Once you are married, you are 1 not 2.
Just tell your story. We don’t need to hear your opinions and preach about heaven, blablabla
Koj tsis kam tsub child support rau koj tus txiv them vim nws hawv yuav muab koj tua yog koj tseem yuam nws them. Tsis muaj tseeb li koj piav. Tos koj niam pog nrhiav nyab rau koj tus txiv yuav yam tsis ntshai tub qaug koj los ntshe twb vim yog koj coj tus cwj pwm tsis ntxim rau leej twg nyiam thiab koj hais lus tsis muaj qhov txaus rau leej twg ntseeg xwb.
I don't understand why you still talk to evil. They won't even know how to contact me
God is great! karma is a bitch.
What's the other side of the story?
Don’t need to hear it. 😅 They’re evil.
Cov neeg ntaug xaiv yog cov neeg very low class people
Girl this is America put child support on his ass. Don’t be scared.
I'm sorry. If my kids grandma speak so badly of me, my kids would stop seeing them. No matter what, keep it within the adults.
My MIL and SILs are so what similar to yours. They constantly ask for money too. We only give it to them if it's necessary. My husband used to give it and then wonder how he gonna pay bills next month. I was mad. I finally told him straight up "if you don't have the funds. Say no. If you know you can give a little, give a little. Not the full amount that they ask for"
No one is paying your bills, but you and your husband. Your husband loves his family too much to the point where it destroyed his life.