Zara Noor Abbas Lost a Child!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ก.ย. 2022
- Zara Noor open's up about losing a child and discusses the complications women go through during pregnancy.
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Dont worry i have a baby after 22 years of marriage just do one thing FIRM BELIVE IN ALLAH AND PRAY YOURSELF
Mashallah please meray leay b dua krna 12 years ho gye
@@abbasmao6956DO A LOT OF DUA AND ASTAGFIRULLAH AND DAROOD PAK ALL THE TIME I DID ALL THIS ONLY AND DONT TAKE STRESS ALLAH knows brtter what is best for u
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Mashallah
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Tahajjud me uthkar Dua maange...kyuki tahajjud ki Dua Allah zarur qubool karta hai.
Please everyone pray for my sister Allah osy aulad ki nimat sy nawaz de 15 sal ho gaye 🙏
In our society talking about lost baby is taboo. My mum lost her son at 8 months pregnancy I lost my son at 20 weeks . I remember when I talk about him my father my mum said no no don’t talk about him. N I was angry he was my baby y not!!! I visited his grave after 4 months n my parents were not happy. Y? Insaan ka bacha tha koi janwar thori tha jis ko daba dea to bs ab sab khatam. My husband took me there as many times as I wanted to go. It helped a lot, healed me in a way . Thinking he is sleeping safely here.
I also lost a child at 23 weeks..i was shattered but then Allah the rahman..the most merciful gave strength to come back out of that trauma...beshak mera rab jo karta h behtar karta hai...or agar behtar nahi to behtareen karta hai...
I lost my 1 day old baby girl last month
Inna lillahe wa inna ilaihe raze un..
What was the reason?
I lost my twins daughter 27 week be strong and trust Kren Allah bht bhtreen kry ga apky sth bh or mre sath bhi wo kbhi apny bando ko akela nh chorta ❤
Atleast she has a supportive husband.. in some cases husbands move on or abandon their grieving wives as if it's their pain to bear all alone..
Such a brave girl and spreading awareness. Sorry about your loss!
Also my frst baby girl has downstndrom n she dies aftr 2 months she was my frst baby i m so sad plz pray for me next time Allah give me a normal healthy child insha Allah
Ameen InshaAllah
Why she died? What other problems she had? I have my third daughter with downsyndrome she had heart problem...she has gone through open heart surgery and now Allhamdulilah she is 15 months old
@ Nagina Rafiq
Absolutely...jis ko olaad deni hay Allah nay us ko miley gi Allah ki taqseem per sub ko positive he rehna chhaye...
I lost my child as well at 11th week . Its too difficult metally and physically both this pain can’t be explain in words those who go through it can understand it better..
I agree with us I suffer same condition and this is so pain full 😢🥺🥺😔😭 I lost my child 😭😭
@@hafizaayesha4807 may god give us patience
No one knows how difficult this is to go through, unless you’ve gone through it. I’ve been through this, you never forget the child you’ve lost but Allah is great. He always has a plan for us. My love to you all wonderful women ❤
Kitna painful hey aap logo k ly yeh mey khub janti hon ager kisi maa ka jawan beta beta achanak chala jay subha Uni jay or wapas kanshon per ay to aap sochain us maa ka kya hal hoga yes I lost my 22 years old son before 9 months.lekin wo ladla 💔😢 itna acha tha k Saber Allah ney deydya.Alhumdulilah he was the best best son in this world.Alhumdulilah .hum logo ko Allah ki Raza chahiy bus wo Razi hojay hum sey Ameen Sum Ameen 🤲❤️ aap sub khush hojain.
Hazrat Muhammed SAW ki Hadees hey .""" Jis ka bacha chota bacha dunya sey chala jay or wo Saber karey to us k ly Jannat mey "*Baitul Hamed"* gher ka wada hey.or Hazrat Ibrahim or Hazrat Sara un bachon ki perwarish kertey hain jannat mey."" agey Allah knows better than us.Allah sey dua hey k wo hum jaisi maao ko bhi Jannat ul Firdose mey hamarey juda huy bachon k sath khush Rakhey Ameen Sum Ameen 🤲 or abhi mera piyara beta or us jesey sub meri doston k jawan bachey Ala illeyeen mey khush ho.Ameen.🤲
Sumameen 😭
I also lost my child. Bohot he zyda painfull hota es chez ko bholna
Bs sbar krliya hy Allah pak den gy
My two beautiful sons sadly died they both had special needs, we loved them so much, they both were very special for us, we miss them so much, they at peace now playing in jannah in shaa Allah. I understand what u going through,
🥺🥺🥺
Same here I lost my three child.
@@beautylifeinsaudiarabia2147 apk bchon ko kia hva ta
Dear May Allah bless you with a healthy baby.....Inshallah Allah will give you a baby soon
I have been through it. Allah jab laita hai dobara bht behter daita bhi hai ...it's his promise
Allah bht behter ajar daga.
Insha'Allah apka Ghar dobara bht khushiyan da ga ....
Know jab Mai Woh pain Yaad Karti ho ,aur apna bacho ki deakhi ho .he is 8 . MashAllah I am very very very thankful to my Allah.
My name is humaira kindly sb log mera name la k dua kren k Allah pak mjy b sht mand or kaamil emaan wali olad sa nwaazain ameeeeen sum ameeen. Sb log ameen bolain
Or Allah pak un sbbbbb logon k haq men b ya dua qabool frmaayen jo es naimat or rehmat ko trs rhy ameeen
Ameen
Aameen
Broo she's so strong , may Allah bless her with happiness , and peace in life , she's so beautiful ❤️💓
I lost my twin baby boys at first time but now I have a mother of a daughtr again after 4 years .so just trust on Allah
Allahumma barik
I also lost my twin baby boys before 3 month ago 🥺🥺
It's hurting ....
You will have a healthy baby soon InshaAllah..dont worry stay strong
InshaAllah
Insha'allah ❤
Very nice approach 💐. God bless you.
So sorry for your loss. We also know someone who had to bury their 20 week old baby. The reason, as far as we know...couldn't get an OB appointment as there is a shortage of OBs in Canada (some areas). It was very sad and extremely tragic. My mother also lost her son, who was born perfectly healthy, but passed away due to unknown reasons at 7days old in Faisalabad in 1998. I was 10 years old then. I can't imagine what my parents went through...
Sad to hear about you. I'm an aspirant to move to Canada but lately I've heard so many bad reviews about Canadian health care failing its citizens, can you please shed some light and ur experience?
Zara I m writing from my husband s accnt I lost my first baby and I did not know how dr will dock up and how nurse will talk wid me. In my report my baby took 10 breath and I still feel the baby shaking near my feet and it was a very bad experience too much pain and nurse talking in bad language.
Zara
Allah swt will bless u soon wid a healthy baby aameen
May Allah bless u with a healthy baby. Keep praying 5 times and recite Holy Quran every day.
Zara I loved u a lot for u acting skills but today I loved u as human ,myself being a autistic kid mother appreciate ur respect towards parents with special needs children and I pray to Allah inshallah u will soon have healthy baby .
Zara u are gorgeous with gorgeous heart may subhan u talla give u healthy baby soon
It looks like your telling my story... i lost my baby when i went to deliver her at 37 weeksss... canadian health care is the worst... some doctors doesn't care... and unluckily i had a bad doctor... the way she told the news that my baby is no more was not acceptable and i was also alone... my husband was downstairs bcz of covid.... i still cant forget .. looks like you're telling me my story😭
But Alhumdollillah Allah has blessed us with a healthy baby now. And ill pray that you will also have a healthy baby soon
Allah ki amaan mei
Plz pray for me Allah mjy b normal olad se nwazy ameeen
can u please tell me in detail about your daughter
@@naginarafiq5937 can you please tell me about your daughter
More power to all mothers !
Such a heart touching conversation..so real
Allah pak apko jld dobara olad dn ameen
Assalamualikum
I just wanted to share my journey
Apke Ek Ek lafz ki gharayoo ko samjh Sakti ho jab aap apna waqaia Bayan karrahi thi mere Dil o dimag me srf mere beti ki Yadeen ghoom Rahi thi Aaj 5 months hogaye mere beti Ke inteqal ko per wo guzarawa Ek Ek lamha nahi bhulaya Jata..
Bus itna khena chaho gi Kabhi bhi rabulalameen se na umeed na Hoye ga Allah ki tamam kamoo Ke peechy koi na koi hikmat chupi Hoti Hai apko strong rehna Hai Apne liye or Sab se Zada Apne husband Ke liye bhi mard apna dukh dekhaty nahi Hain q Ke wo us time Zada tawaja biwi ki taraf de rahy hoty hain unki care or health ki waja se Lakin aulad Ke Jany ka gum both parents ko Hai aap Sab se darkest Hai tamam Walden Ke liye sehat Mand aulad ki dua zaroori Kiya Karen mere Haq me bhi Allah bhter Karen ameen
Doctors in the UK have what is called bedside manners how talk to their patients when to break the news to the expecting mother to be and especially to take into account the mental wellbeing of the patient. Doctors in Pakistan need some more training and I agree with you there need to be more awareness what to do in certain situations.
My heart goes out to you Zara, my daughter lost a child it was very traumatic but she had great support around her.
My dua is may Allah bless you with a child soon insha'Allah
I understand ur situation cz i already face this trauma 😭i lost my daughter before 5years😭
I just want to say that zara stay strong ❤️🕊️
Love you to know how strong you are from inside ma sha ALLAH. Stay strong !
Dear ,May Allah Almighty bless you with a healthy child.
i lost my baby boys twic and really i have the same feelings and i am not going to giveup.Alhamdulila
Ap k boys ko kia hoa tha mere b 2 bety foat hoye ek 7th month pregnancy m or dusra 34 week delivery k bad foat ho gya
Allah give more strength to you Zara .. ameen
Same jb mera abortion hua tha to mere ghar walo ne b aesay he smjhaya tha k ho skta hai Allah Pak ne bohat bari mushkil say bchaya ho shaid bacha hota aur normal bachon jaisa na hota to zindagi bhar ki takleef thi.....aur beshak jo mera Allah krta hai wohi hamaray liye best hota hai.....us k one year baad Allah ne mujhe mera shezada beta ata kiya Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah.....Allah sb ko sehat zindagi wali mukamal olad ata farmaye Aameen SumaAmeen
Ameen summa ameen
Ameen sumaAmeen
So sorry for your loss. I am 28years and i have a baby girl who is just 2 years old having EDWARDS SYNDROME. People normally don't know about this SYNDROME but this is the most dangerous SYNDROME. Yes you are right child is our jaan. We take care of our child more than any parents of normal child can do. Its tough but she is a blessing.
Be brave be strong. Allah is the best planner.
Did u took any medicine during prgnnacy
@@sanasajid3748 no
Dont worry Allah pak ap lambo zindagi wale ulaad sy nawazy. Ameen
lost daughter 9 years ago, now only keep in my heart her revenge. lost son 2 years ago. now nothing left. nothing, neither body nor soul, except revenge
I lost my child and I know it's too pain full for every mother 🥺😢😭
Stay strong zara i know what u and asad and all your family members must be going through. Have faith on Allah. I have lost 3 babies and now i have a healthy littel baby boy MashAllah and so will you have a baby in your hand healthy and cute. Stay strong
So sorry about your loss Zara ! Stay strong girl inshaAllah Allah swt will bless you again♥️🙏 We can't imagine what you were going through at that moment .... I even can't despite of going through something similar like that 💔 i also went for my scan and wanted to ask about the gender and all that i heard was its a missed abortion 💔 that was the most difficult time for me because my husband was not with me at that time , as i came out of that room my baba was there and he asked is everything alright and all I said Jee Baba Allah Karam krega inshaAllah 🙏 and i still remember on that day i was trying to find a good gynecologist in karachi and i was hoping for miracle but unfortunately ..... khair Indeed Allah is the best planner ♥️🙏 Alhamdullilah , for everything 🙏♥️
What a brave woman sorry for your loss. Inshallah don't give up keep trying may Allah set give you more babies ❤️. Be strong you are an amazing person..
I had 3 miscarriages please pray for me that Allah bless me with a child🙏🙏🙏
Inshallah
Zara !!! I am so sorry you had to go through this. I have lost two of mine and I can relate to every word you say. May Allah gives you sabr ameen
i lost my baby at 8th week i know the pain physically and mentally
May ALLAH bless you with a child soon. Ameen
I lost my daughter and I had four miscarriages I understand what went through my baby girl lived for 11 days I have many support that I have joined and they are very helpful I am admins on one of the groups and we are helping Muslim women to come and tell there story about losing there child
Apki beti ko kia hva ta or miscariges ki kia reason thi
I’m so sorry for your loss❤❤
Same mere sath assa Hua tha checkup k liye hai thi normal say dr baby is no more heartbeat not feel growth Suddenly k mai to mar jaugi shdi k 3 saal bi assy hogyaa first baby sath hi Boht pain thaa Condition boht khrb thi Vomiting nai rukh rhi thi Mere husband NY boht sath diyaa Try kiya baby bach jy but Last py D&C Hogai boht muskil time thaa hum dono py mai boht preshn thi but mere husband sath diyaa mujy is cheez sy nikala khush rakhaa Ye you say me InshAllah Allah phir sy dy gy Sbar rakho or dua kro mai sath hu Mai ye vidoe dekh rhi or mujy apna time yaad a gyaa koi sath nai dytaa log itni baten krty hai k mat puchy but Allah sy dua hai k mujy naik ulad sy jald nawaz dy Ameen😔🙂🙏😓
You are such a polite and brave person ❤
May ALLAH give you sabar AMEEN
inshallhah god give u more baby and health I lost too son's both die three months gap yousaf is 5 years old and AMEN 13 months old AMEN Summa AMEN 😭🤲
How?
I lost my baby boy in 2 december 2021 ALLAH give me after 7 years but now he is no more
How ?May Allah give u alot of sabar ameeen
@@hayaaahmed2299 due to heart disease kisi ik doctor ny bhi nhi bataya tha pory 9 mounth k ultra sound main k baby ko down cyndrome ur heart disesase baad main koi kh rha hy k nhi yh maan main jerms hoty hain pta nhi bs zindagi bht mushkil ho gyi hy apna aap mujrim lgta hy
@@kiramatalishah7278 no never say like this it's just Allah's will...ap ki baite ki Kia age the jan death huwee..aur Kia us ki heart surgery Nahi karai ap ny..my baby girl is also downsyndrome with heart disease but Allhamdulilah she had open heart surgery and fine now
Baby kitny week ka tha
Inshaallah. You are beautiful lady.
How well she speak!
why doctor said u should deliver now?
Brave girl … hum sb ko mental health k bar mai bt krni chaiye
Main NY apny erado k tootny sy Allah ko Jana h Jo Allah karta h behtar karta h
I also lost my child same like zara 😢
This is the sad part. Here in US when u get pregnant and go to ur OBGYN they always have contact nos of person who they need to call in an emergency.
Systen in PK is very bad and unorganized. All that zara is talking about is always briefed to any person when u go to a doc prior.
I lost my baby girl at 40 weeks Dilvery date py mny usy kho diya mera susral walon ny mujy dikhy bagir usy dafan kr diya jb mujy hosh aya m bht roi Csection kar diya tha mery rony sy tanqy khul gy thy dobara lagay gay Aj shadi ko 5 saal ho gy hain phr us k bad koi ulad ni hoi mri
Yes it's v hard to sign on ur death document even as an employee of hospital I had to went through severe traumatic stress night before my c.section when doctors suddenly break the news that I might have uterus n urinary bladder removal surgery too with along with c.section because of placenta percreta which never seen before in any ultrasound even in my 1 month stay in hospital...Alas our system our machinary ..... 😭
Adopt a baby becoz paida karnaaa waly saa zada azeem palnay wala hai
Allah app ko seahat heamat d ameen u dont worry i have baby 12 year s god bless u and your husband 🥰
MashAllah
Video title is not it
I am sad about her but it is common in Pakistan.
Yes
Whts common in pakistan?
She had a stillborn birth though, Asad buried their baby. It wasn’t a miscarriage.
Zara allah apko eska bahtreen ajer ata fermaey .....
Zara meray pas 22 years ka autistic boy hai ....
Ye meri zindagii hai
It's so said to hear about our hospitals circumstances
Bilkul
I also lost my son at 21st week
Mere ammi n apna beta or m n apna bhai 25 year ka hum smjh skty hn kia tkleef hoti h
This piece of paper is signed dear at the time of c-section every time
if you want something badly and eagerly. pray 5 times pray and TAHAJUD. tahajud ki dua zaroor qabool hoti hai. LIKN esa na ho baqi namaz parhi nhi n tahajud k liy baith gaey.
I lost my twins at 12 weeks😪
Now a day's zara is my favorite
Zara my fvrt ❤❤❤❤ pls need more projects of Zara ❤❤❤❤❤
InshaAllah
I understand how u feel lost my twin babies at 7 months everything was going well but just wasnt allahs will ...
ربي لا تذرني فردا وأنت خير الوارثين
Rabbi La tazarni fardan wa anta khairul wariseen
"O My Lord ! do not leave me alone (childless), while You are the best of inheritors"
پروردگار مجھے اکیلانہ چھوڑ اور تو سب سے بہتر وارث ہے!
surah al Anbia 89
رب هب لي من لدنك ذرية طيبة إنك سميع الدعاء
اے میرے پروردگار! مجھے اپنے پاس سے پاکیزہ اولاد عطا فرما، بے شک تو دعا کا سننے والا ہے!
"My Lord, grant me from Yourself a good offspring. Indeed, You are the Hearer
Surah al imran 38
رب هب لي من الصلحين
My Lord, grant me [a child] from among the righteous." (37:100)
Allah pak mujay or sab muslim ko aulad ata karay.
Aameen
Allah apke haq me behtar se behtarin karein maine bhi khoya hai bacchey ko abtk beauld hu
Zara,I have listen your words and I realy appreciate your beleave in GOD and I hope you will be receive better substitute.You should prey late night and request to the almighty Allah for your desires.
I also lost my twin boys 😭 at 17th week.. understand very well this pain😭
Agr Urdu bolo to. Khuch nhi ho ga Pakistani ho SB urdu smj sktay hain English nhi plz b Pakistani
Me also lose my daughter😭
Ye lafz Allah Miaan nahi hota Allah TaAllah hota hae pehle tou kuch lafzon ko bolne ka shauur hona bhi bohat zaroori hae pls don’t mind but that’s a fact we spell some words very wrong
Ye sirf esliye tha
But why
Kisi ne Orton k baare main bhut glt
Shabad bole
Mne unhe khri khotti sunae
Mujhe lagta h mne sahi kiya
So kisi ko glt na smjhe
Be happy
Ek chhorra bolya
Thhookra k mera pyaar
Anjaam dekhegi
Chhorri boly
Kitni pta li dhedh k beej
Namste sbko
I am a single mother with son having mild autism
I can feel zara :'(
Ohhh very pain full.. myra 5th month mai miscarriage hua aur mai 😢
Mein ne abi apna 3rd baby khoya h 3rd pregnancy 4 month pregnant or baby ki heartbeet khtm hogai 😢😢😢 abi 20 din huay hain m isi sub sy guzr rhi m smjh skti hon inki pain
Allah ap ko sabr dy i also lost my 2nd baby some time ago r shaid is se brhy koi taklef ni hu sakty aik maa k li
@@sanaasif2681 beshak aik maa k liye uska baby khona boht bari takleef h jo lafzon m ni bayan hoskti😟😢
Love you Zara how strong are you. I'm very impressed. I know it's not easy to describe about it but thank you it's very inspirational for all those ladies who suffering from this.may Allah give you alot of strength and live happily
Allah only test his brave people
same story... bt i lost my baby in my 29th week of pregnancy.. n sem... i went fo routine checkup n the doctr said tht ur baby has xpired 2-3 days ago... tht moment was like... YA ALLAH. further she added u cab go fo another scan if u want else u cn come in the morning for TOP... my bp shoot up n thy waited a bit longer coz thy wanted to deliver the baby normally....
same thing happend to me . I went for routine scan and they said baby has no heartbeat.. this is the worse traumatic statement for me. she was my first born and still I don't know the reason of her death
sometimes Allah wants you to make the life of any orphan but ppl keep on trying for 22 years . o bhai bheno rehem kro khud pey. its not necessary that u have your own kid .hava big heart n adopt any kid. mot parti hai esy
Dear I m unable to understand that I m from middle class and when I have my two kids I don’t have to face these problems I never go to
Dr alone……
We should never say Allah miya
Miya we call for husband
very touching subject and zara is masha allah brave enough.but the lady who intrviewing realy arritating has the same hair style since 35 years which is not suite for her..she is still in the past🤔
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