I couldn’t relate more to the idea that “my long curly hair is my identity” I straight up didn’t want to cut my hair because I thought having long curly hair was my THING, but then I just said fuck it and chopped it all off and it’s so much healthier and fuller. You are actually the one who inspired me to even consider getting as much off as I did. I now am thriving with 15 inches less of my old self and I couldn’t be happier ❤️
Literally cut my hair after watching you cut yours! Best decision I ever made my confidence has just skyrocketed 💕 finally can appreciate my curly hair and love wearing it down!
I'm sure all my hairy girls here and maybe Penny can relate to this. I once asked the stylist to cut my hair in a short almost-pixie cut. This woman told me it's best not to, or I'll have to wax the hair behind my ears and neck because it will show with the short hair.THE NERVE. I was 15 at the time, and didn't really know how to stand up for myself, and she really brought my self-esteem down at the time. But now I just do whatever I want and cut my hair myself. AND I NEVER WAX THE HAIR BEHIND CAUSE I NEVER CARED ABOUT IT! I don't see it, I don't care for it lol
Yess when I was young I did the same thing but the hairdresser literally turn me away and refused to do it because she swore I would cry. I was SOOO mad I left her a bad review lol
I just read something about when a woman cuts her hair short, she's going through serious stuff or having a mental breakdown... dude. I love the fact that you and other women are smashing that assumption. I've literally lived the past 20 years in cycles - growing long then cutting super short. I love the drastic change and the freeing feeling you get when you chop it all off. I also was dedicated to donating virgin hair to places that create wigs for children and burn victims. There is a super awkward grow out phase with pixies. It lasts about 9-12 months if you have average to low hair growth rate (1/2-1/4" per month). But it allows you to get creative with your styles - or - have fun with wigs! I always though about shaving my head ever since I was a teenager after I saw a woman with her head shaved for the first time in my life. I thought she looked incredibly strong and brave and super cool. Finally, after 20 years, I did it myself. Yeah, I cheated a little bit because I buzzed it when the whole world shut down back in March 2020 - but I regret nothing! I absolutely loved it. The only thing that was keeping me from shaving it was the fear of what people would think, "OMG - she's having a mental breakdown" or "girl looks like a dude" or whatever. That fear was the tipping scale for me. It's been more than 19 months since the shave and I'm loving the grow out and have a waist - length goal in mind... but honestly.. I'll probably shave it again once I reach my goal or get sick of it along the way LOL. As long as you can stand the weird grow-out lengths... go for a shorter 'do if that's what you want to do. It's your hair and guess what - it grows back. PS - I'm sorta low key sus that Penny will shave her head one day 🔥
Something I would like to mention is that to some Indigenous peoples, cultures, and communities cutting your hair is for mourning of a loved one that has passed and can associated with some sadness. But it is an important act to do for healing and reclaiming of oneself after an traumatic experience.
I know someone that cut their long hair. It kept snagging on stuff and getting ripped out. Strands . It would hurt bad. So if by serious stuff means you are done getting strands of hair ripped out of your hair then yes they went through serious stuff. Plus their haired ties always disappeared. They found it easier just to have short hair. They found it better and they felt lighter too. Who knew long hair could be heavy.
Omg I get this comment so much xD In the past 2 years I've been in a relationship with my actual bf and I have also started playing around more with my curly long hair. I dyed the inside Blue and later Red; then I dyed nearly all of it red and always cut it shorter than the previous time. The hairdresser (a very friendly lady) always asked me if everything was okay with my bf because of this thought of girls cutting their hair because of a sad period in their life. I always answered with a smile and told her I was fine because I just loved to try new styles now that I don't need to ask my mother's approval for dying it/cutting it. Yesterday I chopped them off (I showed the hairdresser the posts that I found on Instagram about ) and she just smiled and complemented the heck out of me. I have had a pixie cut since I was 3 to probably 8/9 years old, so I know how I look with short hair because my face didn't change an inch from when I was younger (I'm 21 currently). Also good for you for shaving your hair and be proud of it! It's your hair and no one else's business ✨
I think the most respectable thing about any type of professional is when they will actually tell you they’re not comfortable giving you what you asked for. I would recommend them to others just for being honest
I can definitely understand that perspective but it’s incredibly stigmatized for women to have short hair. Some hairstylists just can’t handle a strong woman with short hair. 😫
I got a pixie cut when I was 22… I had just gotten out of the hospital after a suicide attempt. And I cut my hair off because I felt like we’ll nothing matters and I want less things to worry about. It was fine … I straightened it a lot though. Then I went to get it re shaped and cut because the up keep is annoying. And this woman ruined my hair! She gave me a mullet before those where trendy. And I paid $60 for that trash. And I spent a whole year growing it back out. After that I never straightened my hair again and it’s past my chest. And I still don’t like to deal with it. Lol. I’m always in a constant battle. But I’m getting it cut in 2 weeks! Still don’t know what to do with it. We’ll see what happens. It looks mad cute on you though penny!
We all chop our hair in response to emotional trauma. I gave away all my perfumes( which I collect) when i was suicidal because exactly...you get no pleasure from anything anymore. Wish I still had some of those. I manifest my neuroses by chopping at my hair I always think it's uneven or somethings wrong and either get it cut every 2 monrhs or chop at it myself. And never happy with it. I really need to just let myself be. I hope youre doing a lot better too. If Penny likes her hair better short that's great. I just need to stop finding fault with my hair and let it grow for like 6 months .
I got a pixie cut almost five months ago and I absolutely love it so much. It’s a bit shorter than yours, think Twiggy or the actress from Harry Potter when she got her curly hair cut into a short pixie cut (I don’t know her name). Unfortunately I have to let my hair grow out because I can’t afford to get the trims every four weeks to maintain the style which I didn’t think of when I first got the hair cut because I didn’t know how in love with it I was gonna be. Having short hair has been wonderful and I’ve been recommending it to everyone to try at least once, the showers and not having to worry about hair is just amazing. I’m sad to have to grow it out because this style has finally made me feel like myself, long hair just isn’t me anymore, not even shoulder length. Maybe one day I will have the funds to keep up with the pixie haircut trims, fingers crossed.
Emma Watson for those who are confused or want to see a reference photo. Glad you’re enjoying your pixie cut! Makes me sad how many girls are afraid to try. :) you’re all an inspiration to me. I’ve had several pixie cuts due to dye and relaxers damaging my hair and people like you definitely helped me change the way I look at those situations. Sorry for being cheesy omlll but you’re awesome 😭 It genuinely makes me happy to see women speak so positively of their short hair
I cut my hair short yesterday so the timing of this video is a godsend. I still feel a bit overwhelmed with all of it gone, because like you said it’s almost like losing your identity. But seeing your confidence in this video inspires me! I think I’ll get to where you are!
My hair was very long, but extremely frizzy, curly with a ton of split ends, and super high maintenance. People told me I shouldn't cut it, I'll regret it, but that hasn't been the case. I 100% respect and understand your decision to go short, it's freeing and you can start from scratch caring for it.
I LOVE YOUR HAIR IN EVERY LENGTH! and I had a pixie cut twice cuz I've had long hair for at least 18 years of my life so once I've started cutting it I never stopped, it's addicting, it makes you feel good, and in control, and it's exciting to see how it will turn out.
Penny your videos are so unique and funny! I remember being here watching your videos 4 years ago on curly hair, me growing mine out as a guy. Its so great to see your channel grow, nothing but the best! Thanks for always being you!
I’m loving your vibe when it comes to living your life and doing what’s best for you. Also, I’m def feeling your decorative pieces in the room your are filming! 👍🏽
@@PennyTovar pleasee!!!! Although I initially found you for hair content, now that I know what I need to know I’m curious about your lifestyle, Devore, etc and because you are so real and entertaining please do a house tour and more content like that too!!
I cut my waist length curly hair into a pixie at the end of my senior year of high school, i didn't tell anyone before going to the salon because i knew they would try to convince me out of it! i knew what i wanted and it was the best decision! i spent the beginning of college, cutting it shorter and shorter, buzzing it off myself in my dorm, dying it colors and having fun. Now i'm a senior in college with a curly bob and i can't see myself having hair any longer than this for the rest of my life!
The new cut is stunning! I’ve had short pixie cuts all my life because I straightened and relaxed it so much it wouldn’t grow 🥲. Now 2 years into my transition and finally have curly healthy hair past my shoulders 🥳 it’s my time for long hair now in my late twenties 🤣💗
You have been one step behind me with your shorter haircuts and I 100% agree with you with the short curly hair lifestyle, I'm loving my hair lately. Better then when it was long.
I’ve had long curly hair my whole life, and just got into caring for my curls 2 years ago. Been wanting to try a short cut but have been terrified to take the leap. When you said your identity used to feel like it was tied to your long curls… god, I feel that, and I’m tired of feeling like if my curls aren’t long and frizz-free, then they’re not cute. It’s so hard to maintain and so stressful day to day.
Gurl, if you don't like to take care of a lot of hair it is way better to get a short cut, way easier to deal with. I used to just stick my hair in buns all the time or straighten it because it was absolutely awful looking because I didn't know how to take care of my hair because I was the only girl in my family with curly hair and I too only learned about how to take care of my hair a couple years ago. Take the freaking leap, you'll feel so much better and you'll have to use less of the expensive hair products that you need to take care of curly hair.
I'm getting a Pixie Cut in a couple of days. I'm going to a new place and I'm super excited because I have heard only good things. Thanks for helping me figure out what to do next!!! By the way, I'm almost 70 years old. I have subscribed to your channel and look forward to learning new things!!😜🤪😝
Love it !!! I’m one of those people who’s hair is straight at the roots and starts to wave/curl the longer is gets so my “pandemic journey” has been embracing my natural curl instead of straightening it into shape as I’ve done for the last 10+ years. It is a lot of effort, but I haven’t appreciated my hair as much as I do now that I know how to care for it. I tried a pixie cut, I’ve tried bangs, I’ve tried no bangs, I’ve tried long, short, and medium length. Nothing has given me as much satisfaction as just letting my natural curl form with the right wash/post-wash routine. I feel like a ball of static when I don’t give my hair the right care these days 😂 Glad you were able to embrace a style that works for you! Keep becoming the you that you always wanted to be 🙌
I love all of this so much! I had my husband cut my long hair in January and I can't believe how easy curly hair life can be! I didn't realize what a stressor my long curly hair was in my life! During the pandemic, working as a nurse, my long hair just became a nuisance to me. I actually just keep wanting to go shorter!
Girl, YES! I have long curly red hair (Princess Merida style) and I got massive shade when I chopped off my hair. The compliments just came to a halt. It was tough for me at first. It's like I relied on compliments to define my self worth. But I was having so much fun with my short hair! Granted, it was higher maintenance. I went through all the stages you went through and finally ended up at, I'm too broke to upkeep this massive weed on my head. I can't wait to chop my hair off again!
Your hair is beautiful. I love the African women who have like, short hair cuts where you see their neck and it looks super elegant. You have the same sort of style here with the new cut. Love it! My goal is to still have it as long as yours used to be, down to the waist. Maybe an update of how to take care of hair would be really great penny ! 🙌🏼🥰
I love both lengths on you, the short-medium at the beginning and the pixie cut at the end. These types of haircuts look sooo good on you. Also, the curls look glossy and defined but really natural at the same time and love that chocolate colour on them...
Okayyyy Penny I see youuu at 2:21 👀🤌🏽👌🏽 I cut my curls to a really short pixie (the underside was shaved) in April and I'm currently growing it out. My hair was down to my rear end and I totally miss it 😢
Yessssss penny !!!! Welcome to the short hair gang !!!!!! Ive always have had long hair and the first time I got my pixie cut,I never looked back on having long hair
Girl you rock it! I decided one year ago cut my long hair just for try something different and I love it, I just can't imagine about going back to long hair again Love your confidence ❤️
God, you’re gorgeous and I feel like the short hair helps to highlight your beautiful features way better than the long hair. I’m loving this hair journey for you 🖤😍
I totally agree! I have been trying to grow my hair out for the longest and I was been disappointed for years and felt not good enough. It wasn’t until recently that I decided to cut it pretty short and I’ve never been more confident
I appreciate you sm. I've had super short curls for the past year and I litterally never find anyone else who has curls that are actually short. Love the hair🥰
I've had every cut and color and done all the styles you could think of. I've got curls too. I grew up extremely poor though, so I got one haircut a year, and it would be a pixie cut, and then for a whole year, it would just grow. We didn't have the money to take care of my hair properly, we were on that 97 cent suave life yall. I didnt know what a leave in, or a mask was until I was like, almost 18. But as an adult I've really learned my hair and played around with it so much more. I just want to let yall know that it's so worth it to cut it all off even just one time, too see what it's like. As an AFAB person, so much of our femininity is tied to hair length and freeing yourself of that is so good. To truly have your femme energy come from within you and not something on the outside. It's a powerful journey that I wish for everyone. Even if you just grow it right back out and never cut it short again, it's still something that you've done to prove to yourself that long hair doesn't define you. Penny is so right about how long hair is the ideal but it should be a preference. I believe the same for men, grow your hair out, even just once. It teaches you more about you as a person and what you like and introduces you to questioning those roles and stigmas we are fed based on our assigned genders. I have guy friends who only ever got one haircut their whole life cuz it's the cut their dad got, or the cut their mom picked. Then they met me and I'm very much a "if it makes you uncomfortable or scared, but it's not going to actually harm you, then it's a sign to just do it." (Obvs this is for things like hair length or trying new things like a new style or new food, etc. I do not encourage unsafe situations. If yall are uncomfy that's also a sign to stop if it's like, you know, a serious situation. If that makes sense. Gotta clarify before someone goes off in the comments) but, back to the topic, they met me and now they're questioning so much of the things they do or of what they were programmed to be. Gender roles, style, religion, etc. It's ALWAYS good to explore and find out for yourself what you truly like, unattached to what society says. And if it looks bad, (hair) then you can always get a wig, wear a hat or a bandana, or get it cut a different way to look better (that pixie grow out stage is an ever present battle with mullets, so if mullets aren't your thing, trims are your new bff) or find new ways to style it. It takes about a year for my hair to grow out to my shoulders from completely shaved. My hair grows fast, but about a year, is where a pixie grows out into a bob. So what's a year of uncomfortability for a lifetime of the things you'll learn about yourself?
Low key have thought about cutting my hair shirt. I have long curly hair. Ive never had really short hair. Im so scared bc I dont wear my hair down ever, so it would be a total 360 change for me if i did decide to cut it 😬 your videos are awesome and inspiring tho!! Thank you for all the tips!
PENNY. As I said previously, I like your cut, P! Looks great. I have literally been going through the same thing this year. I chopped all my long curls because it was devastating to work on for my mental health. Then I got an actual haircut which did wonders for my confidence. Then! I went even shorter with a more traditionally masculine cut. Buzzed sides and long on top. Now I've been growing it out bc its winter and it's almost long enough now that I'll be able to style it the way you've been styling your hair since your first cut. I'm so happy that you're expressing yourself the way you want to. I've been doing the same! I got a vertical labret piercing and I have a huge back and shoulders tattoo in the works. I'm still designing it mentally and need to get pen to paper. Thanks for sharing your developments. I love seeing you
You look svelte Penny. Thank you for the tips. Yes, short curly hair sometimes is quite scary in the morning! Im sure you know this, but just conditioner wash to decrease shampoo use.
I had my hair cut short a couple days ago for so many of the reasons you listed. I guess I just wanted to discover my own hair possibilities. I bought into the long hair narrative for so long, not to mention the horrendous straightening routines I put myself through. I few anew, refreshed and loving ma curls! Your video speaks volumes to me. Thanks.
When I had my hair this short it represented a time when I didn't accept or love myself or my curls. Im glad you did this it feels like it healed a part of me too :) But growing out my hair made me accept it natural so I'll probably stay with it long for a bit longer.
I've been following you for a while now and used to have long curly hair, now that I did a pixie cut I feel so happy that I can still relate to you. You're absolutely right, long hair might be pretty but nothing beats the comfort and convenience of short/pixie curly hair.
I really loved my curly hair short. But culturally I was told it wasn't feminine or I didn't look beautiful. I then felt so unhappy with my hair. I grew it long and I hate how knotted it gets and the maintenance so I just put it in a bun. I really enjoyed how fun it was short and how creative I was with my hair. I'm so inspired now to cut it after watching this. You look so radiant and confident and it really shows!
Yooo thank you so much! I love how vulnerable you are and your honesty about…well everything lol! My hair is definitely at its longest and I really wanna donate it and I’m so nervous of going to someone That DOESNT know what they’re doing. Thank you for your advice Prima!!! Cuídate!!!!
I can relate sooo much! I also cut my hair very short this summer and I LOVE IT! I cant imagine going back to long curly hair for the moment! You look amazing!!!!
Another pro: you dont need that much stuff. No hairstyles, bobby pins, serums for split end or shine, hairspray... when its really short like a pixie no conditioner. Magic
Was NOT expecting you to get another haircut! It looks so nice! Was this before you got your tattoos or after? The beanie in the tattoo video and the long sleeves in this one are confusing me with the timeline 😂
Love it! I got a pixie cut, I went from long to short and my partner did it. He had never cut hair before and it was through quarantine, but he actually did an awesome job. I love my pixie and I agree, My hair now is an expression of how I feel inside and the wash days are so quick. So love your hair!
2 years ago I shaved off all my hair for fun, I was soo in love with it! Watching my curls growing out healthily again! I've been trying to grow my hair our past my shoulders but, this video REALLY made me miss the curly short hair life!! Time to do some thinking..
Penny I've watched your videos for years...... But when I watched today I saw an absolutely beautiful vivacious woman! Congrats on finding a freedom, strength and joy in expressing yourself!
You look gorgeous! I can see you with any type of haircut, down to buzzed sides and curly on top. You always look so elegant no matter what! But this shorter haircut really brings out your facial features which , now looking back, were drowing in your previous long hair. Gorgeous!!!
Pixie fits you so well!! You are 100% about getting the right person. When I had my first curly pixie 2 years ago, it was meh. On my 3rd cut I decided to go to my coworkers barber & he did an absolutely amazing job & I should’ve gone to him to begin with. Definitely going to chop all my hair off again and go SHORT, you’re so inspiring!
I totally agree with what you're saying in regards to hair length and identity and the "ideal" way to have your hair. I had a buzz cut for 3 years and I absolutely loved it. I'm now 8,5 months into growing it out and I can't decide if I want it long or to just keep it short (long pixie). Because as you say there are SO MANY pros to short hair! And long definitely doesn't equal feminine. I honestly felt so empowered and sexy with zero hair!
I absolutely loveee short hair. I think it is so beautiful and feminine, I prefer it on myself. You look so good with these cuts like its killing me. Also I love that maui moisturie line!!
Wow, just wow!!! Both cut look great on you! You look so great! And I liked what you said about long curly hair should not be a goal, not if you don't want too. If you want short hair, go for it!! 🔥
I LOVE your hair! I also went short about 3 years ago and I never looked back! My hair no longer curls, so I'm not part of the curly hair community but I love how easy it is to live with short hair. And now that my hair is so straight, the basic white girl Bob looks so good on me😄. I love how you've grown into a woman that you are proud of. I am on my way to becoming just that too❤ . Best wishes Penny💕
2:22 penny wtf this photo is already SO ICONIC??? This is the type of photo you show your grandchildren and say "see i told you i was hot back then" I follow you since your early curly hair days (you helped me so much with your videos) and of course you were always beautiful but the knew short hair makes you look really feminine and chic in my opinion! Its so inspiring seeing your journey growing! Lots of love
Really beautiful! I got a curly pixie myself 3 months ago (I trim it myself since then) and will try to style it the same way than you do cause I like it so much. Please make more videos on short curly hair! ❤
WOWWWW the extra short hair suits you sooo much, like I saw it in the thumbnail and was like oh cool but then i saw it again in the video and I was like OMG IT LOOKS SO GOOD
I absolutely LOVE your pixie cut! I think it suits your face shape more than your previous cut. But you look stunning anyway your hair is, cuz you're a queen! Thanks for showing us a tip on how to find good stylists. You inspired me to cut my hair and I was nervous about cutting it because I've never had a good cutting experience. Abrazotes!
Seeing you cut your hair was so refreshing. My hair wasn't as long as yours but it was long and a few weeks ago I cut it short. I have been saying that now I want it a little shorter and everyone thinks I'm crazy but here you go cutting yours even shorter. Now I'm definitely doing it. You look so FIERCE with your pixie cut! 🙏❤️
The daring, positive, and CONFIDENT energy is everything!!! Cutting your hair unleashed that BOSS BABE!!!! 🤍
Definitly. When I cut my hair into a pixie I felt like a model for sure
I agree 1000%
I couldn’t relate more to the idea that “my long curly hair is my identity”
I straight up didn’t want to cut my hair because I thought having long curly hair was my THING, but then I just said fuck it and chopped it all off and it’s so much healthier and fuller. You are actually the one who inspired me to even consider getting as much off as I did. I now am thriving with 15 inches less of my old self and I couldn’t be happier ❤️
This looks stunning with your face shape and makes your features stand out. Really classy, stylish look!
It def does 😍
Literally cut my hair after watching you cut yours! Best decision I ever made my confidence has just skyrocketed 💕 finally can appreciate my curly hair and love wearing it down!
Same experience here! 🙋♀️
Same!!
Same 🥰🤩
I did that before when Curly Suzie cut hers! OMG I was in the bathroom in 10 minutes cutting my hair! lol
Me too! 😂
I'm sure all my hairy girls here and maybe Penny can relate to this. I once asked the stylist to cut my hair in a short almost-pixie cut. This woman told me it's best not to, or I'll have to wax the hair behind my ears and neck because it will show with the short hair.THE NERVE. I was 15 at the time, and didn't really know how to stand up for myself, and she really brought my self-esteem down at the time. But now I just do whatever I want and cut my hair myself. AND I NEVER WAX THE HAIR BEHIND CAUSE I NEVER CARED ABOUT IT! I don't see it, I don't care for it lol
Yess when I was young I did the same thing but the hairdresser literally turn me away and refused to do it because she swore I would cry. I was SOOO mad I left her a bad review lol
I was told I had too strong of a jaw and not the right curl pattern for a pixie...
Girl i can relate way too much
I just read something about when a woman cuts her hair short, she's going through serious stuff or having a mental breakdown... dude. I love the fact that you and other women are smashing that assumption. I've literally lived the past 20 years in cycles - growing long then cutting super short. I love the drastic change and the freeing feeling you get when you chop it all off. I also was dedicated to donating virgin hair to places that create wigs for children and burn victims. There is a super awkward grow out phase with pixies. It lasts about 9-12 months if you have average to low hair growth rate (1/2-1/4" per month). But it allows you to get creative with your styles - or - have fun with wigs! I always though about shaving my head ever since I was a teenager after I saw a woman with her head shaved for the first time in my life. I thought she looked incredibly strong and brave and super cool. Finally, after 20 years, I did it myself. Yeah, I cheated a little bit because I buzzed it when the whole world shut down back in March 2020 - but I regret nothing! I absolutely loved it. The only thing that was keeping me from shaving it was the fear of what people would think, "OMG - she's having a mental breakdown" or "girl looks like a dude" or whatever. That fear was the tipping scale for me. It's been more than 19 months since the shave and I'm loving the grow out and have a waist - length goal in mind... but honestly.. I'll probably shave it again once I reach my goal or get sick of it along the way LOL. As long as you can stand the weird grow-out lengths... go for a shorter 'do if that's what you want to do. It's your hair and guess what - it grows back. PS - I'm sorta low key sus that Penny will shave her head one day 🔥
Something I would like to mention is that to some Indigenous peoples, cultures, and communities cutting your hair is for mourning of a loved one that has passed and can associated with some sadness. But it is an important act to do for healing and reclaiming of oneself after an traumatic experience.
I know someone that cut their long hair. It kept snagging on stuff and getting ripped out. Strands . It would hurt bad. So if by serious stuff means you are done getting strands of hair ripped out of your hair then yes they went through serious stuff. Plus their haired ties always disappeared. They found it easier just to have short hair. They found it better and they felt lighter too. Who knew long hair could be heavy.
thats why i cut my hait
I shaved my head for the heck of it. All the dumb ppl probably want me in the asylum lmao
Omg I get this comment so much xD
In the past 2 years I've been in a relationship with my actual bf and I have also started playing around more with my curly long hair. I dyed the inside Blue and later Red; then I dyed nearly all of it red and always cut it shorter than the previous time. The hairdresser (a very friendly lady) always asked me if everything was okay with my bf because of this thought of girls cutting their hair because of a sad period in their life. I always answered with a smile and told her I was fine because I just loved to try new styles now that I don't need to ask my mother's approval for dying it/cutting it. Yesterday I chopped them off (I showed the hairdresser the posts that I found on Instagram about ) and she just smiled and complemented the heck out of me. I have had a pixie cut since I was 3 to probably 8/9 years old, so I know how I look with short hair because my face didn't change an inch from when I was younger (I'm 21 currently).
Also good for you for shaving your hair and be proud of it! It's your hair and no one else's business ✨
I literally died when you showed us the finished results of your final cut. It looks. SO. DAMN. GORGEOUS; literally 🔥.
Short hair fits you so well :')
thank you
I think the most respectable thing about any type of professional is when they will actually tell you they’re not comfortable giving you what you asked for. I would recommend them to others just for being honest
Same!
I can definitely understand that perspective but it’s incredibly stigmatized for women to have short hair. Some hairstylists just can’t handle a strong woman with short hair. 😫
@@lexireis8431 but pressuring someone to not cut their hair and not specialising in short haircuts are two different things?
Girl, I love to see you grow into a happier, more confident version of yourself. You look stunning 💕
I got a pixie cut when I was 22… I had just gotten out of the hospital after a suicide attempt. And I cut my hair off because I felt like we’ll nothing matters and I want less things to worry about. It was fine … I straightened it a lot though. Then I went to get it re shaped and cut because the up keep is annoying. And this woman ruined my hair! She gave me a mullet before those where trendy. And I paid $60 for that trash. And I spent a whole year growing it back out. After that I never straightened my hair again and it’s past my chest. And I still don’t like to deal with it. Lol. I’m always in a constant battle. But I’m getting it cut in 2 weeks! Still don’t know what to do with it. We’ll see what happens. It looks mad cute on you though penny!
hair always grows back, i think it could be a good new chapter with ur hair!!
We all chop our hair in response to emotional trauma. I gave away all my perfumes( which I collect) when i was suicidal because exactly...you get no pleasure from anything anymore. Wish I still had some of those.
I manifest my neuroses by chopping at my hair I always think it's uneven or somethings wrong and either get it cut every 2 monrhs or chop at it myself. And never happy with it.
I really need to just let myself be.
I hope youre doing a lot better too.
If Penny likes her hair better short that's great. I just need to stop finding fault with my hair and let it grow for like 6 months .
I'm curious, how did the chop go?
I know it's been a while since you posted this but I wanted to say that I'm glad you're here today.❤️
I’m so glad you are still here ❤
I thought I loved your first haircut, then you did your second and OMG, it looks so cute! **Cries in Spanish** 😍🙌
I got a pixie cut almost five months ago and I absolutely love it so much. It’s a bit shorter than yours, think Twiggy or the actress from Harry Potter when she got her curly hair cut into a short pixie cut (I don’t know her name). Unfortunately I have to let my hair grow out because I can’t afford to get the trims every four weeks to maintain the style which I didn’t think of when I first got the hair cut because I didn’t know how in love with it I was gonna be. Having short hair has been wonderful and I’ve been recommending it to everyone to try at least once, the showers and not having to worry about hair is just amazing. I’m sad to have to grow it out because this style has finally made me feel like myself, long hair just isn’t me anymore, not even shoulder length. Maybe one day I will have the funds to keep up with the pixie haircut trims, fingers crossed.
Emma Watson for those who are confused or want to see a reference photo. Glad you’re enjoying your pixie cut! Makes me sad how many girls are afraid to try. :) you’re all an inspiration to me. I’ve had several pixie cuts due to dye and relaxers damaging my hair and people like you definitely helped me change the way I look at those situations. Sorry for being cheesy omlll but you’re awesome 😭 It genuinely makes me happy to see women speak so positively of their short hair
I cut my hair short yesterday so the timing of this video is a godsend. I still feel a bit overwhelmed with all of it gone, because like you said it’s almost like losing your identity. But seeing your confidence in this video inspires me! I think I’ll get to where you are!
My hair was very long, but extremely frizzy, curly with a ton of split ends, and super high maintenance. People told me I shouldn't cut it, I'll regret it, but that hasn't been the case. I 100% respect and understand your decision to go short, it's freeing and you can start from scratch caring for it.
I LOVE YOUR HAIR IN EVERY LENGTH! and I had a pixie cut twice cuz I've had long hair for at least 18 years of my life so once I've started cutting it I never stopped, it's addicting, it makes you feel good, and in control, and it's exciting to see how it will turn out.
Penny your videos are so unique and funny! I remember being here watching your videos 4 years ago on curly hair, me growing mine out as a guy. Its so great to see your channel grow, nothing but the best! Thanks for always being you!
you're gonna make me cry 😭❤
@@PennyTovar 🔥 🙌🏼 One of a kind 💎!!!
omg girl you look STUNNINGGG! welcome to the short curly hair gang 😜 I cant wait to see what styles you do with the new length
I’m loving your vibe when it comes to living your life and doing what’s best for you. Also, I’m def feeling your decorative pieces in the room your are filming! 👍🏽
I finally finished my house!!! Kinda wanna do a house tour
@@PennyTovar pleasee!!!! Although I initially found you for hair content, now that I know what I need to know I’m curious about your lifestyle, Devore, etc and because you are so real and entertaining please do a house tour and more content like that too!!
It looks so good! I love how your facial features really stand out with the short haircuts.
Honestly girl I love this cut even better than the first! It looks perfect on you love! Love the videos!
I cut my waist length curly hair into a pixie at the end of my senior year of high school, i didn't tell anyone before going to the salon because i knew they would try to convince me out of it! i knew what i wanted and it was the best decision! i spent the beginning of college, cutting it shorter and shorter, buzzing it off myself in my dorm, dying it colors and having fun. Now i'm a senior in college with a curly bob and i can't see myself having hair any longer than this for the rest of my life!
The new cut is stunning! I’ve had short pixie cuts all my life because I straightened and relaxed it so much it wouldn’t grow 🥲. Now 2 years into my transition and finally have curly healthy hair past my shoulders 🥳 it’s my time for long hair now in my late twenties 🤣💗
You have been one step behind me with your shorter haircuts and I 100% agree with you with the short curly hair lifestyle, I'm loving my hair lately. Better then when it was long.
I’ve had long curly hair my whole life, and just got into caring for my curls 2 years ago. Been wanting to try a short cut but have been terrified to take the leap. When you said your identity used to feel like it was tied to your long curls… god, I feel that, and I’m tired of feeling like if my curls aren’t long and frizz-free, then they’re not cute. It’s so hard to maintain and so stressful day to day.
Did u cut it?
Gurl, if you don't like to take care of a lot of hair it is way better to get a short cut, way easier to deal with. I used to just stick my hair in buns all the time or straighten it because it was absolutely awful looking because I didn't know how to take care of my hair because I was the only girl in my family with curly hair and I too only learned about how to take care of my hair a couple years ago. Take the freaking leap, you'll feel so much better and you'll have to use less of the expensive hair products that you need to take care of curly hair.
I'm getting a Pixie Cut in a couple of days. I'm going to a new place and I'm super excited because I have heard only good things. Thanks for helping me figure out what to do next!!! By the way, I'm almost 70 years old. I have subscribed to your channel and look forward to learning new things!!😜🤪😝
Love it !!! I’m one of those people who’s hair is straight at the roots and starts to wave/curl the longer is gets so my “pandemic journey” has been embracing my natural curl instead of straightening it into shape as I’ve done for the last 10+ years. It is a lot of effort, but I haven’t appreciated my hair as much as I do now that I know how to care for it. I tried a pixie cut, I’ve tried bangs, I’ve tried no bangs, I’ve tried long, short, and medium length. Nothing has given me as much satisfaction as just letting my natural curl form with the right wash/post-wash routine. I feel like a ball of static when I don’t give my hair the right care these days 😂
Glad you were able to embrace a style that works for you! Keep becoming the you that you always wanted to be 🙌
Yay! Welcome to the short curly hair club! This cut looks so f--king great on you!
I love all of this so much! I had my husband cut my long hair in January and I can't believe how easy curly hair life can be! I didn't realize what a stressor my long curly hair was in my life! During the pandemic, working as a nurse, my long hair just became a nuisance to me. I actually just keep wanting to go shorter!
Girl those STYLES THO!!!! Looks amazing, killing it
Girl, YES! I have long curly red hair (Princess Merida style) and I got massive shade when I chopped off my hair. The compliments just came to a halt. It was tough for me at first. It's like I relied on compliments to define my self worth. But I was having so much fun with my short hair! Granted, it was higher maintenance. I went through all the stages you went through and finally ended up at, I'm too broke to upkeep this massive weed on my head. I can't wait to chop my hair off again!
The slick look is STUNNING on you!! You’re really making me have *thoughts* about going short
Your hair is beautiful. I love the African women who have like, short hair cuts where you see their neck and it looks super elegant. You have the same sort of style here with the new cut. Love it! My goal is to still have it as long as yours used to be, down to the waist. Maybe an update of how to take care of hair would be really great penny ! 🙌🏼🥰
I love both lengths on you, the short-medium at the beginning and the pixie cut at the end. These types of haircuts look sooo good on you. Also, the curls look glossy and defined but really natural at the same time and love that chocolate colour on them...
Okayyyy Penny I see youuu at 2:21 👀🤌🏽👌🏽
I cut my curls to a really short pixie (the underside was shaved) in April and I'm currently growing it out. My hair was down to my rear end and I totally miss it 😢
Yessssss penny !!!! Welcome to the short hair gang !!!!!! Ive always have had long hair and the first time I got my pixie cut,I never looked back on having long hair
Girl you rock it! I decided one year ago cut my long hair just for try something different and I love it, I just can't imagine about going back to long hair again
Love your confidence ❤️
God, you’re gorgeous and I feel like the short hair helps to highlight your beautiful features way better than the long hair. I’m loving this hair journey for you 🖤😍
I totally agree! I have been trying to grow my hair out for the longest and I was been disappointed for years and felt not good enough. It wasn’t until recently that I decided to cut it pretty short and I’ve never been more confident
I appreciate you sm. I've had super short curls for the past year and I litterally never find anyone else who has curls that are actually short. Love the hair🥰
I've had every cut and color and done all the styles you could think of. I've got curls too. I grew up extremely poor though, so I got one haircut a year, and it would be a pixie cut, and then for a whole year, it would just grow. We didn't have the money to take care of my hair properly, we were on that 97 cent suave life yall. I didnt know what a leave in, or a mask was until I was like, almost 18. But as an adult I've really learned my hair and played around with it so much more. I just want to let yall know that it's so worth it to cut it all off even just one time, too see what it's like. As an AFAB person, so much of our femininity is tied to hair length and freeing yourself of that is so good. To truly have your femme energy come from within you and not something on the outside. It's a powerful journey that I wish for everyone. Even if you just grow it right back out and never cut it short again, it's still something that you've done to prove to yourself that long hair doesn't define you. Penny is so right about how long hair is the ideal but it should be a preference.
I believe the same for men, grow your hair out, even just once. It teaches you more about you as a person and what you like and introduces you to questioning those roles and stigmas we are fed based on our assigned genders. I have guy friends who only ever got one haircut their whole life cuz it's the cut their dad got, or the cut their mom picked. Then they met me and I'm very much a "if it makes you uncomfortable or scared, but it's not going to actually harm you, then it's a sign to just do it." (Obvs this is for things like hair length or trying new things like a new style or new food, etc. I do not encourage unsafe situations. If yall are uncomfy that's also a sign to stop if it's like, you know, a serious situation. If that makes sense. Gotta clarify before someone goes off in the comments) but, back to the topic, they met me and now they're questioning so much of the things they do or of what they were programmed to be. Gender roles, style, religion, etc. It's ALWAYS good to explore and find out for yourself what you truly like, unattached to what society says.
And if it looks bad, (hair) then you can always get a wig, wear a hat or a bandana, or get it cut a different way to look better (that pixie grow out stage is an ever present battle with mullets, so if mullets aren't your thing, trims are your new bff) or find new ways to style it.
It takes about a year for my hair to grow out to my shoulders from completely shaved. My hair grows fast, but about a year, is where a pixie grows out into a bob. So what's a year of uncomfortability for a lifetime of the things you'll learn about yourself?
AAAAAHHHH it looks soooo cute and sophisticated! Long curls are awesome, but short curls really are underrated. I love it ❤
The short curly hair suits you, I’m proud of you making that decision ! Wishing you the best 🖤
Low key have thought about cutting my hair shirt. I have long curly hair. Ive never had really short hair. Im so scared bc I dont wear my hair down ever, so it would be a total 360 change for me if i did decide to cut it 😬 your videos are awesome and inspiring tho!! Thank you for all the tips!
This was uploaded with perfect timing. I’m eating with nothing to watch.
Penny! Those pictures are amazing! Your confidence and courage were front and center. I loved your pictures.
This cut is amazing. It looks so good on you. Definitely gives mature "I got this" vibes.
PENNY. As I said previously, I like your cut, P! Looks great. I have literally been going through the same thing this year. I chopped all my long curls because it was devastating to work on for my mental health. Then I got an actual haircut which did wonders for my confidence. Then! I went even shorter with a more traditionally masculine cut. Buzzed sides and long on top. Now I've been growing it out bc its winter and it's almost long enough now that I'll be able to style it the way you've been styling your hair since your first cut. I'm so happy that you're expressing yourself the way you want to. I've been doing the same! I got a vertical labret piercing and I have a huge back and shoulders tattoo in the works. I'm still designing it mentally and need to get pen to paper. Thanks for sharing your developments. I love seeing you
You look svelte Penny. Thank you for the tips. Yes, short curly hair sometimes is quite scary in the morning! Im sure you know this, but just conditioner wash to decrease shampoo use.
I had my hair cut short a couple days ago for so many of the reasons you listed. I guess I just wanted to discover my own hair possibilities.
I bought into the long hair narrative for so long, not to mention the horrendous straightening routines I put myself through.
I few anew, refreshed and loving ma curls! Your video speaks volumes to me. Thanks.
When I had my hair this short it represented a time when I didn't accept or love myself or my curls. Im glad you did this it feels like it healed a part of me too :) But growing out my hair made me accept it natural so I'll probably stay with it long for a bit longer.
I've been following you for a while now and used to have long curly hair, now that I did a pixie cut I feel so happy that I can still relate to you. You're absolutely right, long hair might be pretty but nothing beats the comfort and convenience of short/pixie curly hair.
I love the way you speak and your humour 😍
I love these pixie cut videos, I've been going down this rabbit hole for past hour
The thumb nail alone had me smiling and screaming en Español 😁😊. Why your bad hair day still looking like a good one 😁
Hehe that face on the bad one LOL!
I really loved my curly hair short. But culturally I was told it wasn't feminine or I didn't look beautiful. I then felt so unhappy with my hair. I grew it long and I hate how knotted it gets and the maintenance so I just put it in a bun. I really enjoyed how fun it was short and how creative I was with my hair. I'm so inspired now to cut it after watching this. You look so radiant and confident and it really shows!
This shorter haircut is YESSSSS on you girl! I’m only sad that you feel like you have to defend cutting your hair. You look radiant.
You look absolutely beautiful. Curly pixies are just stunning and if definitely suits you.
Yooo thank you so much! I love how vulnerable you are and your honesty about…well everything lol! My hair is definitely at its longest and I really wanna donate it and I’m so nervous of going to someone That DOESNT know what they’re doing. Thank you for your advice Prima!!! Cuídate!!!!
I can relate sooo much! I also cut my hair very short this summer and I LOVE IT! I cant imagine going back to long curly hair for the moment! You look amazing!!!!
Another pro: you dont need that much stuff. No hairstyles, bobby pins, serums for split end or shine, hairspray... when its really short like a pixie no conditioner. Magic
Omg… you had me laughing the whole time!!! The short hair looks really good on you!
Was NOT expecting you to get another haircut! It looks so nice! Was this before you got your tattoos or after? The beanie in the tattoo video and the long sleeves in this one are confusing me with the timeline 😂
Yes I was hiding it under the beanie 🙈
Love it! I got a pixie cut, I went from long to short and my partner did it. He had never cut hair before and it was through quarantine, but he actually did an awesome job. I love my pixie and I agree, My hair now is an expression of how I feel inside and the wash days are so quick. So love your hair!
The bold energy and super classy! You radiate with this haircut man! I had a pixie cut and I loved it! Growing out phase was the real enemy
2 years ago I shaved off all my hair for fun, I was soo in love with it! Watching my curls growing out healthily again! I've been trying to grow my hair our past my shoulders but, this video REALLY made me miss the curly short hair life!! Time to do some thinking..
Penny I've watched your videos for years...... But when I watched today I saw an absolutely beautiful vivacious woman! Congrats on finding a freedom, strength and joy in expressing yourself!
You look gorgeous! I can see you with any type of haircut, down to buzzed sides and curly on top. You always look so elegant no matter what! But this shorter haircut really brings out your facial features which , now looking back, were drowing in your previous long hair. Gorgeous!!!
omg beautiful queen!!! the purple shirt and short hair at end is giving Rizzo from Grease. Love it!
Pixie fits you so well!! You are 100% about getting the right person. When I had my first curly pixie 2 years ago, it was meh. On my 3rd cut I decided to go to my coworkers barber & he did an absolutely amazing job & I should’ve gone to him to begin with. Definitely going to chop all my hair off again and go SHORT, you’re so inspiring!
YOUR NEW HAIR CUT LOOKS SO GOOD ON YOU OMGGGG YOU LOOK SO EMPOWERED AND BEAUTIFUL!!!! 💕
So WILD I’ve followed you since I was first learning about my own curly hair.. never thought I’d see you with curly hair omg
You are absolutely gorgeous. I'm thinking of going back to short curly hair and love both of your haircuts. Thank you
I totally agree with what you're saying in regards to hair length and identity and the "ideal" way to have your hair. I had a buzz cut for 3 years and I absolutely loved it. I'm now 8,5 months into growing it out and I can't decide if I want it long or to just keep it short (long pixie). Because as you say there are SO MANY pros to short hair! And long definitely doesn't equal feminine. I honestly felt so empowered and sexy with zero hair!
The new pixie is gorgeous! I had A similar curly hair experience so I love to see it!
I absolutely loveee short hair. I think it is so beautiful and feminine, I prefer it on myself. You look so good with these cuts like its killing me. Also I love that maui moisturie line!!
I love you with short curly hair!looks amazing and very refined
Wow, just wow!!! Both cut look great on you! You look so great! And I liked what you said about long curly hair should not be a goal, not if you don't want too. If you want short hair, go for it!! 🔥
I love the new short hair! It's very cute, on you. I know it's got to feel so FREE to shake curls and go. Lol. Love it
I LOVE yr hair long and especially Short… Came here from here messy hair bun video and enjoyed yr hair advice!
I am literally in love with your hair. Like. I have no words
Penny - I LOVE this look! Your hair is NOT your identity! You are a beautiful person all around!
I LOVE your hair! I also went short about 3 years ago and I never looked back! My hair no longer curls, so I'm not part of the curly hair community but I love how easy it is to live with short hair. And now that my hair is so straight, the basic white girl Bob looks so good on me😄. I love how you've grown into a woman that you are proud of. I am on my way to becoming just that too❤ . Best wishes Penny💕
2:22 penny wtf this photo is already SO ICONIC??? This is the type of photo you show your grandchildren and say "see i told you i was hot back then"
I follow you since your early curly hair days (you helped me so much with your videos) and of course you were always beautiful but the knew short hair makes you look really feminine and chic in my opinion! Its so inspiring seeing your journey growing! Lots of love
thank you so much!!
You look so freakn Good!!! With short curly hair
I’ve had a pixie cut and I freakn loved it!!!! My curls looks so amazing and i felt fabulous
Really beautiful! I got a curly pixie myself 3 months ago (I trim it myself since then) and will try to style it the same way than you do cause I like it so much.
Please make more videos on short curly hair! ❤
I loved the first haircut but this one looks even better!! You are totally rocking short, curly hair ❤️
I loved the first haircut too but it was growing too fast!
It's sooooo beautiful on you! Very elegant, chill, and chic!
WOWWWW the extra short hair suits you sooo much, like I saw it in the thumbnail and was like oh cool but then i saw it again in the video and I was like OMG IT LOOKS SO GOOD
Your hair looks FANTASTIC!!! You look very sophisticated. Really brings out your beautiful facial features. Good choice 👍
I absolutely LOVE your pixie cut! I think it suits your face shape more than your previous cut. But you look stunning anyway your hair is, cuz you're a queen! Thanks for showing us a tip on how to find good stylists. You inspired me to cut my hair and I was nervous about cutting it because I've never had a good cutting experience. Abrazotes!
GURRLL
YOU COULD ROCK ANY STYLE!!!
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL ANY WAY.
Wow! That curly pixie cut looks awesome on you! You look great giiiirl! 😊
Seeing you cut your hair was so refreshing. My hair wasn't as long as yours but it was long and a few weeks ago I cut it short. I have been saying that now I want it a little shorter and everyone thinks I'm crazy but here you go cutting yours even shorter. Now I'm definitely doing it. You look so FIERCE with your pixie cut! 🙏❤️
Oh my god you look gorgeous! The reveal at the end ! I’m not sure why this popped up on my homepage but this hairstyle was made for you.
Penny you are so unbelievably beautiful and your vibes and approach to life is admirable!
I love this new look on you Penny ! It makes your facial features glow even more!
I love how u make every video truly Valuable! With a comedy sense 🚀🤍
Your look and energy in this video is unmatched! You seem so effortless and comfortable, who is sheee
Every new video your hair looks even better and you look even happier it's wonderful to watch!