If I have a fake marriage and children to take care of my old as friend and her bad relationships is not going to take priority, Karlie needs a reality check. She needs everyone’s attention 24/7 and she’s like 60, grow tf up
This is an excellent example of not getting defensive and actually listening to what someone is saying, i need to study this video because im extremely defensive, i can learn alot from The way Yandy handled this situation.
It's a journey. Remember that we can understand why someone says or does something without agreeing with their decisions. Our actions and words can affect people negatively without a harmful intent. Because we don't mean to say or do something hurtful, it doesn't mean that it won't be hurtful to the receiver. It comes down to, "I understand why my actions made you feel that way, and I apologize for hurting you." You have to be willing to understand other perspectives without feeling attacked, or as if you're being told that you are wrong. Choose patience, temperance, and understanding.🙏🏾
@@KickinItWithKrysexcellent reply. I’d like to add from my personal journey, grace is a powerful tool. Grace for yourself and others. Once you embody grace, it’s a different ballgame in handling defensiveness. Remember when you’re being intentional with changing, the devil is going to be ret there trying to distract you. Good luck! You got this!
Karlie might be messy, but she do always try to be supportive to all her friends. I like Yandy, but this is like the 4th person who has called her out for not being supportive. I understand everyone goes through things and have to deal with it the best way they can.
Yandy is such a great person inside and out,and she takes responsibility,now that she knows she will do better by karlie❤and they can heal and mend their friendship
Karlie has the same rhetoric for spice Shauna. Bambi mama D Rasheeda poo and the list goes on There is a stability issue going on and the producers need to step in and help her ❤
I like that Yandy stepped back and looked at the situation from Karlie’s point of view and owned up to her shit. I’m not a Yandy fan at all but I give all their props when deserved.
That’s real friendship. A long lasting friendship…. Ups and downs just like any other relationship. I’m glad that Karly shared her truth and Yandy was receptive. Beautiful friendship
Ok so honestly Karlie has been messy with situation but yes she has been there through all of that she has been a good fiend to people she just wants the same in return that is all . Renni has been there as much as her can that is good also though
Man look.....we have personal struggles in OUR OWN everyday life. I love the friends I have because we don't have to speak all the time to know we love each other!
I really admire Yandy. Her growth has been impressive asf to watch and she’s really become an amazing woman. We all have flaws and she still does too, but her progress is GREAT. I’m happy for her ❤
Karlie STOP GETTING PLASTIC SURGERY...YOU LOOK CRAZY...LEAVE YOUR FACE ALONE🗣 TF! Love how Yandy feels where Karlie is coming from when it comes to how Karlie feels
I think this is the first time producers have shown anyone receive Karlie's feelings and perspective in a healthy manner, and while inventorying their own actions to help comprehend. This, opposed to invalidating Karlie's feelings and blaming her for an issue in totality, without trying understanding her viewpoint.
🤔 Why is it always the same 4 ( new girl makes 5) women on the show, that have emotional issues with their friends? Now it's Yandy's turn to go through it. These women are draining 😩🤦🏽♀️!
❤❤❤❤🎉🎉 YES 🙌🏾 A REAL WOMAN TAKES RESPONSIBILITY I LOVE YOU ❤FATHER GOD 🙏🏾 I AM SO PROUD OF YOU YANDY STANDING IN THE TRUTH 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💯🌹GOD BLESS YOU & KARLIE🙏🏾🙏🏾🌹🌹💪🏾💪🏾💯💯🌟🌟🪽🪽🪽🪽🪽🪽🪽🧚🏾🧚🏾🙏🏾
I was so glad to see Yandy take accountability...We are human and go through our own struggles..We don't consistently do what we know to be right.. However, this shows acknowledgement and a good start towards a better direction!
accountability!!! ❤❤❤ a friend telling you that you haven’t been a good friend. LOYAL!!! karlie always been a real one!!! regardless of mfs wanting to call her messy or whatever!!! she is real with shii. idc what anyone says. karlie still looks beautiful for her age. IMO ❤❤❤
Karlie needs to go already. I think she is loosing her bar narrative and stretching anything to hold onto the shows value Is she ok or does she need to consider therapy for a while then return to the show I think she needs a mental brake from the show it’s showing it’s getting to be too much for her
Yandy doesn't care about anyone but herself 🙄 She's only admitting this because, no matter how messy Karlie is, she knows everyone likes Karlie and she's a fan favorite 😏
Good job Yandy on validating your friends feelings. If my friend told me that , I would definitely hope to have the same reaction. I care even if I’m wrong.
Of course Karlie been the one reaching out she doesn’t have anything else going on Yandy has multiple businesses children a husband and she’s heavy on volunteering we are to grown for this
That was a bag apologize I'm sorry you feel that way or I'm sorry you feel like that no Dont talk about the how it made the person feel apologize for what you did. “I” language vs. “You” language there's a difference. Everyone should take communications class. It's amazing thank you professor Porter.
But that's just the thing, we all get caught up in our lives, what I loved about this was that instead of avoiding accountability or running from the the possibility of being wrong, Yandy checked herself 👏👏👏
Its ok yandy we all get caught up in our own stuff
Yandy get caught up in self most ot the time. She doesn't even include her husband. She should have married her cousin
Agreed...life be life-ing...Karlie is a needy friend she shows that every season
Ya
We are adults and it happens.
Right. Sometimes people need to realize they ain’t the only ones going thru stuff.
I like that yandy is able to not be defensive about it and hold herself accountable here
Yandy is a REAL ONE
yess
Because it’s not her normal…they’ve been saying stuff like this about her since season 1
If I have a fake marriage and children to take care of my old as friend and her bad relationships is not going to take priority, Karlie needs a reality check. She needs everyone’s attention 24/7 and she’s like 60, grow tf up
@@meriah10facts tho
It takes a real person to admit their own mistakes I love that!!!
I agree
I love Yandy❤❤
Exactly
Ya
Yeah but she still won’t admit to the wrong she’s done to Samantha
I'm glad Yandy acknowledged Karlie feelings ❤❤❤
She didn't accept what karlie said from the begining. Yandy Kirk and Rasheed been bowing to spice and not holding her or no one else accountable
@estherfarris3802 say that again
@@estherfarris3802 you're slow because she obviously 🥴 acknowledged what Karlie had to say...
Yandy is aging so gracefully. She’s gorgeous.
I love and can't stand her at the same time 😂 but she does get better with age.
GIRL.. that’s money!
She is stunning in person I swear she doesn’t age
Black don’t crack 😊
Yes looks way better than spice n karlie. Sierra blowfish
Karlie didn't need all that work done to her face and lips.
Right. She looks like Lala Anthony lately...all botched up
Yeah she look like Hazel E now 😂😂🤦🏾♀️
She was abused really badly.
At all!
@@diamond_queen111 By who??? R u talking about physically abused?
I respect Yandy’s Accountability and honesty ❤
Wow! How mature! To take accountability like that is amazing! I hope their friendship gets back on track.🙏🏾❤
“The owning up part is everything” 😍
This is an excellent example of not getting defensive and actually listening to what someone is saying, i need to study this video because im extremely defensive, i can learn alot from The way Yandy handled this situation.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Same
It's a journey.
Remember that we can understand why someone says or does something without agreeing with their decisions.
Our actions and words can affect people negatively without a harmful intent. Because we don't mean to say or do something hurtful, it doesn't mean that it won't be hurtful to the receiver.
It comes down to, "I understand why my actions made you feel that way, and I apologize for hurting you."
You have to be willing to understand other perspectives without feeling attacked, or as if you're being told that you are wrong.
Choose patience, temperance, and understanding.🙏🏾
@@KickinItWithKrysexcellent reply. I’d like to add from my personal journey, grace is a powerful tool. Grace for yourself and others. Once you embody grace, it’s a different ballgame in handling defensiveness. Remember when you’re being intentional with changing, the devil is going to be ret there trying to distract you. Good luck! You got this!
Karlie might be messy, but she do always try to be supportive to all her friends. I like Yandy, but this is like the 4th person who has called her out for not being supportive. I understand everyone goes through things and have to deal with it the best way they can.
Well I’ll be damned! She actually acknowledged someone’s feelings that growth .
Right! It’s about Damn Time!
I love Yandys growth❤
I love how yandy admitted her faults
Yandy is such a great person inside and out,and she takes responsibility,now that she knows she will do better by karlie❤and they can heal and mend their friendship
You will see !!!
Yandy, your the realest, because at least you listen and understood, stay blessed 🙏🏽, you are a good friend please don’t forget it 💯
I have so much love for Yandy!! She took the time to listen and think about the situation. She can openly admit that in front of everyone... 🥰❤️❤️
The blessing is that you can see that, and you are being honest with the whole thing.
Owe it and change it❤❤❤❤❤
Real friends are hard to come by😢
Yandy is everything
I wish more friends were like this.
I don’t like yandy but Karlie seems super co-dependent. It’s so weird and clingy
Yes!!
I'm pretty sure yandy doesn't care one bit about you not liking her considering you don't even know her personally..
@@MarquishaFreeman6043 RIGHT!! 👏🏾😭
Agreed
Yeah, I totally agree with you! She was clingy with Spice too.
Dang ok yandy being accountable i live for this
Yandy that wig is slay
Love it Yandy taking accountability ❤❤
Finally she admits to something! Never thought I would see day... 👏🏽💯
Yandy's corset in that confessional is sooo cute 🔥🔥💙
Karlie has the same rhetoric for spice Shauna. Bambi mama D Rasheeda poo and the list goes on
There is a stability issue going on and the producers need to step in and help her ❤
About time she is taking accountability and not giving out the What? Me, I didn't realize that.
Yandy is a real woman! Love the accountability
I like that Yandy stepped back and looked at the situation from Karlie’s point of view and owned up to her shit. I’m not a Yandy fan at all but I give all their props when deserved.
It’s crazy yandy can hear her friends out and take accountability but can’t do it with her man
Love that Yandy never played with her face nor skintone she's aging beautifully
Yandy says "There has been so much going on with me and Mendecees" Well that's nothing new at all.
The fact that they are able to have this conversation and there was some accountability is absolutely amazing. Everything is not always conflict
That’s real friendship. A long lasting friendship…. Ups and downs just like any other relationship. I’m glad that Karly shared her truth and Yandy was receptive. Beautiful friendship
Awww when she said " It's been Me reaching out for LOVE😢😢❤❤" that hit
Ok so honestly Karlie has been messy with situation but yes she has been there through all of that she has been a good fiend to people she just wants the same in return that is all . Renni has been there as much as her can that is good also though
Ok and not one has to tolerate that messiness when it begins to affect them not matter how innocent are
Exactly...
I love that she wasn’t being defensive she just accepted the fact that her friend might be right.
You brought it back, I love this, remind me of those early 2000s entertaining MTV shows style. I enjoyed this 😂😂😂😂😂
Man look.....we have personal struggles in OUR OWN everyday life. I love the friends I have because we don't have to speak all the time to know we love each other!
Dope that she acknowledged her feelings honestly
I really admire Yandy. Her growth has been impressive asf to watch and she’s really become an amazing woman. We all have flaws and she still does too, but her progress is GREAT. I’m happy for her ❤
When is karlie going to realize those girls don’t like her
That's what you interpreted from Yandy's response?
I’m loving ur attentiveness yandi
Glad someone called Yandy out and held her accountable
Karlie always plays victim as if other people aren't having their own issues it's not all about her.
I love how she came correct and checked herself and did a quick self inventory and took accountability ❤
At least she was able to receive what her friend was telling her without getting defensive and making excuses. Kudos to Yandy!🙏🏾
Yandy ring is amazing 💍
Me and my bestfriend went thru this same exact thing and honestly you have to learn how to give people grace and be patient.
Karli done messed her face upppp
Up up!🤦
Karlie STOP GETTING PLASTIC SURGERY...YOU LOOK CRAZY...LEAVE YOUR FACE ALONE🗣 TF!
Love how Yandy feels where Karlie is coming from when it comes to how Karlie feels
I’m so proud of you karlie I love you❤
I like how she can admit when she's wrong... That takes a grown up! 🥰
the only time she's owned up n apologized to anyone😂 even she knows not to piss off carly redd💀
So proud to know you can take accountability ❤
I love Yandy's response. Accountability. ❤🙏🏾🌈🦋💜
I like Yandy and respect her. I love KarlieRedd hope they work thru it. They both going through
Begging her if you have to beg for someone friendship they are not Worth it
Yandy knows what she be doing she's to sneaky!!you got to call het out
Oh this is the Karlie meta verse face lol
They always do Karlie like that she messy but she need somebody that got her back today and tomorrow
Yandy being accountable is so grown of her love her
I think this is the first time producers have shown anyone receive Karlie's feelings and perspective in a healthy manner, and while inventorying their own actions to help comprehend.
This, opposed to invalidating Karlie's feelings and blaming her for an issue in totality, without trying understanding her viewpoint.
It's easy to get caught up in your own issues at least she's acknowledging it
They do treat Karlie wrong. Karlie really does try to be a friend to all of those girls.
yandy looks so cute
It’s the accountability for me Yandy. 👏🏾👏🏾 Mature ppl take accountability.
Yandy doesn’t have to explain her disconnect it happens Karlie always wants to be the center of attention in everyone’s life no mame
Tandy sitting up there in the purple with her braids out under her wig slaying literally slaying !
It was irritating to watch Yandy act like they she haven’t been happily on spice side. Rashida too 🙄
🤔 Why is it always the same 4 ( new girl makes 5) women on the show, that have emotional issues with their friends? Now it's Yandy's turn to go through it. These women are draining 😩🤦🏽♀️!
Yandy is growing up because iykyk she doesn't apologize 😮 about anything just always acts so oblivious all the time
They all picked a side aside Renni and Bambi
❤❤❤❤🎉🎉
YES 🙌🏾 A REAL WOMAN
TAKES RESPONSIBILITY
I LOVE YOU ❤FATHER GOD 🙏🏾
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU YANDY STANDING IN THE TRUTH 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💯🌹GOD BLESS YOU & KARLIE🙏🏾🙏🏾🌹🌹💪🏾💪🏾💯💯🌟🌟🪽🪽🪽🪽🪽🪽🪽🧚🏾🧚🏾🙏🏾
She owned up to it and that’s what a friend does. 🆒
Yandy always lost 😂 bring back Chrissy 😂
I was so glad to see Yandy take accountability...We are human and go through our own struggles..We don't consistently do what we know to be right.. However, this shows acknowledgement and a good start towards a better direction!
Thats why I love me some Yandy , she loves and support whoever needs if she's able.She is a real ass chick.
The first time I ever heard Yandy take accountability
I love the accountability
At least she sees it. Sometimes life gets in the way, and you gotta catch up on a friend
Karlie been laughing at everybody for 10 years now she’s crying .. true meaning of “Laugh Now & Cry Later”
I like how YANDY Kept That Shut a BUCK💜
Much respect to those. Who own their wrong.......
Karlie messed her face up
accountability!!! ❤❤❤
a friend telling you that you haven’t been a good friend. LOYAL!!! karlie always been a real one!!! regardless of mfs wanting to call her messy or whatever!!! she is real with shii. idc what anyone says. karlie still looks beautiful for her age. IMO ❤❤❤
Karlie needs to go already. I think she is loosing her bar narrative and stretching anything to hold onto the shows value
Is she ok or does she need to consider therapy for a while then return to the show I think she needs a mental brake from the show it’s showing it’s getting to be too much for her
I agree she's definitely reaching. Her storylines are all about not being able to keep friends.
Yandy doesn't care about anyone but herself 🙄 She's only admitting this because, no matter how messy Karlie is, she knows everyone likes Karlie and she's a fan favorite 😏
I love when yandy talk the truth love it❤
Here goes Yandy doing what she does best… playing dumb.😂😂😂
That part
I can’t stand when she does this and this what rah was saying
I like that Yandy took accountability ❤❤❤
Big up to Yandy acknowledging Karlie's pain despite going thru her own hell. I hope Karlie RECIPROCATES that energy!
Good job Yandy on validating your friends feelings. If my friend told me that , I would definitely hope to have the same reaction. I care even if I’m wrong.
Yandy was so sweet of saying how she feel that's a real woman so much love to you and her❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Of course Karlie been the one reaching out she doesn’t have anything else going on Yandy has multiple businesses children a husband and she’s heavy on volunteering we are to grown for this
Accountability I love that
That was a bag apologize I'm sorry you feel that way or I'm sorry you feel like that no Dont talk about the how it made the person feel apologize for what you did. “I” language vs. “You” language there's a difference. Everyone should take communications class. It's amazing thank you professor Porter.
But that's just the thing, we all get caught up in our lives, what I loved about this was that instead of avoiding accountability or running from the the possibility of being wrong, Yandy checked herself 👏👏👏
Glad Karlie stood up, glad yandy acknowledged her wrong 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼