Relationships maar daalege!

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  • @devanshisharma8345
    @devanshisharma8345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    A bad relationship at early age can push you to achieve the best version of you...all depends upon where u focus either on the hurt or the lesson ...✨✨

  • @advocatejitendrachapagain5128
    @advocatejitendrachapagain5128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    The Hard truth.....
    Don't be in romantic relationship untill you get settle. Otherwise, it will definitely slow you down. Mark my words.
    Everything has it time.
    Dont take me otherwise.
    And thank you so much sir for taking this kind of topic and sharing your perception. Very beautifully said.

    • @chakarpabhutan9300
      @chakarpabhutan9300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You give more practical ways than theorical ☺️.. appreciated for that sir

    • @studentscare5658
      @studentscare5658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      correct bilkul correct

    • @pritiraj5875
      @pritiraj5875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

    • @shivangchauhan820
      @shivangchauhan820 ปีที่แล้ว

      But how to make ourselves understand?

    • @prabhudasrangari9292
      @prabhudasrangari9292 ปีที่แล้ว

      And when you get settled you get divorced because all you know is how to earn money and dont know how to have a beuatiful conversion and relationship..

  • @hritikrajputt5977
    @hritikrajputt5977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +635

    Relationship destroyed me, but somehow i managed to survive and now i became a better version of myself and I'm in love with myself.

    • @smitakamate2813
      @smitakamate2813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That's very very important!😀

    • @prakharsaxena2895
      @prakharsaxena2895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Might be that destruction made u who u are now ,so don't blame Ur relationship for that ......

    • @luckyboygyana
      @luckyboygyana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Friends and love both destroyed me
      I was under severe depression .but now I am bouncing back ,I will definitely succeed in this .

    • @prakharsaxena2895
      @prakharsaxena2895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luckyboygyana great

    • @sayani4852
      @sayani4852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luckyboygyana Same

  • @kaushikkalita2210
    @kaushikkalita2210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Aftr 7 years of being in a relationship ,it failed last year and at the end made me more strong , Now I am happy with myself ,going to gym regularly , focusing on my career and taking care of my parents ❤️

    • @priyankamane1741
      @priyankamane1741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      More power to you ..keep it up.

    • @zhirrk
      @zhirrk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Howw did you get the power to move on please help

    • @studytime8961
      @studytime8961 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@zhirrkacceptance

  • @alokkumar-wu1vp
    @alokkumar-wu1vp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    Because of a bad relationship I lost everything, like career, everyone's trust, image.
    I am constantly in depression for almost 10 years. Now I have regret for wasting my precious time and energy....par mai bhi bahut ziddi hoon. I never quit on myself. I am building my life again. Trying to get the emotional balance.
    Chetan sir has said everything right in the video. I can relate every word of him.
    People never value your commitment for them. Don't underestimate the evil power of an undeserving relationship for destroying your emotional health. It is not easy to get the original emotional set-up back after a ruined one. Value your self first. Be selfish in life if you want to be happy. And fu*k Bollywood romantic dramas.....

    • @alokkumar-wu1vp
      @alokkumar-wu1vp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Kunal Vashi yes, you r right.

    • @ChetanBhagat1
      @ChetanBhagat1  3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      All the best! You got this!

    • @learn.with.me24
      @learn.with.me24 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @kunalvanshi ,@alok kumar yes offcourse our family is everything and they love unconditionally ❤️

    • @sonalideo8276
      @sonalideo8276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Best wishes to you 👍

    • @worship1716
      @worship1716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mai apki emotions smjh rhi hun mere sath bhi yhi hua hai bro.. itne years mere brbd ho gye relationship k wjhse,depression m chli jti hun br br.. smjh nhi ata hai restart karun..kaise

  • @animesh4627
    @animesh4627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    TBH I never connected with your books, but I am connecting so well with your videos. Loving these videos.

    • @AK-mh4ek
      @AK-mh4ek 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tbh means

    • @animesh4627
      @animesh4627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AK-mh4ek "To be honest"

    • @ChetanBhagat1
      @ChetanBhagat1  3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Glad you like them!

  • @raginisharma9302
    @raginisharma9302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It destroyed me - took me 2 years to get back to my normal self..wish I had this advice before. Having said that, I didn't let that affect my career so that kept me going!

    • @nitinbankar6571
      @nitinbankar6571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same goes for me yaar!
      It took me 2 nd half yr..

  • @meenakshialugh6088
    @meenakshialugh6088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bdia h Chetan ji,God bless you 🙏jb hm smjh bhi jate h ki yeh person sahi nhi h hmare liy to pichha kaise chhuday

  • @shiromanimeena7117
    @shiromanimeena7117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Thank you so much...going through the same thing right now...needed something like this at this moment. "Put yourself first" is actually what we need to do❤️

    • @ashishchoudhary4451
      @ashishchoudhary4451 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      no it will make you selfish 🤗🤗

    • @paint-o-meter4834
      @paint-o-meter4834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ask chetan sir specifically, i
      He didnt mean that.
      Yes this is selfishness.

  • @pritiraj5875
    @pritiraj5875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    It spoiled my 4 golden years 😭
    And gave me so many lessons, few guilts & fear of trust/relationships...🙂

    • @simplelife7467
      @simplelife7467 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes same happened to me dd😍but now I am struggling to strong

  • @puza3964
    @puza3964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    It's very true no one will remember how many times you helped them but people will always taunt for that one time when u were not able to help them . It has happened to me many times .

  • @anjali7926
    @anjali7926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The most important relationship is our relationship with ourselves.

    • @unknownhacker5298
      @unknownhacker5298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah you may be right theoretically, but in real world I got the tag of "Selfish" for keeping myself happy first.

  • @pragatichoudhary7576
    @pragatichoudhary7576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    this is what i needed. well, people around me have mostly destroyed me, but I guess the time is here to be there for myself first. thankyou sir for this. 😊❤

  • @ravishankarpandey2412
    @ravishankarpandey2412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Relationship distracts us from our goal, our family expect us lots that cost our careers

  • @tripuresh8309
    @tripuresh8309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    I invested 5 year in my relationship and the moral of story is that I lost my optimistic approach towards life.. there was lackness of mutualism... People just want your help.. but no one will be there for you... If it is relationship then WE help each other to fullfill OUR dreams but this is very rare. In case your life is unbalanced no love will be with you .. You have to strangulate your emotion.. and fight with all negativity lonely... So what I found that No love is above your happiness and if that person is really made for you He or She must respect you.. or atleast not will be a selfish one

    • @shridhartiwatane7941
      @shridhartiwatane7941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True one brother

    • @zanybhr7696
      @zanybhr7696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Too much of expectations dude. Expectations destroy you

    • @tripuresh8309
      @tripuresh8309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@zanybhr7696 well in intellectual way it's okay to say that but practically condition is not like that...even If you Bow down to GOD that too with a purpose i.e. his blessing or for your mental peace . Similarly world without expectations is hypothetically true

    • @rupeshkumarpradhan2449
      @rupeshkumarpradhan2449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pehele ye questions puchhna jaruri hai ki wo pyaar hai ya nehi , bahat baar hum assume kar lete hain ki kisika sath ,kisike liye care , interest ,ya feelings jo hume roke wo pyaar hai.

    • @alokkumar-wu1vp
      @alokkumar-wu1vp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true...I can feel you. People say that Alok is very helpful and generous. He takes care of everyone. But in the bad hour everyone shows their back. It's been 10 years when she had cheated on me. Now at the age of 30 I don't dare to attach my feelings to anyone. Emotionally drained completely!

  • @payaldhumal4455
    @payaldhumal4455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    Can we just take a min to admire how beautiful the view in the background of all his videos are ! 😂❤️

    • @MasterSatya_Kvs
      @MasterSatya_Kvs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sure sure comfortably ..We have whole months long coz of lock down ...lol

    • @ChetanBhagat1
      @ChetanBhagat1  3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

      thank u so much! I do actually try to find great spots, so it feels nice to see people notice that!

    • @ayushheda1
      @ayushheda1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I don't noticed it, since I got mesmerized in the treasure he is sharing..

    • @MasterSatya_Kvs
      @MasterSatya_Kvs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ayushheda1
      Yes bro right ..our perspective differ .some people neither see the scenic beauty nor the message I was sharing in my video ..they just talk about grammatical mistakes .

    • @neevgrover007
      @neevgrover007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't focus on the lockdown, focus on his words!😁😁

  • @paruljindal9303
    @paruljindal9303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I put in all my energy and efforts into a relationship which was almost nothing for the person i loved with all my heart.. at last i withdrew, i miss him but i surely know that being alone is much better than being unwanted.. and u r very right chetan sir❤️

  • @shwetamadhre4324
    @shwetamadhre4324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Relationship destroyed me very badly and took 5 months of mine to become conscious person again but today I felt so good because only pain can give this lesson. This is priceless and everyone should experience once in a life to become more stronger 💪 It's worth it. I lost my time ( which was priceless) and got a lessons ( which is priceless) .... Seriously too much expensive 😬😌

  • @sheetalbhanu7566
    @sheetalbhanu7566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Relashionships are not easy and can destroy u completely.....What a true video....love your content Chetan Bhagat

  • @samarshem
    @samarshem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir zindagi m pahli baar aisha lg rha hai ki kuch achha seekh rha hu apki video ko dekh kr
    Thank u sir.
    Love uu♥️♥️♥️

  • @ShivamKumar-fq8tb
    @ShivamKumar-fq8tb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    My relationship is going on since 4 years .Many hurdles came but we managed them,and still we are one.

  • @abhishek.gautam2
    @abhishek.gautam2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Sir, what I learned from this video is "Be the best version of Yourself" #LoveYourself❤️

  • @sunnykumar-uu2vd
    @sunnykumar-uu2vd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes sir 😍😍

  • @kouagni656
    @kouagni656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir app hamesha hum jashe youngsters ke muh ki bat chin late ho... Sir for us you are the"YOUTH AMBASSADOR OF INDIA". Massive Respect from West Bengal to you sir....

  • @rashmikumari8774
    @rashmikumari8774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    ''Put Yourself First'' is the bestest part of the video.
    Thank you sir 😊

  • @8yearsand645
    @8yearsand645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I came here for watch this video again because one of my friend is broken after her breakup.i thought if i send this video it might help her.hopefully she will get over it.thank you sir for making these types of videos.i found this video very helpful thank you so much.

  • @priyanshupatel02
    @priyanshupatel02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Relationships never die a natural death, they are killed by their own actions, by hatred, by ignorance and sometimes by misunderstanding.

  • @Abhishek-yy6yk
    @Abhishek-yy6yk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Sir soon your TH-cam family will be sky high because your content is top class. 😊

  • @ishikaghosh3633
    @ishikaghosh3633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Totally agree and this applies for all types of relationship,not only romantic...put yourself first....then everything....

  • @Darth_manick
    @Darth_manick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    2 years ago I got destroyed because of a single relationship sir. Now I cleared IIMB. Thanks to your motivation. :)

    • @priyanshupatel02
      @priyanshupatel02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gr8 come back :)

    • @donationboy1195
      @donationboy1195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congrats brooo!!

    • @wildlonewolf445
      @wildlonewolf445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sakth lounda 😎 show that girl what she lost

    • @HemantKumar-nn7qg
      @HemantKumar-nn7qg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too... And I'm preparing for CAT 21

    • @zanybhr7696
      @zanybhr7696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Still, you'll have to look for another relationship.

  • @shivamtyagi9263
    @shivamtyagi9263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Chetan sir, when I comes to know about any of your your video, there is some Goosebumps coming in my heart like waves, expecting that today I will find some precious lesson from your videos. Your videos are true mirror of my ups and downs of my life, I feel connected to me as if your words meants to me. My soul found an inspiration from you. I am blessed to have you in this generation. Love you chetan sir ❤️.

  • @shobhathakur1667
    @shobhathakur1667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bahut sahi kaha apne..chetan ji..

  • @ankushchatterjee9901
    @ankushchatterjee9901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your videos shows us a different version of yourself..Thank you sir for the motivation..i am getting over my breakup..your videos are helping me get over my breakup

  • @abhishekkumar-lx3fy
    @abhishekkumar-lx3fy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Sir, 2 years ago I got stucked in 1 sided love and i got depressed. Somehow I managed to get rid of that and your videos are helping me a lot in my daily life like tackling depression and all. You make time for us to make videos so that we can stay motivated. Thank a lot Sir 🙏

    • @snehilsharma3074
      @snehilsharma3074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bro... Do checkout shwetabh's videos as well.... They really helped me when I was going through that phase...!!

    • @abhishekkumar-lx3fy
      @abhishekkumar-lx3fy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@snehilsharma3074 yes❤️🙏

    • @themusicera7028
      @themusicera7028 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abhishekkumar-lx3fy I am in a one sided relationship and it's hurts like hell..
      Don't know how to get out of it.

  • @medhaambekar7423
    @medhaambekar7423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Chetan very nice ! You advise without appearing to sermonize ! You have become the friend of many youngsters through this channel

  • @TheKapildhara
    @TheKapildhara 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Yes I was destroyed in relationship. Now i am better in my self and focusing on my career. Never trust too much, never make expectations for any girls that she is for me. 🙏

    • @ManishKumar-ed3lt
      @ManishKumar-ed3lt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Chhavi Sharma I got hurted by a girl. 99% girl will cheat u for money

  • @Preetinspires
    @Preetinspires 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Parents
    Friends
    Romantic
    Only parents ka love unconditional hota hai... Baaki sab uncertain hai...
    Romantic love is like a chewing gum shuru mei meethi then keep chewing.....

  • @sam-rf7ko
    @sam-rf7ko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Just found your channel like an hour or so ago and been binge watching ever since. Currently 1 am rn and I have this sudden urge to change my life around lol but thanks for these videos sir, keep em coming in. Your channel is gonna be a hit.

    • @ChetanBhagat1
      @ChetanBhagat1  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much and welcome aboard!

  • @amlanbhattacharjee9028
    @amlanbhattacharjee9028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Biggest roadblock to success: getting into relationships at the wrong time

  • @dhruvmehta9933
    @dhruvmehta9933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much very much for your words
    I really had an same experience with my past relationship, wherein i was getting controlled by my girlfriend, due to which its killing me inside and couldn't say anything as we both know we love each other alot.
    However at last enough is enough and i put myself first and ended it up and now no doubt i am pretty much happy and doing amazing things for my self
    MORAL OF THE STORY- never ever be a part of something which always keep you in boundaries 💯, if your relationship is noy balanced (even after trying so hard to get it in track) then you better need to move on...
    As chetan sir said - only our parents loves you unconditionally ❤

  • @kavitamahuli8756
    @kavitamahuli8756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am simply amazed after hearing you and knowing about how much knowledge you have. Its superlative.

  • @akankhitsandilya6721
    @akankhitsandilya6721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a kid i used to read Bhagat's books and used to think love is bullshit but now i have grown i admire him more now, for his youtube videos

  • @Adlersimon
    @Adlersimon 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sir bht bari cheez hain ap mtlb bht bary aadmi hain huge respect ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @faiyazrahmani4795
    @faiyazrahmani4795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You r my inspiration sir..
    You tube pe bohot motivational video dekha but sir u are genuinely relatable...thats way u r GOAT sir.. ❤️

  • @rajeevmisra3474
    @rajeevmisra3474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir - you are absolutely nailed crux. I am digital head based in Canada 🇨🇦 aged 42+ years, but able to correlate each & every advice with personally history...

  • @stepupphysics
    @stepupphysics 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I have lost my 6 months and to be continued.. being in a heartbroken, jobless makes the situation worst in this corona lockdown.

  • @SwatiPatil-qj7ux
    @SwatiPatil-qj7ux 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True sir...Thank you so much 🙏

  • @susantkumarnand9520
    @susantkumarnand9520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    First, achieve and then demand...your goals and ambitions are supreme, everything else is secondary.

  • @sudipsaha8579
    @sudipsaha8579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    sir real life k ranchordas to aap hi ho... thank you for your valuable advice....... luv u sir :)

  • @avinashsirwani2107
    @avinashsirwani2107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I was suppose to get married to a girl but it was not going well. I gave too many chances but still did not work, hence I quit it and now I and her both are in a much better space 🙂..so yes relationships can destroy u.

  • @HemantKumar-nn7qg
    @HemantKumar-nn7qg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's true sir but, I learned after so much mistake...... what ever I learned will stay with me till the last breath of my life.... I wish that this video could be uploaded 1year back at least. 🤗

  • @vrushankkamble7862
    @vrushankkamble7862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pure down to earth wisdom and intelligence ❤️

  • @Gorusuur
    @Gorusuur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very very relevant information shared by you sir.

  • @anagha29
    @anagha29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Moral :- Love yourself first, only then you can make others happy..
    Very nice video sir.. 👍🏻
    And ofcourse the view is too beautiful 😍

  • @HarikeshDalal
    @HarikeshDalal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really honest speaking

  • @Kevin-xb4zv
    @Kevin-xb4zv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is we actually need in life!!! Your celebrity sir but phirr bhi aap apne se lagte ho just like our lovely big brother...i can say the best thing happens to all indians is "CHETAN BHAGAT SIR"🙌

  • @inderbrar550
    @inderbrar550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bilkul sàhi batein kahi h Sir apne
    Afsoloutely right 👍🙏

  • @vasishaikh5224
    @vasishaikh5224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sabse pehle khud. Uske baad family,Uske baad saari duniya, great sir👍

  • @shivrajvashishtha5119
    @shivrajvashishtha5119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    बहुत अच्छे से समझाया सर जी।।

  • @yk-mp7bk
    @yk-mp7bk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you 🌹❤️

  • @funduitguy6916
    @funduitguy6916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hmmm.... true. 👍

  • @Fish-xk9gj
    @Fish-xk9gj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes! Put yourself first and the rest will follow 🧚‍♀️

  • @kanishkamudgal20
    @kanishkamudgal20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They destroyed me , yes , I agree just because I give so much time and efforts, they kinda made me tired at the end.

  • @ravisuryac2645
    @ravisuryac2645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This video is the best thing to listen for me now. Especially when a person is in midst of career and love.... It is very difficult to balance both and reach the top.... But the things you said - I am implementing them already sir..... Tough to control emotions but what you said is also important....
    Very nice message " keep the relationship and also don't loose yourself "

  • @anoops8333
    @anoops8333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Sirji - 15 years before I wish I heard you. Where were you dude? Relationship always destroyed my life. Be it my ex-gf, or my family (bro and sisters who took away my money and deserted me). I totally agree with you that the only un-conditional love is from ones parents.

  • @rahebarkhan3401
    @rahebarkhan3401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Balance Relationship Is Good, Thanks 😊😊😊

  • @iamsuccessful3659
    @iamsuccessful3659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I couldn't even name my feelings .....I don't know whether it is anxiety , depression or just laziness.......always carrying a heavy heart

    • @Iam-um5qj
      @Iam-um5qj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wanna suggest u B.K. Shivani ...she helped me alot😇

    • @iamsuccessful3659
      @iamsuccessful3659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Iam-um5qj thanks ... I have tried before sleep ...,..

  • @anukashyap4817
    @anukashyap4817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much Sir🌹🙏

  • @newchannel5825
    @newchannel5825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir u are absolutely right

  • @knowwhywithUtkarsh
    @knowwhywithUtkarsh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bitter truth but worth changing one's life ❤️ thanks sir 🙂

  • @parmeswariahcs9922
    @parmeswariahcs9922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    100% your words are valuable and true words bhagat sir

  • @naikadit31
    @naikadit31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I think as per my observations some people come into relationship due to loneliness or some come into relationship bcoz surrounding they see..

  • @subhneetjha
    @subhneetjha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I couldn't balance my relationship. That was my fault. But, now I am good. Doing better in my life.

  • @Iam-um5qj
    @Iam-um5qj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanku so much sir...your advice helped me ..i really needed that ....
    So the conclusion is "Too much is bad of anything & try to balance everything"

  • @YogeshVSG
    @YogeshVSG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Sir nowadays romantic relationships have no value, infact it has turned down to ZERO. Nowadays what we see is ONLY CHEATING. And also nowadays NEGATIVE amount of value is being shown to TRUE LOVE..
    THE ONLY RELATIONSHIP WHICH IS PURE AND IMMORTAL IS THE RELATIONSHIP WE HAVE WITH OUR PARENTS..!!

  • @kumarjitroy6250
    @kumarjitroy6250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir just two day ago I complete your book "THE GIRL IN ROOM 105" my first book of yours. yes sir Keshav shows how move on is Nesseceary. Best part is message " curious and open minded wthout any prejudice and never give up "

  • @xman6267
    @xman6267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes there is always give and take ..we all are selfish... I am not a social animal..I am happy

  • @Siktaa_2024
    @Siktaa_2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true ! So practical !! If all of us take this simple advice, many of our problems will be solved automatically. Thank you Chetan sir💖

  • @amansyan6319
    @amansyan6319 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best thing happened this year. Chetan bhagat sir starting off with a TH-cam channel. We love you sir! And all your wisdom.

  • @sahilhami5986
    @sahilhami5986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That right it destroy you completely , Now I became better person . The bottom line is you can't make everyone happy you try to but in reality it's different.

  • @sonalagrawal8609
    @sonalagrawal8609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Exactly. Golden words💯❤️

  • @abhay_sol_as
    @abhay_sol_as 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for making this sunday happy... feels like we are vibing there and getting life advices

  • @amitkumar-yp3yk
    @amitkumar-yp3yk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes true, the same is the case with me. I have a family which expects from me and I do whatever best possible to make them happy but in return they give me disappointment, sadness, insult, mental frustration.

  • @neerajraghavendra2467
    @neerajraghavendra2467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir, you may never realise... You are helping me alot...Thanks 🙏

  • @hemamatalia5598
    @hemamatalia5598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    One must learn where to draw the line in every relationship because even close relationship can destroy .

  • @himansbhad2078
    @himansbhad2078 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bhagat sir,
    Love toh parents ka bhi expectation ka hi hota hai, no unconditional love
    .unconditional love toh Sages,Philosophers and Fakirs ne kiya hai ❤
    Time lage ga yeh samjhne...

  • @shubhamraijohri2642
    @shubhamraijohri2642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was a singer, songwriter, music composer, standup comedian and I was also a Engineer. I was working in a good company and I had the best opportunities. And then I left my job for UPSC preparation and yes I was also good at that. But in hurry and excitement I destroyed everything. It has been 4 years I left my job. 2 wrong relationships destroyed everything. I am depressed. I left singing which was I life I just hate myself and also can't study for my dream job. I don't know what to do. I am stuck. And the worst part is that those both girls are happy and they are doing job. So I am completely agree with Sir Chetan .

  • @whatsinaname5384
    @whatsinaname5384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Long story short : Your body, your soul. You came , you'll go. So...... *you matter, you do*

  • @ashutoshmohanty1676
    @ashutoshmohanty1676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aap ki baatein harwaqt dil ko chhu jati hain❤️❤️❤️❤️...thanks sir🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @MasterSatya_Kvs
    @MasterSatya_Kvs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Be the best version ...just listen the things around you but do what you felt like the u way want ..

  • @World_knowledge_kgp
    @World_knowledge_kgp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir you said very well , i think these things are correlatble in each and every Life ❣️❣️

  • @parmeswaryadav2291
    @parmeswaryadav2291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    sir u r so clear in ur thoughts.....how did u do that.....

  • @chinmaydas4053
    @chinmaydas4053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your thoughts are great.. it's very vital for your people 👍👍🙏🙏

  • @RanjanKumar-no2wj
    @RanjanKumar-no2wj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Right sir thankyou 🙏🏻🥰

  • @KidsToyyo
    @KidsToyyo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Being human is magnificent but wrong habits can destroy you
    Love yourself and others
    But don’t bind yourself with everything in this world

  • @raj_dalimi
    @raj_dalimi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The quality of your Life depends on the relationships you have/had
    No money,no property,no education, nothing just this is what that matters

  • @avilipsharath4837
    @avilipsharath4837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The thing is we should take care of our own priorities first,we just have to maintain a balance between saying yes and no to people. 😊

  • @anshitajharia3608
    @anshitajharia3608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sir your videos are just above the sky❤️😊😊you take topics that cover really important statics of life .. and as you said that "we should know how to love and unlove"
    This was the most important thing ❤️ thanks sir for your efforts and thoughts ☺️☺️ you are the best.❤️🙏🙏

  • @DollyDu_mybest_barbie
    @DollyDu_mybest_barbie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video Opened a new insight of how to carry the fragile but important emotions of relationships in a way it doesn't destroys your own self identity........now my mind got rid of hangover that I usually had giving too much input in relationships.... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @asthakiran7450
    @asthakiran7450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much Sir