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Shoe On Head, You Didn’t Need To Make A 30 Minute Sumthin Video On This, Women Are More Shallow 100% Not Saying Men Aren’t, But Yeah, Women Are Naturally Shallow
@@adsafgasgasdfasdfyou're just leveraging these people's inability or ineptitude to elevate yourself, and posting a comment in order to recieve attention as it regards this. That's why I said "introvert". It's annoying to see.
Hey all, I'm just in here to tell Adsafgasgasfasdf that he should 100% ignore this walking Twitter Profile From 2019 trying to shame him for feeling a little better about himself after watching a highlight reel of people who are awful at dating. They also have ZERO idea what the word "introvert" even means, or that it's an abstract psychological concept that isn't even all that concrete so they have really no business at all trying to police it's use like this.
@@adsafgasgasdfasdfI might have been in a bad mood when I saw your comment, and I don't really think you said anything particularly bad. I saw another comment down the line from yours that was roughly the same thing, didn't bother me at all. This made me reflect on my shortness of temper with you, and I just want to say I'm sorry for cutting at you. I apologize.
They themrew some curveballs his way, though. The one girl had a decent upper body with an enormous bottom. You might not realize that during a blindfolded hug.
Honestly, what is a guy supposed to do when shaking a woman's hand? Squeeze it off? If she thinks the guy is hot and he treats her gently, she'll decide its a good thing. If she doesn't think he is hot, then she thinks he's weak.
@@someguy5977not sure I can describe it, but there is a masculine gentle way a man shakes a woman's hand. It's not the same as the way a man shakes a man's hand. It is not the way a woman shakes hands.
@someguy5977 ya, there may not be a great answer here. The thing you said, plus the other side of the coin is "oh, he's so strong and virile" vs "ow why is he trying to break my hand? Probably overcompensating fragile male"
Bruh... WTF?! The sub-teacher... both had the same hobbies, the same interestes, EVEN THE SAME JOB... and she even said "Yeah, i liked him a lot" and she still fucking threw him out the window? Holy fuck....
He maybe seemed too excited for her. It's an artificially triggering situation. I'd probably reject anyone siting across from me out of nervousness, fear of rejection works stronger than anticipation of potential pleasure.
No no, it's SO bad, that I CAN'T really leave my current gf and expect nothing but disappointment out there now. The dating field was NOT this bad 7 years ago. I'd rather date someone that is partially shit than shoot my shot with this terrible market. Dating apps really have ruined everything.
My married friends have said this to me. lol Bro, it feels like the marriage ship had sailed and every single person is left on the hunger games island. Personally, I’m going with the hiding technique.
The substitute teacher is the worst. Holy shit, how can someone be so stupid? She met a guy she was vibing with, and she threw him away because "maybe I'll vibe more with the next guy". She'll end up alone with her cats, wondering why she couldn't find a man. 100%.
It was even dumber with the fact that they shared similar experiences and hobbies. Imagine having an ideal situation plopped onto you and you say maybe theres better out there.
The only moment in these clips where I thought, "classy!", was when the guy instantly rejected her upon his return. What guy wouldn't have done the same?
@@SoccYT This happened to me...more times than I can count. I cannot put into words how aggravating it is that some of women will get exactly the type of guy they say they're looking for and more, has compatible beliefs and hobbies, and STILL look for a reason to get rid of him, no matter how vague or petty it is. And if they can't find a reason, they'll make one up and sabotage the relationship...and then date the type of guys they *always* complain about, or have jack diddly squat in common with. Every. Single. Time. Without fail. A lot of these women are plagued with "grass is greener" syndrome and it ends up biting them later.
@@Glocktologist You have to understand...your sense of beauty is not universal. My eye is far from conservative, but she was not remotely hot. She looked crazy.
If someone likes people with natural hair colors they should go to a country music concert. So many attractive women and 99.9% don't have weird hair colors
@@potatosmileyfriesthe more body modifications (breast enhancement, tattoos, etc...) the higher the suicide rate. Just be happy with what you can't change and work on what you can like diet, exercise and a positive attitude.
Only problem is when people pick a side for you. Example: I tell people "I have a hard time trusting women after I was sexually harassed and assaulted and afterwards gaslit on multiple occasions by women" and they say "you must hate women then" or "that's not possible because you're a man" or "you deserved it because you're a man" I've heard it all
So you just proved women are. Because more men are interested in women then women are in men. There by saying women are sought after more whether she is an elite actress or some girl at subway. Therefore, men are less shallow.
"I feel his compliments are only based on my physical appearance." Do you want him to say, "I like your core personality traits and ideals" ten seconds after meeting you? 😑
Most people want someone they like looking at. Shocking, isn't it? Just like most people don't want to live in a house they don't like the look of, even if it has all the amenities.
The teacher lady proof that there's no satisfying the hypergamy, she got her best option from the Husband store but because there might be another level above, she tossed him aside to see her options. Humbled pretty well by the king
Yeah, that one has "Many Cats & bitterly waiting around to die alone" written all over it - whilst steadfastly denying any responsibility for the situation. I really can't impress on you how glad I am that I walked away eighteen years ago & now get to laugh like a drain in a thunderstorm from the sidelines.
Before we judge her behavior as irrational, we need to take into account the full landscape of incentives going on here. These people aren't "dating", they are participating in a highly public performative parody of dating. They aren't looking for a mate. They are, at best, looking to produce video material that makes them look good so they can use it later to impress people (and if the material is too cringe, they can still tell the story of having participated in the show in a way that makes them look interesting). I don't really see why else anyone would subject themselves to this. And even if you met somebody on this show that genuinely interested you, you'd probably still let the parody play out and just try to chat to them privately after the filming is done, as now you already have some kind of shared experience to talk about.
@@ecgwineicling2543 i see a lot of words yet a whole lot of nothing was being said. sure the show could be scripted for all we know. but there's no excuse for her behavior/logic. and it's a big issue for both sides. people always thinking they can do better. it's probably a huge reason why there's a loneliness epidemic. a lot of people are used to seeing the facade of amazing people on the internet and seeing it so often that people forget it's an act. and then when everyone goes looking for a partner they are frustrated and upset they can't find anyone like those sensationalized personalities on social media. but i won't look into The Button anywhere near as deep as you did looking for cope. i think some people are hired on to act certain ways but that's about it.
Lol the asian guy checking their size with a hug. Top tier investigation skills. Also I'm so glad none of my friends are into Astrology. I'd lose my mind hearing that shit
I'm ok with people just being weird in their own homes, having their little rituals that hurt or concern no one, etc. But when a woman brings up astrology/acupuncture/pressure points/chiropractors, then you know there's some deep-seated issue there you don't really wanna deal with. It's like a secondary religion, just more modern and somehow more dumb.
What sucked to me is that she blew it, he was perfect for her. I'm a bi guy, and he is a catch and a half. Nerdy, clever, and a with self dignity, holy fuck 10/10
People with the mindset of "there might be someone better out there" will never be happy. No matter who they are with, they'll always be waiting for someone better. If you are actually lucky enough to find someone in this crappy world to spend your life with, you shouldn't throw that away so lightly.
Worst part is when someone is with you ONLY because they don't want to look "alone"/single and will throw you without a second thought once they find someone who looka better. They are not that rare, just pay more attention to normal behavior
I found someone who likes me and cares for me a lot. She keeps talking about the future with me, but I don't feel like that right now (5 months in). Do I still hang onto her to see if I can learn to love her?
@@the1337fleet depends on how she is. I knew a girl who loved me, too much and too early and she just broke up crying and all when i told her that i needed time to love her, she said that I'm just rejecting her and guys shouldn't be like this with what she's feeling. Fun thing i didn't even reject her that time, just that i needed more time to put my thoughts in place. So be sure, if you want to tell her, to assure her multiple times that it's not a rejection and that you just need to understand yourself. Say it in the most gentle way possible and i hope the best for you and her
I disagree with the 2nd part. Mainly due to their alarmingly disproportionate transgressions of the 1st, 3rd and 4th parts. I'll stop doing the 2nd one when that problem gets fixed.
@@Jamie-kk5fq talk all the men raked in divorce courts who lived in the real world of women. the statistics are astonishingly bad for men. Those are real women or does that not count?
Astrology was made with the intent of tricking people into self reflecting. When someone asks for your sign, they’re trying to psychoanalyze you, and aren’t actually engaging with the point of it which is incredibly ironic
@@ReptillianStrike She obviously isn't. She's referring to the woman the guy is talking to, who is a nutter that thinks the time you were born has any direct impact on people, see Star Signs and horoscope.
@@dh8203 it should also always be active. The fact that it randomly lights up gamifies it even more, making it like a game of slap jack or something where people whack it just on reflex.
"how was your weekend" "pretty good, i celebrated my best friend's birthday yesterday" "oh a taurus ok, i saw a murder last night" that might be my favorite thing ever, dude comes in dressed as an astronaut and tells this girl he just witnessed a murder so casually.
The teacher one killed me "Yes, we share both careers and interests, you're fairly good looking and you're obviously ok with me, but you know what? I'll reject you, because I may find Chad Thundercock and his 20 ferraris on a shitty speed dating show." LTG: *"NOW"*
I feel like it was an unfortunate (or, from the show runners' perspective, fortunate) setup because it looks like he was the first guy they set her up with. Had he been the third guy to talk to her, she might have been less curious about what the other options looked like, having gotten a sample to check out already.
Shoe needs to make a dating show like this where she’s the inanimate talking object in the middle that just calls these people out for how ridiculous they’re being
It's easier to hate when you just insert a buzzword that's easy to hate in the first place. People rarely want to think, they wanna put you in a box and then throw that thing in the trash. Best part about is the moment you break their perception and reject the few buzzword responses they have handy and faced with the issue of now having to think up an actual answer, they just resort to "wow, you're an asshole, I won't respond to you anymore". Interaction on the internet has somehow regressed back to "omg you suck, no you suck" YT comment section beef.
@@talkichik101 Fortunately it isn’t widespread as of right now. For example, I’m friends with two people, an anarcho-communist, and an alt-right fascist. And they were even friends with each other before I knew them! It’s good to set politics aside with friends.
23:23 "Dating is about meeting multiple people and not just meeting one person and being done with it" You meet multiple people because you're trying to find that one person! If you have met that one person straight away you have literally won the dating game!!
Sometimes i wish i had done that just slept with one person and been done with people because sometimes you might try several of them and still realize your done with it.
This is like when you’ve been having trouble catching fish and you’re hungry, but after days of catching nothing, you catch something, but then decide, “Nah, I’ll catch a bigger, better fish if I wait a little longer,” only to go back to complaining that you’re hungry and haven’t hooked anything in days.
@@TaraTara-ld2xb moderators are the worst, like security guards at the church. the latter will throw you out of church and not let the pastor know about it.
Societal and Culture too. People are easily brainwashed and want to follow their surroundings most of the time. They just want the people around them, to like them. So if your raised in a religious family or area, that's going to have an effect, and what religion it is, the same with culture.
@@GreyfauxxGamingdefinitely. Something that happens a *lottt* in my country is that people who grow up on christian households will never be in a relationship with someone if they're not christian. There's so much to people other than religion that I think it's stupid to have such a shallow dealbreaker in dating, it's like: "He's a 10 but is muslim" / "0/10" Disagreeing with people make them interesting, if you only date people who 100% agree with you and have the same beliefs as you you're not trying to date someone, you're trying to date yourself
i mean theres not a lot, its mainly in the personal connection and physical attention like if someone is asking a lot of personal questions and complimenting ur looks then its prolly flirting
When that guy said he doesn't like "colorful hair" what he was actually saying is "I don't wanna date a Tumblr girl." It's not the saturation that's the problem, it's the hue.
As someone who does care about my dates politics, I would just bring up the topics that I consider to be deal breakers to see how they stand and how they react. This way I don't have to worry about all of the tertiary things that aren't dealerbreakers and therefore don't matter at the beginning. But here's the thing: I do this with friends as well, so I don't know how people are getting all the way to dating without knowing this stuff unless they're meeting the people online... In which case that's what the dating profile is for.
Ah, the one thing that will instantly get me to date a woman: their politics. From what I've seen so far, anyone who's obsessed with it are miserable, most of the time.
2 of those are illegal... Personally I go for: 1. is female (optional) 2. Has at least some sense of humor If "Has given me a compliment" is true, then marriage proposal is also true
This is just a social experiment of people trying to do the rejecting before they get rejected, and they don't even realize it. They anticipate that it's going to happen so they want to make sure they do it before the other person can.
Yep, she'll always be "looking for better" even after you get married to her, not worth the hassle. The only reason she's dating you is because she hasn't been able to find "better" yet but as soon as it comes along she's outtie 500 meanwhile she'll have one foot out of the door the entire relationship using you as a place holder and treating you as such.
I think you need to be a certain type of person to even consider going on this show to begin with, so the responses don't surprise me. I still believe these are the lowest minority ppl but that percentage is likely growing.
@@aaronmoore6275As a former driver of the turd hearse, It's actually above the leachfield Unless you're tank is pegging out, meaning your leachfield is fucked lol.
No, social science proves that people are only comfortable when they feel superior to those around them. The result is that the men v women pissing contest will never end.
6:24 "Men have nice cars. Not because we like nice cars, but because we know women like nice cars" -Dave Chappelle LEGIT thought of that quote this morning too 😂
@@dkznikolaj7013a few men that breathe cars doesn’t change his quote on what Dave chapel said. There is truth to that. Better cars better chances of mating/dating
Nah, I have 4 cars and don't give a shit what women think of them. My GF actually wants me to get rid of them. Real men have nice cars because they appreciate them, not for some pathetic status symbol.
Yeah, they're mostly just appereance based and they blurt whatever comes to mind first because they don't want to feel/look like an asshole. Some of it is genuine self denial, too. They don't want to admit that they're that shallow, so they look for whatever bullshit reason.
To be fair the McDonalds cashier is 19 and either inner city, goth or has some high school personality. Like she’s a cheerleader type or some shit. Which still isn’t helping us out any. See I know this, because my first job was at McDonalds and the women in front counter are always the first to friend zone you.
I’ve been married 22 years. Same girl for 30. Good lord in heaven, am I lucky. Holy cow. Woe to my daughter who will enter the 20s in just a few years. OMG…
Yeah i didn't met any girl who was right for me in past though i didn't met much girls anyway since i had personal problems. Now im 28 and i basically gave up lol. Dating scene is just garbage and its really not worth it.
As a 5'6" man who dated a 6' 1" girl, the whole " how tall are you" question is just wild. How tall am I? Doesn't matter, you're not tall enough for my short king ass.
22:21 my jaw dropped. I was in shock. They're sat there, they're about as attractive as each other, same style, they both like pedagogy and comic con and-- 🚨🚨PEHMHM 🚨
This must be why everyone is single these days. Even when they meet someone they objectively should meet a few times to explore potential, they can't commit.
The Button gives me a gnarly mix of 2nd-hand embarrassment and anger. Every time something starts to get embarrassing, I want to look away, but then it makes me angry and I want scream at these bozo's. I got that Fight AND Flight response.
Shoe's analysis here is objectively better than most academic studies. I'm so sick of academics pretending that self-reported attraction statements, are data.
@@hatman4818 I feel like one of the studies that's missing from this conversation goes something like "which gender tends to deviate from their stated preferences and values more", and I think we all know the answer here.... (hint: it's not the Quin-gendered)
@@hatman4818 what women say they want and what they actually want are not the same. They know they would be judged as bad people if they were open about what they want.
Most of these studies are conducted by dating apps, they're not academic. Academic sociological studies try to use tricky questioning to circumvent lying or lack of introspection. Those studies Shoe mentioned were from OKCupid.
@@alongfortheride84i remember reading a study where they had a computer game simulating the ability to drop bombs on people. They tested men and women to see how often they dropped bombs on people, and then tested those men and women again when they could drop bombs on people without the experiment staff knowing who they were. In both tests, men dropped bombs om people at roughly similar rates. Whereas with women, the women didn't bomb too many people when the experiment staff could seeing them doing it, but when the women were led to believe that the staff couldn't see them doing it, they bombed people FOUR TIMES AS OFTEN AS THE MEN DID!!!! That tells you everything you need to know about women. The differences in their behavior when being observed vs when being not observed are much bigger than the differences in how men act when being observed vs not observed.
This video actually boosted my self-esteem. I’m horrendous at social interaction but at least I know I’m not a ghoul like half the people on this stupid (dating?) show. Everyone in the video has to be from Silicon Valley.
That substitute teacher, cosplay girl that turned down Xavier really is the epitome of the Husband store analogy*. He's great but I want to see if it gets better! Wait, why is there nothing on this floor?
@young-salt a store with several floors with better and better guys on each floor. But you cant go back down. The women keep going up only to reach a floor that is entirely empty. Then complain they are alone when they could have had any man on any of the floors below.
make it a little more abstract just to be sure that the next generation of lads doesn't end up being the ones who think you can "trade up" when it comes to people
The issue is ppl think "the grass is always greener on the other side." When, inevitably, in the end, they end up with a barren field because they thought there was better.
honestly I respect the guy who came in fully decked out in the furry suit, I guess he's saving time on people who don't wanna deal with that sort of thing.
If my surprise date were to show up on the first encounter *in a fucking fursuit* I would be hitting that button like my father’s backhand before he could step a foot closer to me and I’d be calling the cops without hesitation.
He found a girl in another show if I remember correctly. It was a blind date thing and he showed up in the suit and she was so happy it was wholesome as hell.
This is series on loneliness is super on point. We just don't give anyone a chance. I think you're circling around the main point, instant gratification and impossible expectations.
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Shoe On Head, You Didn’t Need To Make A 30 Minute Sumthin Video On This, Women Are More Shallow 100% Not Saying Men Aren’t, But Yeah, Women Are Naturally Shallow
There is two many moments that if you pause the video you have expressions similar to Belle Delphine😂🤣
The Button makes me realize that some people shouldn’t be dating at all.
The Button makes me realize that some people shouldn't be
Yup. Lately I was thinking to myself "should I maybe be dating again?" And then I remembered what people were like when they're trying to date.
@@Cavouku😂😂😂
I cant even watch videos like this because people on these dating shows are SO cringe that it just makes me feel uncomfortable.
Shouldn't have voting rights.
the button is the most dystopian dating show, highlighting the worst and arguably real struggle of modern dating. glad shoe is talking about it!
💯🎯⬆️
@@adsafgasgasdfasdffeeling a bit more valuable? Way to have humility, "introvert".
@@adsafgasgasdfasdfyou're just leveraging these people's inability or ineptitude to elevate yourself, and posting a comment in order to recieve attention as it regards this. That's why I said "introvert". It's annoying to see.
Hey all, I'm just in here to tell Adsafgasgasfasdf that he should 100% ignore this walking Twitter Profile From 2019 trying to shame him for feeling a little better about himself after watching a highlight reel of people who are awful at dating.
They also have ZERO idea what the word "introvert" even means, or that it's an abstract psychological concept that isn't even all that concrete so they have really no business at all trying to police it's use like this.
@@adsafgasgasdfasdfI might have been in a bad mood when I saw your comment, and I don't really think you said anything particularly bad. I saw another comment down the line from yours that was roughly the same thing, didn't bother me at all. This made me reflect on my shortness of temper with you, and I just want to say I'm sorry for cutting at you. I apologize.
“If you can’t get an 8, get yourself two 4s.” -Shoeonhead
Woman is vicious today! Lmao 🤣
At the same time😃
4+4 =8! Therefore you have an 8! 👍
George Carlin once said "I never f**ked a 10, but I once f**ked five 2s, and I think that should count."
You know what I’d do brother? Two chicks at the same time.
The blindfolded Asian dude had his whole SYSTEM prepared for this. Brother’s been thinking about the best button strategy for MONTHS
When was that?
@@ladripper4787417:42
@@ladripper47874About 18:00
They themrew some curveballs his way, though. The one girl had a decent upper body with an enormous bottom. You might not realize that during a blindfolded hug.
@@ladripper47874the where my hug at guy
Pretty sure 90-70% of people who clicked the button did it for obvious surface level reasons but tried their best not to mention THAT specific reason.
100%
That men are more shallow?
"it's all about the thickness"
I just love American flag backgrounds
The elephant in the room was often her being the size of one.
"You have a feminine handshake"
"So do you"
I pissed myself laughing.
Hank Hill would be disappointed
Honestly, what is a guy supposed to do when shaking a woman's hand? Squeeze it off? If she thinks the guy is hot and he treats her gently, she'll decide its a good thing. If she doesn't think he is hot, then she thinks he's weak.
@@someguy5977not sure I can describe it, but there is a masculine gentle way a man shakes a woman's hand. It's not the same as the way a man shakes a man's hand. It is not the way a woman shakes hands.
@someguy5977 ya, there may not be a great answer here. The thing you said, plus the other side of the coin is "oh, he's so strong and virile" vs "ow why is he trying to break my hand? Probably overcompensating fragile male"
@@someguy5977 This is the guy who's dumb hat said "Women do everything better" so he should have taken it as a compliment.
I used to make fun of my sisters growing up for being interested in dating shows. Now here I am. Watching a random mom on youtube watch a dating show
The pinnacle of the collapse of western civilization.
@@TheKyfe This resonates with me deeply.
@@TheKyfe is not about the dating show, didn't you get it?
She's a mom?
@@Retaliation746 Yes
Bruh... WTF?! The sub-teacher... both had the same hobbies, the same interestes, EVEN THE SAME JOB... and she even said "Yeah, i liked him a lot" and she still fucking threw him out the window? Holy fuck....
He maybe seemed too excited for her.
It's an artificially triggering situation. I'd probably reject anyone siting across from me out of nervousness, fear of rejection works stronger than anticipation of potential pleasure.
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And it isn't like she was going to do much better.
Umm.....so....are you new to women?
That's their thing.
She wanted that but more conventionally attractive or higher income
After watching this I had to go tell my wife how much I love her. I feel so sorry for anyone dating in this minefield.
Now go have some babies my man!
Same here. This sort of thing makes me appreciate my wife and what she does for me SO much.
Our first kid is due in October.
No no, it's SO bad, that I CAN'T really leave my current gf and expect nothing but disappointment out there now. The dating field was NOT this bad 7 years ago. I'd rather date someone that is partially shit than shoot my shot with this terrible market. Dating apps really have ruined everything.
My married friends have said this to me. lol
Bro, it feels like the marriage ship had sailed and every single person is left on the hunger games island. Personally, I’m going with the hiding technique.
dating unfortunately is a rat race, the longer you wait the harder it gets
The substitute teacher is the worst. Holy shit, how can someone be so stupid? She met a guy she was vibing with, and she threw him away because "maybe I'll vibe more with the next guy".
She'll end up alone with her cats, wondering why she couldn't find a man. 100%.
The tubby ones always let the power go to their head.
It was even dumber with the fact that they shared similar experiences and hobbies. Imagine having an ideal situation plopped onto you and you say maybe theres better out there.
The future doesn't need her genes
The only moment in these clips where I thought, "classy!", was when the guy instantly rejected her upon his return. What guy wouldn't have done the same?
@@SoccYT This happened to me...more times than I can count. I cannot put into words how aggravating it is that some of women will get exactly the type of guy they say they're looking for and more, has compatible beliefs and hobbies, and STILL look for a reason to get rid of him, no matter how vague or petty it is. And if they can't find a reason, they'll make one up and sabotage the relationship...and then date the type of guys they *always* complain about, or have jack diddly squat in common with. Every. Single. Time. Without fail. A lot of these women are plagued with "grass is greener" syndrome and it ends up biting them later.
"Before I tell you if my height starts with 6, I need to know if your wight starts with 2." My god that line goes hard.
But what if they say no because it starts with 3 😭
Shoe was at her most insightful and witty with that remark. Hilarious.
@@randybobandy9828 I believe you would be able to see that
what if it starts with 1
@vitaliitomas8121 should be able to see 2 as well. If you can't then maybe it doesn't bother you as much as you want it too.
the names she chose for the "what about me, i'm non-binary?" joke are absolutely peak. underrated part of the video
"I dont like colourful hair"
Sends in the traffic cone next.
love how they toy with those people sometimes...
@@Glocktologist You have to understand...your sense of beauty is not universal. My eye is far from conservative, but she was not remotely hot. She looked crazy.
If someone likes people with natural hair colors they should go to a country music concert. So many attractive women and 99.9% don't have weird hair colors
@@potatosmileyfriesthe more body modifications (breast enhancement, tattoos, etc...) the higher the suicide rate. Just be happy with what you can't change and work on what you can like diet, exercise and a positive attitude.
@@gh3meister unfortunately that also means pretending you like country music
The VIRGIN *"picks a side in the gender war"* fan VS the CHAD *"I hate everyone equally"* enjoyer
Don't forget about Elon "passport bros have killed that game now, imma build a spaceship and find me some truly exotic alien p*ssy" problem solver
beta misogynist vs beta misandrist vs chad misanthropist
Only problem is when people pick a side for you. Example: I tell people "I have a hard time trusting women after I was sexually harassed and assaulted and afterwards gaslit on multiple occasions by women" and they say "you must hate women then" or "that's not possible because you're a man" or "you deserved it because you're a man"
I've heard it all
im racist? nah bro i just HATE EVERYBODY
I think I am Panhateful.
I think shallowness is not gender based, women just generally get more opportunity to exercise their shallowness if any due to gender dynamics.
and therefore you just highlighted that statistics dont lie, and we have found an answer.
A lot of this. Both genders can be shallow as hell but women are celebrated for expressing it versus men who are shamed for it.
So you just proved women are. Because more men are interested in women then women are in men. There by saying women are sought after more whether she is an elite actress or some girl at subway. Therefore, men are less shallow.
making them more shallow due to a culture excusing their shallowness
One group can criticize the other without breaking the social contract and the other cant.
Xavier telling her no second chances was by the far most based and positive masculine thing I have EVER seen. Men, we have a new king.
"I feel his compliments are only based on my physical appearance."
Do you want him to say, "I like your core personality traits and ideals" ten seconds after meeting you? 😑
Most people want someone they like looking at. Shocking, isn't it? Just like most people don't want to live in a house they don't like the look of, even if it has all the amenities.
Also there was nothing to compliment about.
Human beings likes to look at attractive human beings... Not rocket science.
That was literally Shoe's point
he really just complimented inanimate parts of her because let's be real, she aint a looker
The teacher lady proof that there's no satisfying the hypergamy, she got her best option from the Husband store but because there might be another level above, she tossed him aside to see her options. Humbled pretty well by the king
Yeah, that one has "Many Cats & bitterly waiting around to die alone" written all over it - whilst steadfastly denying any responsibility for the situation. I really can't impress on you how glad I am that I walked away eighteen years ago & now get to laugh like a drain in a thunderstorm from the sidelines.
Now imagine how dire the situtation really is for random people meeting random people. Absolute insanity.
Before we judge her behavior as irrational, we need to take into account the full landscape of incentives going on here.
These people aren't "dating", they are participating in a highly public performative parody of dating. They aren't looking for a mate. They are, at best, looking to produce video material that makes them look good so they can use it later to impress people (and if the material is too cringe, they can still tell the story of having participated in the show in a way that makes them look interesting). I don't really see why else anyone would subject themselves to this.
And even if you met somebody on this show that genuinely interested you, you'd probably still let the parody play out and just try to chat to them privately after the filming is done, as now you already have some kind of shared experience to talk about.
@@ecgwineicling2543 i see a lot of words yet a whole lot of nothing was being said. sure the show could be scripted for all we know. but there's no excuse for her behavior/logic. and it's a big issue for both sides. people always thinking they can do better. it's probably a huge reason why there's a loneliness epidemic. a lot of people are used to seeing the facade of amazing people on the internet and seeing it so often that people forget it's an act. and then when everyone goes looking for a partner they are frustrated and upset they can't find anyone like those sensationalized personalities on social media. but i won't look into The Button anywhere near as deep as you did looking for cope. i think some people are hired on to act certain ways but that's about it.
@@ecgwineicling2543finally someone who isn't legally braindead and doesn't take this stupid internet show so incredibly literally
Dude I was actively painting Warhammer miniatures while watching this video. I got called out hard.
bro most women who know im painting warhammer actually think thats a cool hobby :D
Me too.....
Lads, leave some girls for the rest of us, please!
Even better she straight up ignored this comment lol
I was painting an Italian army for the new Bolt Action: The Great War game coming out.
That show isn't about dating, it's about dominance. Pushing the button is the 'winner'.
Lol the asian guy checking their size with a hug. Top tier investigation skills.
Also I'm so glad none of my friends are into Astrology. I'd lose my mind hearing that shit
No kidding, any chick who is into that is an immediate no for me
My ex was, not looking for another one into that crap.
It felt like they were messing with him with three thick girls in a row lol
If she had asked me my sign my hand would have gone straight to the button without reply. Let her ponder what my sign is while she's walking out. XD
I'm ok with people just being weird in their own homes, having their little rituals that hurt or concern no one, etc.
But when a woman brings up astrology/acupuncture/pressure points/chiropractors, then you know there's some deep-seated issue there you don't really wanna deal with. It's like a secondary religion, just more modern and somehow more dumb.
I look forward to watching this over and over again with different Vtubers each time.
Bruh! I feel called out. 😂
Hahahah, so it is not just my recommendation section that looks like this.
Same
I will also enjoy the same exact thing.
see you guys in Nux's comment section
"You just can't put people in boxes"
Yes you can if you're a funeral director
hahahaha good one.
Or if you're a manager at a cube farm. Or if you're a corrections officer. Or if you design templates for people's social media pages.
Or if you cut in the right places🪚🩸💪💪🦵🦵🫠
Or just a crazed lunatic
Or _Obama._
"Yes you can" - really?
"Yeah nice hand-painted Warhammer figurines"
I feel called out for liking my toy soldiers
23:50…Amen. Don’t give second chances to people who don’t give you first chances.
What sucked to me is that she blew it, he was perfect for her. I'm a bi guy, and he is a catch and a half. Nerdy, clever, and a with self dignity, holy fuck 10/10
The greatest real life example of the Husband Store parable - EVER.
I’m actually dumbfounded by her decision
@@Chordonblue Husband store parable was my first thought too.
Why not,it was a competition and after trailing you eventually won. It's called persistance and endurance and it brings results.
People with the mindset of "there might be someone better out there" will never be happy. No matter who they are with, they'll always be waiting for someone better. If you are actually lucky enough to find someone in this crappy world to spend your life with, you shouldn't throw that away so lightly.
They like to call it "settling" or "compromising" but it's called being realistic
This is beautifully said and it’s the day that I can finally understand it. Thanks
Worst part is when someone is with you ONLY because they don't want to look "alone"/single and will throw you without a second thought once they find someone who looka better. They are not that rare, just pay more attention to normal behavior
I found someone who likes me and cares for me a lot. She keeps talking about the future with me, but I don't feel like that right now (5 months in). Do I still hang onto her to see if I can learn to love her?
@@the1337fleet depends on how she is. I knew a girl who loved me, too much and too early and she just broke up crying and all when i told her that i needed time to love her, she said that I'm just rejecting her and guys shouldn't be like this with what she's feeling. Fun thing i didn't even reject her that time, just that i needed more time to put my thoughts in place. So be sure, if you want to tell her, to assure her multiple times that it's not a rejection and that you just need to understand yourself. Say it in the most gentle way possible and i hope the best for you and her
Hating men is cringe
Hating women is cringe
Hating people because of their height is cringier
Hating people because of their sign is just plain stupid
I disagree with the 2nd part.
Mainly due to their alarmingly disproportionate transgressions of the 1st, 3rd and 4th parts.
I'll stop doing the 2nd one when that problem gets fixed.
@@Magic-gt4pl you are cringe
@Magic-gt4pl talk to more women in real life, dont base your perceptions of the world on social media.
@@Jamie-kk5fq talk all the men raked in divorce courts who lived in the real world of women. the statistics are astonishingly bad for men. Those are real women or does that not count?
@@Jamie-kk5fq Swing and a miss.
Astrology was made with the intent of tricking people into self reflecting. When someone asks for your sign, they’re trying to psychoanalyze you, and aren’t actually engaging with the point of it which is incredibly ironic
But either way it's stupid and should be laughed at
14:39
One of my all time favourite memes is the Wassap conversation:
Guy: Mom, at what time was I born?
Mom: Stop talking to her.
Mom has a point.
What if your mum is the one asking people what time they were born?
@@christianlovelock3910damn that sucks
Why is the mother referring to herself as "her"?
@@ReptillianStrike She obviously isn't. She's referring to the woman the guy is talking to, who is a nutter that thinks the time you were born has any direct impact on people, see Star Signs and horoscope.
This show just gamifies rejection. Like whoever pushes the button first wins. 😵💫
The west is beyond saving. Let's just end it now and call it a failed experiment.
Nah, it just displays what the dating apps has made to the society, especially to women.
Exactly! Would like to see this show, but change the button so that the person who has to leave is random when the button is hit.
@@dh8203 it should also always be active. The fact that it randomly lights up gamifies it even more, making it like a game of slap jack or something where people whack it just on reflex.
It's not much of a reflection of anything since in no real situation where there's another date lined up literally around the corner
"... You look older."
Someone get this man a cigar.
17:49 That hug was such a galaxy brain move holy FLIP
The man knew what's up.
"how was your weekend"
"pretty good, i celebrated my best friend's birthday yesterday"
"oh a taurus ok, i saw a murder last night"
that might be my favorite thing ever, dude comes in dressed as an astronaut and tells this girl he just witnessed a murder so casually.
The button pushed itself and said check please
Staff should just call 911 and ask em to search his property 😂 that dude for sure has a basement to explore "inner space" of humans...
"Saw a murder" doesnt mean he didnt do it :'D
Surely astronaut man is a troll, like who talks like that
@@sznikers mushroom badge on the breast...
The teacher one killed me
"Yes, we share both careers and interests, you're fairly good looking and you're obviously ok with me, but you know what? I'll reject you, because I may find Chad Thundercock and his 20 ferraris on a shitty speed dating show."
LTG:
*"NOW"*
You should stay off of speed dating shows… NOW! ⚡️🗿
What’s worse too is that appearance wise they looked like they could go well as a couple. Oh well 😵
He lucky not to get trapped there.
I feel like it was an unfortunate (or, from the show runners' perspective, fortunate) setup because it looks like he was the first guy they set her up with.
Had he been the third guy to talk to her, she might have been less curious about what the other options looked like, having gotten a sample to check out already.
she would 100% cheat anyway
That dude with the hug strat was sizing up those girls.
The Stevie Wonder school of dating
22:40 I thought they were in love, I legit felt that betrayal.
8:22 "We chose to go to the Moon not because it is easy, but because I am hard"
Thank you so much!😂
The NASA moon program was/is totally FAKE!
That's what JFK told Marilyn Monroe at the white house and well it did worked for him
🤣🤣
We will jork it with materials that havent been invented.
Him- “Who’s your type?”
Her- “Pete Davidson”
🛑❌🚨🚨🚨🔴👋🏼
Someone once described Pete Davidson as: "Looks like the human version of a wet cigarette"
@@todd8398 That is excellent 😂 My favorite one is that he has the sex appeal of a PT Cruiser with a nambla bumper sticker
Yep
Stay away from the vampire that came out of a British rave concert
That guy has been the lamp to bad women moths
I want to know why Pete Davidson's dating career seems to constantly fail upward.
Man Pete catches all the strays. He seems like he'd be very genuine and hilariously awkward.
Shoe needs to make a dating show like this where she’s the inanimate talking object in the middle that just calls these people out for how ridiculous they’re being
That I would watch!
Everyone with at least half their humanity intact should sign away... 😅
I'm sold.
A shoe 😁
@@Skity_13when they get rejected a shoe falls on their head
“What’s your sign.”
“Stop sign.”
This is one of the few channels I actually look forward to watching, consistently, even if the clips you watch melt my brain cells
23:54 Chad. Mad respect.
Completely agree. Tinder brain. She values herself way higher than what she is.
She's a 4 though. Would he give a 2nd chance to an 8?
@@williammkydde IKR? Thought he was being generous on the first round
Props to him for being principled but those principles resulted in both of them leaving empty handed.
@@vincentwu2848 Which is a happy ending to that little episode. Life goes on.
@@vincentwu2848 At that point how can she be trusted to not just bail later when she notices someone potentially better.
23:47: "I don't play second chances" THAT is a total BOSS move! Well played man. Don't be her last choice.
The button just seems like a show about who humiliates who.
It never ceases to entertain me that when people call you an alt right nazi, you are in a subaru with a bernie sticker😂
@@matthewfennell8283 "If you don't agree with me 100%, you're dead to me." This mindset is much too prevalent nowadays.
It's easier to hate when you just insert a buzzword that's easy to hate in the first place.
People rarely want to think, they wanna put you in a box and then throw that thing in the trash. Best part about is the moment you break their perception and reject the few buzzword responses they have handy and faced with the issue of now having to think up an actual answer, they just resort to "wow, you're an asshole, I won't respond to you anymore".
Interaction on the internet has somehow regressed back to "omg you suck, no you suck" YT comment section beef.
She's the whole damn bird lmao
For some strange reason, she's married to a big trump supporter. She's definitely reinforcing the "women are attracted to weird things" idea.
@@talkichik101 Fortunately it isn’t widespread as of right now. For example, I’m friends with two people, an anarcho-communist, and an alt-right fascist. And they were even friends with each other before I knew them! It’s good to set politics aside with friends.
23:23 "Dating is about meeting multiple people and not just meeting one person and being done with it"
You meet multiple people because you're trying to find that one person! If you have met that one person straight away you have literally won the dating game!!
Sometimes i wish i had done that just slept with one person and been done with people because sometimes you might try several of them and still realize your done with it.
But coach, whatabout if there’s someone better out there??
???
????
No, but the grass is always on the greener side bro 🤓☝🏻
@@unicorn73212 That sounds like clinical depression...
This is like when you’ve been having trouble catching fish and you’re hungry, but after days of catching nothing, you catch something, but then decide, “Nah, I’ll catch a bigger, better fish if I wait a little longer,” only to go back to complaining that you’re hungry and haven’t hooked anything in days.
"Men poop and women cry." How many times do I have to apologize for the smell? I can't control it.
Don’t let BigWomanTM fool you! Women poop too!! Look at them! They have butts!!
Intersex people cry when they poop
Believe me, even 5 gallons of freshly poured Sauvignon Blanc are gonna smell like... _you know._
Honestly I just try to not fart in a place where theres not alot of people. Crowded places tho? Issa free for all baby.
6:17 the study also showed that 77% of women don’t give their numbers to random dudes on the street, regardless of what car he s standing next to
Oh no, 'The Button'...
Yeah people will buzz people before they even really get a chance to talk. Lol.
not the button
@@TaraTara-ld2xb moderators are the worst, like security guards at the church. the latter will throw you out of church and not let the pastor know about it.
@@TaraTara-ld2xbThe only one who would have gotten an immediate buzz from me was the furry. I’m willing to give everyone else a chance.
@@jeremy_brent Simple, don't go to church.
11:10 “What the f*** is a professional cuddler?”
C’mon Shoe, you know *E X A C T L Y* what that is
It's like a janitor calling themselves a 'custodial engineer'.
Are you implying that she was a dirty gardening tool of the plowing persuasion? 🧐
AKA the "I fuck strangers" profession
A deathbed companion?
surprisingly that's like an actual job that's like just cuddling, like there's no sex, just cuddles
I think this is a personality issue and not a gender issue.
Societal and Culture too. People are easily brainwashed and want to follow their surroundings most of the time. They just want the people around them, to like them. So if your raised in a religious family or area, that's going to have an effect, and what religion it is, the same with culture.
When what you are is your entire personality, rather than who you are.
@@GreyfauxxGamingdefinitely. Something that happens a *lottt* in my country is that people who grow up on christian households will never be in a relationship with someone if they're not christian.
There's so much to people other than religion that I think it's stupid to have such a shallow dealbreaker in dating, it's like:
"He's a 10 but is muslim" / "0/10"
Disagreeing with people make them interesting, if you only date people who 100% agree with you and have the same beliefs as you you're not trying to date someone, you're trying to date yourself
bruh it a gender issue did you even watch video the vast majority shoe said was shallow was female by far margin and also most petty
@@alternateaqua This is what we have come to. And it is sad and pathetic.
Damn my issue is I can't tell the difference between flirting or being nice
I don't have that issue, people simply never flirt with me.
i mean theres not a lot, its mainly in the personal connection and physical attention
like if someone is asking a lot of personal questions and complimenting ur looks then its prolly flirting
The “I’m low key illiterate” had me DYING
When that guy said he doesn't like "colorful hair" what he was actually saying is "I don't wanna date a Tumblr girl."
It's not the saturation that's the problem, it's the hue.
So it's not the intensity of the color, it's the color? What colors do you associate with Tumblr girls?
@@alzgrex5304 unnatural colors
with that said. send them my way
@@alzgrex5304 soft lilac vs stripper pink
@@alzgrex5304any unnatural color (like pink in a video), double/triple colored hair, side cut, tattoos, piercing. All of that is a red flag.
I'm here just for the comments. LOL
Brooo , the asian guy checking their weight with a hug , has som top tier investigation skills.
he aint fooling around fr
Nahh, he was just cheating by doing that. Why even go on a blindfold dating show if you're gonna cheat?
@@rosee8140 the others didn't have to use a blindfold, but he did, he made the best of the situation imo
He’s just an asshole
@@rosee8140 if none stops him, is it cheating?
Everyone missed you little buddy - glad to see you back amd bringing the smiles again!
My response to "what are you political beliefs" would be "try to convince me to yours and you'll see if we share them"
Yeah, explain your complicated personal believes in 5 seconds please ...
I'd answer idgaf about politics, what's your favorite food.
As someone who does care about my dates politics, I would just bring up the topics that I consider to be deal breakers to see how they stand and how they react. This way I don't have to worry about all of the tertiary things that aren't dealerbreakers and therefore don't matter at the beginning.
But here's the thing: I do this with friends as well, so I don't know how people are getting all the way to dating without knowing this stuff unless they're meeting the people online... In which case that's what the dating profile is for.
Ah, the one thing that will instantly get me to date a woman: their politics. From what I've seen so far, anyone who's obsessed with it are miserable, most of the time.
@odindarkll3706
Ya, hating half of all people isn't healthy, no matter who you are
0:59
3 things
1- Woman (optional)
2- Alive (optional)
3- Likes me back (optional)
You want to screw a dead body?
2 of those are illegal...
Personally I go for:
1. is female (optional)
2. Has at least some sense of humor
If "Has given me a compliment" is true, then marriage proposal is also true
Lower your ridiculous standards my dude.
vile
Low expectations-> low quality offering -> rejected
All that dating game show proved is that we're both egotistical and as soon as we sense rejection we have to reject first.
I think it made for a nice honeypot. Maybe they can do more and host them in a single city so it's easier to avoid them.
Also these people want their moment of fame so they want to reject ppl to stay on the show.
yea the show itself and the results aren't necessarily reflective of the real world HOWEVER, the personalities we see on display are very likely.
The warhammer joke hit me hard lol. Love your vids
I agree with your point about abundance culture. Chasing perfection will ruin modern culture.
These people need to pick up a bible 🙏
It already has, unfortunately.
Will? No... HAS
This is just a social experiment of people trying to do the rejecting before they get rejected, and they don't even realize it. They anticipate that it's going to happen so they want to make sure they do it before the other person can.
It's a weird version of game theory, basically
Yup, it's a game of reflexes at this point. Cringe AF.
That was my first thought! The button shouldn’t be in the middle, they should be able to silently hit and it goes off later or something
That was my first thought! The button shouldn’t be in the middle, they should be able to silently hit and it goes off later or something
It seemed like gender revenge from the people on set that day.
Teacher guy was based for walking back in just to reject teacher girl for “keeping her options open”. Respect!
Her "options" as a 2 xD
I was sitting here like "Please push the button, please push the button on that bitch" and he did. Absolute Chad!
and while walking back "Well well well. Look what we have here"
Yep, she'll always be "looking for better" even after you get married to her, not worth the hassle. The only reason she's dating you is because she hasn't been able to find "better" yet but as soon as it comes along she's outtie 500 meanwhile she'll have one foot out of the door the entire relationship using you as a place holder and treating you as such.
I guess every normal person would reject her in his shoes.
The button gives me hope that even though I’m gonna die alone… a solid 48% of everyone else is doomed too.
With some effort we can get that up to 70%, easy.
People being unapologetically rude to one another. Who tf watches these without experiencing physical pain
Diagnosable psychopaths
I think you need to be a certain type of person to even consider going on this show to begin with, so the responses don't surprise me. I still believe these are the lowest minority ppl but that percentage is likely growing.
I don't experience physical pain, but I do occasionally catch a case of cringe and second-hand embarrassment.
I have struggled too breath before from watching Aba n Preach cover the button episodes. The burns that have been dished out are legendary in my book.
I had to pause a few times when watching this. The people on The Button are almost peaking my cringe receptors.
22:25: There is a quote that summarizes this very well, "The grass isn't greener on the other side--it's greener WHERE YOU WATER IT."
Good one!
It's greener over the septic tank, too.
@@aaronmoore6275As a former driver of the turd hearse, It's actually above the leachfield Unless you're tank is pegging out, meaning your leachfield is fucked lol.
@@aaronmoore6275🤣🤣🤣🤣 it does make the grass grow!
"The grass is greener where the dogs go to take a shit."
Cant we all just be terrible together and call it even?
I second this
Of course not
Let us be married... unless you have p3n!5.😢
No, social science proves that people are only comfortable when they feel superior to those around them. The result is that the men v women pissing contest will never end.
No, it's called the human race, and races have a winner.
'I'm lowkey illiterate' had me rolling 😅😂
6:24 "Men have nice cars. Not because we like nice cars, but because we know women like nice cars" -Dave Chappelle
LEGIT thought of that quote this morning too 😂
Nah, thats bullshit. I know quite a few guys that fucking live and breathe for their car
As someone who owns a legit nice car, well a sports car anyways, I get a lot more men eyeing it then women eyeing me.
@@dkznikolaj7013a few men that breathe cars doesn’t change his quote on what Dave chapel said. There is truth to that. Better cars better chances of mating/dating
Nah, I have 4 cars and don't give a shit what women think of them. My GF actually wants me to get rid of them.
Real men have nice cars because they appreciate them, not for some pathetic status symbol.
Denying the existence of Car guys is crazy
"Astrology is racism for white women" You nailed it! I've been trying to articulate for years what I can't stand about astrology.
Where I live, it’s the black women obsessed with zodiacs.
It's just spacism lmao
It’s space racism. It’s “spacism”…
@@BessieRiggsAsians, even Latinas, it's really just leftist women in general
Astrology is just religion for people who don't want to be religious.
That's usually how I put it.
Belated Congrats! I hope Little Shoe is doing well!
4:12 you can if you work as an undertaker
LEL
“Before I tell you if my height starts with six, I need to know if your weight starts with two.” Abject savagery 😂.
I don't think many of those rejection reasons were sincere, they didn't like what they saw.
Yeah, they're mostly just appereance based and they blurt whatever comes to mind first because they don't want to feel/look like an asshole. Some of it is genuine self denial, too. They don't want to admit that they're that shallow, so they look for whatever bullshit reason.
So when you're not attracted to morbidly obese women you're shallow?
That furry is named Cryptic, he's hung out at my house and we made fun of this dating show so much
tell him we love him
@@Shoe0nHead I'm someone who believes in the good of humanity. However, this comment makes me wish the world should burn.
He sounds like a cool dude
He is very shibby
Legend behaviour to go in full fursuit. Full respect
I love how people say most men are picky yet most of us will fall in love with the McDonald’s cashier 😂
To be fair the McDonalds cashier is 19 and either inner city, goth or has some high school personality. Like she’s a cheerleader type or some shit. Which still isn’t helping us out any. See I know this, because my first job was at McDonalds and the women in front counter are always the first to friend zone you.
I’ve been married 22 years. Same girl for 30. Good lord in heaven, am I lucky. Holy cow. Woe to my daughter who will enter the 20s in just a few years. OMG…
It is so over. I have 20 years of marriage. What is out there is terror.
I'm looking at marriage but on the fence... Seeing what's out there is making me think I have it far better than most
She'll complain theres too many options and wonder why everyone wants her. Then end up like these people.
Yeah i didn't met any girl who was right for me in past though i didn't met much girls anyway since i had personal problems. Now im 28 and i basically gave up lol. Dating scene is just garbage and its really not worth it.
Send me her number.
Technically, the entire show is about being shallow. You learn one or two things about the person and reject/accept them on that basis alone.
...That's literally what speed dating is. Most dating in general, in fact.
As a 5'6" man who dated a 6' 1" girl, the whole " how tall are you" question is just wild.
How tall am I? Doesn't matter, you're not tall enough for my short king ass.
Lol. Hopefully you've got a hell of a personality, dude.
As a 6'5 man hobbit huts give me concussions
Just ask them how much they weigh
Lol. He gets the assignment. My 5'7/5'8 ass was with a 5'11 chick. Can't say all of them value height.
as a fellow 5'6" guy, please tell me where to find the 6'1" girls im begging you
The best I ever heard "Men look for a woman who can bring peace."
22:21 my jaw dropped. I was in shock. They're sat there, they're about as attractive as each other, same style, they both like pedagogy and comic con and-- 🚨🚨PEHMHM 🚨
This must be why everyone is single these days. Even when they meet someone they objectively should meet a few times to explore potential, they can't commit.
"haha red button go brrrt"
I think she might have been the worst. "I like him a lot, but I need to keep my options open". Like girl, that's why you will be forever single.
story of women and the elevator. it is never enough and they always looking for a better option
@@TimeLordVictrix Forever be played*
I’d watch the Anshoe Tate podcast.
Shoe smoking cigars with sunglasses on a dark room telling us to escape the matrix
gotta love some decoy with your shoe in the afternoon, cheers king for the comment and content
It would be pretty wild 😂
With water temporary tattoos on her arms
@@lordfriedrick7911 shoe would 100% get permanent tats for a 30 second joke
The Button gives me a gnarly mix of 2nd-hand embarrassment and anger. Every time something starts to get embarrassing, I want to look away, but then it makes me angry and I want scream at these bozo's.
I got that Fight AND Flight response.
"An unstoppable force meeting an unmovable object". Got to agree with your friend. You are funny 😂.
Anyone who shows up for this kind of experiment is a red flag
I think that's too broad, most people here were definitely very.. "odd", but there were a few okay ones
It Looks more Like anpsychosocial Experiment of an university
New shoe dropped.
Is it on the other foot?
I'm waiting for the other one
Shoe's analysis here is objectively better than most academic studies. I'm so sick of academics pretending that self-reported attraction statements, are data.
Lol, yep. Swipe data on dating apps reveals a lot more about what women actually want than the "right answer" lies they all repeat.
@@hatman4818 I feel like one of the studies that's missing from this conversation goes something like "which gender tends to deviate from their stated preferences and values more", and I think we all know the answer here.... (hint: it's not the Quin-gendered)
@@hatman4818 what women say they want and what they actually want are not the same. They know they would be judged as bad people if they were open about what they want.
Most of these studies are conducted by dating apps, they're not academic. Academic sociological studies try to use tricky questioning to circumvent lying or lack of introspection.
Those studies Shoe mentioned were from OKCupid.
@@alongfortheride84i remember reading a study where they had a computer game simulating the ability to drop bombs on people. They tested men and women to see how often they dropped bombs on people, and then tested those men and women again when they could drop bombs on people without the experiment staff knowing who they were. In both tests, men dropped bombs om people at roughly similar rates. Whereas with women, the women didn't bomb too many people when the experiment staff could seeing them doing it, but when the women were led to believe that the staff couldn't see them doing it, they bombed people FOUR TIMES AS OFTEN AS THE MEN DID!!!!
That tells you everything you need to know about women. The differences in their behavior when being observed vs when being not observed are much bigger than the differences in how men act when being observed vs not observed.
I feel like i could never be funny on a first meeting. my humor is like 50% being a depressed person and 50% making fun of myself.
I don’t think you would be funny period
@@Fauwkesyou just made him 100% depressed
I didn't know hagmaxxing was terminology that existed. That's such a ridiculous term. I burst out laughing.
I mean that's prob a easier lay up then going for entitled women in her prime ... 🤷
I've learned a new word.
That was a hoax created by 4chan, for the record. I'm not joking, look into it
This video actually boosted my self-esteem. I’m horrendous at social interaction but at least I know I’m not a ghoul like half the people on this stupid (dating?) show.
Everyone in the video has to be from Silicon Valley.
I heard someone mention Seattle. That checks out.
Nah, these ppl looked like they still had a soul...just barely but it's there. Definitely not from Silicon Valley
They are just the average people from a Los Angeles actor casting call
Shoe: You can’t just shove men and women into boxes.
Morticians: 😬
Truly a fantastic comment!
The fact that ur most popular vid is 8 years ago and u haven’t fallen off still getting 1 mil views on average is crazy
That substitute teacher, cosplay girl that turned down Xavier really is the epitome of the Husband store analogy*.
He's great but I want to see if it gets better! Wait, why is there nothing on this floor?
Whats the husband store metaphor?
@young-salt a store with several floors with better and better guys on each floor. But you cant go back down. The women keep going up only to reach a floor that is entirely empty. Then complain they are alone when they could have had any man on any of the floors below.
They should teach the husband store story at all schools. I think it's just a great lesson about being too picky in general.
@@stormveil thanks blud
make it a little more abstract just to be sure that the next generation of lads doesn't end up being the ones who think you can "trade up" when it comes to people
29:13 space suit guy was tripping balls
I always thought that was obvious
The issue is ppl think "the grass is always greener on the other side." When, inevitably, in the end, they end up with a barren field because they thought there was better.
"the grass is always greener on the other side."
Because it's covered in sh*t.
This is one of the funniest things I've seen on youtube in months. The gavel killed me. Subbed.
honestly I respect the guy who came in fully decked out in the furry suit, I guess he's saving time on people who don't wanna deal with that sort of thing.
If my surprise date were to show up on the first encounter *in a fucking fursuit* I would be hitting that button like my father’s backhand before he could step a foot closer to me and I’d be calling the cops without hesitation.
He found a girl in another show if I remember correctly. It was a blind date thing and he showed up in the suit and she was so happy it was wholesome as hell.
@@shortwave737 I guess there's somebody for everyone lol
He is such a Chad for that fr
Not to mention she missed out big, those suits ain't cheap and those weirdos are usually making bank.
This is series on loneliness is super on point. We just don't give anyone a chance. I think you're circling around the main point, instant gratification and impossible expectations.
As the vampire princess is introduced
Me: "She sounds like my type."
Shoe: "And you in the audience, absolutely would."
Me: "Well shit."
Yes
Every man who would warn you against going with her even once looked at her and thought "I could get away with it just once".