I'm sorry but I do not agree with any of this. What you're saying is that men should somehow take responsibility and fix a problem they did not create. If there is a reason why sex is not on the table she needs to communicate that and help her man understand why. Then offer some solution that is workable to both parties. If a man is not performing his duties it's never up to his wife to pick up the slack and fix it so why should men. This type of advice is why men end u' feeling g like they do all the work in the relationship and end up with tons of resentment towards their partners
I agree 💯, cuz I've been in tons of relationships with women & if she's going through something & won't talk about it or solve the problem, there's not a lot I or someone else can do. And yeah, I'm not going to cater to her until she's good and ready to give it up. If the pattern continues where I gotta keep her propped up & continue to have lack of intimacy & sex, the relationship is gonna suffer, cuz I only have so much tolerance for her being all about herself. I'm honestly really sick of women that are so self centered that they never think of their partner's needs. F that. If you keep with holding sex from me, yeah, things are gonna fizzle out & yeah I am gonna ditch your arse by the side of the road, so to speak, cuz I don't have time for women's constant emotional roller coaster rides. Been there too many times & done that too many times. Give it up or get lost.
Get a grip dudes..listen up. We men are the masculine. If she shakes your ground..many times it's to see if you are in control of your emotions. Be stoic..be a man and deal with it. She will respect you for it
This puts all the responsibility on men, for communication and tolerance. If the man is faithful, his sexual interest is a compliment to the woman. Perhaps it is female hypergamy and she is trying to dump the man? If the man is providing for her and children, it is not acceptable for him to be treated as though he only wants one thing. That is a form of gaslighting and it could just as easily be her who is tired of him.
So the message is ignore our own needs. Give till we have nothing more to give. Accept that females are allowed to be emotional but not us. Shut our mouths if we’re feeling unloved , depressed and full of anxiety. Even if we’re craving some affection and human touch , man up and forget it. Ignore our desire and love for our partner? I’m actually trying to do that and if I’m successful then I WILL have no desire and love for her. Then it’s going to be over. Is that the ultimate goal?
If you go to your regular restaurant that always serves roasted chicken, & you request an order for it, but they tell you they're not serving it today, you don't have to go hungry or settle for another meal you don't want. You can just go to another restaurant that you know serves the exact same roasted chicken, order it there & still enjoy your roasted chicken. When your regular restaurant realize they could lose their regular customer forever if they continue not to serve that roasted chicken which you can order elsewhere, they'll make an effort to make sure they have it available the next time you come. This isn't about restaurants & roasted chicken.
@@LincyMcGabby The kitchen has been closed for a long time, they are physically stopping me from visiting another restaurant and I’m not allowed to cook for myself. It’s not about food.
It is crazy to me that people in the comments think this is not good advice. This is actually spot on. Finally a video with solid advice. Blessings Jessica.
I'm beginning to realize I don't have much patience for this anymore. It's not that I don't care. I feel overwhelmed working all day coming home tired myself and then having to deal with the enigma we call women. The emotional rollercoaster is enough to lead to arguments as your night cap and I have to get up in the morning and be pissed off again for another 8 hours and then pick up where I left off with the argument the night before. I value peace and simplicity. I enjoy conversations that get to the point without all the static. I'd much rather invest my time in a solution rather than try to guess what got her pissed off today because I didn't notice something, say something or do something. I'm just too tired some days to make a mental note of everything to keep other people happy. I want to feel like I'm allowed to be human sometimes.
@@MrFreeze29 Be calm, bro. Ask what why and how she is feeling. Navigate this to get a feel, and you will know, to push or pull. Sadly it often ends is pulling away, working and focus on YOU, put you first. Your happiness, your healthy. Laughing with friends. Home should be your peace, if not time to break up and address above. Good luck
I am going to say that you should present yourself in this light with her. Depending on her reply to you and YOUR EMOTIONAL needs will actually determine the longevity/brevity of your relationship with her.
Jessica made some valid points. A conversation needs to be had, however, like with any type of relationship, simply evaluate it. Sometimes the juice isn’t worth the squeeze. If you are not married, give it a little time to see if it can be worked out. If there are no children, take the L and RUN 🏃🏾♂️. She just may not be that into you. Waiting around usually cost time and money. From a man’s perspective, sex is usually a deal breaker. To not have that intimacy is torture. Torture in the sense that the woman wants the man to be faithful and contribute monetarily to the relationship without sex. How long do you think a man is going to be down with that idea. A partner is like an asset, either you are in a good space or cut your losses. Chances are she will not change in marriage and neither the guy.
This topic is very touchy... I dont like the idea that she "gives" her man sex. It makes it sound like a reward. And the whole video focuses on what the man should do to "get" sex. My question is where does the woman take responsibility for her part? Intimacy is supposed to be a two way thing, are women not supposed to make effort? What happens if the man does all these things and still doesnt "get" it? I believe for balance both partners should make effort to ensure intimacy for long term stability. . Sometimes it feels like its all about women... Most times a mans emotional needs are completely neglected.
Why are women not talking about these early enough to avoid all this mistakes. Women should be open in relationships otherwise they make dating appear like a one sided thing where women rule and men must spend the entire time reading their unspoken issues....I disagree with being closed up and expecting that the other partner will read it right.
It's like they expect us to be psychics or mind readers and that drains a lot of mental energy considering all that men have to juggle with life and social expectations. I always believe life can very simple if we are more open on our relationships and express our feelings mutually and clearly
I’m at the stage of my life if my partner not being intimate with me. That’s it I’m done I’m leaving the relationship. No more security and stability. Your exhausted from work ok that’s fine I’m exhausted from supporting you financially bye
I agree 💯. I've dated tons of women & the more attention you give them, the more they disrespect you. Coach Corey Wayne says not to be a woman's emotional tampon. She can go talk to a therapist. That's what they're for. Give it up or get out.
Thank you for the great video explaining why the connection😊 is the most important part of the relationship and some ways to actually explore it and not sabotage it in the process.
Jessica, your solutions are simple and reasonable. I also understand why so many men feel jaded. Women have a lot going on inside of them, and as men its very difficult to be understanding and patient when your hormones are raging. I think that there should be equity in a relationship. Many of the men who made negative comment's, did so because they felt betrayed by your advice. They only heard what your advice is to a man, as if its all on him to fix it. They didn't hear what advice you would give a woman. Would you tell women that most men need sex as much as they need to breathe (or so they think)? How would you tell her to solve that problem? Would you tell her to be understanding? Would you tell her to change how she thinks about sex and get with the program? "Of course not!" Yet, that's what it seems like you're telling us men. Notice, I said "Seems like." I know that your advice is good, I'm simply trying to show why so many other guys don't agree with you. I think both men and women need to know what the other needs in the relationship to be happy, then do their absolute best to fulfill it. You're entitled to miss it sometimes, but when you realize that you've missed it; get it together and get back on track.
For all the ones who disagree with her, in my opinion, she’s absolutely right, she’s giving you the tools to rebuild your sex life and to become more mature when confronting these kinds of challenges, this video has been eye and heart opening at the same time, if it doesn’t work with your person after you doing all of this, then it’s time to step it up, know your worth and walk away, but if it does work, then she is right, then we have been wrong, women are wired differently than men, women have vagina, not penis’s, that in and of itself self shows that we operate differently. I use to have the negative mindset, but this has helped me a lot, thank you Jessica.
Women need to think hard about why they got married in the first place and why her husband married her and not another woman. Men don't need trophy wives nor do they marry to deal with their wives' insecurities. A man marries his wife and expects her not to change meanwhile his wife expects him to change. A husband's duty is to protect, provide and procreate and a wife's duty is to give peace, pleasantness and pleasure to her husband. If she can't provide any of her duties then why is she there. A man will spend less time where there is less peace or pleasure. If the wife fears getting pregnant and withholds intimacy then that's a deal breaker, just like a cheating wife. That's why at times men think that polygamy might be the solution to this kind of nonsense, otherwise they might cut their losses and move on
If you want to have a marriage to a modern woman, buy a BMW that's out of warranty. Wanna marry a bad B? Buy a Maserati out of warranty. If you want to be married to a good woman, buy a Lexus.
Great vid Jess,I've also found that some Women are just very concerned about unwanted pregnancy,not all women like taking the pill or using other methods and so subconsciously will avoid penetrative sex or reduce the frequency of doing it to a minimum as this will be on her mind and keep her a bit tense and reduce her enjoyment,this can cause real problems but things will improve a lot once the man understands the real issue 😘x
When this happened in my relationship, the solution you recommended worked with no expectation of sex, I had even decided to just be looking at her, when she made the first move, I gently rejected her but accepted at her 2nd attempt…
Each person’s mate is different.. this advice matches only to a case that fits the female who is truly this way.. other than that it’s proven women play serious games when it comes to this stuff
Porn will hurt you overtime. While it isn't justified or a good thing to turn to, it is definitely understandable as opposed to cheating or ending the relationship. No I am not advocating for it, but women need to understand the reasoning behind it.
2:00 why all the excuses to protect women, when women are single, none of those excuses apply, they still give it up regardless of stress or body image etc
This video was fantastic but I will say the sheer amount of mental energy you will need daily to pull this off is heavy for men. If I have to do this for her which I’m willing to do…I would probably struggle in my own emotional state with ‘life balancing’….With men fighting the world and trying not to be our own worst enemies. Putting this level of detail into another person to just keep the relationship stable or happy even would be very difficult. Again I’m willing and I WILL but my goodness I’ll need daily mental training and exercises just to not regress
How badly does she want it to work? I've made all these mistakes but I'm also a person with needs and emotions. I tried everything and I don't see her putting any work. @@JessicaOS
If you’re addicted to porn, I can see it being an issue, you shouldn’t just gravitate towards porn, you should ask your partner what is going on and they should be able to be adult enough to tell you. But porn will never be a substitute for a human being, I would never tradea human partner and the sexual intimacy for porn pornography, they just don’t add up.
Did all of that and doesn’t even work… I just got a new hobby and started to working to bring more money. She right and not right at the same time….. I did all of that and my wife “is”psychologist too plus…. 😂🎉😢😢😢
2:40 The fix is found in the Word of God.... The Bible instructs us that we should not deprive your spouse of intimacy or sex, except for a private worship session with the Lord in prayer. (1 Corinthians 7:5)
Alright Jessy ❤. But seriously to a large extent do we need this relationship of a thing though? Cuz it's crazy how you gotta go thru all this to keep up! 🤔
@Jessica i have tried all these subtle approaches but it didnt work. My woman is so adamant that even your best of formulars will be dashed. I even went ahead to set up a huge business for her yet, it didnt change a thing. Shes super depressed because she cant give us babies and i have sacrifice my blood just to get us any medical solutions but to no avail. I pushed for adoption, she turned it down. No sex, no laughs, no plays, no going out together, no eating together etc. Thats how bad it can get when you are with a depressed woman for no fault of yours.
So what is your advice for a man that has done all of this and still haven't anything changed or she's giving more attention to other people versus you
Hi I agree with most of this, but don't you think? The woman's got a responsibility too, and let her know that. That's what the man needs from her. It aint all just time to man. A woman's gotta do her part 2. So maybe you should tell their women what they need to do, because when the men don't get his needs. There's a reason a man neglect her needs it works both ways, not just one side.Need the guy's job to do all the work
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
fellas, if she's not giving you sex go get your needs met by other women. Unless its ppd or something else very serious and you are married, if the two of you are not having sex they have no say in your sexuality.
7:00 Men, scale yourselves up as much as possible, learn to be ok alone. If she stops participating, walk away and don't complain. She will understand and change her behavior. Don't let the shaming tactic "real men..." fool you. Real are leaders and can stand alone, leave her and the kids, she'll get in line and if not there will be other women drawn to your strength.
Jesse you really gathered alot more information thanks for helping us men in world of complicated female creatures however much men do more for their lovers ,at the end of days they let with the un said side inside burning in .( my brothers mental health and self care is key than fighting sx)
I was in a relationship in which she withheld it. I stopped giving a damn about her completely until she left herself 1.5 years later. Thank u. Now i know why she withheld it.
Did this person or partner of yours ever tell you why she was withholding sex? Did you ask? If she wasn’t grown up enough to at least tell you why there was a major changing relationship, that’s as much on her as anybody. We’ve got to be grownups here, if something changes in the relationship, you have to be big enough to tell the other person why!
Totally disagree ❌ If you have been in a relationship that long and she isn’t willing to give you what she can offer just get another. All relationships should be symbiotic, that’s how relationships have lasted long and very strong bonds Imagine paying someone’s bills, working all day and you come back to that 🚮. Sorry but I totally disagree
Hi Jessi, I don't agree with the answers offered, a man has to give a lot of himself for about 2 minutes for some kind of emotional connection. When even a woman doesn't know the definition of emotional connection, another problem is the awareness of sexuality at a young age. If neither a man nor a woman can master this, they cannot find happiness in marriage.That's just my opinion and no one has to accept it. If I tried so hard to be accepted by someone who had complexes and traumas, they wouldn't try so hard. I see few healthy people happy in relationships.
This is one-sided! She needs to understand that men cannot read her mind; communication is essential. Both partners must work together to keep the relationship moving forward. Men typically lead in courting, but she also needs to provide emotional support; this is crucial. If she withdraws, it's important to address the issue. If she pulls back and isn’t ready to talk, give her space until she is comfortable discussing it. However, both partners should be equally invested in making the relationship work.
Guys i just broke up with my girlfriend thinking that she's Faithfull while on the other hand, she was just playing games with me, to my fellow men be careful about women😢
This is exactly what am going through right now... I was nagging about it, constantly fighting for my place as the husband. But I found out that she's not happy with our financial status and many ills going on...
So??? if you’re not enough of a grown-up to tell your partner what you’re feeling then that’s not a partner worth having, you don’t cut sex out of your relationship and not tell your partner what’s happening, that’s as much on the wife’s fault as it is anybody’s. People aren’t mind readers, how about a heads up?
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I'm sorry but I do not agree with any of this. What you're saying is that men should somehow take responsibility and fix a problem they did not create. If there is a reason why sex is not on the table she needs to communicate that and help her man understand why. Then offer some solution that is workable to both parties. If a man is not performing his duties it's never up to his wife to pick up the slack and fix it so why should men. This type of advice is why men end u' feeling g like they do all the work in the relationship and end up with tons of resentment towards their partners
I agree 💯, cuz I've been in tons of relationships with women & if she's going through something & won't talk about it or solve the problem, there's not a lot I or someone else can do. And yeah, I'm not going to cater to her until she's good and ready to give it up. If the pattern continues where I gotta keep her propped up & continue to have lack of intimacy & sex, the relationship is gonna suffer, cuz I only have so much tolerance for her being all about herself. I'm honestly really sick of women that are so self centered that they never think of their partner's needs. F that. If you keep with holding sex from me, yeah, things are gonna fizzle out & yeah I am gonna ditch your arse by the side of the road, so to speak, cuz I don't have time for women's constant emotional roller coaster rides. Been there too many times & done that too many times. Give it up or get lost.
Get a grip dudes..listen up. We men are the masculine. If she shakes your ground..many times it's to see if you are in control of your emotions. Be stoic..be a man and deal with it. She will respect you for it
Of course Jessica is just trying to be helpful to us, but why should us men be overworked??
_NEVER EVER LET YOUR PARTNER MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP A CHALLENGE, PERIOD_
If the relationship becomes a challenge, then she has to go. Life for a man is already tough and don't need any extra madness. Period.
This puts all the responsibility on men, for communication and tolerance. If the man is faithful, his sexual interest is a compliment to the woman. Perhaps it is female hypergamy and she is trying to dump the man? If the man is providing for her and children, it is not acceptable for him to be treated as though he only wants one thing. That is a form of gaslighting and it could just as easily be her who is tired of him.
So the message is ignore our own needs. Give till we have nothing more to give. Accept that females are allowed to be emotional but not us. Shut our mouths if we’re feeling unloved , depressed and full of anxiety. Even if we’re craving some affection and human touch , man up and forget it. Ignore our desire and love for our partner? I’m actually trying to do that and if I’m successful then I WILL have no desire and love for her. Then it’s going to be over. Is that the ultimate goal?
If you go to your regular restaurant that always serves roasted chicken, & you request an order for it, but they tell you they're not serving it today, you don't have to go hungry or settle for another meal you don't want. You can just go to another restaurant that you know serves the exact same roasted chicken, order it there & still enjoy your roasted chicken. When your regular restaurant realize they could lose their regular customer forever if they continue not to serve that roasted chicken which you can order elsewhere, they'll make an effort to make sure they have it available the next time you come. This isn't about restaurants & roasted chicken.
@@LincyMcGabby The kitchen has been closed for a long time, they are physically stopping me from visiting another restaurant and I’m not allowed to cook for myself. It’s not about food.
I agree 💯 with not having to constantly put your partner 1st, cuz she Definitely Does Not.
Damn I decided it wasn't worth waiting for marriage, I mean the other restaurant is just next door
It is crazy to me that people in the comments think this is not good advice. This is actually spot on. Finally a video with solid advice. Blessings Jessica.
I'm beginning to realize I don't have much patience for this anymore. It's not that I don't care. I feel overwhelmed working all day coming home tired myself and then having to deal with the enigma we call women. The emotional rollercoaster is enough to lead to arguments as your night cap and I have to get up in the morning and be pissed off again for another 8 hours and then pick up where I left off with the argument the night before. I value peace and simplicity. I enjoy conversations that get to the point without all the static. I'd much rather invest my time in a solution rather than try to guess what got her pissed off today because I didn't notice something, say something or do something. I'm just too tired some days to make a mental note of everything to keep other people happy. I want to feel like I'm allowed to be human sometimes.
@@MrFreeze29 get another
@@MrFreeze29 Be calm, bro.
Ask what why and how she is feeling.
Navigate this to get a feel, and you will know, to push or pull. Sadly it often ends is pulling away, working and focus on YOU, put you first. Your happiness, your healthy. Laughing with friends.
Home should be your peace, if not time to break up and address above.
Good luck
I am going to say that you should present yourself in this light with her. Depending on her reply to you and YOUR EMOTIONAL needs will actually determine the longevity/brevity of your relationship with her.
That's why side chicks have been invented!
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Until they want the full relationship 😅
@drtomoyah8805 Then you ghost her
Jessica made some valid points. A conversation needs to be had, however, like with any type of relationship, simply evaluate it. Sometimes the juice isn’t worth the squeeze. If you are not married, give it a little time to see if it can be worked out. If there are no children, take the L and RUN 🏃🏾♂️. She just may not be that into you. Waiting around usually cost time and money. From a man’s perspective, sex is usually a deal breaker. To not have that intimacy is torture. Torture in the sense that the woman wants the man to be faithful and contribute monetarily to the relationship without sex. How long do you think a man is going to be down with that idea. A partner is like an asset, either you are in a good space or cut your losses. Chances are she will not change in marriage and neither the guy.
This topic is very touchy... I dont like the idea that she "gives" her man sex. It makes it sound like a reward. And the whole video focuses on what the man should do to "get" sex. My question is where does the woman take responsibility for her part? Intimacy is supposed to be a two way thing, are women not supposed to make effort? What happens if the man does all these things and still doesnt "get" it? I believe for balance both partners should make effort to ensure intimacy for long term stability. . Sometimes it feels like its all about women... Most times a mans emotional needs are completely neglected.
Why are women not talking about these early enough to avoid all this mistakes. Women should be open in relationships otherwise they make dating appear like a one sided thing where women rule and men must spend the entire time reading their unspoken issues....I disagree with being closed up and expecting that the other partner will read it right.
I agree it makes no sense man are simple just ssy what's going g on and we can help fix it .
It's like they expect us to be psychics or mind readers and that drains a lot of mental energy considering all that men have to juggle with life and social expectations. I always believe life can very simple if we are more open on our relationships and express our feelings mutually and clearly
I’m at the stage of my life if my partner not being intimate with me. That’s it I’m done I’m leaving the relationship. No more security and stability. Your exhausted from work ok that’s fine I’m exhausted from supporting you financially bye
On with you on this one bro
Women are not the employer they are the employees
In short, we must be simps. What responsibility does she have? She must growup and deal with her insecurities.
well said
I disagree. Everything said was about her…that’s a problem in and of itself
I agree 💯. I've dated tons of women & the more attention you give them, the more they disrespect you. Coach Corey Wayne says not to be a woman's emotional tampon. She can go talk to a therapist. That's what they're for. Give it up or get out.
Thank you for the great video explaining why the connection😊 is the most important part of the relationship and some ways to actually explore it and not sabotage it in the process.
Jessica, your solutions are simple and reasonable. I also understand why so many men feel jaded. Women have a lot going on inside of them, and as men its very difficult to be understanding and patient when your hormones are raging. I think that there should be equity in a relationship. Many of the men who made negative comment's, did so because they felt betrayed by your advice. They only heard what your advice is to a man, as if its all on him to fix it. They didn't hear what advice you would give a woman. Would you tell women that most men need sex as much as they need to breathe (or so they think)? How would you tell her to solve that problem? Would you tell her to be understanding? Would you tell her to change how she thinks about sex and get with the program? "Of course not!" Yet, that's what it seems like you're telling us men. Notice, I said "Seems like." I know that your advice is good, I'm simply trying to show why so many other guys don't agree with you. I think both men and women need to know what the other needs in the relationship to be happy, then do their absolute best to fulfill it. You're entitled to miss it sometimes, but when you realize that you've missed it; get it together and get back on track.
WELL! i have to divorce her quickly, no time to change a woman who is emotionally gone
I understand some of the comments of the guys in this section (lol), however this woman's perspective is gold worth. Thank you.
If feelings and emotions were that important there would be no prostitution
Wow, golden
Jessica, you are like an angel sent to some of us. May God keep using more and more, I'm learning a lot from you... love you mxwaah!😘
You are so welcome!
For all the ones who disagree with her, in my opinion, she’s absolutely right, she’s giving you the tools to rebuild your sex life and to become more mature when confronting these kinds of challenges, this video has been eye and heart opening at the same time, if it doesn’t work with your person after you doing all of this, then it’s time to step it up, know your worth and walk away, but if it does work, then she is right, then we have been wrong, women are wired differently than men, women have vagina, not penis’s, that in and of itself self shows that we operate differently. I use to have the negative mindset, but this has helped me a lot, thank you Jessica.
Women need to think hard about why they got married in the first place and why her husband married her and not another woman. Men don't need trophy wives nor do they marry to deal with their wives' insecurities. A man marries his wife and expects her not to change meanwhile his wife expects him to change. A husband's duty is to protect, provide and procreate and a wife's duty is to give peace, pleasantness and pleasure to her husband. If she can't provide any of her duties then why is she there. A man will spend less time where there is less peace or pleasure. If the wife fears getting pregnant and withholds intimacy then that's a deal breaker, just like a cheating wife. That's why at times men think that polygamy might be the solution to this kind of nonsense, otherwise they might cut their losses and move on
After listening to this i dont think i eber want to get married. Imagine spending a lifetime in a situation like this
If you want to have a marriage to a modern woman, buy a BMW that's out of warranty. Wanna marry a bad B? Buy a Maserati out of warranty. If you want to be married to a good woman, buy a Lexus.
Thank you Jessica for your interesting hints and advice!
Any time!
I thought women could communicate well ?
It seems none of us can .
Great vid Jess,I've also found that some Women are just very concerned about unwanted pregnancy,not all women like taking the pill or using other methods and so subconsciously will avoid penetrative sex or reduce the frequency of doing it to a minimum as this will be on her mind and keep her a bit tense and reduce her enjoyment,this can cause real problems but things will improve a lot once the man understands the real issue 😘x
When this happened in my relationship, the solution you recommended worked with no expectation of sex, I had even decided to just be looking at her, when she made the first move, I gently rejected her but accepted at her 2nd attempt…
Yes but not all girls deserve this . Key word is to know who does
Thanks for the show madam
This has been disturbing many of us guys
Each person’s mate is different.. this advice matches only to a case that fits the female who is truly this way.. other than that it’s proven women play serious games when it comes to this stuff
You're so gifted ,.. ❤️ Jessica , love what you are doing/giving to the societies....
Thank you so much!
Porn will hurt you overtime. While it isn't justified or a good thing to turn to, it is definitely understandable as opposed to cheating or ending the relationship. No I am not advocating for it, but women need to understand the reasoning behind it.
2:00 why all the excuses to protect women, when women are single, none of those excuses apply, they still give it up regardless of stress or body image etc
This is one of the video i always look for. Thank you before watching
Glad it was helpful!
This video was fantastic but I will say the sheer amount of mental energy you will need daily to pull this off is heavy for men. If I have to do this for her which I’m willing to do…I would probably struggle in my own emotional state with ‘life balancing’….With men fighting the world and trying not to be our own worst enemies. Putting this level of detail into another person to just keep the relationship stable or happy even would be very difficult. Again I’m willing and I WILL but my goodness I’ll need daily mental training and exercises just to not regress
This is true! The real question is though, how badly do you want your relationship to work?
How badly does she want it to work? I've made all these mistakes but I'm also a person with needs and emotions. I tried everything and I don't see her putting any work. @@JessicaOS
As a Man who is out growing his brash younger Years your channel is great.
If you’re addicted to porn, I can see it being an issue, you shouldn’t just gravitate towards porn, you should ask your partner what is going on and they should be able to be adult enough to tell you. But porn will never be a substitute for a human being, I would never tradea human partner and the sexual intimacy for porn pornography, they just don’t add up.
Exactly!!
Did all of that and doesn’t even work… I just got a new hobby and started to working to bring more money. She right and not right at the same time….. I did all of that and my wife “is”psychologist too plus…. 😂🎉😢😢😢
@@Boogimane just get a new one
2:40 The fix is found in the Word of God.... The Bible instructs us that we should not deprive your spouse of intimacy or sex, except for a private worship session with the Lord in prayer.
(1 Corinthians 7:5)
Thank you Jessica 🙏 Excellent lessons indeed 💫
Glad it was helpful!
Appreciate your time 🎉
My pleasure
Alright Jessy ❤. But seriously to a large extent do we need this relationship of a thing though? Cuz it's crazy how you gotta go thru all this to keep up! 🤔
@Jessica i have tried all these subtle approaches but it didnt work. My woman is so adamant that even your best of formulars will be dashed. I even went ahead to set up a huge business for her yet, it didnt change a thing. Shes super depressed because she cant give us babies and i have sacrifice my blood just to get us any medical solutions but to no avail. I pushed for adoption, she turned it down. No sex, no laughs, no plays, no going out together, no eating together etc. Thats how bad it can get when you are with a depressed woman for no fault of yours.
How About she open her mouth and talk. If she needs a counselor we have insurance. Smh.
So what is your advice for a man that has done all of this and still haven't anything changed or she's giving more attention to other people versus you
Leave her... she doesn't want you, just your financial support.
Yes, just leave if there's clearly no effort on her end
Fellas, watching porn does more harm than good. Period.
Hi I agree with most of this, but don't you think? The woman's got a responsibility too, and let her know that. That's what the man needs from her. It aint all just time to man. A woman's gotta do her part 2.
So maybe you should tell their women what they need to do, because when the men don't get his needs. There's a reason a man neglect her needs it works both ways, not just one side.Need the guy's job to do all the work
What about doing all this,still don’t get sex????
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
fellas, if she's not giving you sex go get your needs met by other women. Unless its ppd or something else very serious and you are married, if the two of you are not having sex they have no say in your sexuality.
❤.this is naked truth.golden information to men in and out of this platform.women are different from men when it comes to sex.much love gal🇰🇪
She's a runner 🏃♂️ She's a track star
7:00 Men, scale yourselves up as much as possible, learn to be ok alone. If she stops participating, walk away and don't complain. She will understand and change her behavior. Don't let the shaming tactic "real men..." fool you. Real are leaders and can stand alone, leave her and the kids, she'll get in line and if not there will be other women drawn to your strength.
Jesse you really gathered alot more information thanks for helping us men in world of complicated female creatures however much men do more for their lovers ,at the end of days they let with the un said side inside burning in .( my brothers mental health and self care is key than fighting sx)
Thanks for your lessons dear you have helped alot of us ❤
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I was in a relationship in which she withheld it. I stopped giving a damn about her completely until she left herself 1.5 years later. Thank u. Now i know why she withheld it.
Did this person or partner of yours ever tell you why she was withholding sex? Did you ask? If she wasn’t grown up enough to at least tell you why there was a major changing relationship, that’s as much on her as anybody. We’ve got to be grownups here, if something changes in the relationship, you have to be big enough to tell the other person why!
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You are really giving a lot of good lessons and l love you for that ❤️
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Totally disagree ❌
If you have been in a relationship that long and she isn’t willing to give you what she can offer just get another.
All relationships should be symbiotic, that’s how relationships have lasted long and very strong bonds
Imagine paying someone’s bills, working all day and you come back to that 🚮. Sorry but I totally disagree
Hi Jessi, I don't agree with the answers offered, a man has to give a lot of himself for about 2 minutes for some kind of emotional connection. When even a woman doesn't know the definition of emotional connection, another problem is the awareness of sexuality at a young age. If neither a man nor a woman can master this, they cannot find happiness in marriage.That's just my opinion and no one has to accept it. If I tried so hard to be accepted by someone who had complexes and traumas, they wouldn't try so hard. I see few healthy people happy in relationships.
This is one-sided! She needs to understand that men cannot read her mind; communication is essential. Both partners must work together to keep the relationship moving forward. Men typically lead in courting, but she also needs to provide emotional support; this is crucial. If she withdraws, it's important to address the issue. If she pulls back and isn’t ready to talk, give her space until she is comfortable discussing it. However, both partners should be equally invested in making the relationship work.
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Guys i just broke up with my girlfriend thinking that she's Faithfull while on the other hand, she was just playing games with me, to my fellow men be careful about women😢
This is the first video I'm disagreeing with you. Couldn't watch it to the end.
Same, this is some rubbish advice
This is exactly what am going through right now... I was nagging about it, constantly fighting for my place as the husband. But I found out that she's not happy with our financial status and many ills going on...
So??? if you’re not enough of a grown-up to tell your partner what you’re feeling then that’s not a partner worth having, you don’t cut sex out of your relationship and not tell your partner what’s happening, that’s as much on the wife’s fault as it is anybody’s. People aren’t mind readers, how about a heads up?
....and whats she doing to help you fix it
Ditto to men also...just a thought is all.
Am here early
Love it
When they say marriage/relationship is hard work, this is exactly what they mean 😂😑
Are my eyes deceiving me, or do you have blue eyes?
You have the guys Jessica watching
Men we ought to start learning to live life without women. It’s not worth it to have a relationship in this generation.
Yup I took it personal i don't understand why women does this
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Hello Ma'am Jess'🥰🥰💙💙
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Its all a one way street. They sabotage the relationship and we got to figure sht out. Waste of time.
She had a child recently and that can put her off sex for a while.
She pregnant pulls she has mood swings tho
She cheated controlling toxic emotions 😊
You act like the woman have no responsibility.
She ain’t on shht
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Thank you for this masterpiece @JessicaOs