My wife and I have been following you from Liberia 🇱🇷 since 2022. It has been rewarding in so many areas of our lives. ❤ Thank you for impacting us tremendously, Daddy. May God give you more wisdom, Amen 🙏
@@celestinaekeh7772 Google it. Even if it is a police woman in the UK from Nigeria that said it according to some sources, we have not had a contrary publication. Some folks say the case is under investigation. There is no falsehood here. I watched it debated on several TV stations in Nigeria.
@drcharlesapoki is fake news even the person that purnished the video is in trouble. People post nonsense on line they feel they are in Nigeria. is a fake news no any police man in UK that said that
I have been waiting for your opinion and address on this and behold I hear pure wisdom and clarity as expected...A lot of people are confused Thank you Dr Apoki
God bless you my gran father. I and my household listern to you daily from UK. I wa that to correct the police officers narrative. It is not the UK police that said it. It was a UK police office from Nigeria. She's been suspended for saying that, the case is still on. Because she is a police office, people thought it was the UK police that said it. You know they will never say a thing like that. In fact they will encourage it more, which is a good thing. To avoid DV.
The children would be Muslim. His family would 'baptise' them and name them irrespective. If the children join you to go to church, he won't be able to help you enforce whatever is being taught You'd likely not enjoy spiritual companionship/ intimacy. Don't underestimate how important this is You won't be able to pray together and you never know what lies ahead that may require joint prayer. You won't see eye to eye on some marriage principles as they differ in the 2 faiths. Even submission is defined differently. Many people who have successfully pulled it off either converted to join their spouse OR are not really into their faith like dat. Love and getting old is not enough reason to get married. Las las the choice is yours( or for the friend 😊 you are asking for) Do whatever makes you sleep well at night
I'm learning here. It's important we differentiate the two roles, church and society. This needs to be taught and the church should reduce not the standard but high handedness towards divorce. If the marriage isn't working they can go their separate ways then making it a must work whereby someone dies
Thanks for bringing this awareness to our people. But Dr that bit you said at 10:49min is incorrect. The video you alluded to was incorrect and a misrepresentation of the London Metropolitan Police. There was no such message issued to any women's group or the African women. Please do a rejoinder for the error. Repeating incorrect info such as this will put vulnerable women in more danger and may die in silence. More wisdom to you.
James 1:19-20 Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires.
"Whosoever putteth away his wife , and married another , committed adultery : and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committed adultery." Luke 16 : 18 Dr Apoki, can you throw more light on the above Scripture. I need some help. Thanks.
If you have a personal relationship with God, that scripture applies to you. You should be guided by that. People who have no respect for God, or do not believe the word of God can do whatever they like. But the word of God stands sure.
@@tonyumunna6061 you that has respect for God ,so if there is domestic violence in a marriage the victim should remaining such a miserable Union even if the person is your child? The same Bible does not support domestic violence, that is why the Bible says men should love their wife as Christ loves the church .Osinachi died in a bad marriage because of this your personal relationship with God mentality. Are you closer to God than King David who committed adultery and took another man's wife,God punished David,but that never stopped God from making him his beloved .( A man after God's heart) you people encourage victims to remain and kpai in abusive marriage, A lady just died in a bad marriage and you are here spewing nonsense..
Putting away a wife means divorcing her. So the passage means that if a man divorces his wife and marries another wife hu commits adultery. Likewise the person who marries that divorced wife also commits adultery. Matthew 5 31 - 32 also goes on to say the same and clarify that divorce is only allowed in cases of sexual immortality.
According to the Bible, what frees you from a marriage is if your spouse commits adultery, or they die or they walk away from you bcos you became a believer. You are free to re-marry in these cases. But anything otherwise, you are asked to stay single when separated and endure, in order not to commit adultery. If unfortunately your marriage hits the rocks for reasons outside the three scenarios above, it's just unfortunate. Now getting married to another person will be a willful violation of God's law because you couldn't hold and keep yourself that way. It is the consequence of a failed marriage. All these is so bcos marriage between a man and a woman mirrors the eternal relationship btw Christ (man) and the church (woman). Paul says it's a mystery. Christ is never going to divorce the church his bride and choose another "group," and conversely, the true church is never going to leave Christ and marry another "Lord." That's how God views divorce. It is our human imperfections that upsets this spiritual representation of what marriage really means. When you separate from your spouse (hmmmmm...), if you want to be pleasing to God as someone expecting the appearing of Jesus, you must stay single. Notable pastors who divorce over marital conflicts and misunderstandings or claims of incompatibility and then remarry and remarry are not models to copy, even though they may seem better off with their new wife and life. God's law is not subject to our likes and dislikes.
Thanks Dr. Charles for the counsel always. May I please request you speak to social welfare in our land. I watched this at the prompt then went in search of the news on youtube th-cam.com/video/W8QU8jLf6wc/w-d-xo.html _ I couldn't complete the clip due to so many reasons I do not wish to enumerate here. e.g. in some other climes, the children's identity would be kept undisclosed until they come of age or do so themselves...
I have seen church folks and traditional African men trying to justify their lomg held ignorant views. The government is God's agency here on earth and it is superior to you culture. Government can close your church and even destroy the building if you are a nuisance and nothing will happen. If you circumcise your daughter and there is a complicstion you will go to jail. If you don't consumate your marriage for 2 years , the Government will dissolve that marriage if it is not by mutual consent. If you treat your children harshly Government can take them from you even in Nigeria here.Stop displaying ignorance here.
@@muhammedusman5468 Government law has grave consequences for those who break it.The end of it is jail term or payment of fine. while God law is on morals , your relationship with God and human beings. When short of this, consequences of hell. Both has its own consequences.
@@GodwinKonkwo Yes God said we should obey those in power, that should should be when the law of the people in power is in line with the law of God. That's why I asked God's law or government's law which one is superior for you as a Godly person?
Dr Apoki, I have to correct you that its a lie that the Metropolitan Police advised Nigerian women to stop calling police. That was a lie propagated by Nigerian men on social media. Unfortunately, due to levels of domestic violence found in Nigerian immigrants in UK. In fact, Nigerian women are seen as at risk from their husbands due to a number of deaths of wives and mothers at the hands of their husbands and sons over the past few years.
Marriage is an institution created by God. And what God has put together, no man has the right to out asunder. You say you are a pastor and yet you are talking like there is nothing wrong with someone marrying and divorcing several times. The problem with most marriages today is that many people look at it as something that one is supposed to do, or something that is cool, and not as something sacred, so they go into it like it's just a business venture or something of the sort, which is why they have no problem going out of it in the slightest bit of difficulty. The man did a stupid thing because he could not control his anger and emotions and now he will rightfully pay the price, but you cannot use the nonsense that is going on in Western countries to explain how a marriage should be. Their system is terrible and anti-Christian and anti-family. That is why there are so many broken homes there and so many women there having children from multiple men and not seeing anything wrong with that
All Dr Apoki has said is absolute truth. You can go and die in your marriage if it is toxic. Who cares? But make sure you don't deceive others to stay and die there. Marriage is not do or die. Super-godly fellow.
Your wisdom is overwhelming my dear. You got the point 👉. The man wronged by taking such action no doubt but saying authority over spouse is illegal is absolutely wrong because Africa has their own culture and it's different from the western ways of life too
If you break the laws of the land ,the courts would not accept your the Bible as an evidence. The earlier you know this the better for you. Simple and plain.
My wife and I have been following you from Liberia 🇱🇷 since 2022. It has been rewarding in so many areas of our lives. ❤ Thank you for impacting us tremendously, Daddy. May God give you more wisdom, Amen 🙏
Amen. Thanks.
Tell them if they will listen
Police did not do that please don't tell people wrong information please
@@celestinaekeh7772 Google it. Even if it is a police woman in the UK from Nigeria that said it according to some sources, we have not had a contrary publication. Some folks say the case is under investigation. There is no falsehood here. I watched it debated on several TV stations in Nigeria.
@drcharlesapoki is fake news even the person that purnished the video is in trouble. People post nonsense on line they feel they are in Nigeria. is a fake news no any police man in UK that said that
My hearts and thoughts goes out to the children. My condolences.
You are wisdom personified, sir. Your analysis on issues are never biased or to please anyone. Thank you, sir.God bless you.
I have been waiting for your opinion and address on this and behold I hear pure wisdom and clarity as expected...A lot of people are confused
Thank you Dr Apoki
Most poor men have hot temper, no be me talk am o.
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Poor lazy men
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You're my friend sir. Everything you have been saying is 100% True, thank you sir.
God bless your intellect, Doctor. Your analysis is superb.
I always love your audacity and truthfulness ❤, Thank you, sir.
May God help us to have a strong mind and be patient
Award winning pragmatic/objective and emotional intelligence filled talk and video. Thank you
My brother I always like your analysis, God bless you
Thank you so much! god bless you🙏🏾
Thank you sir
Well said
Thank you Sir
So much wisdom... I have subscribed 🙌🏽
Very sound Counselling!..
God bless you Sir ❤
you're very right sir
True words 😮
Wise word 👌
Wisdom sir
Very wise sayings!!!
Let your enemy live, life will punish them for you.. especially if they lack financial intelligence.
God bless you my gran father. I and my household listern to you daily from UK.
I wa that to correct the police officers narrative. It is not the UK police that said it. It was a UK police office from Nigeria. She's been suspended for saying that, the case is still on. Because she is a police office, people thought it was the UK police that said it. You know they will never say a thing like that. In fact they will encourage it more, which is a good thing. To avoid DV.
Very sad story 😞
True
Bless him
You are right
You need to talk more on this topic, please
Thank you big Daddy ❤
Good evening Dr.
Love your channel Dr. Apoki!Slightly unrelated but would love to hear you thoughts, if any, on interfaith marriages (Muslim man, Christian woman etc)
The children would be Muslim. His family would 'baptise' them and name them irrespective.
If the children join you to go to church, he won't be able to help you enforce whatever is being taught
You'd likely not enjoy spiritual companionship/ intimacy. Don't underestimate how important this is
You won't be able to pray together and you never know what lies ahead that may require joint prayer.
You won't see eye to eye on some marriage principles as they differ in the 2 faiths. Even submission is defined differently.
Many people who have successfully pulled it off either converted to join their spouse OR are not really into their faith like dat.
Love and getting old is not enough reason to get married.
Las las the choice is yours( or for the friend 😊 you are asking for)
Do whatever makes you sleep well at night
@@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439He knows all these. Na story he dey find. Make he park well.
Na story you dey find. Park well.
I'm learning here. It's important we differentiate the two roles, church and society. This needs to be taught and the church should reduce not the standard but high handedness towards divorce. If the marriage isn't working they can go their separate ways then making it a must work whereby someone dies
Thanks for bringing this awareness to our people.
But Dr that bit you said at 10:49min is incorrect. The video you alluded to was incorrect and a misrepresentation of the London Metropolitan Police. There was no such message issued to any women's group or the African women. Please do a rejoinder for the error.
Repeating incorrect info such as this will put vulnerable women in more danger and may die in silence.
More wisdom to you.
Nice pajamas sir 🛌
Content must go on, may this never be our portion in Jesus name Amen. Lead us not into temptation we pray Lord and deliver us from all evil 🙏
James 1:19-20
Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires.
Haba.. that's my mother's village, what the he'll is going on with people nowadays 🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️
"Whosoever putteth away his wife , and married another , committed adultery : and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committed adultery."
Luke 16 : 18
Dr Apoki, can you throw more light on the above Scripture.
I need some help.
Thanks.
If you have a personal relationship with God, that scripture applies to you. You should be guided by that. People who have no respect for God, or do not believe the word of God can do whatever they like. But the word of God stands sure.
@@tonyumunna6061 you that has respect for God ,so if there is domestic violence in a marriage the victim should remaining such a miserable Union even if the person is your child? The same Bible does not support domestic violence, that is why the Bible says men should love their wife as Christ loves the church .Osinachi died in a bad marriage because of this your personal relationship with God mentality. Are you closer to God than King David who committed adultery and took another man's wife,God punished David,but that never stopped God from making him his beloved .( A man after God's heart) you people encourage victims to remain and kpai in abusive marriage, A lady just died in a bad marriage and you are here spewing nonsense..
Putting away a wife means divorcing her. So the passage means that if a man divorces his wife and marries another wife hu commits adultery. Likewise the person who marries that divorced wife also commits adultery. Matthew 5 31 - 32 also goes on to say the same and clarify that divorce is only allowed in cases of sexual immortality.
Not just leave ! RUN FOR YOUR LIFE !
According to the Bible, what frees you from a marriage is if your spouse commits adultery, or they die or they walk away from you bcos you became a believer. You are free to re-marry in these cases. But anything otherwise, you are asked to stay single when separated and endure, in order not to commit adultery.
If unfortunately your marriage hits the rocks for reasons outside the three scenarios above, it's just unfortunate. Now getting married to another person will be a willful violation of God's law because you couldn't hold and keep yourself that way. It is the consequence of a failed marriage.
All these is so bcos marriage between a man and a woman mirrors the eternal relationship btw Christ (man) and the church (woman). Paul says it's a mystery. Christ is never going to divorce the church his bride and choose another "group," and conversely, the true church is never going to leave Christ and marry another "Lord." That's how God views divorce. It is our human imperfections that upsets this spiritual representation of what marriage really means.
When you separate from your spouse (hmmmmm...), if you want to be pleasing to God as someone expecting the appearing of Jesus, you must stay single. Notable pastors who divorce over marital conflicts and misunderstandings or claims of incompatibility and then remarry and remarry are not models to copy, even though they may seem better off with their new wife and life. God's law is not subject to our likes and dislikes.
Very important point of correction Doctor, the state absolutely does not own us or anything. We are the state.
Why can't you explain what actually happened at Abagana
😂😂forty years of stupidity. Thanks Doc for the wisdom nuggets
😂😂😂😂😂Even the trees
It's actually the child first, then the woman, the pets, then the man
Thanks Dr. Charles for the counsel always. May I please request you speak to social welfare in our land. I watched this at the prompt then went in search of the news on youtube th-cam.com/video/W8QU8jLf6wc/w-d-xo.html _ I couldn't complete the clip due to so many reasons I do not wish to enumerate here. e.g. in some other climes, the children's identity would be kept undisclosed until they come of age or do so themselves...
We’re all owned by the Government lol…who made such law?? 😅😅😅
I have seen church folks and traditional African men trying to justify their lomg held ignorant views. The government is God's agency here on earth and it is superior to you culture. Government can close your church and even destroy the building if you are a nuisance and nothing will happen.
If you circumcise your daughter and there is a complicstion you will go to jail. If you don't consumate your marriage for 2 years , the Government will dissolve that marriage if it is not by mutual consent.
If you treat your children harshly Government can take them from you even in Nigeria here.Stop displaying ignorance here.
God's law or government law, which one is superior?
God's Laws of course.
God's law is superior but be very careful with earthy authorities in which God still commands we must obey those in authorities.
@@muhammedusman5468 Government law has grave consequences for those who break it.The end of it is jail term or payment of fine. while God law is on morals , your relationship with God and human beings. When short of this, consequences of hell. Both has its own consequences.
@@GodwinKonkwo Yes I agree with you on one but I also disagree with you on another side
@@GodwinKonkwo Yes God said we should obey those in power, that should should be when the law of the people in power is in line with the law of God. That's why I asked God's law or government's law which one is superior for you as a Godly person?
Dr Apoki, I have to correct you that its a lie that the Metropolitan Police advised Nigerian women to stop calling police. That was a lie propagated by Nigerian men on social media. Unfortunately, due to levels of domestic violence found in Nigerian immigrants in UK. In fact, Nigerian women are seen as at risk from their husbands due to a number of deaths of wives and mothers at the hands of their husbands and sons over the past few years.
Na Tinubu cause am!
Dr Apoki is ABSOLUTELY correct! I’ve been in this stupidity called marriage for nearly 20 years, and I’m like him enjoying it😅.
Africaness 😂
Marriage is an institution created by God. And what God has put together, no man has the right to out asunder. You say you are a pastor and yet you are talking like there is nothing wrong with someone marrying and divorcing several times. The problem with most marriages today is that many people look at it as something that one is supposed to do, or something that is cool, and not as something sacred, so they go into it like it's just a business venture or something of the sort, which is why they have no problem going out of it in the slightest bit of difficulty. The man did a stupid thing because he could not control his anger and emotions and now he will rightfully pay the price, but you cannot use the nonsense that is going on in Western countries to explain how a marriage should be. Their system is terrible and anti-Christian and anti-family. That is why there are so many broken homes there and so many women there having children from multiple men and not seeing anything wrong with that
All Dr Apoki has said is absolute truth. You can go and die in your marriage if it is toxic. Who cares? But make sure you don't deceive others to stay and die there. Marriage is not do or die. Super-godly fellow.
Your wisdom is overwhelming my dear. You got the point 👉. The man wronged by taking such action no doubt but saying authority over spouse is illegal is absolutely wrong because Africa has their own culture and it's different from the western ways of life too
Support your view
Should a woman endure domestic violence? Please discuss Sir. If a man continues beating the wife after counselling and prayers, what should she do?
If you break the laws of the land ,the courts would not accept your the Bible as an evidence. The earlier you know this the better for you. Simple and plain.
Wise word 👌